When married men tell their mistresses that their wives no longer have sex with them, they leave out the part where they gave her an sti & that’s when she stopped
“By choosing to date men you are choosing to have a pet lion” is a bar, a word, a sign, a symbol to just keep it cool my sister. A lion gon lie and bite.
Oh my goodness. I've worked in the male prisons not only do they get regular visits from the their partner and mother but they also have girlfriends coming in also.
The idea of a flawless marriage or relationship is unrealistic. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Nevertheless, I've learned that solutions exist for every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I faced the brink of divorce due to challenges in our marriage. Fortunately, we managed to reconcile. It was a tough phase, but we made it through.
The wisdom in your words strikes a chord within me, and I genuinely desire that my sentiments align with yours. Despite our separation at present, I cannot conceive of my existence without her; my love for her knows no bounds. I yearn for her return, and I'm committed to doing whatever it takes to achieve reconciliation. We've pursued different avenues, including therapy, in our journey to bridge the gap
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is valued. I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly.
As a reforming pick-me, I dodged the “marrying a good guy” bullet after being scathed by birthing a beautiful baby girl to him. In my defence I was under 25 (frontal lobe) but in retrospect, just wow.
The part about pregnant women and men loosing attraction, is the reason why i dont date pot belly men - cos he has no reason to have a big belly. He doesn't push out kids, have periods, or fibroids.
falling in love is like a disease tho, it stops your self-awareness portion of your brain just for you to handle the difficult task of rearing a child into this world
Been a fan of her since 2019, I’m literally a baby (under 25) but trust them when they say you will only learn to listen and apply this knowledge after your first experience of heartbreak. So glad I can go back to these videos, hold myself accountable and intentionally apply them for the future. Thank you Slumflower ❤ Ladies! Stop being a common bitch!
Wow!! Awesome that the sexworkers shared their experience’s! I‘d love to hear the same from older Women who married hypergamously and their experiences.. what an informative episode 🙆🏽♀️👌🏾 also pre-nups and contracts would be a great topic 😊
im a transwoman and i already know this because of how us and prostitutes are viewed by society, heres my take most of us dont give it for free compared to these wives, i myself have more respect on sex workers than those goody goody wives whos still hope that their men will change after like 3 kids or a decade...girl a guy will always do what he wants whatever circumstances are and accept it!!! i have a boyfriend and a bestfriend,,cis guys i know how men are really because of my healthy relationship w my men in my life.....some women need to really understand the male psyche and this is it its simple...i dont want to equate values on how my men help me but i got a good life where in i live in a house by myself and pay really low on rent..its the convenience of knowing my worth and not accepting any crap from men i get my help from them and it goes two ways i help them. easy know your worth
Idk if it’s only me I remember I drove for lyft w women who are all married and trying to pay me 1 ride for dropping all 4 . This podcast makes sense .
They the wives are so stingy and they allow this themselves that’s why I’m gross out w what she describe the men they have won’t even scrub their but because it’s feminine or something. They try to Shame women who are single and from minority but we all know the joke on them .
That’s a good point Chidera re the single woman advice re the married woman and I now agree with you; the married women had no good advice for me and in fact turned me off of marriage where women still have to schlep to work 😣
This is problematic 45:26 even if you marry for money, what happens then when you’ve contracted an STI cuz money can’t solve anything if you get an STI. Don’t get me wrong I am not team marriage for love, but marriage all together is ghetto. As a fellow Sag, stay single ohh! collect your money for your flower and protect yourself with condoms.
There are a lottttttt of human beings in the world. And while slumflower is correct about the men she comes in contact with, if you are married or thinking about marriage but getting worried by stories like this, my advice is NOT TO LISTEN to too many of them because they will make you unnecessarily upset and anxious because NOT all men, yes a huge percentage of them are, but not all men act on their thoughts. It is getting worse and worse everyday with how men think they’re allowed to act and entitled to act, and they get insane when they’re told by their wives to tone it down because they see other men who are way worse and they don’t want to think that they’re part of the problem. 😢 it’s definitely hard af to be in a relationship these days. If you found a good man who actually listens to you and loves you enough to not make you anxious then you’re lucky. But don’t make your life harder by worrying about something that hasn’t happened yet. It will make you cray
I have come to believe that it is almost impossible for a woman to have empathy for men's struggles. This reminds me of a sex worker who hated men and advised women to leave their partners because many of her clients sought emotional connection more than sex. She did not consider that women, as a whole, are not taught to address men's struggles and emotions. Often, when men attempt to express these in marriages, they are gaslighted and end up in a victimization competition with their wives. Listening in a relationship is a superpower.
in most women’s experiences, they’re desperately hoping for more emotional intimacy with their men. but their men have mentally categorized their wives as nags, moms, housecleaners, etc., and the emotional intimacy dies no matter how hard the women try to give space for listening and connecting.
