Internal Shifts To Save Your Marriage: Seat of Consciousness
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When diving into my client stories, one truth stands out about all healthy relationships, especially healthy romantic relationships: internal shifts matter most. These shifts, often glossed over, hold the key to success. Neglect these, and your partner will NEVER believe your changes are REAL!
But, for some odd reason, nobody gives you true healthy relationship advice. No one tells you what healthy relationship building actually looks like. Internal shifts are THE secret behind lasting change.
In this video, I'll go DEEP into the WHAT, HOW, & WHY behind the Seat of Consciousness.
So, welcome to Internal Shifts once again! The journey to reconciliation and healthy romantic relationships progresses!
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Why This Video Is CRUCIAL
00:00 - Why You Should Watch This Video
01:07 - Word of Caution
Seat of Consciousness
07:07 - #1: WHAT is Seat of Consciousness?
10:32 - #2: WHY is Seat of Consciousness So Important?
31:08 - #3: HOW to Find Your Seat of Consciousness?
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My god brother Geff.. you are a true genius, How many marriages have you saved? I watched your video about no contact, what I now think about no contact rule is just an mere human manipulation ... I just called my girlfriend after days of no contact what she said was do you miss me? I thought you didn't care... Much love from India(Sikkim)
I’ve watched these videos at least 20 times each and growing. I just want to absorb it into my souuuulll!!! I want to memorize every lyric like a rap song. I need this to sink. I’m using these to keep my mind in the right place while awaiting my acceptance into the program. Took me 10 weeks to get approved and I have to save up for the program. But I’m really still here. I don’t want to be anything like the “black eye guy” (I’m definitely not even close) I understand that I can’t even interpret these videos correctly because I would be doing things my own way, which I know, doesn’t work. Again I do appreciate these videos so much. I need to get an extra job just to move forward with this but it’s necessary.
If you are already in the program, remember that the YT videos should not REPLACE/DISTRACT you from the lessons and videos from the actual program.
The program lays out all the info you need, WHEN you need it, and in the exact ORDER you need it.
FOCUS! :)
Hey geoff can you do a video based on the mental map. I have watched a alot of ur clients stories and they talk about this mental map which i have no clue about.
I've made significant internal progress because of these videos, man. I appreciate the tough love, Geoffrey. It was 7 months ago when you and Jason N. gave me a reality check (slap in the face). Although it hurt, it was much needed. Wasn't even about attracting her back but becoming a better leader for oneself.
Just came here to say a few things.
Haven't watched a video on this channel for nearly two years now, i learnt alot from the content when me and my wife were going through some difficult times.
We are happily living our lives together again and share a much improved relationship. I have taken alot of the learnings and applied them to my work, fitness and lifestyle goals.
If anyone reading this can take somthing constructive in their dark moments, its that right now your in the 'messy middle', embrace the change in your life and look fowards, enjoy the journey and keep in mind your goal.
You might not end up where you expected, but thats the journey, if you enjoy the journey you will enjoy your destination.
I live my life by these 3 simple steps. I show up, I put effort in and I always try to improve myself, little or large.
Keep going and remember to be kind to yourself.
Hey Geoffrey, first of all, Thank you for posting this video despite there being so many reasons not to. Thank you for being so strong and considerate. I am truly grateful.
And about this video now, it is amazing how SOC is enabling me to untethered from the outcomes. I will be coming back to this video multiple times for the next few days if not weeks because Jason’s teachings and lessons have made me realize no matter how great of a learner I am, It takes time to learn in a right way and not have any blind spots on the topic I’m learning.
Once again thank you ❤
Great! Just like what I said to another gentleman above...
Jason should have given you some amazing instructions and next steps.
Just please make sure to follow them closely.
We will not take your $$$ unless we are sure your mindset and reasons for joining is sound and you are poised to get results!!
Bro Geoffrey we love you bro!! Please keep making these videos!!! This is awesome value!! Engage 💯
Hopefully, I'll be in the program soon.
Jason should have given you some amazing instructions and next steps.
Just please make sure to follow them closely.
