Nope. I'm the worst of sinners, like Paul. How can I possibly take offense without taking offense with myself? That offense list is too long. That's why I need Christ. And yet He lifts me from the muck and cleans me off and gives me His righteousness and His power to keep looking to him and not go back to the muck.
"For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit. 19 After being made alive, he went and made proclamation to the imprisoned spirits- 20 to those who were disobedient long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah while the ark was being built. In it only a few people, eight in all, were saved through water, 21 and this water symbolizes baptism that now saves you also-not the removal of dirt from the body but the pledge of a clear conscience toward God. It saves you by the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 22 who has gone into heaven and is at God’s right hand-with angels, authorities and powers in submission to him." - 1 Peter 3:18-22
This is exactly what I needed. I have a lot of bitterness with a lot of my old coworkers and my family. I pray to God that He can change my heart to be a better person going forward. I no longer want to have bitterness with anybody anymore. I want to be a blessing to everybody I come across.
God, we lift up @greatness3554, and we pray that they will experience Your presence in a new way today. Help set their heart upon You and Your Word! May You guide their path towards You, Lord, while deepening their relationship with You. Fill their mind with Your thoughts and ways, and provide community that strengthens their resolve towards You. Renew their mind and fill them with the Holy Spirit for wisdom and discernment to grant understanding of Your nature and character. In Jesus’ name, Amen. Keli "Whoever finds God, finds life!"
I have spent far too much time in bitterness and resentment. Things have left my heart that I spoke out of my mouth Father. Forgive me. I rebuke and renounce any curses or bitter words Father and ask that you pour out blessings, Grace,and Mercy to anyone I have spoke ill of. Father thank you for your everlasting love and mercy. Please forgive me. 😢
Please pray for my Niece Mary Ann Franks. She is in hospital and dr said She may not live through surgery. We all know who the real grest physician is and everything is possible with him. She has 4 children and 3 her x has refused to let her see for years because of the mental health issues she has faced but she has always loved her children and has always been there to care for them. Please please pray for her to become healthy and whole is JESUS NAME AMEN AMEN
Praying for Mary Ann. Jesus is with her and His hands is guiding doctors hands. Jesus is love and all things happen for God’s glory. In Jesus name, we ask that Mary Ann will be completely healed.
When we are hurt as children, bitterness sets in because we don’t know what to with our alcoholic Parents. We don’t get help until we are in our 40’s because we couldn’t afford professional help before that. Some people can not afford mental healthcare ever. Those bitterness roots can’t always be fixed.
Wow, such a great sermon!!! I went to Life Church for the first time today in my city and hearing this sermon was exactly what I needed to hear! I've experienced betrayal by the people closes to me and I have to say that it hurts! But praying daily and seeking therapy is helping me to heal.
By the amazing grace of God, He brought your teaching to me. Thank you for being real with us so we don't feel like the only defective human in our race.God has recently shown me that I am unable to pray or read His Word because of long-term bitterness. I had no idea. Thank you, Lord, for loving us all.
I am 17years old .I was dealing with bitterness throughout my life . But hearing this sermon it change me deeply . I am blessed from this Pastor . Thankyou so much Life church because of this church I really got to know about life in JESUS. love from INDIA❤❤
We are not the world's trash can. Carrying everyone else's bitterness will only bring you down. Cast your cares upon the Lord. You don't have to carry it anymore.
This is definitely a struggle for me. Forgiving others is hard and especially making peace when you want to just to hold your bitterness. But I want to have the grace of God and stop bitterness from poisoning me and others. I’m gonna try to make peace today with someone I am angry with and have been hurt by. It’s hard, but I know that is what God is calling me to do.
Dear God we pray for Keza Charles. We pray for forgiveness in our lives, and we pray for the grace to extend the same forgiveness that we have received. We thank you for the work that you are doing in renewing our hearts. We pray that you help us to surrender and let go of the negative feelings and the bitterness we may have been holding onto. We pray that you save us and renew us with love and peace and joy. We pray for courage and help as we take the next step in forgiving, even and most especially when it’s hard. In Jesus’ name, Amen. -Mika
That visual of the tree! I have so many roots and it's true, you think it's simple anger but it just takes hold and you think it doesn't hold much space in your life until you turn around and there's this giant oak tree that acts as a barrier in your mind and it will drop acorns on the people in your life your friends, your family your children >
Yes, If we seek pure love of Christ, we can be filled with His love so that our cup runneth over. Then we are able to give something special to our fellow men. Our hearts are meant to carry this love. At times, in different situations, we are going through in our lives, we really need His special healing love to experience peace, and love for also to other people. He really is the best sorce of happiness in our hearts and lives. He is the sorce of pure love. With Him we are able to win the "wars" that raise in our hearts, and minds. God bless You all. I love U. He Is our refuge in times of sadness and greef.
Prayers Up 2022 & Continue ♥️ For Me To Completely Be Healed From Bitterness Of Spouse Betrayal & All Bitterness Cancel There Debt Faith Up 💪 Fear Not I Pray For My Enemies Amen🙏
Jesus I pray for Misty that she would have the strength and courage to face what she's going through with your help. Thank you Lord for who you are! Ryan -Team LC
Forgiveness is key! Start forgiving the hurts and wrongs, allow the Lord to move and He will heal and remove the bitterness! God Bless you!! He loves you! Myriam - LC Social Media Team
I have deep rooted bitterness toward my husband for something he did 10 years ago!! I can't seem to shake it off. Please pray for me! 🙏I'm in so much pain. I dont want to feel this way.
Thank you for sharing the ways your marriage is struggling. We’re here for you, and we want to connect you with resources that can help. Finds.Life is a great place to start-take a look here: finds.life.church/tag/marriage/ Stevie - Team LC
@20:23 This is SO helpful and practical. I had recognized a root of bitterness but had no idea what to do about. I thought I was doing sth wrong because I couldn't forgive this offense although apologies were exchanged. But instead of breaking my head over this I will choose to forgive and bless every time a memory pops up until "THE WOUND BECOMES A FACT AND NO LONGER AN EMOTION".
