How to Get a Man to Divorce You
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- Опубліковано 17 гру 2024
- This video is a response to a TikTok video about cleaning.
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She gloats to the Internet about “winning” over her husband. I was so pleased to see the “were divorcing” post. She so richly deserved it.
Yeah that was a huge red flag to me, too. That attitude of "winning" the argument speaks a lot to what it like to be married to someone like that.
I hope these videos make their way to the divorce hearings, so the judge can see how she's slandering him to the whole world.
Imagine being asked to help clean up after he, BUILT YOU A HOUSE.
Quite fulfilling
At the point of "Win for me" I was like "he's gonna divorce you". And boom, he did.
Hope she doesn’t get the house HE BUILT
I love the part where she comes home to a clean house thinking - I showed Him -, rather than realizing that he just demonstrated that he doesn't need you.
Yep.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
well said
Yeah, why would you want to be with someone who isn't willing to chip in? She needs a reality check.
Men don't need women really
Yep… why the fuck is she there. What does she give to the relationship other than a box attached to a woman who isn’t even good looking
This was actually kind of a happy ending. Bad wife ejected before she brought a kid into the world. A man's life is saved!
So true...he was looking at child support, spousal support, losing the house and all his future.
@@jesse2d if he loses the house that he built, I would be sooo mad.
@@dwightpowell1931 wouldn't be the first time.
@@dwightpowell1931 So would I. He should not finish it .
@@jesse2d Yea that would be smart tbh
I love how she has to jump onto social media to get instant validation of her own opinion rather than trying to understand and work with her partner
Amen!!!!!!!
The worst part is that it's one of the worst ways to handle disagreements in a couple: bitching about it to someone else when you could sort it out as a couple. Getting a third opinion is fine. Looking for people to just echo your side of it amplifies whatever misgivings you may have
Western women and social media are basically synonyms, most girls under 25 have their entire personality shaped by tiktok trends.
@@AspireGMD I've never been so happy to be over 30.
unfortunately the route for most modern couples nowadays. i will say that as a millennial, most of us don't know how to actually talk to one another, and i couldnt imagine its any different with gen z
I can't believe that she said "They left sawdust inside MY house" when they're the ones who built it. What an ungrateful woman.
Yeah like I'm grateful to even have a house with running water, electricity and warmth.
Anglo Saxons don’t learn gratitude
By the looks of it, in the process of building it.
@@qjtvaddict shes American
That's what I thought!
MY HOUSE... :-D
Well, at least it's her own mess in HER rented appartemnt now.
Happily married for 19 years and I cannot believe her entitlement and attitude. The fact that she said "MY house" explains everything.
Yes she’s a communist
She was probably a looker back in the day
No kidding. When I am working hard and ask my wife for anything she jumps on it because she knows as a team we need to be as successful as possible. The attitude of this woman is so toxic.
@@mrfarts5176 My husband and FIL do lots of home projects when my FIL visits. They do home projects including ones I ask to be done, and l pick up afterwards. If my husband wants time with me AND kids to not get into the mess, then he will help. Sometimes he laughs and grabs a trash bag and helps, because he gets my frustration, and sometimes he just prefers to take the kids on a walk, and you know what? I don't mind, because I can then blast music and podcasts or shows I like while cleaning because it's mindless to me at this point.
Give a little get a little. Take a lot lose a lot.
That's what shocks me. These two guys literally built the house, and she just moves on in and demands that everybody slave away doing every chore while she lounges? Contribute something, lady! They built a damn house for the both of you!
Did anyone else notice how little she seemed to care that her husband wanted a divorce? She talked about it like it was some minor inconvenience to her life. He made the right move I think.
Most likely they know the courts will be on their side. They will get half the assets, child support if any, alimony and benefits etc.
It’s because she thinks she’s the prize. I don’t think she understands that not every guy out there can build a house from the ground up. She’s going to get a rude awakening when she goes back to the dating market.
Replace I think with I know
I think she cares. She made a huge mistake and I doubt she'll find another man willing to make her a house.
@@DianaLopezDlo It's fine, cuz she'll probably get that house. Marriage is never worth it as a guy in the west.
You noticed she admits the father-in-law and husband built the house but yet she calls it MY HOUSE. SAYS EVERYTHING RIGHT THERE.
I sincerely hope he divorces her. Anyone who puts "Our" personel Issues on a public forum like tiktok has got to go.
I hope so to. She is very immature and very ungrateful. She looks very young and I don’t think she realizes that not everyone can just have a house built like that.
And he better keep the house that he and his father built.
Couldn’t agree more.
I like how she says “I been on my feet all day” then she complains about having to clean the house that was literally built for her so she wasn’t in the cold or an apartment. Psycho energy.
@@wolfwhistlewoowoo6297 He will keep the house yes, but he will have to pay half of it's value to her...
Big shout-out to her ex husband for not letting her walk all over him.
She's so entitled and narcissistic
Without good reason
@@stevemtc1 She was so disrespectful. When my mom cooks a meal and tells me to do the dishes, I do it. That lady is the kind of person who doesn't contribute to a relationship
@@malawisupasoldier7478 she wants what every woman magazine told her to want she wanted a pet in the form of a husband.I was selling a nice ass Honda car and it didn’t have a spare I was selling it for a giveaway price 1000 dollars But it don’t have a spare a boy and a man came by and wanted it. Since she wasn’t considered in the finding or dividing she didn’t like it. She could only focus on the spare and these two can’t know enough to find a car without her she didn’t like the car it sold within hours. They left saying “ the Boss didn’t like it” I had so much satisfaction telling them it sold when they called me back.
@@stevemtc1 Definitely I wouldn't give her a 5.
@@leegraves8878 wouldn’t give her a 5? She get a 5’if you get a 3 point head start
Modern women: start trend of emasculating your partner all over social media
Also modern women: why can’t I find and keep a good man?
Yeah no man with any self respect or a shred of masculinity is going to put up with that in a relationship. If the dude is building their own house, I’m going to assume he has at least a little masculinity in him
Yeah, it's horrific. You ever try to point out why it's disrespectful and they have zero capacity to understand.
Lol..
@@simpbeforeusleep He was probably addicted to the secks and she’s the dealer
Facts
Speaking as a man who's currently doing renovation work on our home by myself, my wife is the exact opposite of this woman in the video. She's constantly amazed at the things I can do and how fast I can learn to do things that I don't already know how to do. Instead of me having to ask her to do clean-up behind me after I've spent hours doing a part of our renovation-project between times when I'm working my job, she acts like a grown woman and does what she can to help me out. She'd never be idiotic enough to gripe about me cutting boards inside, because she has enough sense to understand that having to walk in and out of the house cutting and carrying boards wastes time and tires me out faster. It makes more sense for me to carry the lengths of lumber inside to cut them close to where I'm going to be using the boards, sweep the sawdust into a pile, and then suck up the pile with our shopvac.
