Some people only get angry when after being chronically abused, nagged or provoked, whether the perpetrator or others recognise and admit this reality or not.This is righteous wrath, not an anger management problem. Others, on the other hand, are just chronically angry towards the weak and get away with it because their victims are weak. Chronic anger,perpetrated by the strong, is the mental illness or character flaw that goes ignored and unpunished, until the victim, no matter how weak, cannot take it anymore, and snaps. This is righteous wrath.
Yes pride can either make you or break you. If we learn to put our pride aside some times we will be OK. If we are to prideful, then we could miss out on a blessing or a life lesson.
I was married and divorced from my 1st husband but after 15 years of over coming pain from the divorce.I remarried my first husband again. Our relationship now is sweet !
Joan Meeks Amen. God is doing the same for me too. I married my husband in 2000, separated in 2001and divorced him in 2007. In 2017 God told me to contact him and ask for forgiveness and forgive him. I had no idea where he was as we had not kept in contact but our God is amazing and told me to enter is full name into a google search. I couldn’t believe it when his new company was displayed with his home address. I did what God said and a week later he sent a text asking if he could call. We talked like we have never spoken before. He is now sorting things out and God is preparing the both of us. I still couldn’t believe it until x3 prophets confirmed a Word that God has given directly to me. I would never have thought that this was possible but again our God has proven that with him ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. Jacqui
True talk! It’s happened to me. My marriage, and husband was one of the most difficult things that I had to fight for, but thank God I got converted to the faith when I did, and decided to fight instead of dip out. His soul was worth all the fight. He is saved now and we are both growing together. Marriage is amazing and sacred, and it’s the gospel you are preaching to your babies! 👑Fight for IT!🥊🥊🥊
I'm right there with you. Nothing in my life thus far has compared to this walk I'm on with Christ. My marriage is not restored yet but it will be in Gods timing!
Contend sister! My husband was addicted to meth, alcohol, and so many other things. It was Hell being married to him, and took 6 years, but during this process I would receive words that he would be saved and converted IF I remained faithful but not just to him, but my new faith , and I held on to those words and decided to buckle down and began to fight on my knees! I use to get jealous of godly women and their Holy marriage because I wanted it so bad, and now, I have it. All glory to Jesus.
Well I was warned about my ex husband and I started back talking to him he stated he wasn’t married anymore I was vulnerable started back messing with him I went to his house told his wife that he doing her the same way he did me cheated and he told her to have me put in jail and she did
I'm married 24 years separate six. I didn't leave because I promised til death do us part, but finally God put it on my spirit that we put ourselves together he didn't. I asked him to leave and he did. We have two kids together, so I knew that I had to be an example for them. I forgave him, and he eventually knew it was the right decision. We were both wrong. He said I'm his best friend and only friend. After we separated God blessed me more than I deserve. I make it a point to thank God and talk to him daily time I open my eyes. It really makes a difference when you put God first in every aspect of your life.
I married a guy that i was in a toxic relationship wit.. but booy i tell ya. I got into God faithfully. I prayed for my husband and became an godly example according to 1 peter 3. Not only God worked on me and transforming me he did the same for him. Halleluyah! Can he do it? I didnt hv to divorce him. All we needed was God.
I was in an devastating marriage, where my husband not only abused me physically and mentally, but he cheated on me and then lied to his family and friends to make me appear to be the bad guy. Not to mention he 'gaslighted' me by trying to make me believe I was crazy when I confronted him with his infidelity. (BTW, he ended up leaving me and marrying this 'non-existent' girlfriend. LOL!) By my marriage end, I was the Walking Wounded and ready to commit suicide. BUT GOD. He came to me one midnight when I was about to slit my wrists. He helped me through that devastating period in my life. At first, I was so hurt, next so angry, I was calling down lightning bolts from Heaven to destroy my ex! (LOL!) BUT GOD! Even in the midst of my rage, I desperately knew if I didn't learn to forgive my ex and move past the pain, I'd die first spiritually, then mentally, and finally physically. Yet how? How to forgive something so devastatingly painful that I wanted to no longer exist? One of the ways The Lord helped me through was to have me release the responsibility of my ex-husband's actions. At the time I would randomly burst into tears, asking Him "Why did he abuse me?" "Why did he cheat on me?" "Why did he lie on me?" One day The Lord placed in my spirit: "As long as you own these things, you can never get past them." Confused, I then asked: "What do You mean?" The Lord: "Instead of saying 'He cheated on me' say: 'He is a cheater'. Instead of: 'He abused me' say: 'He is an abuser'. Replace 'He lied on me' with 'He is a liar'. By thinking of it this way, you relinquish hold on what he did to you - and place it back on the person truly responsible: him. You are stuck because you are holding on to guilt for what he did during your marriage." This revelation was so life-changing enlightening! I hadn't realized the reason I couldn't forgive and move on because I hadn't first forgiven myself for being in such a dysfunctional relationship. Once I released the burden of my own guilt, forgiven myself and handed my abuse back to my abuser, I was on my way to total healing. During that period The Lord also made me see who I was as well, which wasn't very pretty, let me tell you! He then instructed me to pray for my ex and his girlfriend/wife. (LOL! Went kicking and screaming into that one! But the more I prayed, the easier it got. This also helped me heal. God knew exactly what He was doing!) That was more than 20 years ago and I haven't looked back since. I pray my testimony helps someone. May God bless you all!
I can really relate to this! God bless you sis, Thank you for sharing, it's powerful! Please keep me in prayer as I'm struggling to forgive myself for.