@@melaniemartin4319 Honestly, over the past two months I've come really far with overcoming bitterness- to the point where the memory DOES NOT STING like it used to. I was able to reconcile with this person in conversation and although we're not active friends, when I think of him I can only pray for what he's going through with a sincere heart of love. This is totally a doing of God! But I had to allow Him to heal me.
Thanks Pst. Chris Beall *4 This Powerful, Blessful, Deep Sermon of "When Bitterness Takes Over" Where I Admit That I'm Bitter With a Girl In My Church Where I Go 2 Where She Broke My Heart By Not Telling Me The Truth She Has a Boyfriend or Is Dating Where I Feel She Didn't Tell Me The Truth Where I'm Trying 2 Move On & Forgive Her But It's Not Easy & I Say Thanks Pst. Chris Beall So Very Much 4 Yu Have Taught Me 2:- 1. Expose My Bitterness & 2. Cancel The Debt Where I Should Look Diligently Lest Any Man Fail The Grace of God; Lest Any Root of Bitterness Springing Up Trouble Yu & Thereby Many Be Defiled Written In Hebrews 12:15 4 I Say That I Will Forgive Her Where I Already Forgave Her But Moving On Is Not Easy As It Seems Where God's Word Says Be Kind, Tenderhearted Forgiving One Another Just As God In Christ Jesus Forgave Us Written In Ephesians 4:32* & God Bless Yu Pst. Chris Beall & Life Church So Very Much.🙏🙏🕊️
I needed this, im right now a train wreck, but I am trusting God to turn my life around, im living in bitterness , rejection and self loathing, I need healing in every area of my life.
We’re praying for you, and we hope you see more and more how much God loves you and treasures you. If you’re looking for wisdom or resources from people who’ve experienced similar struggles, you can find those here: finds.life.church/tag/identity/ SM - Team LC
Honestly, my biggest bitterness is towards my past. Even now, I cannot get passed it for it’s part of me. I was diagnosed with Autism, but all my life I believe it was a false diagnosis. How people saw me, how they spoke to me, if wasn’t exactly with the level of respect that I wanted, I resented them with burning bitterness and indifference. If you pitied me or felt bad for me in any way, I damned you. I hated feeling pitiful, but because of all this rage over small things I then started getting angry over smallest inconveniences. In a world that is reliant on head strong men who can lead a family, this part of me made me fearful. Fearful of who would catch me on a bad day and experience the full childish tantrum of my wrath. It is truly a pathetic truth, but true nonetheless. Siblings in Christ, I’ve never done this before, but would you be willing to pray that I overcome my pride and stubbornness. It is the root of all my evil and plagues me to no end. I’m scared for my future family and friends, I don’t want others to be miserable.
We’re praying for you as you navigate these feelings of anger. If you’re looking for encouragement or wisdom from people who’ve had similar experiences, you can find those here: finds.life.church/?s=anger&is_v=1 -Kat
I’ve been Dealing with Bitterness for over a year now and it stems from my Homelife growing up and church hurt. We’re in a new place now and thriving but I still struggle with the memories. I now see that I need to cancel the debt every single day if that’s what it takes.
When we fully seek the word of God in all of it's fullness the Lord shows up and heals! The Lord can also use other people to heal you. When we worship the Lord heals! There are many ways to get through bitterness, even walking through forgiveness depending upon the situation. Inner healing from Jesus is necessary I would seek it if it's something you just can't get past. The Lord is faithful, give it to Him, he will take it. God Bless you! Jeremiah 17:14 : Heal me, Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise Myriam - LC Social Media Team
When my dad died, my sister-in-law said horrible things. I have cried, asked God to help me forgive her, but now with the holidays coming, I am dreading seeing her. She is very judgmental and has pushed family away from her, but I want to be kind to them. It’s really hard. I’ve asked and prayed for help, but the feelings are not good. Help!
Broken relationships can be so tough to navigate, but we know God is at workin you preparing you for these holiday gatherings. If you’re looking for encouragement or resources on how you find healing and bring restoration to this situation, we’d suggest you start here: finds.life.church/tag/the-grudge/ Kendra - Team LC
AMEN PASTOR CRIAG I NEED PRAY FOR MY FAMILY AND MYSELF I HAVE SO MUCH GOING ON AND I PRAY TO GOD FOR HELP BUT CAN YOU PLEASE PRAY FOR MY FAMILY AND MYSELF I LOVE LISTENING TO YOU YOUR GREAT 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am praying for you right now and for your entire household with confidence that God hears and is moved by his great love to act on your behalf. -Meli, Team LC
I've never been a bitter person ever, I've always been looking towards Jesus Christ and heaven in the grand scheme of things and I realize that this world we live in is just a temporary thing. I don't expect things to go well or be great in this world because it's obviously a fallen place and has been every since the garden of Eden.....all these problems here is a given, gotta look towards the big picture which is heaven and keep your head out of the world.....
I struggle with this with my in laws. They’ve crossed multiple boundaries several times that my husband and myself have for our child. And they don’t respect us and are very invasive and intrusive. It’s really bad and we live with each other so my question is how do you handle in laws constantly crossing boundaries that we have with our child and at what point do you distance yourself from that? This is really hard for me. I love them but can’t allow them to continue disrespecting our boundaries
Lord, I lift up @sierrachamb. You know them and see what they are going through. God, I ask that you would be with them. Cover them in your grace and love. I pray that you would give them strength and courage. Lord, let those around them speak truth and light into their life. Continue to be with them during this time. In Your name, amen.
