Learning How to Embrace Silence | TATIANA OLIVEIRA SIMONIAN | TEDxBerkleeValencia

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  • Опубліковано 31 тра 2016
  • Learning how to embrace silence may sound hard for someone immersed in the music industry. However, Tatiana has become an expert at it. Through a thought-provoking and witty talk, she will share her personal story and some tips on why she believes its important to learn to love the discomfort of silence.
    TEDxBerkleeValencia took place at the Oceanogràfic in the City of Arts and Sciences, Valencia, Spain.
    TEDxBerkleeValencia website: tedxberkleevalencia.com/
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more atted.com/tedx
    Marketing and Business Development Executive
    Tatiana Oliveira Simonian is a veteran marketing and business development executive with a deep footprint in the digital space.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 90

  • @nidhi0211
    @nidhi0211 6 років тому +32

    I cried.
    Silently.
    Powerful speech. You really made me silent! Thank You.

  • @mindsetarchitect7697
    @mindsetarchitect7697 3 роки тому +12

    She lost her father and her mother is suffering from cancer. May god provide strength to their family

  • @redakino1441
    @redakino1441 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you very much woman...this gave me more courage to embrace silence

  • @bhupatsinghthakur4371
    @bhupatsinghthakur4371 5 років тому +28

    I really get fascinated watching people experiencing something that just changes their life in beautiful way I love hearing to people' experiences and even share my own. Every word she spoke was worthy, I respect her.

  • @janicemaguire8551
    @janicemaguire8551 3 роки тому +6

    Learning to be silent is enabling a more peaceful internal conversation .

  • @mugikuyu4700
    @mugikuyu4700 6 років тому +35

    Been where you were... I also made a decision to be metaphorically silent, went analogue for like three years, and wrote a lot and it all changed my life... I became more productive and more aware of myself and my environment. And also got better relationships.

    • @elhadjdiallo633
      @elhadjdiallo633 4 роки тому +1

      Speech is silver silent is gold.... Iam in love with my self sepf love is the cure to self hate ..... The less you speak the less they know you next move therefore you're unpredictable and invisible!!!! Be warned y'all... I wish y'all the best in life .....

    • @kaneezkaneez9396
      @kaneezkaneez9396 Рік тому

      then I'll suggest you to learn Islam not by seeing muslims but by the book of Allah there are so many scholars to teach but try to learn you will be at peace

  • @ThomasMark-zw3nw
    @ThomasMark-zw3nw 8 років тому +56

    One of the best TEDx Talks I have heard!

  • @iovallada
    @iovallada 4 роки тому +12

    9:30 Fear is disguised as opposition to change

  • @sergiofernandez2166
    @sergiofernandez2166 4 місяці тому +1

    This talk is really underrated

  • @youngkim7787
    @youngkim7787 5 років тому +29

    Great talk! She is Very smart, wise, and decisive. At significant moment in her life, she chose good thing that is designed by God. So, she is humble.

  • @forrestwheeler916
    @forrestwheeler916 2 роки тому +2

    Such beautiful words ,,, thank you for your loving words and powerful dhamma. You are blessed and helping others is a gift of wisdom and gratitude.

  • @carolinegiegerich560
    @carolinegiegerich560 8 років тому +28

    Powerful and vulnerable talk. Well done.

  • @ninikhan1956
    @ninikhan1956 6 років тому +11

    Such a profound impact her talk had on me. Love and light to her..

  • @springwater9981
    @springwater9981 3 роки тому +6

    This was so incredible to listen to, to take in, she’s truely inspired me. I’m going to write in my daily list - silence - bc I know it would easy to forget otherwise. It’s so ingrained in us to go against silence that I think a daily reminder could really be a lot of help to stay on the silent path xx

  • @jimmieoakland3843
    @jimmieoakland3843 4 роки тому +2

    Listen to this young lady. She is absolutely right.

  • @samlin1753
    @samlin1753 3 роки тому +4

    So sorry your dad passed away but very happy you made peace with him before he left this world.

  • @behailumulugeta6613
    @behailumulugeta6613 5 років тому +13

    i will practice it. thaks a lot its from ETHIOPIA.

  • @Iamluckygirl1111
    @Iamluckygirl1111 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for valuable insights 🙌

  • @Mojokiss
    @Mojokiss 2 роки тому +1

    Uncertainty Avoidance is a known social phenomenon which used to be cliches and small talk to include strangers but became using our phones to exclude strangers

  • @hestercilliers5565
    @hestercilliers5565 2 роки тому +2

    Absolutely Beautiful Truth Speech! Loved it!🌸

  • @amitavaroy4709
    @amitavaroy4709 Рік тому +1

    Amazing talk. Powerful lessons & awesome style of delivery

  • @KungaraKenya
    @KungaraKenya 8 років тому +11

    Cried, what a beautiful talk Tatiana!