@@lalavargo God Almighty, I touch and agree with Your Holy Spirit for Your precious child. Pour out Your favor and cover their situation with the blood of Jesus Christ. I speak total healing and ultimate peace over Your child. In Jesus Christ mighty name. Amen! God bless you, love!
Who's the common denominator in each of our failed relationships? See the mirror. Women treat your husband like the man he can be, (compliment him, be kind) men treat and love your wife like Christ loved the church. My grandparents lived that for 59 1/2 years and I never heard them argue, raise their voice, or insult the other (they lost 2 sons at young ages, lost everything in their 60s to a hurricane). The opportunity for bitterness, anger and self pity knocked at their door, but they did not let it in. TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A THOROUGHBRED AND SHE WILL NEVER GROW INTO AN OLD NAG.
I don’t believe in forgiveness for the same person over and over I loved this women been my friend 4 years took care of her and children and she hurt me so as of now I hate her she just lose me karma will come back in the end I do pray that god can bring me around to forgiveness
What I love about you is you keep it real ! 💯 You tell us what we NEED to hear . NOT what we want to hear. You stepped on my toes in this video but I’m glad you did ! Some people can’t take stuff like this. Either we gone receive it and do better OR be immature and stay in the same place. You’re a true blessing 😭💕❤️ thank you for letting Yahweh use you . Sending Love from LOUISIANA 🐊
I’ve been through so much heartbreak and betrayal I pray all the time for the Lord to give me the strength to forgive others. Please pray for me as well💕 God bless y’all
It happened to me in friendships. I heard a small soft voice several times say leave them alone and even show me warning signs. I reasoned with the voice saying what if I'm just being judgemental, what if it's just me and not God. Honestly had I not gone through those situations I wouldn't have learned to discern the voice of God. One was a friend or what I thought was a friend for 34 years only to get betrayed long story short God warned me more than once and I didn't listen . Then God showed me it never would've worked because I'm his child and she's of the world and loves darkness and he told me even in friendships we are NOT to be unequally yoked. Then there was a few others who wronged me who claimed to be of God again God kept says leave them alone tried to warn me . So through them 4 situations as much as it hurt and I was angry and bitter at first until God helped me see truth and come to it repent and forgive them not for them but for me . At times I catch myself thinking about it or talling of it then I remind myself I forgave which frees me . The hard part is they live around me and the so called friend of 34 years hangs around one of the others . Letting go is the hard part for me I want to it's just hard. So I been seeking God for healing and help to move on . Today I dont have people friends I have my family and most of all Jesus Christ. Walking alone is hard at times but better than fake friends . I'm trusting God to vindicate and heal me . Today I pray for them and when I see them smile and give a lil wave to be nice . I trust that God has taken the trash out the stumbling block out so I can sore with him on wings of eagles. Honestly they were distracting me from God and I was allowing them to have negative influence in my life . I trust God for better and know if he allowed it hes working it for good and better things to come. God Bless You brother this word is true .
@@annabrooks5591 ,to God be all the glory. Your welcome .. It's a blessing when what I've been through helps others . It's all the Grace of God that brings us through to true victory and helps us to step over the mountain and when we look again we realize it was an ant hill. We must let God have his way and nail emotions to the cross.. God Bless you
Tonya A, it's hard to be alone cause God didn't create humans to be alone. We're living in critical times hard to deal with 👌. Take it one day at a time in prayer 🙏. Stay Blessed 💘.
It was too long winded the video. But, I still love what you are doing for The Kingdom, Brother Marcus. I do like your messages. But, Tell people to pray more. We have to take our issues, needs, and wants to The Lord JESUS CHRIST in Prayer, Period!!! ~Ms. Royal
Chronic Lack of consciousness/situational awareness, chronic lack of empathy appropriate to the situation, chronically arrogant, condescending and dismissive of a person's disadvantage, deprivation, frustration, suffering etc. will eventually drive even the most docile and gentle of souls to righteous wrath. The * temporary, situational, RIGHTEOUS WRATH * of the GOOD soul is SEEN, and PATHOLOGISED and CONDEMNED. The *** chronic, insufferable ABUSE and NEGLECT * of the BAD soul that PROVOKED it, is NOT. In most cases, most of the time, the most serious Evil, and the most serious Suffering, is INVISIBLE, Insidious, Subtle, and CHRONIC.
This is true, just a little bit of acknowledgement and kindness like a simple 'how are you doing' goes a long way. Bitterness comes from hurt, I need God to help me let go of this cause it's getting worse, I'm supposed to be getting better as a Christian and I feel like I'm a worse person than before I was a Christian.
I'm letting the house fall with my marriage. My husband left me as soon as I got deeper with God. He fell away from the faith and doesn't want to be with me anymore.There were other things I've could've done better as a wife. I'm also letting the house fall with my finances always worrying about how I'm going to pay this and that with the little bit I have especially now that I'm by myself. This was so on time! God bless you Marcus!
Love Truth, I know the feeling! I'm surrendering my 20 yr old grandson and my finances up to go. However the outcome, I pray for strength to endure. Stay Blessed 💘.
Thank you Brother Marcus, you are absolutely right, I ignored the warning signs because of the potential, and made so many excuses on their behalf because I was nieve. I know Christ has forgiven me but it is hard for me to forgive myself for allowing it to happen. Through christ all things are possible and peace will be my portion this 2019. Amen
you are not alone. We have all done it at some point, regardless if we admit it or not. You will forgive yourself, recover and grow from it. Be blessed sister.
I went through something like this in my past relationship. Her and I both had our faults, but I had thought her fault was so much greater than mine. I was blind in my pride... Thank you Jesus for forgiving me. Thank you for opening my eyes & teaching me forgiveness in her and in myself. God bless you all. Pray and ask for wisdom & position in your life, whatever it may be. Thank you, Jesus.
