How To Love Your Enemies (6 practical things you can do)

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  • Loving your enemies is hard. It's one of the most difficult commands Jesus ever gave. But how to love your enemies might not mean what you think.
    Let's look at 6 practical ways we can show our enemies love. (Matthew 5:43-48)
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    TIMESTAMPS
    0:00 - Intro
    1:35 - Defining Who Are Enemies Are
    2:19 - How To Love Your Enemies: Pray
    3:31 - How To Love Your Enemies: Practice Empathy
    4:53 - How To Love Your Enemies: Find Common Ground
    5:54 - How To Love Your Enemies: Practice Forgiveness
    7:10 - How To Love Your Enemies: Pursue Peace/Unity
    8:10 - How To Love Your Enemies: Be Patient
    9:25 - Closing Thoughts
    Don't forget to leave a comment! How do you show your enemies love?

КОМЕНТАРІ • 44

  • @RethinkwithJefferyPoor
    @RethinkwithJefferyPoor  2 роки тому +2

    What topic would you like to be covered in a future video?

    • @kwesi424
      @kwesi424 2 роки тому +1

      Bro that Wil be a Topic on “Tithe “

    • @RethinkwithJefferyPoor
      @RethinkwithJefferyPoor  2 роки тому

      @@kwesi424 That's on my list to film. Should come out early next year. I've already written a blog post on it that you can read here: www.rethinknow.org/tithing-in-the-new-testament-should-christians-tithe/

    • @themisterg.
      @themisterg. 2 роки тому

      Brother I don’t want to argue for the sake of arguing, I really don’t. I’m watching this because I’m trying to workout the tension within me between loving my enemies and fighting for what is right.
      When you say unity I want to bring up verse such as “What unity is there between light and dark?” Or “I came not to bring peace but a sword.”
      I would love a future video explaining how to love wicked people while still fighting against their deeds and exposing them.

  • @kelterskelter4
    @kelterskelter4 Рік тому +15

    What if your enemies are people who are ruining our mental health with what they do? What if your enemies are not in the past but in your everyday, day after day? What if your enemies are only doing what they do to be mean and hurtful? What if what they do impacts your peace and quiet in your home and you can't get away from it? What if you have searched and can't find a stick of common ground with your enemies? What if you have tried to find that common ground or show peace and try to offer them your friendship but they would rather hate you and menace you than take an olive branch? I have tried with these people and they do not want to change. They are not changing over time. They are becoming worse, and more entrenched in their hatred. Unfortunately, these are the kind of people around us today. They live for revenge because it is the only hit of dopamine they get all day.

    • @loekiekanters4295
      @loekiekanters4295 Рік тому +6

      When you bless your enemy, they no longer affect you. Let God be the judge.

    • @journeyfrombitterness
      @journeyfrombitterness 11 місяців тому

      We may not see the fruit of our long-suffering in this life, friend, but Stephen the Martyr who endured a torturous death at the hands of Saul is now rejoicing in heaven with the man who was changed by faithful love and prayers of believers into arguably the greatest apostle of all time: Paul. Now if you need inspiration and motivation to actually love your enemies, please look up the songs by Christine Delozier: To Follow Christ, Jesus Said To Love Them, (Christians) We've Been Hypocrites, and For Love of Us. THIS is AMAZING GRACE! Let's give it to others in Jesus' name!

    • @journeyfrombitterness
      @journeyfrombitterness 11 місяців тому

      Amen. Now if you need inspiration and motivation to actually love your enemies, please look up the songs by Christine Delozier: To Follow Christ, Jesus Said To Love Them, (Christians) We've Been Hypocrites, and For Love of Us. THIS is AMAZING GRACE! Let's give it to others in Jesus' name, and in eternity we'll see the fruit of our labors.

    • @paulwatson9799
      @paulwatson9799 8 місяців тому +1

      Bad people miss out on a lot

    • @karej9832
      @karej9832 6 місяців тому +1

      This is my problem exactly. My enemy doesn’t want peace. Can I pray and bless him from afar, or do I HAVE to build a relationship with him?

  • @christynoordhoek2636
    @christynoordhoek2636 2 роки тому +4

    I found the suggestion of putting myself in their shoes really helpful. Thank you so much for your content!

  • @kab9052
    @kab9052 2 роки тому +5

    This video is so relevant for me right now thank you for posting this. God-bless you and keep you

    • @journeyfrombitterness
      @journeyfrombitterness 11 місяців тому

      Amen! And if you need inspiration and motivation to actually love your enemies, please look up the songs by Christine Delozier: To Follow Christ, Jesus Said To Love Them, (Christians) We've Been Hypocrites, and For Love of Us. THIS is AMAZING GRACE! Let's give it to others in Jesus' name!

  • @petrosorr
    @petrosorr 10 днів тому

    Thank you for thinking through these possibilities! The Spirit prompted me to actively show someone in my neighborhood love who has been waving a flag for an ideology I consider harmful, and I've been struggling with what to do. I'm not sure how to pray for them. What you said about trying to understand someone else's perspective resonates.

