i can't work a 9-5 job...feels like i'm dying
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- Every time ive worked a job ive always wanted to quit. I never last long at jobs and always hate them. SO this video just expresses my frustration with a message to other people who feel this way
I'm so desperate to break out of this cycle, I feel as if I'm losing literally 9 hours of my life every day and its not helping with my depression, but I need the funds to start a business.
you're gonna break it!
I'm 47 young brother, and let me tell you. It doesn't get any easier. Figure something out now.
Wow I feel this same EXACT WAY literally!!! I wish I had friends like you that truly understand. Being around people who don’t understand is annoying asf omg
💯 I feel tf outta that
This is the most sense I have heard anyone make in a loooooooong time. Being around other people literally makes me feel like I’m the only sober one at a party full of drunks, no one understands me or what I’m saying and I don’t understand anyone else. I feel ya on every level. Thank you for making this video and making me realize that I’m not the only one who feels like this. It’s easy to feel alone in this world.
i realized after my first job made me feel su*cidal that this life path is not for me. i'll make something work but in the meantime just thank u for this video
@@chickentable It’ll work out in the end
It’s your birth right to live how you want. Do people actually think God put us all here to pay bills, taxes to a system and die? Everything from school, jobs to jail was created to keep you controlled and placed into a system. That’s why they call it the rat race. We’re trained to be hamsters in a wheel and slaves to corporate America. We’re told we have to work 40+ hours a week to survive, which then gives little to no time to invest in ourselves or discover our true gifts and talents. We’re too busy just trying to survive and keep up with life’s constant responsibilities. Then they bombard us with credit card debt, student loan debt, mortgage debt, taxes, fees, and insurance just to keep you slaving away in the name of capitalism. It’s all designed to keep you trapped and stuck. Not to mention they raise the cost of living on you every year further squeezing the life out of you forcing you to working harder. Shit is crazy. That’s why you have to keep God first and pray for wisdom, strength and guidance. Work if you have to, but be smart and strategic about it. Save what you can and invest in yourself and your goals. Whatever that may be. Make it where jobs are only a pit stop for you. Not a destination. Find yourself. Discover who you are and what you want out of life. And then go after it relentlessly. Also keep in mind that jobs are different from careers. Careers are usually what people enjoy doing. It resonates with them and uses their unique gifts, talents and skills. It also gives people a sense of purpose. Like they’re making real a contribution to the world. Jobs are just jobs. A means to an end. Just Over Broke. JOB. They rarely make you feel fulfilled or content. Some of us are artists, entrepreneurs, self employed business owners and creatives. Whoever you are or are striving to be is up to you. But half the battle is knowing that you’re weren’t put here to slave away at a mindless job for the rest of your life. Good luck on your journey bro.
The worst part of that is actually having someone above you who is commanding you every day and if you don’t do something properly, you get fired. So you live with the fear that at any moment you could be fired just because you didn’t follow someone’s command. Its just slavery, it’s horrible
And you can’t yell back at your boss so you constantly live with that fear. You just have to shut your mouth and can’t do anything about people above you in that company you work for
Gtfoh with this slave mindset and your negativity
I could live with it if it would be like 20 or 25 hours a week. But not 40h it makes you depressive and sick in your head.
@@michaeljablonowski5014 it really does, the more you spend on your workplace the more you carry all these negativity with you at home. 40 hours is like you spend all your day working for some else’s butt, of course it’s depressing.
@@nfsfreak951 Absolutely. Not to mention you waste your valuable lifetime that no one will ever give you back in return after that.
@@michaeljablonowski5014i mean if they would pay at least big money but hell no. companies just pay you the minimum but expect to work like a robot. I been there, I worked that way, they keep pushing pushing yelling, shouting at you till you break down. its just like that
I found this video funny because it resonates with me so much! I just got a job at Walmart, I worked a 9hour shift for 3 days, I felt like crying 😂.
The older I get the more I realise that it’s best to do things that you’re naturally inclined at or love, have a passion for. This makes life enjoyable and you have to bare in mind that we will be working for majority of our lives, might as well enjoy it and do the things you like. Once you do this being a harder worker, be consistent and showing up everyday is easy!