Yes! Putting myself in that spot where I realized what I also did wrong was so healing and humbling. We don’t have the right to not forgive others. God forgives us everyday and we may not deserve it. We need to humble ourselves and think about what the other person is struggling with as well. That is loving each other. Caring and not tearing down
Thank you. I just had a great cry. My last relationship I basically wanted it to be my way. I had stopped talking with God and praying for guidance and thinking I could have it all my way. I built a house on sinking sand and when it fell, I was left pregnant and alone. Now 39 weeks pregnant, the father of my child is trying to communicate with me and I just wanted him to leave me alone. I see now that for me to succeed I must forgive. I didn’t listen to no one when they told me to slow down before I shacked up with him. I didn’t pay attention to the signs that he we wasn’t meant to be. I didn’t start to listen till I realized there was a baby growing inside me. Now I have to forgive him and it hurts so bad. I was on my way to a bitter road and was ok with it! I wanted him to suffer for the hurt and abandonment during these last 9 months. But God is greater than my hurt 😔. I am truly humbled and needed to hear this. Thank you for allowing the Holly Spirit to speak through you🙏🏾.
Glen CoCo I hear you. But that decision would be mad from my hurt and anger. He is the father and I can’t keep him from seeing the baby. Now there are things like he won’t be alone with my child but if he want to build a relationship with baby, who am I to stop it?
Standing for my marriage after betrayal. God is working in me right now and I am learning to let go of my husband and let God do his work in both of us. I was ready to divorce him but God......He said no, you will stand and you will forgive. So much peace in that choice.
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#DoreenHawkins, you are so right. My husband betrayed me the day before we got married i.e he was unfaithful. I found out 9 months later and we split. I divorced him 7 years later. A year ago God spoke to me and told me I had to write to him and forgive him. I had no idea where he was as we had not spoken for 14 years. God TOLD me how to get his address. I obeyed God and wrote to him and a week later he called me. God is bringing us back together after 18 years. ONLY OUR God can do this. He is an amazing God. Jacqui.
be strong sister stay in the word , Walk in love , that's Gods love . read 5 love languages gary Chapman, sacred marriage by , gary thomas . pray for God to show you what you need to work on in yourself. God bless you
Doreen Hawkins I haven't heard God say if we will be restored but when he was grabbing his stuff and leaving for his much younger co worker I said God do something and I heard a firm no. Is thus forever? I also heard him say trust me and others who have prayed for me said God is moving things around . some say its God protecting the kids and I. What should I believe. I don't know if I should hold on or heal????
Buzzing Bee Both. God has walked with me over the last 18 years and I never thought that he would bring my ex back as I had forgotten about him and pursued our God but God is faithful x
Brother, this video is delivering my soul from years of bitterness and having victim’s mentality. Truth be told, the Lord showed me Every Time that people I dealt with were not right but I ignored His voice, thus got hurt. This video is the Truth!!! John 8:32 - And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.
Yes, brother! I completely ignored my 6th sense, & went ahead and married him anyway. When I divorced him 1 year later, I knew I hadn't headed the prompting of the Holy Spirit. I don't blame him for anything anymore. He just wasn't for me, and I didn't listen. I've forgiven both he & I. This was 3 years ago. God is good.
Im getting a divorce.... I have to set this man free from this relationship that was a complete mistake of ignoring the clear of day signs not to get with him...i was loosing who i was being in this marriage and from having a divorce and the depression the hole i was falling in was a battle then to go into another marraige from ignorance it was bad from both sides...the divorce will set both of us free from this mistake i made... I did it and i was tormented so badly within and now we will be free.... I tried to force myself to fall in love but i couldn't... I was pretending and that wasn't right. He deserves to be with someone who will love him the way he deserves...so im letting it go...yes i have bitterness from my first marraige because i never truly let go... I loved him so much but i had to let him go...so i pray for both guys and i will accapt my punishment and just be single if i have to.... Scars done to the heart are sometimes so hard to mend...so i pray for those who hurt from heart break..!! I pray for the release of any ties and bitterness lurking and the influence of the enemy to keep the hurt in your ❤. I love Abba Father i do and i repent of my super bad decisions that caused others to hurt.... I see im mean in some ways because its my way to protect my ❤. I will not give it away easy if at all. Abba forgive me😢 i want to move on from this pain i have horded up in me....
Amen Marcus!! The Holy Ghost gave me soooooooooo many warnings, but I wanted what my flesh wanted. And yes he did me so dirty, when all I wanted to do was love him....but this fell on me because I should not have married him at all and the holy ghost told my black behind that!! So I was disobedient and I'm now paying for that disobedience at this very present moment smh.
@Glen CoCo what is it that your bitter about. In times like these I try to remember "I will not be bitter, I will be better". Bitterness doesn't nothing to the other person. It only hurts you. Don't allow yourself to be imprisioned by it. The truth(Jesus) shall set you free and you will be free indeed.
Yes you are correct. I know first hand the part I played into the destruction of my marraige. I knew tht God did not tell me to marry my ex husband but I did anyway. Im glad I learned so much abt myself and the power of being obedient to the father. Im still a work in progress but I'm aware of the parts I play in everything tht I say and do. I'm so grateful for the struggle because I'm a better follower of Christ. God bless you Marcus Rogers.
Amen...I really needed to hear this, I forgive my husband for walking out on me for another woman, I'm praying for him and moving on with my life, I was a good wife to him, but I didn't deserve to be treated this way, but I know God will get me through this.
