Man Forced to Pay $100,000 After Ex-Wife Lies In Family Court
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2021
- This video talks about the divorce settlement between Helga and Greg Czarnecki.
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i’ll never forget when you said “What happens when you start feeding wild animals? they forget how to hunt, and feed themselves and they’ll always come back to you.”
And when they're full of themselves(their stomaches), they'll return to their usual lives like you didn't exists.
When they have nothing, they'll start to cling to you like a beggar.
No Offence, but have you never heard that before???
But that's how we domesticated animals though....
@@SHINR__ yes he said it one of his videos
@@SHINR__ Shhhhhh I made that one up.
Women are strong and independent..... just not infront of a judge asking for more alimony.
Exactly such 'strong' and 'independent' women, Women 'empowerment' zindabaad ✊✊
Glad to see an indian man saying this because I've seen lots of indian men being a simp and supporting those women and feminist
If u wanna kno the girl actually wants to be with u and not ur money, then ask about a pre nuptials agreement. If u get red flags from them, get out.
Well, at the end of the day men are not victims. When a man decides to marry a woman he knows what he is signing up for.
Yes nothing says strong and independent like acting weak and helpless when you ask for alimony from the judge
Women: lies in court.
Court: "Do you have proof?"
Women: "Dude trust me!"
Court: "Sounds legit. Approved"
Sadly this is silver bullet method widespread worldwide
Proof
This sounds like Among Us players saying ¨Trust¨
Court: Well Man do you have any Proof
Man: Yes right here. Here the the documents and are photos taken from a private investigator
Courts: Ugh! That’s too much to go through, and it’s possible you’re faking, we’re going with her telling us to “Trust” her
Obviously this is exactly what happens this is reazon why nobody wants any serious relationships with others today
Had an ex try to justify alimony to me once. I literally fell out of love in a single conversation. If she even hints that alimony is justifiable, run for the hills, boys.
What was the dialogue? Her justification?
Details please. What did you ex say when she was trying to justify alimony?
Run Forrest run
Yep same thing here. Left that bitch quick.
Dodged a bullet. High chance she would've wrought you dry herself
"Helga and women like her are adults."
Normally, I don't find myself disagreeing with factual claims.
Physically not mentally
😆 I see what you did there. Good one!
being an adult seldom means u act like one
Lmao, nice
@@iFParasit maturity
Alimony was drafted up when times were completely different. However this is one of those cherry picked benefits that stays in a world that's supposed to be about equality.
We we trying to bring this same system to Afghanistan
The only winning move is not to play.
It was more applicable in 1950 than in 2021
@lllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll and the ones who were upset the most about the taliban government are the feminists
Where women constantly cry about “ ancient laws written by dinosaurs who didn’t allow women to vote” haha they wanna throw out the things they don’t like but wanna keep any of the stuff that is beneficial to them. It’s so much blatant hypocrisy that I can’t stand it anymore, they always want it their way and don’t want anyone else to even have the option for things to go any other way. It’s immature mindset.
Current fems are downright social pariahs and they still somehow get their way and win every time.
"I'm a feminist, and I'm a strong and independent woman..unless I'm divorcing you!!"
My dad was forced to sell the house and give half the money to my mom. She then bought a house way above the amount she needed so she could force my dad to pay for her mortgage. She asked for 70% of his pension and his investments, And told her attorney that my dad would have to work for another 15 years so she could get half his paycheck. My dad was 3 years away from retirement. She didn't even notify him she was doing any of this and did it all behind his back. She got him kicked out of the church because she knew the priest and she wants him to keep paying for her insurance and phone bills. I fucking hate her for this. He is a good man and is the only one who can take care of my grandma and now he has to take care of his bitch ex wife. I will never get married
Pay her in lead and collect the insurance
I'm sorry this happened to you. However, this doesn't mean you should give up on marriage. Remember, the issues brought up are a small percentage of the total amount of whichever issues they are speaking of. I'm a happy married woman. I was divorced from an abusive man. But I went years single, worked on myself, figured out why I was drawn to abusive men. It was a problem in me, (not saying your dad did anything wrong). So I met a hard working, regular, amazing man with a wonderful sense of humor. We've been married 33 years. I love him more than when we were first married.
there's a lot of evil in the world on both sides but women are very very more pron to financial evils for personal gain. Then they end up old and alone and wonder why
@@s.v.2796 Stop, you are a woman you risk like nothing comparing to a man's risks. You could just be free after your divorce, but when a man divorce he is almost always ruined financially (just like in the @atomic-law's story, stories like that are COMMON). Also, when you are a man and you are broken (both financially and mentally) no woman would want you. Your situation IS MUCH EASIER THAN TYPICAL MAN'S SITUATION. Marriage is like for men: much more risks (which can literally ruin you) and no benefits (I can see only one benefit - some lower taxes). There is no point in marriage for men today.
@@piotr004 Yes, both take risks. I think your buying into the flip side of the propaganda. One side are the men haters, the other fear and hate women. Neither have the emotional or spiritual maturity to make a commitment such as marriage. So they should not. Marriage is for grownups, it's for keeps. It's not playtime. We make real vows, not simply ones that address nonsense. As to your money issues- the majority of family courts award minimal child support. Both sides lose out financially. But who loses the most are the children. They lose the emotional, spiritual and financial stability of a family. The last 20 years or so most of us have been raised inside a culture that teaches us to honor ourselves above all things. We no longer understand sacrifice, privation, giving for the sake of pure love. We want that award, that "good job" done! It might be true. But what happened to the internal satisfaction? We have then two immature, selfish people without understanding of commitment, of what marriage means, of what honoring vows mean and you get modern society. So stop sulking, grow yourself up, re-read my original post and look for an adult WOMAN. Also it's important that one understands the true nature of marriage, of how God views marriage. Might suprise you. It's very lovely. It's why my husband, not a simp, is the head of the household, very romantic, extremely stable, yet we are not wealthy. I love him more every day. He is my all, after the Lord.
I don't see why her "medical problems getting worse" has anything to do with him when they aren't even married. It makes no sense.
Corruption of government. In this case, family courts
because the courts get money from extorting men. If they werent turning a profit they wouldnt pursue the payments so heavily.
Who cares? it's not his problem if the health of the ex get worse or not...
She is not a baby and he is not her dad
Maybe the State made an unofficial wealth distribution through men exploitation in order to reduce government social costs.
@@hyrenapth6443 Social cost is highest when woman get to avoid the consequences--so that could not be correct.
And that's why my wife left me.
