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  • @destinyalexander7499
    @destinyalexander7499 5 років тому +833

    So I really want to give you guys props for taking Abbie to Target with two people. I was in Costco today because I had to be and there was this mom who was struggling with her daughter and I walked over and started interacting with this little girl because her mom was crying. I asked permission first and after we walked about the store and listen to music till her mom finished shopping her mom told me she had autism and she could not find a sitter. She asked me why I did not look away or say things under my breath like most people do and I told her about my brother but I also brought up your channel and she started crying more. Apparently you have met her and she was surprised that you guys touched my heart so much to help a parent who was in need of help. I never knew she had autism but seeing how people react to you guys in public made me realize you don't know what's going on in that house and if you spread joy and love around it comes around. Thank you so much for inspiring me and teaching me to do right by others not by myself. Best life lesson and I just learned it at the age of 22

    • @amyelizabethscraftcorner
      @amyelizabethscraftcorner 5 років тому +27

      Destiny Alexander that's awesome. thank you for sharing

    • @janicejeandron7239
      @janicejeandron7239 5 років тому +59

      You’re nicer than the lady that walked up to my daughter who was having a tantrum for a candy bar. She told my little girl that she was bad and I needed to take her home and discipline her. She kept saying kids now a days control the parents. I finally said lady my daughter doesn’t control me. If she did I would have bought the candy. She was like I’m trying to help you. Umm how? By pointing out how horrible of a mom I am and how bad my daughter is. I said my daughter is not bad she is learning.

    • @melissaz1471
      @melissaz1471 5 років тому +7

      Awww @Destiny Alexander keep being awesome!! ❤

    • @LaurelAlyson
      @LaurelAlyson 5 років тому +2

      Destiny Alexander I love this so much ❤️

    • @jimmyd2938
      @jimmyd2938 5 років тому +3

      Destiny Alexander Amazing spreading love and acceptance

  • @taratbd
    @taratbd 5 років тому +230

    Abbie is sooooooo cute!! When she kept taking the purse off until Mom told her she was a big girl and instantly Abbie put the purse back on because she understood! Her sweet smiles honestly make my day

    • @isaac-li4kk
      @isaac-li4kk 5 років тому +18

      ​@@noneyodavis7590 She is cute. There are people who look and/or act cute no matter how old they are, even some who are well into adulthood. Also quite a few viewers of this channel seem to have experience as babysitters, teachers, teacher's aids, etc. and I believe it's quite common for people who work with children/young teens to find their mannerisms "cute". It's not demeaning to call someone cute.

    • @saskiase8090
      @saskiase8090 5 років тому +2

      @@noneyodavis7590 the word cute is not only for little kids. :0
      edit: Even some adults call each other cute and like to be called cute. And some don't like it. Let people do what they want ^_^

    • @amyj4106
      @amyj4106 5 років тому

      nicole davis ditto

    • @karinarocha5169
      @karinarocha5169 5 років тому +2

      nicole davis her parents say “she’s so cute” ALL the time!! So what’s the big deal? When someone does something cute, we say “you’re so cute” regardless of what age.

    • @dothedo3667
      @dothedo3667 5 років тому +6

      @@noneyodavis7590 when someone's being a cheeky little monkey or do something adorable or innocent they get called cute no matter the age. Adults, teen, seniors, children, everyone.

  • @JasperisCasper
    @JasperisCasper 5 років тому +220

    She seems so happy about the purse! (After you got the crinkly plastic off)

    • @cutiepie2108
      @cutiepie2108 5 років тому +5

      Yeh I could kinda tell she didn't like the plastic 🤔🤔

  • @susanhillard6190
    @susanhillard6190 5 років тому +3

    I LOVED that Abbie looked at her Mom square in the eyes and responded so clearly to "We have to do this. You're a big girl now so you have to act like a big girl." She is really advancing. It's so noticeable when you watch the older videos.

  • @haleyadkins7723
    @haleyadkins7723 5 років тому +63

    She is such a “typical” teen! It’s hilarious! The way she yawned and then put the glasses on just to appease Priscilla cracked me up.

  • @dominiquegonzales5463
    @dominiquegonzales5463 5 років тому +61

    Seeing how happy Abbie was to get in the car and go cruising with her brother made my day.