As of late I have been experincing demonic forces. And havent been able to sleep. I have nightmares and cant sleep comfortably anymore. I feel a strong presence just following me. Ive been getting sober and staying away from the bad habits I have.Id like to ask if you may keep me in your prayers, thanks for all your videos.. Much Love from Salinas, California.
Keep asking God to keep taking away the enemy. Don't give the enemy any time of day. God will fight your battles if you just believe. I have issues with just putting my trust in God, and I'm a FIRM believer in Him. But sometimes, I fall short and take my eyes off Him. But before you go to sleep, ask God to allow you to sleep peacefully and to take the enemy away from you. Because trust me, it's hard. I'm going through hell right now, but I know my God will bring me through this situation. Prayers for you!
My prayers and thoughts are with you Natalia, may the Lord Jesus Christ convict your path and journey into righteousness and sobriety I plea this over your life in the name of Jesus. Amen
Thank you so much brother Marcus you are so right continue keep it real because at the end of the day we all fall short in different areas all we need to do is maintain them in prayer amen
Thank you for everything. Your really have a huge impact in my life. I was living in a life of confusion and hurt and you clearified everything for me!! Thank you and I love you
Powerful. God gives us the power of discernment. Resist the devil and he will flee. God gave us free will. If we do not forgive others god will not forgive us.. we are responsible for our..
I needed this. This is right on time. You are confirming what He has been discussing with me and what I have been searching to understand. He told me to trust Him and I was being so hard-headed, and ended up getting my feelings hurt. I am so grateful that He still comes in and tells me that everything will be okay, and to wait on Him, like He told me to do in the first place. He wants His best for me.. not what my impatience makes me settle for in the meantime. Thanks for this....
Man the Ruach is working through you... theres always a softening of the Heart when the Holy Spirit speaks. Shalowam Brother. Thank you for this Message.
A soft answer turns away wrath,
But harsh word stirs up anger.
Proverbs 15:1
Thank you for this =)
Amen
AMEN!!!
Some people only get angry when after being chronically abused, nagged or provoked, whether the perpetrator or others recognise and admit this reality or not.This is righteous wrath, not an anger management problem. Others, on the other hand, are just chronically angry towards the weak and get away with it because their victims are weak. Chronic anger,perpetrated by the strong, is the mental illness or character flaw that goes ignored and unpunished, until the victim, no matter how weak, cannot take it anymore, and snaps. This is righteous wrath.
Yes Jonas!!! 😥😥
Pride is the biggest destruction of all relationships!
I wish I could like your comment 1000xs
Exactly right.... PRIDE..... 😥
Amen! Say it again!
Yes pride can either make you or break you. If we learn to put our pride aside some times we will be OK. If we are to prideful, then we could miss out on a blessing or a life lesson.
@@beautifulwonderfullymade.2662 so.... true....
I was married and divorced from my 1st husband but after 15 years of over coming pain from the divorce.I remarried my first husband again. Our relationship now is sweet !
Joan Meeks Amen. God is doing the same for me too. I married my husband in 2000, separated in 2001and divorced him in 2007. In 2017 God told me to contact him and ask for forgiveness and forgive him. I had no idea where he was as we had not kept in contact but our God is amazing and told me to enter is full name into a google search. I couldn’t believe it when his new company was displayed with his home address. I did what God said and a week later he sent a text asking if he could call. We talked like we have never spoken before. He is now sorting things out and God is preparing the both of us. I still couldn’t believe it until x3 prophets confirmed a Word that God has given directly to me. I would never have thought that this was possible but again our God has proven that with him ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. Jacqui
True talk! It’s happened to me. My marriage, and husband was one of the most difficult things that I had to fight for, but thank God I got converted to the faith when I did, and decided to fight instead of dip out. His soul was worth all the fight. He is saved now and we are both growing together. Marriage is amazing and sacred, and it’s the gospel you are preaching to your babies! 👑Fight for IT!🥊🥊🥊
Amen!
I'm right there with you. Nothing in my life thus far has compared to this walk I'm on with Christ. My marriage is not restored yet but it will be in Gods timing!
We have to actually make sure our marriages and relationships are approved by God before we fight for it...
Contend sister! My husband was addicted to meth, alcohol, and so many other things. It was Hell being married to him, and took 6 years, but during this process I would receive words that he would be saved and converted IF I remained faithful but not just to him, but my new faith , and I held on to those words and decided to buckle down and began to fight on my knees! I use to get jealous of godly women and their Holy marriage because I wanted it so bad, and now, I have it. All glory to Jesus.
@@selinasaunders I hope so! If not, I suggest you accept the truth (jesus) and learn from your choices.
I ignored and reaped what I sowed I have to take responsibility I was warned from God through his vessels
Good answer . We ignore and we reap a harvest of not listening /obeying the voice of the father.
@@TonyaA7 that is very true !
Well I was warned about my ex husband and I started back talking to him he stated he wasn’t married anymore I was vulnerable started back messing with him I went to his house told his wife that he doing her the same way he did me cheated and he told her to have me put in jail and she did
I'm married 24 years separate six. I didn't leave because I promised til death do us part, but finally God put it on my spirit that we put ourselves together he didn't. I asked him to leave and he did. We have two kids together, so I knew that I had to be an example for them. I forgave him, and he eventually knew it was the right decision. We were both wrong. He said I'm his best friend and only friend. After we separated God blessed me more than I deserve. I make it a point to thank God and talk to him daily time I open my eyes. It really makes a difference when you put God first in every aspect of your life.
Yes! We have to accept that God never ordained these toxic relationships to begin with. Stop ignoring red flags and being desperate.
