5 tips To Make a Killer First Impression - Personality Development & English lessons by Niharika
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- 5 tips To Make a Killer First Impression - personality Development & English lessons by Niharika
Most people will judge you within the first few seconds of meeting you and their view will most likely never change. Making a good first impression is utmost important, because you only get one chance at it.
It takes just a quick glance, maybe three seconds, for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. In this short time, the other person forms an opinion about you based on your appearance, your body language, your attitude, your mannerisms, and how you are dressed.
So, whether they are in your career or social life, it's important to know how to create a good first impression. This lesson by Niharika provides some useful tips to help you do this.
1. Set an intention.
The most important thing to do for giving a good impression is to set your intention. This is especially important before any kind of big event where you would be meeting a lot of people - i.e. conferences, networking events or friend's parties. As you get ready or when you are driving over think about what kind of people you want to meet and what kind of interactions you want to have. This can be an incredibly grounding experience and works very well to focus on what kind of energy you want to have for your event.
2. Present Yourself Appropriately
Of course physical appearance matters. The person you are meeting for the first time does not know you and your appearance is usually the first clue he or she has to go on.
But it certainly does not mean you need to look like a model to create a strong and positive first impression.
The key to a good impression is to present yourself appropriately.
They say a picture is worth a thousand words, and so the "picture" you first present says much about you to the person you are meeting. Is your appearance saying the right things to help create the right first impression?
Start with the way you dress. What is the appropriate dress for the meeting or occasion? In a business setting, what is the appropriate business attire? Suit, blazer, casual? And ask yourself what the person you'll be meeting is likely to wear -- if your contact is in advertising or the music industry, a pinstripe business suit may not strike the right note!
For business and social meetings, appropriate dress also varies between countries and cultures, so it's something that you should pay particular attention to when in an unfamiliar setting or country. Make sure you know the traditions and norms.
And what about your grooming? Clean and tidy appearance is appropriate for most business and social occasions. A good haircut or shave. Clean and tidy clothes. Neat and tidy make up. Make sure your grooming is appropriate and helps make you feel "the part".
Appropriate dressing and grooming help make a good first impression and also help you feel "the part", and so feel more calm and confident. Add all of this up and you are well on your way to creating a good first impression.
3. Be Open and Confident
When it comes to making the first impression, body language as well as appearance speaks much louder than words.
Use your body language to project appropriate confidence and self-assurance. Stand tall, smile (of course), make eye contact, greet with a firm handshake. All of this will help you project confidence and encourage both you and the other person to feel better at ease.
Almost everyone gets a little nervous when meeting someone for the first time, which can lead to nervous habits or sweaty palms. By being aware of your nervous habits, you can try to keep them in check. And controlling a nervous jitter or a nervous laugh will give you confidence and help the other person feel at ease.
4. Be Courteous and Attentive
It goes without saying that good manners and polite, attentive and courteous behavior help make a good first impression. In fact, anything less can ruin the one chance you have at making that first impression. So be on your best behavior!
One modern manner worth mentioning is "turn off your mobile phone". What first impression will you create if you are already speaking to someone other than the person you are meeting for the first time? Your new acquaintance deserves 100% of your attention. Anything less and you'll create a less than good first impression.
5. Close on a good note.
Keep them wanting more. Show that you had a really good time and would like to see them again. Maybe even text them saying so when you get home. People on a first date not only want to have a good time, but they want to know that you did as well. They want that reassurance. Don't be over clingy though!
Enjoy the lesson! - Розваги
People are complaining about you talking slow, they don't realize this is an ENGLISH LEARNING CHANNEL! as an English teacher, I find your videos REALLY useful for my students, as your speed is perfectly suitable for English learners. You don't need to change!
its INDIAN ENGLISH. we like her way she speak...
you are right
If someone has a problem about slow talking they can watch it on 1.25 speed
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You are right
Here are other tips to impress people with your presentation:
1: Start with a hilarious story.
It always works. But be careful, as the story you tell has to be related to the topic you are representing.
It can be a made up story, which is the case most time. People who crack up at the very first part of your story will be likely paying attention to you.
2: Always smile.
At the time people who want to put their eyes open will be bored unless you give them a good smile.
A smile always intends that you are happy to be between them.
When you will put on a smile people will smile back, which shows that they are interested in you.
3: Add humor
When you are giving a long presentation people will definitely put on their dying efforts to stay awake.
Adding a humor every single time you are starting to present a long part of your presentation, will give people the need to look, listen and like your presentation, it has always helped me put through and it will help you too.
A good presentation always comprises of knowledge, but a great presentation comprises of knowledge, wit, humor.
4: Give great examples.
Giving a great example stands out your point and the point of your presentation.
A presentation which is necessary for people to understand always contains hard parts.
This parts can be improved or shoot through with the use of a relative and direct example, which is easy to understand and to learn for them.
5: Behave/Be confident.
Yes, when you have fear of representing yourself, it can be overcome by your positive though and positive approach.
If you have nervousness gaining upon you, you can think of all the people as spectators of your theater act in which you are a king and they are your fellow kingsmen who have gathered there to listen to what their king has to say.