Really ?? Im sorry if that happened to you, but i have my doubts
Edit:
Damn everyone is just parodying me, i get it, its hard to proof it without giving away private stuff.
Still, if this really happened to you, then im sorry for doubting you, and i seriously hope you get better.
Really ?? Im not sorry if that happened to you, I have zero doubts
Sorry you had to pay alamony
Really ?? I can't think of a witty punchline, but I wanted to join in!
I don't know if I have to laugh or feel sorry for you
I paid 100k in child support for kids that lived with me 60% of the time.
Damn
@@LordSpongebob Child support in many instances is just alimony in disguise
I paid about 60K over a few years while the children lived with me 80-90% of the time.
"Even if you lose, make their victory so painful that they will never think of doing it to you ever again" WOW . That's real motivation.
Thank you so much ThinkBeforeYouSleep.
Reminds me of one time when Samsung lost a lawsuit against Apple, then proceeded to pay them in trucks filled with coins.
This is my philosophy with everyone who wrongs me. It will always cost them more than if they'd just left me alone.
Not married and no children and we both work. And yet because usually the men makes more money, he has to pay alimony to his ex-girlfriend of 2 years here in Canada. This is why I say it's best to stay single.
Same in Australia. Any relationship of 2 years or more can enable a property claim. There need not be cohabitation and the 2 years need not be continuous. That is the law. Absurd.
Didn't even married and forced to pay? Man it sucks being lead by soyboy & feminist leader
Whoa that could’ve happened to me
@lllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll I've never heard of that in america. I'd heard after a 7 year relationship you can be considered as being a relationship equivalent to marriage, and being equivalent to being a father legally if you spend alot of time in house and paying for a womens children.
There needs to be a video put out specifically about the current state of the laws in each state in america because i can't get the facts from google. I just saw a post from a guy saying his ex wife gets alimony for life in california and another guy answered same here and google says theres no permanent alimony in california. The truth is being withheld or obscured by forces of the establishment to seemingly keep men in the dark to the dangers that persist in this relationship game.
Man, even leeches risk their lives for survival. The audacity of this woman...
To call this woman a "leech" would definitely be an insult to leeches...
@@mattjack3983 she's monster than 😤
@@just.him.cherif even monsters make more risks than this women she is a emotionless orange lantern.
this is why i sue someone assault's me i sue someone scams me i sue and press charges if courts are bias i sue the judge personally and the court system as well if something happens to me because of a racist person i'm suing if something happens to me because of a sexist person i am suing if something happens to me because i am christian i know as a christian i have to have self control it's one of the fruits of the spirit but bible also says put up a fight and defend yourself if i lose allot of money then i am suing if i get attacked i either A let god handle it or B sue and press charges depending on how bad the attack was but i am only doing that if god says i can fight back if he says leave it alone and let him handle it guess what ima do leave it alone and let him handle
@@just.him.cherif Monsters are Created.
Greg shouldn't be going to court so Helga gets paid, he should be taking the state to court to seek restitution.
Enriching the secular liegal sheeshtem even more, with no established benefits for him? Going against any corrupt secular liegal system, gov or state is suicidal in my book...
For those who wanted to know the outcome:
Helga decided to drop her motion for more
alimony and she agreed to stop alimony
payments all together. She knew she would
have to face sanctions from the court for
missing several deadlines and she potentially
faced jail time if she allowed this to go all the
way to the hearing. The ex-husband doesn't
have to pay her anymore money.
Huzzah
She should pay it back
@@choppystone2558right
I'm a firm believer that if someone leaves, any support should go out the window. Lifestyle is not meant to be maintained when you leave the person who has resources. Regardless of it's man or woman.
No government has offered social benefits based on what you used to earn to ‘maintain your lifestyle.’ If my job ends tomorrow the government won’t be turning around and telling me that my 6 figures means that I’m used to a certain lifestyle and they’ll be helping me to maintain that. But the women folk argued that it was something they needed and had to have and the government accepted that because they needed the women’s vote and it was spending other people’s money. But it’s a patriarchy designed for men only. What a mess our system is.
Well yes your a man you think logically and not like a 4 year old.
Take into consideration that some people leave relationships because of abuse.
too many bourgeois people supporting alimony tbh. weird but it will have to change eventually. enough rage can make anything change if directed at the weak points.
And child support should be used properly
me: in the past 100 years women have come a long way. We have them as astronauts, doctors, lawyers, business owners, philanthropists, corporation CEOs, scientists, programmers, fighter pilots and even special forces. Women control 83% of consumer spending, the majority of votes, and are the majority of people earning degrees. All of this showcases how women are now strong and independent.
women: yes, yes! That is true!
me: then why do women still need alimony?
women: um, well, ummmmmm
They still want the perks
That's how you separate the exception from the ordinary
Repeal the 19th amendment
@@varnix1006 You right. The ordinary is a 25-year old thot, working at Starbucks with a useless degree in Gender Studies. Still has more rights and privileges than the average man
@@chico9805 Ppl keep saying a gender studies degree is useless. Yet gender studies is one of the most potent and influential forces in society today. If you ask me, I'd say Gender Studies has TOO MUCH influence.
Greg’s ex wife: “I have afraid to lose alimony so I gotta act up disease”
Spot on!
I swear the next woman that even utters “male privilege” in my direction we are fighting. And she is losing.
Imagine losing nearly $100,000 because of a divorce. You could get so many things with $100,000
And if your partner objects to any of this, then you might want to take a good long look at them.
Never ever fucking get married. Enjoy a relationship sure. Be happy. Have fun. Have kids. But don't get married. It's not necessary.
But just in case got do. Sign a document that splits everything fairly = and keep track of what's yours and hers. Then if it goes to shit you'll be able to argue with bills what to keep and what to split /sell such as a house unless you buy it.
And of course. Prenuptial agreement. So if anyone cheats and wants to leave they won't be able to pull any bullshit in court.
@@jamessalvatore7054 I wouldn't advise having children in this day and age either. Child support is another racket that's just an excuse for wealth transfer to women.
@@jamessalvatore7054 don't have kids unless you live in a rural area.
You could get one thousand cheap hookers for that kind of money lol
Funny how the way they discredited and demonstrated that helga (a woman) was doing wrong was by showing how it affects Teresa (another woman). The actual protagonist became a secondary character in this story.
Brilliant observation
I found that really interesting … My first thought was, “I thought we were talkin about Greg and Helga.”
The system won't change until it affects more high earning women.
