ARE YOU FALLING FOR RAGE BAIT? Why Are We Doing This...

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  • @bevyoung2009
    @bevyoung2009 2 місяці тому +72

    I have never been on tiktok nor will I look at it.

    • @geodisafadi2423
      @geodisafadi2423 2 місяці тому +5

      Same here

    • @peterlangendorff9846
      @peterlangendorff9846 2 місяці тому +3

      Same. It’s creepy af.

    • @Em-zp6ho
      @Em-zp6ho 2 місяці тому +2

      Same. I'm just on Instagram and UA-cam and just watch creators that I follow. I was just twice on tic toc. What I have seen is enough..

    • @stephylouise
      @stephylouise 2 місяці тому +2

      Me neither

    • @limamoni486
      @limamoni486 Місяць тому

      Same

  • @rubinasindhi8784
    @rubinasindhi8784 2 місяці тому +42

    I am just so glad I am not on ticktock, I just depend on beauty community here. And honest content creator and reviewers like you ❤️

  • @rebeccaneely5752
    @rebeccaneely5752 2 місяці тому +26

    I have a general rule for myself when I'm online. I do not engage with stupidity online.

  • @lilywhite3762
    @lilywhite3762 2 місяці тому +14

    I immediately block profiles that use rage bait as well as those who fish for sympathy. It's disgusting.

  • @darlosmurf148
    @darlosmurf148 2 місяці тому +17

    I so agree with this. I've never had issues with my mental health, but recently I've been affected by a lot of social media, so I've cut down my viewing because I'm someone who does get wound up - particularly at the moment. This is the best advice

  • @richapraja
    @richapraja 2 місяці тому +33

    I love how you take the time out of your day and life to educate us and help us be a better version of ourselves and make this world just a smidge better. I think you're the only makeup influencer who does that and I am just SO SO proud and honored and glad that I found you years ago and that I've not stopped following you haha despite the makeup getting the better side of me and my money. I'm in a place where I need to save a LOT of money right now and whenever I am tempted, I hear your voice in my head asking me to "put my googles on and ask myself do I really need it? Do I really need it right now? Is it part of their permanent line? If so, can I wait till it comes on sale later or when I have more money?" and "vote with your money or as you said in this video, vote with your time, attention and views". I think you are the mother/friend/mentor that we all needed in our lives but didn't know till we came across you hahahaha.
    Thank you again Charlotte. Thank you for being you and I hope we get to connect sometime in online or in real life
    💗💗💗💗 🙏🙏🙏💗💗💗💗

    • @CharlotteHoldcroft
      @CharlotteHoldcroft  2 місяці тому +5

      Thank you so much for all your support! 🫶🫶

    • @peterlangendorff9846
      @peterlangendorff9846 2 місяці тому

      I agree, I love her too. But we always need to be mindful that influencers are compensated for the time they give us.

    • @richapraja
      @richapraja 2 місяці тому

      Yes…but she could be making other videos too right? Instead of videos like these? Where she is just mentioning products and not talking about actual problems in the world or how to solve them?? Like i feel we need to give credit where credit is due and it is okay if you don’t feel that way 😊

  • @karlaschmid8757
    @karlaschmid8757 2 місяці тому +19

    Appreciate that you presented this topic. Hope that some of these people are prosecuted so they don’t ruin social media for the rest of us. I don’t take the bait.

  • @carolinejackson5607
    @carolinejackson5607 2 місяці тому +7

    I keep my algorithms TIGHT! Anything I don’t like I feed back to the platform that I want to see less of that content. I’m not on TikTok or X because I think they’re not good platforms. Anything offensive I report. I don’t even really go to comments any more. The good thing about social media apps is that they want to keep you engaged so the algorithms are super responsive to your feedback. It’s cute animals all the way for me!

  • @deborahpollock1438
    @deborahpollock1438 2 місяці тому +30

    I agree with everything you have said . I love your channel because you are kind and helpful. I think the internet is filled with ugly racist anti semitic angry people . In the US we are so divided . I am so lucky . I don’t follow any nasty accounts and I do not reply ! Remarks to content creators are horrific . Content creators like you , Abby Bliss White Lexi Jong are great. Never a cross word and warm interaction. The nastier someone gets the farther I run

    • @CharlotteHoldcroft
      @CharlotteHoldcroft  2 місяці тому +4

      Thank you so much!