Fuck this life bro
I quit 3 years ago.....never going back! Everyday is Saturday and i feel free
WWWWWWWW
What do you do for a living if you don’t mind me asking
But your not gonna say what you do for a living is CRAZY
I bought 5 homes...renting them out
If something is so terrible that death seems like a more preferable option, it's just not worth it. Everything you said in this video is, and has been my mentality for my entire life, I don't give a fuck if other people think that this is all that life has to offer, it can be a million times better. People keep asking me, what job I'd like to do, and my answer is "no job", I don't want to work, I don't want to spend my time, the time of the one life I have on this planet on something I hate doing. I never understood how anyone can be okay with this. I want to explore nature, work on my hobbies, and enjoy all life has to offer. Not work. Work is pain, work is misery, work is not fun. I'll try to find something I actually enjoy doing, and incorporate it into a career. I'll be proud even if I fail. 'Least I tried.
Very well put W
You say that but someone paid for the place he stays in and work is usually how that's done.
@@greglane501they have a weak mentality bro. Dude making this video lives in a house that was paid for by work and has the audacity to say he can’t work and it feels like death??? Lmaoo dude if not for your family you’d be homeless.
You don’t want to work but even billionaires work. If you can’t work you’re literally not worth a dime $0.10 in the eye of society. You’re not doing shit for it so why in the fuck should it do anything for you? Lmaoo man get a grip.
I think a job is okay to get back on your feet if you need money. However, it should not be the end all, be all. Start your own business and create your own narrative.
Yesssss
Still gonna be working ...24/7 😅
True but you don’t have to worry about layoffs.
Pros and cons on both ends
This guy sounds like my younger brother with all these "I refuse to be...".
Sometimes you have to grit your teeth and do the grind for a few years, to set yourself up,
before you start to demand your autonomy
I also hate it when people tell me "what should you do"
Its really hard to feel this way coupled with no motivation for any kind of work. Dealing with this the last few years
I got my first job at 15 and I’m only 18 have had 7 jobs since I knew life was bs at a young age and I’m working 40+ hours a week now just graduated highschool in may and I’m already over it trust me I feel you
When you where in high school did you ever sit down and make goals for yourself? What are you doing to better yourself? Are you going to school?
Hell yes! Every part of this video resonated w/my soul. Being this self-aware at your age will benefit you in the long run. I admire your willingness to think outside the box.
Yeah I feel this everyday fuck 9-5 hour jobs its a joke...
Bro you work dead end jobs you never train for a career
I've done that too. Twice. Never works and thats fine.
Thank you so much for making this video. Every single thing you expressed in this video is how I feel. I can't keep a job for longer than a year. I'm literally watching youtube videos on this to justify quitting yet another job even though I know I'm right without any external validation. I'm making the leap. I'd rather remove myself from this earth than spend the next 5 years doing this. I literally have nothing to lose.
Real
“There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re just doing the wrong thing.” Well said! 👏❤️
I hope it all works out… for all of you.🙏❤️
I'm 42 been working since i was 15. I've hated working since was 25.
What made you hate it?
Those rich people you were talking about in the beginning of the episode. What you didn't see was the work they put in.
9-5 job “the pen is blue” type crazy for me, spend your whole life looking at your watch every 15 minutes
I agree 1000%!!! I always felt like this and my family tried to convince me that I had a mental illness just because I knew what I wanted out of my life and was ambitious they always try to hook young people on pills instead of actually getting to the root problem
🔥 🔥🔥
Bro just know after a public video like this… it’s gonna be hard to ask anyone to borrow money so I hope this works for you.
I agree with your viewpoint, God bless you brother 🙏.
I am a 17-year-old Chinese, after watching this video I rethought my life, it helped me a lot, and I plan to study in Germany in a few years. Thank you so much for the video, it helped me a lot.❤
Hope everything works out.
I been getting this feelings all the time when I worked at Walmart (I quit a few days ago😂) but Frfr tho I got really tired of the depression and the mental breakdowns and for a time I thought I could get through it but I couldn’t. It’s something out there for us to really live for that can make us happy for sure
fax just got to give it time. (f*ck that job) W freedom
Guess what pal, even being your own boss and having a business requires work too. Life will not hand you anything if you don’t move
I feel you completely. I agree with you as well.