It will help build confidence in you and you will start smoothly.
So be confident, give abgreat introduction, add humor and you are set to embark them with your livelihood.
Dhaval Shukla yeah u r ri8
john terry Well thank you John.
Mention not pal...
thnx....
Thank u
watch it on *1.25 speed
Thanks!
thaks bro...im tired before.that really helped me out
tat was great bro..
ya it works
Loll I watch it at 1.5 speed
Hey! Niharika - Those are great tips, Keep up the good work.
Thanks for the great explanation. Most of the tips are really helpful. I used to get stuck between the words(which I still do) while speaking a long sentences. I often forgot the word while speaking. These are the main drawbacks of myself while speaking English with my clients and it really disappoints me. Your tips are really helpful. Thanks again.
Now that was an amazing session ! Thanks Niharika for sharing tips with us 😊👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 Truly loved it!
Asiya Fatima Hi nicE information 😋
The Best Lecturer ever!Awesome Niharika...Your body language,voice quality and a magical smile that you make while presenting is just amazing..Keep uploading more videos
It's also necessary for life to make impression. ... so much competition.. But I'm with your knowledge Mam.. thnqq
Hi Niharika ma'am, its really beneficial lecture, looking nly i came to knw Abt d importance of d gestures... urs r too pretty n impressive... Best of luck..
Thank you !!! You are doing a good job , teaching English
I love lessons with you:) many thanks, Joanna
Thank you for all of your amazing videos that I've already watched, they so helpefull. Your speech is si clear and I can understand your English easily even though I'm just a beginner un English learning. Thank you very much
your english is very well and it is such a great thing to see your videos your postures your words are always amazing mam
thank u so much Niharika for sharing this video
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Thanks Niharika ...your video helped me a lot ...because I was an introvert and a shy person...but now I feel confident and positive
Really I have never seen such kind of polite teacher.she has no any over attitude. Love u mam from up.
i am very impressed from due to ur soft english and/or smile
Mubashir hasanokm
Thank you Niharika, my favorite teacher ever.... Great job as usual
hi
Morela Vought yes u are right
Thank You Niharika..!!
Great. Thanks for your lesson. I hope there'll be
more helpful lessons like this.
I m so thankful to niharika mam to provide us good English classes with more impressive,interested and motivational ........I will follow this ......definitely
Great explanation, I think you've changed your hair style... this one fits you very well.
i have notices that too hhh more beautiful
No it is to be impressive lOl
Thanks a ton for bringing these videos for us! Wish you all the best Niharika didi...
I can't do without your lessons.. keep it up. we're really appreciating.
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Hi niharika,
Thanks for your appreciable efforts. One thing I have noticed while you speak.
Firstly you keep repeating some specific words. Of course love the way you pronounce, but you can limit it harmlessly.
secondly you speak giving a lot of energy. That is a very interesting way of communication making you see very lively, but in a one to one interview this may be quite a bit of drain
Yeah but is there a way to have a good personality without looking creepy ?
very useful lesson for my english but most of all for my relations. grazie from roma !!
its working niharika..thank u so much
Hi, I'm extremely lucky to haved an amazing teacher like you#@Niharika. And I also thank GOD for such a special gift to me.
thanks
Hi Niharika, you're amazing and doing a wonderful Job. I really like and enjoy learning from your videos :)
Thanks Niharika.Hoping to get positive results soon with your amazing tips.
niharika was born in newyork to an american father and an english mother
hahhahahaha
she sounds like a typical indian new to a western country or a well educated one in her own country
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+lonely boy sorry im not an english tutor
haven't somebody told you how sweet you talk
Thank you Niharika, for sharing such video. Your smile is woth million roses.
this was just what i have been looking for thanks!! new sub!!!
Watch yandamuri veerendranath interview tips
HI Mam,How we can improve our english???
+Muzammil Chaudhary Well you would need to read a lot, learn new vocabulary. Use the vocabulary you have learned in your daily conversation. Make a habit to watch English training videos ( at least one a day) This would certainly help you to improve your English.
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Hi
thank you for this great lesson. I change myself after watching this video.. regards
This is a great channel thank U Niharika for giving best lesson in a v.adorable manner
Thank U so much.
Thanks Niharika you are really so interesting. I am not. please give me some advise to talk anyone, Niharika when I talk to any girls I have no any issue they would like me too. But when I talk to any boy I will hazitae with the and I forget anything just try to get away from there. the main things is v really fear from boys....
shirin hena
You didn't reply niharika....
Vijay Singh what
firstly u should never tell anyone that u r not interesting...
be confident in your own skin...and keep working hard..
ThiNGS WILL EVENTUALLY START GETTING BETTER...
Prakhar Yaduvanshi thanks but its true I feel it then how can , I should be confidence....
I only came here to listen ur sweet voice.....luv u.
Hello....niharika ! I just love the way you speak...and am trying to speak like you and following your english lessons everyday...:)
Absolutely correct Miss.Niharika ....
thqq soo much fr sharing your abilities with us
these are general tips. it does not give the techniques.
