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But the man needs to reach out because he's masculine. If he's waiting for me, then he's feminine.
Like this clown. Don't take advice from a creepy male feminist type eh...
Correct!
My comment got removed lol.... Why you ladies listening to this lol fem-boy?
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This!
I will never contact any man first 😊
that's been me since I was 13. I approached a guy and it felt like crap I was so nervous my friends peer pressured me into it. Turned out up close he wasn't cute anyway and I did not miss out. ahaha. Then his cousin tried to get me (He was not cute either).
My daughters are not gonna do this. I’m teaching them not to chase. Women don’t chase - they attract. So. No.
Amen!!
Women attract and accept.
Masculine energy pursues.
Exactly. He is feminine af I don’t know what kind of women even get atracted to that. I would be gone. Lost insecure af women probably
Asking a woman for her number just to wait for her to call you first is like a salesperson trying to get a potential customer to make a purchase., And once that customer decides to buy what they're selling the salesman then wants them to prove why they should sell that same customer said product.....Thats absolutely asinine Alex and you know it. If I give a man my number and he's waiting for me to call first his sassy princess ass will never hear from me.
After dealing with the narcissist I just got out of a situationship with, I am no longer initiating contact. I am no longer responding. My emotions are dead. I blocked the guys I don’t like. I blocked the guys I do like. I’m not following them on social media. Humans are dead to me romantically.
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Peace to you,
I understand from experience what dealing with a Narcissist is like but I urge you to not let them win. Learn to trust YOU and practice discernment.
You’ll be alright.
Cheers & Godspeed ✌🏽
Preach 😂 !!
All these men can eat their teeth as far as I'm concerned 😑.
But Alex!!! Why do you want the girl to contact you first when you would teach us not to initiate?????
Because he already initiated first by approaching her and giving her his number and/or asking for her social media account. Y’all arent seeing the bigger picture and are focusing too much on the trees rather than how the trees fit in to the forest. You are missing the method to his madness. He’s a little insane yes but also brilliant. Stop asking the question or defending the limitations and pause with it for a bit and then the info. will integrate if you let it!
It’s about creating tension which involves being a part of a dance rather than memorizing scripts and playing solitaire alone with a set of rules to perfect. Y’all are missing the flow here. 😂😂😂
Ladies- get a guy that knows you’re out of their league and he’ll treat you like a queen. You’ll have more control and won’t get your heart broken bc they like you more
Lies 😆
Hmm- if we’re basing this on looks I was out of my husbands league and once we got married he turned into a dick- but he realized that looks alone wasn’t enough
@@Machenziethemodel go for the ugly ones lol
Even the ones whose league we are out of play games these days. It used to be this way.
unfortunately true. be smarter than them@@ladyindigo1649
Only insecure women will chase man! And you will have drama after in relationship when she lose respect for you!
We are taught as women that it is a mans nature to go after the woman they want...i am a woman..if a guy asks for my number and there is an exchange...as a women He is supposed to connect first..Women are the cheese..the cheese don't chase the rat Alex😂❤
Great analogy! ❤
May I ask why yous are listening to this clown?. Of course men are supposed to chase tho. If I didn't give af about the girl I've been bothering with now she'd never hear from me again... Lol.
Alex is ultra feminine in his approach to women. & he resents the women he “has” to pursue. Kinda weird tbh.
Remember he's the toxic coach
@@Dream-rl9erI had someone like that it didn’t workout because we were both to feminine
their is nothing to change but self .. doing the inner work to become magnetic nd let them come to me
Teaching girls to chase men? Wow and I almost bought your stuff
I was confused about his perspective
It is an easier sell. Women these days are desperate. He knows this. So if there is a course that makes a woman thinks she is in CONTROL, then she will be more committed to investing in that. Women think everything is in their power, so the idea that can assert some sort of power over these men is more permissible for them.
Father Alex ? More like Mother Alex in this video 😅
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He’s talk about giving signals.. then stepping back and letting them work for you.
I will never contact or initiate conversation with a man ever again
LADIES DONT LISTEN TO THIS THIS IS TERRIBLE ADVICE
Trust me You will regret it
So basically what you're saying is is nobody should be chasing anybody therefore none of us get laid lol.
Yep. Both y’all single asf. He won’t chase you, and you certainly won’t.. and once time passes and your value goes down it will never come back. Only regret left.
I don’t think this applies to men. Just my opinion, men are biologically wired to be the chaser, pursuer so they gotta go after the woman they want period. I will not message any man for any reason. I don’t chase, I attract and that’s my forever stance as a divine feminine. If a man wants me adding me on social media or liking my pics will never be enough, if he don’t plan a date and take me out and pursue me I simply will move on. We are living in the sassy man apocalypse rn where men think they are the prize🙄
Whew chylle this is a word. And the sassy man apocalypse is mortifying.