I feel you. As long as you are not living off others, then do whatever makes you happy.
I agree. These jobs are toxic. I get you completely!! 💯 agree with you
I can relate I feel the same way just tired physically mentally and emotionally sometimes don’t know what to do ❤
Eye Opening Video! Thank you so much man. Every word is correct... i also can't work 9-5 job, so much opportunities.
Same here dudes. I have a tiny small business and clean offices. I love it. It’s late and quiet, that’s where I’m listening to this right now. 1AM. I set my own hours and interact with on one. That’s the best I can do for now until something els takes off. F 9-5s
@@UrbanstarsKwhat kind of business ? I swear You people are robots or something
@@user-gc2ev7do9t Like I said in my comment it’s a small cleaning business lol I clean offices. A couple medical buildings a dentist office and other small spaces. I’m not a bot 😂 I live in Ontario Canada.
same man, im 33 i never could last more than few months in a work, im unemployed now collecting benefits
Hey man I totally understand where you’re coming from I get it.. I’ve been there a lot even today those thoughts come into play.. make sure you don’t have kids if you’re not going to grind for the 9-5 life.. if I didn’t have my family to provide for I wouldn’t be working in all sincerity but yeah I’ve always wanted to be a rapper but unfortunately for me it’s realistic.. I can do it as a hobby and perform at open mics but that’s as far as it can go for me cuz rapping my ass off ain’t gonna put food on the table for the family ya know.. grind the hell out hard while you’re still young enough to do so much love bro.. ❤️🙏
I've been so depressed in the past thinking about all the people who are "free" when I wasn't. I've worked a few corporate 9-5 jobs. I worked as an Amazon driver. I worked in a pharmacy. I worked in a call center. I worked in sales. I worked in marketing. I worked in real estate....etc. The blue collar jobs I had made me feel more free (got to be outside all day with nature and people). However, the blue collar jobs left me exhausted after the 10-12 hour shifts required. I've tried everything to be "free." I tried doing UA-cam but felt too uncomfortable on camera and I hated it. I'm too private to make content online. I literally feel like I've tried EVERYTHING at this point. Btw, I'm not even 30 yet. I've been through all of this in my 20's still. Each day feels exactly the same until you start to feel dead inside.
Yesss baby, the more I do what I want the more I get. The more I focus on my dreams from any sector/pov the more prosperity it brings
as an asian american, i thank my lucky stars everyday that I don't live in a collectivist asian society like China/Japan/Korea where the soul crushing grind of mindless labor is pushed wayy harder than over here to the point where people literally work themselves to death
I say if you can find a way to not have a 9-5 and can sustain yourself financially (meaning, don't have to rely on anyone else to sustain you), definitely go for it! Make sure you're doing something you like to do and getting paid to do it. You're gonna run into a lot of people who say you must work a 9-5, even if you hate it. But those are typically the people who hate theirs, so they think everyone else should live the same way. Do your thing young man - enjoy your life and get your $$$!
Still have to make money to live.
@@chrisbrown4250 which I’m currently doing without a job and plan to continue
@@Keitochurchmight be a stupid question but how? I just found this channel.
@@brianwt1 I'll make a video breaking it down. i Gotchu
@@joeschmoe5231 ironically your name is Joe Schmoe lmao
@@joeschmoe5231 i feel bad for your soul that it has to be connected to that decaying brain of yours
We’re just cattle eat sleep work breed next generation same repeat
The way he says "the fvck" haahahhgaha
I notice alot of young people in your comment section and I have a couple of things to say. The real economy does not care if you feel like your called to a higher purpose, or if you don't like to work. The real economy requires cash to pay bills and sustain yourself and then anything outside of that is a luxury. At 37 I have enough life experience to know that you just don't quit jobs. I encourage everyone who feels the same way as this guy to continue to work the job you hate until something better comes along. Then keep searching or go back to school and learn a trade that pays well. Ranting and complaining does not pay any bills. God bless.
