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  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 8 місяців тому +81

    I have found my wife... I didn't know that I would have fallen in love with her. Honestly. Because she's slim. I don't really like slim woman. But I went to that church had a connection with her. Pray about it fast about it she did the same... We both got confirmation from God!!!! We just got married two weeks now God is very very awesome. I love love Jesus

    • @OKABE..
      @OKABE.. 4 місяці тому +4

      God bless your home

    • @comfortgyamfuaa2598
      @comfortgyamfuaa2598 3 місяці тому +3

      Congratulations 🎊
      May your home be blessed with love peace and prosperity in Jesus name
      I tapped into your blessings

    • @CreativeWriter-e8s
      @CreativeWriter-e8s 10 днів тому +1

      Thanks so much Pastor Mildred I came across your videos late in 2024 and I'm really grateful
      The Lord's really using you
      More grace to you in Jesus Mighty name Amen

  • @footprints9260
    @footprints9260 3 роки тому +181

    1.foundation
    2.counselling
    3.mentorship
    4 commitment over feelings

    • @bukenyakathie6719
      @bukenyakathie6719 11 місяців тому +5

      5.Accountability

    • @bukenyakathie6719
      @bukenyakathie6719 11 місяців тому +2

      Enter marriage 1.with jesus 2.with joy... partners are not mandated to bring joy.

  • @esthertwumwaaasante8663
    @esthertwumwaaasante8663 Рік тому +105

    "If you are good Christian, you'll have a good marriage. why? Because you will be led by the Spirit of God!"
    Thank you Ma❤️

  • @josephineamal9380
    @josephineamal9380 3 роки тому +74

    This lady is training me to be a potential wife! Am blessed ma♥️🙏

  • @ronnelhamiel7921
    @ronnelhamiel7921 2 роки тому +42

    This woman is EXCEPTIONAL!! I like the way she is so passionate about the Word of God!

  • @charlenetanyaradzwabuta5429
    @charlenetanyaradzwabuta5429 3 роки тому +308

    Ever since i started listening to your teachings,my whole perspective about relationships love and marriage has changed. Thank you!!

  • @johnkiggundu2232
    @johnkiggundu2232 3 роки тому +81

    "Enter with Jesus in one hand and joy in the other." - what a powerful statement that is!

  • @BirunjiFaithWAYESU
    @BirunjiFaithWAYESU 6 місяців тому +8

    Am really blessed, its my first to watch this as a single person 2024❤thank u so much 🇺🇬

  • @sandrataaka6624
    @sandrataaka6624 2 роки тому +14

    We need women like you in Uganda🇺🇬, may God mightly continue using you, thanks for the msg mom

  • @hopeifeyinwa9629
    @hopeifeyinwa9629 3 роки тому +112

    If wisdom was a person! Pastor M, you inspire me so much.
    More wisdom to you ma

  • @chibuzoihentuge-eric73
    @chibuzoihentuge-eric73 3 роки тому +39

    If Jesus is not done, we are not done. Wow. The family part too was also incredible

  • @eleakoh
    @eleakoh 3 роки тому +130

    Marriage is a covenant. You don’t do covenants by feelings but by commitments 🙌🏾🙌🏾. Thank you Pastor M 💗

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 3 роки тому +68

    Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu, Pastor M!
    Marriage isn't about feelings; it's about commitment. The same character you should have is what you should normally have as a Christian. True!

  • @Es_Elle
    @Es_Elle 3 роки тому +47

    Every woman should hear this message and heed the imparted wisdom.

  • @germainekakah4905
    @germainekakah4905 3 роки тому +67

    I just got to know about pastor mildred and to be honest i love her sincerity in expressing truth. At times when i speak these things some people tell me i am so hard , and others say i am too strict.However these truth have kept me all these years. I pray as many as listens to you put it in practise.

    • @germainekakah4905
      @germainekakah4905 3 роки тому +3

      If any one puts this truth into practise, your heart and life will be intact but if not , you will leave or live with a broken heart or life.

