@@Studyforyourfuturehooman whining can be reality too.. yet, whining is whining. also, how shameIess of you to assume my gender, _benevolently sexist_ you are. gotta appreciate a feminist's conviction in making a victim out of oneself., even at the cost of political correctness.. go on, you do you.. 😆😆☕☕
There are so many man commenting that the wife has to earn a certain amount of money but if the same thing is said by a woman she is a gold digger .Wow the irony 👏👏👏
No, she's not a gold digger. If she wants a guy who earns more than her, she should look for guys that earn more than her. And the same goes for him. If he wants a girl who earns more than him, he should look for a girl who earns more than him. And also, are Men not shamed for having preferences? Like, if he wants a girl who's not obese, he's called fat phobic. If he wants a girl who's a virgin, he's called a misogynist. If he wants a girl who's shorter than him, he's called insecure. And many more such scenarios. Ofc, girls are criticized in these matters too, but you'd be lying if uou said that girls get criticized more...cause it's clearly and definitely Men that are shamed more for having preferences...🤷
no man in 2024 wants a woman who doesn't work, because it's impossible to lead a life without the extra income to support the family. (video is a lie) secondly, if you don't want to have kids, don't marry a man who wants to have kids (common sense) thirdly, that clock, really IS ticking.(truth)
@@lopave6bro what u mean?? The places where women dont work after marriage (housework) is wayyyyy less than the reality that they are expected to handle everything and they have to because men dont do anything. Its true that now people are also understanding the situation women face .. so the husbands are also helping out which is a good thing… just that the percentage is veryy less
@@Studyforyourfuturehoomanwhat do you want men to do? If they let women work you have problem if they don't you will call them patriarchal. This probably the best era to be women, todays women have 1000 times better life than most of the womens ever lived on this planet and cherry on top, society thinks they are more oppressed than ever. All the laws are in their favour, money is pouring by any means. Today's women could literally show her 🍑 and 🐱 on the internet for world to see and still could file divorce stating her husband isn't respecting her privacy and leave him with half of his property. Idk what more can men lose we already lost everything 😓😭
What the hell is wrong with some of the comments like just proves the point of the video. Thanks for posting this ❤️ coz people NEED to start looking from this pov
I mean, Men are still criticized and shamed more for having preferences. Not saying girls aren't, but boys have to face way more criticism for having preferences as compared to girls...🤷
@@36KACRE you are delusional....this is what the reality is going on right now. if in this case the genders are reversed..no one would even care to acknowledge the video..because everything (unecessarily) is normalised for men
Im 27, I am not dating for a long time cz m done with men and their expectations.. Also don't wanna get married since i HATE this dostorted men favoring marriage concept , probably might adopt a kid if situation permits. My priorities are sorted even if my clock dies ticking. 😊
Along with these rules, also remember: 1. You'll live with her family. 2. You'll take her last name 3. You'll probably pay her some kind of dowry and if not, at least , pay for the whole wedding. 4. You'll give up your career and make yourself financially liable on her. 5. You'll take full responsibility for the child post divorce ( then she pays childcare) Then you can enjoy "taking half of her worth" later. 😊😊
@@Mhojito53You do know that women usually do all these things, but aren't required to do all that by law and can still steal 50 percent of what you own in devorce.
@@Mhojito53 Its not necessary to live with her family, we can live separately, moreover nowadays youngsters live seperately at their job cities not at parental cities Not necessary to change surname at all Oh oh oh, Dowry is illegal how can I pay dowry Nowadays first many of the mother in laws wants a working son in law, nobody wants a house husband Surely take full responsibility of child support But that 50% alimony and maintenance is fixed by law. What a wonderful life.
ये जो लोग यहां 50% प्रॉपर्ट की बात कर रहे है, ये पक्के तौर पे भारत का नियम कानून कहता है या अंग्रेजो या फिर अमेरिकियों के नियम रटे जा रहे है यहां पर? ये अपने देश का ही कानून हैं?
