Stonewalling in Relationships: How To Break Through and Save Your Marriage
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- Опубліковано 13 тра 2021
- STONEWALLING IN RELATIONSHIPS: HOW TO BREAK THROUGH & SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
Are you currently in a situation where you are struggling with stonewalling in relationships? Do you have stonewalling in relationships issues? Are you tired of dealing with stonewalling in relationships?
If you do, stonewalling in relationships is one of the most common issues faced by men in their relationships/marriage. When you are facing stonewalling in relationships, communication breaks down. And stonewalling in general usually means that there are issues with safety in the relationship.
In this video, I am going to show you the key principles to break through stonewalling in relationships, once you understand this, you will begin to understand how to stop stonewalling in relationships, how to put an end to stonewalling in relationship issues or stonewalling in relationship problems once and for all.
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Hey Geoffrey, you might not respond. I've binge watched a lot of your vids, gaining perspective and pursuing genuine change, me and my wife have been separated for almost 6 months now. We've been intimate twice now, really passionate, and you can tell there's still an emotional connection there, the stone walling continues tho, not as much however, I'm trying to persist she reaches out more and we communicate much more, however she really stone walls subtly about the core issues, but hints at things she's been trying to tell me if I assume right for example sending me horoscope flaws about my Taurus sign and stuff lol but I praise and try to have more phone calls to talk about it more, but maybe im not approaching it right, looking to download your free guide on communication seen like 2 of your master classes and looking to view one yet again tonight, I've been applying the metal shifts in my life generally really trying to transform and make it a way of life, wish I could afford your program, question though. What are your thoughts on intimacy while seperated?
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The more I put these videos together, the brighter the light becomes. Thanks Geoffrey
Great Corey S, let me know if there is any topic you would be most interested in. Thank you for the support.
This is the kind of stuff all ppl should be taught. Especially before getting married! Thank you for your help and sharing this information.
Exactly! Thank you for this comment and your support.
Marvellous video! Thank you!!
Geoffrey, thank you. You are helping me so much and this is only my 4th video I’ve watched today.
Hi MarNichole,
You are welcome! I am happy this video have helped. 🙂
Apply what you learn in the videos. I haven’t started the program yet but just the videos have helped me and my wife tremendously. Watch these videos differently than you watch videos from other people. You have to catch everything. Take it from someone else that if you apply what he says it does work. It works wonders
Geffrey all your videos has inspired me to be the best person i can be . I cant wait to get in to the course tomorrow and learn to be the best me . Thank you for the hope .
Hi Civilized COBRA,
Awesome! Happy the videos have been inspirational… Just continue with your massive growth to become the BEST! 🙂
Thank you and i will be talking with you friday . I believe you can help me achieve my best self posable.
Thank you for this Sir. I'm currently going through a potential break up because I kept things from her, I was dishonest. But I want to change things, I want to be better not just for her but for myself and this really helps. She has been stonewalling me and icing me out and right now I'm trying to give her space so im working on myself, and this video really showed me where I made mistakes. I'll keep tightening the screws and following your instructions, so thank you sir.
Hi Ilerioluwa Bankole,
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geoffrey i wish i could explain the whole situation to you but my partner who i’ve been with for 2 and a half years has always stonewalled and i have always said comments about it like “you shut down when we have problems we need to fix, you can’t do that” i have watched literally so many of your videos today and i realize i’ve been going about it wrong however, last week she told me she can’t do this anymore and that she is stressed out and she feels not like herself and instead of me actually listening and letting her talk i instantly interjected and tried to come up with solutions instead of understanding where she’s coming from but i’ve “won” her back pretty much everyday because every morning she’ll text me that she can’t do this but then i fight again expect i push and i’ve given her ultimatums and everything you can possibly do wrong, now i told her about stonewalling and she said she thinks she’s doing that and i thought we were good however she texted me last night saying she can’t and she’s done and she doesn’t want me to contact her, i think i understand and have the tools to help and fix this but how do i get her to hear me again, she won’t see me in person and she doesn’t want to text or call me. is it over or can i do anything??
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Hi Racer5,
Thank you! Really appreciate it... Will definitely consider the back-lighting suggestion for future videos... Thanks for subscribing 🙂
Thank you!!
Hi Shane, You are welcome!
My wife still stonewalls when some topics come up, I know she's just not ready to speak about them. However everything else is going wonderful thanks to you
15:06 is there a way to apply this while seperated?
She has completely blocked me on everything, and she won't speak to me in person. She acts as if I don't exist when I'm in the room. It's so hard when she won't listen to a word I have to say. Like, the only thing I can do is trust that she will see the change. It's scary. It's been two years strong.
Even if I move past feeling like stonewalling = they don’t care about what I’m saying or thinking or feeling, I’m still hurt by the fact that they don’t trust me or they don’t feel safe with me. I didn’t do anything to break that trust. That’s their old baggage but it still hurts that they don’t see me as someone who has their best interest at heart and they see me as someone who they need to protect themselves from. How do you get past that?
What is the different between stone walling and no contact?
So complexity
Hi Nisy,
Thank you for your reply. While yes we offer a program that is complex, but it is this very complexity that stands our program out from the rest.
Can you tell me more about what you thought?
How do I actually start the conversation? We talk but only practical stuff regarding our daughter.
Ok so do we do this only in person or can we do this through text?
This is alot of care for someone who, by definition, is not giving the relationship any effort due to their own safety. The person who is trying to communicate should not have to give limitless to understanding someone's point of view who won't even engage in the relationship.
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Yes, but if you want to have the same safe place in the relationship when you do wrong, is it not what love is about? Patient and see is the long way, if you learn to deal with problems they dont come up year after year you move futer!!! More love and think we all are monsters, you aswell so give patient you want when you are bad, you have to give that aswell and thats true love❤️🤗✨
What if the other person cheated, lied about it, and claimed harassment to officials who kicked you out of the group, then pretends it never happened.
