ABBA - I Still Have Faith In You REACTION (IM SHOOK!!!)
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This is Abba declaring that they have faith in each other, despite the decades and the breakups. The love and friendship persists.
I think it’s also ABBA saying they have faith in The World and all it’s people, after the pandemic has ravaged us all…
And that after all these years and being older they still believe in each other, that they are capable and the same people even if the world and so much have chanced, there is still a place for Abba. I do think too that the pandemic played va part in this reunion, we all had some time to think about our lives, forgive old things and try things you maybe had not time for before.
A perfect song to describe the group relationship. It gives me such joy to know they ended up on good, loving terms. They were emotionally strained and broken and now time has healed the wounds and they have only the good left. So wonderful.
ABBA put their heart and soul into their music the good times and the bad times they sang with feelings 💕💕💕💕💕
it seems that's their final album abba your voice is legendary
Just wanted you to know that a radio station out of Scotland has a three hour show every Saturday. Us die hard fans have a chat while listening to the wonderful music of ABBA❤️❤️
Details please!
There all in their 70's now. It is definitely something I didn't think I would see again.
James, your reaction and commentary hit home with me. Just when I was willing to give up on your generation you made me realize how there are those worth believing in. I was a teen when ABBA took the world by storm. Your right, their music transcends generations, cultures and politics. It was the last album my father bought and he was born in 1931. Their reunification and these two songs have me balling after all these years and I am a type A male that looks like a biker. Keep your faith in the “right” people. I think you’ll do great things.
Finally. You belong with Abba.
You got chills, I got tears, brother.
Now 70 and absolutely right, they were ABBA fans afraid to come out of the closet and there were lots and lots of closet. Pay for view should broadcast their up coming concert from London. I see big bucks.
I gotta say, that even at 75, Frida (or, more properly, Princess Anni-Frid, Dowager Countess of Plauen) still sounds so good.
Fantastic song took me right back to 1979
Their *_faith_* is a seed sprung from true friendship, which also resulted in this unique music (and vice versa)
Love your reaction, JBLETHAL TV
I from sweden and love ABBA
When you're 70+ years old, having faith in people you've known for half a century is a lot less risky than a leap of faith about a new lover or friend at 25 ... One of the few good things about getting old!
Still in shock,still crying,flawless as per usual.nice to see others appreciate their talent as much as me.enjoyed your reaction
I hear your thoughts about having faith in somenone and being let down as you say. I'm really sorry if you met the wrong person to have faith in. But I hope you still have an open mind to find others to rely on and to make you believe to have faith in others. I really do hope so. Thanks for sharing your feeling and thoughts. Wish you all the luck in the world. /Bengt in Stockholm, Sweden.
They still have the magic ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
The Gods Of Pop ♥
you ask would it be you back in the day, my friend it would certainly be you.
I know exactly what your talking about, I was embarrassed and humiliated by the same person twice recently, the first time hurt like hell, the second time not so much cause I expected it. But at the end of the day, better to know now the kind of person they truly are, than further down the road. Something better is waiting for you in the future, you'll know when you find that special person, and you'll learn to trust again with someone who deserves you, encourages you, and proud of having you on their arm. You seem like a great person, so it's their loss, and what a big loss it is. Loving and trusting someone is hard to do with emotional scars from your past, but even the most damaged hearts can love and trust again. 🌺
I first heard the lyrics as "in the memory spacecraft" not "memories we share" for some reason, but it works with the Voyage and travelling back in time theme.
James! I have never heard this! I’m so surprised - wonderful xxx
Dear Claire, ABBA decided to Reunion (after 38 years) , and this is one of two NEW songs, there is a complete new Album we will see soon.
@@daniel.r.olivar4118 - thanks for that
@@clairewhitby2303 these two songs/videos were only released on Friday so many haven’t heard of them yet.
music is truly a unifier
That's so nice to see such a tough big guy being so sincere and emotional sharing own pain with us. Thank you man for this emotional reaction, it's true :-)
Look within, James. The best part of your music picks is seeing your reaction and your thoughts as you listen. I am so glad you are back!
I feel you. Really looking forward to your reactions after the album comes out on Friday.
