Standing Strong & Safe of the Face of Narcissistic Intimidation

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  • Being with a narcissistic person is scary, right? You are usually wrong...even when you're right!. You never know what mood they'll be in. They lie, gaslight, rage, and fall silent.
    They are intimidating! They keep you on edge! What can you do to reduce the intimidation? Listen to this episode.
    HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
    - Narcissistic people are likely to engage in several kinds of abuse: verbal, physical, sexual, financial, emotional or spiritual
    - Hijackals use intimidation as a quick way to win, or silence someone
    - Change your perspective and stop allowing yourself to be les than equal.
    - Use the Personal Weather Report to your advantage
    45:40 - Viewer Q&A starts
    * * Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
    and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.
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    I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
    Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane.
    No worries about where in the world you live. I work through private, secure video conferencing. So, we can certainly work together to figure a few things out.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 24

  • @nygatruecrime
    @nygatruecrime 6 місяців тому +15

    This woman is the epitome of selfless even in a medical situation she us still trying to help others. Thanks

  • @staceys173
    @staceys173 6 місяців тому +25

    You are an amazing lady. Thank you for all your wise guidance. You have helped to make this world a better place and it is much appreciated.

  • @alissacarter3328
    @alissacarter3328 6 місяців тому +19

    I’ve listened to so many of your videos and they are helping me so much. I pray for you health.

  • @Countrylover1946
    @Countrylover1946 6 місяців тому +6

    Instead of drinking from their cup of koolaid, drink instead from the tall cool glass of indifference. I’ve been shown how to make that step into equality while showing indifference to what they think about it. All through you, Dr. Rhoberta. You’ve worked miracles for me. I truly believe I was led to you. Blessings to you, you’ve been a blessing to us.

  • @kaystephens2672
    @kaystephens2672 6 місяців тому +5

    I, as an older lady, who has lived a lifetime of putting up with this intolerable behavior, am blown away by the accuracy of her lessons. And yes, guilt is the constant tool to keep them in charge and be able to order you around. What I’ve found, too, is that when they get access to your phone or email they are predictable about taking more and more and more of your time till they get it all. Then, it’s still not enough.

  • @CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger
    @CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger 6 місяців тому +10

    Such powerful suggestions and useful recommendations, Dr. Shaler. You have the best advisement and experience in the field. So glad and grateful your channel is available. 💖
    Ongoing prayers for your health!

  • @shirleybarrett605
    @shirleybarrett605 6 місяців тому +7

    I hope you get better soon x

  • @Greenleafroad
    @Greenleafroad 6 місяців тому +7

    Hope you feel better. Appreciate all you have done and all you do ❤❤❤

  • @M-eg8ch
    @M-eg8ch 6 місяців тому +7

    You are much loved Dr Rhoberta❤ Thank you so much for your words ,you have carried me through many dark moments beautiful lady.

  • @tmking7483
    @tmking7483 6 місяців тому +5

    Thanks for your channel _ I have the answers I need now to go forward.

  • @bethkrauskopf1471
    @bethkrauskopf1471 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you, for bringing me comfort and self- confidence. May you be blessed with the same warmth and joy that you have freely given to others!

  • @lianalibelli3386
    @lianalibelli3386 6 місяців тому +2

    Praying for your health. Thank you so much for everything you do.

  • @lornac6867
    @lornac6867 6 місяців тому +2

    Love this! Thank you for helping me stand strong! It has made all the difference to know a hijackal is a thing! They no longer fly under the radar for me. They can be predators but I am no prey!!!

  • @tamarazwinak
    @tamarazwinak 6 місяців тому +1

    You bring such clarity to these harmful interactions. I feel more hopeful thank you.

  • @nannygoatbassoonist
    @nannygoatbassoonist 6 місяців тому +2

    These more recent videos make me sad to see her struggling with her health. Her videos have helped me so much.

  • @user-if1in3he2k
    @user-if1in3he2k Місяць тому +1

    Doctor take care🙏

  • @rosemarybrown4407
    @rosemarybrown4407 6 місяців тому +1

    Wishing you well thank you for your videos you have helped so many of us 🙏

  • @user-cv7nj7xt7h
    @user-cv7nj7xt7h 2 місяці тому

    Oceans of blessings ❤️🙏❤️

  • @tmking7483
    @tmking7483 6 місяців тому +7

    These predators are hanging in the mall parking lots too . Instead of trailer park trash. Now I have to protect myself from the people living in their cars and trucks in the mall parking lots and try to threaten u at the bank machine.

  • @carolfayosullivan
    @carolfayosullivan 5 місяців тому

    Thanks

  • @talithakoum1965
    @talithakoum1965 6 місяців тому +3

    What happens to you dear Doc ? May I help ? please take care of you. Eat fruits and veggies and potatoes. You'll recover quickly. If you need more help tell me. I will advise you.

  • @meseretmimi3792
    @meseretmimi3792 6 місяців тому +2

  • @shirleybarrett605
    @shirleybarrett605 6 місяців тому +1

    What is it when you tell someone you make me feel this or that way, and they say its not me making you feel like that, your doing that to yourself ? Or if they ask you to do things , but its never good enough, why don't they do it themselves then.