This all the motivation i need to stay true to me. But in 5 years ill find out if you’re right
“Ranting and complaining does not pay any bills”?? Do you know what social media is?? That’s why I love it because you could start a channel today and talk about your life and get paid for it
@@clumpybaker only 3% of social media accounts actually make livable wage. How much money have you made?
@@izzyizzyizzy5638 a pretty good amount I’m living life right now and it’s great 👍 how much have you made?
You absolutely right! I learned that the hard just leaving jobs instead of just working and saving until you in a better position
I knew this 9-5 wasn’t for me. So now I put this time to work on my skills and self business ventures and not having my sole income on a job that would let me go at a moments notice. These jobs don’t give a fuck about us and threaten with termination so we can be wage slaves to these corporations.
You could be a hospital RN and work 12 or 16 hour shifts and OT. No 9-5. Only 12 shifts a month minimum.
i dont mind working but the people you have to work with are another story. Wish i could find a work from home job that wasn't a scam, i would happily work in solitude day in day out.
He’s telling the TRUTH ❤
The working life, however, is really inhumane and is still oriented towards 1945. Although we produce almost 4 times more, we do not work 4 times less or earn 4 times more. Rather the opposite is the case. It needs a new concept, a shorter working time (4 hours a day, for example, whereby a retired person can come back), a basic income for the subsistence minimum, which sticks to people. We have never been as rich as we are today! And at the same time, we live as if we were poor.
Btw the credit system is also a bad thing but normal for people. You force yourself to work in future.
A part time job might work while you pursue what intersts you. Freelance, business venture, and more. You look creative, graphic arts, cyber security, music producrion, owning a franchise, etc. My best advice is talk to career counselors and explore businesses. Best wishes
This is exactly what I’m doing right now. Got a part time job so I can be stress free and focus more on ideas that can venture me into a business I can live off of. I been working on a variety of skills at the moment and see what will work!
I love this video and you are so right they are draining and limit most people creativity
I understand why a lot of people struggle with the formula
I'm resonating with you so much man, great video. I too had a great social media following, made money from it and then threw it away for another failed opportunity. Now I work a dead end job that's killing me mentally and I'm just looking for ways to quit. Keep up the good work man, you're going places for sure!
That’s the same with me, no matter how hard I try, while being at the job I can’t focus at all and I’d rather be homeless or doing anything else for myself to make a living.
One thing I’ve noticed about this comment section is most people agreeing with this video work absolute shit jobs. Why is that? Maybe because they also couldn’t mentally work at school to put them in position for wayyyy better jobs? Or they did not have the work ethic to stay at one job and work their way up. My uncle works for jack in the box he’s like a regional manger dude started in the kitchen but had a work ethic. This same man owns a home worth over $600k now. Has multiple high class cars, Mercedes worth over $60k all that. He makes well over 6figs all due to work. GLTA. That weak mindset you have will not help you i promise!
Became a substitute teacher after I graduated college. Love the flexibility i have. I can work when I want at any school of my choice or take any day off.
Became a barber around the same time after graduating from trade school.
Still not enough money smh. Now im taught myself how to day trade.
When i have enough money to profit off simple scalps then i will be 100% free.
Perfecting my strategy is not easy but
im not with this 9-5 life rat race its a scam. Keep grinding young brother 👊🏾
how was barber school? Was it a lot of money? Getting clientele?
2025 my year going to the top I’ll be back to this comment to confirm in 1 year.
@@kelvin4954 I’ll remind you in a year. Lock in 💯
@@Keitochurch💯
You have the freedom to not work, but every decision has consequences. I worked 2 jobs for 2 decades, yes it was hard, but now I'm working part time at a job I love and I can quit anytime I wish. Life is good now, but I had to earn it.
We are who we are, and I'm not going to criticize you, but now, at 46 i feel i can opine. Most jobs you will not like or hate, even if the money and / or the job itself are good, your negative emotions will make it difficult to slog through. What i can day is try and find positive things to focus on, stack your money and while you do that, try and find something that is closer to who you are and gels with your values.
This is a real video. Excellent thoughts bro you are right. 9 to 5 jobs is modern day slavery.
