OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF ASKING MEN FOR STUFF | The Slumflower Hour podcast

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  • Опубліковано 16 жов 2024

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  • @fivemargaritasonly
    @fivemargaritasonly 5 днів тому +76

    Once they start insinuating sex, my car starts breaking down and I need new tires and a laptop ASAP! Lol seeing how quickly they run away is always funny. Now we both have the audacity to ask for what we want. 😂

  • @harmonismith3569
    @harmonismith3569 3 дні тому +14

    I absolutely love what you're saying!! As a young woman I often dated 5 men at once, as in going out on dates! No bodily fluids exchanged just getting to know each other... and they all knew about the others... No money was given to me but all socializing was financed by them! Egos of some men were impacted so I'd offer to part ways, they all stayed... Competition for the prize - Me!!! It was fun!!😊

    • @MultiBizOwner
      @MultiBizOwner 2 дні тому +4

      They don’t all need to know about each other. I think we as women talk and tell too much of our personal business sometimes.

  • @anisamawji2917
    @anisamawji2917 23 години тому +2

    "functional workforce" 💯

  • @alyssachandelle752
    @alyssachandelle752 3 дні тому +9

    You continue to help, week by week!

  • @dnaaa99
    @dnaaa99 3 дні тому +8

    This was such a well needed and awakening episode! I needed to hear every bit of it especially getting over the FEAR of being a woman that demands devotion and dollars over the desire to be chosen or temporarily satisfied!

  • @YoniGateKeeper
    @YoniGateKeeper 5 днів тому +34

    Do you have any dominatrix books that you could recommend for study?

  • @kaysmellsgood
    @kaysmellsgood 5 днів тому +20

    Listening to you has boosted my confidence and the way I view men and approach dating them. Also gotten money & gifts too 😜

  • @tragimelody
    @tragimelody 2 дні тому +3

    I started practicing some of the things you talk about here & on Patreon and they changed me fundamentally.
    Asking men for stuff feels VERY uncomfortable at first... but once you do, you see just how much power you hold by virtue of being a woman. My self-esteem and comfort with myself have never been higher. ❤

  • @juliajessicaanderson
    @juliajessicaanderson 4 дні тому +5

    Girl no one has ever mentioned aym before they are the absolute best dresses

  • @wonderfulwigswomen
    @wonderfulwigswomen 2 дні тому +4

    35:24 I noticed this too about interracial dating; i.e. wyt guys will give wyt women more than they give to non wyt women…

  • @mabelbank
    @mabelbank 5 днів тому +13

    Girl it’s so true! In our African culture, men have to come with big money and dowry before even coming to the father to ask permission to marry his daughter. Yes people may argue that this is different because it’s marriage but not really. It just shows that it is important that a man shows how much he really treasure that woman by giving her many gifts before even getting married. I do believe that stands true even when it comes to dating. Now I’m not saying that a man should give a woman the world but at least give her something to show that he’s serious. a man can explicitly say that he wants sex on the first date but if a woman asks for help, he sees her has a gold digger. It just doesn’t make sense .So I agree with you, Sis 🙏🏽

    • @2cut32handle
      @2cut32handle 5 днів тому +2

      Exactly, these men think that they are entitled to our bodies for sex then get mad when we actually require them to prove themselves to us. Honestly delayed gratification is the best way to test of a man is serious with u. Let these men prove themselves!

  • @jeahluna2385
    @jeahluna2385 5 днів тому +8

    Tbh I had recieve cash it Venmo already just by listening to chidi it’s small amount but these men even make sense to me that those broke men

  • @SimonePahl
    @SimonePahl 5 днів тому +4

    I needed this-and I’m glad I clicked on it before going out ❤

  • @JB4C89
    @JB4C89 5 днів тому +5

    I’m here for the hair slayage ❤

  • @LUVKR-pf1oz
    @LUVKR-pf1oz 2 дні тому +2

    10:57 i’ve said this! cause literally that’s the only way

  • @GrungeGalactica
    @GrungeGalactica 5 днів тому +3

    Thanks for the advice 😌

  • @ebonieelainea999
    @ebonieelainea999 5 днів тому +5

    Team Sagittarius I’m 12/16 I resonate with you so much ❤ love your videos. Goddess our season is coming up soon turn up

  • @bakelhane4698
    @bakelhane4698 4 дні тому +2

    Banklif bracelet 🤣🤣🤣

  • @unicornpink7953
    @unicornpink7953 5 днів тому +4

    Ugh YES❤

  • @kawaiinails
    @kawaiinails 22 години тому

    Can you please increase the audio in post :) Love your videos

  • @ItsHilinsDiary
    @ItsHilinsDiary День тому

    My personal reminders ❤
    8:15 £12 cocktail!!!
    9:16 bargain
    11:13 Functional workforce 😂

  • @staceyambergelderbloem3403
    @staceyambergelderbloem3403 4 дні тому +2

    please discuss pedophilia in 2024, treatmwnt to women rape etc asap in your next video thanks management

  • @earthairandselfcare
    @earthairandselfcare 5 днів тому +2

    58:37🎉