As a therapist, everything on this video rings true. While getting my degree I never got a sense of the practical consequences and challenges of working as an independent (self-employed) clinician: the changing schedule, the importance of being available through emails and messaging and the toll all of it takes on body and mind. In the last 3-4 years of work I've come a long way in learning to manage all of if, and I couldn't be any happier to see you adress this in such a concise and honest manner. The biggest upside of all the dificulties is, to me, your second point: meaning. The days and weeks -and months- can be rough sometimes, but being part of a life-altering process is a very unique and rewarding experience. Thanks for the video, keep up the great work!
I have a question for you.........when did you become certain that you would like to pursue a career in psychology? What are the signs that you noticed that indicated that this is right for you?
@@vidaseidu5656 I got a master's in Clinical Psychology. You can also study counseling. Your ability to provide services won't change a ton from PsyD to MS. Another option is MSW (Masters of Science in Social Work).
@@aojbooker8650 I know this question isn’t for me but I was reading a bunch of novels where the characters were sad, depressed and wanted to off themselves. When I realized it happens in real life and how severe it is,I was inspired to at least help out someone through their sh* even if it makes me depressed or whatever
Hey, I recently graduated with my BA in psychology. Math has never been my thing, but I made an A in statistical methods of psychology. I will never forget the panic attack I had when my advisor told me I had to take a math class (I was in my last couple of semesters at this time, so I thought I was home free). In sum, you will get through it and be glad you did. If you already completed the course, let's compare our experiences with it.
I think more and more schools are requiring it as a main prerequisite for psych pathways now. In my program, I had to take 2 stats classes before I could take the required class on psychological testing methods
I graduated back in January. English is not my first language and trying to learn something you suck from a teacher whose first langue is also not English was extremely difficult. I remember crying for months just because I failed statistics twice (I am generally successful when it comes to other subjects). Then a miracle happened and I passed. When we started to work on spss things got drastically better, I can work with spss, do calculations then interpret the data and write a report without problems but boy I don't think I'll ever learn how to do calculations by hand. I gave up on math quite long ago. Now, I am trying to choose a masters programme but I am scared of going through the same thing again :(
undergrad psyc statistics is very easy and doesn't involve as much math as real statistics. I promise--this is from someone who probably has an LD in math.
9 years of being a psychologist and a psychotherapist, I recognise all of the mentioned matters. One should be very watchful of not letting the work and people's problems distort your outlook on society and the world at large.
*This was such a helpful video! Thank you for sharing your job and duties so openly with the rest of us. Keep up the amazing work both inside and outside of the office!*
@@TassuMithai Turn to bible and allow CHRIST to be your therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist. No man nor women fits to be one. All are sinners and without glory, all are tempted and suffer the same. All are expected to REPENT AND BORN AGAIN, to LIVE HOLY AND GO AND SIN NO MORE. All are weak in the daily fight between their spirit and flesh. All these therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist, this world provides, can do is: to deceive and steal. They deceived you through all these “diagnoses” and they steal your money, through all the pills which you “need”. In short: they poison your mind and your overall health, leaving you with neither one. Therapist, Psychologist and Psychiatrist = Field where no human soul, never ever going to fit of being an help, no matter the among of years spend in “medical schools” or the decree gotten from there. ALL of us are daily deceived, no matter the walks of life. Do not trust one nor to try to be one. 1 John 4:1 KJV Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.
I am 16 and I love psychology from bottom of my heart. I like to take it as my career but I don't get enough motivated from my family and friends but you sir you are doing a wonderful job I really appreciate it.
I have already thought of being a therapist and I’m 14 😂 why doesn’t your family support you? It’s a good career choice in my opinion. I say do what you love. ❤️
Yes ,you are right, many will tell you how much worthless or useless it is and disappoint you but if you are truly interested just go for it at your own way, every career has opportunities, maybe income must be low but happiness is more important than money and if you want to be rich by it I think it should be difficult without phd or a cutoff career path
#1 really hit home. Just as my clients learn about themselves through my facilitation, I too learn through them about what I don't know. In turn, it ignites my passion to learn!!! Intellectual curiosity is a must!
To all mental health professionals: Your mental health is important, too. We realize you devote a significant amount of time to assisting others in navigating their own emotions. Make sure you look after yourself as well, because you matter too.
I was excited *and* afraid when I went into grad school. I cut this from my video for time, but the independence of being a therapist was very scary to me at first. I wish I had a supervisor there telling me what to do. But you always start out slow in your training with easier cases and slowly get less support and more independence as you progress towards graduation and independent licensure.
I'm a grad student in clinical psychology and I'm super pumped to be a psychotherapist but to also interweave technology with psychology. It's true that technology is influencing just about every career at this point, and it'll be interesting to see how the field develops and adapts to those changes!
I see a lot of younger therapists use social media like instagram to advertise their services to gain a higher clientele. Feel like you can garner a lot of base for other services like workshops and things
The hardest part for me,is realizing how others that have no faith in you, that are supposed to be your biggest support group. Understanding that everyone is deliberately dealing with some form of mental health issues. Trying to find a starting point to get more people ready to talk about their issues and making them comfortable and not be judged.
I'm currently on the fence about continuing to pursue clinical psychology and I was very scared this would be a super negative video but it's purely objective truths that just make me feel so much more prepared, and confident in evaluating my true willingness to become a therapist!! thank you so much. finding this channel has significantly lifted my spirits
As a therapist myself you are absolutely right about being humbled daily by how much we don’t know! I think great therapists know and admit that whereas therapists who think they know it all, have some fixed method they believe in, or think they are “experts” tend to be less effective and suffer from confirmation bias, great point! 👍
I just started my private practice as an art therapist for a year now and this is really helpful. I've felt everything you've mentioned and need to remind myself how much self-care I REALLY need. Thank you!
Could I email you,please? I have some things I'd love to get clarification or answers to. I know 'you're bad it responding in a timely manner'😂😭,so ill give you time.
Thanks for this helpful video! As a beginner therapist I sometimes feel overwhelmed with how unexpected the course of therapy can be at times. I think part of becoming a therapist is learning to live with the doubt of the effectiveness of our approach. It's a constant process of learning through trial and error.
Your comment is now three years old, I wonder are you now a more seasoned therapist? I am at the beginning of my journey as a therapist and I sure feel insecure at times in my own abilities and strengths despite all the training and schooling.
Thank you for a great video! I am a new therapist with my training license and this is super helpful and honest. To answer your question, I think I wish I knew how normal it is for therapists to feel nervous, worried, and uncertain in the beginning. This is still a growth area for me. I want to continue to develop my confidence and to feel like I am truly helping someone be able to make the changes necessary to enhance their life.
I wish I had a more realistic view of how therapists supported themselves in this field. A lot of media shows therapists as being well off and not working crazy hours because you can make your own schedule. I am almost two years into this field and I quickly learned how false that really is.
Hi Dr Ali Mattu, I found this hugely helpful. Thank you! I work full time as a mental health nurse. It's very validating and helpful to hear these comments. Bless you. 🌻🕊️
My best friend is just starting out as a therapist and she definitely needed to see this. Thank you!! You should send this video to all the mental health higher education institutions! They definitely aren't covering all of this stuff
Rich is so subjective. Will you be making "stacks on stacks on stacks" (to quote Tom Haverford)? No, but you can become financially stable and successful.
@@FigFirearms a lot of people think that this is how the economy works but it doesn't. When one person becomes rich it does not mean that others become poor because of inflation. Money is pumped into the economy so that there is enough to go around. Unfortunately, the richest people still gobble it all up. That's why the rich are becoming richer while the poor and middle class are not.