I used to think this was just how a small minority of people actually feel, but it's starting to become more and more apparent that it actually might be a generational thing with those younger than age 30 or 35. I'm 27 and have always felt this way since my very first job. And i think despite what everyone will tell you, it's not because we're lazy or we just don't care. We do have motivation to do things, we do have passion for things - we just don't have a passion for getting paid a shit wage, at a shit job - with management that won't bother to train you, but will bother to let you whenever you've fucked something up.
So no, it's not because we're lazy. It's because we realize we do not need to needlessly suffer through a 9-5 at the expense of our own mental health and overall happiness. It's just not worth it. And the older people who will tell you "it's just life" or "suck it up, i went through it. everyone hates their job"
No. It doesn't HAVE to be that way, It's just the way your generation dealt with it, and it's not exactly a healthy way to live life either, under the assumption that every day is gonna suck balls because your going to work. I'm 100% with you - i don't care what i have to do to avoid a 9-5 but im opting out of it. I'm not going to live my life paycheck to paycheck AND be miserable for a company who will get rid of me at a moments notice.
I can’t relate. About to start my new grad nurse job at 22. I’ll be making $36-40 an hour. I love work!!!
I hope you have a strong mental capacity for the loads of stress that will become apart of the job. I worked in healthcare and it was draining expect to work 12-16 hour workdays and time spent away from your significant other and children and the gossiping fake loving back stabbing coworkers and patients that treat you like garbage. The money will be good till it’s starts taking a mental toll on your health where it will decline as you further into your career. Time and health is valuable to us which should a a first priority but if your ready to make that sacrifice then best wish of luck to you!
@@JessicaGarcia-xf9wri already work 12hrs in the hospital. I’m not new to this. I only have to work 3-4days a week and will still make over $70k. Next year when my residency is over i can make over 6figs damn near guaranteed. After that or whenever i feel comfortable enough in my skill set i can travel and make 2.5k-4k weekly. If that’s not enough i can look for opportunities in California and get a roommate. There’s always a way to make your time worthwhile.
@@saintfuego1822did you do two year nursing degree or four year
@@WinnietheDepressedBear 4years but bro you can do 2 and get your ADN and get a pretty Cush job swear. Just gotta be willing to do the work it takes to get there. In 2years that version of you will be damn proud. I promise!
People have the freedom to choose what they want to do but every choice comes with consequences. people work to have money mostly. Some people work part-time instead of 9-5, some people run businesses, some people live off their parents or partners, some people are long-term students, some turn to a life of crime, become entrepreneurs. Nobody tells anyone that they HAVE to work a 9-5 job. It's your choice and your life.
This is so facts!
Bro I’m 17 and so scared for this Ima start up a channel myself and talk about relatable shit like this as well you get a sub bro 👍
I tried every side hustle.tue fake gurus say, faceless youtube, copywritting, freelance, ads management, ai hustle, affiliate. All these garbages and noone of it work at all. Its all oversaturated. I had a customernsuport rolenforn3 months with a degree in cs. Yea, very original. I hated tjat. I genuinly.hated. i quit job and im afraid now vecause i ll be homeless but i cant work anymore i will ratjer be homeless.
I feel you 110%
I feel the same but I got to work to get a stable source of income. I just made it work for me. 5-6 hours shifts 5 days a week instead of the standard 8x5. Helps tremendously. I also throw a majority of my money in options trading. At this point I am making double my money. And it all started with the job for capital and me to learn the skills and knowledge needed. Grab what you want out of life
Strategic
Its not that difficult to to build a mud house. Its quite fun and you can be sure its rock solid if you mix it good.
i'm thinking of living in my SUV until i save up money to find out what i want to do in life.
Okay I'm so glad that you've said it cause this shit is so rigged and it feels like a game, a 9-5 will kill you.
I agree bro I’m 21 and I’ve always hated school and work. However working is NECESSARY until you find your way out.. idc what anybody says
Unless ur royalty 🤴 or a celebrity ur life will be just 9-5 literally or homelessness pick one
Gotta think bigger.
im 25 I feel the exact same way my guy
No problem, you can work from 7- 4 or 6-3. 5-2 is also ok in my experience.
