5 Body Language Tricks To Make Anyone Instantly Like You - Personality Development & English Lessons
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- Опубліковано 3 сер 2024
- 5 Body Language Tricks To Make Anyone Instantly Like You - Free English Lessons
There's no question that body language is important, you can capture - and hold - anyone's attention without even saying a word. We've selected some of the best body language techniques and shared them through this lesson:
The Flooding Smile
"Don't flash an immediate smile when you greet someone," If you do, it appears as if anyone in your line of sight would receive that same smile.
Instead, pause and look at the other person's face for a second, and then let a "big, warm, responsive smile flood over your face and overflow into your eyes."
Even though the delay is less than a second, it will convince people your smile is sincere and personalized for them. According to Lowndes, a slower smile can add more richness and depth to how people perceive you.
Sticky Eyes
Pretend your eyes are glued to your conversation partner's with sticky warm taffy, Even after they've finished speaking, don't break eye contact. "When you must look away, do it ever so slowly, reluctantly, stretching the gooey taffy until the tiny string finally breaks." This technique will help you appear more intelligent and insightful.
The Big-Baby Pivot
People are very conscious of how you react to them. When you meet someone new, turn your body fully toward them and give them the same, undivided attention you would give a baby.Pivoting 100% towards the new person shouts, 'I think you are very, very special.'"
Limit the Fidget
If you want to appear credible, try not to move too much when your conversation really matters. "Do not fidget, twitch, wiggle, squirm, or scratch, Frequent hand motions near your face can give your listener the feeling that you're lying or anxious. Instead, simply fix a constant gaze on the listener and show them that you're fully concentrated on the matter at hand.
Using your hands
Use you hands to create appropriate gestures. Hand movements help you to get the words out of your mouth accelerating your thought process. Do not cross your hands while speaking, It passes a signal that your are disinterested in a conversation. - Розваги
I smiled at an angry person and now I have only 2teeth left.
hehehehe...
😁😁 nice yeaa
RazerX Gamer 😂😂😂
RazerX Gamer hahahahahah
swiftie forever m
1. Flooding Smile 0:57
2.Sticky Eyes 2:02
3. Big Baby Pivot 3:12
4. Limit the fidget 4:33
5. Using hands 5:27
You are welcome.
+Oscar Estrada Nice summary. Thx.
thanks man
thanks.
+Oscar Estrada thanks man u read my mind
+Oscar Estrada or if you are super short on time, read it in the description.
Just be yourself. People who wanna like you will like you. People who wanna hate you will hate you anyway no matter what you do. Don't try to fit yourself in anybody else's box. Just be yourself. Respect yourself. That's it.
Very true they ll like the way just how we are!
Hmm....💯true
I disagree... Sucess in life matters... It's just only etiquettes in conversation which benefits.. take it in a positive way..
You are right 100% @S V
@@elizabeththomas4956 yes, this is a mature stuff. I m sure they will surely realise later.
If I make a eye contact to any one I probably forget what I was going to talk 😂
Hey wowww😂
😂😂😂😅Same her
Awww. 😍
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I guess best body language is being confident with simplicity☺
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What like, hmm are you married,
Undoubtedly..!!!
Not even , they've already got clarity. So, NOthing else matters.
stop criticizing the presenter yall are mean no wonder you guys are here for tips to be liked
+Kim edlund Yes, I notice all the haters. It's just amazing the level of stupidity that some of us still have. That's why we are where we are.
+Kim edlund oh so you defenetly dont have a sense of humor
dont be so sarcastic
+raptorjp4 No it isn't. It just makes you look like an ass.
+mahesh rautray Indeed! Arrogant and hypocritical.
+mahesh rautray hahahaha
I always gave smile to everyone but then, some of them called me crazy.
Me too,😂
Not that simile in this video,you are like smiling to boys its become crazy
Hhhhh me to 🤣🤣🤣🤣
smile to me i think you make me crazy
😂😂😂itni b smile n krnii hoti😂😂
No trick needed. Embrace the moment with sincerity🙏🏾❤️🔥
Then why are you here?
It holds good when you are meeting someone for personal relationship ( like example Meeting partner for arrange marriage proposal, etc)
But not in professional meetings..