  • @coolkatzie
    @coolkatzie 7 років тому +5

    Thank you this helped me so much ...I am learning the importance of listening more than talk..

  • @letscollaboratewithsharepo1148
    @letscollaboratewithsharepo1148 2 роки тому +1

    Just wonderful, thank you

  • @CozyToni
    @CozyToni 3 роки тому +2

    Beautifully stated. Nature is the best soundtrack. We have to be quiet and listen.

  • @seankeenenmercurio4133
    @seankeenenmercurio4133 Рік тому +1

    thank you 🥺

  • @jeraldbaxter3532
    @jeraldbaxter3532 Рік тому +1

    I used to belong to an art \ craft group, and there was woman who was always on facebook, via her phone, and when she would find something that amused her, she would give a cackling laugh and, despite someone else speaking, she would feel compelled to interrupt and thrust her phone under everyone else's noses. The others in the group found it "charming, " I never did; whenever she interrupted me, I would not finish what I'd been saying before her interruption, giving her some credit for being intelligent enough to realize how rude she was being. She finally learned just enough to say, "Sorry...", but within ten minutes, she would do it again.

  • @sherpa_hesperides
    @sherpa_hesperides 8 років тому +14

    A great experience. I know exactly what you mean.

  • @maryliddell6173
    @maryliddell6173 6 років тому +4

    Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on silence...beautifully shared.

  • @soniachauhan4459
    @soniachauhan4459 6 років тому +7

    Great talk. She is funny and powerful. Love that!

  • @orbitalchiller
    @orbitalchiller 8 років тому +7

    She's so beautiful at so many levels...

  • @kv7282
    @kv7282 3 роки тому +1

    Very powerful speech.

  • @valshipley
    @valshipley 7 років тому +6

    awesome and powerful and deeply insightful......thank u tatiana...

  • @Peter-to2pc
    @Peter-to2pc 8 років тому +8

    I just cried

  • @samantharose4952
    @samantharose4952 5 років тому +2

    Great talk that had me (silently) crying - very wise words that I'm going to listen to and try very hard and put into practice.

  • @elreysinpais9038
    @elreysinpais9038 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful speech. Very inspiring. Your courage to admit your drinking... RESPECT‼️🙏🏽

  • @virginiasmith7567
    @virginiasmith7567 6 років тому +2

    Your speech is very powerful and giving

  • @Red-Feather
    @Red-Feather 6 років тому +2

    Thank you. Great talk. My dad died the same day, on the other side of the world. I'm in Tokyo. He was in Paraguay.

  • @felipebriana9149
    @felipebriana9149 4 роки тому +2

    Wow. just wow. love from the Philippines.

  • @bhumikaagrawal8663
    @bhumikaagrawal8663 7 років тому +3

    Awesome..i So wanted to understand the importance of SILENCE...Thank you Berklee valencia

  • @thecastle09
    @thecastle09 5 років тому +2

    omggg my soul mate, im sure.....not kidding. youre speaking for me girl. love you.

  • @Tan8ous
    @Tan8ous 5 років тому +4

    Powerful, a truly gifted orator. I could almost see her behind a pulpit preaching ... life changing words and a strong delivery. God bless you Tatiana Oliveira Simonian

  • @jamalhamdan9170
    @jamalhamdan9170 3 роки тому +2

    Very Powerful and vulnerable speech,

  • @genolouis9858
    @genolouis9858 4 роки тому +2

    That's a powerful message/testimony.

  • @whenisenoughEnough
    @whenisenoughEnough 6 років тому +2

    thank you so much

  • @2138675309
    @2138675309 8 років тому +4

    Go girl! Inspired!

  • @Munzhe
    @Munzhe 3 роки тому +2

    Wow! This was so beautiful. Right on time for me. 🌸

  • @hisyambazarah7859
    @hisyambazarah7859 3 роки тому +2

    Love your thought

  • @MelissaJMJ
    @MelissaJMJ 4 роки тому +2

    Amazing.

  • @XffTheGrid411
    @XffTheGrid411 6 років тому +2

    Amazing talk..