I don't know how long the woman's marriage was, but it seems that they hadn't been married long if her husband and FIL were building a house for them to live in. The reason her husband divorced her (or told her to file for divorce) is because she proved that she didn't have the slightest idea of what a partnership was. Her attitude demonstrated that she viewed her husband as a servant instead of a partner, and it offended her that her husband could want her to be any form of a help-mate. He wasn't asking her to do any of the strenuous-labor that he and his father were doing, just like I'd never expect my wife to lug a huge piece of plywood from my truck to my worksite inside of the house.
I've been with my wife for 20 years, and not once has she ever disrespected me like the woman in this video did to her husband. We treat each other with mutuality and reciprocity of respect, regard, and affection. The woman in this video not only publicly disrespected her husband, she used gaslighting to defame the characters of her husband and her FIL. She didn't love her husband. She only loved what he could do for her, and then held an internet whine-festival when she was asked to do a little light-duty helping with the work in what she identified as "My house". That "My house" was the key to what caused their marriage to fail. When she became married, she never made the identity-transformation from becoming "me" to becoming "we".
She remained a single-woman in her mind, acted like a disrespectful, ungrateful jerk, and her husband decided to put an end to a failed-marriage that she never made an ounce of effort into forming it into a partnership. Kudos to him. Now, instead of ending up living in a wonderful, spacious home with a loving husband, she can be a divorced-woman living in an apartment, watching Netflix while drinking boxed wine, and scooping the litter box of her new life-partner.
Woman: makes husband look bad in front of 6 million people
Man: divorces wife
Woman: shocked pikachu face
@@uk9383 don't defend terrible behaviour pls and the father was nice
@@uk9383 yeah but its worse to flash that shit over the internet. She should've told her husband. Terrible communication.
@@uk9383 she could have send a message to the husband like "I didn't like the message your father sent to me, if at least was you. Even so, I worked all day so I'm also tired, can you help me?" I think this would be reasonable. But the father in law at least was polite
@@uk9383, I don’t see how any of that is unacceptable.
The message makes it sound like a lot of work, but it's just putting the equipment away, cleaning the counters and floor. Should only take about an hour, if she has an idea of where the tools should go.
Prostitute - prepaid plan
Girlfriend - monthly subscription plan
Wife - lifetime contract plan, penalty fee if cancellation
Funny, but wouldn't a prostitute be a pay-as-you-go plan instead of a prepaid plan?
Post-pay option, then don't pay.
This is oldy tier humour but if it isn't creative.
Uh....I'm pretty sure you get plenty of penalties for cancelation 😂💀 Alamony, lawyers, paperwork, losing half of your worth, possibly getting kicked out of your house, and lets not forget if you have a kid/kids, you'll have to deal with them for 18 years minimum....but I ain't gonna lie, this comment made me laugh out loud, it was fuckin hilarious
@@perrybb2 They are pretty much the same. I know lots of providers will label it different but basically they all have a balance that you top up and you must have a balance or no service. Contrast that with a post paid plan where your phone is always guaranteed service and you will be billed for what ever you use.
She gives off massive "The kids wouldn't stop crying so I buried them in the backyard" vibes.
Damn.
dont she ? chills.
I totally agree. There is something wrong with her for sure.
"your kids"*
I haven't been married long, but I can say that making the effort to express gratitude is huge. My husband and I say "thank you" to each other all the time, even for things that aren't extra (like building a house) but for the small things. "Thank you for cooking me breakfast." "Thank you for putting together the ikea furniture." "Thank you for vacuuming." "Thank you for working so hard." It's not a hard thing to do but goes a long way in making the other person feel appreciated and respected.
Amen, keep it up and y'all will grow old together!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's always the little things that mean the most.
Amen! "Please" , "thank you" , and a transparent, (as) even (as possible) divvying up of responsibilities (based on our skill sets) is the best way to go!
This comment of yours deserves way more likes but sadly so many people love drama and trying to ruin good things so much that the hate in their hearts won't allow them to support the right message. It's a bit sad, but thank you for your amazing comment.
Praying for you and your Husband! Hope you're still saying "Thank You" to each other ❤️☦️
Asked nicely to clean up; doesn’t do it because she’s “tired”. Yet, has plenty of time to make TikTok after TikTok, documenting her own behavior. Sounds about right.
Why waste time doing actual work when you can waste time complaining about all the crap you have to do?
Female logix
Yeah, you had time to do a tik tok you have tine to clean for 15 mins.
Yeah, she's just emotionally stunted. The adult thing to do would be to say you'll do what you can, but you don't have time since you worked all day.
@@POIUYTREWQ62 this is Gen Z in a nutshell right here
I love how she said, "we decided." Girl you didn't decide to walk from a new, completely free house and a good, hardworking husband. You got divorced because you're an embarrassment.
"We" sounds like a crowd for sure
Yaaasss!!
That message from the FIL did sound rude. Maybe he could have phrased it better or made his son message her so that she didn't feel like she was being treated like a servant. Having said that, she should have found another way of expressing her displeasure instead of posting things on social media and embarrassing the family.
@@TheKomentor not really. anyone that has ever been rude to me never bothered to say "thanks, youre the best."
@@TheKomentor Her husband and FIL were serving her by building a house and imo she was treating them like servants by refusing to help. They all have roles to play and she failed thus the divorce. What he said wasn't rude at all.
An ex ranted about how she hated her current boyfriend.
I commented that sharing all that personal stuff and name calling your boyfriend to everyone on the internet was not good.
She blew up, cut all contact and blocked me forever.
So happy I'm not that guy. And to no surprise, they broke up days later.
Personally, I wouldn't keep in contact with an ex for any reason. There is literally no point in trying to be friends
@@perrybb2
Small town. Not much contact, but you're bound to meet from time to time.
Whenever we do, she avoids me with a sour face just because of that comment.
This was ten years ago and she's still sour :)
@@civroger sounds like hell
@@perrybb2
You just have to laugh. She's got issues, not me :)
Also illegal to put someones all info on the internet xd
My guess is that her father-in-law still has title to the house. So her husband decided to divorce her before she was in a position to own half of it. Narrow escape!
First, she states; "Mind you, I did not build this house." to absolve herself from ant responsibility towards it. Then she says; "...they decided to cut things in MY house". Must be nice to claim a house and then decide that it isn't your responsibility.
woke wahmen logic 101. if you don't understand the double standard thingy, you're certainly not alone with that.
Your goetee fits your opinion.
Also, what moron cuts would INSIDE the house?
