As someone that has been betrayed & experienced infidelity and now have betrayal trauma .... as long as you pray about the person you're dating or going to marry you will be okay. God shows you the red flags in you and them. Make sure you always include God in your relationship the whole time. Don't be afraid to ask ALL the questions, including looking at his socials, search habits, friends, etc. Get dating & marriage counseling! I love my husband but it's a huge mess when you're dealing with this stuff.
wow this video was so needed. Because this is my fear and one of the reasons im afraid of marriage whilr still desiring it. Especially since it seems like men have such a hard time with lust and staying faithful(ofc women do too,but men more so) My parents are in tbe middle of a divorce. My dad cheated throughout the whole marriage. Ive watched so many women in my family cry,breakdown and lose themself over adulterly. It sucks because my mom is only 45 and my dad is 52. I cant imagine having to be celibate and not remarry at those ages. Its still too young. But the bible is clear on remarriage.
@@CeCe-os3ul yes the Bible is clear on remarriage, but we’d need to dig into it when it comes to infidelity. I’m so sorry you’ve had to encounter all these things. You heard our story and we pushed through. We know you can. You still have the desire to marry and God still has the desire to fulfill it for you. So glad you’re honest that way the Lord will help you, strengthen you and give you the tools needed. Blessings friend
As someone that has been betrayed & experienced infidelity and now have betrayal trauma .... as long as you pray about the person you're dating or going to marry you will be okay. God shows you the red flags in you and them. Make sure you always include God in your relationship the whole time. Don't be afraid to ask ALL the questions, including looking at his socials, search habits, friends, etc. Get dating & marriage counseling!
I love my husband but it's a huge mess when you're dealing with this stuff.
@@opinionbytriz wow! Yes yes yes! This is such powerful and true information. Thanks for sharing
The prayer at the end was powerful 🏃🏼♀️➡️🔥!!
@@Daijalean glory to God!
Thank you guys, for discussing such a real topic!! I was literally thinking about this as I am preparing my heart for Marriage.
Blessings! This is so important to realize and a great part of preparation.
10 years Married and Im just getting over this. ❤🙏🏽 This was fantastic.
@@RandommomfromOntario wow! God bless you. Glad this was helpful. Praying that the Lord would continue to heal and restore.
@@DAVIDANDEBORAH Thank you for your encouragment and prayers. Father knows I need them.
@@RandommomfromOntario Glory to God! be encouraged sister.
Thank you for being so vulnerable with us! Praying God’s blessings over y’all’s marriage🙌🏾❤️
This is who we are! Blessimgs
greaaat video. ‼️❤️
@@charvickia. thank you sister!
It's also important to include therapy for tools to overcome this trauma, as well. This is a behavioral pattern. Blessup
So true!!! We should talk about this too
Amen. ❤ Thank you for this.
God bless you
I Love you guys and I am praying for God continue blessings on your marriage.
God bless you! Thank you so much
Wow this is really encouraging thanks yall
Our pleasure! Blessings brother
Love this ❤
Blessings!
wow this video was so needed. Because this is my fear and one of the reasons im afraid of marriage whilr still desiring it. Especially since it seems like men have such a hard time with lust and staying faithful(ofc women do too,but men more so) My parents are in tbe middle of a divorce. My dad cheated throughout the whole marriage. Ive watched so many women in my family cry,breakdown and lose themself over adulterly. It sucks because my mom is only 45 and my dad is 52. I cant imagine having to be celibate and not remarry at those ages. Its still too young. But the bible is clear on remarriage.
@@CeCe-os3ul yes the Bible is clear on remarriage, but we’d need to dig into it when it comes to infidelity. I’m so sorry you’ve had to encounter all these things. You heard our story and we pushed through. We know you can. You still have the desire to marry and God still has the desire to fulfill it for you. So glad you’re honest that way the Lord will help you, strengthen you and give you the tools needed. Blessings friend
You guys are such a beautiful couple! God bless you!
Wow! Means alot. God bless you!
Thank you 💜💜
Y’all are adorable!! Love that he rebuked your dream! lol
@@deeanwallace thank you!!! Gotta rebuke it hahaha
Can’t overcome the “fear” of something when it already happened to you
If this happened to you, I’m so sorry friend! Praying healing over your heart and mind!
@@kunntakentay you absolutely can! It may seem like you can’t but you definitely can. Healing and freedom be your portion
@@itsdeborahhill thank you
@@DAVIDANDEBORAH thank you