    • @charitykawira1367
      @charitykawira1367 2 роки тому +1

      Woow I thought I am alone..since I got these teachings pple say am hard to get..but am confident and choose the Godly way into marriage.i believe God will lead and connect me to the purposed man

  • @fullizettembong4221
    @fullizettembong4221 3 роки тому +53

    I got here by accident but this teaching was definitely planned for me to get a different view in getting into a relationship. Thank you Jesus. God bless you Ma

    • @garenanighoro3722
      @garenanighoro3722 Рік тому +1

      No, you didn’t get here by accident.
      Your steps were ordered here.
      Just as mine was.

    • @KuddizaAmos
      @KuddizaAmos Рік тому +1

      The Holy Ghost works no coincidence

  • @impactmen
    @impactmen 3 роки тому +20

    A time to be alive to listen to this where ever you are. I am single and I am learning so much from her and her husband.

  • @victoriaosunkwo1095
    @victoriaosunkwo1095 2 роки тому +9

    It is only UA-cam that knows how much of your videos I have downloaded. I'm not even thinking of going into ministry unless God says so, but when you preach I see myself, cos you preach most of the things I would say normally if I were to be talking to anyone . You have been a blessing to me for over 2yrs now, I'm not married yet, I'm in my mid 20's. Thank you so much PM! God bless you♥️

  • @eunicemagaji1237
    @eunicemagaji1237 2 роки тому +31

    "Until God gets what he wants we're not not done, we're not going anywhere". Amazing... Thank God for the gift of your marriage in my life ❤️

  • @carolinekuria8355
    @carolinekuria8355 3 роки тому +35

    Only a woman walking step by step with can give such a wonderful and great message honestly it has really opened my eyes and before getting in a relationship or marriage I should consider all this. Watching all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @mavischanda6243
    @mavischanda6243 3 місяці тому +1

    First watched her on tiktok. And today i feel i had wrong perceptions about relationships i feel blessed today, couse i have knowledge of the word of God about relationships thank you woman of God

  • @peaced.ekemini1316
    @peaced.ekemini1316 3 роки тому +62

    The way PM says “Are you joking?” Your Brain can just reset 🤣 I love you Mama 💕

  • @melodygamiros9425
    @melodygamiros9425 2 роки тому +6

    I would say that if marriage doesn't work for me I would just quit. But after hearing this message I get the clearest picture.
    1. Marriage is not based on emotions.
    2. Covenant is not done based on emotions but commitment.
    3.The good foundation of anything we do or decide to commit to is God!

  • @damikuteyi
    @damikuteyi 3 роки тому +38

    Big Lessons - Marriage will never be about how I feel. My partner was not created to make me happy. Jesus is my primary motivation in marriage. I come in with my own joy/happiness.

    • @damikuteyi
      @damikuteyi 3 роки тому +4

      Marriage is commitment, not feelings

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 3 роки тому +39

    You made it look so easy here to obey and walk in love . You are are wealth of wisdom . The day you said yes to pastor Kingsley , you stayed in the will of God . No doubt God is the foundation of your marriage . Keep fulfilling your divine mandate . More anointing to you madam . I love your ministry and what you stand for . Your authentic and transparency was so catchy . You was speaking under the Holy Spirit and not under flesh . God bless .

  • @SniderBrilly
    @SniderBrilly Рік тому +1

    I'm from kenya currently working in Saudia Arabia. I'm telling you since I started listening to you hve learned alot thank you so much pastor Mildred God bless you

  • @RACQUEL830
    @RACQUEL830 Рік тому +2

    Feelings have got nothing to do with marriage. Your emotions will not always be there! Well Noted. I love you pastor Mildred for statements on point.

  • @gizzellemcleish1837
    @gizzellemcleish1837 3 роки тому +335

    "If you are single and fornicating you are training yourself for adultery. You are an adultery trainee." Now that's wisdom.