Yeah can you imagine if she called a plumber and the plumber told her to put down tarps or paint tarps or whatever plumbers call them and she just said no? The plumber would leave. Lmaoo like not even start. Fuck that shit. I’m not working for a karen
I picked up on that immedietly, massive red flag. Shes going to be single for the rest of her life, or until she wake up and realize that she needs to delete that tiktok channel and start working on being a better person instead.
@@eliotness107 you had it right with the first part. She'll be single forever. The internet doesn't just go away, she ruined her reputation.
I like how boldly she exposes herself as the landmine she is. Another life saved 🙏
I also Like how "think before you sleep" showed us who she is and their traits. He saved GANG lives
That life did suffer casualties though
Unlike us the majority of the people who view her video side with the abusive wife. I live in a culture that can't distinguish between good and bad.
@@LOUDMOUTHTYRONE this is also a positive though - because it shows if that’s how the majority of women feel, the best course of action for men remains to still not get married at all costs.
I don't like how people actually agree with her
Facts. Imagine getting a free house and not wanting to cook or clean. Guys start holding women to standards and hold them accountable.
Nah. Avoid them at all costs & enjoy life on your terms.
Cant hold whamen accountable today because the laws has been rewritten to give men 0% rights.
The problem is, at this point, he's already lost. They get a divorce, she'll most likely win the house. All his sacrifice, sweat, and hard work went for nothing.
@@ericpowell4350 at this point he could just dismantle the house... "Realized we've messed up the foundation your honor."
@@ericpowell4350 Not if he put the house in his fathers name...He could be building the house for his father to "rent" to him when it was completed. :P
This is the most humorous video I've seen in some time. Talk about playing yourself. Props to hubby for recognizing when it's time to go.
Girl, this is equivalent to you washing the dishes for the person who cooked dinner
@Cucumba can't be 50/50 all the time though but as long as you at least try to make it 50/50 and aren't autistically strict with making it a true 50/50 it'll usually play out well
@@jimbothegymbro7086 the house is a shared space and the fact the he built it makes it seem like asking her to do some cleaning for both of them to live in there isn’t a big deal. The house isn’t just for her or him they both have to take care of it.
Exactly, it is something you do out of caring, by yourself, without anyone asking! At least for me personally.
Something tells me she would have a problem with that too.
I don't think it is, if you both settle down and cook together than yeah I could see it. She went to work and came back to mess, that's annoying. We all know workman don't work flat out, so not would her husband. He should tidy as he went, like he would do if he lived alone.
The fact that she said " my house " instead of " our house " is laughable. There's another video of a woman referring to her kids as " my kids ", but when talking about her debt she referred as " our debt ".
Typical narcissist...
to be fair they might be "her" kids lol
I noticed years ago that women ALWAYS refer to the kids they bore as 'my kids'. Even in the company of the kids' father they fail to acknowledge that there are two parents; and the Women's Movement has always sought to inculcate this notion into society's collective consciousness so that child custody cases are vastly in favour of women. When the Child Support Agency was instituted in the UK it was presented as a way to get deadbeat fathers to pay towards the upkeep of their children despite that there are plenty of deadbeat mothers out there. Yet the woman *only* is given the power to decide whether a foetus created by two parties should live or die? As Dave Chappelle famously said, 'If women can choose whether or not to kill a baby then men should get the choice whether to walk away or not'.
@@KeldorDAntrell I mostly say our kids...only when they misbehave, both my husband or I tend to say "your kid just did...", then we laugh at ourselves for that. I totally agree with the last stance about men's right to leave if women can decide over life or death of the unborn baby, regardless of what the father wants..
I never understood that concept of why either parent referred to his/her child/children as "my kid(s)." MAN & WOMAN CREATED THE CHILD, therefore it's/they are "our child/children." I could understand in a joking manner of using "my child/children" being used or if one parent dies, but besides that context, I'm against it.
Man - *asks woman to do literally anything.*
Woman - “Is this misogyny?”
Man - "No. But THIS Is!" (Punches Woman with Credit card bills)
Man- asks woman to NOT do anything.
Woman- "is this misogyny"
@@shadowgames6164 bro give her a break she has to watch her Netflix show 💀
You'll see the hypocrisy in these women when they ask the men for help
Man: Exists
Woman: misogyny?
That dude deserves so much more.
It takes so much skill and determination to build a house from scratch.
Her: "We've come to the conclusion that the best thing for THE BOTH OF US is this to end..."
*Translation: He dumped me.*
HAHAHA 😆
Hahahaha! Pretty much!
More like: “He realized that I’m absolutely worthless and he threw me out😢”
I love how she shifted to " we" when we all know he dumped her. Now she wants to say we :)
He was lucky he found out her true self BEFORE he had kids....or finished HIS house.
I like how she says that he built the house and she is thankful yet calls it her house. Owning a house comes with cleaning, maintaining, and improving it.
What I mean by the first sentence is the guy built the house and is improving the house. Instead of "our house" its "my house/her house".
yea i can't stand this kind of smugness from modern day females like the superiority complex is getting out of hand
It was pretty simple back then, Man do heavy labour, Women take care of house.
Boom done, live a nice life and move on in the afterlife.
@@gotthesauce5221 it isnt just modern women, my Mil says "my house,my car,my fridge" she wont even lift a finger to clean her home its filthy and has the nerve to get my fil to do the womenly chores, yard work pay the bills and fix her car when its down. She made him sale his bike and she wont cook dinner because "I work" is her excuse. Ive never met a women worse then her besides my dads mother who ive dissowned as a grandma. Shes the same as my mil. The only lady I know that was traditional was my moms mom who passed at 93 past yr.
Big facts
What I would give for a man who’s able to provide a house to his family…she has no idea how good she had it.
Me too!! If only I could find a talented, disciplined, strong guy like that...
Ew
@@alexandradonahoe4971 Society is so anti Male, most men are not making it these days. It’s only going to get worse.
Babe why tf are you commenting this? I literally slaved for 2 months to build the entire 2nd section of our home? Sooo you already have what you’re claiming you’d give anything for. I have done everything for you, I’ve built you a 2nd vanity in the bathroom so you’d have your own space to get ready, I turned our small closet into a walk in closet for YOU, and I built the entire 2nd section of our home & guess who I did that for??? YOU! This is why we have the problems we have, here you are on a random mf UA-cam comment making it seem like I’m not good enough.
@@MacBobby1408 😂😂😂 You trolls are something else
If I saw a mess in “my” house I would just clean it up when I got home I probably wouldn’t even see the text until after lol. If something is truly yours, you take responsibility for it and take care of it
Exactly.
Even if it's just to show you're grateful.
"I don't want to clean all of this!" Then build the house.
Exactly. Let her see how easy she thinks it is
gee, i wonder how that'll go
i mean maybe it was her husband's idea and he was stubborn about it but she didn't want to have any part of it but he forced her.