You have to follow basic etiquettes in professional meetings...
My advice to impress others
1)Be yourself
2)Use a natural smile when you meet known persons.Keep your face natural without over expressions.
3) Avoid hand gestures.It looks like overacting
4)Use your full attention while speaking with others
5)Speak in your voice naturally.
These tricks will help everyone.
Agreed. Some people just seem like they're trying too hard and it's a bit overwhelming.
I don't understand why you people are doing mean comments you guys are saying she is overacting but that's not all....that's her self-confidence.please stop doing mean comments.
GGD
@@LalitKumar-sc9hs what does that mean
ur are right
@@stylishteens989 right 👌❤
Right words
Your 5 points are absolutely correct. I have already applied them in life before seeing your video. I have learnt first 3 point and last point on my own by using observing skill, but the 4th point i.e. giving full attention learned from you today. Thank you for the 4th point.
hey girl!....u said exactly what is written in "How to talk to anyone"book..got u😁
be yourself.. thats the only and best tips to be like by others.
👏
Be the best verson of yourself.
If you know this , then why are you here
Yeahhh
perfect.. 😎😎😎
I did the first one ie: "FLOODING SMILE THROUGH THE DAY" then on nxt I was in MENTAL HOSPITAL 😑.
HARSHA ABHIMANYU Abhimanyu 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
HARSHA ABHIMANYU Abhimanyu 😁
😂😁😀
lol
Everyone will easily impress, if someone has smile like you.. ..none other tricks need to do....☺
😂😂
i was thinking of that when i see the thumbnail 😇
😂😂
Bade Tez Ho Rahe Ho 🙂
Sahi khely ho bhaiya
i was in school when i have went through this video .. i was totally in love with this.. her teachings.. thanks a lot.. watching it in my masters now .. still giving me goosebumps
Guess you forgot to credit the Book you referenced these techniques from. It's How to talk to anyone by Leil Lowndes
+nishantve1 also there is this book titled 'The Definitive Book of Body Language' .
Turn the speed to x1.25........thank me later
lolol
haha thank you buddy!
😂😂
good observation
yeep thank you !! that saved me a lot of time xD
Just wow🌹
Mam u r amazing
The way u talk the way u explain ur expectations
And most important is ur smile 😊
💐👌🏻
I love watching your videos, I'm improving my English speaking skills with the help of your best contents provided in your you tube videos. Thank you Niharika..
rule no.1
you can make people like you without doing over acting.
rule no.2
follow rule no.1 😂
#Edit: wow 1.3k likes. Thankyou so much guys. Lots of love 😘😍💕
Lol
😂
Mem is good
😂
Awesome😂😂
This also a 5 step guide to giving people the impression you're an intense psychopath. Btw this presenter said the eyes are the most important part of the body and later changed her mind to say the hands are the most important part of the body.
***** Hahahahhaa you're mean :D
You're right.
+IntouchMusic The tips seem useful for being on camera though
+IntouchMusic Exactly lol
You said it! People would think a person is bat poop crazy with giant creepy smiles, staring in their eyes, using crazy hand movements! This stuff screams creepy creeper creepily creeping around some creepy corner!!!!!!!
Very nice mam, all your videos helped me a lot during my interviews. Ignore the critics and do your work. Great work
You are using all of the tips😁
I have one more tip after watching this video --> don't move your mouth too much
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like how? 😂
Like u see her
+RP don't use such language
+sanu adake like who?
I was walking at the street and saw a cute girl she looked sad a bit...I just smiled to her and she came to me and said "thanks".
How cute!!!
so
you are looking like a batman.hero
wake up dude
maybe you do look like captain america
Your intonation is awesome, with your smiling face I really love to watch you and learn from you. You are simply superb...💯
Very positive and Superb Tricks..
Thanks for let us know... Thank you so much.
no matter what people critize you in the comments section
but you are liked by atleast one person
,,.
Who's that lol?
I like your cute smile with teeth:😄😍
And one here too😊
Oh is that you
I instantly didnt like the presenter?
Why do you have to make two comments about not liking her? :/ she's just trying to help people
Shes trying to make money at something shes not good at and wasting people's time, she's also contradicting herself as she cant practice what she preaches.