Yes! All these things are so true. I figured the compassion fatigue would take its toll but I don’t think I knew just how hard it would be to manage. I wish I had known at the beginning to not just take opportunities because they were presented to me. Nothing is worse than starting out in the field with a bad supervisor. It is worth taking the extra time to do research and make sure the job will offer impeccable supervision.
I also had no idea how difficult it would be to emotionally manage this job. Grad school focuses so much on the skills involved in the techniques but less so the emotions involved in this career.
Im 14 and this is the job i want to do sincr i was like 12. Theres somthing about the human mind and helping people that i really love. Knowing you helped someone is the best feeling ever.
Currently in clinical psych grad school. If you are thinking about doing it, it's fascinating but it is INTENSE! I used to have a thriving social life and struggle to do anything outside of school work now. Just a fair warning.
Thank you! This video gets you *close* to what my day looks like, at least the self-care part: ua-cam.com/video/IbDqFfvHdL4/v-deo.html. You can also learn more about what my life as a therapist is like in this conversation with my wife: ua-cam.com/video/4JMLM8BnrA4/v-deo.html
I needed this video!! Thank you so much! As a current undergraduate senior in college planning out my life during a freaking pandemic, this video def helped me to realize that I do want to pursue a career in psychotherapy! It's going to be tough but I truly do believe this is the work I wanna do. Even with the downfalls, I see benefits that fit perfectly for me. Thank you again!!!
Can you please do a video on a mature student over 30 going to study to become a Psychologist? I am starting in January 2021 from scratch. Ps. Love your videos.
28 here. Took me years to realize that I have a mediator personality and psychology has always been interesting to me. Should I start working towards this?
Thank you, this was SO helpful as someone considering going into psychology. I can't wait to see more of your videos, you speak very clearly and I can tell you are a good psychologist just by listening to you!
This is such a great video. Currently studying psychology and my dream is to also get into the field. Unfortunately I feel like politicians in my country are actively working against better health care. The number of people who need mental health care is rising and the waiting lists get longer and longer. I don't know how things are in the US, but my in my country it's insanely expensive to become a psychotherapist and a very long journey.
8:30 coming from the educational background I see the training of educators being more directed at social emotional learning which will also change the mental health field. This year in Texas, legislature was past requiring public schools to partner with mental health agencies to offer their services directly on school campuses. I agree this change of mental health becoming less of one to one will be evolving. I am excited for the change but I too wish to stay on top of it all. Your show inspires me a lot and as a first year therapist on the verge of opening my own practice I thank you for video support.
This was very helpful. I've always had a "gift" it seems, people who I know close or people I hardly know will confide in me. I don't know why, and I've always loved psychologically, I'm seriously considering getting my PHD. I've been doing a lot of research, reading a lot and been paying more attention to the conversations I have with others. And I'm just getting more and more curious and interested. Thank you!
Amazing that you're already looking into it as a career opportunity! My recommendation at this point is to get volunteer experiences helping others and when you're old enough sign up to be a volunteer for crisis hotlines.
Main thing I just really realized is the lack of diversity in Psychology. As a legally blind African American male going into the clinical field, there is miniscule representation in diversity to the point it's disheartening. The lack of emphasis to change this is unfortunate especially in this field.
Having gone through the training and done advocacy in the field, I can say there is a strong commitment in psychology to diversity however how well that value is implemented across training programs really varies. There's a lot of great information about that here: www.apa.org/pi/oema/index.
So something as superficial as skin color is all important when it comes to the profoundly deep subject and qualifications of therapists?? I thought it was the goal of civil rights to overcome race and to see people for who they are- character and what they know.... unfortunately all I see with these people who claim to be for 'diversity' etc
Agreed. This is part of why I want to switch to Psychology. I'm physically disabled and always wished I could find a therapist who really understood what that's like. My therapists have always done their best to empathize, but nothing can replace a personal experience. Many patients have expressed a similar desire for disabled healthcare providers in all fields.
@@jonesy2111 --The root of psychological issues are sometimes unique to different cultures. Many people of color are more likely to seek help from someone whom they feel understands their cultural traditions, perspectives and points of view (apart from the norm) which may impact some of their mental and emotional issues. That is why it is very important to have more diverse representation in the field of psychology.
Over the last few years, I've started to understand that people who are different than me experience fear and hatred against them that I dont experience myself. And it's taking a toll on me to the extent that I'm considering moving to another country. Would that be considered vicarious trauma? Or is the term geared specifically to an effect within a doctor/patient relationship? Ps. Only met you once, but you're still one of my favorite people ever. Keep being you!!
I'm so glad we got to meet! It's rare for me to connect with members of this community in person and when it happens it's magical and meaningful to me. Vicarious trauma isn't unique to people in healthcare. People who work in law enforcement, lawyers, journalists, pretty much anyone who works with people who have gone through trauma can experience it. Here's a free toolkit that can help you further explore this topic: vtt.ovc.ojp.gov/.
Man. I'm trying to help my step daughter by just showing her different perspectives from quotes and videos and passages and she just won't do it and I think about often and it just sucks
@@drali Right! And even customer service reps and engineering technicians lol. I worked in customer service for a few years after getting out of the Army and I tell you, it’s amazing how many people just want someone to talk to and vent their frustrations to. I can’t recall how many people I sent on feeling a little better about their day or life just by sharing wisdom attained and lending an ear. Some of them were just lonely old people. I recall many one hour conversations trying to help people through their problems. This happened a lot while I was in the Army too. People just tend to confide things in me. I am going back to school now to get my Master’s in Mental Health Counseling.
What are some personality traits of personal qualities that would make someone a good fit for being a therapist? And what kind of people would you recommend against becoming a psychotherapist?
Agreed. To be honest, each one has his/ her own journey as a therapist. One learns by being a therapist. Income generation is surely a challenge if you have set up every thing by your own. Personally I feel.. I constantly need learning. Every single day. It's not a miraculous journey. I have observed many of my batch mates got a degree but didn't pursue in this field. I think it's the internal passion that motivates a therapist to keep going.
I’ve been through a lot in my life and top of that I began reading the Bible. I have to say those two things have prepared me well to listen to mind twisting situations others have been in. I think the art of acceptance and being wise and understanding helps tremendously. Knowing that you are that light others are seeking but you also are not set apart from the suffering all us human experience. We are all being used and need to be used by one another inorder to keep afloat in this temporary journey ❤
I like that you found a good use of probably your uni literature. People talk about Apple addons being expensive. But there's nothing that beats a $1000 monitor stand out of literature.
Thank you so much for sharing! I am currently looking at different Graduate programs and have been so bogged down with all the types of different degrees you can get to be a therapist. I'd love to hear your perspective on different master's programs and how to make sense of all of them. Best wishes!
I'm only a 11 year old kid...... But I want to be a therapist! My tuition teacher is helping me! plus this video helped A LOT!!!! so thank you!!!and I have anxiety... Also kinda depressed...... So I don't want people to go through the same!!!! So that's why I actually want to be a therapist! Again thank you!!!!
Wow all I can say is thank you so much for this video! This isn’t just a game changer in my own understanding of the craft of being there for others but this helps so many of us understand the world of psychology and reassures those dedicated to psychology of a greater understanding which in the long run doesn’t just help those giving but the entire group of all people and how they may relate to psychology
Wish I’d seen this video years ago! Yes after working in mental health 19 years, I see the most important question as, “ What is the reason you want to get into this field?” Bc if the answer is anything other than some version of “to help people”, please see a counselor first. For example, I’ve worked w too many people who are there to control others and who don’t see that they must work on their own issues if they want to be effective and not add more harm.