I guess the husband could just not build a home and then she wouldn't have to clean anything because they own nothing? 🤷♂️
She'd never finish it. She'd spend 20 minutes on TikTok complaining why the frame doesn't just complete itself for every 5 minutes she spent staring at tools she doesn't use.
Of course now she wasted all that time complaining AND gets to go through divorce proceedings. She traded one mess for a bigger one, and now she's got no house and no husband. 🤣
I know for a fact that a majority of men do not leave a relationship for no reason. I believe the wife ran him out of the house.
But of course, accountability is a woman's kryptonite!
Should see my mother reaction when I confronted her at age 34 that is was her that ran my father out not my father simply leaving us. Her excuse "she thought he would come back"
@@mannie602_on_IG I feel bad for Laughing last sentence
@@mannie602_on_IG "my useless ego gpt the best part of our life and i don't feel anny guilt"
I'm sorry lass, how is your relationship with your father ?
@@mannie602_on_IG My mother run out 5 guys from our household. ( 5 siblings all different dad). I always knew she was the problem, No one could handle her crazy. She never took responsibility for her action , she would always blaming someone for her problems.
@Koozomec I accepted when I was really young that I don't have a father so I never seeked him. Luckly with my mother having to work two jobs I grew up having to prove myself to the older boys in my neighborhood
Man, I smiled when she said her and her husband are getting a divorce. I hope the ex husband finds a wife who respects him.
x2
And keeps that home
finding a wife in this cesspool... you'd have better luck encountering a dragon. literally.
@@cpK054L Tfw you own a komodo dragon
@@cpK054L Or a Unicorn!
Hearing you say, “Bruh”. Is everything
Wife to 6 million randoms on the internet:
"This is sawdust... because *they* decided to cut things inside *my* house!"
Husband who built house: * cleans mess, files divorce *
I see nothing wrong with this.
"MY house" XD gotta love arrogance amiright?
At least the sawdust won't be such a downer
@@CloudWalkBeta now it’s *her* apartment😂
Lol, the man literally make her a home. The thing that she can at least contribute is to clean things up. But then, it is too much for feminist/modern women... Yeah, stay clear brother
You missed *Surprised pikachu face* at the end lol
Marriage is meant to be cooperation, not a competition. The fact that so many comments on her video seemed to validate her says a lot about society and how hard it is to have a solid relationship.
We are screwed if we don't open our eyes here soon. It's sad.
@Jon "You are my Queen" - Jon Snow
"I'll settle for my independence" - Jon
Mostly from single degenerates or hyped up "queens" who don't actually care about her or themselves and has to feed their family of pets.
@Jon It was a funny joke :D, sorry if you don't get it.
even a women that's worth the time
Building a house is much harder than whatever she could possibly do.
Women like this beg for equality when it comes to corporate positions but stay silent when it comes to manual labor jobs.
hey, she brushes hair!
it's part of the women are wonderful effect. Women who do jack all have to talk as if they're actually doing the hardest work ever.
"Oh god, life is so hard, I'm a stay at home girlfriend/wife" "no kids?" "Yeah, no kids, but I'm supposed to clean, but I'm refusing because he can clean too once he gets home from working 60 hours a week" "That's right, you go girl!"
we've been conditioned to over praise women contribution to make up for it, it's also why when a woman actually DOES something above average it looks so miraculous and it's why it gets used as a trope for a lot of lifetime movies. if you literally switch the women out for a man it no longer looks so 'amazing'.
That McDonald drive dru shift mustve left her tired
@@Memerproductions she was a hair stylist. much less physically and mentally demanding.
Proud of my mother. Not only she went to work construction with my Dad (stepdad) but after she cleaned and cooked. If my sisters were home then they took over the house work while we were at work. Lady never complained just did the work and showed my dad love.
To the man who divorced that woman: Good work man, you have made a right choice
@@abdellahsbaa3751 and she did nothing but complain dog your basically getting a paycheck to clean a house i do that for free for my family members
@@abdellahsbaa3751 He's reaping what he sowed, as well. Like when people play stupid games and end up winning stupid prizes, same goes w/ when people make poor choices, whether they be somewhat aware or completely ignorant of what they're getting themselves into, they get stuck w/ the negative outcomes of those poor choices. Thus is life, people live, learn, pay for things along the way, and it all ends the same for the most part.
@@jamieshank6736 But the women do NOT 'reap what they so'. They get REWARDED for being lazy. The woman gets 1/2 the house and alimony payments despite acting like a self-entitled lazy bitch. The husband was working a job and spending all his free time building a house. The wife was working a job and relaxing after the job. Not fair at all.
@@brooksfire9580 In this case she sure did seem to reap what she sowed, w/ that divorce, lol. From what I gathered reading comments, she didn't seem to get too much in this instance, the new house seems to be his at least. But if he were ignorant, oblivious, or foolish enough to have stayed w/ her, and if then they had divorced and she took him for half of everything, well, you'd be right, but it'd be his hard lesson to go through, that's just how it is, SUCKS, but it really just is how it is. Anyone who doesn't like how it is can always go MGTOW, or just don't get married, for nowadays it just seems more a scam, for the most part. If the husband wants to work a job to support a lazy wife, that's his bus, but I wouldn't do so. Marriages so often just seem to lack the fundamental stability, meaning, and commitment they were designed to consist of. Sad, imo, and seems to further degrade society into something like Calhoun's mouse utopia, but what can any one person do about it? Way I see it, we just all have to do our best to learn so we can make good choices and not get stuck in such traps.
I’ll never understand why people want to publish their entire lives online. Literally, it’s just needless vulnerability
Because the last 15 years we have trade the religion (any religion) , the community , the family , the ethos and the values that all this provides , for likes fake fame & friends.
Misery loves company
It's pretty obvious that the man wouldn't have kicked her ass off the curve with such determination and speed if she was smart enough not to post that crap anywhere online. They probably would've lasted a week longer or so.
One simple word. Vanity.
***attention***
“I have to clean up this mess I didn’t make.”
Absolutely legitimate argument on her part. Assuming her husband gets to live in the house alone while she lives in the yard since he built the house.
lmao.
Almost got me there
I would at least build her a little dog house. I'm not a monster
@@newxskin7750 nah, just build her a kitchen.
@@newxskin7750 Then she could go make friends with that other chic who pretends to be a puppy.
When you saw all the tools neatly organized, that was the product of pure, unadulterated rage and he and his dad had already decided it was time for her to go.
What women truly want:
-The authority of a man
-The privileges of a woman
-The accountability of children
Translation: An all around nope in every way
@@ComposedSage75 What do you mean?
@@SlaveMerchant stay clear from these types of women at all costs.
@@SlaveMerchant an all round nope to their demands outlined in what was said here
Thank you
She was a 5/10 at best yet she still managed to land a man who was not only willing to build her a house but could even afford to yet all she could do was complain. Good on him for moving on.