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I married a guy that i was in a toxic relationship wit.. but booy i tell ya. I got into God faithfully. I prayed for my husband and became an godly example according to 1 peter 3. Not only God worked on me and transforming me he did the same for him. Halleluyah! Can he do it? I didnt hv to divorce him. All we needed was God.
I swear there's a spirit of codependency. It grips you to feel guilty and the other person to feel the deep desire to control you.
I was in an devastating marriage, where my husband not only abused me physically and mentally, but he cheated on me and then lied to his family and friends to make me appear to be the bad guy. Not to mention he 'gaslighted' me by trying to make me believe I was crazy when I confronted him with his infidelity. (BTW, he ended up leaving me and marrying this 'non-existent' girlfriend. LOL!) By my marriage end, I was the Walking Wounded and ready to commit suicide.
BUT GOD.
He came to me one midnight when I was about to slit my wrists. He helped me through that devastating period in my life. At first, I was so hurt, next so angry, I was calling down lightning bolts from Heaven to destroy my ex! (LOL!)
BUT GOD!
Even in the midst of my rage, I desperately knew if I didn't learn to forgive my ex and move past the pain, I'd die first spiritually, then mentally, and finally physically. Yet how? How to forgive something so devastatingly painful that I wanted to no longer exist? One of the ways The Lord helped me through was to have me release the responsibility of my ex-husband's actions. At the time I would randomly burst into tears, asking Him "Why did he abuse me?" "Why did he cheat on me?" "Why did he lie on me?" One day The Lord placed in my spirit: "As long as you own these things, you can never get past them." Confused, I then asked: "What do You mean?" The Lord: "Instead of saying 'He cheated on me' say: 'He is a cheater'. Instead of: 'He abused me' say: 'He is an abuser'. Replace 'He lied on me' with 'He is a liar'. By thinking of it this way, you relinquish hold on what he did to you - and place it back on the person truly responsible: him. You are stuck because you are holding on to guilt for what he did during your marriage."
This revelation was so life-changing enlightening! I hadn't realized the reason I couldn't forgive and move on because I hadn't first forgiven myself for being in such a dysfunctional relationship. Once I released the burden of my own guilt, forgiven myself and handed my abuse back to my abuser, I was on my way to total healing. During that period The Lord also made me see who I was as well, which wasn't very pretty, let me tell you! He then instructed me to pray for my ex and his girlfriend/wife. (LOL! Went kicking and screaming into that one! But the more I prayed, the easier it got. This also helped me heal. God knew exactly what He was doing!)
That was more than 20 years ago and I haven't looked back since. I pray my testimony helps someone. May God bless you all!
I can really relate to this! God bless you sis, Thank you for sharing, it's powerful! Please keep me in prayer as I'm struggling to forgive myself for.
@@lalavargo God Almighty, I touch and agree with Your Holy Spirit for Your precious child. Pour out Your favor and cover their situation with the blood of Jesus Christ. I speak total healing and ultimate peace over Your child. In Jesus Christ mighty name. Amen! God bless you, love!
@@Sandra-wj4on Amen!!! Thank you Lord! God Bless you sis, Thank you for taking the time to respond, I'm honoured.
@@lalavargo Back at ya! :)
@Azureblu 50 You know, it was only after I got out of my own way and truly listened to God, was I redeemed. God bless you! 😊
Who's the common denominator in each of our failed relationships? See the mirror. Women treat your husband like the man he can be, (compliment him, be kind) men treat and love your wife like Christ loved the church. My grandparents lived that for 59 1/2 years and I never heard them argue, raise their voice, or insult the other (they lost 2 sons at young ages, lost everything in their 60s to a hurricane). The opportunity for bitterness, anger and self pity knocked at their door, but they did not let it in.
TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A THOROUGHBRED AND SHE WILL NEVER GROW INTO AN OLD NAG.
Forgiveness doesn't mean they didn't do a wrong it just means that you're releasing them from owing you anything for it.
I don’t believe in forgiveness for the same person over and over I loved this women been my friend 4 years took care of her and children and she hurt me so as of now I hate her she just lose me karma will come back in the end I do pray that god can bring me around to forgiveness
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I pray God helps you to heal and love again! ❤ 🙏 🕊
@@Tiffany_3x thank you 🙏🏿 I really feel that I can never love again
What I love about you is you keep it real ! 💯 You tell us what we NEED to hear . NOT what we want to hear. You stepped on my toes in this video but I’m glad you did !
Some people can’t take stuff like this. Either we gone receive it and do better OR be immature and stay in the same place.
You’re a true blessing 😭💕❤️ thank you for letting Yahweh use you . Sending Love from LOUISIANA 🐊
Amen So True. That Was Me Just Last Month
I’ve been through so much heartbreak and betrayal I pray all the time for the Lord to give me the strength to forgive others. Please pray for me as well💕 God bless y’all
It happened to me in friendships. I heard a small soft voice several times say leave them alone and even show me warning signs. I reasoned with the voice saying what if I'm just being judgemental, what if it's just me and not God.
Honestly had I not gone through those situations I wouldn't have learned to discern the voice of God.
One was a friend or what I thought was a friend for 34 years only to get betrayed long story short God warned me more than once and I didn't listen .
Then God showed me it never would've worked because I'm his child and she's of the world and loves darkness and he told me even in friendships we are NOT to be unequally yoked.
Then there was a few others who wronged me who claimed to be of God again God kept says leave them alone tried to warn me .
So through them 4 situations as much as it hurt and I was angry and bitter at first until God helped me see truth and come to it repent and forgive them not for them but for me . At times I catch myself thinking about it or talling of it then I remind myself I forgave which frees me . The hard part is they live around me and the so called friend of 34 years hangs around one of the others .
