The Secret Language of “Old Money”: 10 Code Words & Behaviors Explained
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- Опубліковано 28 тра 2024
- “Old Money” - a term that has, as of the last couple of years, seamlessly embedded itself into the digital realm… represents wealth that has weathered countless storms, nurtured through the passage of generations.
Today, "Old Money" has become something of a cultural symbol, sparking significant interest and trending discussions across social media platforms.
The “aesthetic” echoing Ivy League traditions, grand mansions, invaluable antiques, and classic cars have all become part of its captivating appeal.
Yet, dear viewers, let’s separate the substance from the symbol.
The essence of “Old Money” lies not in material possessions, but in a deeply ingrained mindset and the practice of meticulously crafted etiquette.
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0:00 Intro
1:13 Code Word: “Summer” - As A Verb
2:27 Etiquette: The Graceful Exit
3:48 Code Word: “When We Were In…” For Travel
5:14 Behavior: The Art of Introduction
6:57 Code Word: “The Club”
8:14 Behavior: “Interesting” People Events
9:46 Code Word: “Cottage”
11:06 Behavior: The Art of Questioning Without Revealing
12:46 Behavior: Assumption Of Goodwill Upon Meeting
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The upper classes, the ones who often best comprehend the hidden language of “old money,” use ‘summer’ as more than a noun depicting a season - it becomes a verb signifying their privileged lifestyle.
You see, these individuals don’t merely “experience” summer, they proactively ’summer.’
It symbolizes their annual exodus to sunlit sanctuaries like the Hamptons or the French Riviera.
One such intriguing norm is the art of gracefully exiting a social interaction.
‘Old Money’ don’t simply leave; they glide out of situations with subtlety and finesse, often aided by another participant in the conversation.
Contrarily, the ‘New Money’ and other classes may not always pay heed to this nuanced dance of departure.
The lingua franca of the ‘Old Money’ contains a certain joie de vivre, especially when they refer to their travel experiences.
Rarely would you hear them use a mundane term like ‘vacation.’
Instead, they sprinkle their conversation with phrases such as, “When we were in…” followed by the mention of an obscure city or a lesser-known region, rather than a country or a larger area.
This peculiar choice of words serves two distinct purposes.
Within the intricate machinery of high society, ‘Old Money’ families often serve as the lubricant that keeps the wheels spinning smoothly.
One key way they do this is by tactfully introducing individuals to one another, acting as matchmakers for brilliant minds, potential collaborators, or individuals with complementary interests.
This calculated social maneuver isn’t merely about being friendly or well-networked; it’s a strategic play that subtly elevates their status.
In the coded language of the ‘Old Money’, “The Club” holds a significant position.
Vague to an outsider but crystal clear to those within the circle, “The Club” could refer to a country club, a golf club, a yacht club, or any other exclusive institution.
The assumption, of course, is that the listener knows exactly which ‘club’ is being referred to, subtly highlighting that both parties belong to the same exclusive community.
Acting as the puppet masters of a grand social mechanism, they carefully engineer gatherings that are more than mere parties; they’re hotbeds of intellectual exchange, power dynamics, and understated influence.
A notable example of this historical practice is Mrs. Astor and her famed ‘400 List.’
It was the epitome of high society in the late 19th century, consisting of the crème de la crème of New York society.
Within the ‘Old Money’ lexicon, as we have already seen, certain words carry a meaning quite distinct from their dictionary definitions.
Another classic example is the term “Cottage.”
While for most, a ‘cottage’ might conjure images of a cozy, modest dwelling, within the elite circles, it bears a wholly different implication.
In the parlance of the ‘Old Money,’ a “cottage” often refers to a substantial second home, typically nestled in an enviable holiday hotspot.
And lastly, contrary to the popular stereotype of the ‘Old Money’ as aloof or dismissive, they often exude an assumption of good will.
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COMMENT: Now that you know some of the secret language of “old money”, can you think of a time you’ve seen someone in your life exhibit these “old money” behaviors or use these words?
Endlessly. My mom would reference Ravenscrag and the Allan Line at every dinner party, or holiday festivities. I use these tactics in uncomfortable dalliances.
Only in old corny movies
My cousin who is a judge
An elderly relative of a very wealthy friend of mine (years ago), once asked me “Who are your people”?
I was very confused by her question, so I then began to run through my family’s mixed race heritage… Needless to say, she looked firmly at me and then turned away without another word.
That’s because I couldn’t name-drop any stately families or famous people in my family!
@@12235117657598502586 Her ass would be in the same spot if it weren’t for her accident of birth. Sheesh
I justed tried to buy a cashmere sweater and now I'm watching old money videos.
Tried to buy? If you know what cashmere feels like it’s not hard to find it at thrift stores. If you find one that’s slightly shrunk (very slightly, not “this will fit my toddler”-shrunk) using hair conditioner can help stretch it back to shape. Anyway, for the summer try to find a linen-silk blend; they are airy and luxurious.
@@polymathica It was a joke. Get yourself checked for autism.
PUT YOUR FAITH AND TRUST IN JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS ON WHICH HE SHED HIS BLOOD FOR OUR FORGIVENESS OF SINS AND HEALING BECAUSE YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN TO HAVE GOD'S TRUE FORGIVENESS OF SIN and TRUE HEALING and TRUE PEACE and TRUE REST FOR YOUR SOUL AND TRUST AND BELIEVE IN HIS RESURRECTION BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST BY WHICH HE ROSE AGAIN TO GIVE US HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND IN HIS ASCENSION TO THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD OUR FATHER AFTER WHICH HE SENT THE HOLY SPIRIT TO US YOU AND ME DID WE MAY ALL BE ABLE TO BELIEVE AND TRUST AND KNOW THAT GOD IS TRUE AND REAL AND EXISTS AND BE BORN AGAIN BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST WHO CONVICTS US OF OUR SINS END OF THE JUDGMENT OF THE WORLD AND THE RIGHTEOUSNESS WHICH IS IN CHRIST JESUS OUR LORD FOR IT IS ONLY THROUGH THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS (NOT OUR OWN WORKS BUT HIS) THAT WE CAN
EVEN BE MADE RIGHTEOUS AT ALL BEFORE GOD THE FATHER FOR OUR SINS ARE MANY BUT GOD RICH IN MERCY SENT HIS SON JESUS CHRIST WHO IS GOD HIMSELF IN HUMAN FORM YET WITHOUT SIN TO BE THE PERFECT SACRIFICE FOR OUR SINS TO TAKE THE PUNISHMENT THAT WE DESERVED FOR OUR SINS UPON HIMSELF SO THAT WE COULD BE FORGIVEN AND BE SPARED GOD'S WRATH FOR OUR SINS AND INSTEAD BE JUSTIFIED BEFORE GOD AND HAVE HIS SALVATION AND HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND NO LONGER FEAR THE STING OF DEATH AND FEAR GOING TO HELL BUT INSTEAD REMAIN AT REST IN GOD THROUGH CHRIST BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH ABIDING GOD'S TRUE REST AND TRUE PEACE WHICH SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING AND IN GOD'S THE FULL OF ASSURANCE OF SALVATION KNOWING THAT WE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE (AND THOUGH OUR FLESHLY BODIES WON'T LAST FOREVER) OUR SOULS WILL GO ON AND LIVE FOREVER AND GO TO HEAVEN TO BE HOME WITH GOD OUR FATHER AND NOT DIE AND GO TO HELL FOR OUR
SINS FOR FOR WE WHO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST AND BELIEVE INTO JESUS CHRIST THE ROCK OF OUR SALVATION OUR TRUE SAVIOR, AND LORD, AND OUR TRUE HUSBAND, HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN OF ALL OUR SINS PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE IN JESUS CHRIST BY THE BLOOD OF CHRIST AND WE KNOW THIS BY HIS HOLY SPIRIT WHOM HE GOD HAS GIVEN US AS A SEAL AND TESTIMONY TO TESTIFY TO US THAT WE BELONG TO CHRIST AND ARE SAVED IN CHRIST JESUS BY THE POWER OF HIS BLOOD WHICH HE SHED FOR US UPON HIS CROSS IN JESUS NAME I DECLARE THIS OVER YOU AMEN! AMEN! HALLELUJAH! PRAISE GOD!