Thank you for this video!! I'm almost 40, on disability for mental health, and haven't been to college in 20 years, but I'm starting the process to go back to become a Social Worker to be a therapist. I'm having to start almost from scratch because I was a music major before and have almost no GE that transfers... I've always been fascinated with mental health (I'm a musician, and most of my songs and vlogs are about mental health or abuse, and/or overcoming), and I love helping people and watching them grow!... But yeah... I REALLY hope I can do it (go back to school and then get to working)! It's a BIG step for me, with the mental health issues, but I'm going to try my hardest!! Anyway! Thanks again! (subscribed) It's nice to meet you!!
@@flexlordchino1352 hi there!! Yes!! I’m wrapping up my first semester and I’m getting straight A+s!!! I really need to do a video (or more) about it! But yeah!! It’s been amazing!
Thanks for all of your wonderful insights. Ever thought matters, and this is what it's all about. Getting clarity about a lot of things we miss based on our own ideas. Yet when we dedicate ourselves to sharing, examining, and taking into the insights of others we can weigh the difference, at the same time we can discover point of input that coincides. Th7s is difficult for working with the incentives of improving the behaviors of a scope of the public. Stay strong, encourage one another, validate proof,
Hey doctor ali , so i want to major in psychology and become a clinical psychologist just like you and ive always been facinated with psychology + i really wanna be able to help people but my issue is that im super shy and always anxious around people and i feel like thats gonna cripple me in the future with clients and make me look unqualified for the field of psychology no matter how disciplined and determined i was to help them . Ps im really trying to get rid of my social anxiety but no matter how much i improve i still believe that its not enough especially that people expect those majoring in psychology to have it all together .
My therapist believes I would be a fantastic psychologist. Everyone's situation is different; my anxiety comes from cPTSD. Maybe talk to a therapist and see what they think. They can help you explore possibilities.
If beeing a psychologist is your dream , then let nothing take it from you, even yourself. The changes comes from inside of us ,so if you really want to get over your social anxiety all you need to do is believe in yourself and your abilities. Good luck 🤩.
Hey, I used to have social anxiety to the point where I refused to speak to people and would even wonder if I was being judged for the way I would walk lol, I would to the bare minimum in order to improve only getting slightly out of my comfort zone until one day I decided to just do the most outrageously anxiety provoking things I could think of and overcome all concearns of what other’s thought, now I’m completely comfortable around others despite being a bit behind in terms of social skills so my advice, do that thing that you want to do least.
Your point on mental health being set to be massively disruptive is very interesting. While I think there are many ways therapy will be reintroduced to the world through technology and such, therapy, in my opinion, will always be centered around one on one, personal communication. Group settings, AI, etc. will always be welcomed, because they will allow for easier access to people who may not have the means for one on one therapy (time and money), but will never give the satisfaction of having that therapy that is personally designed for them. As you presumably know, having the ability to have your specific situation considered is huge when it comes to therapy. This is why, therapy, like you said, has been the same for so long. I know I am likely just discussing things you've already probably considered, but I just wanted to comment on it. I just discovered your videos earlier today and have loved all of the ones I have seen. Really looking forward to watching more!
I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees the future ov behavioral health heading towards VR and telehealth. I want to he part of that as it's much safer to give therapy and allows more time to talk to different clients.
I have been a therapist for 21 years, dually licensed as a LCMHC & MLADC. I agree with all your points. The biggest issues I face as a 51 year old woman is the physical toll it takes sitting for 8-10 hour days. I 2nd is the lousy reimbursement rate for what we do, which results in having to work twice as hard to earn a decent wage. Third is definitely the compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma one experiences over time. With all that said, I have learned so much more about addictions and mental health through my clients than what I learn in Grad school and I am grateful for that. So yes self care is oh so critical. And dont put ypur eggs in one basket. I made the mistake of not diversifying and simply dont have the energy or desire ro teach/ do workshops/ or get into social media. The question is will we all be replaced by an AVATAR!😳
Elsa, I'm curious. I am entering 50's and am going back to school for counseling. I am trying to decide which route to take, Clinical/Counseling Psych or MSW. Which you do you recommend and why?
wow... this is my dream job! either this, either as a clinical psychologist. But I prefer this! i'm currently 15, loved this since I was 11 and I definitely won't change my mind. Hopefully I become a great psychologist or psychotherapist one day! I want to help people, with normal disorders and mental disorders(mental disorders interest me the most btw, it's just so fascinating to discover how the brain works). Thanks for this video!
The one thing that I wish I knew before I became a psychotherapist or precisely before I started studying - and this solely applies to germany as its the only educationmodel I can speak for - is how long and financially demanding this education is. I also studied Informatics beforehand and to be honest, if I was in for the money, that would have been the much better way to do so. But your video is so full of great and so true statements and that is because there is no second I would change my profession for anything else.
Thank you for sharing that. I feel like I am called to be a counselor/psychotherapist however, I'm now in my early 40s and I'm extremely interested in making the career switch and getting my MSW, however, I am so worried about the time, money and so concerned there will be very low pay. I am so tormented over this decision.
I’m interested in this as well. I am a data analyst and very seriously considering becoming a therapist for psychedelic assisted therapy. I am providing this already with no formal training 😂
I'm really excited by the work MAPS is bringing to the table. He mentions the system has to change and it does! for me MAPs is doing reeeeally important work bringing the therapeutic power of psychodelics out of the dark. It seems to be slowly moving, but moving all the same, using these drugs in therapy. All we can do I guess is open the conversation, lessen the stigma and work toward more and more trials. IT's amazing the results of some trials. In PTSD patients.. ex military soldiers.. ex prisoners. Less crime etc. awesome.
So many people say I need to do this job as someone who can help people with certain problems in life because I’m good at it most of the time and I give good advice
I have been working in medicine for 25 years and I need a change, it is too much on my body, I am also bored and do not feel fulfilled. Therapy has always been something that I have been drawn to and with your video and help from my therapist friends, I am looking into this field. Thank you for your honesty.
Watching you giving the information about what your career and how you wish you know before you become a psychotherapist is very in educative and great information for new college student who is study psychology. Thank you for sharing your experience.