28. Bisexual ("They have a propensity to get bored with whichever gender they're dating and move on to the next.", "People with loose sexual boundaries like bisexuality, polyamory & pansexuality- sexualities where they can't really declare a major or stick to a specific type tend to be trauma survivors*." [*May correlate with No. 26] )
29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25. Likely with No. 16] )
30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25]
31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28)
33. Often/always plays the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15, 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17)
34. Comments like "A real man would(n't).." (Often used as a shaming tactic** to get their way or what they want. e.g. "A real man would get his woman a [insert desirables here]" / "A real woman wouldn't let his woman walk around without a [insert desirables here]"--also referred to as the "No True Scotsman" fallacy [Strongly correlates with No. 11 & 13] )
B.) "My body my choice" (While true, is often used to justify or rationalise immoral or ignominious actions, sometimes under the guise of "Body positivity" e.g. promiscuity, being scantily clad (on social media), etc. [May correlate with No. 4, 6, 8 & 10. Possibly with No. 12] )
C.) "So you're gay"/ "Just say you're gay.." (Often used as a shaming tactic** , more often than not, as a "retort" or "parting shot" when faced with criticism or when their 'advances/overture' gets turned down * i.e. Saying "no" to their proposal of a date, hookup, etc. [Strongly correlates with No. 11 & No. 25. Possibly No. 17.] Interestingly, it seems some women use this as an 'insult' in spite of being supporters of gay rights; may be a hint of No. 15.
* "When a woman is so used to getting her way, especially a beautiful woman.. it is such a huge blow to her ego and self esteem when a man says no. They refused to just accept that he just wasn't interested. That would be too painful to accept. Instead they have to convince themselves that he likes d#ck."
** "Shaming tactics are emotional devices meant to play on a man's insecurities and shut down debate. They are meant to elicit sympathy for women and to demonize men who ask hard questions."
35. Habit of gossip or stirring up drama (These two may not be mutually exclusive. [May correlate to No. 11, 13, 17, 19 & 33] )
36. Very active in the 'clubbing' scene, (wild) late night parties.
37. Only interested in you when they're being 'ignored' (This could be due to 'indecisiveness' or 'attention-seeking*' [The latter could correlate with No. 6, 10 & 13--when they've gotten the attention, interest will likely dissipate] )
* Attention seekers tend to have certain people around them in order to "satiate" their need for attention--Orbiters; essentially, 'fuel sources' for attention. In a "non-platonic" setting, the orbiter serves as both a fuel source for 'attention' and an 'ego boost' upon 'rejection'.
B.) Interested in you when you're preoccupied with a female (Strongly correlates with No. 12 [Preselection]. Possibly with No. 13 & 18)
38. (Often) accuses you of cheating/ Continually or actively criticizes cheaters (The former may be a defence mechanism often used by cheating partners; projecting their feelings of guilt or shame on you. [Oftens correlates with No. 11 & 18. Possibly with No. 16 & 19]. The latter may be a defence mechanism for "covering their tracks" or to make themselves feel "better" or look "better" (feel superior) after infidelity. [May correlate with No. 15]. Both the former and latter may not be mutually exclusive.)
39. Controlling behaviour ("A controlling person isn't always overtly threatening or aggressive. Sometimes they are emotionally manipulative and acting out of insecurity."- Psychology Today [Correlates with No. 18 & 24. Strongly with 16 & 25. Possibly with No. 11, 17 & 38] )
40. Blame shifting--"People who ruin their lives have a tendency to blame other people when things go wrong." - Daniel G. Amen, MD.
e.g. "I never thought I’d be the type to cheat, but you made me feel so unappreciated.", "If you didn't always make me angry then I wouldn't hit you.”, "You and Dad never modeled a healthy relationship for me. No wonder my marriage fell apart.”
*As a last resort, usually when they’ve been blatantly caught or called out for something they know they did wrong, they use a "Stink bomb" (they throw a completely unfounded, terrible accusation at you e.g. "Well, you abused me.
You hit me
You raped me
You cheated on me
You never loved me
You’re mentally ill
You’re stalking me", etc.)
By sucking you into these arguments, they are consuming your energy and watching you be progressively self-destructive, so they can use your reactions to prove their own points. (“Wow, look how bitter and angry you are!”) and that’s the whole point. The blame is now off of them, and now you’re the one in hot water. Now you readily find yourself fighting to win your case.
J.A.D.E stands for Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain. When it comes to people with Cluster-B personality disorders (antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder), don’t do those things.
You will feel compelled to but don’t. When you try to defend yourself against a false accusation, you legitimize it by even acknowledging it. The only way to respond to these tactics is to stand up and walk away. Just walk away. Silently.
[*Source: themindsjournal.com]
(Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person. [Strongly correlates with No. 11, 17, 19 & 33. Possibly with No. 20 & 26] )
41. Currently or formerly* a se>< worker (Pr#stitutes, stripp#rs**, onlyf#ns "models/content creators", video vixens**, etc.)--while obvious to many, may be unobvious/subtle to some; "No one goes into se>< work because they're well adjusted" in spite of whatever 'rationale' may be used to deem this 'normal', 'healthy', 'empowering' or 'necessary due to circumstances'.
The traumatic and degrading nature of this line of work is (well) known for having adverse effects on mental, emotional and possibly physical health, leading to a slew of psychological problems and toxic (destructive) behaviours.
*A myriad of former workers don't discover, acknowledge and correctly fix their traumas/unresolved issues sustained (before and) after se>< work which damages their ability to form & maintain healthy relationships, though, the few who do genuinely work on themselves are not always exempt from certain consequences e.g. impaired (or lost) ability to 'pair bond'.
"Sex workers are adults who receive money or goods in exchange for consensual sexual services or erotic performances**, either regularly or occasionally."
** "The profession places a high demand on vixen's accessibility to men which gives such men an upper hand to manipulate these ladies into various exploits, notwithstanding the fact that most vixens are willing to be exploited to get more jobs and more favour." e.g. Amber Rose, Blac Chyna, Karrine 'Superhead' Steffans, etc.
(Strongly correlates with No. 10. Very often with No. 26. Possibly with No. 6, 13** & 20)
For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or blac chyna or sumn idk
These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc.
I think observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'looks' or 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect.
Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself.
These are just my observations & opinions and should be held up to scrutiny.
@@Dickson_ I love your comments bro 😂
I'm a woman and agree with everything you said. I've seen divorced moms post pics on FB (while out drinking with other divorced moms, mind you) of them paying their check with their child support cards. I called them out in the comments, too. Not sorry I did it either, that behavior is disgusting and makes us all look bad!
Jax Cashion I like your style. 👍🏻
Some are also "dog moms" like helga.