@@polymathicaPUT YOUR FAITH AND TRUST IN JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS ON WHICH HE SHED HIS BLOOD FOR OUR FORGIVENESS OF SINS AND HEALING BECAUSE YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN TO HAVE GOD'S TRUE FORGIVENESS OF SIN and TRUE HEALING and TRUE PEACE and TRUE REST FOR YOUR SOUL AND TRUST AND BELIEVE IN HIS RESURRECTION BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST BY WHICH HE ROSE AGAIN TO GIVE US HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND IN HIS ASCENSION TO THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD OUR FATHER AFTER WHICH HE SENT THE HOLY SPIRIT TO US YOU AND ME DID WE MAY ALL BE ABLE TO BELIEVE AND TRUST AND KNOW THAT GOD IS TRUE AND REAL AND EXISTS AND BE BORN AGAIN BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST WHO CONVICTS US OF OUR SINS END OF THE JUDGMENT OF THE WORLD AND THE RIGHTEOUSNESS WHICH IS IN CHRIST JESUS OUR LORD FOR IT IS ONLY THROUGH THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS (NOT OUR OWN WORKS BUT HIS) THAT WE CAN
EVEN BE MADE RIGHTEOUS AT ALL BEFORE GOD THE FATHER FOR OUR SINS ARE MANY BUT GOD RICH IN MERCY SENT HIS SON JESUS CHRIST WHO IS GOD HIMSELF IN HUMAN FORM YET WITHOUT SIN TO BE THE PERFECT SACRIFICE FOR OUR SINS TO TAKE THE PUNISHMENT THAT WE DESERVED FOR OUR SINS UPON HIMSELF SO THAT WE COULD BE FORGIVEN AND BE SPARED GOD'S WRATH FOR OUR SINS AND INSTEAD BE JUSTIFIED BEFORE GOD AND HAVE HIS SALVATION AND HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND NO LONGER FEAR THE STING OF DEATH AND FEAR GOING TO HELL BUT INSTEAD REMAIN AT REST IN GOD THROUGH CHRIST BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH ABIDING GOD'S TRUE REST AND TRUE PEACE WHICH SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING AND IN GOD'S THE FULL OF ASSURANCE OF SALVATION KNOWING THAT WE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE (AND THOUGH OUR FLESHLY BODIES WON'T LAST FOREVER) OUR SOULS WILL GO ON AND LIVE FOREVER AND GO TO HEAVEN TO BE HOME WITH GOD OUR FATHER AND NOT DIE AND GO TO HELL FOR OUR
SINS FOR FOR WE WHO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST AND BELIEVE INTO JESUS CHRIST THE ROCK OF OUR SALVATION OUR TRUE SAVIOR, AND LORD, AND OUR TRUE HUSBAND, HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN OF ALL OUR SINS PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE IN JESUS CHRIST BY THE BLOOD OF CHRIST AND WE KNOW THIS BY HIS HOLY SPIRIT WHOM HE GOD HAS GIVEN US AS A SEAL AND TESTIMONY TO TESTIFY TO US THAT WE BELONG TO CHRIST AND ARE SAVED IN CHRIST JESUS BY THE POWER OF HIS BLOOD WHICH HE SHED FOR US UPON HIS CROSS IN JESUS NAME I DECLARE THIS OVER YOU AMEN! AMEN! HALLELUJAH! PRAISE GOD!
😂 UA-cam got you!
A few days ago I had an appointment at the dentist. Then I got the recommendation for videos: how to floss the right way💀🙈😂
I used to help host banquets and as a result met countless upper-class or "old money" individuals. It is not simply a trend, it is a lifestyle. We learn through observation when we are young, and for exactly this reason, "old money" individuals are born into the lifestyle, it is what every facet of their life consists of. I have also observed that "old money" individuals are business oriented, friendships and partnerships are hardly ever without business commodity. Every relationship is purposeful and serve the family "empire". It is to ensure generational growth and preservation. I read in the comments someone calling these people "psychopaths", which is horrible. I believe there are bad apples in every social group. I've met rude, disingenuous, selfish and snobby people, but I have also met lovely, genuine, kind, helpful, interesting and inspiring individuals in this realm too.
Well said! Thanks for viewing and commenting
"It is not simply a trend, it is a lifestyle.“
- How could multi-generational, dynastic wealth at all be a "trend“ ?
So many people are jealous of “Old money” types and want to ruin them under the guise of “e q u a l i t y”.
@@kulturfreund6631 I may be wrong but it's possibly because some people Play at it, trying to 'fit in'. But lack the ground work to build their income into long term Wealth. We are all born with a form of Wealth - that being our Time. What we do with that Time and the products of that Time will either help or harm our future and our family's future.
@@happygardener28 What we do with that time will produce varying results depending on the family we are born into and what they chose to do with their time and the products of it. Most who are born into an "old money" family are taught how to manage their time and wealth.
Old money manners are really just good manners that most have forgotten over the centuries.
That. May. Be. But. In. Ireland a. Gentleman. Parts, with. His. Last. Penny.......
Voila! this is what our upbringing teaches us.. politeness is an easy and useful manner.
Well said.
I was a major gift fundraiser, part of the genteel poor but constantly in the presence of wealth. A good part of my career was in Texas where a wealthy person might refer to his or her "farm." It was not a farm in any sense one might normally associate with farm life. And along that line, if you happened to be invited to the "farm," don't expect a show entrance to the property. On the contrary, the more discreet the entrance, the wealthier the owners.
Here in New Zealand its the Bach and if it's that person is from Auckland the batch is a huge house with all mod cons not a basic hut!😀 and I have heard term Farm used that's originally a term used in England!
2) My grandfather lived long ago, was a teacher, and married an elementary school teacher, and he became superintendent of schools in his little area. But Dad always said he afmired how his Dad could talk warmly and friendly with anyone. I would wish this for everyone.
Essentially Old Money people don’t try to attract attention to themselves. In contrast, New Money types want to let everyone know how successful they are with attention-seeking behavior and status symbols in everything.
True and in this respect they're exhausting. Old money will accept you for who you are so long as you don't try to mislead them.