    • @melindagenitempo2359
      @melindagenitempo2359 2 місяці тому +2

      I agree. The US is become polarized with social issues , politics, just whatever they can hate on they do.

  • @emilycolangelo1876
    @emilycolangelo1876 2 місяці тому +13

    19:13 Good for you for speaking out about this subject! Thank you for using your channel for good! There's way too much rage in this world without listening to it on the internet. By the way, your eyebrows are perfect and you look great!

  • @lavayuki
    @lavayuki 2 місяці тому +9

    I have never heard of this word or concept, I must have been living under a rock. I don’t use or even have TiK Tok so other than UA-cam and Insta, I don’t know what’s trending. Thanks for dissecting this topic, as a millennial I feel so behind Gen Z and Alpha lol. I very much grew up on the days of long form UA-cam and dial up internet connection lol

  • @bevyoung2009
    @bevyoung2009 2 місяці тому +17

    I didn't even know what rage bait was until you explained.

  • @pecopicante4167
    @pecopicante4167 2 місяці тому +5

    I can literally listen to you talk forever. You're so eloquent and well-spoken as well as informative that it is just lovely to listen to you. Thank you for another well done video.

  • @catherinelynnfraser2001
    @catherinelynnfraser2001 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for having a reasonable discussion about one of the most annoying trends in social media. I’ve rarely commented on something I’m impassioned about. Beware of strangers. Choose your forums carefully. I stay off TikTok

  • @wendybrown3502
    @wendybrown3502 2 місяці тому +5

    Couldn't agree with you more! They never get my time or attention!❤❤

  • @carolynclark1242
    @carolynclark1242 Місяць тому +1

    But no really, as an American I truly want to know: IS it jam or cream first??!
    Lol.
    On a serious note, I genuinely appreciate videos like this. Thank you Charlotte for all you do. You’re a beautiful soul inside and out! 🤍

  • @heathersargent289
    @heathersargent289 2 місяці тому +7

    Did U see the new Hourglass sign up for the new pallets looks like they might have listed to us and put more neutral type blushes in them but of course still a pink.

  • @iva10eva
    @iva10eva 2 місяці тому +6

    Another well thought out video! I love how varied your content is! 👏👏👏♥️

  • @vickiejerane1250
    @vickiejerane1250 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for this info…..unfortunately social media can be vicious and inappropriate….I would rather not even have social media than have these hateful and immature people try taking advantage of others……especially younger audiences that can be easily influenced…

  • @leahmiranda8359
    @leahmiranda8359 2 місяці тому

    Great video Charlotte!
    This needs to be talked about. I’m not now, and never will be on TikTok. UA-cam and IG are more than enough for me!😊
    With very few exceptions, my IG feed consists of animals. Entertaining and harmless. 😊

  • @shelleyeatz
    @shelleyeatz 2 місяці тому +2

    Apparently I’ve been very successful at curating my for you pages on all my social media. I never get fed rage bait. I only get internet gems like you, Charlotte!

  • @christinesteiner7023
    @christinesteiner7023 2 місяці тому +1

    This is why I love your channel, watching any of your videos give me a good time after my days work. Thank you Charlotte. As many others I caught myself watching in disbelief or apalledness (is that a word at all? 🤔) before common sense kicking in and asking my staring other self what the heck I am doing to my precious spare time.

  • @newchannelcalledtrimmyframe
    @newchannelcalledtrimmyframe 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this. You put it all in perspective. You should be an inspirational speaker or something, you are a wonderful human!

  • @SuboJvR
    @SuboJvR 2 місяці тому

    Brilliant video Charlotte. Going forward I'm thinking to myself I'm only going to try and put "positives" out there with what I interact with

  • @RevampAndRadiate
    @RevampAndRadiate 2 місяці тому +1

    I think advice is also real life good advice. Just ignore it and walk away. Love that you did this video

  • @narehakobyan5701
    @narehakobyan5701 2 місяці тому +3

    A great video, Charlotte❤️
    Thanks!