I love how he says 'how is this possible'? knowing full well what divorce means. Then you're introduced to the second wife...... some people never learn
That's the only thing you have to say? Ah, I see, you are a woman, so it is not a problem for you to victim blame men.
Some people are so afraid to be alone that they fall back to a toxic person
Marriage is like a ticking time bomb. No matter how docile it is, once it goes off, it hurts hard.
Yeah i agree with that but divorce is so much worst, unless if you're partner is abusing you
I don't have a noelle
Time bombs are mostly peaceful... until that last part.
28. Bisexual ("They have a propensity to get bored with whichever gender they're dating and move on to the next.", "People with loose sexual boundaries like bisexuality, polyamory & pansexuality- sexualities where they can't really declare a major or stick to a specific type tend to be trauma survivors*." [*May correlate with No. 26] )
29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25. Likely with No. 16] )
30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25]
31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28)
33. Often/always plays the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15, 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17)
34. Comments like "A real man would(n't).." (Often used as a shaming tactic** to get their way or what they want. e.g. "A real man would get his woman a [insert desirables here]" / "A real woman wouldn't let his woman walk around without a [insert desirables here]"--also referred to as the "No True Scotsman" fallacy [Strongly correlates with No. 11 & 13] )
B.) "My body my choice" (While true, is often used to justify or rationalise immoral or ignominious actions, sometimes under the guise of "Body positivity" e.g. promiscuity, being scantily clad (on social media), etc. [May correlate with No. 4, 6, 8 & 10. Possibly with No. 12] )
C.) "So you're gay"/ "Just say you're gay.." (Often used as a shaming tactic** , more often than not, as a "retort" or "parting shot" when faced with criticism or when their 'advances/overture' gets turned down * i.e. Saying "no" to their proposal of a date, hookup, etc. [Strongly correlates with No. 11 & No. 25. Possibly No. 17.] Interestingly, it seems some women use this as an 'insult' in spite of being supporters of gay rights; may be a hint of No. 15.
* "When a woman is so used to getting her way, especially a beautiful woman.. it is such a huge blow to her ego and self esteem when a man says no. They refused to just accept that he just wasn't interested. That would be too painful to accept. Instead they have to convince themselves that he likes d#ck."
** "Shaming tactics are emotional devices meant to play on a man's insecurities and shut down debate. They are meant to elicit sympathy for women and to demonize men who ask hard questions."
35. Habit of gossip or stirring up drama (These two may not be mutually exclusive. [May correlate to No. 11, 13, 17, 19 & 33] )
36. Very active in the 'clubbing' scene, (wild) late night parties.
37. Only interested in you when they're being 'ignored' (This could be due to 'indecisiveness' or 'attention-seeking*' [The latter could correlate with No. 6, 10 & 13--when they've gotten the attention, interest will likely dissipate] )
* Attention seekers tend to have certain people around them in order to "satiate" their need for attention--Orbiters; essentially, 'fuel sources' for attention. In a "non-platonic" setting, the orbiter serves as both a fuel source for 'attention' and an 'ego boost' upon 'rejection'.
B.) Interested in you when you're preoccupied with a female (Strongly correlates with No. 12 [Preselection]. Possibly with No. 13 & 18)
38. (Often) accuses you of cheating/ Continually or actively criticizes cheaters (The former may be a defence mechanism often used by cheating partners; projecting their feelings of guilt or shame on you. [Oftens correlates with No. 11 & 18. Possibly with No. 16 & 19]. The latter may be a defence mechanism for "covering their tracks" or to make themselves feel "better" or look "better" (feel superior) after infidelity. [May correlate with No. 15]. Both the former and latter may not be mutually exclusive.)
39. Controlling behaviour ("A controlling person isn't always overtly threatening or aggressive. Sometimes they are emotionally manipulative and acting out of insecurity."- Psychology Today [Correlates with No. 18 & 24. Strongly with 16 & 25. Possibly with No. 11, 17 & 38] )
40. Blame shifting--"People who ruin their lives have a tendency to blame other people when things go wrong." - Daniel G. Amen, MD.
e.g. "I never thought I’d be the type to cheat, but you made me feel so unappreciated.", "If you didn't always make me angry then I wouldn't hit you.”, "You and Dad never modeled a healthy relationship for me. No wonder my marriage fell apart.”
*As a last resort, usually when they’ve been blatantly caught or called out for something they know they did wrong, they use a "Stink bomb" (they throw a completely unfounded, terrible accusation at you e.g. "Well, you abused me.
You hit me
You raped me
You cheated on me
You never loved me
You’re mentally ill
You’re stalking me", etc.)
By sucking you into these arguments, they are consuming your energy and watching you be progressively self-destructive, so they can use your reactions to prove their own points. (“Wow, look how bitter and angry you are!”) and that’s the whole point. The blame is now off of them, and now you’re the one in hot water. Now you readily find yourself fighting to win your case.
J.A.D.E stands for Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain. When it comes to people with Cluster-B personality disorders (antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder), don’t do those things.
You will feel compelled to but don’t. When you try to defend yourself against a false accusation, you legitimize it by even acknowledging it. The only way to respond to these tactics is to stand up and walk away. Just walk away. Silently.
[*Source: themindsjournal.com]
(Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person. [Strongly correlates with No. 11, 17, 19 & 33. Possibly with No. 20 & 26] )
41. Currently or formerly* a se>< worker (Pr#stitutes, stripp#rs**, onlyf#ns "models/content creators", video vixens**, etc.)--while obvious to many, may be unobvious/subtle to some; "No one goes into se>< work because they're well adjusted" in spite of whatever 'rationale' may be used to deem this 'normal', 'healthy', 'empowering' or 'necessary due to circumstances'.
The traumatic and degrading nature of this line of work is (well) known for having adverse effects on mental, emotional and possibly physical health, leading to a slew of psychological problems and toxic (destructive) behaviours.
*A myriad of former workers don't discover, acknowledge and correctly fix their traumas/unresolved issues sustained (before and) after se>< work which damages their ability to form & maintain healthy relationships, though, the few who do genuinely work on themselves are not always exempt from certain consequences e.g. impaired (or lost) ability to 'pair bond'.
"Sex workers are adults who receive money or goods in exchange for consensual sexual services or erotic performances**, either regularly or occasionally."
** "The profession places a high demand on vixen's accessibility to men which gives such men an upper hand to manipulate these ladies into various exploits, notwithstanding the fact that most vixens are willing to be exploited to get more jobs and more favour." e.g. Amber Rose, Blac Chyna, Karrine 'Superhead' Steffans, etc.
(Strongly correlates with No. 10. Very often with No. 26. Possibly with No. 6, 13** & 20)
For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or blac chyna or sumn idk
These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc.