@@lunar3n Men are also not taught how to deal with an aggressive, disrespectful, or nagging wife. Our instinct is often to shut down to avoid reacting negatively or aggressively, as the consequences could be different than if the situation involved another man. Both spouses should create safe spaces for each other where intimacy can thrive. If needed, consider taking a weekend away and leaving the kids with their grandparents to focus on rekindling your relationship as a couple.
@@kilamoblack7532sounds like men need to come together in support for one another since they can’t get it from women. stop complaining about side effects of the patriarchy YALL created and go do something about it
I like that you try to control your laugh, because every single time i try to watch your videos, i always closed it when you start to laugh on mic because it’s irritating. Also i’m single 31 women too. But i don’t think every marriage bound to misery. I analize it, women who grew from rich and loving family, it easier for them to marry good husband and living fulfilled marriage.
Sis, you really need to work on the use of punctuation marks as well as your grammar. You shouldn't be embarrassing yourself on the internet by spelling 'analyze' as 'analize'. So irritating 😖
When married men tell their mistresses that their wives no longer have sex with them, they leave out the part where they gave her an sti & that’s when she stopped
im pretty sure that might just be you and your likes, most admit they lose the spark out their mouth not sti's lol wtf
“I dodged the bullet you’ve got wedged in your chest.” IM SCREAMING!!!!!! 🤣❤️
“By choosing to date men you are choosing to have a pet lion” is a bar, a word, a sign, a symbol to just keep it cool my sister. A lion gon lie and bite.
Oh my goodness.
I've worked in the male prisons not only do they get regular visits from the their partner and mother but they also have girlfriends coming in also.
Sis you haven’t even talked about pre nups. We need an episode on that!
Yes pleassseeee
The idea of a flawless marriage or relationship is unrealistic. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Nevertheless, I've learned that solutions exist for every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I faced the brink of divorce due to challenges in our marriage. Fortunately, we managed to reconcile. It was a tough phase, but we made it through.
The wisdom in your words strikes a chord within me, and I genuinely desire that my sentiments align with yours. Despite our separation at present, I cannot conceive of my existence without her; my love for her knows no bounds. I yearn for her return, and I'm committed to doing whatever it takes to achieve reconciliation. We've pursued different avenues, including therapy, in our journey to bridge the gap
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is valued. I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly.
You definitely should
As a reforming pick-me, I dodged the “marrying a good guy” bullet after being scathed by birthing a beautiful baby girl to him. In my defence I was under 25 (frontal lobe) but in retrospect, just wow.
This babe are you in my life??? The last few episodes always align with exactly what I’m dealing with atm 😂
ong shes always hitting the nail right on the head its starting to scare me 😂😂 🎯
The part about pregnant women and men loosing attraction, is the reason why i dont date pot belly men - cos he has no reason to have a big belly. He doesn't push out kids, have periods, or fibroids.
I love your point of view, so progressive ❤ From a soon to be divorced woman who fell for the fairytale. I now know much better 😂
Did you go on a marriage preparation course. Or better still watch the telly and see art mimicking life
Sorry about your divorce! Hopefully you get the best out of it!
falling in love is like a disease tho, it stops your self-awareness portion of your brain just for you to handle the difficult task of rearing a child into this world
It’s a programmed addiction.
Pick me science😂
The way you drill sense in women is remarkable. I love it!
True a lot of gifts, materials,properties and grand gestures women have are sorry/apology gifts...I've seen this first hand.
Been a fan of her since 2019, I’m literally a baby (under 25) but trust them when they say you will only learn to listen and apply this knowledge after your first experience of heartbreak. So glad I can go back to these videos, hold myself accountable and intentionally apply them for the future. Thank you Slumflower ❤ Ladies! Stop being a common bitch!
Personally I wouldn't have that 😄 Chidi gurl thank you for this every week 🎉
We are like the subjects listening to the Oracle at Delphi 😅
Wow!! Awesome that the sexworkers shared their experience’s! I‘d love to hear the same from older Women who married hypergamously and their experiences.. what an informative episode 🙆🏽♀️👌🏾 also pre-nups and contracts would be a great topic 😊
im a transwoman and i already know this because of how us and prostitutes are viewed by society, heres my take most of us dont give it for free compared to these wives, i myself have more respect on sex workers than those goody goody wives whos still hope that their men will change after like 3 kids or a decade...girl a guy will always do what he wants whatever circumstances are and accept it!!! i have a boyfriend and a bestfriend,,cis guys i know how men are really because of my healthy relationship w my men in my life.....some women need to really understand the male psyche and this is it its simple...i dont want to equate values on how my men help me but i got a good life where in i live in a house by myself and pay really low on rent..its the convenience of knowing my worth and not accepting any crap from men i get my help from them and it goes two ways i help them. easy know your worth
i come back to this episode regularly because it hits harder every time! i love your work and i am grateful for you 💕
.. 19:21 they do not respect who they marry!! 🙈😩😂😂 SCREAMING !! NEALLY 20 mins in , give us the tea POT !! 😛
My Naija Sagittarius sister, this your content is a safe space for me LMAO🫶🏽🤸🏽😅 🥹
Always on point! Appreciate you & you work, Chiddy!
