Thank you for your work. It has changed my life for the better. Emotional brainwashing is a very real thing that must be looked at and dealt with in a serious manner. Its a moral crime.
I couldn’t make the live show tonight, but I appreciate this program more than words can express. Thank you Dr. Shaler! I will share with my friends. ❤
Thank you for sharing this wise advice, and your encouragement to change our conditioned reactivity. This is a tough problem, and I do not have it mastered. Very low contact for me unless and until I can get it.
Thank you Robin cuz you are right on point I have an adult daughter it's 42 years old been gone for a long time came back in my life I try to help her but all I get is me me me all about her and trying to revoke fight constantly and trying to get me into fight but I'm not taking the bait I'm old and I'm tired and I just want to be done with it I love her but it's still so hard she was in the drugs and alcohol even that goes with I'm always on edge when she's around I don't trust her it's sad I have another daughter here love listening to you right because you is right on point
Wishing you well. Thank you for everything you've contributed, I've listened to you for years and you've helped me a lot. I wish you a wonderful Christmas.
My ex husband does this all the time. I never knew it had an official name until now. It's infuriating. Thank you for your time and experience. I am learning so much by watching your channel. Hopefully I can apply all these suggestions and change the quality of my emotional life bc he really does still very much affect me and I'm tired of giving him anymore of my time or energy. It's all sooo very heavy and draining. I wish I found your videos years ago. You are a blessing.
Thank you so much for helping me see clearly - I am just starting but on my way to healing. Please take care, hope u feel better soon & have a healing, restorative holiday season ♥
Yes, this very thing occurred just last evening. I barely speak to my husband much anymore, but every now and again, I let my defences down and I'll share something totally "safe" just to break the silence and be pleasant... I always evaluate the comment first, so as to not offend him in any way... but no matter how innocent the subject or the comment, it always ends up with him raging at me and telling me how he doesnt know why he puts up with me... he's 72 and is becoming more and more abusive. I'm preparing my exit away from him but until then, I must continually remind myself to go "grey rock" around him in order to get away safely... Pray for me please. I'll be leaving soon!
I just prayed a bunch of healing love towards you. I appreciate you bringing this important information. How are you loving yourself? This content is very triggering to work with. Icky thoughts can make us sick sometimes. Thank you so much for all that you do to bring light to these very uncomfortable things.
Excellent. Working in a small office with a covert narc. Debating on whether or not I should just quit but I can use the money. Keeping my eyes and mind open for other options.
How do you deal with an adult substance abusive hijackel that invades your intimate personal living environment? They use their child, (your grandchild), as a weapon.. Sadly, physical hindrances hamper my instinctive inclinations.
I very gotten to where I just calmly leave their presence and I don't have the time or energy to listen/ or hear their mouth. If I can't seem to leave, I just say to myself or maybe out loud, I don't respond to that. In the end of it, they have displayed the a-- they are. I have had police called before. Then, I follow up with no contact with that person. And will put a restraining order cause some people will try to get you around that person again. I have absolutely done this with my Brother.
I pray with all my ❤ for an expedited return to optimum health.
Thank you for your work. It has changed my life for the better. Emotional brainwashing is a very real thing that must be looked at and dealt with in a serious manner. Its a moral crime.
I couldn’t make the live show tonight, but I appreciate this program more than words can express. Thank you Dr. Shaler! I will share with my friends. ❤
Love the info u present on this channel so much. Prayers for u 💓🙏
Thank you so much for putting what I have known and didn’t know how to put into words. It helps greatly. 😊
Thank you for sharing this wise advice, and your encouragement to change our conditioned reactivity. This is a tough problem, and I do not have it mastered. Very low contact for me unless and until I can get it.
Thank you Robin cuz you are right on point I have an adult daughter it's 42 years old been gone for a long time came back in my life I try to help her but all I get is me me me all about her and trying to revoke fight constantly and trying to get me into fight but I'm not taking the bait I'm old and I'm tired and I just want to be done with it I love her but it's still so hard she was in the drugs and alcohol even that goes with I'm always on edge when she's around I don't trust her it's sad I have another daughter here love listening to you right because you is right on point
It is genetic. Someone in her family tree was the same. Observed the same in my life.
YOU are AWESOME!!! Thank you for all your help.
This a great lesson, perhaps one of the most important ones! Bless you Roberta, know you have made a difference!❤️
Wishing you well. Thank you for everything you've contributed, I've listened to you for years and you've helped me a lot. I wish you a wonderful Christmas.
My ex husband does this all the time. I never knew it had an official name until now. It's infuriating. Thank you for your time and experience. I am learning so much by watching your channel. Hopefully I can apply all these suggestions and change the quality of my emotional life bc he really does still very much affect me and I'm tired of giving him anymore of my time or energy. It's all sooo very heavy and draining. I wish I found your videos years ago. You are a blessing.
Thank you so much for helping me see clearly - I am just starting but on my way to healing. Please take care, hope u feel better soon & have a healing, restorative holiday season ♥
Yes, this very thing occurred just last evening. I barely speak to my husband much anymore, but every now and again, I let my defences down and I'll share something totally "safe" just to break the silence and be pleasant... I always evaluate the comment first, so as to not offend him in any way... but no matter how innocent the subject or the comment, it always ends up with him raging at me and telling me how he doesnt know why he puts up with me... he's 72 and is becoming more and more abusive.
I'm preparing my exit away from him but until then, I must continually remind myself to go "grey rock" around him in order to get away safely...
Pray for me please. I'll be leaving soon!
God bless you, Roberta! Thank you for your priceless wisdom and advice,
I just prayed a bunch of healing love towards you. I appreciate you bringing this important information. How are you loving yourself? This content is very triggering to work with. Icky thoughts can make us sick sometimes. Thank you so much for all that you do to bring light to these very uncomfortable things.
Thank you for all that you do! 🙏
Excellent. Working in a small office with a covert narc. Debating on whether or not I should just quit but I can use the money. Keeping my eyes and mind open for other options.
God bless you. Thank you. You are very accurate, honest and helpful.
Thank you so much for this video 🙏❤️ The biggest lesson ever ❤️
How do you deal with an adult substance abusive hijackel that invades your intimate personal living environment? They use their child, (your grandchild), as a weapon.. Sadly, physical hindrances hamper my instinctive inclinations.
Yes I am going through that as well. I really miss my grandchildren.😢❤
Thank you for the knowledge..also I hope that you are okay ..you are a strong person.😊
You right he is all loving at first..then he turns
I very gotten to where I just calmly leave their presence and I don't have the time or energy to listen/ or hear their mouth. If I can't seem to leave, I just say to myself or maybe out loud, I don't respond to that. In the end of it, they have displayed the a-- they are. I have had police called before. Then, I follow up with no contact with that person. And will put a restraining order cause some people will try to get you around that person again. I have absolutely done this with my Brother.
Thanks for caring
Sorry I missed the live but I am so emotional about it due to my memories.
I have left a restaurant that my ex and I were eating at. He kept on and on in public. I just got up and went to the car and left him there.
Yes said NO to 2 psychopaths this christmas 🎉
today im alone this person block my husband phone maybee 10 times come library now stolen my money and noise thanks