I think observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'looks' or 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect.
Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself.
These are just my observations & opinions and should be held up to scrutiny.
@@Dickson_ I think you should post your first reply as a comment and then then reply to it with your second part, so more people are going to see it.
@@krowleyk Tried it. Gets buried under other comments, probably due to the length..
A former acquaintance of mine was angry that her boyfriend wouldn't marry her until she stopped the alimony she was receiving from her ex husband, I was like how can you expect your new guy to want to wife you up and your still being supported by your ex!?!? The foolishness!!!
Or the real question is why would you want to “wife” someone like that if she clearly is a gold digger…
He's right, why should she get an alimony when she has a boyfriend
@@jeffreymerit6346 i honestly think he tried to give her a chance, to see if she could course-correct, but she failed.
Guy should run. He shouldn't want to marry her.
Technically alimony payments are annulled when you get remarried. But big red flag nonetheless, she belongs to the streets.
Hearing all these stories just breaks my mind in half, and I'm not even living in North America. It seems that in US very few people have some shreds of decency left, for themselves and others.
You're not wrong... I used to be proud of my country, warts and all, but Americans now are too obsessed with "wokeness" and liberal bs to be able to act like adults.
Best way I can describe it? All great empires come to an end... It's America's turn now
Brazil is like this too pal. India as well.
Many people are sick of that here. We are not all like this.
You know what, let's have doctors also present during court proceedings so that we could prove if someone's faking any condition.
The Canadian example of the man who was NOT married to the woman he dated, but was ordered to pay $50,000 a month for 10 years is a better one.
I think i have heard about that, but i forgot, maybe something to remind or search ??
That's why I utterly refuse relationships that aren't casual, our laws are plain stupid.
The worst in my opinion is what happened to Richard Mason. He's a UK millionaire who raised 3 children (thinking they were his) went through a divorce paid the ex 4 million pounds.... Found out he cannot biological have children (cystic fibrosis).
Whenever I tell Canadians that their country isn't all that great they get irate - family courts are the reason Canada is crap to live and marry into.
@@nitsu2947 His name is Michael Latner and they lived in separate homes and had no kids together.
It's revolting how men are blamed and severely punished by everything that happens. Here in Brazil this week a man on a reality show was accused of rape and the other men at the scene were accused of helping with the rape even though no one (not even the accused guy) had abused the woman.
Thats horrible... I hate women and their supporters. Seriously
@@vagabondtracks2598 don't stoop to their level and say things like that. Comments like these will be used against men by feminists.
@@oceancactusrequiem6232 let them use it against men because I didn't said anything wrong. What they are doing to men is worse..
@@vagabondtracks2598 then you're just worsening the problem. I know it sucks but alimony and child support and extortion isn't abolished with some revolution with guns and heros. They're abolished with polite conversation in court rooms. Don't drag the rest of us down by just sounding bloodthirsty
@@oceancactusrequiem6232 The courts won't do shit my friend, men have been trying for ages. Alimony won't end because family courts have an incentive to do this shit as it puts more money in their pocket, it's a loosing battle. The best thing you can do is tell men not to get married or cohabitatie with women (in some countries and states, merely cohabitating with a woman makes her entitled to alimony). Best wishes.
The famous: "She is a woman, she must be telling the truth" "why would she lie?"
It seems like gender discrimination when in islam a womans testimony is only half that of a mans, but I start to see why this is a thing.
@@tarektechmarine8209 Breaking news: Social norms that allowed societies to thrive and prosper did so for a reason. More at 11.
The fact that there is no downside to constantly litigating keeps them coming back. My ex actually laughed at me at one point asking if I'm enjoying having to constantly pay my lawyer. Tried to get her on malicious litigation, but apparently the bar is set so high that I don't think anyone ever gets punished for using the system as a cudgel. Nor is there any punishment when they are found to be lying. Not might be lying, but 100% guilty and provable. It incentivizes the behavior.
Alimony and child support needs to be abolished in 2021 where both parents are qualified and able to work.
Feminism wont allow.
Its a political movement now
In a society where we encouraged and shoved schooling and work on everybody, it's only fair now to get rid of it.
Children are expensive, child support is needed. Your child is your child, it is your obligation by law to take care of them.
@@bellam7546 no it isn’t since most of the time mothers use their kids as chess pieces to get at the father also the amounts that child support are ridiculous sometimes you do not need 600 dollars a month for a kid unless your buying your kid expensive clothing brands every few weeks, also I can assure you most of the child support money single mothers get aren’t used for their child
@@jasonhill2879 I have a new baby only two months, so far I only spend $200 on him a month and even less when I don’t need to get toys/clothes. Diapers and wipes aren’t that much especially if you buy it in bulk. So far my son isn’t as expensive as I was told children are.
She’s sick with laziness. Of course this poor woman needs alimony.
even laziness is more nicer than her.
@@hensontruong3278 Yet she gets marriage. food for thought.
She needs double. I feel bad for her. I should just wife her up and take care of her.
It's a pandemic
@@ideamachine39 and like covid here to stay. if there is ever a time in history where guys HAVE to be humble it is now.
The family courts also take a small percentage of these payments. So that's another reason they keep granting alimony. It's corrupt
They can't publicly publish her health problems, that would be a HIPPA violation
But your the victim, your supposed to make it known. Else, seems like lies. Victimhood requires accountability, like every thing in the world. You wanna keep it private, then nobody will help you. That is the price we all pay for privacy.
What's the point of marriage then you ask?? You're her retirement pension, simple as that.
Don't let her trick you with that "love" bs gentlemen. 👀
Marriage is a scam.
@@rajakghosh6602 and a trap for the cash and prizes
Alimony and child support needs to be abolished in 2021 where both parents are qualified and able to work and take care of children.
So many men get tricked by the love BS. Reality is not a Disney movie gentlemen. I highly recommend that all of you show videos like this to the young men around you. That’s the only way to stop this cycle of male slavery.
@@rajakghosh6602 I cannot believe you have to pay for something that you don't have.
it's like terrorist demands of payments for releasing imaginary family member.
Alimony is one of many reasons why im staying single
You don't have to stay single, you just need to not get married.
For me it's amber heard abusing Johnny Depp that's made me stay away from marriage
@@anthonyamato3729 That was just another nail in the coffin.
@@jeanm.9570 Idk if you get in any relationship I’m sure they can find a way to use it against you with power of gov turning you into a slave
@@jeanm.9570 you purposely forget common marriage laws
To say these injustices are women’s fault only tells half the story, when it’s the top 5% of men as legislators who decide what the bottom 95% of men will endure.