After this episode, you gained a follower and fan ❤
Married men LOVE me, I’d really like to know why.
They don’t love you. They want to just feel like they still have it despite being married.
@@prettyhollypolly7553and some succeed too.
@@prettyhollypolly7553 That’s what I said!! 😂
Married men love every woman
Ur bum must bounce alot
Idk if it’s only me I remember I drove for lyft w women who are all married and trying to pay me 1 ride for dropping all 4 . This podcast makes sense .
They the wives are so stingy and they allow this themselves that’s why I’m gross out w what she describe the men they have won’t even scrub their but because it’s feminine or something. They try to Shame women who are single and from minority but we all know the joke on them .
That’s a good point Chidera re the single woman advice re the married woman and I now agree with you; the married women had no good advice for me and in fact turned me off of marriage where women still have to schlep to work 😣
Thank you for your service!
Sis you’re doing a WHOLE COMMUNITY SERVICE with these videos, completely changed my view with men , I see clearly now 🤍 Thank you for your time 😩
This is my favorite show yet!
Nothing but facts with this one 😂💅🏾
OMG😱Camille Claudel. Women in a mental home because of what men have done to them🙅🏽♀️
I read her story. It appeared her brother was jealous of her and convinced his mother to destroy her together with him
Such a good episode!
This is problematic 45:26 even if you marry for money, what happens then when you’ve contracted an STI cuz money can’t solve anything if you get an STI. Don’t get me wrong I am not team marriage for love, but marriage all together is ghetto. As a fellow Sag, stay single ohh! collect your money for your flower and protect yourself with condoms.
It's the long term male friends in relationships for me, biggest Ick!
sister just speaks facts 💯
a man is going to man 😂😂😂 Lovedddd that part🎉
🖤
iooooooo💅🫣
There are a lottttttt of human beings in the world. And while slumflower is correct about the men she comes in contact with, if you are married or thinking about marriage but getting worried by stories like this, my advice is NOT TO LISTEN to too many of them because they will make you unnecessarily upset and anxious because NOT all men, yes a huge percentage of them are, but not all men act on their thoughts.
It is getting worse and worse everyday with how men think they’re allowed to act and entitled to act, and they get insane when they’re told by their wives to tone it down because they see other men who are way worse and they don’t want to think that they’re part of the problem. 😢 it’s definitely hard af to be in a relationship these days. If you found a good man who actually listens to you and loves you enough to not make you anxious then you’re lucky. But don’t make your life harder by worrying about something that hasn’t happened yet. It will make you cray
Men,woman...nothing new under the sun
I have come to believe that it is almost impossible for a woman to have empathy for men's struggles. This reminds me of a sex worker who hated men and advised women to leave their partners because many of her clients sought emotional connection more than sex. She did not consider that women, as a whole, are not taught to address men's struggles and emotions. Often, when men attempt to express these in marriages, they are gaslighted and end up in a victimization competition with their wives. Listening in a relationship is a superpower.
in most women’s experiences, they’re desperately hoping for more emotional intimacy with their men. but their men have mentally categorized their wives as nags, moms, housecleaners, etc., and the emotional intimacy dies no matter how hard the women try to give space for listening and connecting.
@@lunar3n Men are also not taught how to deal with an aggressive, disrespectful, or nagging wife. Our instinct is often to shut down to avoid reacting negatively or aggressively, as the consequences could be different than if the situation involved another man.
Both spouses should create safe spaces for each other where intimacy can thrive. If needed, consider taking a weekend away and leaving the kids with their grandparents to focus on rekindling your relationship as a couple.
@@kilamoblack7532sounds like men need to come together in support for one another since they can’t get it from women. stop complaining about side effects of the patriarchy YALL created and go do something about it
@@kilamoblack7532 maybe you should date other men, you'll be listened to with them
I like that you try to control your laugh, because every single time i try to watch your videos, i always closed it when you start to laugh on mic because it’s irritating.
Also i’m single 31 women too. But i don’t think every marriage bound to misery. I analize it, women who grew from rich and loving family, it easier for them to marry good husband and living fulfilled marriage.
go make your own channel if you dont like the laugh wtf
Sis, you really need to work on the use of punctuation marks as well as your grammar. You shouldn't be embarrassing yourself on the internet by spelling 'analyze' as 'analize'. So irritating 😖
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