Bingo Bongo
Seriously. i'm getting fed up of all these phonies who try yo make actors out of us. Its all a bunch of bull crap.
Bingo Bongo I'm Ron Burgundy? There was no reason whatsoever to put a question mark at the end of that?
Bingo Bongo 100% agree - her word-ordering is also incorrect. She speaks with a very non-native sounding tone, it's too forced.
Ma'am, I first time came across your videos. You are fabulous, passionate, energetic... Thanks for the videos. Waiting for more & more interesting topics.
I am in love with your fast English speaking... I loved it
But what about my ugly face
Lol..
Work with it. Never focus on your face, instead your whole body. No, I don't mean you're ugly, that's your current imagination. I've met someone who is ugly (I know, that's not true) yet she looks sexy and beautiful because she didn't focus on her looks, but rather her wholly being. Was this helpful?
+Francis Kim Chinchontic (Kim Chow) hey u got a point there ! Very useful ! Kinda liked ur view ! Good
+Jhon Harris Go learn proper grammar before trying to insult someone 😂😂
It's ok, you have a lambo.
1. Smile. 2. Make eye-contact. 3. Give all the attention to the person. 4. Don't move much. (Can I move my mouth at least?) 5. Use your hands to talk. (Wait, haven't you said to don't move?)
Thank you
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R you serious she says dont move extra or stop multitasking
@@ajaykumarkarn3356 and you replied to a person who commented that 5 years ago😭😂😂
I was single and I am still single -_-
Simp
😂 lol
No one deserves you
You are in friendzone
Now!??
Niharika, I implemented these steps one by one while watching this video. Thank you.
The way you talk in this video would never gonna feel natural. It's like, you have rehearsed for this video over 100 times and trying to give your 100 percent by giffy hand gestures, broad smiling, and putting lots of efforts on words while talking 😑
xshay dallatics chup kar chutiye
Muh se hugna band kijiye pehle aap
100 tymz practsd but still not confident bout wat u r speaking..itz lyk u reading out a tongue twister..
d content is NYC but d way u presented..I doubt!!
"a" "a" "a",
xshay dallatics ya right!! she is artificial
I agree🙋
Dynamic and enthousiastic video ! A few years ago I started to smile more often (without faking it).. It changed my life. You become happier and warmful towards others and you stop thinking about your problems. As a seller, it is also very effective and very pleasant for the customer and the co-workers. Please smile people ;-)
It’s really an amazing video 👍... it would really make a person look more confident if kept in mind ...
Ma'am your tricks worked on me, when I saw you on UA-cam for the first time😍
This is all bullshit. The only way to be liked is to be yourself.
this
yeah, true!
hahahaha
+Jerson Atilo I can do a bigger laughter than that. HAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA!
+Christopher Wallace That's fine. I hate you too.
She be like: HI FRIENDS!
meh: your not my friend. 😐
+Sachin Aravind PREACH 👏🏻
Ultimate trick...Feel the conversation!👍
Crossed hands are self soothing...not what we’ve always been told it’s a fallacy but thanks for the advice
Is UA-cam telling me something by recommending this? O.O.
Same here
haha same
yup thats right
What does Google think of me? hnmmm ....
haha same here
I appreciate the effort you have taken to share such lessons to the prudent generation of today!! You are so expressive. Good job!
These tricks have been explained in Jeff keller's book 'Attitude is everything'. I have read that book more than ten times.
This would be really helpful.
Thanks for giving us such a wonderful lesson.
And yeah, you look beautiful.
Benign smile with a humble behaviour
but she is married
it's just me or she feels like overreacting person...
Same
Lubhanshi Aggarwal she is using her own tips way too much. feels like should go and punch her..
+Naresh Ugaonkar hahah 😂😂 she is smiling too much 😂
Lubhanshi Aggarwal yah like her teeth are gonna fall out or something..
+Naresh Ugaonkar She is trying to force you like her :D
She knows how to talking with peoples / learners and those tips are very useful nd it's not mean she is overacting
Definitely she know how to talk properly
Swapnil Borale yeah bro ..i agree with u ...U told such a good point and that's why u got so less likes but the other's bad comments have got so many likes ... disgusting
just setup
#RIPENGLISH
I seriously hate when you start talking to a person and they takes their phone outta their pocket to see the emails and msges.
