There’s a video for you, what to do if you ex isn’t showing strong emotions in front of you. It’s tough, because in front of you they may be showing they’re apathetic but maybe internally the emotions are still strong.
Coach Danny. For about 6 months out of our 4 years together, I pushed her away I shut down on her out of stress. I criticized her. She met someone in an online game, theyve been making plans to move in and get married. She still lives with me. She shuts me down. She lets me play with her hair sometimes. I love her. I am changing for myself to be a better man. For me, then her and my kids. She said last night she doesnt want to lose her family. But 2 hrs later shes online with this guy. I dont know what to do.
we broke up because he was "not ready for a relationship", "we work together, it's strange" and I know because I'm older than him but we "stay friends, don't be silly!", and after 2 months of not talking to me and ignoring 2 friendly texts I sent, he's in a relationship with a coworker much younger than him. They're "just friends" but she's been hitting on him for months and she won. I keep taking steps back. I keep doing no contact, over and over. But now we had a fight and he hates me.
I broke up with my ex bc his parents really hated me and we had our ups and downs and couldn’t deal with it. But he started telling ppl I was a bad girlfriend and that he hated me
Hi coach, I really messed up in my situation. I saw my ex on a date 3 days after we broke up and then I wanted to get revenge so I messaged my ex about how I suspected my ex cheated on me, it’s truly over😭😭
Hi George, First and foremost, we are humans and we all make mistakes. I understand why seeing your Ex on a date right after your breakup would result in you feeling upset, angry, frustrated, etc. It's important to re-evaluate your goals and make conscious decisions moving forward about how to achieve them. I'm happy to support if you need someone to walk you through the process. :) www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/#danny - Coach Danny
It would be great if you guys could create a video on how to recover a partner from a super short term relationship (or not even a relationship). These videos always talk about long, deep relationships. But there must be a way to recover someone who was there for a very short time. There must be. I neglected my 2 month date and It’s been hell.
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity i wrote accountability letter and gave the reason why i did it. And she takes it toxic. But she on the other hand she admitted that I am someone who she has never met and I am at top most position from many she knew or heard of. She unblocked me and spilled all the anger saying, I dont want to stay in touch with you and everything. Leave me Alone. And i sent the letter to her workplace, i made a very creative letter that she cannot resist opening. She scolded me for that saying I will send it back unopened but its been 10 days I have not got that back yet. She definitely read it. Sent the letter after a month. She is very sweet a little timid though. She reciprocated at every level and I did too. I gave her the opportunity to call me fix the date at her convenience because of her highly busy schedule. She called most of the time I did too when I thought I she would be free. But now she has blocked me on all fronts. At first it was only over one contact. Is she testing my patience or emotional stability by provocation? Or is it what it is? Because we intended to marry.
After break up she didn't block anywhere... Couple of time she reached out to my sister about me.... During no contact period... After 30 days of no contact i reached out to her.... but still didn't want to talk to me.....She Reply my texts but sometimes ignore..... Sometimes she feel irritated but she still keep every possible way to reach out... some i feel she want me to meet her and fix everything but when we talk she says harsh thing like she don't love me anymore, leave me alone , love is nothing I'm thinking very practical now etc. I don't know what to do now.. our relationship is 5 Years and long distance relationship
Hey Danny. M from India. I wanna have your one to one calling catch coach but the thing is m unable to to afford that. This particular video is exact what m going through. So kindly if possible plz make a video for further step. I really need it bt i can't afford this much huge amt. I hope u understand
Danny, She locked me up being married 10 years. Now she put order of protect over after 6 months, my son is stressed about it. I am confused, I don't feel any hatred. There was no breakup, just surprised why she won't talk. I feel she has guilt from what she did, 1 after the other although she dug deep I'm willing to help though
Hello Coach. I love my ex so much I once slept at my friend's Hostel who was a boy but nothing happened When he got to know I tried to explain to him but he couldn't trust me anymore so he asked for a space and asked we remain as friends for some time... Of recent he made for me a small business and we still save as we used to do as couples but as friends but I want him as my boyfriend again because I love him so much... I'm really confused on what to do
i found out why he hates me....he thinks i was sending nuds to other guys, acting crazy texting him 2 much and being needy and emotional, asking 2 many people to talk to him and not giving him space, and he said im drinking 2 much and loosing my mind hurasing him. plus he thinks i cant have a baby for him.