I'm currently an apprentice in webdesign and I have been thinking a LOT about my original career dream: A psychotherapist. I will be writing my opinions on the points as you mention them. I have already thought a lot about pursuing this career after my apprenticeship and I am very sure that videos like this will help me with it. 1. I am not fearing this, at all. I am happy to know more about it. Whenever I talk to someone and they reveal me their mental illness (I think it's easy for me to befriend those people) and I don't know much about it yet, have only heard one person talking about it or I just have never researched it, I will listen to them and their problems, carefully ask questions to expand my knowledge and afterwards do researches. I can't say that I know everything about the ones I already know a good chunk about, especially when it comes to the scientific factors of it, but I am really excited to learn more about it! 2. That's why I want to pursue it :) I wanna help people in a meaningful way, especially when it comes to mental health. 3. I know this... I know that the mental stress will be heavy for me. I don't worry too much about the physical impact, I know how to take care of that, even in stressful times. But yes, I know I have to work on the psychological aspect. I know I have a problem with distancing myself from other's problems and I know I want to be someone who never loses the passion of helping people. I know this will be something I have to learn and also make my experience with, but I am sure it will help me grow as a person - no matter how. 4. I never thought about this aspect :D But that actually sounds absolutely nice. I believe it's good to receive and give help from friends. 5. Whooooo careeees :D People can gossip about this, talk me down about it, etc. I don't care too much. I want to be happy about what I do, no matter what others think. I am (luckily) someone who can accept that not everyone accepts what you do based on random factors. I can discuss it, talk about it and if I feel like it doesn't work out with that person thanks to the differences in mindset - I will just try to seek for more kindred people. 6. I honestly don't want to be rich or anything. I want to do what I feel like fullfills me. Of course, money is (sadly) important in this world, but as long as I can hold myself and also do what I like - I don't care too much :) But visiting schools and doing workshops sounds like awesome fun! I know it can be stressful, but I think it would help a lot of people. 7. I am not looking too forward to more "dry emails" but I am so looking forward to showing people appreciation by offering a coffee, a walk in the park, reply to urgent calls whenever it's necessary. Everything that makes someone feel valued is a treat to me. 8. I think that's very interesting though. Finding out what a patient needs, trying different things based on their feedback but also listening to their needs and wishes. I want to be a therapist who is more "transparent" about his work. I want people to understand why I do it and with which intend. I know it doesn't work for everybody and sometimes the best way to help is by going against their wishes in that moment... But it should never feel to them like I am just doing for the sake of doing. 9. Oh, I think I can point to number 7 here. I don't like the "always in the same room" thing. That's at least one point here. But yeah, about the 1:1 thing... I think it's good for many people, but of course not for everyone. I think people who want to be 1:1 go to 1:1 sessions. 10. Personally, I have a problem with addictions... I know a lot of people are drug addicted nowadays, it's just my own experience with people who are addicted and yeah... This would be the most difficult thing for me. Besides that, I would definitely love to work with all kinds of people and if I ever felt like I need training in some areas, I will definitely pursue it. It's a very utopian thinking, I know that, but as long as I can try my best, I will! Thanks for this video, it was very nice to hear and also I felt like "It wasn't as bad as I feared" :D It wasn't a video that shows you "the cruel world of psychotherapy", but also not a "Hey everything is WONDERFUL!" one. I will continue my research, but yeah, thanks for this video! :)
My dream is to become a psychoterapist. In my country you need the spesific licensed pre-education and 2 years work experience before you can apply for studying psychoterapy. My path has begun nicely. I have now social studies degree and I'm now working in child care, in special care. In this work I get experience on drug problems, criminal behaviour, mental health problems, trauma etc. I have also worked in mental health care, which I feel is my home field. After 2 years I'm able to apply for psychoterapy education. I'm happy, yet little afraid, how everything will come together, but your video encouraged me, that I'm on right path and in good place in my life, right now, in this very moment.
You talk about “never becoming rich” as a psychotherapist, what would the average salary be for one? If anyone could answer that would be greatly appreciated, thanks!
It really depends on the state, what type of practice (residential, clinical, private practice, etc.), and experience level (years in the fields, specialties, etc.) that really can change it quite a bit from what I have experienced.
Definitely depends. Going rate for a salaried registered psychologist in Canada is about $70k - 100k per year. With that being said, many people choose private practice because you bill out at $200/hour (on average for therapy or corporate consultations or expert witnesses). Say you see 5 patients / day, that's $1000/ day. Say you decide you only work 4 days per week, that's $4k/ week, or $16k/mo, or around $190k/ year. Deduct overhead and taxes (say 50%), and you've netted $95k for the year. With that being said, many psychologists use a sliding scale so that they can service low-income patients (this is a field full of compassionate people after all), so you'll likely make less than the projected net $95k/year. So will you be rich? No. Will you be getting by just fine in the upper-middle class, yes. You'll be making enough money to be quite comfortable, and have a great career. Whether salaried or in private practice (ie you run your own business), you're doing just fine. TLDR-- In Canada, You won't be ultra rich, but you'll be comfortable, even on salary. If you're business minded though, you'll likely be upper-middle class with a comfortable job.
Just wanted to come on here to tell you that I love your videos and think they’re extremely underrated! You have a very warm and calming presence and it’s very calming to hear you talk! :)
This video has motivated me even more I don't mind not being rich simple people are the happiest I just wanna be able help people with their trauma and afford a donut and Boba that's it
compartmentalizing is an important skill for a therapist, ultimately you are not responsible for what has happened to the victim. You are responsible for providing the best care possible. In your psyche, each of your patients must have his/her own room where you can consider all that is happened to him/her in isolation from all your everyday distraction. In effect creating a memory palace for clients, so by isolating them from distractions and biases.
As a therapist, everything on this video rings true. While getting my degree I never got a sense of the practical consequences and challenges of working as an independent (self-employed) clinician: the changing schedule, the importance of being available through emails and messaging and the toll all of it takes on body and mind. In the last 3-4 years of work I've come a long way in learning to manage all of if, and I couldn't be any happier to see you adress this in such a concise and honest manner.
The biggest upside of all the dificulties is, to me, your second point: meaning. The days and weeks -and months- can be rough sometimes, but being part of a life-altering process is a very unique and rewarding experience.
Thanks for the video, keep up the great work!
I have a question for you.........when did you become certain that you would like to pursue a career in psychology? What are the signs that you noticed that indicated that this is right for you?
Which degree do you need to study in order to become a therapist, please let me know??
Funny how all of us here are therapists . . . Cheers, all!
@@vidaseidu5656 I got a master's in Clinical Psychology. You can also study counseling. Your ability to provide services won't change a ton from PsyD to MS. Another option is MSW (Masters of Science in Social Work).
@@aojbooker8650 I know this question isn’t for me but I was reading a bunch of novels where the characters were sad, depressed and wanted to off themselves. When I realized it happens in real life and how severe it is,I was inspired to at least help out someone through their sh* even if it makes me depressed or whatever
Listening to this already give me the overwhelming stress
lol
OMG same 🥲
OMG same
Tap out bro
What I wish I knew before I became a psychology student: Statistics
Hey, I recently graduated with my BA in psychology. Math has never been my thing, but I made an A in statistical methods of psychology. I will never forget the panic attack I had when my advisor told me I had to take a math class (I was in my last couple of semesters at this time, so I thought I was home free). In sum, you will get through it and be glad you did. If you already completed the course, let's compare our experiences with it.
I think more and more schools are requiring it as a main prerequisite for psych pathways now. In my program, I had to take 2 stats classes before I could take the required class on psychological testing methods
Statistics is not my friend, but I will handle it when it comes across as I start my second degree in psychology
I graduated back in January. English is not my first language and trying to learn something you suck from a teacher whose first langue is also not English was extremely difficult. I remember crying for months just because I failed statistics twice (I am generally successful when it comes to other subjects). Then a miracle happened and I passed. When we started to work on spss things got drastically better, I can work with spss, do calculations then interpret the data and write a report without problems but boy I don't think I'll ever learn how to do calculations by hand. I gave up on math quite long ago. Now, I am trying to choose a masters programme but I am scared of going through the same thing again :(
undergrad psyc statistics is very easy and doesn't involve as much math as real statistics. I promise--this is from someone who probably has an LD in math.
9 years of being a psychologist and a psychotherapist, I recognise all of the mentioned matters. One should be very watchful of not letting the work and people's problems distort your outlook on society and the world at large.
*This was such a helpful video! Thank you for sharing your job and duties so openly with the rest of us. Keep up the amazing work both inside and outside of the office!*
Thank you so much for your kind and supportive comment!!!! Feedback like this helps me to continue creating videos.
@@drali C
@@TassuMithai Turn to bible and allow CHRIST to be your therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist. No man nor women fits to be one. All are sinners and without glory, all are tempted and suffer the same.
All are expected to REPENT AND BORN AGAIN, to LIVE HOLY AND GO AND SIN NO MORE.
All are weak in the daily fight between their spirit and flesh.
All these therapist, psychologist and psychiatrist, this world provides, can do is:
to deceive and steal.
They deceived you through all these “diagnoses” and they steal your money, through all the pills which you “need”.
In short: they poison your mind and your overall health, leaving you with neither one.
Therapist, Psychologist and Psychiatrist = Field where no human soul, never ever going to fit of being an help, no matter the among of years spend in “medical schools” or the decree gotten from there.
ALL of us are daily deceived, no matter the walks of life.
Do not trust one nor to try to be one.
1 John 4:1 KJV
Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.