@@Studyforyourfuturehooman hey just a kind reminder to study for your future hooman if u r wasting tym . Reduce the amount of tym spent on shorts. Sorry didn't meant to intrude but just saying as as the future hooman who didn't study in the past
1. Clocks not ticking for males. Biology. 2. Purity should be important to both given how past behaviour follows in future and leads to higher divorce rates.
My thoughts are they exist for a reason. You can rock the boat but the price of doing that is more often than you’d think, turning up empty handed. I get the impression the video is trying to undermine what men want in a partner but I see no difference between men wanting purity beauty femininity and common values and women wanting tall, fit, masculine protectors and providers. It’s what many (not all…because we have to account for that friend you know) looking for. Do with that information what you will and experience the outcomes attached in the realm of dating and mating. It’s that simple.
@@HarshPrasad-b7l my mom doesn't sold herself unfortunately..... neither my dad ..they are both doing high paying job..... not everyone is like ur family
when the only thing men are bringing to the table is income, they better make sure to be the one earning more. women put their life, body, and career on the line to have kids, and in most cases do most of the work in their upbringing as well. so men better be compensating in terms of money, that's thr least we can do 😂
Woo...just cherry picking the perks you want....as if he do not have any pressure of being well settled and there is no one to support him in his struggle, as if there is no pressure from society to earn more than the girl he is marrying to(if the girl is earning too), as if he do not have to work the dangerous jobs (in most of the situations and according to the statistics around the world), as if he do not have any responsibility of the household or the kids, as if it is not expected and he would not throw himself infront of any danger to protect you and the kids even if it might get him killed. STOP SPREADING HATE and start embracing the nature of each gender. It's not hard to understand that one is emotionally stronger and wired to nurture and the other is physically stronger and wired to provide and protect(there would be exceptions).
Sorry you are spreading false information. Social issues men face are to be contested and rectified instead of asking women to compensate for that. It's not a woman's fault that you are expected by the society to earn more than her. Start taming your ego and being more secure in your income and more females will marry guys earning lesser than her. Regarding dangerous jobs, not all men work in dangerous jobs, you will not take advantages of 10% men and apply it to 100% men. And there's no job where women aren't participating for fighting to participate, so it again not a problem created by women but by patriarchal society. Are you supposed to keep your family safe, ofcourse otherwise what on earth do you think you are bringing to the table? And doesn't a mother keep her child safe? Were you always protected by your father or your mother had to sacrifice even her food habits while she conceived and breastfed you? And how many incidents happening in a year where a man endangers his life, on an average not even one incident. So stop making false claims. And talking about what comes naturally, natural is just sleep and hunger, apart from that everything a man can learn. You were born naked but you don't roam around naked calling it nature, you learn to feed, clean and clothe yourself. Now you can do the same for a child too. Apart from breast milk there's nothing that a man cannot do. So stop weaponizing incompetence. In a nutshell, get done with your bs and man up.
The problem is calling virginity as purity. What does that even means? And then only making it a thing for women. Men say virginity don't apply to them because they don't have a hymen. A straight man sleeps with other women and then wants to marry a virgin, how do you think that equation will work. How are all men able to get a virgin women if they are the ones sleeping with women. So it's pretty dumb too.
In the era of decling marriage rates and reaching lowest point in history MEN are refusing to get married dere are still countries with pre historic thinking of getting married In west marriage as a institution is failing
Marriage was always a sham institution born out of patriarchy, which was always a failure. Now men are just feeling the heat of it. Women were always feeling it.
Ur opinion is quite correct because no girl will like to be married to a poor guy who doesn't works at all.. As there is no assurity to have a stable life after getting married but it's a basic preference from both the genders nowadays
Male preferences won't be contested as long as it's not made available at the cost financial, mental, psychological and physical health of women. You can't have preferences at someone else's cost.
@@meghasanyal4861 Ya? Well, I've got news for you. Preferences are entirely biological and psychological. Women want a strong, resourceful man and men want a decent looking, well mannered woman. This proves true for the entire world and every single society. No matter how much you regulate it. Since, these preferences are what makes a marriage work.