OMG SO ON TIME THANK UUUUU FOR THIS VIDEOOOO
This is so good I'm actually taking notes 😂 First time ever on a UA-cam vid. Mostly bc no matter how old I get, I always fall into the habit of pursuing more.. especially bc I'm trying to distract myself from traumatic events in my life. It's also what we do bc we are afraid of rejection or being hurt again, so we subconsciously sabotage it. I almost have a BS in psych & have always been fascinated. This is one of the best summaries I've heard on the polarities between us & I respect you even more now. Didn't think that was possible.
Thank you ❤ happy Saturday
The goat 🐐😍😍 you looking real good lately
This guy is great, he’s real. What I especially appreciate is how fluid he is rather than applying cooking cutter rules based in outdated gender norms and expectations. I can tell this man is genuinely confident in his masculinity AND he knows how to talk to women. I can tell he genuinely sees women as an equal and that is not only charismatic and attractive, but it also makes me, as a woman, more open and receptive to his dating advice. As opposed to the other men dating “coach” quacks out there that come off as condescending, belittling and ignorant to the women they are trying to educate. ❤ thank you! 🎉
I needed to hear this. Thank you.
This is not true lol…as much as I like a man, if he doesn’t text me first and show his interest in me, I will not reach out or initiate.
so you both wait for the other person to initiate contact, nothing happens. 😶
You're acting like both of you guys. Watch my channel. No. This is a message for the people who watch my channel. Most likely 99.99999999999% of the world wont watch this and so this won't be a problem
wish guys would stop throwing the word love around.....sucks getting love bombed or adhd hyperfixate on us then they pull away or arent affectionate...the main thing i know for sure AVOID AVOIDANTS AND NARCS.....but im def suffering from someone who has adhd that is super into me but pulled away or the hyperfixate is gone and they wanna be around me but it dont feel the same bc i love affection...starting to think the adhd male should get added to the list.....always felt like males act way worse than females with these tendencies since females have lower abuse rates
This was great one of the best videos for me .
I struggle with anxious attachment and i really needed this today he says that he is interested but never asked me to visit and i always text first. He say he wants to get to know me but is not doing anything to do that
None verbal communication through his actions is telling you he doesn’t want you. He says he interested but never initiates a date. words and actions have to align no actions means no interest no contact means no interest hope this was helpful be blessed
@@Godtruthsetsusfree888that's why I tell men to show me after they SAY they want something with me.
Now , you're contradicting some of your videos. I'm so disappointed
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Soo good!
I never contact a man first and never will. And yes continue contact with those who reciprocate. Theres nothing more cringe than someone pursuing you when you clearly are showing no interest and vice versa. Personally if im feeling a guy and hes not feeling me then thats it. I let that go. Dont be desperate.
Ladies, if you have to contact them first. Move on
Good points
Cool, thanks Father Alex.
Think!😮 You’re the channeling Father Alex😊🎉
Thank you
I’m tired of this love shit nobody has ever liked me for real LMAO
I think Alex fails to realise, that the advice cannot be generic for males and females all the time. Our brains are wired differently. A woman who chases is being masculine and subconsciously it will turn a lot of men off. If you are teaching men to wait for women to initiate, you are telling men to go against their nature of being the pursuers. I understand when guys are extremely shy or insecure, they may need a woman who initiates more but generally this wont work. Some of Alex's advice is contradictory and doesnt take into account male and female psychology. We are not the same. He may have success with women initiating, but how long do these relationships last? They were easy victories but never last because deep down it's a turn off when a woman chases.
Exactly!!! Perfectly said!!!! It’s in a man’s innate nature to pursue! Every animal male species knows this!!!
Again fada Alex, dame you've been dropping vida 2 times a Day.. 😢😅😂🎉🎉🎉
I don't know the types of girls you meet but you would wait forever for me to reach you and it won't happen not even in your next life!
Dalexisp...the women complaining are petty...great content...i love you... congratulations 💕👏👏
HAPPY SABBATH DAY BABY ❤ I ALWAYS LOVE YOU🎉 💯 AND GOD BLESS YOU ENDLESSLY 🙏... And SOME ppl REALLY ARE THAT BUSY, dEpends on ur life and what u do 💯 HOWEVER, i do get what ur saying... You still gotta make the time 😊.. Thank you 💝
Father Alex what’s your opinion on “The 5 categories men put women in while dating” do you agree?
Act accordingly.
lmao nah imma take your advice bc atp im tieeeed
Love u 💕 lil' Bro...
Can you re make this video but use the situation of if the chick is talking to someone famous. Do these rules still apply? Should you let the person chase you or should you pop up on them?
yup u know...sense it they dont like u that much. i bought a guy at work box of.chocs, basically he no longer asks me for lunch/ tea. he was happy wen he got the gift but now hes cooled off these past few weeks ☹
Never give a man anything! The more you do, the less you are respected or appreciated.
Never buy a guy a thing unless he is your man 😂😂❤
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I was following what u were saying till you said as man you don't initiate contact with women you're interesting in .... smh 🤦🏽♀️
Getting/giving a number means nothing. I can’t tell u how many guys have asked for my number or gave me theirs and it meant nothing. They never reached out.