I am 16 and I love psychology from bottom of my heart. I like to take it as my career but I don't get enough motivated from my family and friends but you sir you are doing a wonderful job I really appreciate it.
Bro are you might be from Malaysia?
I have already thought of being a therapist and I’m 14 😂 why doesn’t your family support you? It’s a good career choice in my opinion. I say do what you love. ❤️
@@hijabi_2324 Exactly ❤
Yes ,you are right, many will tell you how much worthless or useless it is and disappoint you but if you are truly interested just go for it at your own way, every career has opportunities, maybe income must be low but happiness is more important than money and if you want to be rich by it I think it should be difficult without phd or a cutoff career path
Iam14
#1 really hit home.
Just as my clients learn about themselves through my facilitation, I too learn through them about what I don't know. In turn, it ignites my passion to learn!!! Intellectual curiosity is a must!
I love this
To all mental health professionals: Your mental health is important, too. We realize you devote a significant amount of time to assisting others in navigating their own emotions. Make sure you look after yourself as well, because you matter too.
strongly agree from another patient
I'm scared of becoming a therapist and not being able to separate my emotions from my client's.
@@ingrid5944that’s why therapists NEED therapy. And that sounds like a personal issue that you need to work through before your first client.
I am afraid of becoming a therapist. I always wanted to do this, but now I am just afraid and not motivated.
I was excited *and* afraid when I went into grad school. I cut this from my video for time, but the independence of being a therapist was very scary to me at first. I wish I had a supervisor there telling me what to do. But you always start out slow in your training with easier cases and slowly get less support and more independence as you progress towards graduation and independent licensure.
@@drali thanks for replying, it means a lot.
I feel this too. In a way, I know it's what I must do, but I'm so scared of it that I can't bring myself to actually do it.
@@drali any tips for being successful and financially stable in this field?
Me too
I'm a grad student in clinical psychology and I'm super pumped to be a psychotherapist but to also interweave technology with psychology. It's true that technology is influencing just about every career at this point, and it'll be interesting to see how the field develops and adapts to those changes!
I see a lot of younger therapists use social media like instagram to advertise their services to gain a higher clientele. Feel like you can garner a lot of base for other services like workshops and things
I think technology is going to play a driving role in making therapeutic resources more available to the people who need it most.
Telehealth will probably be the #1 technological influence
That’s great 👍🏽
Downfall of our society. Insidious.
As someone studying Psychology with the goal of becoming a therapist, I deeply appreciate this video.
The hardest part for me,is realizing how others that have no faith in you, that are supposed to be your biggest support group. Understanding that everyone is deliberately dealing with some form of mental health issues. Trying to find a starting point to get more people ready to talk about their issues and making them comfortable and not be judged.
I'm currently on the fence about continuing to pursue clinical psychology and I was very scared this would be a super negative video but it's purely objective truths that just make me feel so much more prepared, and confident in evaluating my true willingness to become a therapist!! thank you so much. finding this channel has significantly lifted my spirits
As a therapist myself you are absolutely right about being humbled daily by how much we don’t know! I think great therapists know and admit that whereas therapists who think they know it all, have some fixed method they believe in, or think they are “experts” tend to be less effective and suffer from confirmation bias, great point! 👍
I just started my private practice as an art therapist for a year now and this is really helpful. I've felt everything you've mentioned and need to remind myself how much self-care I REALLY need. Thank you!
I am studying BS psychology. I hope in few years I also become psychologist
Good luck in your studies!
We please to saw your reply and Thanks for wishing me good luck
Could I email you,please?
I have some things I'd love to get clarification or answers to.
I know 'you're bad it responding in a timely manner'😂😭,so ill give you time.
@@kierras1029 be open not only for your mistakes but for ppl in front of you as well
@@dimensioner is this Just a random quote that is applicable in life? Or are you implying that your phrase applies to my comment??
Thanks for this helpful video! As a beginner therapist I sometimes feel overwhelmed with how unexpected the course of therapy can be at times. I think part of becoming a therapist is learning to live with the doubt of the effectiveness of our approach. It's a constant process of learning through trial and error.
Your comment is now three years old, I wonder are you now a more seasoned therapist? I am at the beginning of my journey as a therapist and I sure feel insecure at times in my own abilities and strengths despite all the training and schooling.
love how he gets straight into the video without waffling, really hlpfull thank you!
Thank you for a great video! I am a new therapist with my training license and this is super helpful and honest. To answer your question, I think I wish I knew how normal it is for therapists to feel nervous, worried, and uncertain in the beginning. This is still a growth area for me. I want to continue to develop my confidence and to feel like I am truly helping someone be able to make the changes necessary to enhance their life.
I wish I had a more realistic view of how therapists supported themselves in this field. A lot of media shows therapists as being well off and not working crazy hours because you can make your own schedule. I am almost two years into this field and I quickly learned how false that really is.
What has been your experience thus far?
I am studying to be a clinical psychologist and I feel really Insecure and scared.
Great topic Dr. Ali. Also, I got excited when I saw you on a trailer of a Netflix show called The Mind Explained.
Thank you! Very excited for The Mind, Explained to be released next week!
I see this was from 2 years ago. I'm now going to see if this is still on Netflix.
Hi Dr Ali Mattu,
I found this hugely helpful. Thank you! I work full time as a mental health nurse. It's very validating and helpful to hear these comments.
Bless you. 🌻🕊️
I really DO wish I saw this before becoming a psychotherapist. Thank you
Oh Man! This is the best channel I can ask for as Psychology Student who is working towards her future in Psychology.
Thank you for the amazing feedback and welcome to the community!
@@drali You deserve it.
My best friend is just starting out as a therapist and she definitely needed to see this. Thank you!! You should send this video to all the mental health higher education institutions! They definitely aren't covering all of this stuff
The thing that made me rethink that thing “Most therapists don’t become rich”
Rich is so subjective. Will you be making "stacks on stacks on stacks" (to quote Tom Haverford)? No, but you can become financially stable and successful.
Nobody becomes rich, and if you do its at the expense of others starving and being homeless 🤷♂️
It's not impossible. The secret is hyperspecialising,marketing and Private practice. Yea that should work.
@blad90 the more properties you own the less likely someone else can own one at a reasonable price ;)
@@FigFirearms a lot of people think that this is how the economy works but it doesn't. When one person becomes rich it does not mean that others become poor because of inflation. Money is pumped into the economy so that there is enough to go around. Unfortunately, the richest people still gobble it all up. That's why the rich are becoming richer while the poor and middle class are not.
Yes! All these things are so true. I figured the compassion fatigue would take its toll but I don’t think I knew just how hard it would be to manage. I wish I had known at the beginning to not just take opportunities because they were presented to me. Nothing is worse than starting out in the field with a bad supervisor. It is worth taking the extra time to do research and make sure the job will offer impeccable supervision.
I also had no idea how difficult it would be to emotionally manage this job. Grad school focuses so much on the skills involved in the techniques but less so the emotions involved in this career.
@@drali i wanna be psychotherapist but i afraid my patients. I just dont wanna hit or anything pls help me
Thank you so much for making this video. As a newly graduated in psychology,It's really helpful to hear this from experienced psychotherapist.
Im 14 and this is the job i want to do sincr i was like 12. Theres somthing about the human mind and helping people that i really love. Knowing you helped someone is the best feeling ever.
Currently in clinical psych grad school. If you are thinking about doing it, it's fascinating but it is INTENSE! I used to have a thriving social life and struggle to do anything outside of school work now. Just a fair warning.
Wonderful Video!!
What I would love to learn next from you: "Day in the Life of a Therapist"
Thank you! This video gets you *close* to what my day looks like, at least the self-care part: ua-cam.com/video/IbDqFfvHdL4/v-deo.html.