I was, my youngest son's biological father about abandoned him and and myself. Pete is his name. My son looks just like him. My son is so strong. He figured out what he was. Trevor's paternal grandfather never met him but he and his grandfather called him and myself. He provided for Trevor what I couldn't! This month Pete's girlfriend passed away a year ago yesterday. She had ovarian/uterine cancer. I feel so bad but didn't have the words. Trevor's grandpa passed away, his Uncle Greg who wanted to get to know him. Trevor's Grandma Accolla passed. He has respiratory failure. He also has an Aunt Debbie who really wanted a relationship with Trevor. I found out she is on Meth. So I couldn't let her have a relationship with him. Most of his dad's side were on drugs. 2 of his cousins are in prison. I know he is not a Christian nor was his girlfriend. This is just unbelievable. I was trying to show him, but he was getting too mean. I pray for him that he doesn't have lung cancer.
Hi Debbie, Thank you for sharing your heart with us. It is that moment to moment dependence on Him to sustain us. Praying for God to show Himself to Trevor. We also pray for you to find the strength to guide him through this and that the Holy Spirit gives you the words to speak over him that leads to God. Laura - Team LC
As a man being "friendzoned" on more than one occasion all through my late teens and 20s has made me completely bitter because it's nothing more than a sad reminder that I've never been able to succeed in having a successful relationship with a woman - Being single and in your 30s in the church is just depressing, part of the reason I've been watching online sermons at home for years now. The church has also failed to help people meet their future spouse so is it any wonder that more Christians have resorted to online dating apps :/ and then we can't forget men can't even safely ask a woman out anymore all thanks to the feminism / metoo movements
God’s here for you, and so are we. If you’re interested in wisdom or encouragement on how you can grow closer to God and find meaningful relationships while single, this is a great place to start: finds.life.church/tag/single/
I am so bitter towards my husband. I do t know how to stop when the things I resent him for he does everyday. I need help to love him more then I resent him.
Hi Sherri. I am so sorry that you’re going through a rough season in your marriage & would be honored to pray for you. Lord we pray that you would help Sherri & her husband put you at the center of their marriage & find healing & restoration in you. Soften her heart toward her husband Lord. Help her extend to him the same forgiveness, grace & mercy that you show us Lord. Thank you. In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Thank you for sharing the ways your marriage is struggling. We’re here for you, and we want to connect you with resources that can help. Finds.Life is a great place to start-take a look here: finds.life.church/tag/marriage/ God bless you. Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good
He is in California is the worst place for his health with all the smog. I just don't know what to do? He also got evicted from his apartment. So he lives in a Winnapago? He only worked when I got him a job. He never paid child support, his dad did until he passed away. I don't know what to do? I will continue to pray for him. Iam not bitter, but, When Trevor was born I was . I talked to my Pastor then. He helped me feel better. But never knew of any father who didn't want to know his son? He was abusive to me. I told him to get out. I found out later that he was doing many drugs . I don't know what else to do for him?
Debbie: I can see your concern. This seems like a very trying time for you. It is especially important that you keep your faith in God strong. God will find a way if we ask him and trust in him. Luke 1:37 For with God nothing will be impossible. Prayer works miracles and even though we might not see results right away, God hears all prayers and will never turn his back on us. When we pray and read the scriptures, God speaks to us. He comes in many ways. Some we may not even expect. I would love to say a prayer for you. Dear Lord, Please come to Debbie's aid. She needs your help. Debbie has a situation that seems insurmountable. But we all know NOTHING is too big for you God. YOU are the God of miracles. Please send Angels of Mercy, Healing and Understanding to her, her son and the father of her son. Please heal their family and help them on the path to righteousness. Guiding their footsteps. I ask this in the name of THE ONE WHO CALMS THE RAGING SEAS- Our Savior Jesus Christ. AMEN ❤️Lisa
I will say the culture of the airport has definitely changed i have had to take alot of deep breaths and forced smiles by the airport staffs unprofessional provoking behaviors
I don't believe there's any difference, especially when you stop to ponder that God has given us unasked for grace. Before we ever knew we needed him he came to our rescue on the cross.
But your parent does owe you something, they owe you love and support..my mother doesn’t support or show love to me in any part of my life, being so sick calling and asking for her to come help me watch my daughter while I have life saving surgery, she wouldn’t yet was on her way to visit my sister who she has always been there for. I don’t drink , drug and have never left my daughter for even a day, yet she wouldn’t come help me. She took my 2 sisters side during there divorce yet when I went thru mine and called for her to come be with me she responded with , what good would that do? She loved my husband more than me, she hated my sisters husband’s so she was happy to see them divorce. I do hold it against her, how and why should I forgive her and act as if it never happened? I haven’t spoken to her in 5 yrs and I won’t ever unless she apologizes to me for the tremendous hurt she has caused me my whole life. If I forgive her she then hasn’t acknowledged my pain and that isn’t acceptable. I feel it’s bc I’m poor and my sisters are wealthy, I don’t have anything to offer her like they do, she is a materialistic person and I feel this has everything to do with it. I would never turn my back on my child, I would be the first person there for her. How could a parent who is suppose to love all her children equally able to do turn a blind eye?
Hi! I am sorry your going through that with your Mom, I am praying for you mightily! But holding onto it is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick. Unforgiveness is a heavy tool the enemy uses to keep us bound in bitterness/anger and many other things. Forgiveness is for you and not for them. You have every right to be upset. Sometimes it's a spiritual battle that can only be defeated in the spirit through prayer. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5: "The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." Remember you have a Father in Jesus who loves you TREMENDOUSLY, He will never lie to you, turn you away, or hurt you! He loves you to much! Give it to Him, we are to cast our burdens on Him. He wants you to give it to Him! Psalm 27:10: For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but the Lord will take me in. He will never forsake you, He loves you to much, you are His daughter. Praying for you, God Bless you! Myriam - LC Social Media Team
And what if we know a rapist or a child molestor. I always find my way back to this and I can't take away my hatred from them. They're living there life care free and I'm giving myself bitterness. It's tough
Hi Juju! God Bless you! I'm sorry if you went through something, the Lord loves you and wants to heal it. We have to remember, the Lord loves all His children. We have to remember it's a spiritual battle. Living in hatred/unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting them to die. Jesus wants you to live in abundance of peace and love. That's who He is. Start seeking the Lord and ask Him to take this bitterness from you or even speak to someone about it, He is faithful He will take it. God loves you tremendously! God Bless you! Praying for you! Myriam - LC Social Media Team
So what do we do when we're burnt out and can't go on a lovely vacation up to mountains. So out of touch. Can most people honestly just do that on the drop of a hat?