Letting go is the hard part for me I want to it's just hard. So I been seeking God for healing and help to move on .
Today I dont have people friends I have my family and most of all Jesus Christ. Walking alone is hard at times but better than fake friends .
I'm trusting God to vindicate and heal me . Today I pray for them and when I see them smile and give a lil wave to be nice .
I trust that God has taken the trash out the stumbling block out so I can sore with him on wings of eagles. Honestly they were distracting me from God and I was allowing them to have negative influence in my life .
I trust God for better and know if he allowed it hes working it for good and better things to come.
God Bless You brother this word is true .
Thank you for saying this I am going through something very similar
@@annabrooks5591 ,to God be all the glory. Your welcome .. It's a blessing when what I've been through helps others . It's all the Grace of God that brings us through to true victory and helps us to step over the mountain and when we look again we realize it was an ant hill. We must let God have his way and nail emotions to the cross.. God Bless you
Tonya A, it's hard to be alone cause God didn't create humans to be alone. We're living in critical times hard to deal with 👌. Take it one day at a time in prayer 🙏. Stay Blessed 💘.
Sometimes you just want to be seen and understood. Compassion goes a long way.
It was too long winded the video. But, I still love what you are doing for The Kingdom, Brother Marcus. I do like your messages. But, Tell people to pray more. We have to take our issues, needs, and wants to The Lord JESUS CHRIST in Prayer, Period!!! ~Ms. Royal
@@streetsofgold378 ikr
Give it and you shall receive it in return
Chronic Lack of consciousness/situational awareness, chronic lack of empathy appropriate to the situation, chronically arrogant, condescending and dismissive of a person's disadvantage, deprivation, frustration, suffering etc. will eventually drive even the most docile and gentle of souls to righteous wrath. The * temporary, situational, RIGHTEOUS WRATH * of the GOOD soul is SEEN, and PATHOLOGISED and CONDEMNED. The *** chronic, insufferable ABUSE and NEGLECT * of the BAD soul that PROVOKED it, is NOT. In most cases, most of the time, the most serious Evil, and the most serious Suffering, is INVISIBLE, Insidious, Subtle, and CHRONIC.
This is true, just a little bit of acknowledgement and kindness like a simple 'how are you doing' goes a long way. Bitterness comes from hurt, I need God to help me let go of this cause it's getting worse, I'm supposed to be getting better as a Christian and I feel like I'm a worse person than before I was a Christian.
I'm letting the house fall with my marriage. My husband left me as soon as I got deeper with God. He fell away from the faith and doesn't want to be with me anymore.There were other things I've could've done better as a wife. I'm also letting the house fall with my finances always worrying about how I'm going to pay this and that with the little bit I have especially now that I'm by myself. This was so on time! God bless you Marcus!
Love Truth, I know the feeling! I'm surrendering my 20 yr old grandson and my finances up to go. However the outcome, I pray for strength to endure. Stay Blessed 💘.
Love Truth, I meant to say up to God! Excuses typos 😂.
I did.. I let go and I ran to Jesus. It was so hard but God helped me get over this bitterness and anger.
Praise God ,thank you Lord for leading me here today ..Amen Thank you Jesus..
Thank you Brother Marcus, you are absolutely right, I ignored the warning signs because of the potential, and made so many excuses on their behalf because I was nieve. I know Christ has forgiven me but it is hard for me to forgive myself for allowing it to happen. Through christ all things are possible and peace will be my portion this 2019. Amen
you are not alone. We have all done it at some point, regardless if we admit it or not. You will forgive yourself, recover and grow from it. Be blessed sister.
@@hghly-fvrd1819 Thank you. Stay blessed
Yes
sharonfelicia121 yes being naive is the road to bad endings
I went through something like this in my past relationship. Her and I both had our faults, but I had thought her fault was so much greater than mine. I was blind in my pride... Thank you Jesus for forgiving me. Thank you for opening my eyes & teaching me forgiveness in her and in myself. God bless you all. Pray and ask for wisdom & position in your life, whatever it may be. Thank you, Jesus.
Yes! Putting myself in that spot where I realized what I also did wrong was so healing and humbling. We don’t have the right to not forgive others. God forgives us everyday and we may not deserve it. We need to humble ourselves and think about what the other person is struggling with as well. That is loving each other. Caring and not tearing down
Thank you. I just had a great cry. My last relationship I basically wanted it to be my way. I had stopped talking with God and praying for guidance and thinking I could have it all my way. I built a house on sinking sand and when it fell, I was left pregnant and alone. Now 39 weeks pregnant, the father of my child is trying to communicate with me and I just wanted him to leave me alone. I see now that for me to succeed I must forgive. I didn’t listen to no one when they told me to slow down before I shacked up with him. I didn’t pay attention to the signs that he we wasn’t meant to be. I didn’t start to listen till I realized there was a baby growing inside me. Now I have to forgive him and it hurts so bad. I was on my way to a bitter road and was ok with it! I wanted him to suffer for the hurt and abandonment during these last 9 months. But God is greater than my hurt 😔. I am truly humbled and needed to hear this. Thank you for allowing the Holly Spirit to speak through you🙏🏾.
Glen CoCo I hear you. But that decision would be mad from my hurt and anger. He is the father and I can’t keep him from seeing the baby. Now there are things like he won’t be alone with my child but if he want to build a relationship with baby, who am I to stop it?
I appreciate you saying this I'm in the same boat actually but I'm in my first trimester.
Forgive yourself first
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Standing for my marriage after betrayal. God is working in me right now and I am learning to let go of my husband and let God do his work in both of us. I was ready to divorce him but God......He said no, you will stand and you will forgive. So much peace in that choice.