+Master “Singapore Consultants 101” Mastermind - she is not taking money for this and we all must appreciate good work of anyone we see and meet .
Lol
Important,Important,Important,Important
you seem to be very familiar with the word "Important".
LOL;
It's not "Important" yaar... It's "IMFOURRRTHENN' !
Don't you wanna "KHRRIYADE A PHOSEDIVE FORSHD YIMFRRESHAN" ???
(BWAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH)
Ohhhhh. ....I saw your videos first time but I really fall in love with your expressions
yes we really get valuable tips from you and with good gestures
niharika!! do you have a boyfriend..how he use to handle your intense emotional expressions
Don't attack her teacher Nabea
the idea is to talk as though u have orange juice about to spill out from mouth...u r englishwould improve
Really?
lol!😂 it really seems, in the video!
i just started to improve myself your tips are very helpful and your smily face very good to see hope i will learn and talk like you bold one day
Thanks for the tip! You are great!
I could have done the same in three minutes..
she was slower than even a tortoise.
Mridul Sharma 😂
Who's jane? Jk you're good.
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what
+Tehreem Irshad Hi
Dear niharika
Really your words and way of explanation is very adorable.
Whole heartedly you doing this
Vaaalthukkkal(congrats)
Wanting more lessons from u Niharika..your tips are very good.love all your lessons. .please post a lesson with pronunciation .
Nice
i am in class 10 how i can attract her ... she falls in love with me
archana sharma hehehe just said it your feeling to her dont you worry
U looked quite impressive and a perfect guide to me. Keep up ur good work 🤗😄
Thank you Niharika. That was a boost up for me. Will work on it. Keep the good work going.
Really your lectures are very good and fruit full for me thanks mam
Dear Niharika you are the Best.
Thank you very much for your help and support .
Your video really helped me for my English communication. Thanks a million.😊
Niharika you are too good..your lessons are worth-watch
Beautiful, not only the lesson, of course you too. All the five TIPS are important To Improve Performance (TIP). Thanks!
Hats off for your hilarious dedication to educate the people's as u can..
I just luv to watch ur videos bcoz of ur awesome smiling expression which makes me not to turn away from watching.. thanks mam
Kishore Kumar bnçohh
Niharika .....your ways to express different things in cool manner is the best. Your English is really good to everyone.......Thank you
Thank you so much for yours most wonderful guidance..!!!
super niharika.Awesome 5 tips..y easy to understand your teaching,
.best of luck niharika.
1) Slow 2) Clear 3) Nice Gesture 4) Smiling simple and pleasing : HATS OFF, HIHARIKA.
I like conversations of niharika. For me niharika the best moderator(teacher) in lets talk page
Thanks Niharika, for teaching this useful lesson.
you speak so clearly and these clues are useful for people Thanks for sharing 😊
just great ahhhh...you know what the smile that you give everytime is just making me crazy.my request just keeping smiling everytime you upload new lessons
this is very important and informal videos.
it will definitely help to become smart.
you have to be positive all the time.
I would also share a experience with you guys that never make a decision about anyone according to his outlook.
thank u niharuka it's very useful for my start up career
hiii, this video was very useful to my career thank u niharika! hav a great day
really I loved your Pranounciation , expression and elegance,
Great
You are simply great. Niharika
Is so great to learn with that beautiful smile..thank you so much
Thank you Madam. I am delighted to see your video. I wish your effort enrich people around the globe.
Thanks Niharika, East and west Niharika is the best.
hey niharika I found your videos much useful for me . Thanks a lot
Thanks a lot.. i had to present on this topic and had problem finding the data
Hi Niharika I am Pradeep, Your way of teaching style & your pronunciation is very excellent.Thank you Niharika I wish you to teach long life , Great Job..
Great communication and body language skill you got. Thank you.
shez so gud...Neeharika good job keep going...i am so thankful that ur videos did helped me ...it works...keep up d gud work..
i am impressed ..... thank you very much Niharica
i love to watch your video again and again.... i m kind of facinatated of your voice,eyes...nd all things dat u have
Very effective for developing interpersonal skills...
Niharika, you have got so delicate personality, very decent and Sweet talking style. I like it so much :)
hey great work...keep posting more videos,.....i m your new fan,....just started to watch your lessons,they are great.the most lovely part of your video is your killer smile.,your smile keeps me connected so keep smiling......
Some people are complaning about you being so slow but let me tell you . You are absolutely good at your speed .
Please dont change.
We are here to learn english not to communicate so its really very good . Keep it up dont change.
Thank you
You are one of the best teachers that I have seen in internet, Niharika! I loive it... Can somebody tell me what is the soundtrack used in this video? Thanks in advance.
I would like to Thanking You, For Teaching us very useful Things which could be helpful in future.
Thanks Niharika mam.
julie makhecha Hello 👋 juli ji
these are really GREAT tips and thank you sO much❤💙💜💛💚👍👍👍for this☝
not only good tips its very great motivation... Tnkq Niharika
Hi, Niharika
Thanks for your valuable tips.
its very nice class from today onward i practice spoken English by your videos. thank you so much.
great tips niharikaji,thank you so much