  • @oghalemercy
    @oghalemercy 3 роки тому +6

    Pst M, it's not easy oo. Someone you have loved and been with. Kai, the will of God honestly, can be painful at times. But I am sold out to his will, I know he will see me through it.

  • @d-internetaunty
    @d-internetaunty 2 роки тому +4

    Patience, forgiveness and kindness........I've been with this "Christian" who gets angry and goes weeks without talking to me after every minor misunderstanding saying that sins have consequences...until I watched this and changed my perspective I kept walking on egg shells around him.

  • @yanashire01
    @yanashire01 21 день тому

    "Enter with Jesus in one hand and Joy in the other "
    Wow. So Profound 🔥

  • @augustaisidore530
    @augustaisidore530 3 роки тому +13

    Mama you are looking so beautiful and your hair style is fine I love it, more Grace to you ma, your teaching always makes a meaningful in my life and it makes me to understand things in relationship which I don't know before.. Thanks ma

  • @okwaramercy5921
    @okwaramercy5921 3 роки тому +11

    Listening to you anytime is always a blessing. The fact that you're "raw" and straight with the truth.
    God bless you richly Ma!

  • @cynthiadiama5072
    @cynthiadiama5072 Рік тому +3

    I love the REALNESS OF LIVING LIFE, THAT IS WITHIN YOU....TRUTH ...I LOVE THIS !

  • @lyrictejones4305
    @lyrictejones4305 29 днів тому

    That last point! Absolutely powerful! Holy Ghost really convicted me there. God is great🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @blessedamooti1371
    @blessedamooti1371 2 роки тому +5

    9th/1/2023.
    God thank you for everything
    I feel blessed to here this when am still single 🌟🍃💕

  • @EbubeEzenwegbu
    @EbubeEzenwegbu 6 місяців тому +1

    You are a good teacher ma

  • @MaryNwachukwu-yf9zx
    @MaryNwachukwu-yf9zx 8 місяців тому +2

    Isaiah 30:15❤❤❤❤

  • @theladyfaith_
    @theladyfaith_ 3 роки тому +13

    Thank you pastor M🥰
    if you tell pastor funmi you are going to that boys house to collect textbook,she calls steadily to make sure that’s all you went there for,she is fulfilling her accountability part. Seeing her call will reset your brain

  • @princessohemaa8168
    @princessohemaa8168 3 роки тому +11

    You are a blessing to my life and Marriage pastor Mildred.

  • @favourcyril1172
    @favourcyril1172 2 роки тому +4

    Wow 😳! I just started listening to pastor Mildred but I must confess, I was indeed blessed by this wisdom. More grace ma

  • @johndorcas9657
    @johndorcas9657 2 роки тому +3

    I love u mummy, and you are speaking to me ..God bless me and you Amen.

  • @mulengamwelwa3817
    @mulengamwelwa3817 3 роки тому +4

    More wisdom Zambia is listening we are blessed

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 8 місяців тому +1

    Your advice is very very awesome!!!!!!, to God be the glory... Your marriage is very very blessed and highly favored by God. I wish you all the best

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom147 2 роки тому +7

    Believing God for marriage in 2023 September. Your messages are helping me to prepare❤️

  • @chiomaugwoke114
    @chiomaugwoke114 2 роки тому +1

    Wow!! Until God gets what he wants we don't have to walk away!!