No, it's true. Not all of us can afford the time or finances to go on a vacation, but what can you do? Praying God shows all of us how to apply this teaching to our lives. -- Jenni
I'm bitter toward my husband. He lays in bed all day and watches animae and at night he smokes cigarettes and medical marijuana outside. I take care of the bills, shopping, taking kids to school, errands, I buy everything. He does nothing. When he's mad at me he doesn't talk to me. He's a hothead. I'm bitter. I wish he'd leave but he has it too good. I'm extremely bitter. Please pray for me and my situation. God hates divorce but he is not taking care of his family, I do..
Ms. Janet, Thank you for sharing the ways your marriage is struggling. We’re here for you, and we want to connect you with resources that can help. Finds.Life is a great place to start-take a look here: finds.life.church/tag/marriage/ God we are lifting you Ms. Janet and her husband to you. Lord open his eyes are heart to the effort Ms. Janet is putting towards the family. Soften his heart to the responsibilities he has to his family and wife. Allow Your Spirit to work in him and Ms. Janet so they can come together and be the couple you want them to be. In Jesus' name Amen. 🙏 Laura- Team LC
@Tell the Story Photography - Theresa Skutt - SO glad you are here!! I have stuff to share with you, but I start by saying, I’m sorry for the lack of love in your life. You are important and you have a purpose that only you can fill. FIRST: Seeking our Mighty God! HE is LOVE and HE will love you! “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” 1 John 4:8 NIV SECOND: Let’s get you connected with others, some of which may have a similar situation, that can love and help you! Thanks for sharing!! We’re praying for you, and we hope you see more and more how much God loves you and treasures you. If you’re looking for wisdom or resources from people who’ve experienced similar struggles, you can find those here: finds.life.church/tag/identity/ Finding a community is a great way to dive deeper into your relationship with God and people. You can view our in-person and online LifeGroups here: go2.lc/cojoinalg Keli - Team LC “Whoever finds God, finds life!”
How do I cancel the debt of my husband's girlfriend, it's been 2 years since I left, but we're still married. I pray all of the time. I hate feeling this way!
Thank you for sharing. That sounds like a heavy burden for sure. We’d love to invite you to Life.Church Online. We have people available to talk to and pray with at over 90 service times a week. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Kendra - Team LC
Marsha, I know trusting God can be difficult when He doesn't give us the things we think we need. I'm a single person, too. I know how lonely it can be. But human relationships will never completely satisfy the longing we have to be known and accepted and loved. Only God can fill that space. If you'd like to talk to someone about what you're going through, I'd encourage you to head to Life.Church Online at live.life.church. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can pray for you and chat one-on-one. - LK, Team LC
Do you have an offense that has unknowingly taken root in your heart?
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Nope. I'm the worst of sinners, like Paul. How can I possibly take offense without taking offense with myself? That offense list is too long.
That's why I need Christ. And yet He lifts me from the muck and cleans me off and gives me His righteousness and His power to keep looking to him and not go back to the muck.
"For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit. 19 After being made alive, he went and made proclamation to the imprisoned spirits- 20 to those who were disobedient long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah while the ark was being built. In it only a few people, eight in all, were saved through water, 21 and this water symbolizes baptism that now saves you also-not the removal of dirt from the body but the pledge of a clear conscience toward God. It saves you by the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 22 who has gone into heaven and is at God’s right hand-with angels, authorities and powers in submission to him." - 1 Peter 3:18-22
Yup. No doubt about it.
The good news is that people don't determine your destiny; God does.
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Exacle...
Wait, I thought we had free will? Now god controls our lives and our destiny?
Explain yourself.
This is exactly what I needed. I have a lot of bitterness with a lot of my old coworkers and my family. I pray to God that He can change my heart to be a better person going forward. I no longer want to have bitterness with anybody anymore. I want to be a blessing to everybody I come across.
God, we lift up @greatness3554, and we pray that they will experience Your presence in a new way today. Help set their heart upon You and Your Word! May You guide their path towards You, Lord, while deepening their relationship with You. Fill their mind with Your thoughts and ways, and provide community that strengthens their resolve towards You. Renew their mind and fill them with the Holy Spirit for wisdom and discernment to grant understanding of Your nature and character. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Keli
"Whoever finds God, finds life!"
This man is really good. He doesn’t yell the whole time. I can relate to his style.
I have spent far too much time in bitterness and resentment. Things have left my heart that I spoke out of my mouth Father. Forgive me. I rebuke and renounce any curses or bitter words Father and ask that you pour out blessings, Grace,and Mercy to anyone I have spoke ill of. Father thank you for your everlasting love and mercy. Please forgive me. 😢
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Please pray for my Niece Mary Ann Franks. She is in hospital and dr said
She may not live through surgery. We all know who the real grest physician is and everything is possible with him. She has 4 children and 3 her x has refused to let her see for years because of the mental health issues she has faced but she has always loved her children and has always been there to care for them. Please please pray for her to become healthy and whole is JESUS NAME AMEN AMEN
Praying for Mary Ann. Jesus is with her and His hands is guiding doctors hands. Jesus is love and all things happen for God’s glory. In Jesus name, we ask that Mary Ann will be completely healed.
@@marliwarner5270 Amen!