Great review, loved your reaction !!! one of my top favs now. Yes, as a teen in the '70's here in America it wasn't cool to profess your love for ABBA, so as time and maturity has proven there were many many many closet fans. Not me, I had an ABBA concert t-shirt, ABBA posters on my bedroom wall and of course all their albums. My teenage girlfriend hated them, turned out she was jealous of my adoration of Frida, Agnetha...lol !
....shout out from Arkansas, USA
I absolutely adore your reactions. You're such a sweetheart ❤️.
I feel what you're saying. I too was let down a couple of times and they left me with a deep mistrust for people over that. But I've come to believe that faith and others don't always go wrong. Here are four people who have a history of 60 years. They've had incredible highs and lows but even now, in their mid-70s the love is pretty obvious. I live in Seattle, USA, and was able to get tickets in early June for the CGI show in London. My faith is that the world will be rid of COVID and I'll be able to travel to London again. My distrust of people was so paralyzing that I'm now willing to be let down occasionally in order to live a happy life. I hope everyone that's been hurt can find the peace I have.
Not the "marry me" xD
HI JBLETHAL, PUTTING YOUR FAITH IN SOMEONE THAT WAS NOT ORDAINED BY GOD FOR YOU WILL BRING YTOUBLE AND DISTRUST.
THE MESSAGE HERE IS ABOUT THIER FAITH IN THEMSELVES INDIVIDUALLY AND TOGETHER TO "COMEBACK" AFTER 40 YEARS.
BUT THE MESSAGE CAN BE APPLIED TO RELATIONSHIPS AS WELL, ........AND ALSO THE GOD-MAN RELATIONSHIP
November 5th will be a huge day for all ABBA fans. That's when Voyage, their new album, is released.
@darkiee69 2 tracks from the new album are "unfinished" demos from around the time ABBA disbanded in 1982. They are "Bumble Bee" and "Just A Notion", and there will be a "Christmas song", which is probably the one titled "Little Things". And I think that Björn sings lead in "Bumble Bee".
I want to be first in line even if its virtual.
Being of Swedish heritage (parents both born in Sweden), it’s that accent that has always made ABBA just SO special to me! And hearing it now with their older voices, it’s even more so! 🥰🇸🇪
I'm a swede, would be cool to know where in Sweden your parents are from
@@fjn667 Blekinge and Södermanland as I don’t want to give exact towns here in public forum.
@@JohnHallgren awesome, my father is from Blekinge
@@fjn667 I will say that town of Sölvesborg (sp?) was close to the small town for father’s side.
@@JohnHallgren Cool, my father is from Karlskrona
I was one of those guys who listened to them behind closed doors after school. They did and still make me so happy!
Then, when you least expect it, they reach in and touch your heart like they have with this song. I started watching you because you were reacting to ABBA the way I did all those years ago. And now, I appreciate you so much James. Your honesty about life and how to live it gives me such hope for all us. You are such a good role model for your generation.
Lovely words, Rob, and so true. James -- you rock.
Another reason we need to get through Covid because I’d really love to jet over to London next summer to see their show🤗
You have a kind heart. Don't give up on yourself or others. Life is a fight, we are not here long so make it count no matter how much it hurts.
I have been in tears ever since I heard ABBA's "I Still Have Faith In you".
My heart goes out to all the Abba fans that passed away in the last 40 years. Hopefully these songs will reach you.
The second new ABBA Song after 40 Years "Dont't shut me down" is even great !
I guess they will rerelese some of the undeleted songs on youtube as new - like bumblebee, burning my bridges ,just a notion or the songs they wrote for Gemini
Hi Aquila......totally agree......Don't Shut Me Down will be a #1 hit I predict! Good on ABBA.......great memories and so happy they are back!
In almost 45 years I've never been in a off mood that an ABBA song couldn't pull me out of. Keep the faith man!!!
"I couldn't wrap my head around it the first time because it was so beautiful.." 😁👍 Seriously, if the only ABBA songs you've heard are the dance songs, you've missed a lot. Enjoy the journey of discovering all their other works! 😁 Nobody does bittersweet better than they can. 😢 Now you understand why all we old folks have spent the weekend grinning and singing and crying
ABBA'S BACK STRONGER THAN EVER. THE WORLD WAS IN DIRE NEED FOR NEW GREAT MUSIC. AND HERE IT IS. A NEW ABBA ALBUM OUT ON NOVEMBER 5, 2021, RESPECT TO ABBA 😘😘😘😘
James - I believe that the words "I Still Have Faith in You" are ABBA members telling each other that we can do this. In spite of whatever hard feelings there were at the breakup, time has passed and the love they had at one time has returned and they are ready again to function as a group.