Harry and MM are temporarily nouveau riche
PUT YOUR FAITH AND TRUST IN JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS ON WHICH HE SHED HIS BLOOD FOR OUR FORGIVENESS OF SINS AND HEALING BECAUSE YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN TO HAVE GOD'S TRUE FORGIVENESS OF SIN and TRUE HEALING and TRUE PEACE and TRUE REST FOR YOUR SOUL AND TRUST AND BELIEVE IN HIS RESURRECTION BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST BY WHICH HE ROSE AGAIN TO GIVE US HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND IN HIS ASCENSION TO THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD OUR FATHER AFTER WHICH HE SENT THE HOLY SPIRIT TO US YOU AND ME DID WE MAY ALL BE ABLE TO BELIEVE AND TRUST AND KNOW THAT GOD IS TRUE AND REAL AND EXISTS AND BE BORN AGAIN BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST WHO CONVICTS US OF OUR SINS END OF THE JUDGMENT OF THE WORLD AND THE RIGHTEOUSNESS WHICH IS IN CHRIST JESUS OUR LORD FOR IT IS ONLY THROUGH THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS (NOT OUR OWN WORKS BUT HIS) THAT WE CAN
EVEN BE MADE RIGHTEOUS AT ALL BEFORE GOD THE FATHER FOR OUR SINS ARE MANY BUT GOD RICH IN MERCY SENT HIS SON JESUS CHRIST WHO IS GOD HIMSELF IN HUMAN FORM YET WITHOUT SIN TO BE THE PERFECT SACRIFICE FOR OUR SINS TO TAKE THE PUNISHMENT THAT WE DESERVED FOR OUR SINS UPON HIMSELF SO THAT WE COULD BE FORGIVEN AND BE SPARED GOD'S WRATH FOR OUR SINS AND INSTEAD BE JUSTIFIED BEFORE GOD AND HAVE HIS SALVATION AND HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND NO LONGER FEAR THE STING OF DEATH AND FEAR GOING TO HELL BUT INSTEAD REMAIN AT REST IN GOD THROUGH CHRIST BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH ABIDING GOD'S TRUE REST AND TRUE PEACE WHICH SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING AND IN GOD'S THE FULL OF ASSURANCE OF SALVATION KNOWING THAT WE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE (AND THOUGH OUR FLESHLY BODIES WON'T LAST FOREVER) OUR SOULS WILL GO ON AND LIVE FOREVER AND GO TO HEAVEN TO BE HOME WITH GOD OUR FATHER AND NOT DIE AND GO TO HELL FOR OUR
SINS FOR FOR WE WHO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST AND BELIEVE INTO JESUS CHRIST THE ROCK OF OUR SALVATION OUR TRUE SAVIOR, AND LORD, AND OUR TRUE HUSBAND, HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN OF ALL OUR SINS PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE IN JESUS CHRIST BY THE BLOOD OF CHRIST AND WE KNOW THIS BY HIS HOLY SPIRIT WHOM HE GOD HAS GIVEN US AS A SEAL AND TESTIMONY TO TESTIFY TO US THAT WE BELONG TO CHRIST AND ARE SAVED IN CHRIST JESUS BY THE POWER OF HIS BLOOD WHICH HE SHED FOR US UPON HIS CROSS IN JESUS NAME I DECLARE THIS OVER YOU AMEN! AMEN! HALLELUJAH! PRAISE GOD!
@@deborahcurtis1385PUT YOUR FAITH AND TRUST IN JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS ON WHICH HE SHED HIS BLOOD FOR OUR FORGIVENESS OF SINS AND HEALING BECAUSE YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN TO HAVE GOD'S TRUE FORGIVENESS OF SIN and TRUE HEALING and TRUE PEACE and TRUE REST FOR YOUR SOUL AND TRUST AND BELIEVE IN HIS RESURRECTION BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST BY WHICH HE ROSE AGAIN TO GIVE US HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND IN HIS ASCENSION TO THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD OUR FATHER AFTER WHICH HE SENT THE HOLY SPIRIT TO US YOU AND ME DID WE MAY ALL BE ABLE TO BELIEVE AND TRUST AND KNOW THAT GOD IS TRUE AND REAL AND EXISTS AND BE BORN AGAIN BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST WHO CONVICTS US OF OUR SINS END OF THE JUDGMENT OF THE WORLD AND THE RIGHTEOUSNESS WHICH IS IN CHRIST JESUS OUR LORD FOR IT IS ONLY THROUGH THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS (NOT OUR OWN WORKS BUT HIS) THAT WE CAN
EVEN BE MADE RIGHTEOUS AT ALL BEFORE GOD THE FATHER FOR OUR SINS ARE MANY BUT GOD RICH IN MERCY SENT HIS SON JESUS CHRIST WHO IS GOD HIMSELF IN HUMAN FORM YET WITHOUT SIN TO BE THE PERFECT SACRIFICE FOR OUR SINS TO TAKE THE PUNISHMENT THAT WE DESERVED FOR OUR SINS UPON HIMSELF SO THAT WE COULD BE FORGIVEN AND BE SPARED GOD'S WRATH FOR OUR SINS AND INSTEAD BE JUSTIFIED BEFORE GOD AND HAVE HIS SALVATION AND HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND NO LONGER FEAR THE STING OF DEATH AND FEAR GOING TO HELL BUT INSTEAD REMAIN AT REST IN GOD THROUGH CHRIST BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH ABIDING GOD'S TRUE REST AND TRUE PEACE WHICH SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING AND IN GOD'S THE FULL OF ASSURANCE OF SALVATION KNOWING THAT WE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE (AND THOUGH OUR FLESHLY BODIES WON'T LAST FOREVER) OUR SOULS WILL GO ON AND LIVE FOREVER AND GO TO HEAVEN TO BE HOME WITH GOD OUR FATHER AND NOT DIE AND GO TO HELL FOR OUR
SINS FOR FOR WE WHO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST AND BELIEVE INTO JESUS CHRIST THE ROCK OF OUR SALVATION OUR TRUE SAVIOR, AND LORD, AND OUR TRUE HUSBAND, HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN OF ALL OUR SINS PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE IN JESUS CHRIST BY THE BLOOD OF CHRIST AND WE KNOW THIS BY HIS HOLY SPIRIT WHOM HE GOD HAS GIVEN US AS A SEAL AND TESTIMONY TO TESTIFY TO US THAT WE BELONG TO CHRIST AND ARE SAVED IN CHRIST JESUS BY THE POWER OF HIS BLOOD WHICH HE SHED FOR US UPON HIS CROSS IN JESUS NAME I DECLARE THIS OVER YOU AMEN! AMEN! HALLELUJAH! PRAISE GOD!
@@Linda23750PUT YOUR FAITH AND TRUST IN JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS ON WHICH HE SHED HIS BLOOD FOR OUR FORGIVENESS OF SINS AND HEALING BECAUSE YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN TO HAVE GOD'S TRUE FORGIVENESS OF SIN and TRUE HEALING and TRUE PEACE and TRUE REST FOR YOUR SOUL AND TRUST AND BELIEVE IN HIS RESURRECTION BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST BY WHICH HE ROSE AGAIN TO GIVE US HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND IN HIS ASCENSION TO THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD OUR FATHER AFTER WHICH HE SENT THE HOLY SPIRIT TO US YOU AND ME DID WE MAY ALL BE ABLE TO BELIEVE AND TRUST AND KNOW THAT GOD IS TRUE AND REAL AND EXISTS AND BE BORN AGAIN BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST WHO CONVICTS US OF OUR SINS END OF THE JUDGMENT OF THE WORLD AND THE RIGHTEOUSNESS WHICH IS IN CHRIST JESUS OUR LORD FOR IT IS ONLY THROUGH THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS (NOT OUR OWN WORKS BUT HIS) THAT WE CAN
EVEN BE MADE RIGHTEOUS AT ALL BEFORE GOD THE FATHER FOR OUR SINS ARE MANY BUT GOD RICH IN MERCY SENT HIS SON JESUS CHRIST WHO IS GOD HIMSELF IN HUMAN FORM YET WITHOUT SIN TO BE THE PERFECT SACRIFICE FOR OUR SINS TO TAKE THE PUNISHMENT THAT WE DESERVED FOR OUR SINS UPON HIMSELF SO THAT WE COULD BE FORGIVEN AND BE SPARED GOD'S WRATH FOR OUR SINS AND INSTEAD BE JUSTIFIED BEFORE GOD AND HAVE HIS SALVATION AND HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND NO LONGER FEAR THE STING OF DEATH AND FEAR GOING TO HELL BUT INSTEAD REMAIN AT REST IN GOD THROUGH CHRIST BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH ABIDING GOD'S TRUE REST AND TRUE PEACE WHICH SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING AND IN GOD'S THE FULL OF ASSURANCE OF SALVATION KNOWING THAT WE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE (AND THOUGH OUR FLESHLY BODIES WON'T LAST FOREVER) OUR SOULS WILL GO ON AND LIVE FOREVER AND GO TO HEAVEN TO BE HOME WITH GOD OUR FATHER AND NOT DIE AND GO TO HELL FOR OUR
SINS FOR FOR WE WHO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST AND BELIEVE INTO JESUS CHRIST THE ROCK OF OUR SALVATION OUR TRUE SAVIOR, AND LORD, AND OUR TRUE HUSBAND, HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN OF ALL OUR SINS PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE IN JESUS CHRIST BY THE BLOOD OF CHRIST AND WE KNOW THIS BY HIS HOLY SPIRIT WHOM HE GOD HAS GIVEN US AS A SEAL AND TESTIMONY TO TESTIFY TO US THAT WE BELONG TO CHRIST AND ARE SAVED IN CHRIST JESUS BY THE POWER OF HIS BLOOD WHICH HE SHED FOR US UPON HIS CROSS IN JESUS NAME I DECLARE THIS OVER YOU AMEN! AMEN! HALLELUJAH! PRAISE GOD!