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When we are hurt as children, bitterness sets in because we don’t know what to with our alcoholic Parents. We don’t get help until we are in our 40’s because we couldn’t afford professional help before that. Some people can not afford mental healthcare ever. Those bitterness roots can’t always be fixed.
Wow, such a great sermon!!! I went to Life Church for the first time today in my city and hearing this sermon was exactly what I needed to hear! I've experienced betrayal by the people closes to me and I have to say that it hurts! But praying daily and seeking therapy is helping me to heal.
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By the amazing grace of God, He brought your teaching to me. Thank you for being real with us so we don't feel like the only defective human in our race.God has recently shown me that I am unable to pray or read His Word because of long-term bitterness. I had no idea. Thank you, Lord, for loving us all.
This is probably one of the best, truthful, eye opening videos I have ever seen! It sure opened my eyes & made me think about some things.
I am 17years old .I was dealing with bitterness throughout my life . But hearing this sermon it change me deeply . I am blessed from this Pastor . Thankyou so much Life church because of this church I really got to know about life in JESUS. love from INDIA❤❤
Hey Sonu. It's great to have you with us and I'm glad you shared how much this church has blessed you. ~ Bre LC
We are not the world's trash can. Carrying everyone else's bitterness will only bring you down. Cast your cares upon the Lord. You don't have to carry it anymore.
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Such a good Word.
Loving and blessing our enemies keeps bitterness away. You can't love, bless, and be bitter at the same time.
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This is definitely a struggle for me. Forgiving others is hard and especially making peace when you want to just to hold your bitterness. But I want to have the grace of God and stop bitterness from poisoning me and others. I’m gonna try to make peace today with someone I am angry with and have been hurt by. It’s hard, but I know that is what God is calling me to do.
Dear God we pray for Keza Charles. We pray for forgiveness in our lives, and we pray for the grace to extend the same forgiveness that we have received. We thank you for the work that you are doing in renewing our hearts. We pray that you help us to surrender and let go of the negative feelings and the bitterness we may have been holding onto. We pray that you save us and renew us with love and peace and joy. We pray for courage and help as we take the next step in forgiving, even and most especially when it’s hard. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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That visual of the tree! I have so many roots and it's true, you think it's simple anger but it just takes hold and you think it doesn't hold much space in your life until you turn around and there's this giant oak tree that acts as a barrier in your mind and it will drop acorns on the people in your life your friends, your family your children >
Where ever there is a rotten root, there is rotten fruit.
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This is so so so profound!! Thank you for an extraordinary message! Be so blessed
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Humbly ask for Grace and spiritual intervention
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Thank you so much for this powerful word! Grace from Ukraine!🙏🏻🤍
Yes, If we seek pure love of Christ, we can be filled with His love so that our cup runneth over. Then we are able to give something special to our fellow men.
Our hearts are meant to carry this love. At times, in different situations, we are going through in our lives, we really need His special healing love to experience
peace, and love for also to other people. He really is the best sorce of happiness in our hearts and lives. He is the sorce of pure love.
With Him we are able to
win the "wars" that raise
in our hearts, and minds.
God bless You all. I love U.
He Is our refuge in times
of sadness and greef.
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Our Sons lectured us for not going to Church. That’s when I knew they were strong enough to face anything.
Father God, Bless me and help me to become this sermon. Bless Us as Your Body, Your Church to walk in Faith and Forgiveness.
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Whoever finds God finds life!
Amen!
Jenn, Team LC
I am so grateful for the love and grace of our God
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Such a good and powerful word today! Had me in tears again. Thank you Pastor Chris for your sermon. ❤️
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Just what i need right now! .... thanks God to remain me .....
He is always on time, God Bless you!
Myriam - LC Social Media Team
Believing I am Forgiven => Gratitude => Acceptance => Love => Peace => Closer to God
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Prayers Up 2022 & Continue ♥️ For Me To Completely Be Healed From Bitterness Of Spouse Betrayal & All Bitterness Cancel There Debt
Faith Up 💪
Fear Not
I Pray For My Enemies
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Jesus I pray for Misty that she would have the strength and courage to face what she's going through with your help. Thank you Lord for who you are!
Ryan
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I am not offended you are i WALK IN ALL POWER AND AUTHORITY OF JESUS CHRIST AND YOU KNOW IT.
Life Church really tackling some tough subjects with real testimonies. Whole new respect for pastor.
Thank you, Joe! 🙏🏻
This message was great and so true. It made me cry.
I'm so glad you enjoyed it, Nydia! -Amber S. Social Media Team
God rip any strands of bitterness out of me/ us please sir 🙏🏼
Forgiveness is key! Start forgiving the hurts and wrongs, allow the Lord to move and He will heal and remove the bitterness! God Bless you!! He loves you!
Myriam - LC Social Media Team
Thank you for speaking this message. Wow! Eyes opened.
Playing this message loud in my front gardens bustop is from of my garden and everyone hearing hallelujah thanks for the message
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I needed this! Great word!
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What an amazing sermon. Thank you for this!
I needed this today. Thank you so much ❤
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I have deep rooted bitterness toward my husband for something he did 10 years ago!! I can't seem to shake it off. Please pray for me! 🙏I'm in so much pain. I dont want to feel this way.
Thank you for sharing the ways your marriage is struggling. We’re here for you, and we want to connect you with resources that can help. Finds.Life is a great place to start-take a look here: finds.life.church/tag/marriage/
Stevie - Team LC
There’s a lot of grace on this message.. I needed this today 💯🙏
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This sermon did so much good for my soul. Thank you so much!!! 🥹
You’re so welcome my friend.
Just what I needed! Thank you Lord for your servants message ❤
I love it when God's timing is right on time.
So glad this message was needed. ❤️
Laura
Amazing love of Jesus Christ from India!
Such a heartfelt message...
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@20:23 This is SO helpful and practical.
I had recognized a root of bitterness but had no idea what to do about. I thought I was doing sth wrong because I couldn't forgive this offense although apologies were exchanged.