Helga doesnt need alimony, she needs an Oscar award.
They missed a trick:
If she is sick demand she collects the maximum state (both local, state and federal) benefits for the disabled.
Say to the court that she must claim this to show she is genuine.
Collect evidence of her fraud, noone care when the man is the victim but stealing from the government gets prosecutors interested.
Also: name the judges involved. Make them embarrassed for facilitating fraud and being so dumb they got manipulated.
Will do
Smart idea. I like the way you think.
Naming the judges sounds kinda like you are getting into angry mob territory.
"Name the judges, there's totally no angry veteran who just got divorced who will track said judge down and kill them.
@ Cole DiBiase
What are you talking about?
Why is your hypothetical veteran targetting this judge not the one who screwed them over?
No one cares if a guy gets screwed over, but it is really embarrassing in their dinner party circuit if they get duped by someone who would get caught by a low level admin person on a much lower wage.
Failing to dispense justice brings them no shame but being made to look like a mug by your most basic scam artist should.
Yes! ALWAYS name the judges, and the lawyers.
The game is rigged, the only winning move is to NOT play.
Superman needs to dump Lois Lane.
@@seanhornof6705 not a good guarantee mate. Any judge can throw out a prenup. Look it up, it's terrifying stuff.
Truth
Bachelor lifestyle
I love when they all claim to be strong and independent, yelling smash the patriarchy, while depending of a system that makes them also dependent of men.
Family court is an outright extortion racket.
HouseDad has to be the new normal. Women either have to work and contribute half of the budget or she can establish her career and I will stay home with the kids. When she gets home I will complain how tired I am from watching TV all day long and how I need her to be a "real woman" and make more money because she needs to buy me that new F-150 Raptor or I will think she does not love me anymore.
Yes Sir 👍👍😀
Absolutely true
the funny thing slowly it's changing.
Each year less guys participate in education, working minimum hours just to have basics, living with parents and now many opt out from dating too.
@@fireinthenight9028 I wish I would've figured out these things earlier in life. Asking a woman if she would be OK with me being a stay at home dad is a great relationship test. Since so many American ladies claim they are so independent, let them prove it by being a family provider.
@@00_UU well ngl, in our class 90% of the girls there dont know basic house chores and all the males know how. I formed a group of friends whom I share the same interests with. We taught each other and new ones how to bake or cook something, how to clean x, y and many more.
I think you may be right....
We live in a narcissistic society that has taught everyone to worship themselves. A lot of people feel entitled to everything under the sun these days.
Proof Satanists run the show? Satanism is the worship of self after all.
And woman are leading the pack in this regard.
@@rogueboner8138 Satanism is what happens when edgelord doomers take Ayn Rand's philosophy and become accelerationists just because she agreed Karl Marx for saying something along the lines of the downfall of capitalism will he its own s**cide. Yeah, just because the cypercapitalist waifu agreed with a statement made by the hungry hungry Santa Clause, agreement is not endorcement. This was a warning.
I swear, the Church of Satan nowadays is no better than the commies at The Satanic Temple. Please turn in your redpilled card, COS, your based privileges are being revoked. Based Satanism died with Lavey.
@@path4318 The latter thing you mentioned is completely different from the first, and isn’t narcissism. The first description you gave was close. Only missing the fact that the overconfidence is typically extreme, as well as unearned.
"Thats Greg's current wife"
Greg, if you didnt learn your lesson the first time i wont feel bad when it happens the second time.
It's crazy how fast a women will say alimony is bad when its taking money drom her life
Dirty deeds done dirt cheap
Never enter into a contract where the other party is rewarded financially for breaking that contract. And women wonder why men don't want to marry??
The problem is too many men continue to do so. System needs to be starved. Unfortunately there are too many desperate men that continue to feed it.
Marriage is not the problem. The stupid rule is.
Why the hell did he marry again when he's going through this shit?
Betas gonna beta
BAY-DUH
This one appears to be better looking....but still, your question is valid.
Many men are co dependent
@@jaemelancholy1684 no...
One of the first questions you have on the child support questionnaire is "Do you have other children?" If you do then child support can be reduced. Same thing for marriage. Foolish attempt since he can now be flanked but... It was an attempt.
I don’t think I’ll be getting married
This story speaks to my soul. I was divorced in CO in 2014 and I'm still paying my ex $1300 a month. 9 years, half the time of my marriage! Divorce court in CO is punishment for men and nothing more . She now has a bachelor's degree and I don't, I'm still paying till the end of 2022.
why you have to pay?
There is no reason for a sane man to marry
@Millennial Smark yes, recently settled for a lump sum at a reduced amount of the original order.
Thank you for tallying up the air time between Greg and his wife. More people need to know how gynocentric our media and society is.
Society rather tell a man to get a second job then to tell a woman to look for a job.
It's disgusting, and honestly, I'm sick of it.
@@Grizzly_Adams. And then a 3rd job, then a 4th one, then a 5th one, then a 6th one, & then tell him to kill himself.
Media is because it's largely women watching/consuming most of it.
even if a man cheats on you and shatters your heart to pieces, you still don’t deserve a check from him every month for a decade
Ya know it came to me the other day that before entering into a relationship, why not draw up a contract that states if either party cheats they have to pay the party cheated on? And make the amount steep, and non-dischargeable in a bankruptcy. That way every time they think about cheating, those dollar signs flash before their eyes. I am seriously going to do this with the next one.
Oh, you don’t want to sign? What’s your sister’s phone number again?
@@chinookwinds7967 probably not worth the paper the clause is written on. Kinda like pre-nups in many places.
Nice idea though.
I was just thinking about that, I agree, 10 years is alot, too much, but Id be okay with 2 years, specialy if it gave the other part stds, I also agree with that you should always marry woth prenup no matter what, (why would you let strangers decide for you both?) one where its fair for both partys including cheating. Just so that the other party might prefer to file for divorce than to cheat first. As a women my concern personaly is that I do NOT want any stds, as they usually have more negative syptoms for us then in man because of our genatelia nor do I consent to put my health on jeopardy from stds when I chose to marry someone. In these kinds of events it should be compensated and considered during the divions in divorce, not as part of alimony, for me 2 years is tops depending how they betrayed you and what negative effects it had in ur life. Lets say not the same after 1 or 2 years marriage vs after 10, 15, 20. Also one time isnt the same as having a mistress. My 2 cents.
@@chinookwinds7967 That wouldn't work. Any contract with a woman is worthless in court. Just look at prenups. They are thrown out almost every single time when the woman contest it.