I love the advice of "treat all guests as though they are valuable additions." I think I already do this, but will be sure to ensure people who come to my home are made to feel welcome and valued.
So simple, yet so powerful!
Great move .. a guest is of course treated like a golden invitee that’s why he/ she is invited
my family is relatively old money and I decided to check this out to see if my family said this. I was actually shocked because as I was watching the first part my aunt asked if this year we should "summer" in the vineyard lmaoo
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Dear Old Money Luxury, I just have to say you are so beautifully marvelous for bringing dissimilar classes together to chat and thus helping with misconceptions.
Good point!❤
Indeed a genuine interest in "old money citizens" is a starter..
The richest person I ever knew (worth over $200 million) drove a 20 year old Buick.
When you can afford any car you might want, you drive the one you actually like. They also tend not to bother about the state of the vehicle, muddy dogs etc. allowed.
No need to show off
@nataliaweatherbie2661 especially don't show off to kidnappers.
That's coz THEY were RELIABLE and well built cars.
One of the primary investors of an airline my father worked for drove an old Jeep Wagoneer everyone referred to as "the bomb". Looked like a bomb had hit it and it backfired every time he started it. Family net worth $5 billion+.
The elements of the video that I find of practical value are: etiquette, (like the graceful exit, introductions, questioning without revealing). Code words are impractical for most people and will sound pretentious when used in the wrong context (which is most of the time). Old money aren't the only group who have hidden language and behaviors, college educated upper middle class North Americans have these as well. They can tell a lot about each other from simple conversations without asking personal questions.
That's a good summary of "education". Every education system I heard about, teaches you how to be a member of your society and class.
You learn the facts cherished by your society and the related narratives, you learn how bosses should and will behave (you only call them teachers), you learn the correct way and language to ask and answer and the right things to be able to do-
If someone can cite the same poems or dissected like you animals, it makes them faster part of your group as money. But it also seperates them faster from you as simple lack of money.
True, and by not asking personal questions or intrusive questioning you are assumed to be well bred
. Which you are.
It's basic yet people do it, imagining that having money alone gives them the right. No. It. Does. Not.
Making personal remarks is a real howler it's utterly to be avoided.
The essence of good manners is to never make anyone feel uncomfortable.
Uh
That can be said for any "group" - professional, social, cultural. An overview of other secret languages would demonstrate the variety in our society
@@margaretsomerville2510 Professionals use jargon that is specific to their line of work. Cultural groups sometimes share the same accent. Social groups are more interesting to me because there are so many subtle cues that people pretending to be part of that group will miss or not understand
My family had some money four generations ago. We are middle class now but the phrases and ways haven’t left us. I was shocked to see the phrases and behaviour. Even though we aren’t wealthy, the mindset and behaviour hasn’t changed even after a century or so. I found this relatable. Also, I am not from an English speaking country but the phrases are similar in my language.
Same here.
I am Puerto Rican. And my grandmother and her 5 sisters all speak like this.
what happened ?
I hear you! 😉
As a family we "summered" at a caravan (trailer) in Cornwall! And when we "summered" in Benidorm (in Spain!) we "bumped into" Dave at the Three Lions British Pub!
Haha, Summered in Magaluf, innit!
We summered at Coney Island. We dined on a delicious repast made by Mama and packed by Mama in a charming non-ostentatious paper bag.
We returned to our summer cottage near The Gowanus Canal at the end of the day.
How merry we were
I have seen brief glympses of that society... I'm from Cape Cod. My father worked as a groundskeeper doing work on several estates...Visiting the Islands I had vivid glimpses of that society. Even crewed on one of their yachts. Decent enough people. however there was always an invisible curtain there you could feel... An attitude of entitlement...
That's coz you're the employee, not one of them. I get the feeling they play boss almost as a part of their personality.
Old Money people don’t look down on people that aren’t rich, only on those who are pretentious and trying to give the impression of more wealth than they really have. I once met a couple who bought a new Porsche to “fit in”, but it bankrupted them, they couldn’t even afford the rent of their apartment.
Totally agree. It's new money that looks judgmentally down on pretentious new money. Old money simply ignore pretentious people regardless of how much money they do or don't have.
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I'm afraid some of them absolutely do, privately.
PUT YOUR FAITH AND TRUST IN JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS ON WHICH HE SHED HIS BLOOD FOR OUR FORGIVENESS OF SINS AND HEALING BECAUSE YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN TO HAVE GOD'S TRUE FORGIVENESS OF SIN and TRUE HEALING and TRUE PEACE and TRUE REST FOR YOUR SOUL AND TRUST AND BELIEVE IN HIS RESURRECTION BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST BY WHICH HE ROSE AGAIN TO GIVE US HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND IN HIS ASCENSION TO THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD OUR FATHER AFTER WHICH HE SENT THE HOLY SPIRIT TO US YOU AND ME DID WE MAY ALL BE ABLE TO BELIEVE AND TRUST AND KNOW THAT GOD IS TRUE AND REAL AND EXISTS AND BE BORN AGAIN BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST WHO CONVICTS US OF OUR SINS END OF THE JUDGMENT OF THE WORLD AND THE RIGHTEOUSNESS WHICH IS IN CHRIST JESUS OUR LORD FOR IT IS ONLY THROUGH THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS (NOT OUR OWN WORKS BUT HIS) THAT WE CAN
EVEN BE MADE RIGHTEOUS AT ALL BEFORE GOD THE FATHER FOR OUR SINS ARE MANY BUT GOD RICH IN MERCY SENT HIS SON JESUS CHRIST WHO IS GOD HIMSELF IN HUMAN FORM YET WITHOUT SIN TO BE THE PERFECT SACRIFICE FOR OUR SINS TO TAKE THE PUNISHMENT THAT WE DESERVED FOR OUR SINS UPON HIMSELF SO THAT WE COULD BE FORGIVEN AND BE SPARED GOD'S WRATH FOR OUR SINS AND INSTEAD BE JUSTIFIED BEFORE GOD AND HAVE HIS SALVATION AND HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND NO LONGER FEAR THE STING OF DEATH AND FEAR GOING TO HELL BUT INSTEAD REMAIN AT REST IN GOD THROUGH CHRIST BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH ABIDING GOD'S TRUE REST AND TRUE PEACE WHICH SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING AND IN GOD'S THE FULL OF ASSURANCE OF SALVATION KNOWING THAT WE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE (AND THOUGH OUR FLESHLY BODIES WON'T LAST FOREVER) OUR SOULS WILL GO ON AND LIVE FOREVER AND GO TO HEAVEN TO BE HOME WITH GOD OUR FATHER AND NOT DIE AND GO TO HELL FOR OUR
SINS FOR FOR WE WHO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST AND BELIEVE INTO JESUS CHRIST THE ROCK OF OUR SALVATION OUR TRUE SAVIOR, AND LORD, AND OUR TRUE HUSBAND, HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN OF ALL OUR SINS PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE IN JESUS CHRIST BY THE BLOOD OF CHRIST AND WE KNOW THIS BY HIS HOLY SPIRIT WHOM HE GOD HAS GIVEN US AS A SEAL AND TESTIMONY TO TESTIFY TO US THAT WE BELONG TO CHRIST AND ARE SAVED IN CHRIST JESUS BY THE POWER OF HIS BLOOD WHICH HE SHED FOR US UPON HIS CROSS IN JESUS NAME I DECLARE THIS OVER YOU AMEN! AMEN! HALLELUJAH! PRAISE GOD!