  • @misslydia45
    @misslydia45 3 роки тому +8

    God will continue to bless my far away mentor Pastor Mildred ❤️❤️

  • @d_kings_princess
    @d_kings_princess 3 роки тому +6

    This pastor and wisdom...Chai 🙌🙌🙌

  • @justmo6896
    @justmo6896 3 роки тому +12

    May God continue giving me wisdom and knowledge💛love your teachings

  • @MondesThreads
    @MondesThreads Рік тому

    So so so good. I really wish I had know all of this before I got married. Never too late to learn

  • @florencekayiti4721
    @florencekayiti4721 2 роки тому +4

    My Lord i know that you are the one with my true future husband 💍🙏🙏🙏🙏 👑 let me trust in your timing lord 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @EmmyVibes3580
    @EmmyVibes3580 3 роки тому +2

    This woman is loaded....🥰

  • @lydiahwomenrep9919
    @lydiahwomenrep9919 Рік тому +1

    Wisdom 💯
    Representing Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @thebibletalesTV
    @thebibletalesTV 3 роки тому +13

    I just love Pastor M! God will keep keeping you Ma. The devil will fail in any gimmicks of his to bring you down. May you never lose relevance Ma. Pastor Mildred, you will never ever lose you flavor. In Jesus mighty name🙏

  • @jacquelineadadeobour4942
    @jacquelineadadeobour4942 3 роки тому +3

    In fact!... Wisdom is indeed a woman, God bless you Pastor M.

  • @dyna1486
    @dyna1486 2 роки тому +2

    Lord see me through 🙏

  • @irenemueni4404
    @irenemueni4404 3 місяці тому

    Hallelujah...i will enter in to my marriage with God end my joy.. Woow.. My future were are you❤

  • @lifewithnnedi
    @lifewithnnedi 3 роки тому +3

    The God that I serve is not a gossip
    Love you mama

  • @nicolewashe9005
    @nicolewashe9005 3 роки тому +7

    When God says no, carry your bag and run

  • @alicebanda1076
    @alicebanda1076 3 роки тому +3

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️Our generation is so BLESSED🥺😭....

  • @preciousnayame4556
    @preciousnayame4556 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you wiyu wiyu🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @tanyinana7013
    @tanyinana7013 3 роки тому +3

    My journey just started today 🔥🔥🔥thank you pastor M🙏

  • @catherinemaseko2471
    @catherinemaseko2471 3 роки тому +1

    This is my message ooooh God change me to be a better person

  • @deraglory6517
    @deraglory6517 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you ma for this,
    The best part of this message for me is the foundation on which I am building whatever I am building which should be the word of God and oh that first scripture with message translation, kaiii, Matthew 7 vs 26- 27

  • @jejeprofit3595
    @jejeprofit3595 3 роки тому +6

    Pure unadulterated wisdom 💕 thank you WoG

  • @gift3165
    @gift3165 3 роки тому +2

    Hold Jesus on your master hand and with the other joy💯

  • @Si-cb6il
    @Si-cb6il 3 роки тому +11

    Thank you pastor Mildred for this powerful message✨ love you ma💐

  • @davidkondo7248
    @davidkondo7248 2 роки тому +1

    im very blessed by this message today, i cannot thank you enough for this tremendous mind openning as im exactly in the midst of getting married may GOD keeps on using and blessing you. THank you Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, all the way from the Democratic Republic of the CONGO. GOD bless

  • @doreenmapulanga4224
    @doreenmapulanga4224 Рік тому

    Madam, you're an excellent mentor among the women mentors I've watched may God richly bless you my dear.

  • @chisomadiele7804
    @chisomadiele7804 2 роки тому +4

    You came just at the right time in my life 😭😭

  • @faithracheal5298
    @faithracheal5298 Рік тому

    God bless you ma'am
    My first time here but I already feel at Jesus
    Watching from UAE

  • @iyanu_de_real_estate_buddy
    @iyanu_de_real_estate_buddy 3 роки тому +1

    You are a blessing to this generation ma. God bless you the more in Jesus name ma.

  • @borderlesstv777
    @borderlesstv777 Рік тому +1

    Awesome!

  • @VictoriaAnochie-dt3xc
    @VictoriaAnochie-dt3xc 5 місяців тому

    This message has changed my view of relationship, Thank you so much ma, God bless you

  • @eniolaenioluwabo7784
    @eniolaenioluwabo7784 3 роки тому +2

    She comes with pure fire!! Pastor M on the rollllll....