You can also learn more about what my life as a therapist is like in this conversation with my wife: ua-cam.com/video/4JMLM8BnrA4/v-deo.html
Wow. This was posted before COVID and the switch to telemed for most therapists. He predicted changes for the future well!
Too true! Particularly the turf wars around therapy models and type of degree you have as well as how complex the field is! Thank you for this.
I needed this video!! Thank you so much! As a current undergraduate senior in college planning out my life during a freaking pandemic, this video def helped me to realize that I do want to pursue a career in psychotherapy! It's going to be tough but I truly do believe this is the work I wanna do. Even with the downfalls, I see benefits that fit perfectly for me. Thank you again!!!
Almost finished my studies and this is such a great reminder! Thank you for sharing you knowledge :)
Can you please do a video on a mature student over 30 going to study to become a Psychologist? I am starting in January 2021 from scratch. Ps. Love your videos.
Yes please
Same, have you started yet??
28 here. Took me years to realize that I have a mediator personality and psychology has always been interesting to me. Should I start working towards this?
@@Druggy-Doggo I’ll do it if you do it. Let’s be friends.
How’s it going for you?
I'm a Registered Clinical Counsellor in BC, Canada and this is bang on. Thank you!
Planning to go for PhD in clinical psychology how much do clinical psycho gists earn in Canada?
This video is exceedingly validating as a fellow therapist!
Thank you, this was SO helpful as someone considering going into psychology. I can't wait to see more of your videos, you speak very clearly and I can tell you are a good psychologist just by listening to you!
I've just started your video and I think it is refreshing to hear you say how much you are humbled by learning from others. Wow and thank you sir.
This is such a great video. Currently studying psychology and my dream is to also get into the field. Unfortunately I feel like politicians in my country are actively working against better health care. The number of people who need mental health care is rising and the waiting lists get longer and longer. I don't know how things are in the US, but my in my country it's insanely expensive to become a psychotherapist and a very long journey.
Finish your studies than apply for a job in a country where you'll be appreciated
WOAH this video gave me so much insight into the actual lifestyle of a psychotherapist! THANK YOU!!!
8:30 coming from the educational background I see the training of educators being more directed at social emotional learning which will also change the mental health field. This year in Texas, legislature was past requiring public schools to partner with mental health agencies to offer their services directly on school campuses. I agree this change of mental health becoming less of one to one will be evolving. I am excited for the change but I too wish to stay on top of it all. Your show inspires me a lot and as a first year therapist on the verge of opening my own practice I thank you for video support.
This was very helpful. I've always had a "gift" it seems, people who I know close or people I hardly know will confide in me. I don't know why, and I've always loved psychologically, I'm seriously considering getting my PHD. I've been doing a lot of research, reading a lot and been paying more attention to the conversations I have with others. And I'm just getting more and more curious and interested. Thank you!
I'm 12 and I've got my heart stuck on therapy!
Amazing that you're already looking into it as a career opportunity! My recommendation at this point is to get volunteer experiences helping others and when you're old enough sign up to be a volunteer for crisis hotlines.
@@drali yes or peer counseling at school if they offer it
@@drali any resources for volunteering? I’m 16, halfway through my junior year taking AP psych and want to pursue psychology long term.
Main thing I just really realized is the lack of diversity in Psychology. As a legally blind African American male going into the clinical field, there is miniscule representation in diversity to the point it's disheartening. The lack of emphasis to change this is unfortunate especially in this field.
Having gone through the training and done advocacy in the field, I can say there is a strong commitment in psychology to diversity however how well that value is implemented across training programs really varies. There's a lot of great information about that here: www.apa.org/pi/oema/index.
So something as superficial as skin color is all important when it comes to the profoundly deep subject and qualifications of therapists?? I thought it was the goal of civil rights to overcome race and to see people for who they are- character and what they know.... unfortunately all I see with these people who claim to be for 'diversity' etc
Agreed. This is part of why I want to switch to Psychology. I'm physically disabled and always wished I could find a therapist who really understood what that's like. My therapists have always done their best to empathize, but nothing can replace a personal experience. Many patients have expressed a similar desire for disabled healthcare providers in all fields.
@@Andrei-yv8fz I never realized the purpose of diversity. Thanks for adding this comment, it was really helpful.
@@jonesy2111 --The root of psychological issues are sometimes unique to different cultures. Many people of color are more likely to seek help from someone whom they feel understands their cultural traditions, perspectives and points of view (apart from the norm) which may impact some of their mental and emotional issues. That is why it is very important to have more diverse representation in the field of psychology.
I'm a wellness and recovery specialist (peer specialist) and it's very interesting to hear these because I have a lot of similar experiences!
Over the last few years, I've started to understand that people who are different than me experience fear and hatred against them that I dont experience myself. And it's taking a toll on me to the extent that I'm considering moving to another country. Would that be considered vicarious trauma? Or is the term geared specifically to an effect within a doctor/patient relationship?
Ps. Only met you once, but you're still one of my favorite people ever. Keep being you!!
I'm so glad we got to meet! It's rare for me to connect with members of this community in person and when it happens it's magical and meaningful to me.
Vicarious trauma isn't unique to people in healthcare. People who work in law enforcement, lawyers, journalists, pretty much anyone who works with people who have gone through trauma can experience it.
Here's a free toolkit that can help you further explore this topic: vtt.ovc.ojp.gov/.
@@drali makes sense. Thanks for the link!
@@bridge4 My pleasure!
Man. I'm trying to help my step daughter by just showing her different perspectives from quotes and videos and passages and she just won't do it and I think about often and it just sucks
@@drali Right! And even customer service reps and engineering technicians lol. I worked in customer service for a few years after getting out of the Army and I tell you, it’s amazing how many people just want someone to talk to and vent their frustrations to. I can’t recall how many people I sent on feeling a little better about their day or life just by sharing wisdom attained and lending an ear. Some of them were just lonely old people. I recall many one hour conversations trying to help people through their problems. This happened a lot while I was in the Army too. People just tend to confide things in me. I am going back to school now to get my Master’s in Mental Health Counseling.
What are some personality traits of personal qualities that would make someone a good fit for being a therapist? And what kind of people would you recommend against becoming a psychotherapist?
Agreed. To be honest, each one has his/ her own journey as a therapist. One learns by being a therapist. Income generation is surely a challenge if you have set up every thing by your own. Personally I feel.. I constantly need learning. Every single day. It's not a miraculous journey. I have observed many of my batch mates got a degree but didn't pursue in this field. I think it's the internal passion that motivates a therapist to keep going.
I’ve been through a lot in my life and top of that I began reading the Bible. I have to say those two things have prepared me well to listen to mind twisting situations others have been in. I think the art of acceptance and being wise and understanding helps tremendously. Knowing that you are that light others are seeking but you also are not set apart from the suffering all us human experience. We are all being used and need to be used by one another inorder to keep afloat in this temporary journey ❤
we love you too we need psychotherapists
Your comments are helpful to know what it is like to work in mental health. Thanks!
I was just reaching out to LCSW's for information on the reality of being a therapist in general. This came at a fantastic time.
At least LCSW's don't have to fight with Medicare for reimbursement, while counselors are unable to get reimbursement at this time.
The thought of having to do more outside work to make a healthy living is daunting for someone who is thinking of getting into this.
I like that you found a good use of probably your uni literature. People talk about Apple addons being expensive. But there's nothing that beats a $1000 monitor stand out of literature.
Hahahaha, yes! Big textbooks make for the best monitor stands!
Thank you so much for sharing! I am currently looking at different Graduate programs and have been so bogged down with all the types of different degrees you can get to be a therapist. I'd love to hear your perspective on different master's programs and how to make sense of all of them. Best wishes!