  • @inzer004
    @inzer004 5 років тому +66

    Her evil little giggle at the beginning owned me! Such a ham! 😍😍😍

  • @ann-mariebaker990
    @ann-mariebaker990 5 років тому +127

    I was waiting on this video to come out. This is my target that a work at. I was there that day and heard a Abby stem. I was so excited. I said hi from a distance. You guys made my week.

  • @Elvisfan2026
    @Elvisfan2026 5 років тому +85

    Abby is doing so well I am proud of her progress

  • @amberheimbach7492
    @amberheimbach7492 5 років тому +64

    I love how Abby reacts to music. She's so into it.

  • @megangunther86
    @megangunther86 5 років тому +16

    Anyone else pause, grab headphones, rewind and then experience it? Pretty awesome. Hearing Abbie stomp around, it was really really cool.

    • @fujoshipeanut5074
      @fujoshipeanut5074 5 років тому

      I was wondering what on earth Isaiah was going on about until I put on headphones 😂😂

    • @jolenejohnson8924
      @jolenejohnson8924 5 років тому

      Yes, it was amazing!

  • @andreagallardo2139
    @andreagallardo2139 5 років тому +45

    The amount of cuteness in this video!!!!!

  • @susan7757
    @susan7757 5 років тому +30

    Abbie has the sweetest smile. She loves her mom and dad.

  • @roseanngable1894
    @roseanngable1894 5 років тому +109

    That girl is so smart. She sure does love Isaiah. And vice versa

  • @hriiyizhuosiikruna9889
    @hriiyizhuosiikruna9889 5 років тому +10

    She's beautiful when she smiles in front of the camera!!

  • @kbutler7692
    @kbutler7692 5 років тому +52

    That Mischievous smile & laugh♡ Love that sweet girl!!

  • @Wolfstar26
    @Wolfstar26 5 років тому +7

    abbie jamming to hip hop is always my FAVOURITE

  • @enbybus3840
    @enbybus3840 5 років тому +21

    She seems to be making so much progress with communication and it's awesome. As always, you're all awesome

  • @tamradennis8887
    @tamradennis8887 5 років тому +8

    Her smile is so beautiful and contagious everytime she smile I find myself smiling

  • @dawnmiller7450
    @dawnmiller7450 5 років тому +1

    Can we just appreciate Abbies smile and how it literally makes you smile. And of course Isiah and his handsome self!!! Amazing kids you and Cilla have raised.

  • @jadeseven724
    @jadeseven724 5 років тому +18

    Love the stereo mic... It was really neat to hear Abbie and feel like she was walking around behind me while you were talking. It felt so real that I wanted to turn and look for her!

  • @apriljewell7450
    @apriljewell7450 4 роки тому +2

    When she smiles, those dimples!! And you guys are amazing parents!!

  • @NickieFireUp
    @NickieFireUp 5 років тому +11

    Abby is so happy when she buys her purse it makes me thrilled for her

  • @BellaBoosLunches
    @BellaBoosLunches 5 років тому +5

    I had such a proud mom moment with the purse. My daughter has SPD and she commented she wouldn't like that plastic stuff on the strap either😆
    Oh Abbie you are going to do great! 💕

  • @madelynsudak7510
    @madelynsudak7510 5 років тому +10

    Oh my goodness! That was seriously the sweetest trip I’ve seen. She wore her purse and everything! This makes me so excited to see how her shopping trip goes! Please keep us updated!

  • @imogenlily-anne7998
    @imogenlily-anne7998 4 роки тому +2

    8:57 abby looked so happy when asa mentioned snacks! Also abby's face when asa said that she couldn't raid her lunch before school! This video in particular made my day! Ilysm!

  • @mariaelliott706
    @mariaelliott706 5 років тому +15

    The sound from the butterfly 🦋 was awesome.

  • @alyssahenson2899
    @alyssahenson2899 5 років тому +1

    I have to give to affirmations to Isaiah! You guys have raised an extraordinary young man! Even in the earlier videos, his maturity and respect for you guys is a beautiful thing to watch!! And the way he interacts with abbey 😍😍😍 way to go mom and dad! You are awesome Isaiah!!!