Not even average. Below average 4 at best. Her attitude and figure make her a 3.
She's a 2 out of 10. Overweight and acne do not make a 5.
5/10 at best?
She barely a solid 2
Yeah 5 is a super reach
5?? Without makeup on and her awful personality she's a 2!
"This is saw dust, because they decided to cut things inside the House"
They didn't build the house using LEGO you Genius
"Inside MY house" even worse lmao
imagine if they did cut outside and the dust got wet, that would be way worse to clean up
@@agentwade Was about to say that too. She didn't build anything, didn't clean anything but claims ownership of the house for what reason exactly ?
We cut inside because walking outside in often inclement weather more than doubles the amount of time the job takes, it's frustratingly inefficient & anyone with a pinch of self awareness would acknowledge the carpenter isn't going to add an hour to a job, to spare a few minutes in cleanup.
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Being in construction & remodeling you wouldn't believe the entitled absurdities these women dream up.
@@adamjames1375 Please list some of the absurdities. I need a good laugh
Well at least she doesn’t have to be burdened with cleaning a house that she didn’t build in the first place. Plus, she has a ton of moral support from a bunch of randoms on TikTok so I’m sure she’s happy with the outcome. As she said in one of her posts, “Win for me”. Keep winning young woman. Stay the course. Who needs responsibilities anyway. Priorities, right?
My wife sometimes does what she does, unfortunately. She'd see a plate on the counter and says to me that "it only takes like 2 seconds to load it in the dishwasher!!" Like woman, you've been living with me rent free for 7 years...lol
@@JohnSmith-bs9ym Do you tell her that? If not, you should.
@@JohnSmith-bs9ym Ask her why she didn't bother, next time she pulls that shit. A lot of 'em don't realize how good they have it without our reminding them that we can always replace them.
I like how she states " WE came to the conclusion" lol. Her husband came to the conclusion and told her....and instead if learning a valuable lesson she goes straight to social media to drive the narrative that she was not kicked to the curb.
Yeah she's clearly hiding the truth from TikTok, holding back a valuable piece of the narrative by only telling her story. It's very blatant.
He realize that he didn't want to deal with her crap for the rest of his life so you got rid of the trash. 😂
@@EstablishedHeritage he had no choice but to remove her.
She's vanished from social media now though. No twitter, tiktok. Her IG is set to private.
@@johnex1029 of course she has. It's over for her now 🤣
She deleted her tik tok!! I went to show my bf and her whole account was gone! So she did all that for literally nothing. She was up to 30k followers and was gonna take us on her apartment hunting lol. What a mess. She had released an update video too but by the time she released that the tide was turning from unconditional support to mocking. Loved all the attention when it was telling her to be a boss babe but when people started holding her accountable she bounced. Typical modern feminism. Hope the guy had a prenuptial.
Wouldnt surprise me if the upcoming divorce has something to do with it. Maybe her lawyer suggested taking it down
you men need to take responsibility for your own actions. men in the West have been eradicating their own manhood for the past 100 years.
you ever notice the daily physical interactions between men and women especially in work environments.
man to man handshake: firm, resolute, strong.
man to female handshake: limp, soft, loose 😂.
almost like how a gay person shakes hands with everyone lol.
let's sit back and watch how 50% of this society turns gay or trans in the next half decade or even sooner.
Something tells me she saw the video lol
@@axch2983 Hell of a plot twist there. But I pretty much agree.
@@aye_yo_mick or she could be asking the husband to take her back
Stay strong men let's see a generation of men grabbing a hold of bigger ideas
Exactly
....Some women hv got their neurons rotten, these days.
N who tf discusses such personal family stuff on the net😐
Get married to the net n hv babies with it if u love it so much
@Black Man Didn't know that... wow!!
They weed themselves out of the gene pool.
Hopefully a return to a mix of the generation that fought the revolution and the ones that built the industrial age.
Hell yeah right there with ya bro
“They decided to cut stuff in my house” I’m sorry your house????
I love the "I have to clean, even though I didn't make this mess" quote. Yes... you didn't help build the house, the least you can do is help clean. Its not HIS mess, its THEIR mess... hes building THEIR house. she got the easiest job of building the house, and was still upset she had to do any of it
And now, unfortunately, she'll take said house and make her next husband clean it.
I really don't understand why men want relationships anymore.
The job of *cleaning* the house
In her estimation her Husband and Father-in-law were building the house for _her._
Modern women are taught that Men serve them.
Asking a female to do _anything_ in return is out of order.
At this point I’m waiting for the sex bots to take over
I love how that in her video, she was shaming the husband and father-in-law for sawing wood in "her house." If anything, its their house (father and son) because they are the ones erecting the damned thing!
I admire her ex husband for standing up for himself. He literally BUILT THE HOUSE SHE LIVES IN and she can’t even clean something up.
Agree 100%. Especially when her husband and father in law are building it on the side....so weekends, weeknights, etc. And she's mad because they want her to help straighten stuff up so they can focus on building with the limited time they have? So much entitlement!
And she’ll probably want the house in the divorce settlement 🙄. These women are something else
@@mattkennedy6115 they signed up a prenuptial agreement
@@selflove428 "I only signed it because he made me! I was in distress!" poof prenup is gone. I hope he got lucky and it held up, but I'm just saying.
@@swordofbored7018 oh my goodness I hope there divorce is easy.
She openly and unabashedly says she "bitched" to her husband. She didn't even try to pretend to have a civil conversation about their respective workloads or why she was unhappy being asked to clean up.
She was so proud of it until the divorce paper showed up
Well yes, she got her advice from the internet. What do you think they're gonna tell her to do?
She could've just said, "I feel tired, can we do it together later?" and she wouldn't have gotten divorced.
@@AParticularlyConcernedCitizen Thia happened before, which is why the FIL sent the message, because he's probably helped her and willing to take the bullet. But she went after hubby anyway. Let's not think this is the first time.
the dude definitely dodged a bullet
"They made a mess in MY house."
"This is not MY problem."
You see the problem here? Fucking ridiculous. This woman is everything you should avoid in relationships.
Funniest thing is that she said that her husband and her father in law build the house and then says "MY house" xD
It really isn’t. But you just have to hold her to the same standard.
“Honey can pick me up some McDonalds, i’m hungry?”
“Babe you remember last week when I asked you to take out the trash, and you told me you wouldn’t? - tit for tat”
@@benjaminfranklin3458 That's about the most unproductive pitty behavior ever.
@@OnlyBobGreen Yeah don't know what he's talking about lol. That's just a way to prolong a bad relationship.