  • @lli_loue
    @lli_loue Місяць тому

    don’t mind me, commenting yet another one of sweet Charlotte’s videos for the algorithm 😊

  • @sabsa70
    @sabsa70 2 місяці тому

    Love you! So wise, kind and beautiful. 😘

  • @janearcher3834
    @janearcher3834 2 місяці тому

    First of all, I love your eye look. Secondly, thank you for talking about this topic. As you always do, you brought clarity and insight to the topic - even if (ironically) your own post was a bit of rage bating. Your video is a bit of a reminder for us to check ourselves. Sadly, the political situation in the US where we literally have the head of one of our two political parties who rage bates several times a day, and who targets people who are in his way, or who disagree with him, or he uses other people as straw men to distract people from his own issues. He has ruined lives. People think that his behavior has given them permission in the US to say and do the most outrageous and hurtful things. This is not the country I grew up in. There no longer seem to be any boundaries which can't be crossed. It's very uncivilized, and sad.

  • @bevyoung2009
    @bevyoung2009 2 місяці тому

    Charlotte, I love your opinions about this world we live in.

  • @lisapierce525
    @lisapierce525 2 місяці тому

    Great video Charlotte. I totally agree. I do not interact. It’s so much mentally healthier to just click and move on! I hope someone does something about this garbage. I have granddaughters that watch TikTok a lot and it’s very concerning.

  • @bugsybaby4944
    @bugsybaby4944 2 місяці тому

    Omg Charlotte Hourglass has released photos from the new ambient lighting palette on their website they are so beautiful 😻

  • @heathercole3541
    @heathercole3541 2 місяці тому +1

    Me making a comment to support you!!

  • @kathleenmoul3630
    @kathleenmoul3630 2 місяці тому

    Interesting topic. Thanks, Charlotte for always educating us.❤

  • @shelley4073
    @shelley4073 2 місяці тому

    Brillant video!! Thank you for making this and clearly explaining what it is. Wishing you beautiful days!❤

  • @emiliebova
    @emiliebova 2 місяці тому

    I thank you for explaining the latest idiocy on the internet. I never heard of rage bait. Sounds like something me and my husband get into now and then!😂😂

  • @maryabdel-malik656
    @maryabdel-malik656 2 місяці тому

    It seems you changed a little your eyebrows & I love it 👍👍

  • @laurenb6156
    @laurenb6156 2 місяці тому

    Agree wholeheartedly! Never feed a troll! Fun video.

  • @NewDay0321
    @NewDay0321 2 місяці тому +1

    I've seen some content about rage baiting and it was eye opening. Though I've never commented on such posts ever, I felt naive for not recognising earlier for what those posts were.

  • @lindajosefsson1686
    @lindajosefsson1686 2 місяці тому +1

    Great topic. People who do it are pathetic. I refuse to spend a second of my time commenting on it. Adorable animal videos is a different story, I will watch them all day long 😊

  • @Sine761
    @Sine761 2 місяці тому

    Thx for your opinion, your time and your will to change the internet in something more friendly ❤❤❤

  • @carolyncintron-williams546
    @carolyncintron-williams546 2 місяці тому +3

    You have the best content ❤

  • @Desertmermaid52
    @Desertmermaid52 2 місяці тому

    Wow Ive never heard of rage baiting. 😮your channel really enlightens me to a lot of on line issues , which as a grandma I have no experience with. ❤

  • @debbieotoole1072
    @debbieotoole1072 2 місяці тому +2

    Great video Charlotte 😊

  • @katherineseymour6239
    @katherineseymour6239 2 місяці тому

    You caught me. I watch and engage on all your videos 😅💕

  • @vwiccy
    @vwiccy 2 місяці тому

    I’m trying to just give attention to people I like … hard to do with *angry* topics - so here’s my happy comment to you… I love your off makeup topics- you’re such a smarty patootie, imo, and you have great and interesting points 😊❤

  • @melindagenitempo2359
    @melindagenitempo2359 2 місяці тому

    Very wise and well done video Charlotte. I have been watching alot of the fragcom and omg there is alot of nastiness there too. Hows your fragrance collection going 💕💕💕💕

  • @raca001
    @raca001 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for talking about this

  • @katherinekelly9689
    @katherinekelly9689 2 місяці тому

    Hi Charlotte, this is a great video and the subject matter , I don’t go on TikTok, . Love Katherine xoxo

  • @UnpurrfectRobyn
    @UnpurrfectRobyn Місяць тому

    I use UA-cam and have a very curated list of creators I follow. Period. I do not use Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, etc. They are toxic and I do not have time for that.