  • @leam7018
    @leam7018 5 років тому +6

    Asa: yep you're a big girl but I still love it when you reach out and hold my hand. Abbie's such a daddy's girl and I love it. Melts my heart when she hugs and smiles at you. Especially when she wants something lol

  • @lauriewilliams8627
    @lauriewilliams8627 5 років тому +1

    If Abby doesn't warm your heart and make you smile.....you are not human she is without a doubt a very special young lady. Not because of her autism but in spite of it. I just love watching your family dynamics. "Special".

  • @kristenkelley8285
    @kristenkelley8285 5 років тому +14

    She is too cute!! She was so excited about her new purse & wallet! 😊💙

  • @veelmimis
    @veelmimis 5 років тому +2

    I loved the sound effect. It sounded as if Abby was in my livingroom. Awesome!

  • @x4ggravatex
    @x4ggravatex 4 роки тому +3

    I swear I love this channel so much! You guys care for Abbie so well! Keep it up!

  • @samanthaporter6662
    @samanthaporter6662 4 роки тому +1

    Isaiah is such a wonderful young man, he is going to grow up to be the most amazing person!

  • @hollymiller836
    @hollymiller836 5 років тому +14

    I just love your family! You are raising 2 amazing kids and I think you guys are such an inspiration! Love from Ohio!

  • @BellaSelvaggio27
    @BellaSelvaggio27 5 років тому +1

    Isaiah is the best! She literally loves her big brother so much! It's so sweet to see them together!

  • @lindafoster2141
    @lindafoster2141 5 років тому +4

    Great video. I have seen the progress of Abigail. So amazing how much she has learned. Thank you for allowing us to be on this journey. Love being a member. Love from Indiana!

  • @suzzeehall6664
    @suzzeehall6664 5 років тому

    Abbie's smile and laugh as she paid for her items was so gorgeous. I don't think I have ever seen her so excited. And yes Asa butterflies as amazing. I love going into butterfly houses and having them land on you. It is an amazing feeling

  • @TanyaElisabeth
    @TanyaElisabeth 5 років тому +13

    I can hear the difference without headphones. It’s awesome.

  • @lynnakey2726
    @lynnakey2726 2 роки тому

    Abbys face was priceless, when she walked out of the store with her new purse! Love your fam 💜

  • @dasha12cats
    @dasha12cats 5 років тому +8

    She’s so pretty 🥺

  • @EMILIE05
    @EMILIE05 5 років тому +1

    Abbie wearing that purse, yawning, and trying to put those sunglasses on is such a mood. I’m so proud of that sweet little lady!

  • @tristaevans7265
    @tristaevans7265 5 років тому +4

    Abbie putting the sunnies on in Target. Oh my heart!! Love you guys so much 😘😘😘

  • @kellystar6733
    @kellystar6733 5 років тому

    This house is soooo old school. The set up is all about being around the family. Kitchen over looking living room, bedrooms all together, nice dining area and the entire house has flow.... all rooms lead easily into others, makes it feel open. The outside guest/pool rooms off the covered patio area. The pool can be seen from many rooms....and the trees, flower trees and bushes between the house and wall is very simple and beautiful.

  • @yaminogame7805
    @yaminogame7805 5 років тому +38

    I have sensory issues and am going to school for video and audio editing. I'd love to help if I can.

  • @eleanorramirez456
    @eleanorramirez456 Рік тому

    She is just such a beautiful young lady I swear it’s like I’m a part of the family awesome seeing you all and her grow

  • @stegfam4992
    @stegfam4992 5 років тому +54

    Pertaining to Abbie's debit card.... Do Not get a green dot card!! They are the worst. I work for Dollar General and I have SSSOOOO many issues with those cards! I would recommend a my vanilla card or the American express card. The only hold up with AE is that not as many places accept it. But seriously don't get Green Dot! ❤ y'all!

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  5 років тому +11

      We got her Greenlight, not Green Dot

    • @izz_hat
      @izz_hat 5 років тому +2

      FatheringAutism how do you like the Greenlight card? I’m thinking about getting my 9 year old one so I can load his allowance on there.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  5 років тому +4

      Jennifer Courtwright We don’t have it yet. The app is pretty easy to use. We will let you know how it goes.