I feel the same I know exactly what your talking about 😩
That sales job, making phone calls. I couldn’t do that! I would quit that too and I’ve never quit a job and I’m 52. It’s the type of jobs you’re doing that’s the problem!!!!! Trust me. It’s the type of job! You need to be busy, not at a desk bored!!!!! Get into a trade or become a vendor delivering goods locally
love this, thank you for this video
thank you. i feel crazy when i tell other people how i feel about it. i want my time to be mine, and i have trouble functioning anyways because of societal issues, chronic pain/fatigue, and depression (among other psychiatric illnesses). medication has never helped me with anything. and even if i could somehow work "properly," i'd lose my medicaid. if i had a "proper" job id be spending a ton of money on everything the insurance wouldnt cover anyways. i think it might be best to lean into how we feel and stop trying to live up to an impossible standard. try to find how we can be happy and do more than get by, all in line with what makes sense to us
I feel you. Freedom is the most valueable thing, worth more than cars and mobile phones and bs like that.
Definitely resonated with this. I never liked school or the 9-5 bs and went through some serious burn out with that. I know it’s not for me either, that’s why I got into digital franchising and now I’m making monthly passive income. I can let you know more if you want! Screw these jobs 👏🏾👏🏾
If you're applying for a job you have to listen to what supervisors and leaderships tell you what to do. It's what you sign up for. It's the company policy. If you don't like it you can always quit and leave. I don't like it too. But hey I'm signing up for it.
Mental stimulation and engaging challenge really makes the time fucking fly like "oh the clock is moving too fast"
Good my friend. Now you see. Drop out and I guarantee you'll be happier. It will be tough at first, but then you will start to get happy. I'm 52 my friend. Please listen to experience. Don't let them program you. You'll slowly start dying inside. Peace
lol 52 telling the younger generation to drop out is wild.
Dude, you haven’t done it all! You need to stop telling yourself “you can’t do 9-5”. Listen, it’s the type of jobs you have done or the compensation for those jobs that you did. You want freedom? Everyone wants freedom man! Settle yourself down and go to work…..
I worked 12/36 + 4~5hrs of public transport every work day and I felt ridiculously misarable, I can't stand these jobs...
"Mediocre Management Incorporated" sucks and has for a long time. Go ahead and bee self employed. -old man
Yeah why they call us lazy... just don't like working lol
You are right , but they won’t tell you that . They just treat you Like a machine so that they can get money from you. They take your time and self worth . Life is nasty. I would suggest finding somthing that interests you that would be a challenge , look into a degree in a subject you like. Bear in mind that gov will stitch you up for that to. Horrible system , but its somthing . And I wish you happiness and sucsess and peace for the future .
This generation is cooked on my mama
I’ve never Related to something more
Everyday i wake up and i think to myself "There's so much more to do than sit at a Job slaving for a bag of lays an hour"... I hate ts man. I quit and never went back, one day ill start a homestead.
This is how I feel while I'm doing college.
Well kid, yes, if you are at a job and you leave without telling them you leave, then you are like a small child. You should have the courage to go to them and just tell them "I quit".
The manager writing you e-mails asking where you were was fully 100% in his right.
Also, you want autonomy and you don't want to think about money? That is 100% fine. Autonomy under a bridge is also a life choice.
As long as you don't run to daddy for money.
And I am not calling you a kid because of your age, but because of how you act.
First off he doesn’t act like a small child. Since when do small children work? Telling them I quit is the same out come… Termination. Running to daddy for money is definitely ok. It’s called support and help in tough times. Let’s be positive and send positivity to the young man going through it. Just because someone doesn’t have a job doesn’t mean they’re automatically gonna be homeless.
@@luetnt see, here is the problem nowadays: people justify what cannot be justified. There is something like being responsible and also being fair, even if others are not. And also not relying on the parents for our life choices, in that case the choice being not working.
You encourage him to do things like a small child while I am against it. Thereare already too many like him.
And that is true, you don't have to live under a bridge if you don't have money. A bench in the park is also an option.
This is so true if this was life their wouldn’t be rich people or businesses owners
Im 24 and have had 15 jobs and started at 17. Now about to a trucker.
feels like dying yep
I mean look what we all did once we got Minecraft back in the day, we made castles and houses and had farms. Adventure and no oppression of government and police chasing you around the map.
I thought I was the only one. I be feeling the same.