But instead of breaking my head over this I will choose to forgive and bless every time a memory pops up until "THE WOUND BECOMES A FACT AND NO LONGER AN EMOTION".
Sad thing is...we can't stand bitterness!!🤯🤯🤯
Woo, praising God that this came a the right time!
Jas - Team LC
@@melaniemartin4319 Honestly, over the past two months I've come really far with overcoming bitterness- to the point where the memory DOES NOT STING like it used to.
I was able to reconcile with this person in conversation and although we're not active friends, when I think of him I can only pray for what he's going through with a sincere heart of love.
This is totally a doing of God! But I had to allow Him to heal me.
I really needed this, May God continue to keep ans bless you all
Thanks Pst. Chris Beall *4 This Powerful, Blessful, Deep Sermon of "When Bitterness Takes Over" Where I Admit That I'm Bitter With a Girl In My Church Where I Go 2 Where She Broke My Heart By Not Telling Me The Truth She Has a Boyfriend or Is Dating Where I Feel She Didn't Tell Me The Truth Where I'm Trying 2 Move On & Forgive Her But It's Not Easy & I Say Thanks Pst. Chris Beall So Very Much 4 Yu Have Taught Me 2:- 1. Expose My Bitterness & 2. Cancel The Debt Where I Should Look Diligently Lest Any Man Fail The Grace of God; Lest Any Root of Bitterness Springing Up Trouble Yu & Thereby Many Be Defiled Written In Hebrews 12:15 4 I Say That I Will Forgive Her Where I Already Forgave Her But Moving On Is Not Easy As It Seems Where God's Word Says Be Kind, Tenderhearted Forgiving One Another Just As God In Christ Jesus Forgave Us Written In Ephesians 4:32* & God Bless Yu Pst. Chris Beall & Life Church So Very Much.🙏🙏🕊️
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I needed this, im right now a train wreck, but I am trusting God to turn my life around, im living in bitterness , rejection and self loathing, I need healing in every area of my life.
We’re praying for you, and we hope you see more and more how much God loves you and treasures you. If you’re looking for wisdom or resources from people who’ve experienced similar struggles, you can find those here: finds.life.church/tag/identity/
SM - Team LC
Jesus will heal you
Amazing and powerful!! Thank you for this beautiful message! Beautiful words to his wife!
So powerful! It has been a blessing to use this series for our Life Group at Bethel Chandler in Arizona.
Honestly, my biggest bitterness is towards my past. Even now, I cannot get passed it for it’s part of me. I was diagnosed with Autism, but all my life I believe it was a false diagnosis. How people saw me, how they spoke to me, if wasn’t exactly with the level of respect that I wanted, I resented them with burning bitterness and indifference. If you pitied me or felt bad for me in any way, I damned you. I hated feeling pitiful, but because of all this rage over small things I then started getting angry over smallest inconveniences. In a world that is reliant on head strong men who can lead a family, this part of me made me fearful. Fearful of who would catch me on a bad day and experience the full childish tantrum of my wrath. It is truly a pathetic truth, but true nonetheless. Siblings in Christ, I’ve never done this before, but would you be willing to pray that I overcome my pride and stubbornness. It is the root of all my evil and plagues me to no end. I’m scared for my future family and friends, I don’t want others to be miserable.
We’re praying for you as you navigate these feelings of anger. If you’re looking for encouragement or wisdom from people who’ve had similar experiences, you can find those here: finds.life.church/?s=anger&is_v=1
-Kat
"You don't have to have the courage to muster up forgiveness, you can't create it, You're simply passing along what has already been given to you"
I love the way you say this because it's so true. ~ Bre LC
Cancel their debt because God cancelled yours 🙏🏾 beautiful said and humbling
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The wife really blessed me ❤
Beautifully honest and touching. Thank you for sharing!
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What a powerful message
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Amen! Such a awesome sermon🙏🏼
Thank you. I needed and need this message.
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yeah this is awesome! great message Chris!
you broke some shackles today.
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Powerful
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Jenn, Team LC
Great message 👍
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Until the wound becomes a fact not an emotion. I felt that.
Right? Same.
Jas - Team LC
I’ve been Dealing with Bitterness for over a year now and it stems from my Homelife growing up and church hurt. We’re in a new place now and thriving but I still struggle with the memories. I now see that I need to cancel the debt every single day if that’s what it takes.
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Following the Word, it appears that we can't get over the bitterness! Now what?🤯🤯🍩🍩💔💔
When we fully seek the word of God in all of it's fullness the Lord shows up and heals! The Lord can also use other people to heal you. When we worship the Lord heals! There are many ways to get through bitterness, even walking through forgiveness depending upon the situation. Inner healing from Jesus is necessary I would seek it if it's something you just can't get past. The Lord is faithful, give it to Him, he will take it. God Bless you!
Jeremiah 17:14 : Heal me, Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise
Myriam - LC Social Media Team
There's too much bitterness 8n the world and people need to own their own anger and not blame others
Hebrews 12:13
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This message spoke to me!
You need to come to Flippin AR and visit the White River. You WILL catch some trout!
When my dad died, my sister-in-law said horrible things. I have cried, asked God to help me forgive her, but now with the holidays coming, I am dreading seeing her. She is very judgmental and has pushed family away from her, but I want to be kind to them. It’s really hard. I’ve asked and prayed for help, but the feelings are not good. Help!
Broken relationships can be so tough to navigate, but we know God is at workin you preparing you for these holiday gatherings. If you’re looking for encouragement or resources on how you find healing and bring restoration to this situation, we’d suggest you start here: finds.life.church/tag/the-grudge/
Kendra
- Team LC
I finally realized that I can’t do it-God has to do it and I just have to follow Him and His will for this situation.