The compassion fatigue is what i wish i knew
Yeah...people really don't talk about it
I'm only a 11 year old kid...... But I want to be a therapist! My tuition teacher is helping me! plus this video helped A LOT!!!! so thank you!!!and I have anxiety... Also kinda depressed...... So I don't want people to go through the same!!!! So that's why I actually want to be a therapist! Again thank you!!!!
I watched this whole video on the edge of my seat...this is awesome
As a fellow psychotherapist this sounds so true to my own experience ❤ thank you for sharing your experiences. Love this channel.
Wow all I can say is thank you so much for this video! This isn’t just a game changer in my own understanding of the craft of being there for others but this helps so many of us understand the world of psychology and reassures those dedicated to psychology of a greater understanding which in the long run doesn’t just help those giving but the entire group of all people and how they may relate to psychology
Wish I’d seen this video years ago! Yes after working in mental health 19 years, I see the most important question as, “ What is the reason you want to get into this field?” Bc if the answer is anything other than some version of “to help people”, please see a counselor first. For example, I’ve worked w too many people who are there to control others and who don’t see that they must work on their own issues if they want to be effective and not add more harm.
Sipping tea in the middle of your explanation is hilarious. I love it!
Thank you for this video!! I'm almost 40, on disability for mental health, and haven't been to college in 20 years, but I'm starting the process to go back to become a Social Worker to be a therapist. I'm having to start almost from scratch because I was a music major before and have almost no GE that transfers... I've always been fascinated with mental health (I'm a musician, and most of my songs and vlogs are about mental health or abuse, and/or overcoming), and I love helping people and watching them grow!... But yeah... I REALLY hope I can do it (go back to school and then get to working)! It's a BIG step for me, with the mental health issues, but I'm going to try my hardest!! Anyway! Thanks again! (subscribed) It's nice to meet you!!
Hi Mary, how's it going? I'm in a similar boat
Good for you! 😊👍🏾
any updates Mary?? I hope you’re doing well
@@flexlordchino1352 hi there!! Yes!! I’m wrapping up my first semester and I’m getting straight A+s!!! I really need to do a video (or more) about it! But yeah!! It’s been amazing!
@@MaryHamerMusic its good to hear.. Wish you all the best for further success
Well, I'm a student. I study guidance and counselling at university. This video is very helpful.
Watching this made me do a whole 360. Thank you, but Koodos to those who do this!
This was so helpful seeing from a therapist’s perspective! Thank you so much 💕
Thank you for this, very insightful. I'm about to go into my fourth year in psychology!
very good feedback - thanks for sharing!
Thanks for all of your wonderful insights.
Ever thought matters, and this is what it's all about. Getting clarity about a lot of things we miss based on our own ideas.
Yet when we dedicate ourselves to sharing, examining, and taking into the insights of others we can weigh the difference, at the same time we can discover point of input that coincides.
Th7s is difficult for working with the incentives of improving the behaviors of a scope of the public.
Stay strong, encourage one another, validate proof,
Hey doctor ali , so i want to major in psychology and become a clinical psychologist just like you and ive always been facinated with psychology + i really wanna be able to help people but my issue is that im super shy and always anxious around people and i feel like thats gonna cripple me in the future with clients and make me look unqualified for the field of psychology no matter how disciplined and determined i was to help them . Ps im really trying to get rid of my social anxiety but no matter how much i improve i still believe that its not enough especially that people expect those majoring in psychology to have it all together .
My therapist believes I would be a fantastic psychologist. Everyone's situation is different; my anxiety comes from cPTSD. Maybe talk to a therapist and see what they think. They can help you explore possibilities.
If beeing a psychologist is your dream , then let nothing take it from you, even yourself. The changes comes from inside of us ,so if you really want to get over your social anxiety all you need to do is believe in yourself and your abilities. Good luck 🤩.
@@imaneAce5273 thank you , i really appreciate it
@@heyheyy2141 welcome anytime🤗, Go for it and make us proud of you.👍
Hey, I used to have social anxiety to the point where I refused to speak to people and would even wonder if I was being judged for the way I would walk lol, I would to the bare minimum in order to improve only getting slightly out of my comfort zone until one day I decided to just do the most outrageously anxiety provoking things I could think of and overcome all concearns of what other’s thought, now I’m completely comfortable around others despite being a bit behind in terms of social skills so my advice, do that thing that you want to do least.
Your point on mental health being set to be massively disruptive is very interesting. While I think there are many ways therapy will be reintroduced to the world through technology and such, therapy, in my opinion, will always be centered around one on one, personal communication. Group settings, AI, etc. will always be welcomed, because they will allow for easier access to people who may not have the means for one on one therapy (time and money), but will never give the satisfaction of having that therapy that is personally designed for them. As you presumably know, having the ability to have your specific situation considered is huge when it comes to therapy. This is why, therapy, like you said, has been the same for so long. I know I am likely just discussing things you've already probably considered, but I just wanted to comment on it.
I just discovered your videos earlier today and have loved all of the ones I have seen. Really looking forward to watching more!
I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees the future ov behavioral health heading towards VR and telehealth. I want to he part of that as it's much safer to give therapy and allows more time to talk to different clients.
#2 Is exactly why I want to be a therapist. One day when I can finally afford grad school I'll make it a reality.
I have been a therapist for 21 years, dually licensed as a LCMHC & MLADC. I agree with all your points.
The biggest issues I face as a 51 year old woman is the physical toll it takes sitting for 8-10 hour days. I
2nd is the lousy reimbursement rate for what we do, which results in having to work twice as hard to earn a decent wage. Third is definitely the compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma one experiences over time. With all that said, I have learned so much more about addictions and mental health through my clients than what I learn in Grad school and I am grateful for that. So yes self care is oh so critical. And dont put ypur eggs in one basket. I made the mistake of not diversifying and simply dont have the energy or desire ro teach/ do workshops/ or get into social media.
The question is will we all be replaced by an AVATAR!😳
Elsa, I'm curious. I am entering 50's and am going back to school for counseling. I am trying to decide which route to take, Clinical/Counseling Psych or MSW. Which you do you recommend and why?
@@jenniferericksen5446What did you end up doing?
wow... this is my dream job! either this, either as a clinical psychologist. But I prefer this! i'm currently 15, loved this since I was 11 and I definitely won't change my mind. Hopefully I become a great psychologist or psychotherapist one day! I want to help people, with normal disorders and mental disorders(mental disorders interest me the most btw, it's just so fascinating to discover how the brain works). Thanks for this video!
The one thing that I wish I knew before I became a psychotherapist or precisely before I started studying - and this solely applies to germany as its the only educationmodel I can speak for - is how long and financially demanding this education is. I also studied Informatics beforehand and to be honest, if I was in for the money, that would have been the much better way to do so. But your video is so full of great and so true statements and that is because there is no second I would change my profession for anything else.
Thank you for sharing that. I feel like I am called to be a counselor/psychotherapist however, I'm now in my early 40s and I'm extremely interested in making the career switch and getting my MSW, however, I am so worried about the time, money and so concerned there will be very low pay. I am so tormented over this decision.
JulianaHereOnEarth curious how u decided on this!!
JulianaHereOnEarth I’m on the same position!
Thoughts on the future of psychedelic assisted psychotherapy and the work that MAPS is working so hard to bring to the table?
MAPS? Minor attracted person?
I think he means: Multidiscliplinary association for psychedelic studies
@@crysteltheriault6606 Well, have you heard of these NAMBLA -esque groups on Twitter calling themselves MAPs?