The solution is simple, stay away from Western women.
Imagine you quit your job and still collected the checks, and after ten years you took them to court demanding a raise because your health had declined.
Imagine said job didn't even have any mandatory stipulations in regards to labor, ie. you can sit on your ass and watch opera all day and there's nothing the employer could do about it. If he attempted to, you can accuse him of assault and potentially him put in prison or restraining order.
If she divorces her husband, why should he pay for her lifestyle she’s accustomed to , she obviously didn’t like the lifestyle he provided.
Equal rights means they need to support themselves just like men do.
Weird that equal rights without equal responsabilities.
Simple we should not get married at all other wise this will happen
not equal rights so much as equal responsibilities, but yeah, you're right.
And to think there’s actually people who believe we live in male dominated patriarchy……
It is cognitive dissonance or simply mendaciousness. Perhaps both.
a patriarchy wouldn't allow this buffoonery.
"how long someone should continue supporting an ex"
The conversation should end right there.
NONE.
"Do not appease bullies and abusers, even if you lose the fight your goal is to make their victory so painful that they would think twice before ever abusing you again." TBYS
All of this money gets funneled through the courts. They get a piece of this too.
I once read an Article about why Men don't get Married and how make it "Fair", Guess what? It said "Maybe if Risks were equally distributed between sexes"... I could not believe It, "Maybe"?, "MAYBE"?, and that's not the worst, It said that change Will happen if "Men, Women and the government work together"
unbelievable
you must be a time traveler, because that article seems like something that might be printed 50 years in the future, not now.
@@heedmywarning2792 damn that's a dank take!
Too many men are still making the mistake of signing their lives away to the government and a woman that will likely use them as a golden parachute onto the next one or use the threat of financial ruin to force them to stay in a sexless loveless marriage while providing them the money they spend frivolously, and we are supposed to believe these broken men are the lucky ones.
I'm so glad I wasn't stupid enough to get married and have children. The man becomes a wage slave with marriage, divorce, and the bills he has to pay.
my question is: since women are completely in support of this, should we as men just leave this entire dating/society scene? this isn't dumb this is evil. purposeful evil.
Men should not just be citizens but active citizens being an active part in their gov's "institutions" worldwide; no existing degenerate "deemocracy"/"republic"/"other type of gov" cares about its citizens and especially men for at least a few hundred years now...
@@balddate3142 unfortunately, many men do not fight against the onslaught of feminist evangelizing since it is such a good defense tool. Any push for men’s advocacy comes with an assumption that men hate women. That’s why you don’t see men fight impossible situations. They just leave. I argued I was a human being and was called sexist for it.
Also many women look for power assuming that men do not support them when in actuality, women do not support men. Hence the high rates of male abandonment in a society that is pro female. This is the general trend/ truth :
Men in power generally help men and women.
Women in power generally help women first and only.
@@jacqueslohier2710 I will have to agree with you based on my past experiences
Never getting married so it doesn't apply but alimony is nonsense. Like an employer playing an employee for years after they quit/were fired.
In some places, you don't even need to get married
@@craigkelleher5715 can you explain further?
@@garybrown2039 In Canada for example, it is in the law that the couple need not be married for the man to be forced to pay the woman after dissolution of the relationship.
@@Ergeniz but didn’t the other guy say there are some examples of it happening to unmarried people?
@@garybrown2039 ...I just said that?
And then people wonder why men don't want to get married.
Can you link me your profile pic plz
@@Jojo_D_Northstar I made it myself. The original is on my PC at home. I'll try to get back to you in the evening.
My ex wife left me for another man a few years ago. She even came clean about it, had it in text messages. I called the DA just to see what they would say, and what do you know, a woman answered and after telling her what i had, she told me I would need pictures of them together. A text message of her admitting to it was not enough.
Do you think if the tables was turned she would need any of that? I like to think not.
Pay a private detective to observe her
Update: After this aired the Ex called the News Channel and claimed she never said she was too sick to work, obviously this hurts her case, after that the Ex stopped asking for Alimony and the couple said they no longer have to pay her and there will be zero contact with her. The News Channel also claimed they where asked to testify at a court hearing but the case was resolved before they had to.
Seeing the marriage rate lower and lower every year brings me so much joy
Me too hope they abolish the stupid scam.
Victory by mutual destruction is still destruction.
I never got the argument "she learned to live in those condition, so he has to still provide her with the same lifestyle as in the marriage", If I got laid during the start of the relationship and first few months of the marriage, so does she owe me sex after divorce on the monthly payments- HMMMMMMMMMM
Damn right.
Yes
Not only sex but she should be expected to be in the same shape as when you first married.
Full-grown woman: *takes 14 years to find a job*
15y/o me: *finds work within 2 weeks after being fired from last*
One correction to the statement that the cost of living in Colorado is not that high. The Starbucks shown in the video is at the university village shopping center on N. Nevada ave. Apartments in that area are 1,400-1,600 a month. 5 years ago a one bedroom within walking distance of that shopping center was $845 a month. Colorado Springs is not as expensive as Denver but it’s still expensive to live there.
Over 90k over 9 year period, with that money I could got to college/uni and get a job within 2 years after college/uni which would get me a salary of at least 90k.
Not to mention plenty left over + investment.
The American family court system is an obscenity
There is a good documentary about it, called 'Divorce Corp.'
@@user-zt3vr3hs7u Yup, its a racket/ponzi scheme. This combined with gynocentrism/female bias means any man getting married is a fool at best.
All western court system.
Well, Indian family court system is no better.
Sir, I don't know if you read comments, but I would like you to know that I have just watched about 50 of your videos and I don't have words to describe how much you are helping me. Thank you so so so much.
They don't even have any kids together! Despicable...
My mom gets alimony from my dad until the day one of them dies. They divorced when I was 11, I'm currently 31 and the youngest child. My mom also works and is remarried.
REMARRIED!????
Get me the President; I'm going to recommend a nuclear strike.
alimony is supposed to end when the spouse gets remarried.
@@imzjustplayin he's right look into it.
@@imzjustplayin just going by what my dad has told me.
What state did the divorce happen in? Alimony should stop when the ex--wife remarries. Unless 1) your dad was his own lawyer or 2) his lawyer was a fool.
I wish I could get 100K for doing absolutely nothing to help my society
Fuck!!! I have watched multiple videos of yours and have wanted to not like you but you keep spitting out rational thought after rational thought. Damn you, had to subscribe.
That's the primary reason why Helga is taking them to Family Court, there is no prison time for perjury.