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AMEN PASTOR CRIAG I NEED PRAY FOR MY FAMILY AND MYSELF I HAVE SO MUCH GOING ON AND I PRAY TO GOD FOR HELP BUT CAN YOU PLEASE PRAY FOR MY FAMILY AND MYSELF I LOVE LISTENING TO YOU YOUR GREAT 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am praying for you right now and for your entire household with confidence that God hears and is moved by his great love to act on your behalf. -Meli, Team LC
Wow! This is good 👍
Very good. I'm from Brazil
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I've never been a bitter person ever, I've always been looking towards Jesus Christ and heaven in the grand scheme of things and I realize that this world we live in is just a temporary thing. I don't expect things to go well or be great in this world because it's obviously a fallen place and has been every since the garden of Eden.....all these problems here is a given, gotta look towards the big picture which is heaven and keep your head out of the world.....
Amen! 🙌
Yes, look towards Heaven, and Eternity!
Keli - Team LC
“Whoever finds God, finds life!”
This is such a kick in the pants. Oof. Though it's one I needed
I struggle with this with my in laws. They’ve crossed multiple boundaries several times that my husband and myself have for our child. And they don’t respect us and are very invasive and intrusive. It’s really bad and we live with each other so my question is how do you handle in laws constantly crossing boundaries that we have with our child and at what point do you distance yourself from that? This is really hard for me. I love them but can’t allow them to continue disrespecting our boundaries
Lord, I lift up @sierrachamb. You know them and see what they are going through. God, I ask that you would be with them. Cover them in your grace and love. I pray that you would give them strength and courage. Lord, let those around them speak truth and light into their life. Continue to be with them during this time. In Your name, amen.
I was, my youngest son's biological father about abandoned him and and myself.
Pete is his name. My son looks just like him. My son is so strong. He figured out what he was. Trevor's paternal grandfather never met him but he and his grandfather called him and myself. He provided for Trevor what I couldn't! This month Pete's girlfriend passed away a year ago yesterday. She had ovarian/uterine cancer.
I feel so bad but didn't have the words. Trevor's grandpa passed away, his Uncle Greg who wanted to get to know him. Trevor's Grandma Accolla passed. He has respiratory failure. He also has an Aunt Debbie who really wanted a relationship with Trevor. I found out she is on Meth. So I couldn't let her have a relationship with him. Most of his dad's side were on drugs. 2 of his cousins are in prison. I know he is not a Christian nor was his girlfriend. This is just unbelievable. I was trying to show him, but he was getting too mean. I pray for him that he doesn't have lung cancer.
Hi Debbie,
Thank you for sharing your heart with us. It is that moment to moment dependence on Him to sustain us. Praying for God to show Himself to Trevor. We also pray for you to find the strength to guide him through this and that the Holy Spirit gives you the words to speak over him that leads to God.
Laura - Team LC
Amen
I choose to live bitter
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As a man being "friendzoned" on more than one occasion all through my late teens and 20s has made me completely bitter because it's nothing more than a sad reminder that I've never been able to succeed in having a successful relationship with a woman - Being single and in your 30s in the church is just depressing, part of the reason I've been watching online sermons at home for years now. The church has also failed to help people meet their future spouse so is it any wonder that more Christians have resorted to online dating apps :/ and then we can't forget men can't even safely ask a woman out anymore all thanks to the feminism / metoo movements
God’s here for you, and so are we. If you’re interested in wisdom or encouragement on how you can grow closer to God and find meaningful relationships while single, this is a great place to start: finds.life.church/tag/single/
I am so bitter towards my husband. I do t know how to stop when the things I resent him for he does everyday. I need help to love him more then I resent him.
Hi Sherri. I am so sorry that you’re going through a rough season in your marriage & would be honored to pray for you. Lord we pray that you would help Sherri & her husband put you at the center of their marriage & find healing & restoration in you. Soften her heart toward her husband Lord. Help her extend to him the same forgiveness, grace & mercy that you show us Lord. Thank you. In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen.
Thank you for sharing the ways your marriage is struggling. We’re here for you, and we want to connect you with resources that can help. Finds.Life is a great place to start-take a look here: finds.life.church/tag/marriage/
God bless you.
Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good
No bitter root
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He is in California is the worst place for his health with all the smog. I just don't know what to do? He also got evicted from his apartment. So he lives in a Winnapago? He only worked when I got him a job. He never paid child support, his dad did until he passed away. I don't know what to do? I will continue to pray for him. Iam not bitter, but, When Trevor was born I was . I talked to my Pastor then. He helped me feel better. But never knew of any father who didn't want to know his son? He was abusive to me. I told him to get out. I found out later that he was doing many drugs . I don't know what else to do for him?
Debbie:
I can see your concern. This seems like a very trying time for you. It is especially important that you keep your faith in God strong. God will find a way if we ask him and trust in him.
Luke 1:37 For with God nothing will be impossible.
Prayer works miracles and even though we might not see results right away, God hears all prayers and will never turn his back on us. When we pray and read the scriptures, God speaks to us. He comes in many ways. Some we may not even expect.
I would love to say a prayer for you.
Dear Lord,
Please come to Debbie's aid. She needs your help. Debbie has a situation that seems insurmountable. But we all know NOTHING is too big for you God. YOU are the God of miracles. Please send Angels of Mercy, Healing and Understanding to her, her son and the father of her son. Please heal their family and help them on the path to righteousness. Guiding their footsteps. I ask this in the name of THE ONE WHO CALMS THE RAGING SEAS- Our Savior Jesus Christ. AMEN
❤️Lisa
I will say the culture of the airport has definitely changed i have had to take alot of deep breaths and forced smiles by the airport staffs unprofessional provoking behaviors
Is there no difference in asking for, and then receiving grace, than giving grace to those who don't ask, don't care? Shouldn't there be a difference?
I don't believe there's any difference, especially when you stop to ponder that God has given us unasked for grace. Before we ever knew we needed him he came to our rescue on the cross.