What to do if you and your ex made plans. Then she doesn’t tell you that the plans are still happening as in she doesn’t pitch. Also I think it’s because we have a group activity next week as in going out to a night club but do you think I should try rearrange something before then or just not go there
My ex left me 2 years ago for another guy. I have dated 3 women since but I still love my ex? My last contact with her was 10 months ago by email. She told me then she didn’t want any more contact between us. I understand it looks 99 percent looks like there is no way back ever again .??
My ex left me, she left for another girl, then never came back after I tried, she didn't tell em for 6 months that she felt embarrassed to come back, and after that emailed her, texted her, was always nice never mean, until the other day, said Merry Christmas even though she said to never speak to her again or else, got an email from some anonymous person saying they want nothing to do with you, and it sucks, and I'm at the end, no idea at all
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Thank you it sounds like this is a good opportunity for me to do the accountability letter which I have already been working on thankfully a seal that I know what happened that caused it even though I’m not 1000% sure
Hii, Actually i am only make him to break up with me. Because I will cheat him but not i do by my heart. He breaks up with me just 3 days before. I need him until my breathe. What i wants to do??. I beg him more but he not convinced.
Hello my ex so angry at me before she dumped me I'm the one who mad at her sadly to say i have done things that hurt her and 3 times begging after no contact. She always want to justify to others that her new one is only friends but i already know before doing that things can hurt her the truth behind her new one. That before breaking up with me she has already with someone else that's. She always say to me that her new one so called friend is not the reason of why we broke up. She said that were already toxic before she broke up with me. And she keep on manipulating others that she's right and i am the one who's not saying the true. As of now i decided to go in no contact. In that case if there is a chance she will ever regret why she broke up with me? And still comeback to me?
I hurt my ex and didnt even realize it. It took some growing up for me to realize how attached she was to me. My 18 year old brain at the time didnt know how to have a relationship like that. She loved me, and at the time, i didnt know i loved her, it took a nasty break up and real life independent experiences for me to realize what i lost. Im hoping some day i can show her ive changed and i can commit properly. Been about 7 years staying single to show im dedicated to her. Not sure if that was smart cuz she's been with this guy for about 7 years but all he wants to do is scream in a microphone.
Hello coach...I just wanted to ask something. My ex-boyfriend used me to move on with his ex before me. I loved him so much. I fixed his broken heart. I gave him everything. I'm always open-minded for my mistakes and willing to make it right. But he cheated on me multiple times. I love him so much that I forgave him over and over again. But he lost his feelings for me. He left me. He completely broke my heart after I fixed his. After a month, he has a new girlfriend. Do you think he's going to regret what he did to me? I kinda really need an advice. I've been battling with my emotions since after our breakup. Hope u can answer my question.💜
Hi Rachele, First and foremost, thank you so much for your question and for sharing your story. I empathize with you, I know how incredibly difficult this situation can be. When it comes to him regretting his decision, I cannot tell you since I don't know his character or what he is thinking. What I can tell you is this: when we allow our partners to continually make mistakes that not only effect our self-esteem but the integrity of the relationship itself, we are enabling the situation. In no way am I saying this is your fault, HE chose to step outside of the relationship when you were willing to be loyal and fight. However, you de-value yourself within the relationship and eventually, they lose respect. You have to prioritize YOURSELF now. Rebuild. Heal. Let Go. When you regain your sense of self and realize that you have SO MUCH to offer, you will feel the shift. You will regain your power and you will be unstoppable. You got this! I believe in you. - Coach Danny
There’s a video for you, what to do if you ex isn’t showing strong emotions in front of you.
It’s tough, because in front of you they may be showing they’re apathetic but maybe internally the emotions are still strong.
Coach Danny. For about 6 months out of our 4 years together, I pushed her away I shut down on her out of stress. I criticized her. She met someone in an online game, theyve been making plans to move in and get married. She still lives with me. She shuts me down. She lets me play with her hair sometimes. I love her. I am changing for myself to be a better man. For me, then her and my kids. She said last night she doesnt want to lose her family. But 2 hrs later shes online with this guy. I dont know what to do.