@@sballantine8127PUT YOUR FAITH AND TRUST IN JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS ON WHICH HE SHED HIS BLOOD FOR OUR FORGIVENESS OF SINS AND HEALING BECAUSE YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN TO HAVE GOD'S TRUE FORGIVENESS OF SIN and TRUE HEALING and TRUE PEACE and TRUE REST FOR YOUR SOUL AND TRUST AND BELIEVE IN HIS RESURRECTION BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST BY WHICH HE ROSE AGAIN TO GIVE US HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND IN HIS ASCENSION TO THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD OUR FATHER AFTER WHICH HE SENT THE HOLY SPIRIT TO US YOU AND ME DID WE MAY ALL BE ABLE TO BELIEVE AND TRUST AND KNOW THAT GOD IS TRUE AND REAL AND EXISTS AND BE BORN AGAIN BY THE POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST WHO CONVICTS US OF OUR SINS END OF THE JUDGMENT OF THE WORLD AND THE RIGHTEOUSNESS WHICH IS IN CHRIST JESUS OUR LORD FOR IT IS ONLY THROUGH THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND HIS FINISHED WORK UPON THE CROSS (NOT OUR OWN WORKS BUT HIS) THAT WE CAN
EVEN BE MADE RIGHTEOUS AT ALL BEFORE GOD THE FATHER FOR OUR SINS ARE MANY BUT GOD RICH IN MERCY SENT HIS SON JESUS CHRIST WHO IS GOD HIMSELF IN HUMAN FORM YET WITHOUT SIN TO BE THE PERFECT SACRIFICE FOR OUR SINS TO TAKE THE PUNISHMENT THAT WE DESERVED FOR OUR SINS UPON HIMSELF SO THAT WE COULD BE FORGIVEN AND BE SPARED GOD'S WRATH FOR OUR SINS AND INSTEAD BE JUSTIFIED BEFORE GOD AND HAVE HIS SALVATION AND HIS ETERNAL EVERLASTING LIFE AND NO LONGER FEAR THE STING OF DEATH AND FEAR GOING TO HELL BUT INSTEAD REMAIN AT REST IN GOD THROUGH CHRIST BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH ABIDING GOD'S TRUE REST AND TRUE PEACE WHICH SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING AND IN GOD'S THE FULL OF ASSURANCE OF SALVATION KNOWING THAT WE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE (AND THOUGH OUR FLESHLY BODIES WON'T LAST FOREVER) OUR SOULS WILL GO ON AND LIVE FOREVER AND GO TO HEAVEN TO BE HOME WITH GOD OUR FATHER AND NOT DIE AND GO TO HELL FOR OUR
SINS FOR FOR WE WHO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST AND BELIEVE INTO JESUS CHRIST THE ROCK OF OUR SALVATION OUR TRUE SAVIOR, AND LORD, AND OUR TRUE HUSBAND, HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN OF ALL OUR SINS PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE IN JESUS CHRIST BY THE BLOOD OF CHRIST AND WE KNOW THIS BY HIS HOLY SPIRIT WHOM HE GOD HAS GIVEN US AS A SEAL AND TESTIMONY TO TESTIFY TO US THAT WE BELONG TO CHRIST AND ARE SAVED IN CHRIST JESUS BY THE POWER OF HIS BLOOD WHICH HE SHED FOR US UPON HIS CROSS IN JESUS NAME I DECLARE THIS OVER YOU AMEN! AMEN! HALLELUJAH! PRAISE GOD!
This channel is worth its weight in gold. Abundant in useful information, thank you for making these videos.
Our pleasure!
Fascinating! I work for affluent people, they are far from old money, but the one thing I noticed right away is how kind and eager they are to make me feel welcome and comfortable.I've never once felt less than around them. Perhaps proper manners, and etiquette are valued at higher income levels.
Absolutely, the worst faux pas you can make someone feel uncomfortable...but I've noticed new rich can be very mean and only interested in status contests and competition.
actually they're valued at any social class, I've found..
When we were in Walmart…
When we were in Costco…
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Good one!
lol... yes i saw them at the Dollar store that's why it's old money because they're careful how much they spend. True.
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Watching this video highlights for me how much I picked up going to an Ivy League college without even realizing it. Also that one girl who came to class in a fur coat was gauche. You couldn't tell the wealthiest students by such outward displays as fur in a classroom. But the quality of materials used in whatever they wore was top notch. And of course, there were 2 bespoke designer shops on campus. Traveling extensively, constantly thinking of connecting anyone to anyone if you meaningfully can, having parties filled with interesting, accomplished people, with each of them also creating and facilitating connections, well I never thought of this as about legacy wealth. It's just what one does because why not? Life is better this way.
One thing you left out though is the downside. I recall how much stress my wealthiest friends were under. Their parents were very controlling and often critical. There's a lot more to what is considered 'etiquette' than these sorts of things in this video. As a sort of guest in that world, I didn't have to deal with any of that downside, other than knowing there was a line for me at marriage past which I was not allowed in.
You caught my curiosity when you said "there was a line for me at marriage past which I was not allowed in." Does it mean you are no longer welcomed to be a guest to their social functions after you get married?
@@cuprum166 no, I mean I was embraced as an event guest, even private dinner guest, but never was it acceptable for any of them to marry me. I married another wealth adjacent person, a bond fund manager. We're the high tier 'help' that they can also socialize with.
I had a lady friend who always wore a fur coat everywhere because of her skin allergy to synthetic fibers. People are so prejudiced. It's all about posture and attitude. I'm often accused of having my nose stuck up in the air. I don't know.
I too have been accused of being a snob, but in my case I was just bad at recognising faces.
You are right. I used to talk to a male friend from the South whose family is Old Money (late 1600's). His father was putting so much pressure on him to join him in business pursuits and to marry a certain young lady in whom he was not interested. My friend was really suffering and was losing sleep because he didn't want to disappoint his father and family and yet, he wanted to do something entirely different. I'm glad I never faced that kind of pressure.
It's easier to break in than you might think. I've been invited at least twice that I can think of off the top of my head and believe me I am not in that class. They're actually very generous in inviting people if you have any class at all.
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Where do you meet old money?
@ahmedalnumairi3498 I've never really planned it. If you're the kind of person that works to better yourself, are careful with the kind of person you run with..take care to be a quality person..I tend to think your chances of crossing paths increase.
I prefer the term "polish" to class...the latter has been so overused/abused.
@@cynthiaclark8050 Yes I loathe the use of the term 'classy' because it denotes quite the opposite by the person using the term. It's horrible as a term. You either have good taste or you do not, but it can be developed. It's also down to style and flair. Too much good taste is suffocating. Good grooming is far more important than what you are wearing by and large. You can wear something quite modest and understated but if your hair isn't taken care of, nails dirty etc shoes unpolished, clothes dirty or pilled, it's all for nothing. It says something about your personal standards and that's what it's about, not so much what you have. The really worthwhile people are bored by ostentatious displays they want to know who you are but they also don't want to have to manage you.