🛎🛎🛎
Yeah but, how lucky is that guy now? Got a brand new house, no horrible wife/fiancé/ no kids yet to get dragged into a breakup/divorce. The sky is the limit for him now! Good for him!
he lost a partner, prob was harassed online, and had to go through all these shenanigans. All because of a woman's entitlement. He got it better than many men, still wouldnt call him lucky, more like a serious, trust worthy man.
I mean yea, but losing a partner hurts. Women are the foundation, which life itself is built upon, when rotten, more then she falls.
She is probably getting 50% of that house.
Would have been much better if he didn’t get into a relationship with a female.
@@bighands69 luckily no in her last update before she took her stuff down because she was being mocked to much...she was filming herself apt hunting lol so she didn't get the house at least.
I went back to watch her original video on TikTok to read through the comments... This gal got a LOT of support. I mean, there's some "you're really entitled" gems in there, but it's disturbing how many people happily cast judgements on the father-in-law and husband and spread toxicity. Is that what marriages are coming to? That we can't have a direct, open, healthy conversation with a person and have to instead hide under a pathetic, passive-aggressive and childish video on a stupid phone app? Dragging thousands of people into our private lives? REALLY embarrassing.
I read the comments, too. It was basically one opposing voice in the various threads and the rest were "you go girl find your true love who treats you right" type harridans. I was thinking following the advice of the comment section would be a good way to speedrun her life to absolute misery.
@@dycedargselderbrother5353 so true. And unfortunately, a lot of people these days live by that to some degree.
Makes me think of Patrick Bateman getting that thousand yard stare
It's feminism plain and simple. Women immediately freak out when they're told to clean something because they have been programmed to avoid traditional roles. Even non-feminists are repulsed by it. Women are ruined
@@BilltheFifth I agree - but I can tell you from my own dating experience, that there are also men out there who support working women and are against traditional roles. So the best thing you can do is to support the likeminded women around you and encourage other men to do the same. Plenty of us are getting fed up with the games, too.
"They decided to cut all of this in MY HOUSE"
This little slipup tells it all.
All that positive feedback she got on social media explains a lot. So often these days people document their own awful behavior because they actually believe that they are in the right, and it's because equally awful people within their online bubble reinforce it.
Scary, right??? Best to avoid dating anyone who spends that much time sharing their personal life over TikTok.
Its people who have never ever been in longterm relationships outside of what they see in movies and Hollywood thinking they are going to be cardi b or something
Its sad to see alot of women see it this way and just want to abuse us for money and give nothing in return but we will show them the generation that brought back masculinity and equality
someone pin this
Exactly, this is one of the many reasons people shouldn't spend much time on social media, ESPECIALLY women. They see a very specific lifestyle (which is faked) portrayed as the ultimate goal, they can get unlimited validation from people who know nothing of the actual situation and constantly think they are missing out on something. Just the fact so many women were like "WhO dO ThEy ThInK ThEy ArE" "They have hands to clean their own mess" shows how easy it is to get validation and play the victim. The sad thing is, the women commenting are either in unhappy relationships (probably with simps) or no relationship at all, yet women in much better situations are listening to their advice without a single question. Its baffling honestly, even well brought up, good women are getting sucked into this propaganda by the radical feminists. After all, it is a pretty grand scheme, offering nothing but good and canceling everything that could "hurt" you, creating weaker, more gullible people at the same time, who are even easier to control and manipulate.
Nothing screams psycho like little girl voice on a full grown women.
She needs therapy
trueeeee
Another example of the little girl voice by the way.
Edit: I just checked her TikTok as I was posting reference links and she just released a video saying, "Stop attacking my ex-husband." Well, yeah... you shouldn't have made the video if you didn't want that to happen. On a more surprising note, she actually admitted to having faults and admitted to doing stuff that was wrong to her ex. It's too bad she uploaded that after I had already finished this video. I always try to humanize the person I am talking about at least a little bit and it sucks that I wasn't able to include that. I guess the pinned comment will have to do. Either way, she is still heavily in the wrong here and she should have kept her drama private. I'll include her video update as a reference link in the description.
Nice video man👍🏻
Ever since you pointed that out I’ve noticed just how many women at school and work have that voice. Really eye opening stuff
Yuh
The real questions is: why would you be with someone who's clearly married to the internet - not you?
As soon as you know a chick is making videos online - dump her.
I wouldn't want a chick who told her friends/coworkers everything, instead of talking to me.
I sure as hell wouldn't want a chick around who makes 'airing our dirty laundry' her hobby.
Then, I'll marry a woman with the deepest voice I can find.
Joking aside. Keep up the great work. One person can make all the difference in the world.
The first time I saw this I couldn’t read the text, and this makes it much worse. The father in law was very respectful in his text. Her attitude just showed a lack of cooperation and teamwork. TikTok is absolutely dangerous in the hands of emotionally immature people.
Good for her! Now she can earn a bunch of money by herself, build her own house and clean up as she builds the house. Sounds like she made out great!!
It gonna take her 70 years just to find a small house judging on her banana brains. She might end up living minimum waves and 70% of her salary is on renting.
Exactly she can enjoy being empowered on her own now.
Wow wow wow. I dont think she would listen if she told herself to do it
She has a man with the skills to build a house with his own two hands and she still couldn't get over her sense of entitlement. All she had to do was meet him halfway, but she had to listen to a bunch of middle aged spinsters on the internet.
Most of them were probably young zoomer girls brainwashed by feminism since it was tik tok I believe.
She didn’t even realise that 1 hour cleaning means 1 hour not building the house
More like tens of thousands of her peers and 90% of every female younger than her. Also, videos like hers are not rare.
Bruh handymen are more important than scientists IMO, science is cool but we need places to live and for our children to live in a hundred years for now. Props to that guy for pulling the leech out
sad isnt it? A mediocre looking woman able to find a good provider and skilled worksman bitch and moan after being a hairdresser for 8 hours at minimum wage because she had to do some cleaning around a house being built from the ground up for them.
the women encouraging her arent married and or divorced. gj. this is feminism. women making other women miserable to make sure they arent miserable alone.
Misery loves company.
Both of you said it best.
It always baffled me that people would follow the advice of folks(men and women) who failed at relationships.
It repeatedly amazes me how a woman will get on the Internet and admit ... or more like boast ... about how she treated her husband like dirt, and hordes of other women will get on and say, "Yeah, you go girl. You show him who's boss!" I suppose sometimes she has a husband whose wimpy enough that this works. But usually women despise such a man any way. They've set themselves up for a game where they disqualify themselves from winning any of the prizes that they actually want to win.
ALL of leftism is trying to make people miserable
So a man can build his wife a house... An accomplishment considerably more difficult than basic house cleaning... But she gets offended for being asked...🤦♂️🙄
The saddest part is that the 6 million people on tiktok who supported her and told her she was right are now happy to have destroyed his relationship, they don't care that it screwed her over too. These people are social arsonists.