Also I told him I wasn’t comfortable with sexual stuff and he didn’t respect my boundaries but I feel like I could have handled it differently
we broke up because he was "not ready for a relationship", "we work together, it's strange" and I know because I'm older than him but we "stay friends, don't be silly!", and after 2 months of not talking to me and ignoring 2 friendly texts I sent, he's in a relationship with a coworker much younger than him. They're "just friends" but she's been hitting on him for months and she won. I keep taking steps back. I keep doing no contact, over and over. But now we had a fight and he hates me.
I broke up with my ex bc his parents really hated me and we had our ups and downs and couldn’t deal with it. But he started telling ppl I was a bad girlfriend and that he hated me
Hi coach, I really messed up in my situation. I saw my ex on a date 3 days after we broke up and then I wanted to get revenge so I messaged my ex about how I suspected my ex cheated on me, it’s truly over😭😭
Hi George,
First and foremost, we are humans and we all make mistakes. I understand why seeing your Ex on a date right after your breakup would result in you feeling upset, angry, frustrated, etc. It's important to re-evaluate your goals and make conscious decisions moving forward about how to achieve them. I'm happy to support if you need someone to walk you through the process. :)
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/#danny
- Coach Danny
It would be great if you guys could create a video on how to recover a partner from a super short term relationship (or not even a relationship). These videos always talk about long, deep relationships. But there must be a way to recover someone who was there for a very short time. There must be. I neglected my 2 month date and It’s been hell.
Hi Lu, thank you so much for the suggestion! - Coach Danny
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity i wrote accountability letter and gave the reason why i did it. And she takes it toxic. But she on the other hand she admitted that I am someone who she has never met and I am at top most position from many she knew or heard of. She unblocked me and spilled all the anger saying, I dont want to stay in touch with you and everything. Leave me Alone. And i sent the letter to her workplace, i made a very creative letter that she cannot resist opening. She scolded me for that saying I will send it back unopened but its been 10 days I have not got that back yet. She definitely read it. Sent the letter after a month. She is very sweet a little timid though. She reciprocated at every level and I did too. I gave her the opportunity to call me fix the date at her convenience because of her highly busy schedule. She called most of the time I did too when I thought I she would be free. But now she has blocked me on all fronts. At first it was only over one contact. Is she testing my patience or emotional stability by provocation? Or is it what it is? Because we intended to marry.
After break up she didn't block anywhere...
Couple of time she reached out to my sister about me.... During no contact period... After 30 days of no contact i reached out to her.... but still didn't want to talk to me.....She Reply my texts but sometimes ignore..... Sometimes she feel irritated but she still keep every possible way to reach out... some i feel she want me to meet her and fix everything but when we talk she says harsh thing like she don't love me anymore, leave me alone , love is nothing I'm thinking very practical now etc.
I don't know what to do now.. our relationship is 5 Years and long distance relationship
Try no contact twice doesn't work still not contact me over 3 years now miss him deal with a narcissist
Hey Danny. M from India. I wanna have your one to one calling catch coach but the thing is m unable to to afford that. This particular video is exact what m going through. So kindly if possible plz make a video for further step. I really need it bt i can't afford this much huge amt.
I hope u understand
Danny, She locked me up being married 10 years. Now she put order of protect over after 6 months, my son is stressed about it. I am confused, I don't feel any hatred. There was no breakup, just surprised why she won't talk. I feel she has guilt from what she did, 1 after the other although she dug deep I'm willing to help though
Hello Coach.
I love my ex so much
I once slept at my friend's Hostel who was a boy but nothing happened
When he got to know I tried to explain to him but he couldn't trust me anymore so he asked for a space and asked we remain as friends for some time...
Of recent he made for me a small business and we still save as we used to do as couples but as friends but I want him as my boyfriend again because I love him so much...
I'm really confused on what to do
i found out why he hates me....he thinks i was sending nuds to other guys, acting crazy texting him 2 much and being needy and emotional, asking 2 many people to talk to him and not giving him space, and he said im drinking 2 much and loosing my mind hurasing him. plus he thinks i cant have a baby for him.
What to do if you and your ex made plans. Then she doesn’t tell you that the plans are still happening as in she doesn’t pitch. Also I think it’s because we have a group activity next week as in going out to a night club but do you think I should try rearrange something before then or just not go there
My ex left me 2 years ago for another guy. I have dated 3 women since but I still love my ex?