You have to make it hard to get that’s why
@@munchkinsophie I agree with you. But from what Alex said his examples are the opposite!
on the flip side the love bombers and narcissists to watch out for
People come with bagage now thats a big issue. Some people are afraid. I'd be intested to know your opinion on dating with the different attachement styles.
Don’t do this ladies. And fellas, if you do this, you get what you get. Thirsty, pick me types. I can like you, but if you don’t reach out…that tells me you are not masculine enough. So…
Quality women who know their worth will not run down a man because you liked a couple of their pics on IG. 😅😂💀
But Alex I don’t understand u always tell women to never chase 😫
I said in the video that people 90% of the time don't listen to what I say. So you don't have to worry lol especially when they like you
Exactly
Makes me confused too
Very true about no one has self control. Even Alex doesn’t listen to Father Alex 😂
You loose 100% of your opportunity you don’t take. When you don’t chase cause of some video or ego you’ll have nothing left but regret as you get older. The man you want won’t chase you. These strategies will only work on the beta males. And you don’t want the men that chase you. You maybe use them that’s it. Be smart.
Ladies y'all got to realize that guy's also need advice. The guys I watch my channel are not these top honcho celebrities. These are normal dudes who have failure and are tired of women pushing them around. So they also need a advice too and not just you guys. The guys that I give advice to are usually programmers who are successful but struggle with women. So I'm sorry they need that advice as well
Not let’s go after the easy victims 😅😂😂
Lol, who's got time to waste stalking someone's socials just to send the message they like them. How is a like is replacement for actually asking someone out? And is liking someone's post a signal you're into them, now? Like wow, are ppl really that socially awkward these days? 😂
Just ask ppl out for a coffee, yo! The faster you know whether you can vibe, the less time and evergy wasted. Doh!
I feel like I’m always the one initiating contact…we will talk throughout the day, then I may respond to his message in the night and he’ll just continue the conversation when he wakes up he doesn’t actually say good morning unless I mention it and we’ve not called for daysss but idk if it’s bc I don’t even answer his messages so he thinks okay if she’s not answering my messages is she really going to answer my calls. His last call I missed as well and he messaged me (on a different platform) and I didn’t respond till way late then he didn’t respond there he responded on the other platform
That sounds exhausting- how did that work out?
Yea..let them come to you..after sleeping with all these other people!! Lol
Alex, do you believe in marriage?
He would be married.
Has he ever had a girlfriend…
Love this guy 😂
Makes you realize the stupid stuff you have done in the past
Why is he calling me babe/baby but seems like he doesn’t like me??
Wasting your time. That's their trick. They first trap us and then go cold
He doesn't like you. He is trying to manipulate you and make you feel comfortable.
We will nit be chasing men. Ever.
So if she too is waiting for u to initiate contact nko?
Your eyes Are Not Kind. May you be saved
I love your videos but this one is a bit too confusing… I’m not chasing.
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A backflip would be nice though 😊
Ah no for this one Father Alex I thought you advocated for strong women. Man are hunters now you want us as the deers to hunt the lion ? NO!!! Men should initiate and if interested we respond. Woman pursuing a man is just weird makes you look desperate
Dude they WONT.
Why do you call yourself "Father Alex"?
This is so sad! Please don’t teach men this stuff!
This is the BEST VIDEO about ANY relationship in your life!!!! Love this! ❤❤❤
Easy prey, bloodless lol
Pra algumas pessoas falar não significa nada, a não ser que seja uma conversa profunda
This is not good advice. If both parties are told not to approach then no connection will ever be made…
Finally a video I can agree with
Finally? 🤔
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 watch different content creators and nothing they say is relevant but your message stood out to be 💯 authentic, so yep finally a video I can agree with!
How you are teaching women to behave one way, and you'll behave excatly the same way like a women 😂 Wouldn't you appriciate her more when you have done "some work" to get her? Its nature of men to chase, how can you be glad of a women who takes this part even if you are "rewarding" her...I bet you always got tired of these women after time because she was easy and it was obvious that she liked you. However, you are right this strategies obviously work on both sides, but the relationship will definitly not last long, if you are letting her do all the work
This is like crack people 😂😅😅
Sir? Huh
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Creppy😂 na
Dude you’re talking about guys though right? Because if a woman wants to stay feminine then we wouldn’t do this…
You contradict yourself
I don’t usually reach out even if I’m head over heals for the guy, rather miss out than having to chase 🥲 what happened to me a million times tho is that I’m getting asked out, I say yes, then nothing happens, we never meet… wonder if guys are waiting for me to follow up or just not into me, no idea 🤷♀️ I’ve been told I’m good looking and pleasent to talk to so I have no clue at this point really 😩
This guy showed many signs that he’s into men!! This dude is gay but great advice
You got me 😂
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@@MindfulAttraction2.0LMAOOOOO
I Like a guy very much but i won‘t break the rule :-) i will listen to your advise 🫡