It's more about becoming such person. So either the current or the next partners will find you irreplaceable. Think about it: do you slack on your outside looks, gym routine or makeup because there are plenty man who are not groomed, overweights and don't put any effort in their appearance? No, you don't. You show up as your best self and attract such people. Without your effort you would never attract and keep like-minded people around.
My boyfriend continuously stonewalls me time and time again no matter how hard I try and do things right and provide a safe environement. Its exhausting to do all the emotional weightlifting, especially while being the one to experience tough life events. He knows he had to get a therapist or counsellor but he hasnt even tried to find one while i actively go to my own counselling. I've expressed time and time again it is not okay and to at least check in and message me in some form. It came out of nowhere this time and im so done, it feels like abuse and I don't deserve this. He says im the only girl he could ever be honest with and be himself, but the affects of his stonewalling is continuing to negatively impact my life. I think sometimes you have to learn to just walk away.....
I think telling people to thank someone for stonewalling is extremely toxic advise. Its not authentic and honouring how you feel, and the issue to stonewalling is that they will even verbally confirm they didnt care about how you feel or your emotions in the process of them doing it. Thats actually terrible and horrific information to come from a partner.
As someone who struggles with stonewalling, it depends on the person who is stonewalling and why. I do it because I don't want to raise my voice or indulge in conflict. It's a trauma response for me because I've been told and have seen that conflict will cause rift in relationship. But some conflict is good as well.
You have to advise your partner to get therapy before you give up on them. That way you can see the intent of their stonewalling. Some people it may come from narcissism, some it can come from a father wound or what they were taught as a kid. I do agree that if someone refuses to change or admit what they are doing, then you should probably leave.
My wife has stonewalled and wint talk to me for 5 months now , been blocked . How do i get her to communicate cause she hasnt filed for divorce and i want my marriage
I'm still getting stonewalled after message. She has completely checked out
Hi C J,
Check out one more of my many videos on this topic to learn why and how to breakthrough.
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Thanks man. I really shouldn’t make assumptions. I’m so quick to take things personally.
Hi Billy,
You are welcome brother! Most people are often guided by their paradigms which leads to assumptions and taking things personally. All my clients have learnt the right mindset shifts to undo all the toxic paradigms to effortlessly break through stonewalling.
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Do I wait for her to contact me or can I call, text or meet with her if she said she wanted space a week ago? I have not contacted her all week and she hasn't either.
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All of your stonewalling videos offer great ways to deal with a partner who stonewalls. No questions asked. However, I have to ask, why is it okay for someone to stonewall their partner? How is stonewalling a valid and effective communication style? I can't see how purposefully ignoring someone for hours or days at a time is an acceptable course of action in an adult relationship. Why aren't they working on their stonewalling or learning methods to communicate effectively when they get upset? They can sit and sulk and ignore their partner, and this is acceptable? I don't think so. It's fine for a 5 year old, but not for an adult.
I accidentally bumped into my wife when she was passing by me in the kitchen, a bit roughly too, to be honest, so I readily apologized and asked if she was okay, I openly stated that I was in the wrong and that I would be more careful, it was a complete accident. And I never run into her like that, I'm not clumsy or anything. This is a first time occurrence. She proceeded to ignore me for almost 2 days after that. I asked if she fed our daughter that night, or if I should feed her dinner, and my wife just ignored me and glared forward at the wall. Now my daughter is at risk because my wife shuts down and won't communicate with me. For days. Life doesn't stop because you're upset. Accidents happen, and we move on. That's what being an adult is. Communication has to stay open.
I feel like stonewallers need to grow up, learn to communicate in a positive fashion, and stop behaving like children. Rather than making their partners go to ridiculous lengths to get them to calm down, feel safe, and open up. It seems to me that stonewallers need to work out their issues and learn how to effectively communicate by overcoming their mental roadblocks. Catering to their toxic and destructive communication style does not seem like the right choice to me.
Well based on his other videos, he teaches what is it to have an emotional bulletproof vest, which essentially means to develope the ability to be able to manage your emotions so that when there's conflict in your relationship, you don't act badly and all bend out of shape, Geoffrey is trying to mold men to the leaders of their relationship so that they can become that unshakable rock for their partners and also the mentalities you should have to be able to establish the 5 pillars he talks about, emotional safety, physiological safety, mutual admiration, goal alignment, and finally sexual passion which comes naturally after the previous pillars are established. However you can only be that if you don't adopt a victim mentality or blame your partners character
Geoffrey do you help women too?
Is the advice the same?
Hi ingridaccount,
Yes, it applies to woman as well. Please check out my many female clients in these stories I am linking below.
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Geoffrey please help
My wife and I lives separated .
She wants to divorce and now she have a new relationship but we are not divorce yet
She want me leave her alone
And be my own life
She told me that she be free and live her own life
We are having issues ,trouble,and problems
I am sad and feeling down because she will abandon me for good
Please help
I love her
What should I do to bring her back
Please help
Any update? My wife is saying similar stuff when she left about moving on, separate lives etc.
Im doing it to my wife i didnt know it has a name...
I just cant talk to her about something she did or i feel without getting her angry or mad at me.
I cant tell her what i feel without her telling me stop explaining yourself just talk... but she wont let me talk so i just say never mind thats ok im sorry
I'm Living with a disability, i really don't know how fix things with my wife stonewalling😥😥😥
Hi Vincent,
We can definitely help you through our Relationships Revival program. If you’d like to learn more about it, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here.
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At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program.
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Is stonewalling disrespectful?
I find the usage of she/her pronouns for the stonewaller to sound borderline misogynistic, maybe consider more general pronouns: they/them?