My last contact with her was 10 months ago by email. She told me then she didn’t want any more contact between us. I understand it looks 99 percent looks like there is no way back ever again .??
My ex left me, she left for another girl, then never came back after I tried, she didn't tell em for 6 months that she felt embarrassed to come back, and after that emailed her, texted her, was always nice never mean, until the other day, said Merry Christmas even though she said to never speak to her again or else, got an email from some anonymous person saying they want nothing to do with you, and it sucks, and I'm at the end, no idea at all
We're so sorry to hear about this!
If they blocked you is it a sign of hate Or indifference?
Hi! I've come to find that blocking is usually a result of an emotional response which is the opposite of indifference. - Coach Danny
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Thank you it sounds like this is a good opportunity for me to do the accountability letter which I have already been working on thankfully a seal that I know what happened that caused it even though I’m not 1000% sure
Hii,
Actually i am only make him to break up with me. Because I will cheat him but not i do by my heart.
He breaks up with me just 3 days before. I need him until my breathe.
What i wants to do??. I beg him more but he not convinced.
Hello my ex so angry at me before she dumped me I'm the one who mad at her sadly to say i have done things that hurt her and 3 times begging after no contact. She always want to justify to others that her new one is only friends but i already know before doing that things can hurt her the truth behind her new one. That before breaking up with me she has already with someone else that's. She always say to me that her new one so called friend is not the reason of why we broke up. She said that were already toxic before she broke up with me. And she keep on manipulating others that she's right and i am the one who's not saying the true. As of now i decided to go in no contact. In that case if there is a chance she will ever regret why she broke up with me? And still comeback to me?
Good advice but I don't have an Ex.
Can I have a private session
wow 💕 thanks
Thank you
I hurt my ex and didnt even realize it. It took some growing up for me to realize how attached she was to me. My 18 year old brain at the time didnt know how to have a relationship like that. She loved me, and at the time, i didnt know i loved her, it took a nasty break up and real life independent experiences for me to realize what i lost. Im hoping some day i can show her ive changed and i can commit properly. Been about 7 years staying single to show im dedicated to her. Not sure if that was smart cuz she's been with this guy for about 7 years but all he wants to do is scream in a microphone.
7 years damn bro am hurt for you as well for myself am going through the same
I think I may need your help …..
Hi Dean,
I would be happy to help you. I would recommend booking a 1:1 coaching session using the following link: www.withmyexagain.com
- Coach Danny
Hello coach...I just wanted to ask something. My ex-boyfriend used me to move on with his ex before me. I loved him so much. I fixed his broken heart. I gave him everything. I'm always open-minded for my mistakes and willing to make it right. But he cheated on me multiple times. I love him so much that I forgave him over and over again. But he lost his feelings for me. He left me. He completely broke my heart after I fixed his. After a month, he has a new girlfriend. Do you think he's going to regret what he did to me? I kinda really need an advice. I've been battling with my emotions since after our breakup. Hope u can answer my question.💜
Most probably when he sees you move on to someone else he'll get jealous and might want you back. (In my opinion)
Hi Rachele,
First and foremost, thank you so much for your question and for sharing your story. I empathize with you, I know how incredibly difficult this situation can be. When it comes to him regretting his decision, I cannot tell you since I don't know his character or what he is thinking. What I can tell you is this: when we allow our partners to continually make mistakes that not only effect our self-esteem but the integrity of the relationship itself, we are enabling the situation. In no way am I saying this is your fault, HE chose to step outside of the relationship when you were willing to be loyal and fight. However, you de-value yourself within the relationship and eventually, they lose respect. You have to prioritize YOURSELF now. Rebuild. Heal. Let Go. When you regain your sense of self and realize that you have SO MUCH to offer, you will feel the shift. You will regain your power and you will be unstoppable. You got this! I believe in you.
- Coach Danny
Thank you so much coach. I really appreciate your advice❤️
You’re great
Thank you so much for the kind words! - Coach Danny
Bro I need ur help plss help me iam in the break up struggle plsss help me
Hi Sathya,
I would be happy to support you. I would recommend booking a 1:1 coaching session on our website. www.withmyexagain.com
- Coach Danny
yes me 😭😭😭