They told her, "Yaaaaas queen! Slay!"
That's one of the big issues with social media. It pre-selected for your point of view. It doesn't select six million random people who would probably question her, tell her the truth, warn her, etc. It selects six million people who agree with her.
Social media, videos, tic-tok, etc. are poison. If your spouse is on it, chances are they are feeding their delusions and things aren't going to end up well.
Bet they were other women. Women keep other women single.
@@rottenburrito7277 No one can take that bet lol
Nah they are right. Ruining the relationship with that woman saved the man !
Right when he said "hair dresser" I said "oh shit". I spent a 10 year relationship with a hair dresser that was totally ungrateful. Good luck with hair dressers.
Real talk, when I found out she was a hair dresser I said, "That explains everything."
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT them and "Social Workers"
My brother is married to a hairdresser and I'm not speaking to that woman more than 10 years and I'm not allowed in to their house for telling her the truth in her face lol.
@@Azizi1163 theyre an extremely bit**y type that. Where i went to TAFE (community college in aus) we had a joke about the girls doing hairdressing because 90% of the class were either teens, single mothers or both.
Have you ever see the matrix of hotness and craziness? hairdresser is on no date zone, so this guy is lucky when he divorce her
This videos title couldn't have been more accurate.
It's like telling a woman: "you cooked the meal so you wash the pots and pans, I didnt create this mess"
right
That would never go over.
you gave birth to this child, so take care of it!
(misogyny)
Oof, good comparison
Lol
"I didn't make this mess" is the excuse I expect from a child, not a f*cking fully grown adult.
@Luc Germain Hell. I get excited when a woman builds me a sandwich.
The most funniest part was when she said "my house" especially when her husband and father in law built the house.
the comment from a person who knows em in real life suggests she has NO ownership of that house either, that was a pure display of arrogance XD
@@CloudWalkBeta "A marriage provides ownership, but does not change the title documents". Her ownership would be considered anything that's joint related (bank accounts, etc) or acquired during the marriage a house does not always apply as a deed to a house does not require both names of a married couple as a title document (in this case a deed to a house/property) only requires at minimum one name to be present and getting married does not change that. Even though not much information is told about the ownership of the house/properly, do you actually believe the ex husband would put her on the deed of the house/property especially knowing the outcomes of marriage? I think not. And anything owned prior to a marriage stays separate even after divorce.
No matter your gender or role in a relationship everyone must take responsibility.
"I did not build this house, my husband and his father built it".
2 minutes later
"my house"
ikr, she isn't even willing to help clean there and she is calling it "My house"
If my man and his dad built me a house, I'd get home from being a housekeeper and clean that mess with a "thank you baby" and a smile on my face.
@man with a username I don't know about your answer. Why would she be annoyed if her husband and father in law, asked her to clean ONE room? They are building her a new house out in their free time. They are not getting paid for it either. So it's only FAIR that she helps by cleaning. This should have been done without being asked to, if she really realized that those guys are slaving away for her.and she should have been the one saying thank you at the end of the day.
And then you'll sleep with his friend behind his back when he doesn't spoil you. AWALT
@@righteastofyou
Damn man. Sorry that happened to you, but I don't think you should take it out on her.
OP didn't do it :/
You are the people we need getting viral on tiktok
@@venM9
No one is saying she shouldn't. Just saying she has the right to be annoyed. People are allowed to feel their feelings - it's their reactions that matter.
I love how when men say they want a traditional women that women always say “ well i want a man that can build a house and she literally has that and still refuses to do anything
And millions support her
Respect wahmen
@@TheMostCursedSportsShowPeriod tells you the state of this world and the people in it. Smh sad.
My sister started a new job. Second day this one woman goes on and on trashing her husband to my sister. She then asked my sister what she thought. My sister told her, “Well, my momma always told me to not air my dirty laundry in public”.
She’s lucky her husband didn’t tell her to build the house
She better just be glad she has a roof over her head and a good man at that. Lot of em take that for granted.
well he does want it to be built in this decade, done right and everything level
by the looks and sound of her she doesn't know what one end of a hammer is to the other
Like a woman would even know what to do with a hammer, fuckin plz,🤣.
@@ktotheswiss1617 they will crush their finger while using the hammer.
God i need to quit slacking and play Runescape
"I didn't make this mess!"
A childish response from someone who is considered an adult.
"Because they decided to cut things inside MY house."
Weren't hubby and his dad building the house? You can tell that she'll take everything she can in the divorce.
Honestly, I do somewhat understand, at least I've been "trained" to properly put away my tools, and do at least bare minimum cleanup after working. I do wonder what was meant by it helping the husband and his dad (also would have been more tactful to say "could you" instead of "we need for you to").
That said, she seems like she contributes nothing to the partnership, so I hope that's what she is left with after divorce.
They built, hopefully can demolish. Cut slingload!
I like how she tries to frame it as a mutual decision to get divorced. More like he didn't like her laziness or her boasting about it, and realised she is a waste of time. She is just trying to save face by claiming she is in agreement. It probably took her a couple of days to stop crying to make her next precious update video. What a loser.
@@defeqel6537 If you put in +8hrs of work on someone else's house for "FREE"... the least the persons of Benefit could do... is to help clean up. There is no Excuses for this behavior.
Also.. your so called cleanliness "Training", would have likely extended the time it would have taken to complete the same job, by 50%. Fact is... that its often far faster to have a somewhat messy work environment, than to constantly be cleaning + putting things away every 10 seconds, like someone with an extreme case of OCD.
You can tell by the photo, that these men had a Ton of tools out... and thus, they clearly did a LOT of various work, in as quick of a time as possible. This clearly was not some simple 1hr patch job.
Now... if this woman PAID a Contractor to do this work... then thats a whole different story. But that is clearly not the case. The man did this, out of the goodness of his own heart, only to be crapped on by the Entitled Wench.
@@johndough8115 I wouldn't be "constantly cleaning", rather put things in order at the end of the day
“This is sawdust because they decide to cut wood in my house” yeah he built you a whole house lol
If my girl did this she would have a week to pack her things, most men will dump a woman when it comes to public humiliation its one of the worst things you can do to us.
i agree but one week? If she is as lazy at it seems, i would glady do this last chore for her. In one day ...
The way she framed it made it seem like she was supposed to clean before her husband got home presumably from working. So not only is he working his job, but he is also working on building their house, and she is mad that she is asked to contribute by cleaning. Not only that, but she is also going to vent her problems on social media looking for validation to not clean, and to drag her husband publicly. What a keeper.
“Because they decided to cut things in my house.”
She claims ownership of a house she didn't build. Nor is she willing to help out those who *are* building "her" house (presumably at no cost to her besides a little elbow grease).