I remember one scene in Downton Abbey when the Dowager Countess inquired, what is a weekend
More like, "What is a week (perhaps "weak" to her) end?"
A Friday to Sunday….. weekend was never used by the upper classes
@@cato1684 Yeah they don’t need a dedicated weekend, their whole lives are one continuous weekend
I dont know anyone like these people, and, what I gather from this video is, I never will. I do like the ettiquette suggestions and those are things we can all practice each and every day.
One of my clients/friends has a Men's skincare line. She constantly introduces me to people. Another client/friend designs beautiful floral arrangements for high profile events. He to graciously introduced me to his clients and I get new business. Thanks for your informative videos!
Thanks for sharing!!
And his clients get the services/commodities that you provide. That's how it works, it's all about making connections.
Parts of that were more accurate than others. I enjoyed the company of a family with multi-generational wealth accumulated over centuries and international fame. In social interactions, they were meticulously courteous to everyone without exception...kind and engaging. Yes, when they hosted, all guests were carefully vetted to be sure that they would enjoy themselves, share interests with other guests, etc. That was much more important than their financial means. The cardinal sin was even subtle discourtesy. If you "rescue" a host or hostess, the one doing the task must be able to substitute himself or someone who accompanied him for the host/hostess. A guest must never be felt to have been abandoned or to be in the least unwelcome. Bottom line: It's all about good manners and that has nothing to do with wealth. Oh, and then there's the art of the thank-you note.
My favorite comment so far.
I agree wholeheartedly. It’s not about wealth but rather about manners and grace.
I do not understand that people use manners, good taste for good things and the desire to live a full life as a trend. This should be practically an obligation... something innate in the human being. Want a good life for you and your family. I love your videos, they are made with great pleasure 💖 and common sense
Thanks Barbarah! Cheers
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I agree, why wouldn’t you want the best life possible?
Minimizing wearing logos, being bilingual (or more), and participating Insert and sports are key. Riding, sailing, field hockey, and sking come to mind.
This. Riding, skiing and sailing and places I've lived also golf. Thankfully I enjoy 2 of those things. Also, yes, all that travel from young ages means they'll generally be fluent in several languages.
"Participating insert"?
One thing old money always forgets is that they are born luckier, not better than the rest of humanity.
Nonsense, you can't generalise like that
This compliment isn't meant to come across as 'back handed', that being said this channel is way more intelligent than I was expecting.
Meticulously crafted etiquette=kind, warm, gracious manners
I agree that it is a mindset! It's fundamental to the success of human beings, we are social creatures who cannot accomplish much alone.
It's called "habitus" in sociology AND every social class has one of its own... In this instance, I will add that you definitely need to put something on the table - beyond expected behaviours - to be one of "them".
Yes, and to not be perceived as someone who just wants to take. Wealthy people are constantly hounded by others who want something from them. Perhaps this is partly the reason why they prefer the company of their peers who only want the pleasure of their company?
Well, we don’t have a cottage but we do own a 3 story beachfront home on the Pacific Coast.😊. Only social climbers and people trying to impress others care about this stuff anymore. Just be nice and treat everyone the way you’d like to be treated. You can’t take anything with you when you die.
I, and my family are only too familiar with "Old Poverty". In Europe and Britain successive governments have stripped most old families of money and lands more than once over several hundred years.
@@cuprum166 what does this mean bro
@@AS-ri1mb Inheritance taxes in some European countries are pretty brutal.
@@maryokeefe5351 Nah I was talking to the guy with the shouting emoji. Believe me, I know how brutal it is lol.
Disgusting. I’m so sorry to hear that.
The rich who ghettoize the world around them and then complain about it are the worst ppl on earth!
I don’t find the graceful exit very graceful. Usually, it feels quite rude and condescending as if indirectly saying you’re not good enough or are not up to par. It’s not hard to catch on that it’s a form of rejection. Someone is basically running away from you.
It’s a useful skill. Certainly you have been at a cocktail party and had multiple people you needed to speak to? Being able to gracefully exit is a respectful way of managing to speak with everyone
Yes but this happens at parties anyway, surely? You cannot talk to the same person all night, one of you must make your excuses and circulate! Or you can find yourself the centre of fun but that isn't always the entire night. It's usually 'I must get another drink', or 'excuse me but I need to catch up with an old friend'. Excusing yourself is polite and people know not to take it personally, just smile and make it easier for them. They will remember you for being good natured about it.
Some of the 'old money' people are humane and graceful, they can exit any conversation with charm, others use the so called 'graceful exit' strategy not so gracefully in order to put you in your place. Not hard to guess which of these belong to 'old money'.
Another thing with the wealthy is that they have a fast pace about themselves. They don’t waste time moving around like a snail…they are always ON IT. You have to be able to keep up 😂❤
Great video …keep it coming.
I’d like to know how the wealthy use discretion in ALL THINGS. Similar to how they avoid the public eye and move behind the scenes. One things for sure, they like to live a very PRIVATE LIFE❤
Yeah.. private schools, private parties..
Many if not most "Old Money" institutions (including in that term the legacy families) are built on generations of people being "Land Rich,money poor".
The crux of the difference between old and new money personalities is the "maintain,nourish and build" mindset.
Old Money Family that acts like New Money are quickly DE-prioritized& often end up losing their inherited legacy because of their overall trivial, frivolous,petty & selfish attitude.
Absolutely!
The land rich cash poor still pay for their kids to go expensive schools though!
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Yah, it‘s just a reflection of the proportions, like 10 billion in real estate but only 100 million in liquid assets and cash.
@@kulturfreund6631 yes, but 1 billion in cash, wisely and prudently invested can easily yield $30m - $50m a year much of it tax free. Most people can live comfortably on that yearly income, including expensive private schools. In the old days Land was owned because it produced wealth through tenant farms and agriculture. That time has passed (unless you are King Charles). Now there are numerous ways for your cash to make money away from land ownership. Unless of course your land yields a commodity like oil, gold, diamonds, or cobalt, etc. For example, we purchased several mica mines a few years ago, they produce some limited wealth. But finally there is nothing like good old US treasury bonds, assuming of course that you are a U.S. citizen and therefore benefit from the tax savings.
@@mooshway2000 A lot of the "luck" people outside of the old money culture notice has to do with connections. But, it's not in some evil secret society way as it is portrayed in media for entertainment Old Money parents often descend from generations of "poor" generally seen as comparatively "unimpressive" legacies who as part of their unique family culture, the Old Money family is actually very proud of and dedicated to honoring their legacy. For example, farmers who owned and lovingly donated the land the school is built on or their ancestor even was a mason and helped build the school with their bare hands, etc. That inherited right to the institution determines if their child attends. The more romanticized version on TV and movies isn't very accurate. Sometimes a student included in old money circles is the child of generations of loyal gardeners for the family. Old Money culture isn't inherently more lucky or exclusive or corrupt than other cultures. It is very much about established good will. Honesty loyalty and hard work are put above self expression or melodrama. Emotions and mistakes are planned out to be prevented, not used as trauma bonds and excuses to waist hard earned savings /resources.
Conversation is warfare collecting intelligence from the other person. I used to be quite open about my background and interests, until I determined that most people used this information as weapons against me. Now, when in a conversational setting, I am very careful about giving out information about my background and activities. I purposely will be vague and neutral, because often, if I speak from the heart when meeting new or casual people, especially high-class people, I feel like an strange insect being analyzed by a biologist, and as something less than human. So, despite my fascinating past, I steer conversation on the present circumstance, and possibly some aspects of future endeavor.
I remember a French movie about 18th century humor in the Palace, something to do with ridicule. It contrasted the Brit friendlier humor of that time.