That sucks.
Like Am I joke to you?
They are effin' tryhards. C'mon, they had have to an extorted attitude,duh! -_-
@Katrina M
So true
So so true
I do that when I want to ignore 😉
Shreenjan.... Stop talking to those stupid people who don't value you.
Me tooo😑👍🏼
Thank you so much .. I really need this to know 😊😊
Mam u r SMART GIRL...a lot of ppl doing negative comments...ur style suits u although many r saying negative...mam,dont get demotivated,i am in ur support..Thanks you...
The habit of people is very bad,they always troll when CUTE and SMART GIRL says something....even girls doing negative comments,i ask them Where is Girl Empowernment now??
Madam it's all about money without money how much u do smile it does not going to help u second thing be natural and never try to be one that u are really not.
hmmm right bro
bhisham dev pandey then u should go for money 😎
agree wid ur scnd oppinion
I could not watch full video it's irritating
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By His Grace, am following the same in talks. ❤️👍🙏
Just impressed at you and your flooded smiling with body language
let me give you the 6th tip "Don't imitate, Be yourself" Girl you really need to work on this!!
some people are just so mean... If you don't like this video, then go watch the ones you like... why bash a woman whose intention is to help others who may need it.
Lavender I know right? no wonder they are all here
being rude to a women who is just trying to speak English is unattractive man
I just wonder
Wilna Torres you're right
very good reply for non senses
that's true ........I like her too much......people have excess time to waste on such things
Thanks a lot for your help. To build my structure...😊
This is really amazing.
i smiled at a girl and now I am in the jail
ROFL... SO funny
hahahaha.
hi hi hi sometime smile scary people.
Oh dear
THEN HOW THE FUCK DID YOU POST THIS COMMENT??
I love it! I'm an English teacher also. I recently did a video on making English speaking friends. However you took a different take on the issue. Really helpful! Love the flooding smile. :)
Wow! You are the perfect expression of what you teach
This 5 Body Languages is really useful for me . Hope for everyone . Thanks Niharika
eyes - most important part of the body
hands - most important part of the body
what's not important then? :D
+Divyanshu Mishra nose
+Divyanshu Mishra thats what im thinking
+Divyanshu Mishra instead of picking out the faults out of her telling, you should better pay attention to the core part which she has explained, brother...! Don't you think it was much helpful...?!
Bipin Pawar I wouldn't have criticized if I had found this video helpful in any way. :)
+Divyanshu Mishra I'm sure that was just a test to make sure you were listening. lol
I don't know why so many dislikes? She did a great job! Thanks girl.
Thanx...for giving these amazing tips....
Tnx for another amazing n interesting lessons keep it up
who else has got annoyed by facial expression in first seconds?
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thanks Nihirika!!! understanding body language, in both its use and interpretation, is so powerful in relationships of all types. I have used similar techniques regarding interpersonal and professional communication with much success for years now.
Additionally, I have found that using and repeating a person's name 3 times during the conversation emphasizes the value placed on the speaker and topic. btw - your hair is beautiful. Thanks again Nihirika✌
What not
U r great mam
I realy loved hearing u
keep making videos for us 💕
Mam,
I totally appreciate your performance. You are fantabulous !
I feel weird staring at someone in the eyes the whole time, I fear them not being comfortable :/ would you guys feel okay if we were talking and I glued eyes the whole time?
if that's you in the pic then no I wouldn't mind :)
+samuel emirov lol that person in the picture is a model name cara delevingne
+Snake1n I am perfectly fine with it but I notice that some people shy away from it. Eye contact is not just proper manners. It is a must for anyone learning public speaking and communication. It shows inner strength (no shying away) and makes what you say appear more reliable.
Just look at their nose or forehead, they won't know
u knw I hv a habit of staring in eyes while talking...nd I dnt knw hw I got that habit bt now as soon as I start talking to sm1 with whom m nt frank,without intending to I talk while making eye contact. ..nd I just want to lose this habit bcz nt only does this make me nd ppl uncomfortable bt also I never achieve frankness with them...any tips hw to lose this habit??