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#DoreenHawkins, you are so right. My husband betrayed me the day before we got married i.e he was unfaithful. I found out 9 months later and we split. I divorced him 7 years later. A year ago God spoke to me and told me I had to write to him and forgive him. I had no idea where he was as we had not spoken for 14 years. God TOLD me how to get his address. I obeyed God and wrote to him and a week later he called me. God is bringing us back together after 18 years. ONLY OUR God can do this. He is an amazing God. Jacqui.
be strong sister stay in the word , Walk in love , that's Gods love . read 5 love languages gary Chapman, sacred marriage by , gary thomas . pray for God to show you what you need to work on in yourself. God bless you
Doreen Hawkins
I haven't heard God say if we will be restored but when he was grabbing his stuff and leaving for his much younger co worker I said God do something and I heard a firm no. Is thus forever? I also heard him say trust me and others who have prayed for me said God is moving things around . some say its God protecting the kids and I. What should I believe. I don't know if I should hold on or heal????
Buzzing Bee Both. God has walked with me over the last 18 years and I never thought that he would bring my ex back as I had forgotten about him and pursued our God but God is faithful x
Forgive yourself also.
Thats the part I havent figured out
Wade Is Legit You and me both 🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾
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🙏 have you figured it out yet?
I really need to hear this . thank you.
Lisset Contreras me too
MARCUS, YOU ARE INSPIRING!!! DON'T LET THE HATERS GET TO YOU.
Brother, this video is delivering my soul from years of bitterness and having victim’s mentality. Truth be told, the Lord showed me Every Time that people I dealt with were not right but I ignored His voice, thus got hurt. This video is the Truth!!!
John 8:32 - And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.
I’m trying so hard not to cry 😢 thank you 🙏🏽 God for this message I need to let my past go ♥️
Quyona Riley very important 🙏🏾👸🏽✨
You see the crown but don't see the cross! Powerful ..
If they don't love Jesus, How will they love you 🙏🏼
Wow, thank you Jesus for this message!
I love u my brother in the Lord, I look forward to ur videos,they always uplift my spirit
Yes, brother! I completely ignored my 6th sense, & went ahead and married him anyway. When I divorced him 1 year later, I knew I hadn't headed the prompting of the Holy Spirit. I don't blame him for anything anymore. He just wasn't for me, and I didn't listen. I've forgiven both he & I. This was 3 years ago. God is good.
Im getting a divorce.... I have to set this man free from this relationship that was a complete mistake of ignoring the clear of day signs not to get with him...i was loosing who i was being in this marriage and from having a divorce and the depression the hole i was falling in was a battle then to go into another marraige from ignorance it was bad from both sides...the divorce will set both of us free from this mistake i made... I did it and i was tormented so badly within and now we will be free.... I tried to force myself to fall in love but i couldn't... I was pretending and that wasn't right. He deserves to be with someone who will love him the way he deserves...so im letting it go...yes i have bitterness from my first marraige because i never truly let go... I loved him so much but i had to let him go...so i pray for both guys and i will accapt my punishment and just be single if i have to.... Scars done to the heart are sometimes so hard to mend...so i pray for those who hurt from heart break..!! I pray for the release of any ties and bitterness lurking and the influence of the enemy to keep the hurt in your ❤. I love Abba Father i do and i repent of my super bad decisions that caused others to hurt.... I see im mean in some ways because its my way to protect my ❤. I will not give it away easy if at all. Abba forgive me😢 i want to move on from this pain i have horded up in me....
May God bring healing to your heart sister.
Very wise words...God bless you in your ministry and keep making videos your words are very encouraging
Amen Marcus!! The Holy Ghost gave me soooooooooo many warnings, but I wanted what my flesh wanted. And yes he did me so dirty, when all I wanted to do was love him....but this fell on me because I should not have married him at all and the holy ghost told my black behind that!! So I was disobedient and I'm now paying for that disobedience at this very present moment smh.
I pray your situation gets better sis 🙏
Lea Chulita God has definitely restored and blessed me!! Amen, thank you ☺️
You are preaching brother!!!
Keeping on preaching brotha! Thank you for this video. Bitterness can really affect your relationship with the Lord. Especially your prayer life.
@Glen CoCo what is it that your bitter about. In times like these I try to remember "I will not be bitter, I will be better". Bitterness doesn't nothing to the other person. It only hurts you. Don't allow yourself to be imprisioned by it. The truth(Jesus) shall set you free and you will be free indeed.
Yes you are correct. I know first hand the part I played into the destruction of my marraige. I knew tht God did not tell me to marry my ex husband but I did anyway. Im glad I learned so much abt myself and the power of being obedient to the father. Im still a work in progress but I'm aware of the parts I play in everything tht I say and do. I'm so grateful for the struggle because I'm a better follower of Christ. God bless you Marcus Rogers.
Thank you for being honest.
Amen...I really needed to hear this, I forgive my husband for walking out on me for another woman, I'm praying for him and moving on with my life, I was a good wife to him, but I didn't deserve to be treated this way, but I know God will get me through this.
@@shawandabeasley142 God used that relationship to help you build better character so you could choose better men.
It's tight but it's right. 🤦🏽♀️😔 #Amen 🙏🏽❤️
I really needed this. Thank you so much for your message.
Thank you for this word! I needed this.
I really needed to hear this message this morning. Thank you so much for delivering this powerful message. I needed this so much!!!!
True stuff! I'm saving this for those times I forget these! Thank you sir!
you are dropping straight knowledge on here and that molestation and soul tie teaching that was soooooooo deep and real
Thank you for all that you do, brother.