In school it was: "What does your father do?"
@@user-ef1sl4yl9e the film itself was called 'Ridicule'
It's best to think of it like an old, isolated village where everyone born there knows the customs and dialect. You can try to fit in but you'll always be a outsider unless you're from there.
What a wonderful video. It remembers me as I was in service in a very wealthy house, here, in Germany. It was a hard time, but, I learned very much.
Now, I am on my way to a wealthy live.
I am deeply thankful for these experiences.
Greetings to all here,
Alex
Thank you so much Alex 🇩🇪
I found a wheat penny from 1946!
I finally have old money!!!
In Michigan they call their huge house out on the lake "camp." Joking that they are "roughin it at the camp."
New money needs to work, and old money don’t
You forgot prep school! Mentioning that one went to Groton, Le Rosey, or Choate implies that all present attended boarding school.
My favorite “ cottages “ are in Newport!
Good one!😅
Yes, I have been in the company of people who ask subtle questions, quite possibly to determine what my net worth might be. Recently, I was a guest at a vacation home, when the hostess asked if I had a second home. I simply replied, “no”, I did not want to reveal too much information.
The fact of the matter is that some of my closest friends have second east coast homes, at the beach or in the mountains, and I spend time visiting with them, enjoying some wonderful celebrations.🎉 Old Money people often maintain and value relationships with trustworthy friends.
Well said!
My answer to that because it’s true is that I don’t want a second home because I’d rather not be tied to going to the same place all of the time and would rather four star my holidays in different countries with room service.
@@LlyleHunter Actually, I enjoy staying at nice hotels, and it is nice when you are greeted by pleasant staff members who remember you.
Friends to enjoy similar things with are a pleasure. The truest friends will be there when a crisis strikes, not just for cocktails. Conversation can be deep or shallow....maybe depending on the cocktails....
...or maybe the cocktails can be deep or shallow depending on the conversation?
Old money is not just wealth, but a code that those who try to imitate it will never crack.
Yes. I recall a classmate who, by misfortune, then had very modest financial means. However, his place in "old money" society was never jeopardized. He was treated as though nothing had changed but he was never expected to keep up financially. He was treated with respect and still with great affection by others in that social group.
A male companion always spoke of the South of France. Another male friend from a Japanese clan has all the requirements mentioned above. He is so understated that it was astonishing to lean of his family’s amazing wealth.
I appreciate that you have more than one race in your exquisite presentations. I await the next.
People of like thinking influence others within their group, regardless of money, age, color, culture, spiritual participation or belief, birth location, or sex. The “old money” community have an agreed upon code of conduct and thinking. They live the code, especially in public.
I was reared by my Victorian era grandmother whose adminishments were for "decorum", "be dignified" and "show good form". Mine was an "old southern family", however after the Depression "old money" had vaporized.
I find that’s been the most vicious form of social chaos and control in US history
Capitalism orchestrated depressions
All these terms I seen when I bumped into some of guys years later who attended with me an exclusive boarding school in New Zealand!
Old money don’t use the word vacation is because they don’t work. You only need vacation if you have a job. With so much generational wealth, they leisure
The thoughts here are accurate… though I will say that the idea of “treat everyone as if they are valuable additions” extends beyond guests at a social event. My grandfather, who was the oldest of “old money” that exists in the United States always taught me to treat everyone as if they were special. The janitor and the secretary are as important to an organization as the CEO and, if you want to open a locked door or know who is working on what, those are the folks who have the power. His family lost much of their wealth in the depression, but when that man walked into a diner, the waitresses would fall over themselves to seat him and when he went to a gas station he would have several attendants washing the windows and checking the oil. He’s been gone 30 years now, but the lessons remain.
I once had a professor in Minnesota who married a wealthy woman from Connecticut. He said that on the East Coast they would often go to elaborate social gatherings because his wife was from an "old money" or established family. However, when he would brag to his college students that he married into wealth, many of the students would get angry or upset. I told him that in the Midwest many people roll up their sleeves to help others and don't like accusations of wealth rubbed in their faces. I then told him privately that he should keep it to himself and appreciate his wife with nuanced confidence. He then thanked me for the advice after class. I've been to at least one of his houses. He showed me his Bedlington Terrier that he and his wife entered in dog shows worldwide.
Agreed. I go to high society fancy pants social functions on the East Coast. When I fly to the Midwest for social functions, I pack blue Jens, black jeans, baggy shorts, gray or brown tee shirts, and absolutely none of my designer labels. I keep my mouth shut, or only speak of local sports or local weather. Midwesterners have their prejudices about the East Coast, and even if I tell true stories, they won't believe me and only stick to prejudicial notions proven by Hollywood movies and isolated one day visits.
There's a peculiar loneliness that comes with wealth, it's a burden and a barrier in many ways. It does make life easier in many respects but it 's very difficult to sift through people and there are many betrayals along the way. This is my understanding. Look at Truman Capote, women confided in him because they were basically lonely and he blew it up in his books. The dynamics involved are almost impossibly strong. He simply could not resist the temptations involved and then after his time in the sun, was cast out of high society.
What a magnificent presentation. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you for this video.
Glad it was helpful!
This is such a great video!
Glad you think so!
Me realizing just now I’ve got “old money” traits 🤭
I am replacing vacation for “When We Were In…” when Traveling!
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me too :-)
Loved this, looking forward to more.
Glad you enjoyed it, more to come!
Ironically, both Kate and Leo (on your thumbnail) are very new money. Kate married some very old money, yes, but comes from modest, new money.
DiCaprio actually grew up lower middle class, but rose up the ranks through hard work
@@oldmoneyluxury Yes they're each very aspirational.
@@oldmoneyluxury Right - that's what I meant- his money, now, is new. Kate was upper-middle class and married some very old money! :)
@@oldmoneyluxuryHE is still NOT old money even by American standards and does not pretend to be
25 years ago I supervised a woman who's family had more money than God, mostly in real estate. When she left work, she decided which house to go to and hung out on a yacht on the weekends. I was never invited to any of her parties (I had a funny idea that "work" was more than a place to socialize and I pissed her off with my expectations of her performance) but I'm told they were unbelievable.
She came to work to have somewhere to go every day and be with people. She was nearly worthless as an employee, but she would come into my office when I was gone, pick up my son's picture and stare at it. She eventually married, but it was the most awkward relationship I've ever personally witnessed. She might have been the loneliest person I've ever known.
Very wealthy people tend to be transactional. The loneliest people I've ever met were in college, at University. They hung out together purely because they are from that status, and while they mixed with others they firmly would return to their own groups and never seriously broke out. It was a very self conscious world to occupy.
Etiquette, or good manners, are not just manipulative behaviors. They are fundamentally based on kindness. Introducing someone to another who might be a helpful contact is an act of thoughtfulness. In addition, by giving a little background in an introduction can help the new acquaintances have a handle to start a conversation.
This channel is 100 times deeper and amazing then I harshly judged it to be 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮! It’s simply amazing content
Really good ❤
Thanks 😄
This was a fairly interesting video. You have the "Old Money," the "New Money," and me, the "No Money." To be honest, I get put off by a lot of the rubbish in this video like we "summer" or the "cottage" and the "club." I just live in a 3 bedroom house by myself and enjoy it all.
While working at a private athletic club just a few years ago, two gentlemen sat down for lunch after a match of hand-ball and one of them exclaims in a tone of exasperation, "you just can't find a decent au par for under thirty grand anymore." Hmm, life is so unfair, I thought.
😂😂😂 Love your comedic content. It's hysterical. 😂👍💯
According to this, I was in more than a few situations where 'old money' was generating a fire of questions towards me... Well that's interesting 💭
😂😂😂😂 as an observer I'm delighted. I'm from a very poor origin but I have higher class close friends. These aristocratic maneuvers are indeed present in every social interaction, including the choice of words. You must learn those in order to be seen as one of them, but not to be accepted.