Truely said... Smiling attracts everyone and gives positive energy and whatever we give, it comes back. Excellent initiative 👌☺
You got my full attention, your style is loud and clear, thanks
Niharika you are very exceptional teacher that I have ever seen while your's teaching are very excellent.
I love all ur videos... I don't know why the people are commenting so negative.... I think they can't speak in British English that's y they r jealous of you...
U please continue wot u r doing..
I always watch all yr videos and yr voice is so cute.. Thank you Dr neharika
Not EVERY single one of us AND since when could you read their mindset to know?
Over expression cannot be considered as genuine. One should not try too much as that becomes unnatural.
I don't think she is speaking British she speaks American
@@murrahfan ...yes sir
Woah woah I live in London that is not British English 😂
Great tutorial. I'll definitely try to follow these 5 steps.
Thank you very much.
You are so fluent in english👍👍
Thank you for giving this tips
I smiled at the mirror and looked creepy
hahah me asf. reading the comments before watching
I smile at the mirror and it smiles back...guessing I must be hot!!😎
Scream Akat hhjjddjkakakakaalakaaakakkamaakskakja
smile from the heart
cause ur probably ugly
To the people saying to "just be yourself": This video isn't a tutorial to change your entire personality. This girl isn't saying "hey guys I'm gonna teach you how to change who you are and how you live your life to get people to like you more!" This video is strictly explaining how body language can change how you affect people's initial reaction to you during confrontation or during a meeting or anything of the sort. It's actually a very informative video if you *ever* want to land a new job somewhere. You don't want to go into an interview fidgeting your hands, touching your hair, avoiding eye contact or giving the impression that you can't handle confrontation, do you? I didn't think so. Some people really miss the point. Great video, really helpful! :)
I agree, but that's what youtube is about, field with trolls, and I am a troll catcher free of charge, lol
Gonna be honest, all this advice makes you come off as someone who tries way too hard and is super basic.
I hv fallen in lv wth u
My friend likes your tips but the way you speak looks like you put all your energy and so much pressure in every word and when you speak we can see inside your mouth even your throat . So my suggestion is you speak softly and please do not wear red lipstick it takes all the attention on your red lipstick and when you talk please stop moving your hands and stop the motions it makes it weird.o yeah one more thing THINK BEFORE MAKING A VIDEO! It's just a friendly suggestion .
Shortened version: How to be a morelikable/ attractive.
I got all those working in your own body language... really helpful... ♥️
This is one of the most useful youtube channel , Thank you so much
Nice hints. You're good at explaining things. I admire you. Keep up the good work.
2:15 "eyes, the most important part of your body"
5:35 "hands, the most important part of your body"
WHICH IS IT!!
EXCELLENT information!!! Thank you Thank you Thank you ♥️
I'm unable to stick my eyes to her she oscillates like pendulum
🤣
Lafamao 😂😂😂
I'm italian I can give you lessons on body language aahah
Ho pensato subito la stessa cosa ahahah
Yah seniorito pan I ave no idea vat me sayin oil also soleikd
Walter Brancatisano I love spaghetti with meatballs!
Brad Saint George I'm happy for you but in Italy we don't eat spaghetti with meatballs :-)
Dario Falzarano I learn something new every day : ) I just researched it and apparently if I want spaghetti with meatballs I will need to go to an American restaurant! lol thanks for the info Dario!
Very simple yet very effective and valuable advice, thanks.
Hi sis, Really you are awesome... I love your slang very much and I am following your tips for improving myself 😊
Well said . What she says , certainly works. Thanks
Did anyone noticed "Over Acting"...!!!!
lol,yeah!
hahaha ikr. 😂😂
+Swati Thakur hehehe
+Ishan Kapoor Nope!
but your grammar. sorry!
yes i did
Yours videos are excellent and wonderful with smiling face your doing great job
Thank you so much Niharika for a very nice video. This is amazing and very helpful. I like your smile and I like how you are a very confident speaker. YOu actually practrice what you preach. I am taking a public speaking and active listening course at college and I hope that all these tips are going to be very helpful to me. Kudos!
Im really impressed by your body language.
Simply terrific!
These tricks are very effective , thank you for sharing this.
Thank you
It's really great video sharing lecturer. I love it.
Thank you so much for your important information