After seeing this video (and how you answer constructive comments), it became crystal clear as to how you’ve gotten into this situation and how your life will continue to play out. If you managed to stay married for 10 years before your divorce, collecting on your ex’s social security may keep you & your dog fed in 20 years.
@@boatsie you guys come in the comments and you know absolutely nothing about me and nothing about my story. I bet you didn’t know that my ex texted me that he didn’t love me never did and wanted a divorce and then spent the next 14 years of my life abusing me and controlling me post our divorce. I had spent thousands of dollars on lawyers over the last 14 years. Just because I’m not sharing everything on this app doesn’t mean that there’s not additional context that you don’t have.
@@TheRachelShow…sorry you went through that…but hopefully you can finally separate yourself from identifying as a victim and consider what you can do with your time to pull yourself out of your financial mess. (Thinking getting a boob job …on your credit card maybe (?) …was the key to happiness proves you may need to reassess your thinking). I assume you had a class or two in finance to get an accounting degree…so, yes, you either have to increase income and/or cut your expenses…and get used to feeling the discomfort of that process….Or…keep doing the same thing, spending & justifying your spending, and end up $120,000 in debt next year.
@@boatsie i’ve done a lot of work to heal and to grow since then, but it’s really hard when people know 0.05% of your life and they come into the comment section with their “constructive criticism” but it actually ends up just being rude comments that they think or constructive.
@@TheRachelShowa second job for shorter shifts on the weekend would be perfect, especially if you found one somewhere that might get you money-saving benefits such as discounted food.
Car Wash membership?!?!?
You're going to work until you're 85 unless you stop buying stuff you don't absolutely need.
@@mike635machine guess I’ll be a granny worker 😂😂
I couldn’t agree more!
After seeing this video (and how you answer constructive comments), it became crystal clear as to how you’ve gotten into this situation and how your life will continue to play out. If you managed to stay married for 10 years before your divorce, collecting on your ex’s social security may keep you & your dog fed in 20 years.
😂😂😂 it’s astounding how grown people will come into the comments and say the most heinous stupidest crap. Like I am so sorry that you were not loved.
@@TheRachelShow….I rest my case 😎
@@boatsie you guys come in the comments and you know absolutely nothing about me and nothing about my story. I bet you didn’t know that my ex texted me that he didn’t love me never did and wanted a divorce and then spent the next 14 years of my life abusing me and controlling me post our divorce. I had spent thousands of dollars on lawyers over the last 14 years. Just because I’m not sharing everything on this app doesn’t mean that there’s not additional context that you don’t have.
@@TheRachelShow…sorry you went through that…but hopefully you can finally separate yourself from identifying as a victim and consider what you can do with your time to pull yourself out of your financial mess. (Thinking getting a boob job …on your credit card maybe (?) …was the key to happiness proves you may need to reassess your thinking).
I assume you had a class or two in finance to get an accounting degree…so, yes, you either have to increase income and/or cut your expenses…and get used to feeling the discomfort of that process….Or…keep doing the same thing, spending & justifying your spending, and end up $120,000 in debt next year.
@@boatsie i’ve done a lot of work to heal and to grow since then, but it’s really hard when people know 0.05% of your life and they come into the comment section with their “constructive criticism” but it actually ends up just being rude comments that they think or constructive.
I feel this, if you can get a second job even it’s part time cause it will go a long way.
@@eternalhonesty I’m not really interested in a second job. I also have a dog so that wouldn’t really work since I’m gone 8-9 hrs a day already
@@TheRachelShowa second job for shorter shifts on the weekend would be perfect, especially if you found one somewhere that might get you money-saving benefits such as discounted food.
Love Aldi 👌🏾
@@eternalhonesty yeah I don’t mind getting some stuff there. Maybe it’s that particular Aldi. I’m gonna try a different one next time
You need a 2nd job..yesterday
@@melissahoneybee1417 you might be on to something
Love your videos! It does suck seeing all the success stories online but so much if social media is fake. You da realest.
@@maddiehags7104 thank you so much!!
Don't give up! You're doing great. Aldi is good!
@@emadri3875 thank you