Interesting comment "but not to be accepted" well one isn't in their distinguished financial status" we could expect that there may be an exclusivity" of some friends which may not include everyone.. however if they're your friends, they enjoy your company..
“I went to school in Boston”. And about women. Nowadays, all the daughters of old families got first class education and are professionals. They are no longer full time relation makers like their baby boomer mothers. Perhaps you could consider to tell us some of these interesting comparisons between homemakers and professional women of the old money?
I would be curious what percentage of them run “front businesses” aka businesses that lose money in order to foster connections.
In my experience, old money summer homes have good quality furnishings, but they aren't in the newest styles. The furniture is extremely heavy because it's all real, solid wood and built to last. Everything is good quality, but not ostentatious. The home is not there to impress people.
Wonderful entertaining video anyone with a passion for self improvement in a professional arena to be your charmed best!
thank you for doing the video.
Wow, thank you!
Thank you, really interesting
Glad you enjoyed it!
Very Insightful. Cheers. Keep producing Old Money Videos.😊👍😊☕☕☕☕
More to come!
Awesome. 😊👊😊☕☕☕
As a child, we summered at our shore house. That's always how we said it too. I had friends who summered in Nice and Marbella.
We summered at Somers.
We summered in our trailer park.
(Btw, that’s also where we winter.)
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I summered in villas in Puerto Rico. And I was from Puerto Rico 🤣.
I feel as though I saw the generations of my family go from old money to new money right before my eyes.
By that I mean.
- old money values
- old money education
- old money mannerisms and language
To degrading quality of life, quality of education, quality of language etc
I blame arrogance, ego, ignorance to economic conditions and recession.
They hold themselves with perfect composure and don't let brash or rude behavior rattle them, nor do they stoop to their level, when Meghan Markle was throwing incredible accusations and attacks the RF classic response " Recollections may vary"
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Actually that was the commoner on the ascendency, Kate Middleton. Usually the RF does not respond at all. KM convinced the RF to respond and that statement was hers. It was meant to be conciliatory.
4:50 St Bart have an interesting history, tied to Scandinavia, hence Gustavia.
Legacy and generational wealth last longer than fast and frivolous money!
Based on my personal experience- this video is rather accurate!
My next door neighbor and her family own one of the largest grocery chains in the country, but you'd never know it. They have a lovely home, but built in the 50s. She likes to talk about her childhood on a local farm. Her husband also never forgot where he came from. We had a tree down in a storm - he cut it up with us. When people visit me, they want to know who owns the luxury big box houses (mine being very average), which I find amusing, as these neighbors have an nth of my neighbor next door. At one time my hometown had the highest per capita number of millionaires in the country. Some were old money as could be in this area, and others nouveau riche. It was interesting to observe how people behaved with their wealth. In a hard working, primarily agricultural part of the state, a display of wealth was looked down upon. In business, as we were, decorum was the order of the day.
As Groucho Marx once said "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member."
Interesting, thank you.
Thanks for watching!
Lol, I've always wondered how to escape a bore. Needing a drink refill usually does it.
They're used to this and know what you're doing.
Money talks, wealth whispers
Money talks, wealth whispers, royalty commands respect.
Royals are silent yet loud and worshiped.
Old money is silent since they are most seen in public.
New money is desperately trying to climb up or look down.
This was quite an interesting video. 👍
Glad you enjoyed it!
I summer in Cleveland and winter in Buffalo.
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Yes, in my line of work i have known a few like this. I enjoy people of all calibers but am most comfortable with those assuming goodwill and class. I have a few of these code words and actions myself, but I am tragically poor. :)
WHEN WE WERE IN..Also regularly used by Soul Surfers in Search of the perfect wave, as in…When We Were in Mozambique, theres this small dirt road that you detour 10 min from the Village of …that leads to this perfect right hander,
Ridicule as the new rich 🎉, if you have money, just enjoy and share It 🎉
I don’t have old money upbringing thus lacking experience and common language with those who grew up in generations of being connected and affluent. It is like country club membership. I may have money I earned to join and get accepted as a member but I may forever be an outsider because I came from lower middle class and not an Ivy League graduate.
Exactly. Fitzgerald covered this in The Great Gatsby.
@@ad6417 It's so tedious!
ARE there Lavender fields in St Moritz? Good gracious, I had no idea!
Old is gold
Yes yes yes. Thank you.
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Oh goodness. I've travelled almost constantly the past 5 years, but I always "winter" in San Diego. No wonder I get mistaken for old money.
Is it supposed to be irony that you chose Kate Middleton and Gatsby of all people? They’re both new money, Gatsby is mocked for it even
Yeah, spot on, I had a chance to mingle with those folks as an artist. They seem to have different brains. I felt like it was a play I was acting in. Horrible prison to be in, boring psychopaths
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Well to be honest most people act , they just act a higher level.
I've been around low lifers , affluent people , almost anybody I know acts a bit .
@dimmacommunication yes, for sure but not like these people. You're nothing to them unless you have something to offer.
@@iart2838 I come from a small European town , here historically in smaller places aristocracy and the " people " are somewhat mixed at least regarding to address.
You have 50 k houses near to 7 mln mansions in a matter of a Mile or so.
Popular housing near multi millionaires etc... I've met both part of the spectrum.
Poor people will 99% take advantage of you.
You are from US so you probably are used to hang around based on income , here it'a diversified
@@dimmacommunication Exactly it's called having a persona. I think though that what @iart2838 is referring to, is when people confuse their persona with their identity and don't have an inner life. They lack substance and authenticity. I think that's a fair comment and it's one reason I've rejected those circles. It's sufforcating and they all mix in the same circles. Very narrow. They will however adopt you for a time like having a performing monkey. There are various types though and it's dangerous to oversimplify. But there is a certain heartlessness in them.
Does anyone knows the song that was that was playing at 10:45 ?
Based on the description, I guess, I too, have that mindset less the status.
I’m not sure about some of these, they’re too much like name-dropping, which isn’t classy. For example, saying “our family’s villa on Lake Como”. It’s better to just say something like “when we were in Italy last month…”. Keep it vague and neutral, not show-offish. Let people ask for details, but you don’t have to answer if you don’t want to.
“When we were in…” as a framing is suggested in this video.
However simply saying “Italy” is unlikely from the upper classes. Italy is one of the most visited countries on the planet and many areas in it even the middle classes wouldn’t be caught dead in.
More likely someone of means would specifically say the specific town on Lake Como (since there are many in that area) than simply “Italy”.
In the same way someone wouldn’t say “Our house in Massachusetts…” they would say “Our cottage in Marblehead” (more obscure specific locale). It isn’t name dropping if it’s an obscure place. It’s the assumption that someone is “in the know”
@@oldmoneyluxury Correct. Also using the description 'classy' is NOT good English.
Name-dropping is indeed gauche or awkward.
Funnily enough you aren't allowed to say serviette it's napkin, however my grandmother who was French used serviette and my mother is French so I say serviette. And I say too bad!
You can't slavishly adopt rules or you lose who you are. So I wouldn't be pretentious and try to sound you've been somewhere that you haven't. It's The Amazing Mr Ripley territory and it's not worth it. I get very irritated if I can't be myself.
@@deborahcurtis1385, why are people laser-focused on that word these days? It's like nails on a chalkboard to me. Why can't they say socially appropriate, well-heeled, chic, upper-crust, well-off, select, wealthy, upscale, elegant, affluent, or any of a dozen other more sophisticated options? All I hear when someone says that is Humphrey Bogart playing the part of a mobster, calling some lady a "classy dame".
So true!!! LOL @@dancingrl7350
Our vocabularies are shrinking...@@dancingrl7350