If men could give birth, breast feed and take care of the baby with their instinctive motherly nature, sensitivity, we as a specie wouldn’t women. Our minds have evolved 1000x faster than our bodies which is why when we are born our head is way bigger in comparison to other species (head:body) and which in turn is so painful for women to give birth as opposed to any other species.. We humans have multiplied a bit too much now, but that doesn’t discount the fact that we still NEED to reproduce in a systematic and smartly manner.. Now, women how do we go about doing it? By working for career? Earning money for what? Having a blast in life, living lavishly until we are old rich and alone? We as men have always been the providers, we earn for our family, we build and construct the world our children live in. That’s what we do. And women have always been a nurturer, we all know a child NEEDS his/her mother but only wants a father to survive in this world Can we stop fighting as genders and start living as humans? The way nature wants us to.? Please..?
Please note that men wanting women to focus on nurturing babies doesn’t automatically translate into women feeling that that is their most important purpose in this world. We also like to self actualize and make lots of money. And then proceed to spend that money without requesting too many permissions because we worked for it. It’s not intended to offend anyone. Ps: also note that while men give themselves the blanket title of providers and protectors, majority of the hurt inflicted on both men and women is done by men. So some women no longer take that provider- protector rhetoric seriously.
"You're still a virgin" right ???
- right 🗿🗿😭😭
Most of the men are virgin.
😂 If this was a guy telling to a girl , nobody would care but when the genders are reversed, everyone has so much to say
Actually its reversed, when guys say this everyone cries, thats why they made this video 😂
this video contradicts your "point"
it's literally a woman's whining pov..
@@vishnu_namboothirimore like “reality” than whinning🙂
Well what can i even expect because you are a boy not a girl so yeah .. keep going on
@@Studyforyourfuturehooman whining can be reality too..
yet, whining is whining.
also, how shameIess of you to assume my gender, _benevolently sexist_ you are.
gotta appreciate a feminist's conviction in making a victim out of oneself.,
even at the cost of political correctness..
go on, you do you..
😆😆☕☕
@@Studyforyourfuturehoomanwhat
There are so many man commenting that the wife has to earn a certain amount of money but if the same thing is said by a woman she is a gold digger .Wow the irony 👏👏👏
Calls us gold digger as well your gold digger because in reality you dig the gold not just a example,👏👏
No, she's not a gold digger.
If she wants a guy who earns more than her, she should look for guys that earn more than her.
And the same goes for him. If he wants a girl who earns more than him, he should look for a girl who earns more than him.
And also, are Men not shamed for having preferences?
Like, if he wants a girl who's not obese, he's called fat phobic. If he wants a girl who's a virgin, he's called a misogynist. If he wants a girl who's shorter than him, he's called insecure. And many more such scenarios.
Ofc, girls are criticized in these matters too, but you'd be lying if uou said that girls get criticized more...cause it's clearly and definitely Men that are shamed more for having preferences...🤷
People want a women to do everything after marriage in without their contribution what kind of society we are living in🥲
Except they don't, u probably live inside a bubble
no man in 2024 wants a woman who doesn't work, because it's impossible to lead a life without the extra income to support the family. (video is a lie)
secondly, if you don't want to have kids, don't marry a man who wants to have kids (common sense)
thirdly, that clock, really IS ticking.(truth)
@@lopave6bro what u mean?? The places where women dont work after marriage (housework) is wayyyyy less than the reality that they are expected to handle everything and they have to because men dont do anything.