  • @marionallen2222
    @marionallen2222 2 місяці тому

    can’t wait for swatches the bronzer looked nice on the dragon lol

  • @geniej2378
    @geniej2378 2 місяці тому

    We need more creators to speak about this, it goes back to social media boosting posts with engagement which ended up being the most anger-inducing, divisive content being boosted the most. If we are having arguments in the comments, the algorithm thinks “more engagement= better post” so silence really is the best antidote for rage bait. Don’t finish the video, don’t comment, the less attention you give it the better.

  • @ramonazh8248
    @ramonazh8248 2 місяці тому

    We had people went live on Instagram filming crash site and people decessed before help arrived instead of trying to help! Sorry for humanity 😢

  • @debranaumczik6286
    @debranaumczik6286 Місяць тому

    Agree ❤💜..I stay off tik tak i call it, I try and stay away from some things for that reeason
    I avoid the angry non sense ...🌹🌺🌼💐🌸

  • @maryabdel-malik656
    @maryabdel-malik656 2 місяці тому

    Great video thanks for sharing 👍👍

  • @sylrodrigues36
    @sylrodrigues36 2 місяці тому

    You are so wright!!!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @corporatebeauty
    @corporatebeauty 2 місяці тому +1

    I dont care if people overapply makeup for rage views, I am just ‘do whatever you want girl for the coins 😂’. However, I cant comprehend people using their children for rage bait, like the terrible tiktok lady making her daughter do uncomfortable things or the other tiktok mom that keeps filling her children with unhealtiest food on planet earth 🤮 Instead of viewing or commenting on these accounts, I immediately report the accounts. I hope all platforms prohibits children under a certain age to be on social media 🙏🏻

  • @MsBNoodle
    @MsBNoodle 2 місяці тому +1

    HELLO! peace and love and no rage :)

  • @lindak2807
    @lindak2807 2 місяці тому

    Once again, thanks for being the voice of reason and addressing this nasty content on the internet. I'm not on tiktok so I have been spared of the filth you mention here. What I do see on UA-cam, though, is beauty (?) content creators bashing other beauty content creators with shocking "headlines" to their videos. It is appalling to see that these vids get hundreds of thousands of views. I am disgusted by people who create nothing beutiful, fun or useful, but instead step on other people to get views, comments and money. There's a British singer, approaching his 50s, whose rock band I've always liked but seeing him talk negatively on UA-cam about young artists disgust me, and I have sort of lost my appetite for his music alltogether.

  • @regina_staben
    @regina_staben 2 місяці тому +1

    I watched a video recently where a mom was asking another mom via text for money for a playdate 😮I was ready to share my opinion when I read in the comments that this person does videos like this all the time to get a reaction. Like, why?!? Getting people mad on purpose for views and likes makes you a terrible human. ❤

  • @yvette4933
    @yvette4933 2 місяці тому

    Amazing video 👏👏

  • @Valentina_Salas18
    @Valentina_Salas18 2 місяці тому

    Charlotte is one of the real jewels on this platform ❤. This is an insane situation but it happens. My husband used to fight hard with strangers on the internet who posted flat earth stuff 😂 until I explained to him that most of flat earth is just trolls. 😅

  • @TimeTravelReads
    @TimeTravelReads Місяць тому

    There's a particular kind of rage bait in the book space that seems very difficult to ignore because it's directed by some creators at others, and it spreads undemocratic values. I'm trying to figure out how to handle that. They haven't discovered my specific channel, because it's small, but my channel is the type they disrespect.

  • @amyhuber4787
    @amyhuber4787 2 місяці тому

    Love this informative video but just wondering what IS the right way to eat a scone?? 😂

  • @makeupandtheology1821
    @makeupandtheology1821 15 днів тому

    Aw, we love you too. Though we do all lowkey think you all personally know the Royal family 😅

  • @juliasweden914
    @juliasweden914 2 місяці тому

    Great video. I just block or move on.