  • @SwaqqaLewis
    @SwaqqaLewis 4 роки тому +2

    helluva speech, too inspired

  • @allybelle7022
    @allybelle7022 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing TED Talk. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @Manleyworld
    @Manleyworld 8 років тому +3

    That's a great talk!!!

  • @SHUBHAMGI
    @SHUBHAMGI 7 років тому +3

    amazing talk 👏👏

  • @ltal9570
    @ltal9570 5 років тому +1

    As silence, this was gold👏👏👏

  • @XcoGamingYt
    @XcoGamingYt 4 роки тому +2

    very emotional & effective... thanks TATIANA OLIVEIRA SIMONIAN also true silently... :)

  • @chocky_1874
    @chocky_1874 3 роки тому +1

    ThankYou

  • @ssimonn59
    @ssimonn59 7 років тому +7

    That was beautiful I'm proud of you, I know your Mom and Dad are also

  • @johnrooney4234
    @johnrooney4234 5 років тому +1

    'One's words are not better than silence. One should keep silent.' Ancient saying.

  • @staceydelbucchia2576
    @staceydelbucchia2576 4 роки тому +2

    Awesome💖

  • @severelychanged3679
    @severelychanged3679 3 роки тому +2

    Wow!!!!!

  • @firdouasmoussa7415
    @firdouasmoussa7415 4 роки тому +2

    Amazing 😍😍

  • @onyinyesspace9085
    @onyinyesspace9085 4 роки тому +4

    I am watching through my phone in the bathroom.

  • @kristinearshakyan7757
    @kristinearshakyan7757 Рік тому +2

  • @-o-dq7nd
    @-o-dq7nd Рік тому

    Learn to listen.

  • @sreenathks2531
    @sreenathks2531 3 роки тому +1

    I feel that this video might change my life.

  • @ADWrites24
    @ADWrites24 8 місяців тому

    Wow great.

  • @ritaviksakpal
    @ritaviksakpal 4 роки тому +1

    Watching this sitting in the bathroom and smiling at point 3:10

  • @777weeks
    @777weeks 6 років тому +1

    She had few points in this talk. I really like how she talked and her relitive tangents to me i saw a well fit puzzle. Not big but but dificult and detailed definetly mpre detail then lead on because ultimetly her message less is more and delivered the message in a nice compact convienient package just enough for anyone facing the issues of chaos to understand without becoming overwelmed

  • @mridhasolayman3401
    @mridhasolayman3401 4 роки тому +1

    Take care

  • @donaldpace9033
    @donaldpace9033 6 років тому +1

    Simply pulchritude

  • @MalavikaS100
    @MalavikaS100 3 роки тому +1

    👍🙏

  • @justinpettit8099
    @justinpettit8099 2 роки тому

    I'm trying to but this video is playing

  • @shrutipatel1073
    @shrutipatel1073 3 роки тому +1

    What does she mean by writing down. Please help me understand this.

  • @sremadevi
    @sremadevi 4 роки тому

    How can someone jot down what moves through his subconscious?

  • @hc-om5hr
    @hc-om5hr 4 роки тому

    who else is watching this during Corona?it seems like Corona is forcing me to use my phone more I used to use my phone less

  • @memorycelle
    @memorycelle 3 роки тому +1

  • @antoinebartolemo2088
    @antoinebartolemo2088 2 роки тому +3

    are you kidding? people like Tony Robins should not be millionaires when videos like this have less than 100k views. for shame

  • @NeuroPulse
    @NeuroPulse 2 роки тому +1

    I used to embrace silence like her. Then the events of 2020 onward began and I became swept up in the absurdity of everything going on meanwhile having great investment success. Now I feel trapped in the noise because if I go back to silence I'll be back "in the dark" as my peers once told me. Double edged sword. Now in regards to cat videos and tik tok I 100% agree. Single edged sword. It's a shame UA-cam is trying to be more like tik tok because I have to jump through some hoops now to avoid the suggested videos.

  • @borneybergantine6114
    @borneybergantine6114 4 роки тому

    *quit drinking alcohol....

  • @SHalps97
    @SHalps97 6 років тому

    If this talk actually meant something to you then u must be in a bad place haha. Everything that she said is so obvious. I hope that most people dont need this video to understand these concepts. Hope it helps though if you dont already know ✌

  • @hamadazmat5672
    @hamadazmat5672 3 роки тому +1

    Silence is the language of God all else is poor translation

  • @fabrice.ngoran
    @fabrice.ngoran Рік тому +1

    I feel like we are mistaking being focused and silence here... Personal opinion🤷‍♂️