Its true that now people are also understanding the situation women face .. so the husbands are also helping out which is a good thing… just that the percentage is veryy less
@@Studyforyourfuturehoomanwhat do you want men to do? If they let women work you have problem if they don't you will call them patriarchal. This probably the best era to be women, todays women have 1000 times better life than most of the womens ever lived on this planet and cherry on top, society thinks they are more oppressed than ever. All the laws are in their favour, money is pouring by any means. Today's women could literally show her 🍑 and 🐱 on the internet for world to see and still could file divorce stating her husband isn't respecting her privacy and leave him with half of his property. Idk what more can men lose we already lost everything 😓😭
@lopave6 Nashte me sarcasm kam le rahe ho
What the hell is wrong with some of the comments like just proves the point of the video. Thanks for posting this ❤️ coz people NEED to start looking from this pov
I don't understand why women are so offended by male preferences?
You guys don't choose a dude who doesn't meet your 10 different criterias too.
This POV is delusional
World economy will collapse 😂
I mean, Men are still criticized and shamed more for having preferences.
Not saying girls aren't, but boys have to face way more criticism for having preferences as compared to girls...🤷
@@36KACRE you are delusional....this is what the reality is going on right now. if in this case the genders are reversed..no one would even care to acknowledge the video..because everything (unecessarily) is normalised for men
Im 27, I am not dating for a long time cz m done with men and their expectations.. Also don't wanna get married since i HATE this dostorted men favoring marriage concept , probably might adopt a kid if situation permits. My priorities are sorted even if my clock dies ticking. 😊
Let's get married. I'm a doctor 35 single if you are interested let me know
Respect to you
Women are also becoming too much feminist
The problem is with you not men
You are the problem not men
Make one about living with in laws
No problem in marrying a girl like that if:
1. She has a lot of possessions 😁
2. I get half of it if I divorce her 😌
Along with these rules, also remember:
1. You'll live with her family.
2. You'll take her last name
3. You'll probably pay her some kind of dowry and if not, at least , pay for the whole wedding.
4. You'll give up your career and make yourself financially liable on her.
5. You'll take full responsibility for the child post divorce ( then she pays childcare)
Then you can enjoy "taking half of her worth" later. 😊😊
@@Mhojito53OP got real quite after this😂
@@Mhojito53You do know that women usually do all these things, but aren't required to do all that by law and can still steal 50 percent of what you own in devorce.
@@Mhojito53
Its not necessary to live with her family, we can live separately, moreover nowadays youngsters live seperately at their job cities not at parental cities
Not necessary to change surname at all
Oh oh oh, Dowry is illegal how can I pay dowry
Nowadays first many of the mother in laws wants a working son in law, nobody wants a house husband
Surely take full responsibility of child support
But that 50% alimony and maintenance is fixed by law. What a wonderful life.
ये जो लोग यहां 50% प्रॉपर्ट की बात कर रहे है, ये पक्के तौर पे भारत का नियम कानून कहता है या अंग्रेजो या फिर अमेरिकियों के नियम रटे जा रहे है यहां पर? ये अपने देश का ही कानून हैं?
So many rules Avanti! Cook, clean, babysit, even after marriage, really????and a virgin,OK!
Wow, imagine what women typically have to hear all the time - shocking, right?!
@@avantinagralMorbillionth year of Victim Mentality:
Do non Indian men ask those questions too?😮
@@avantinagral agree
@@tanishkchaudhary "wHat aBoUt mEn's MenTal health" ah dude😹
The start ❎
The end ✅
No seal no deal😂
It's a sarcastic comment .
Nice profile
@@arandommuggle9587 ?
Indian?
@@mrpatu2783 oh nice, usually most Indians in the world have this same mindset so I guessed it
@@rushabhshah.2768 acording to you is it good or bad
If u are rich..... then yea... I agree with all the rules...
You a stripper ?
No women commenting below this
@@karmthakkar8475 but ofc
@@karmthakkar8475 but ofc
what?? what does it have to do with richness? society still have those shitty old mindsets forwomen..be her rich or not.
“Clocks ticking” 😂
What you bring to the table?
Both: As much as i can
And they lived happily ever after
Nahhhhh... Bazzinga
seee misogynist end up alone and bitter like raj
woww the amount if ppl who dont get the point of this video *facepalm*
Ikr… its so dissappointing
@@Studyforyourfuturehooman hey just a kind reminder to study for your future hooman if u r wasting tym . Reduce the amount of tym spent on shorts. Sorry didn't meant to intrude but just saying as as the future hooman who didn't study in the past
I don't understand why women are so offended by male preferences?