I have been putting a little twist on this sentiment and in my mind I imagine that Frieda is really singing this to ME. It is wonderful hearing these words of confirmation directed at "me". Words of confirmation, yes, we all need that. Thank You ABBA, from all of us.
The world really needed ABBA these angelic voices gracing the airwaves I've been listening to all their songs with new ears wow 💗💗💗💗
@@leehachris1710 ABBA always 💗 loved 💗 their fans :) This song is about them and their fans too. And we all feel that - therefore we cry (I believe)
What a beautiful and honest man you are. ABBA really brings out the emotion in us. It is a gift. ❤️
A magnificent piece of music and a message we all need now in these dark times, 'I Still Have Faith In You' is more relevant now than it has ever been. Remarkable that after 40 years ABBA can pull off a song like this, this might just be their greatest creation ever, an absolute miracle if you ask me.
Great reaction man!! Also a guy here who loved ABBA his whole life.
They are like our musical parents. Whispering in our ears, "I still have faith in you" 🥲
It's so lovely to hear them after all these years...beautiful 💜
At first I felt like this was a ballad, but after countless plays it feels like it’s a triumphant anthem of their return and it is perfect for that. The fact that they are still good friends and doing this because they are having fun is just icing on the cake. It marks almost 60 years since they first recorded together and they said it felt like no time had passed. That’s heart-warming to say the least and a lesson for us to learn.
I have always loved Abba, but after hearing Frida's voice for the first time in forty years, I really love Abba. And I really love Frida.
Hi,James thanks for the presentation and emotion displayed. I have basically listened to these 2 songs since it's release last week. Great,great artists. Love from South Africa 🇿🇦❤.
Give us more,,
You and me both... loved these since 1976, didn't care who knew even though at the time it was considered unfashionable.. I used to go in a bar, in my early 20's and put Mamma Mia on the Duke box just to watch the reaction of people around me.. and they'd be tapping their feet or hands, but would never admit to liking them
There is MORE to come.
Sending my love to you from Melbourne Australia. I waved to Abba at the Melbourne Town Hall, when I was 13. I am 58 now and teary with gratitude that they are still with us. I love Abba. Thank you for loving them too.
As a UK 68 year old heterosexual man (not that it matters much now). I love you man , you're such a pure sensitive soul. God bless and may you thrive in our short time
The first record I ever bought was, 'Dancing Queen', I was 10 years old. To say I am excited at the new music is an understatement. Frida is 75 yrs old and her vocal on this song is stunning. This is classic ABBA. Thank you for your lovely reaction.
there's nothing fake about them
You need to react to the other track they released this week, 'Don't Shut Me Down'. Agnetha is on great form in a more upbeat song.
Until now two new ABBA songs have been known, both different in their themes and leading voices And both have the ABBA trademark on their solvency in musical composition and production
We know the great spirit of perfection that Björn and Benny impress on their creations, and both new creatures live up to their great successes of the 80s.
So the biggest mystery was to know the state of the voices of Agnetha and Frida and how they could react to the inevitable passing of the decades and their possible comparisons with previous classics.
And I must also say that they both look very good
And in that "look" there is an extraordinary job of caring for Björn and Benny to "take care" of their historical singers, partners and former partners. They gave them two wonderful songs, with beautiful melodies and deep lyrics, but they were also surrounded by the iconic hooks and the appeal to emotional nostalgia
"I still have faith in You" is an unpublished song in its conception in the history of ABBA
because it is self-referential about them as a group,
and it is also testimonial, because they tell us about their experiences in all this time
Musically it is a ballad with mystical and epic
A stately and majestic piano, and Frida's soft voice conducts and recreates ABBA's story with poignant beauty,
with Agnetha joining in some verses to emphasize
The sound of the drums arrives (a nod to the mega hit "Fernando") as if preparing the change of rhythm
And with a powerful guitar comes that first unpublished chorus, because this time all ABBA sings from the bowels of its history and with the strength of its testimony of life, of healing and togetherness.