I’m interested in this as well. I am a data analyst and very seriously considering becoming a therapist for psychedelic assisted therapy. I am providing this already with no formal training 😂
I'm really excited by the work MAPS is bringing to the table. He mentions the system has to change and it does! for me MAPs is doing reeeeally important work bringing the therapeutic power of psychodelics out of the dark. It seems to be slowly moving, but moving all the same, using these drugs in therapy. All we can do I guess is open the conversation, lessen the stigma and work toward more and more trials. IT's amazing the results of some trials. In PTSD patients.. ex military soldiers.. ex prisoners. Less crime etc. awesome.
So many people say I need to do this job as someone who can help people with certain problems in life because I’m good at it most of the time and I give good advice
When you picked up the drink and paused and said #SelfCare it made me laugh out loud 😅 yes SelfCare Is essential
I have been working in medicine for 25 years and I need a change, it is too much on my body, I am also bored and do not feel fulfilled. Therapy has always been something that I have been drawn to and with your video and help from my therapist friends, I am looking into this field. Thank you for your honesty.
What did you end up doing?
This video was definitely a wonderful watch! Thank you so much for doing this! I woke with a vision to become a therapist and this is very insightful!
This is such an amazing video!! You actually gave information that helps me to know what it is I need to face and to prepare for. I really love it!!
Thanks for inspiring confidence in my ability to do well in this field.
Thanks for taking the time to comment!
Watching you giving the information about what your career and how you wish you know before you become a psychotherapist is very in educative and great information for new college student who is study psychology. Thank you for sharing your experience.
I am from India I have been planing on becoming pscologist thank you so much
i am a clinical psychologist myself and i loved the useful "unspoken" information you speak about
I'm currently an apprentice in webdesign and I have been thinking a LOT about my original career dream: A psychotherapist. I will be writing my opinions on the points as you mention them. I have already thought a lot about pursuing this career after my apprenticeship and I am very sure that videos like this will help me with it.
1. I am not fearing this, at all. I am happy to know more about it. Whenever I talk to someone and they reveal me their mental illness (I think it's easy for me to befriend those people) and I don't know much about it yet, have only heard one person talking about it or I just have never researched it, I will listen to them and their problems, carefully ask questions to expand my knowledge and afterwards do researches. I can't say that I know everything about the ones I already know a good chunk about, especially when it comes to the scientific factors of it, but I am really excited to learn more about it!
2. That's why I want to pursue it :) I wanna help people in a meaningful way, especially when it comes to mental health.
3. I know this... I know that the mental stress will be heavy for me. I don't worry too much about the physical impact, I know how to take care of that, even in stressful times. But yes, I know I have to work on the psychological aspect. I know I have a problem with distancing myself from other's problems and I know I want to be someone who never loses the passion of helping people. I know this will be something I have to learn and also make my experience with, but I am sure it will help me grow as a person - no matter how.
4. I never thought about this aspect :D But that actually sounds absolutely nice. I believe it's good to receive and give help from friends.
5. Whooooo careeees :D People can gossip about this, talk me down about it, etc. I don't care too much. I want to be happy about what I do, no matter what others think. I am (luckily) someone who can accept that not everyone accepts what you do based on random factors. I can discuss it, talk about it and if I feel like it doesn't work out with that person thanks to the differences in mindset - I will just try to seek for more kindred people.
6. I honestly don't want to be rich or anything. I want to do what I feel like fullfills me. Of course, money is (sadly) important in this world, but as long as I can hold myself and also do what I like - I don't care too much :) But visiting schools and doing workshops sounds like awesome fun! I know it can be stressful, but I think it would help a lot of people.
7. I am not looking too forward to more "dry emails" but I am so looking forward to showing people appreciation by offering a coffee, a walk in the park, reply to urgent calls whenever it's necessary. Everything that makes someone feel valued is a treat to me.
8. I think that's very interesting though. Finding out what a patient needs, trying different things based on their feedback but also listening to their needs and wishes. I want to be a therapist who is more "transparent" about his work. I want people to understand why I do it and with which intend. I know it doesn't work for everybody and sometimes the best way to help is by going against their wishes in that moment... But it should never feel to them like I am just doing for the sake of doing.
9. Oh, I think I can point to number 7 here. I don't like the "always in the same room" thing. That's at least one point here. But yeah, about the 1:1 thing... I think it's good for many people, but of course not for everyone. I think people who want to be 1:1 go to 1:1 sessions.
10. Personally, I have a problem with addictions... I know a lot of people are drug addicted nowadays, it's just my own experience with people who are addicted and yeah... This would be the most difficult thing for me. Besides that, I would definitely love to work with all kinds of people and if I ever felt like I need training in some areas, I will definitely pursue it. It's a very utopian thinking, I know that, but as long as I can try my best, I will!
Thanks for this video, it was very nice to hear and also I felt like "It wasn't as bad as I feared" :D It wasn't a video that shows you "the cruel world of psychotherapy", but also not a "Hey everything is WONDERFUL!" one. I will continue my research, but yeah, thanks for this video! :)
By mental illness you mean depression and anxiety. Don't fool yourself
I wish I knew how emotionally draining this job is. And a lot of things you already mentioned. Good video. Thanks 😊🙏
I’m getting a terminal masters in clinical counseling psychology and plan to get my LPC.This definitely resonates with me.
My dream is to become a psychoterapist. In my country you need the spesific licensed pre-education and 2 years work experience before you can apply for studying psychoterapy. My path has begun nicely. I have now social studies degree and I'm now working in child care, in special care. In this work I get experience on drug problems, criminal behaviour, mental health problems, trauma etc. I have also worked in mental health care, which I feel is my home field. After 2 years I'm able to apply for psychoterapy education. I'm happy, yet little afraid, how everything will come together, but your video encouraged me, that I'm on right path and in good place in my life, right now, in this very moment.
What a very underrated channel!
My daughter wants to be a therapist she is still 12 but I see how much she loves to research about psychology
You talk about “never becoming rich” as a psychotherapist, what would the average salary be for one? If anyone could answer that would be greatly appreciated, thanks!
Anyone...? 💓
It really depends on the state, what type of practice (residential, clinical, private practice, etc.), and experience level (years in the fields, specialties, etc.) that really can change it quite a bit from what I have experienced.
Definitely depends. Going rate for a salaried registered psychologist in Canada is about $70k - 100k per year. With that being said, many people choose private practice because you bill out at $200/hour (on average for therapy or corporate consultations or expert witnesses). Say you see 5 patients / day, that's $1000/ day. Say you decide you only work 4 days per week, that's $4k/ week, or $16k/mo, or around $190k/ year. Deduct overhead and taxes (say 50%), and you've netted $95k for the year. With that being said, many psychologists use a sliding scale so that they can service low-income patients (this is a field full of compassionate people after all), so you'll likely make less than the projected net $95k/year. So will you be rich? No. Will you be getting by just fine in the upper-middle class, yes. You'll be making enough money to be quite comfortable, and have a great career. Whether salaried or in private practice (ie you run your own business), you're doing just fine.
TLDR-- In Canada, You won't be ultra rich, but you'll be comfortable, even on salary. If you're business minded though, you'll likely be upper-middle class with a comfortable job.
Awesome video! I’ve been considering studying psychology/therapy for a while and I think this video secured my interest!
Just wanted to come on here to tell you that I love your videos and think they’re extremely underrated! You have a very warm and calming presence and it’s very calming to hear you talk! :)
This video has motivated me even more I don't mind not being rich simple people are the happiest I just wanna be able help people with their trauma and afford a donut and Boba that's it
compartmentalizing is an important skill for a therapist, ultimately you are not responsible for what has happened to the victim. You are responsible for providing the best care possible. In your psyche, each of your patients must have his/her own room where you can consider all that is happened to him/her in isolation from all your everyday distraction. In effect creating a memory palace for clients, so by isolating them from distractions and biases.
Corona virus is here and when he mentioned telahealth i slapped my forehead because the wave of telahealth hit LOL
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