You guys don't choose a dude who doesn't meet your 10 different criterias too.
1. Clocks not ticking for males. Biology.
2. Purity should be important to both given how past behaviour follows in future and leads to higher divorce rates.
Uno reverse at its best..🔥😏
They look good together
Arce holery to another level....
My thoughts are they exist for a reason. You can rock the boat but the price of doing that is more often than you’d think, turning up empty handed.
I get the impression the video is trying to undermine what men want in a partner but I see no difference between men wanting purity beauty femininity and common values and women wanting tall, fit, masculine protectors and providers.
It’s what many (not all…because we have to account for that friend you know) looking for. Do with that information what you will and experience the outcomes attached in the realm of dating and mating. It’s that simple.
Yea I am okay with all the terms. If she earns 70-80k a month I don't see any issue.
Oh ur price is pretty cheap..... atleast increase ur price a little otherwise anyone will come buy and resell. U
@@vshiiqyour mom was even cheaper😂
@@HarshPrasad-b7l my mom doesn't sold herself unfortunately..... neither my dad ..they are both doing high paying job..... not everyone is like ur family
@@vshiiq but i bought and used her she was thick😋
Well what's wrong if a girl asks for purity 😂
you girls should really ask this . This is the only way to improve boys .
men not marrying someone earning less than them?
when the only thing men are bringing to the table is income, they better make sure to be the one earning more. women put their life, body, and career on the line to have kids, and in most cases do most of the work in their upbringing as well. so men better be compensating in terms of money, that's thr least we can do 😂
Everything on point but , is she I mean he is honest
Na hi gf hai , sirf taiyari chal rhi placement ki kya kismat payi hai ,
😢
This is near future guys… we’ll do this when men can get pregnant
You forgot how much money do you make by women [here men]
Nice conversation
People even want bottle made of virgin plastic
Problem is people want that because they know nobody would touch them.
Everything looks ok as a man to me 😂
Agree with all points but u must have package in crores
You make awesome videos ❤️❤️
Woo...just cherry picking the perks you want....as if he do not have any pressure of being well settled and there is no one to support him in his struggle, as if there is no pressure from society to earn more than the girl he is marrying to(if the girl is earning too), as if he do not have to work the dangerous jobs (in most of the situations and according to the statistics around the world), as if he do not have any responsibility of the household or the kids, as if it is not expected and he would not throw himself infront of any danger to protect you and the kids even if it might get him killed.
STOP SPREADING HATE and start embracing the nature of each gender. It's not hard to understand that one is emotionally stronger and wired to nurture and the other is physically stronger and wired to provide and protect(there would be exceptions).
Disagree but thanks for sharing your thoughts
@@Esme26433 you're disagreeing for not SPREADING HATE , bravo 👏😂
Sorry you are spreading false information. Social issues men face are to be contested and rectified instead of asking women to compensate for that. It's not a woman's fault that you are expected by the society to earn more than her. Start taming your ego and being more secure in your income and more females will marry guys earning lesser than her.
Regarding dangerous jobs, not all men work in dangerous jobs, you will not take advantages of 10% men and apply it to 100% men. And there's no job where women aren't participating for fighting to participate, so it again not a problem created by women but by patriarchal society.
Are you supposed to keep your family safe, ofcourse otherwise what on earth do you think you are bringing to the table? And doesn't a mother keep her child safe? Were you always protected by your father or your mother had to sacrifice even her food habits while she conceived and breastfed you? And how many incidents happening in a year where a man endangers his life, on an average not even one incident. So stop making false claims.
And talking about what comes naturally, natural is just sleep and hunger, apart from that everything a man can learn. You were born naked but you don't roam around naked calling it nature, you learn to feed, clean and clothe yourself. Now you can do the same for a child too. Apart from breast milk there's nothing that a man cannot do. So stop weaponizing incompetence.