And in the second chorus, even stronger, it becomes very clear that ABBA sings with the passion and courage that Björn's excellent lyrics stand out, it is like a triumphant song of their survival and their bond.
And it ends with a solo by Frida, flawless, with the flutes at the end
Also isn't a commercial song (more than 5 minutes) it's so emotional, with a fantastic vídeo of all greatest memories of pictures, official videos of 70s songs and Australia tour
ABBA really comes back at high level
The world needs ABBA sound
I was so thrilled to see your eyes shine as you watched this. ABBA have given me courage for 46 years. Don't give up! I sat in the front row of one of their Australian concerts in 1977 as an awestruck 13-year-old. So glad that you can now count yourself as part of the ABBA generation :-)
was fortunate to see ABBA live in Melbourne Australia Sidney Myer Music Bowl March 1977 ♥️♥️♥️♥️ABBA
Love seeing you do reactions, man. You´re the best. Love your honest attitude.
This music serves 'Mankind' far better than Humanity will ever innerstand . It ushers in a crowning moment and my corona has 'A'll 'B'een 'B'rightly 'A'dorned
Been an Abba fan from day one in 1972, and after years of them saying they would not get back together this is a dream come true. There's been rumors ever since the work with these Abbatars began, and the news of them recording two new songs in 2017, there was 5 songs, a whole new album. Now last week we finally got the news it was a whole new Abba album being released in November, that was such happy news that just made my day. And finally get to hear the two new songs we've known about for so long, I'm lost for words. Their music has always been rooted in my heart and soul, even after hearing their songs so many times I still get emotional. And these two new ones just grabs me, I get teary eyed every time I hear them. Real good music just makes me so emotional, and Abba's music is one of a kind. No one comes close and to finally hear real music, no autotune and real strings, that's heavenly. Abba's music brings people together, doesn't matter what age or where you live on this earth, they speak to all of us. Can't wait for the album in November, as I sat listening to the Arrival album in 1976, when I was 12 years old, teary eyed, I will surely be sitting listening to the new album just as teary eyed. Wonderful reaction of yours, welcome to the Abba family!
James brother!! Where’d you go? Hit me up!! 💯✊
I got you brother 💯
💯👊
You wait until you hear DON'T SHUT ME DOWN and see the words. It's magical :)
Pre-orders for ABBA‘s new album ‘Voyage’ have broken records in the UK after over 80,000 copies were purchased in just three days.
My girlfriend of 15 years was Swedish and from the Northern part of Sweden ! Both her parents passed away and she had to take care of the family business and house ! I cannot go for I had a business here in the states ! I Really miss her and she is beautiful ! { Like Ms.Agnetha FaltskogI } I wish you could go visit Sweden ! You would Love it there. You are young I am old and you have your life So Do It ! "LONG LIVE ABBA" Oh Yes! her name is Laila !
My wife and I watch your videos often. She is almost 60 and I am 61 We would have been very proud to have a son like you. You leave no doubt as to who you are. Thank You.
I love how you love Abba. My favourite band since 1976. I'm so glad they are releasing a whole album in November. My biggest dream come true. I was devastated as a child when they broke up. Listen to Don't shut me down as well. Abba is timeless because they don't try to fit anybody's mold. They are and always be original.
Love this song. I marks the begining and the end of everything they have been trough as a band and iduviduals. One thing is for sure. They still got IT after all these years.
Frida she is 76 and And Agnetha is 71 they are still so good
Please do Don't shut me down
I’m so happy that you love ABBA. I love them too! Their music has given me energy through so many important and difficult times of my life.
Not many black folks love ABBA music, you are a special one. Thanks you for accepting and listening their music.
Och I know how you feel, I adore ABBA xx You have faith in YOU man.... btw I think you are cool - love from Glasgow, Scotland! Love your reactions. I was 10 when ABBA split and I turned 50 last month xx
They were almost as big as The Beatles. They were swarmed by fans in the 70s as if they were The Beatles! Their sound was so authentic, so joyful, and they wrote it all and produced it! Then there are those gorgeous voices! It's hard to convey the monumental effect they had on the music industry and their fans. They had 28 hits and 9 #1s and sold half-a-billion albums! And almost all of their music stands up today. No auto-tune, no attitude, just pure talent, and love! How are they in their 70s?! We're next! What is our legacy!?