We will not take your $$$ unless we are sure your mindset and reasons for joining is sound and you are poised to get results!!
For the longest time, i used to avoid having negative emotions by diverting my mind to other areas... But this video has been eye opening so far...i have been practicing SOC since last ten days.. while i am sure i have not perfected the process i m no longer running away from my negative emotions and at somelevel its deeply empowering
Thank you Geoffrey for the great content. I have learned a lot about my feelings/emotions with your videos. I have a lot of emotional illiteracy and lack of empathy. It's very hard to understand as a guy to understand your feelings and emotions because we were taught through society to never talk or express them. Can't wait for my interview call this week. Wish I found you sooner.
I had the same issue. Good thing emotional literacy is a SKILL you can build!
Great video 🔥🔥🔥 Have done mindfulness practice before. Like so many on this channel. But mindfulness by itself is kinda flat. But as a neutral place to make internal shifts, this integration, is super powerful. Great stuff, Geoffrey!!!
Are there more videos on how to lead conversations? I found this quite interesting
Could you make a video on how to make yourself enjoy your changes?
What do the daily practices look like for your students?
Daily autosuggestions
Daily visualizations
Is there anything else in the daily process?
Hey thanks for the indepth video. This concept is very in alignment of radical acceptance. I do worry the concept of dissociation can easily be incorrectly incorporated and result in negative outcomes if not practiced in the right mindsets. Many dissociative disorders seem like they can begin from similar backgrounds, so I'd love some extra guidance on that. I know myself often fall into the trap of trying to mask the emotions rather than truly accept the emotions/ situations.
Hey Geoffrey. Me and my girlfriend have lived together for 4 years now going on 5. We have a 3 year old son together. She finally asked to break up two months ago, but we are in a situation where we have to renew our lease as I’ve been the provider and she has no place to go. I found out she’s been talking to someone long distance, but has been keeping it from me. I wanted to enroll in your program, but can’t afford it as I’m struggling a bit financially at the moment. A huge issue for us was definitely a huge lack of safety. She lost trust in me and told me she doesn’t see a future with me anymore. I’ve been applying what I’ve learned from your videos and we definitely do communicate a lot more. Any advice on how to deal with a situation like this one. I know I have to continue to shift my mindset because the truth is, knowing she’s talking to someone else while living together has been a challenge for me, but I’m working day and night to shift my way of thinking. I agree with you on no situation being to dire. I know I just have to get past the whole talking to someone else thing. Definitely know I have to keep working on my self esteem and building myself up and continuing to understand her and respect her. Thanks so much for all you do!
I understand the situation you’re going through, I’m in even worse trouble ,my partner started to date someone else and I lost her forever . In your case, I see much more light because at least you guys are still together. I can relate to you because I am also going through the both relationships and financial crisis simultaneously. So I’m not able to afford the program, I hope you will create a safe environment and build a thriving relationship. Wish you all the best 😊
@@HananjithThanks! Your words truly made my morning! As for you, never lose hope! You can still work on yourself and outshine the other guy. That’s one thing we can never do is lose hope. You’ve got this too brother! I will keep you in my prayers.
@@bulldozeproductions7330 Thanks for your kind words, I wish you all the best 😊
I cant express how grateful i am to see notification from jeff's newest video eventho i still struggle with my marriage. Guys,..if u reallt value your relationship, jeff is a must. Worth more than u can think of
Appreciate the shout-out!
Assuming you haven't joined the program?
Remember, while compliments are nice, we don't make these types of videos to just be told "Good job"...
We made these types of videos to help YOU get your results :)
So...
If you look at the reason behind your struggles - what do you think they are?
Any questions for us?
Could you tell me how I can save my marriage when I'm blocked and she's with a new guy? Will I ever get unblocked?
My friend you have to focus on your self and let time pass!! Focus on your internal shift and changes as Geoffrey teach!! Don’t be tethered to an outcome and don’t rush your process to change. Don’t let the virus in your head discourage you to change. Keep watching Geoffrey videos and take notes!! You’ll be ok 👍🏾
I’d like to ask a question please.