  • @beriscarbone9890
    @beriscarbone9890 2 місяці тому

    I'm happy to say I don't use tic toc or any of the others...my time is spent elsewhere...☺

  • @noudjoumbenabid3378
    @noudjoumbenabid3378 2 місяці тому

    My dear Charlotte we have ice but we are too smart to chew on it 🤣

  • @malgorzatahandel5905
    @malgorzatahandel5905 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Charlotte,I really hope there are teen versions of you on social media such as TikTok,who talk about these issues in similar way.Our teenage children need to be made aware of it all (and sadly I know for a fact that most of them won't watch influencers that their mothers are following;silly sausages.).Please can we clone you and can the cloned 15 year old version of you talk some sense into our kids?

  • @traciehill7295
    @traciehill7295 2 місяці тому +2

    Dear Charlotte, please make a video explaining what is wrong with the scone picture. Sincerely, an American who just sees a biscuit being buttered🤔
    Also, your eyeshadow is amazing!!! I love your content, and I really have been enjoying your chats on hot topics like this.

    • @CharlotteHoldcroft
      @CharlotteHoldcroft  2 місяці тому +5

      This is a scone, not quite the same as a US biscuit! But these are ALWAYS cut in half and then there is a heated debate as to whether you spread clotted cream or jam first! 🫶

    • @traciehill7295
      @traciehill7295 2 місяці тому +1

      @@CharlotteHoldcroft thank you🤣

  • @speechtaught
    @speechtaught 2 місяці тому

    Great video! I learned a lot. By the way you do look 25.

  • @mikelobrien
    @mikelobrien 2 місяці тому

    Don't influencers make more money with greater engagement? That might be one motivation for using rage bait tactics. My job is to ignore them and scroll past with taking the bait! 🙂

  • @redouteshabby2024
    @redouteshabby2024 2 місяці тому +1

    I do not have Tiktok but I almost never see rage bait on my You tube feed as feed is usually the people you follow or things you may be interested in. However, I do have to mention the whole celebrity jump on board thing when we had not heard from Princess Catherine some months ago. The jokes, the posts, so inappropriate and offensive. Not everything is fodder for comedy.

  • @maureenormston8356
    @maureenormston8356 Місяць тому

    I'm 69 and I've never heard the term "rage bait" but every day is a school day. It's very sad and worrying that people spend their days doing this just to get attention albeit in a very shocking and offensive way. Sad, sad, sad.

  • @annhall2331
    @annhall2331 2 місяці тому +1

    The world has gone mad!!!! Xxx

  • @SA-cm3ug
    @SA-cm3ug 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes! Give me the kittens 😂

  • @lovefilles
    @lovefilles 2 місяці тому

    Ignorance is a serious problem in humanity and creates intolerance.

  • @rosieHolliday5887
    @rosieHolliday5887 2 місяці тому

    I think I first became familiar with this style of content during Covid & the sudden rise of the "Karen video" 🤦 Women just arguing all over my feed & I was absolutely convinced that the majority of it was "staged" But OMG so many people believed it was real. There's one guy who we never saw in the videos but he'll have a "Karen" telling him off about his parking or not taking his shopping trolley back & I swear it's his Nan 🤣 But so many people are just literally abu$ing this poor old lady thinking there's just these random women walking our streets ready for a fight 🙈It's just not reality. Social media has just become a skip fire🔥 I deleted everything. I'm too old for that sh!t. Just keep UA-cam where I can control what I watch much better. I personally think that all social media needs to be deleted. Someone, preferably a responsible adult who knows what's best for us all, just needs to come along & pull the plug out & put an end to it once & for all & we'll all sigh a collective "thank goodness for that" 😆😆😆

  • @sheribechtold6628
    @sheribechtold6628 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤
    No TikTok for me

  • @dtraveler3080
    @dtraveler3080 2 місяці тому

    First they want you ‘on topic’ only, the very next video, ‘ask me anything’ often they are the only ones talking and no one wants to ask them anything.😅Often they have something to hide.

  • @juliewells4282
    @juliewells4282 2 місяці тому +6

    Well said Charlotte! I think in this heavily PC world people choose to be so easily offended. I’m not saying there aren’t things out there that are truly offensive, but so much of it is, as you spoke on, just rage baiting. People want to push your buttons and get a reaction out of you. Choose to not engage, choose to not be offended. It’s much more pleasant when you are in control of your emotions instead of being reactive to everything.