  • @sharonplant4102
    @sharonplant4102 5 років тому

    You can see how much she loves her brother it shows in her face bless.

  • @WikkidVyxen
    @WikkidVyxen 5 років тому +7

    Ohhhhhh!!!!! I loved the Target segment!! I had the biggest smile.
    Asa, I think your idea and your project is amazing. I'm not certain what you're looking for but would love to help out if you need me!

  • @allifairm
    @allifairm 4 роки тому

    I love this video and how you took her shopping at Target. She was so happy to pay and get her purchase. You guys are super great and dedicated parents. And Abbie I just love you and who you are.

  • @emilyspaulding3089
    @emilyspaulding3089 5 років тому +13

    You should get Abby a cash app card you download the app and then they send a card for free. I love when she jams out to music it’s so cute and you can tell she’s so happy

  • @jenniferfrank342
    @jenniferfrank342 5 років тому

    Driving home with Isiah was the happiest that I have ever seen little Ms. Abbie! I loved watching her rock out!

  • @eeeeemeeee9047
    @eeeeemeeee9047 5 років тому +29

    My son earned his own money last weekend hauling brush for the neighbor. He earned a dollar per load!! I got so tickled watching him carefully going over what he was going to spend it on.....but then he crammed it in the back of his underwear drawer with the rest of his money he refuses to spend 😂

    • @margotalmanzar5210
      @margotalmanzar5210 5 років тому +5

      Emily Hale I was like that’s as a kid! I never spent any money I got from Christmas or birthdays it got to the point my parents would ask to borrow money off of me 😂😂 It’s funny thinking about it now because they were essentially asking me for their money back 😂

  • @daddydockor7646
    @daddydockor7646 4 роки тому

    I like that even tho you can tell she can never be truly fully independent. Your giving her the chance to be at least somewhat independent.
    Like. Youll allowing her to do what she can! Its so amazing to watch this! How you talk to her anf understand! I love it!

  • @alexh3369
    @alexh3369 5 років тому +29

    I think Abbie wants a dance party in the living room with Isaiah !!

  • @callmeoniep01
    @callmeoniep01 5 років тому

    You can see how much she loves her big brother in the way she looks at him.. what an awesome bond to have

  • @mellyluvsdawg1524
    @mellyluvsdawg1524 5 років тому +24

    Butterflies appear when loved ones are near. Xoxox

    • @odesseyhaynes7015
      @odesseyhaynes7015 3 роки тому

      My mother that has passed away visits me through butterflies 💜💚💜

  • @StephanieVendrell
    @StephanieVendrell 5 років тому

    I’ve been a subscriber for a few months and it has become my daily routine now to watch your vlog every night before bed. I don’t have autism in my family but we have plenty of other issues including Alzheimer’s. It is somehow reassuring to me to see how a family copes, you guys are inspiring and give me hope that any and all struggles can be managed with love, hope and determination. I have no idea if you ever get through all the comments you get on all your posts but thought I would put a note of thanks out there from a big supporter. Love to Abbie and all of you.

  • @LoreEclectic
    @LoreEclectic 5 років тому +38

    That's the first time I've seen Abbie put on glasses without being prompted!

    • @madipitkin
      @madipitkin 5 років тому

      Laura Beth me too!

    • @dothedo3667
      @dothedo3667 5 років тому +3

      She did it in a video where they were showing gifts they received. _That's_ when I said the same exact comment, haha.

  • @lauraharmon6816
    @lauraharmon6816 5 років тому

    Wow Abbie was such a teenager today. The smirk in the morning about being up, and excited about her new purse , rocking out with her brother.. fighting with her brother.. it’s so cool to see how much she was is processing just from when I started watching.. also amazing editing today especially the butterfly Asa!

  • @Astrumplayez
    @Astrumplayez 5 років тому +15

    She loves her brother so much, she took him out of the vlog. Lol

  • @naikarivera-deutsch92
    @naikarivera-deutsch92 5 років тому

    I love the butterfly shot. Beautiful! I always stop to watch them fly and land on flowers in my front flower beds to eat. Thank you for sharing. There is beauty everywhere we look.

  • @heatherbarrett48
    @heatherbarrett48 5 років тому +12

    Love the new headphone things! I only listen to the vlog with headphones, love the idea.