JBLETHAL TV, I could see the hurt in your eyes. Please remember, you can still have faith in some of us, we will not let you down. 💗💗
I just subscribed bc of the emotion you share for ABBA. Let them be the change the world desperate craves today!
Dude! They also released another song where Agnetha leads. I'm curious to why you have not uploaded a reaction to that one!?
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thank you Abba fan. lovely reaction,! And that's how it should be ,listening to these soulstirring harmonies and lyrics, yes Abba fits into every era! I believe that it is the spirit in us that is given the nourishment of love, -,that mystery which moves us into the heavens, and which is eternal. It is love that holds the whole universe together. What else can move the heart? And what else does a darksome world need. Abba have come back just at the right time.
Anthem guitar! They know how to hit you in the feels, and we love them for it.
And who else would come up with the soloist stabbing through the joyous chorus at the end to bring everything to such a tender close?
BEAUTIFUL SONG!🐾❤🐾🇺🇸☘☘
Es ist und war auch für mich sehr Emotional die neuen Songs zu hören.Erinnerungen,Wehmut und Freude.ABBA ist zurück.Gruss aus Germany.
ABBA is the reason I love Home Free so much! It's been a long time since your reacted to them, btw! The right harmonies, the intricate and complex arrangements, the magic that is created when they are all together.
This is emotional and it's healing!
Thank you for the reaction! 🥰🙏
Also, on a personal note since you brought it up, don't give your power seat to other people. The faith you are looking for can't be found in others, it comes from you having faith in you, and you having faith in your higher power. Nobody else will ever be able to give you what you want all the time, it's an impossible situation to be that person. First we have to fill ourselves up with what we want, and then the magic can happen with other people. Just a little FYI from a life coach working with the mind, body and soul/spirit/heart connection and the holistic Well-being from the inside and out. I see people go from struggling to thriving through my work so I know for a fact that this is how it works
"Life coach". Excuse me. But the very existence of such a phrase is testimony to not knowing the first thing about life. It's to laugh one's effing ass off at!
@@beorlingo No, it shows that there are people out there who have found ways to thrive in their personal lives that they wish to share with others who are still struggling with living the life they want to live and with being the person they wish to be. All which involve loving and appreciating unconditionally while spreading a light in the world. If you see that as something negative, lesser worthy or valuable than whatever you do is, it's fully your choice and right. Personally I see that everyone is equally worthy and valuable. The understanding of life is a lifelong journey as we are evolving beings that are constantly in transformation; mentally, emotionally, physically, energetically and spiritually. We all need guidance from time to time, whether we admit it or not. There's a reason why it is the quickest growing profession, and to many vocation, and it's not because anyone is tricked into it. Every single person that seeks out a life coach, whichever direction and orientation because there are as many as there are in life, does so because they want to improve themselves and their lives. How can any of this possibly be seen as something you wish to look down upon? You must very clearly have no idea of how many people in the world there are that are no longer coping and surviving in life but thriving thanks to people like me who dedicate their whole lives to improving other people's Well-being so they can be lights in their own worlds.
Are you a light in your world? I know without a doubt that I am in mine, and in the life of those around me too., And I know that the people that I coach are walking tall, happy, thriving in themselves and in their lives, spreading their light to those around them who in turn find the light in themselves and start spreading it to the people around them. And like rings on the water... ❤️🙏
@@carinalindberg7377 blah,blah,blah. Empty words all the way. But in your first comment your true colours show. Simply the fact that you come out teaching James on faith without even having a trace of an idea about what his story is basically says it all. Tbh, your mindset revealed you come off as someone who will never actually meet anyone but yourself.
You need to get a job and start supporting yourself and stop preying on confused people who can't think for themselves.
The shallowness of your self appreciated wisdom is pure comedy!