  • @bevyoung2009
    @bevyoung2009 2 місяці тому

    Love you Sister 😍

  • @teacheschem
    @teacheschem 2 місяці тому

    A South African content creator came to Guyana and said she was the most beautiful woman in Guyana. Don’t know if she was rage baiting, but supposedly she has had to private all her social media.

  • @lavoixdevelours
    @lavoixdevelours 2 місяці тому

    It really gives "I'm a brat, and will do anything for views and some cash." Fetish content is another one. They're doing things anyone can find, and it's not safe.

  • @lsaz4378
    @lsaz4378 2 місяці тому

    Didn’t know it had a name and there are times I get sucked in

  • @mia_djojowasito_malik
    @mia_djojowasito_malik 2 місяці тому

    In the context of “Europe vs. US” it may not be helpful, but content like this can be helpful for people in developing countries to express their grievances re: the behaviours of expats & tourists in our countries.
    Also, when Westerners (esp. from certain anglophone countries) do these videos I have to wonder how “rage-baity” are they really? Sometimes they're genuinely travelling Karens being rude & inconsiderate of the locals and our cultures. When I hear certain accents in my countries, I immediately move out of earshot because I don't want to get my feelings hurt. People are mean and entitled.

    • @CharlotteHoldcroft
      @CharlotteHoldcroft  2 місяці тому +1

      They are two different things usually! There is absolutely genuine content about irritations etc. and then there are intentional playing on those and exaggerating for a reaction...

  • @bombshellonthego
    @bombshellonthego 2 місяці тому

    Rather than commenting and giving them negative attention that the algorithm sees as engagement, could down voting signal the content creator and the algorithm that this content is not appreciated? Or does down voting do nothing? I use that thumbs down button when I come across something stupid.
    Also: "what do you do when you aren't creative?" *savage* 😂

  • @bevyoung2009
    @bevyoung2009 2 місяці тому

    Hello beautiful Charlotte 😍

  • @megdvs21
    @megdvs21 2 місяці тому

    We here in the Charlotte community are better than the rage baiting 💕

  • @nusaibahibraheem8183
    @nusaibahibraheem8183 Місяць тому

    8:17 I think for some ignorant people, that's how they learn about other countries. Or for some people, that's how they learn other countries exist😂

  • @jessicagray6316
    @jessicagray6316 Місяць тому

    Facebook is the worst for AI deepfakes which I tried to block or request 'I don't want to see this'. Big mistake Facebook shows you more!!! I just feel sad for children because of how easy it is to access adult leaning content even when you are not looking for it. sad

  • @sunshinestate4001
    @sunshinestate4001 2 місяці тому

    My motto is be silent and stay vise.😂Im not engadging with this kind of crap,have a lot in my life dont need any extra😅

  • @limamoni486
    @limamoni486 Місяць тому

    I HATE tiktok 😊 never been there

  • @tracy776
    @tracy776 2 місяці тому

    That's what I do with offensive content. Skip past it, and perhaps block. I'm not commenting and getting myself on some psycho's radar (either original poster or some nutjob who is watching/reading and going RIGHT ON)

  • @janetgorman3690
    @janetgorman3690 2 місяці тому

    sign me up for the falling puppies and kitten and deer meetups.......

  • @wombatlittle1
    @wombatlittle1 2 місяці тому

    I find American scones offensive. Since when have scones been triangle shaped?

  • @EnvyBlu
    @EnvyBlu Місяць тому

    I love your videos. I’ve followed you for years and love your channel, love your info, love your humor, love your makeup recommendations, but…..I’m not rage baiting, Taylor Swift does suck 😂😂 and she can’t sing hehehe

  • @aprilrich807
    @aprilrich807 2 місяці тому

    😊👍

  • @marybonome9279
    @marybonome9279 2 місяці тому

    I havent seen any videos (as described) and if I come across something which is offensive I just move on. People watch at their election.,..kind of silly to me.

  • @Nailtheday
    @Nailtheday 2 місяці тому

    haha another rage bait for me is Scone is pronounced haha. Scone has an E at the end and it should be pronounced, Charlotte pronounces it like Scon