  • @ndidintekpere3613
    @ndidintekpere3613 3 роки тому +8

    Amazing and down to earth message.
    Love every minute of it 💝

  • @deboraholaonipekun7344
    @deboraholaonipekun7344 3 роки тому +1

    Pastor M, that digression was for me. ANOINT HIM....THE ONE (1sam 16 vs 12) i stood up searching for my old joter..

  • @ruthmuyiwa9946
    @ruthmuyiwa9946 3 роки тому +2

    Hmmmm...Don't just ask for counsel, receive counsel. More wisdom mama ❤

  • @lwandaAaron-cj2th
    @lwandaAaron-cj2th Рік тому

    this massage is taking me somewhere in my life thanks ma

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 6 місяців тому

    I love you pastor M
    Ds teaching has changed my life 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @AwotuOkwa
    @AwotuOkwa Рік тому

    Wow! So so blessed . Indeed marriage is not about feelings but about Jesus. U go with ur joy ur partner cannot make u happy

  • @calebmwamba6691
    @calebmwamba6691 Рік тому

    I love you mom Mildred, God bless you

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому

    1:14 true . Foundation for a kingdom marriage

  • @njokisilvia9508
    @njokisilvia9508 2 роки тому +1

    And God gave Us a pastor to teach Us in knowledge and Understanding

  • @blessingedomwonyi7337
    @blessingedomwonyi7337 7 місяців тому

    The teachers are powerful, I ❤ you ma

  • @onaolapooluwatosin9717
    @onaolapooluwatosin9717 2 роки тому

    This woman is heavenly sent

  • @Comfort.In.Christ.AloneC.I.C.A
    @Comfort.In.Christ.AloneC.I.C.A 7 місяців тому

    Am watching from Uganda but greatly inspired 🙏🙏 God bless you

  • @visikimbi1722
    @visikimbi1722 2 роки тому

    This lady is a goddess 🙌 🥰....you know exactly what to say everytime. I salut you ma🥰

  • @normantinyefuza9704
    @normantinyefuza9704 2 роки тому +1

    May God bless u am Listening from Uganda

  • @fredchisokochitundusimwanz4559

    Blessed by the word in Jesus Christ name

  • @temi_ladele2177
    @temi_ladele2177 3 роки тому +2

    You enter marriage with your joy and Jesus🔥

  • @kyerewaahdapaah3531
    @kyerewaahdapaah3531 3 роки тому +5

    I always get to draw from your wise counselling. Thank you Maa

  • @everydaylifebyrozy6174
    @everydaylifebyrozy6174 3 роки тому +2

    Amen. Watched live and from Nairobi , Kenya and can't get enough of it .I'm watching again.

  • @oluwadarasimigrace
    @oluwadarasimigrace 3 роки тому +3

    Thank u mummy 💓
    This is so powerful🙏🙏🙏
    God bless u ma🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @eneonoda
    @eneonoda 3 роки тому +14

    This thing called Marriage. We've been told having the right tools going in works magic. We shall continue to sorts for those tools.
    Thanks Pastor M. For being intentional.

  • @roslynkelley-world8692
    @roslynkelley-world8692 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you, Jesus and thank my beautiful sister for this changing word today on marriage and relationships it really helped me to look at relationships with a clear view now. 🙏

  • @Jesssuuusss_.
    @Jesssuuusss_. Рік тому +1

    Thank you, Pastor M❤️💐
    God richly bless you for saving your generation 🙏

  • @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451
    @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451 Рік тому

    Foundation very important 🙏

  • @TamaraLily-iq5xt
    @TamaraLily-iq5xt Рік тому

    This message has changed me

  • @andreahmwanza9184
    @andreahmwanza9184 Рік тому

    Thank you!! You have really changed my perspective about marriage.
    Every teaching I listen to by you makes me a better person and I'm so glad that I learn from you❤️