Are you married or have been married?
hey Geoff I got a question about soc.
when you go in to soc do you write what you feeling and do you write your thoughts down.
or you just do soc all in your head. before shifting the negative feelings in to positive ones.
Hi Geoffrey
I thoroughly enjoy your videos, especially the one on untethering.
To be come fully untethered
Is it to be come totally untethered in my daily life, work RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.
So I
So I become independent and non dependant of my neediness for my partner/wife and relationship?
Which will remove my insecurities.
That sounds like indifference to me.
Hi Geoffrey
I have & still learning from you amazing video’s I can’t afford to join the program because of the situation I’m in unless I have same how lol , my question is me & my wife are separated but living together we are talking better then ever but not dating but she still wants me to move out what should I do please?
Thanks Arthur
Make the internal shifts -> So you can master the frameworks -> So that you can master the 5 pillars to begin leading the positive changes in your relationship.
We have 100+ success interview published, all from people in "unique" circumstances...
But no matter how "unique" they think their situation is - Their case have the same diagnosis... (Broken 5 pillars, don't know how to lead interactions, and bad internals...)
And they all followed the exact same path to reconciliation.
You'll need to as well!
Hi Geoffrey, how long should we spend at each layer , like are there any cues you are ready to move onto the next layer
Asking this question is like asking "How long do you spend to fall asleep?"
Think about it...
Remember, we're FALLING...
SOC should be INSTANT - IF we allow ourselves to.
Once we ask the question - "How long does it take to sleep", we're falling for one of the pitfalls...
Do you see?
@@GeoffreySetiawan ah I get it now it’s just like an instant shift . I was thinking initially that it’s more like you have to properly go through the 4 layers first and then u reach and feel soc but soc actually begins the moment u just start observing. I was thinking of it more like solving a math equation (do the steps and then reach the final answer or goal ) but soc just is the steps so as long as we’re doing that we’re in it . Did I get that right ?
@@ahmedshah5922 I think so. It's mind-bending - And why we say "It's a FEELING you get to and something you cannot conceptualize...
It's why FALLING outcomes are so difficult for so many men to do, EVEN when they understand conceptually how to do it.
And it's why the mentorship, community and coaching you get in the program to get you from conceptual mastery to EXPERIENTIAL mastery is so important.
Make sense?
@@GeoffreySetiawan yes it does sir
I made a misinformed comment and my apologies for that. I have removed it.
On that note, big fan of your content. Really opened my eyes on a lot if things i completely ignored thruout my life.
All good bro. Again, just for the record - Saboor now works for the company, takes calls from his partner’s place, had moved in together, and we take every single interview we do very seriously :)
Keep watching and keep rocking it my man!!
No worries :)
For anyone else curious, check out 42:23
I work for Geoffrey now and I'm in the top left corner of that group coaching call. That background you see is her artwork at her place. There is ZERO reason for me to give up anything from the program. Why? Because it has revolutionized my entire life. It is practically impossible for me to put into words.
I didn't JUST get to move back in with her, but we're recently talking about moving to a bigger place, completely transforming the way we live our lives.
Hands down, the absolute best purchase I have ever made in my entire life. My only regret was not joining the program sooner!
I think “word of caution” should be in front of all these types of videos
Have you ever considered that your neurological condition is related to the covid shot(s) you took?
Soc is awesome. I still have a lot to learn yet to effectively create autosuggestions, but this is a super valuable technique.
I believe that this client interview really depicts the power of SOC and Autosuggestions once learned. ua-cam.com/video/r5cW1tGpKto/v-deo.htmlsi=Stw_9H0pZqJMMBWu
Can't wait to apply for the program again once I have the finances, I am really looking forward to gaining the experencial knowledge it provides. Also thank you again for publishing these longer format videos that go deep. I find every time I go back and rewatch your older videos I pick up on new things I have missed, and even find many similarities to these new videos.
Bro Geoffrey we love you bro!! Please keep making these videos!!! This is awesome value!! Engage 💯
Bro Geoffrey we love you bro!! Please keep making these videos!!! This is awesome value!! Engage 💯