I'm 23 and Never Had a Girlfriend
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- This video explains my thoughts behind why I've lives my life without ever bring in a relationship. Even with me getting older or the pressures of society I'm doing what feels right to me. Listen to my thoughts and reasonings you may relate or gain a new perspective.
I’ve come to a conclusion of my own regarding this topic. Been single for years now after traumatic circumstances and I’ve noticed those in relationships, especially consecutively usually have not taken the time to work on themselves, are typically more dependent and less self sufficient and in some cases almost need the other partner. I think those that have a certain degree of intellect and awareness choose not to settle and take the time to figure out what they do and don’t like before jumping in. Of course on top of other reasons. I can attest to both sides as I was someone always in relationship and now the complete opposite for years. Before I had a lot of things I needed to work on, and usually always trauma bonded with partners but I’ve taken years to work out trauma and my own self and can recognize easily when someone hasn’t taken the time to work on themselves. Not to mention so many are scared of being alone and would rather put up with anything than just themselves. I don’t usually comment but I thought I’d share as I’ve had some thought about this recently.
Very well put. Preciate u sharing
This man has a BRAIN.
I’ve never related to this video more than ever omg
1:55 spot on
Sadly it's not unusual and not unheard of for men to go deeper into their 20s or even 30s and older and still have never been in a relationship before or never had girlfriends before.
Some people think it's more common than ever before in modern times.
Yeah it's a reminder that it's more common for men than for women to go through a lonely Journey when in order to escape singledom
black sneako fan copy lol
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Me: (looking at the tittle) “Aye SAME let’s goooo”
Lmaoo
I literally got my first girl friend a week b4 I turned 30 I had flings and one night stands but all my 20s I was single family and friends thought I was weird and gay lol even tho I had girls lol I wasn’t ready for one it will happen when it happens I thought I would be single forever and it did get lonely a lot especially at night or in winter lol but it feels good to wake up with someone at 30 a man does need a partner
@@EL6166 that’s fire. Life is all about timing.
Cope
indubitably i guess