But your parent does owe you something, they owe you love and support..my mother doesn’t support or show love to me in any part of my life, being so sick calling and asking for her to come help me watch my daughter while I have life saving surgery, she wouldn’t yet was on her way to visit my sister who she has always been there for. I don’t drink , drug and have never left my daughter for even a day, yet she wouldn’t come help me. She took my 2 sisters side during there divorce yet when I went thru mine and called for her to come be with me she responded with , what good would that do? She loved my husband more than me, she hated my sisters husband’s so she was happy to see them divorce. I do hold it against her, how and why should I forgive her and act as if it never happened? I haven’t spoken to her in 5 yrs and I won’t ever unless she apologizes to me for the tremendous hurt she has caused me my whole life. If I forgive her she then hasn’t acknowledged my pain and that isn’t acceptable. I feel it’s bc I’m poor and my sisters are wealthy, I don’t have anything to offer her like they do, she is a materialistic person and I feel this has everything to do with it. I would never turn my back on my child, I would be the first person there for her. How could a parent who is suppose to love all her children equally able to do turn a blind eye?
Hi!
I am sorry your going through that with your Mom, I am praying for you mightily! But holding onto it is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick. Unforgiveness is a heavy tool the enemy uses to keep us bound in bitterness/anger and many other things. Forgiveness is for you and not for them. You have every right to be upset. Sometimes it's a spiritual battle that can only be defeated in the spirit through prayer.
2 Corinthians 10:4-5: "The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ."
Remember you have a Father in Jesus who loves you TREMENDOUSLY, He will never lie to you, turn you away, or hurt you! He loves you to much! Give it to Him, we are to cast our burdens on Him. He wants you to give it to Him!
Psalm 27:10: For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but the Lord will take me in.
He will never forsake you, He loves you to much, you are His daughter. Praying for you, God Bless you!
Myriam - LC Social Media Team
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And what if we know a rapist or a child molestor. I always find my way back to this and I can't take away my hatred from them. They're living there life care free and I'm giving myself bitterness. It's tough
Hi Juju!
God Bless you! I'm sorry if you went through something, the Lord loves you and wants to heal it. We have to remember, the Lord loves all His children. We have to remember it's a spiritual battle.
Living in hatred/unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting them to die. Jesus wants you to live in abundance of peace and love. That's who He is. Start seeking the Lord and ask Him to take this bitterness from you or even speak to someone about it, He is faithful He will take it. God loves you tremendously! God Bless you! Praying for you!
Myriam - LC Social Media Team
So what do we do when we're burnt out and can't go on a lovely vacation up to mountains. So out of touch. Can most people honestly just do that on the drop of a hat?
No, it's true. Not all of us can afford the time or finances to go on a vacation, but what can you do? Praying God shows all of us how to apply this teaching to our lives.
-- Jenni
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I'm bitter toward my husband. He lays in bed all day and watches animae and at night he smokes cigarettes and medical marijuana outside. I take care of the bills, shopping, taking kids to school, errands, I buy everything. He does nothing. When he's mad at me he doesn't talk to me. He's a hothead. I'm bitter. I wish he'd leave but he has it too good. I'm extremely bitter. Please pray for me and my situation. God hates divorce but he is not taking care of his family, I do..
Ms. Janet,
Thank you for sharing the ways your marriage is struggling. We’re here for you, and we want to connect you with resources that can help. Finds.Life is a great place to start-take a look here: finds.life.church/tag/marriage/
God we are lifting you Ms. Janet and her husband to you. Lord open his eyes are heart to the effort Ms. Janet is putting towards the family. Soften his heart to the responsibilities he has to his family and wife. Allow Your Spirit to work in him and Ms. Janet so they can come together and be the couple you want them to be. In Jesus' name Amen. 🙏
Laura- Team LC
How does one heal from a lack of love in life, from all sides?
@Tell the Story Photography - Theresa Skutt - SO glad you are here!! I have stuff to share with you, but I start by saying, I’m sorry for the lack of love in your life. You are important and you have a purpose that only you can fill.
FIRST:
Seeking our Mighty God!
HE is LOVE and HE will love you!
“Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.”
1 John 4:8 NIV
SECOND: Let’s get you connected with others, some of which may have a similar situation, that can love and help you!
Thanks for sharing!!
We’re praying for you, and we hope you see more and more how much God loves you and treasures you. If you’re looking for wisdom or resources from people who’ve experienced similar struggles, you can find those here: finds.life.church/tag/identity/
Finding a community is a great way to dive deeper into your relationship with God and people. You can view our in-person and online LifeGroups here: go2.lc/cojoinalg
Keli - Team LC
“Whoever finds God, finds life!”
Also, Howard Storm had scary predictions about the U.S. but we're also not supposed to fear. It's all too confusing!
How do I cancel the debt of my husband's girlfriend, it's been 2 years since I left, but we're still married. I pray all of the time. I hate feeling this way!
Thank you for sharing. That sounds like a heavy burden for sure. We’d love to invite you to Life.Church Online. We have people available to talk to and pray with at over 90 service times a week. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
Kendra
- Team LC
What is this pastor's name?
Pastor Chris Beall!
Kendra
- Team LC
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What's the name of this pastor?
Hi Jennifer! This is Pastor Chris Beall. He is on staff here at Life.Church.
Sorry i thought i was the first😅
I am sorry pastor, the world is bigger than just the USA, don't mirror the problems in the USA with the rest of the world
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This sermon is perfect for you!
God is the source of my bitterness and angry. He has denied me a husband. You are not going through life alone like me.Blah !!!
Marsha, I know trusting God can be difficult when He doesn't give us the things we think we need. I'm a single person, too. I know how lonely it can be. But human relationships will never completely satisfy the longing we have to be known and accepted and loved. Only God can fill that space.
If you'd like to talk to someone about what you're going through, I'd encourage you to head to Life.Church Online at live.life.church. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can pray for you and chat one-on-one.
- LK, Team LC