  • @glenoneill3950
    @glenoneill3950 2 дні тому

    EVERYTHING BEGINS AND ENDS WITH YOU.....

  • @azukarzuchastux8066
    @azukarzuchastux8066 Рік тому

    God Bless You and Thank You so much!!!

  • @glenoneill3950
    @glenoneill3950 Рік тому +4

    There are no "enemies"....there is only you........

    • @snickers6125
      @snickers6125 Рік тому +1

      I love this and you so much, God bless

    • @glenoneill3950
      @glenoneill3950 Рік тому +1

      @@snickers6125 I love that name , blessings and love to you too.

    • @snickers6125
      @snickers6125 Рік тому +1

      @Glen Oneill thanks bro! I got that name from my freinds, and most people adress me as snickers irl, funny story how i got that name.

    • @glenoneill3950
      @glenoneill3950 Рік тому +1

      @@snickers6125 Lol....Right away the Snickers bar popped into my head ...lol.....Is it still being manufactured? It has been years....lol

    • @lisarene1000
      @lisarene1000 4 місяці тому +1

      The bible speaks about "enemies"

  • @janesakala1452
    @janesakala1452 29 днів тому

    I like the message

  • @kwesi424
    @kwesi424 2 роки тому

    Brother...you doing great work. More Grace
    I Wil really wish if I can have personal talk with you privately.

    • @RethinkwithJefferyPoor
      @RethinkwithJefferyPoor  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks for watching! I'm glad you find the content helpful!
      You are welcome to send me an email at jeff@rethinknow.org

  • @glenoneill3950
    @glenoneill3950 Рік тому +1

    When one sees one's "enemies" one is seeing one's own reflection.

    • @fmaney5619
      @fmaney5619 2 дні тому

      @glenoneill3950
      Did God say that?

    • @glenoneill3950
      @glenoneill3950 2 дні тому

      @@fmaney5619 YOU SPEAK OF CREATOR AS THOUGH HE IS SEPARATE. WE ARE ALL PIECES OF THE WHOLE....WE ARE THE CREATOR EXPERIENCING BEING A HUMAN BEING......WE ARE ALL ONE ENERGY....SEPARATION IS AN ILLUSION.....CONSTRUCTED FOR THIS EARTH GAME.....IT WAS INTENTIONAL......FORGETTING AND DENYING OUR DIVINITY IS PART OF THE GAME.......COMING TO THE EARTH REALM KNOWING THAT YOU ARE GOD WOULD NOT BE MUCH FUN REALLY.....SO TO MAKE THE GAME MORE REALITIC.....WE CHOSE TO FORGET WHO WE REALLY ARE...ETERNAL BEINGS....WE ARE IN GRAND COSMIC GAME.....PLAYING AN AVATAR CALLED THE HUMAN BEING.....WHEN THE UNIVERSE WAS CREATED....WE WERE ALL THERE......

  • @hemalatha-pn7xe
    @hemalatha-pn7xe Рік тому

    Even they are not trying to know what they did

  • @journeyfrombitterness
    @journeyfrombitterness 11 місяців тому

    Amen. Now if you need inspiration and motivation to actually love your enemies, please look up the songs by Christine Delozier: To Follow Christ, Jesus Said To Love Them, (Christians) We've Been Hypocrites, and For Love of Us. THIS is AMAZING GRACE! Let's give it to others in Jesus' name! I'm so thankful for every believer who's courageous enough to speak up about this teaching of Jesus that completely goes against the grain of the natural worldly mind!

  • @hemalatha-pn7xe
    @hemalatha-pn7xe Рік тому

    But they don't understand what they did. Even they don't understand our forgiveness. Then how can love them?

  • @glenoneill3950
    @glenoneill3950 Рік тому

    You and your "enemies" are one.

  • @glenoneill3950
    @glenoneill3950 Рік тому

    All "enemies" are created by the observer.

    • @fmaney5619
      @fmaney5619 2 дні тому

      @glenoneill3950
      What is the scriptural reference?

    • @glenoneill3950
      @glenoneill3950 2 дні тому

      @@fmaney5619 ALL "ENEMIES" ARE SELF CREATED.......WHEN YOU SEE AN "ENEMY".....YOU ARE LOOKING AT YOUR OWN REFLECTION....ALL YOUR FEARS AND INSECURITES BEING REFLECTED BACK TO YOU.......REALITY IS A REFLECTION.......ONES OUTER REALITY IS A REFLECTION OF ONES INNER REALITY......THIS COULD BE THE REASON THE GREAT BOOK SAY TO LOVE YOUR "ENEMIES"......FOR THEY (YOUR ENEMIES) ARE YOU.....LOVING YOUR "ENEMIES" IS ABOUT LEARNING TO LOVE ONE'S SELF.....TO HAVE UNCONDITIONAL SELF LOVE,,,,,,,NEVER SEEKING ANYONE'S VALIDATION TO AFFIRM THAT LOVE OF SELF....