  • @mel9001
    @mel9001 5 років тому

    You just see she’s a cheeky one by the sparkle in her eyes. Abbie brightens up my day every time i watch! Awesome family ❤️

  • @jenniferdweik5962
    @jenniferdweik5962 5 років тому +4

    Laughing my buns off! A: should we tell him she's loud today? P: he'll figure it out!!!! Lol. Love Abbie's energy ❤️ interesting to realize sounds with sensory issues. I never thought of that.

  • @ameliasimpson8733
    @ameliasimpson8733 5 років тому +2

    I have been binge watching your videos for so long now that I am dreaming about Abby!!!!
    I wanted to say thank so much for being open to sharing your life with us. Not only does it bring so much joy but it also provides incredible insight into the wonderful world of Autism as well as it's struggles.
    Also Abby's smile is infectious

  • @GeekyChic
    @GeekyChic 4 роки тому +13

    Abbie: puts up the sign for bathroom
    Dad: "then go to the bathroom?!"

  • @seifalah0626
    @seifalah0626 5 років тому

    Love seeing Abbie's personality shining through. You can see the smirks, the laughter, the silliness, everything!!

  • @ChelseeLeigh333
    @ChelseeLeigh333 5 років тому +3

    When Abby was stomping around I looked “toward the sound” it was trippy.

  • @yepsowhat
    @yepsowhat 5 років тому +2

    I love the mischievous eyes with her beautiful smile!! My favorite part of your videos! Well, and Cillas laugh!

  • @Chinadollsavvy
    @Chinadollsavvy 5 років тому +8

    Abby dancing to the rap music is the funniest & cutest thing ever 😂

  • @qinqinxu2193
    @qinqinxu2193 4 роки тому

    Abbie is blessed to have such great parents and brother ! Love you , pretty girl ! 😘

  • @davinashaffer5822
    @davinashaffer5822 5 років тому +16

    Aww great choice in ur purse Abbie, crossbody is the way to go, can hold more stuff like candy n clothes, n green great fall color.
    Abbie is so excited to be with her brother, Isiah ur an great brother.

    • @jessicamcwilliams3346
      @jessicamcwilliams3346 5 років тому +1

      Its also harder to lose or leave some where and harder for someone to steal from your bag! I love cross body bags.

    • @davinashaffer5822
      @davinashaffer5822 5 років тому

      @@jessicamcwilliams3346 agree luv crossbody for any age.

    • @Lithostoic
      @Lithostoic 5 років тому +1

      I agree, crossbody is my favorite!

  • @JosieEllaFaith
    @JosieEllaFaith 5 років тому +1

    I love seeing Abbie so happy ❤ Her communication really is getting more pronounced, so amazing!

  • @amymarie8169
    @amymarie8169 5 років тому +3

    That smile that Abby has in the beginning of the video.

  • @rae7864
    @rae7864 5 років тому +1

    You are such a great family, such awesome parents. I miss my parents alot... they overdosed last year a week before my 20th birthday.. So watching your guys family makes me so happy... Makes me feel like a part of a family !🍁 Love from canada 🍁

  • @whitneyr3870
    @whitneyr3870 5 років тому +6

    I can hear the effect on my iPad without the headphones. Love the vlog.

  • @amanda3963
    @amanda3963 5 років тому

    That cheeky smile at the beginning had already just made the ending of my day so much better. I love sitting in bed waiting for my kids to fall asleep and watching the vlogs.

  • @ruby5569
    @ruby5569 5 років тому +3

    Oh my gosh I LOOOOVVVVEEEE the brother and autism time so cute and fun!

  • @alexandracscott5400
    @alexandracscott5400 5 років тому +2

    Really appreciate this channel and how open your family is. Continuing to send you guys blessings

  • @karenthegrilledcheese
    @karenthegrilledcheese 5 років тому +6

    She has the purest smile I have ever seen 💖💖

  • @Kate-ro5qd
    @Kate-ro5qd 5 років тому

    Abbie has the most BEAUTIFUL smile!!!

  • @BabyJoeEcho2009
    @BabyJoeEcho2009 5 років тому +35

    Just randomly wore headphones for this video, cam anyone else here/feel abby walk?