God BLESS YOU Marcus!! GREATLY APPRECIATE coming across your YT and THANK YOU FOR STAYING REAL & LOYAL NO MATTER WHAT!!!
Thank you for your timeless messages! This has really helped me to forgive.
I needed this today ❤❤❤ Thank you Marcus.
As of late I have been experincing demonic forces. And havent been able to sleep. I have nightmares and cant sleep comfortably anymore. I feel a strong presence just following me. Ive been getting sober and staying away from the bad habits I have.Id like to ask if you may keep me in your prayers, thanks for all your videos.. Much Love from Salinas, California.
Keep asking God to keep taking away the enemy. Don't give the enemy any time of day. God will fight your battles if you just believe. I have issues with just putting my trust in God, and I'm a FIRM believer in Him. But sometimes, I fall short and take my eyes off Him. But before you go to sleep, ask God to allow you to sleep peacefully and to take the enemy away from you. Because trust me, it's hard. I'm going through hell right now, but I know my God will bring me through this situation. Prayers for you!
My prayers and thoughts are with you Natalia, may the Lord Jesus Christ convict your path and journey into righteousness and sobriety I plea this over your life in the name of Jesus. Amen
Thank you Marcus for taking your time to share the word....very helpful....appreciate you!!!
Amen, thank you for letting God use you, I needed to hear this
You are so right on!! Thank you Jesus!! Thank you Pastor Marcus!
I needed to hear this. Thank you for this video. I will be sharing this.
You are wise beyond your years Marcus. What a great message!
This is so important. It led me straight into prayer. Thank you Marcus. Keep dropping these truthbombs!
Amen, this was very eye opening and helpful.
This channel is gonna keep me in line. Thank you, Jesus.🙏🏽
Thank you so much brother Marcus you are so right continue keep it real because at the end of the day we all fall short in different areas all we need to do is maintain them in prayer amen
This is so soooo truth. The BEST advice ever. Omgooodness. Ive said so much of the SAME things. I’ve gotta share this. WOW. WOW. WOW.!!! Tks.😊
It take a lot of maturity to admit your part in doing or causing a disagreement. Thank you you help me I needed to here this!
Wow really needed to hear this. Thank you for allowing God to use you to bring this message fourth.
I so needed this message. This is me right now. Thank you so much. This thing here has been a constant battle.
This was so helpful and appreciated. What a blesssing you are. GOD BLESS YOU.
Marcus, blessings to you brotha, keep sharing with the world God's world and your relationship you have with Him
God is amazing. Just found your videos right when I needed it. God bless you
I enjoy when you speak it comes from a sincere place thank you for your insight!
Amen Amen Thank You Jesus. Brother Marcus Thank You For The Confirmation. HALLELUJAH
Thank you so much for allowing God to use you and deliver this message. To God be the glory!
This video could not have come at a better time! Thank you Holy Spirit for Your servant, Marcus.
Great word! Much needed!
Love you. God loves you. Thanks for being so real
Amen brother! I watched 1of your videos and I been hooked ever since. I enjoy the word you share, and I admire your love for God.
Right on time My Brother , God Bless youu!
Thank you Jesus! Needed this so much! Thank you MOG! May you be blessed. Love you my brother!❤️
Amen Amen...brother Marcus. Keep preaching the truth.
I thank you a million times over. You have been a blessing to me and I tell the world about you. I forward this to someone who is hurting right now.
I thank God for your ministry. I say thank you to you my brother in Christ for your truth, wisdom and honesty.
May GOD continue to bless you, just coming across you and your messages Man of GOD,good stuff shalom 🙏
Great word, and much needed in this time.
This hit home from the start to the end. Praise God for this video.
Amen..Needed to hear this.. thank you 🙏🏻 stay blessed
Thank you for everything. Your really have a huge impact in my life. I was living in a life of confusion and hurt and you clearified everything for me!! Thank you and I love you
Thank you so much for the way you articulate this message . we must OWN our mistakes .
Hello!!!!! You preaching real good Man of God.
I just discovered this man, and I’m sure glad I did. Everything he said hit close to heart.
Amen 🙏🏽
Powerful. God gives us the power of discernment. Resist the devil and he will flee. God gave us free will. If we do not forgive others god will not forgive us.. we are responsible for our..
Thank you so much for this message. My heart has been crushed and I know I’m far from perfect.
Excellent word of correction AND encouragement!!
Amen, Brother Marcus. Let God do it for you. Praise God!
Love you brother Marcus had to listen to this video over and over til it got in,my spirit I surrender.
Yes Lord!! You’re telling the absolute truth!!!
Good video!Thanks Marcus I needed to hear this at this very moment
Forgive your enemy always because haterate breeds bitterness and that what makes you feel bad and will destroy you in the end ❗🙏god bless us.
Tour ministry is such a blessing to me daily
I’m so thankful for your posts.. bless
How I needed this!! GOD is also faithful and always on time! Thank you for being so faithful and obedient to be able to share your discernment.
I needed this. This is right on time. You are confirming what He has been discussing with me and what I have been searching to understand. He told me to trust Him and I was being so hard-headed, and ended up getting my feelings hurt. I am so grateful that He still comes in and tells me that everything will be okay, and to wait on Him, like He told me to do in the first place. He wants His best for me.. not what my impatience makes me settle for in the meantime. Thanks for this....
Your videos are really helping me grow. You are anointed by God. Good bless you and thanks for being brave and speaking the truth.
Man the Ruach is working through you... theres always a softening of the Heart when the Holy Spirit speaks. Shalowam Brother. Thank you for this Message.
Thank you Marcus, you are a wonderful blessing to all.
You are in my prayers brother.🙏
Thank you Lord Jesus 🙌