She’s got atleast 3 pet dogs. I’ve never understood why people who supposedly have money problems continue to keep pets that they can’t afford or properly care for. If she’s really as “sickly” as she claims to be, then she’s not gonna be able to take care of those pets adequately.. especially if she’s single, which I’m sure she is, otherwise why does she need money from her ex-husband?? Plus, how much money do you think she’s spending to keep 3 dogs fed?? Plus vet-visits, and other expenses that come with having pets.. pets are a luxury, not a necessity.. and if you go off of what SHE HERSELF is saying, she’s not fit to take care of them.
Edit: also the cost of living in Colorado has gone up a lot since 2013, not that it should make a difference..
This right here. I got my childhood dog back when I was in my early 20s and I could barely afford a sack of dog food. I worried I couldn't feed her. So yeah this example with 3 pets is apt.
I think it's a form of hoarding with the multiple pets thing. That, and she's covered in tattoos are major red flags. And all it took was about 15 seconds of video.
It's cute that you think these people care about their pets.
@@malcolmapplet4313 I agree completely!! I have an aunt who has “collected” everything from dogs, to cats, to rabbits, to snakes, and I believe she developed her (surprise, surprise-she/her) animal hoarding problem because she had trauma that was un-dealt-with, and she used animals as little “love-hostages” like TBYS had mentioned.. she was also very obese until recently (guess how she lost the weight? Not hard work, but surgery.. we’ll see how long it lasts) and my grandmother (her mom, and my mom’s mom) has a severe hoarding problem (although her hoarding is more “objects” rather than animals like my aunt, and it’s not “filth” necessarily but just mounds of items she doesn’t and will never use or need..(which also came from trauma, I think her dad died when her and her siblings were young and they didn’t have much, so she’s afraid to throw stuff away) but anyways, s it any surprise that my own mom ended up having substance abuse problems (which is a different kind of addiction, but hoarding and drugs are both addictions that come from trauma) and I myself regrettably also suffered from substance abuse issues throughout my adolescence and early adulthood.. and my little sister, although not a substance abuser or an animal hoarder, ended up having other “escapism” issues just like the rest of us..
It all comes from a cycle of trauma..
and mine and my moms issues are very recognizable.. however it’s harder to convince a person who hordes that they have a problem… whereas with drugs the problem is fairly obvious, hoarders have their own crazy justifications for things.
One things for sure, I try really hard to recognize all the dysfunctional stuff my family does and not fall victim to the same habits!!
My sister does the same shit. She gets pets when she can’t afford them , one of her dogs even died from parvo because she didn’t take it to the vet
Married 20 years in ca she left I have to pay for life. I knew this when I got married we need to teach our young boys
Same
But but but... She's different smh
You knew it...yet you still got married? Please explain.
@@Ergeniz Any semi intelligent man knows he's taking a big risk but when your at the early stages of the relationship you convince yourself she'd never do you like that. Then a bunch of time passes and...
@@seancutler6712 In other words, arrogance.
Such a messed up place we live in. Smh.
That first statement got me. " I need my house cleaned and dinner made a few times a week do I can get back on my feet" . More true than people will admit. You get my money and I get nothing? Gtf outta here
Be 2:00am
Me: Welp time to sleep
Also Me: *Sees notification*
Me yet again: Sleep is for the weak, it is time *to think*
now you may go to sleep.
@@logicnorespond7100 Thank you for granting me permission to sleep
east coast?
@@nevergivingup3434 Ye, it’s 2:39am rn
The judges and lawyers are to blame for all this insanity.
Unfortunately somebody has to do it ,
Divorce court is a lucrative business
All of them (the judges & lawyers that defend alimony/spousal support) are gynocentric simps
@@jamieA7Xfan90 the judges are simps. But they lawyers do it to extrapolate money from both parties as much as possible
And yet the majority of people in the law field are men. It makes no sense.
I think we’re due for another 40 minute video 🥺👀👉👈 Love your content! It has totally helped me see the light on the feminist movement seeping into society.
Great video! Truly sickening what some people will do.
We seriously need to start teaching people how to live a healthy life. We've got so many old people that live a long time with crazy illnesses that it's gonna drive society into oblivion. I'm 20, and If I don't change my lifestyle it's likely for me to end up sitting in bed by 50. That's no life.
We do, we always have, people just ignore the advice and don't live healthy, as is their right, some people...well, most people actually can also contract some crazy illnesses regardless of lifestyle, you get older and your body starts to break down and become vulnerable to disease and chronic illness, that's not necessarily all lifestyle it's just age, yeah lifestyle can help fend it off for a little longer but time gets everyone in the end
The time to act is right now, man. I'm right there with you.
@@CovProdJV if health is not taught in school from the first grade there will be so many young people that fall for stupid products that damage their physical and mental health. From what I've experienced, it seems like a lot of people develop a resistance to dumb things as they grow. It's not a healthy growth tho.
@@bigzed7908 and its happening alll round the world
@@robbenvanpersie1562 where? That's why obesity is skyrocketing? It may happen, but there isn't that much focus put on it.
Can’t remember what it’s from but I remember someone asking
“What should she get after a divorce”
They replied
“...a job”
I still think about that frequently
It was also Jay Culter's response to his ex-wife wanting $5 million to buy a mansion.
“Strong Independent Woman” is a phrase thrown around a lot these days...
You call it a phrase, I call it an oxymoron.
@@jasondyrkacz8270 Like peace keeper missles or jumbo shrimp.
At that point, just stop paying and move.
It is, 1am, sure. I'll think a little bit before bed, I'm always down for a little bit of anti-left agenda.
It’s 11:38 am for me
@@justsomeindianwholikesanim8564 I'm ten minutes behind you
Thanks Based Lelouch
The biggest issue with alimony is if they really need a loan to get off their feet. Then if anyone should give them money it should be the government. It already pays so much for unemployment, so why not this.
Women want to be strong and independent while being supported
For people like her I just want to ask an honest question. “How is a man like me greedy for not wanting to pay for an expensive lifestyle of yours when I’m not interested in it and it’s my money to begin with, but you’re not willing to even pay as much as a dime for it and expect me to pay everything and that’s not called greed”?
These days at 50 I wipe my forehead in relief for not getting married or cohabitating.
I'd be willing to bet his current wife is just mad because the money he's giving to his ex he's not spending on her.
Oof
Well, she should be
Devil's advocate: she's mad because the money is flowing out of the family instead of reinvesting back into them.
Agree, she was putting on her own little act with her crocodile tears....she wants to quit work too.
Yes she probably is. And?
Keep doing this good work. Thanks-a-million!
Man I absolutely love your videos, this one was probably one of your best works imo