In a nutshell, get done with your bs and man up.
UNO reverse again, take 2+( in laws ), skip ,skip, skip, skip, take 4+(kids), wildcard(patriarchy), UNO.
Game over ,now get back to the kitchen.
I mean if a person is a virgin themselves i guess its fine to ask for purity, no?
Thing is that the men who are usually asking the purity/ virgin questions are hardly ever pure or virgin. The audacity!
The problem is calling virginity as purity. What does that even means?
And then only making it a thing for women. Men say virginity don't apply to them because they don't have a hymen.
A straight man sleeps with other women and then wants to marry a virgin, how do you think that equation will work. How are all men able to get a virgin women if they are the ones sleeping with women. So it's pretty dumb too.
Damnnnn
Which Dam?
Stupid
In the era of decling marriage rates and reaching lowest point in history MEN are refusing to get married dere are still countries with pre historic thinking of getting married
In west marriage as a institution is failing
Marriage was always a sham institution born out of patriarchy, which was always a failure. Now men are just feeling the heat of it. Women were always feeling it.
Haha love it ❤❤
I love you avanti ❤️🙈🌹
"So do I"
Said no girl ever 😂
I'll agree with this if a girl is ready to get married to a poor guy who doesn't work at all 😂
Ur opinion is quite correct because no girl will like to be married to a poor guy who doesn't works at all.. As there is no assurity to have a stable life after getting married but it's a basic preference from both the genders nowadays
❤❤❤
I don't understand why women are so offended by male preferences?
You guys don't choose a dude who doesn't meet your 10 different criterias too.
Male preferences won't be contested as long as it's not made available at the cost financial, mental, psychological and physical health of women.
You can't have preferences at someone else's cost.
@@meghasanyal4861 Ya? Well, I've got news for you. Preferences are entirely biological and psychological.
Women want a strong, resourceful man and men want a decent looking, well mannered woman.
This proves true for the entire world and every single society. No matter how much you regulate it. Since, these preferences are what makes a marriage work.
@@meghasanyal4861 Women never ever marry a man who is less resourceful or shorter than them. Stop playing the victim card all the time lol
@@meghasanyal4861 Victim Card lol
I will marry you mommy
I didn't realise gender roles were reversed until I read it.
😀
Eternal victim card
Shut up men ☕
Poor me feminism.
If men could give birth, breast feed and take care of the baby with their instinctive motherly nature, sensitivity, we as a specie wouldn’t women.
Our minds have evolved 1000x faster than our bodies which is why when we are born our head is way bigger in comparison to other species (head:body) and which in turn is so painful for women to give birth as opposed to any other species..
We humans have multiplied a bit too much now, but that doesn’t discount the fact that we still NEED to reproduce in a systematic and smartly manner..
Now, women how do we go about doing it? By working for career? Earning money for what? Having a blast in life, living lavishly until we are old rich and alone?
We as men have always been the providers, we earn for our family, we build and construct the world our children live in. That’s what we do. And women have always been a nurturer, we all know a child NEEDS his/her mother but only wants a father to survive in this world
Can we stop fighting as genders and start living as humans? The way nature wants us to.?
Please..?
😂😂
Please note that men wanting women to focus on nurturing babies doesn’t automatically translate into women feeling that that is their most important purpose in this world. We also like to self actualize and make lots of money. And then proceed to spend that money without requesting too many permissions because we worked for it. It’s not intended to offend anyone.
Ps: also note that while men give themselves the blanket title of providers and protectors, majority of the hurt inflicted on both men and women is done by men. So some women no longer take that provider- protector rhetoric seriously.
Virginity is must
Yes
Bet you aren't one😂
If you're one then I respect but if you're not virgin yourself you're crazy
@@atulchandradas4225well mostly for “both” and not only the women😢 .. but seems like men cant control there hormones (ofc not all men)
@@atulchandradas4225😂😂😂😂