    • @Justaroundtheriverbend
      @Justaroundtheriverbend 5 років тому +9

      Yes and it scared me so much the first time I heard the stomping. 😂

  • @kirstygibson224
    @kirstygibson224 5 років тому +1

    I love that idea of doing a video like that I may have autism myself so think it's great to let people see what we experience and how frightening and hard it can be

  • @MargaretHill65_
    @MargaretHill65_ 5 років тому +3

    I was just looking though Walmart Christmas and they have a lot of the outfits that Abbie sleeps in ! I seen you on a video that they are hard to find ! So many cute ones too !! Just thought I let you know !!

  • @erinwells7782
    @erinwells7782 5 років тому +1

    I love how you guys always emphasize Abbie’s beautiful and sassy personality. She’s a total queen and she knows it 👸🏻

  • @tayloreacker3969
    @tayloreacker3969 5 років тому +3

    Cilla, I want a present!!! LOL I adore ur whole family!! ♥️ U guys always can put a smile on my face!! ♥️♥️, Love from Idaho!

  • @glendar2182
    @glendar2182 5 років тому

    How precious is this video of a brother and his sister spending quality time together. You guys have raised an awesome son who is remarkable with his special needs sister. Tell “The King” he wears his “brother” crown so well. What a Blessing! Abby looks beautiful, and I am so proud of her as she continues to learn new things. Daphne, Alabama loves you guys..

  • @megangunther86
    @megangunther86 5 років тому +8

    That butterfly footage A+ NatGeo approved.

  • @rickymark3552
    @rickymark3552 5 років тому

    Beautiful daughter beautiful mom beautiful dad wish all of you in happiness😄

  • @kimberlyandrus5174
    @kimberlyandrus5174 5 років тому +8

    Asa: You can’t raid hour lunch before school.
    Abbie: Uhh yes I can daddy. 😂

  • @brittneyburton5365
    @brittneyburton5365 5 років тому

    My heart just melted while Abbie was picking out her purse. Could tell she wasn't about it at all, but then to see her process she needed to do it as Cilla was explaining to her was SOOOOO cool! Then she just put it on and wore it! so excited for all they (and y'all) are teaching her to do thru school! So proud of her! Also: butterfly montage was perfection!

  • @jadeseven724
    @jadeseven724 5 років тому +8

    Was that "after the beep" butterfly wing flap a foley effect from your own mouth?!? So cool.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  5 років тому +4

      Lol, no it was actually dragon wings foley...but still probably came from someone's mouth.

  • @lindseynicole3992
    @lindseynicole3992 5 років тому

    Abbie is so pretty. I loved the intro-her smile can brighten my worst day. I look forward to your videos. My nephew has a developmental delay. Watching your videos has shown me patience, empathy, and compassion more than I ever thought I had. Your family makes me feel like I’m part of your family. Thank you for giving me a glimpse of your life and letting me be a friend of Abbies’. ❤️

  • @stefuhni
    @stefuhni 5 років тому +3

    "I'm doing cool things, hopefully!" 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @mflyn801
    @mflyn801 11 місяців тому

    Abbie loves her brother so much! I love watching her dancing in his car. They have so much fun together. Isiah is the best big brother.

  • @kiwilove09
    @kiwilove09 5 років тому +4

    When you're wearing the headphones, I can hear the difference on my phone. Like when Isaiah walked around you, the audio sounded like it was switching sides on my phone. Maybe it's the phone (Samsung Galaxy S10) sounds awesome!

  • @radioman321
    @radioman321 5 років тому +1

    I was FREAKING OUT when the stomping started. Looking behind me and around the corner. It’s so immersive. Please wear them all the time!

  • @WrathOfAthena
    @WrathOfAthena 5 років тому +3

    I was literally just thinking about how being an online college student gives me too much freedom to procrastinate. I’m procrastinating reading my textbook by watching your videos. And then you talked about how working from home requires boundaries. I feel attacked 😂

  • @mariacuevas665
    @mariacuevas665 5 років тому +1

    I really enjoy how happy and enthusiastic Abbie gets when listening to music. Asa, I agree with you butterflies are so beautiful. Thank you for the 🦋montage at the end of your vlog.