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@@beorlingo It's all good. We are all where we are in our understanding and we can only see what we are conditioned to and allow ourselves to see. There's nothing shallow in any of my words, and my original comment was about me and nobody else. I am completely self-supporting, btw, and very satisfied and happy in all aspects of my life. So there is absolutely nothing you can say that will ever affect me in any way. Inner peace, unconditional love, appreciation and a genuine love for myself, my life and all else overrides anything you could ever imagine and more. 🥰🙏
@@carinalindberg7377 haha, I knew you'd unchallenged say "love for myself", hence voluntarily going where I steered you. You are blissfully oblivious to the fact that you have no comebacks. Brutally disguised with but a few simple facts. Everything you might say will only further bear witness of someone desperately clinging to the egobubble where you reside. You need to realize that your approaching James is the perfect equivalent to those harassing people on the town square, masquerading as salesmen, peddling for bucks to them what no one needs. To realize this in order to get a life. I'm positive you'll opt for denial to keep wallowing in narcissism.
You are dismissed.
The technology behind the making of the avatars in the ending segment is amazing. They look so real and lifelike. I bet the show in London will be amazing to experience.
Ahem...that's ABBATARS, Barbara! :-)
Ha ha!
An anthem to the memories of better times & those who helped to make them so. May I never lose them.
This is my favourite reaction video to the new ABBA songs. I love that you reflect on the lyrics too and what you feel while listening.
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It’s amazing how their music can bring such happiness and elation..and for people in their 70s, it’s like being recharged..thank you for the music, there was a hole in our soul ❤️
Omg dude. I wanna give u the biggest hug you have ever had. Have faith in me. I’m your bro now till death. Love you for your words. Amazing x
Beautiful song. Abba are simply phenomenal. Your reaction was beautiful and you project such an innerl beauty. So sorry to hear you've been let down. Rise up again sir 😊
I am a proud Swede!!❤
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ABBA is something special they have fans from ALL ages,,,, and you are so brave to say that,, but some people can´t show their feelings (BUT THEY LISTEN) lots of love to you,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,LOVE FROM SWEDEN❤❤❤
It’s humbling to see that even one of the most successful bands in history are asking if they still have it in them to return after so long. The song works on many levels, as a love song, a message to themselves as a band and to the fans who have loved them for so long.
It’s also a treat for the fans is that not only have they recorded new music, the show they will be doing in London had them act out the songs as if they were on stage in motion capture for 5 weeks and live music will be played in real time so it is as real as it can be.
This is such a beautiful and clever comeback song, and I love your reaction to it.
I love ABBA 💖, I LOVE FRIDA 💕💗💞and I love you JB♥️
Stay Strong, Stay Safe🤗
🇬🇧💖😷
Please ... In Memory of September 11, 2001 (9/11) 20 years ago, it would be great if you could react to Mark Knopfler 's (Lead Guitarist and Vocals of Dire Straits) with Emmylou Harris "If this is Goodbye".
Knopfler wrote this after he heard that people in the Twin Towers were phoning their wives and husbands while stuck up on the buildings before they came tumbling down.
It's an incredible song with incredible emotions heard in Knopfler's and Harris' voices, with great lyrics and great instrumentals. It doesn't speak about 9/11, and if you didn't know the story behind it, you wouldn't know it was about 9/11.
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Thnx man. Seen many reactions. Yours is the best. I feel the same. The comeback, and the sound is simply beautiful!
Greetings from a Swedish boomer!
You seem to have such a pure and authentic mind and soul... They are far and few between nowadays unfortunately
And regarding ABBA, their music and this song - I grew up with them and always loved them and still do. ABBA, Queen and Pink Floyd occupy the top three spots for me (in given order)
Not sure how much Pink Floyd you've tried, but I suggest you listen to
On the turning away
Or
Wish you were here
Stay blessed
/Sweden
Dude! you shouldn't put your faith in people. You should put your faith in the Lord. I can listen to Morbid Angel, Slayer, Testament, and still go back to ABBA at the end of the day.
Hey man, heard your story about trust issues etc. Trusting people is by definition making yourself vulnerable. I've put my trust in the wrong people too. People who treated me so right, and then gradually over time so wrong. But bruh, you're only defeated if they succeed in making believe you deserved all that hurt. Have less expections of people and they won't be able to disappoint you - and you might even have some happy surprises along the way.
You do you. Blast ABBA as much as you want. Their music is not my thing... but you love it, and why shouldn't you? Focus on what makes you happy and energized.
Fistbump from Sweden.