“BRUH, I have no idea who u are but you picked the wrong girl” 3:36 lmao that bruh was mad funny.
"They decided to cut thing inside MY HOUSE"----- Bitch its YOUR HUSBANDS house that he is CURRENTLY BUILDING FOR YOU TO LIVE IN.
"I have to do this all before my husband gets home"------ Since when was that part of the requirement? I can guarantee you that he started helping as soon as he got home, if not done it himself.
Not after the divorce 😢
The second video tells so much about her. She said she didn't clean it, she listened to probably teens on tik tok, she said she won. This just goes to show how childish she is. She isn't an adult. The best analogy for me is a teen girl talking to her friends, and acting like doing things (as a favor) is a competition.
"she listened to probably teens on tiktok"
This is probably the most accurate statement ever. Because even the folks in their 40's on that app have the mentality of entitled children.
To somebody with no context, them putting that work on her was a bit outrageous. It seemed like pretty out of the blue, and not knowing their relationship makes me need to assume things about it. (Prior to second video when I found she was just toxic)
Keep in mind if it was only the first video she posted, that can be attributed to people not having support systems anymore and she was venting, in the moment heat stuff
My assumption is this: she comes home from work and receives a text letting her know she’s expected to clean up their mess left behind while they go do something unrelated? That’s nbd, but then the video shows a huge mess that to somebody like me just looks like they purposely slacked on organization while working because they were just gonna pawn it off anyways.
It’s the fact they left her alone to do it without knowing their relationship and giving notice over text for me
@@subyouwont first of all the "mess" they made is actually already cleaned up for her. All she had to do was contribute and move the already packed things into another area. Quit making assumptions. Shows how gullible you are.
Women don't act like grownups for the most part because they can't reach a man's level of responsibility.
@@willmorrell488 Exactly!! And there always saying that women are mature then men or women mature faster than men.
"How do you write women so well?"
"I think of a man...and I take away reason and accountability."
You dropped your crown king.
👑 there, yw
As Good As It Gets
And added 1lb of emotion baggage 🤣
Top tier comment
That reading part is so real, I used to read like 2-3 hours a day but then we had to take notes on a book in class and now I can’t get back into it
She fails to mention that the men are at the hardware store or at their jobs while she is already home, so her picking up the mess since she is home first makes sense.
That and she isn't the one actually building the house so the LEAST she could do is help them clean up a mess
She said he cleaned when he got OFF WORK! If you're not an equal partner, you belong to the streets!
That means when they got late at night they had to clean without a single thank you while she was probably sleeping.
I actually laughed out loud when she said she was getting a divorce. Wgo would’ve thought?! …. You reap what you sow i guess
females like her make me question if i will ever have a wife.
It all worked out becuse the guy had the guts. There are marriages out there where the husband will not file for divorce and and just stand the abuse.
@@DenerWitt I put up with the abuse for 17 years. Then I got fed up and said I'm not being walked on any more, I'm not meekly obeying all your orders any more. She became furious and divorced me. Once at a marriage counseling session she said that we could get divorced and then if we could work things out we could get back together. I replied that if she put me through all the emotional trauma and financial expense of a divorce, there was no way I was getting back together with her. I think that she honestly thought that she was going to "call my bluff", that if she just threatened divorce, I'd cry and beg, "Oh no baby, please don't go, I'll do whatever you ask." Yeah, that didn't happen.
i love how she said "we decided." you can tell she did not want this outcome, this was HIS decision :P And good for him!
MGTOW is happening.
Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
A very huge red flag is that whenever she has an issue with her husband, she puts it on blast for her "followers" to know. Imagine your wife sharing your martial problems with the whole world. Women are beyond saving at this point.
Yeah. My "wife" wouldn't air our dirty laundry very long. My "ex-wife" might, but there's nothing I can do about that.
Lots of women do this. Not social media, but you have a dispute with your wife and suddenly you are getting calls from friends, parents, family, etc.
This is why I wanna be a guy 🥲
@@sunnyxp4681 yup BAD woemen are not shunned & put out to pasture so that way the GOOD ones can shine🤦♀️. so unfortunately that is why there is no "g_d", because he allowed males to be weakened for a piece of funk🙄
Men are just as guilty about this.
My husbands family hates me because he couldn't keep things between us.
I can't tell you how freaking nice and refreshing it is to actually find and listen to someone who actually has a brain. Thank you.
Agree
She's a solid 5/10. That guy dodged a huge bullet not bringing children into this. Such a good learning experience for him as awful as it all is
5/10 at best. I see a 3 or 4
@@GrumpyCat-mw5xl Yeah. i don't see a 5 here. She was lucky to marry into such a skilled family. She doesn't have many skills I'm betting. Also, why would you air your grievances with strangers? Her personality gives her an even lower score.
Attitude and character brings it downs to 1/10
who knows maybe he thinks shes hot but a complete crazy
2/50, take it or leave it
I was always taught "The less time you spend complaining about, the faster it's done." I think that applies to this lady here.
Why not both?? Complain while you do!
I'm willing to bet it took her more time to make the video and post it than tidying up the room. I'm definitely willing to be she spend more time on social media over that week answering posts, liking comments, giving updates, etc. than FIL spent that week helping her build her house.
@@cpK054L it ruins your mood
@@cpK054L Eh sure that works too I think the point was more "Shut up and just do the thing instead of sitting on your ass and complaining about work you haven't done"
If my husband and father-in-law was building a house for me, I'd be SUPER excited to contribute in any way I could. It would be like "Clean the house? HELL YEAH I'LL CLEAN IT! I'M SO EXCITED TO MOVE IN! WHAT ELSE CAN I DO?!?!"
"YOU'RE TIRED??? DO YOU WANT ANYTHING? ILL GO TO THE KITCHEN RIGHT NOW TO GET SOMETHING FOR YOU!" bro I'd be so gassed to help tbh
Sounds like my neice. "I don't want to clean it up, I didn't do it!!"
I think why Tictoc's audience was more receptive to her plight is because there mostly young kids who look at doing chores as something that sucks, they are not old enough to know the value of work and sacrifice.
Didn't think of it like that, makes sense
yes exactly. It influences so many young people. Tiktok is legit cancer.
You're right about that. A child would see the list of chores and end up thinking that she's being treated like Cinderella or something. My mind hadn't drifted in that direction...
and the dumbess thing is she trust or side to those stranger rather than to her own husband and father in law that building house for her to life 🤣
I believe the answer is a bit more concerning that that. They are also grown ups who should know better who are brainwashed to always take the women's side and they are afraid of giving her the tough love she needs. I see this on Facebook help groups as well. I'm in a depression group (not because of me, but to help others) and the type of comments I see that enable horrible behaviors is terrifying. And you'll typically find women get softer answers than men do.