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At this point, Alexander Grace is just being hateful!
C'mon man. You talked about how men's standards are so low and that they're "thirsty losers". You neglected to complete the logic behind that statement, which is that its the top 5% that are smashing 80% of these women. That doesn't mean that all men are "thirsty losers". That means that a large proportion of that 5% are simply smashing whatever they can...because they can. That doesn't make them "thirsty" nor "losers", just guys that have no standards when it comes to casual sex.
Alexander Have You Done a Video On Dual Mating Strategy ?
Alexander, when are you going to call out these men as well??
Love the video bro, good pointers but yea there are men out there with high standards and I'm one of em
Happy men's mental health awareness month gentlemen. Remember: We don't owe women a better life.
@@damdibidumthis reminds me of the broke vs poor analogy. Being ‘poor’ is a state of mind and being ‘broke’ is temporary. You cannot control anyone else’s “happiness” except for brief moments.
@@damdibidumI don’t think happiness can be controlled. Suffering is inevitable and there are always things to be unhappy about. But people live despite this. What they do is they find something that gives them purpose to keep living. For some people that purpose is making alot of money. For others it’s helping their community. For others it’s religion.
That the main reason they enter a relationship
Hmm....wise you are ...remember this ,i will......( Yoda).@@ligyron2835
A couple needs to give each other a better life. Thats what love is, sacrificing for each other, and willing the good of the other.
The more i learn about women, the more i understand why our so called bigoted ancestors actually kept them in check like that.
Would you say there's natural philosophy wisdom in biblical gender roles maybe?
@@sleepforever8378 That's not what that verse means............ That verse refers to how every human being has equal value in God, that Jesus Christ loves us all equally.
@@chrise-ih4ix Yes, If you read the Old Testament, especially Numbers & after other books like Esther, Ruth, Proverbs 31, you will see the wisdom of the gender roles.
Gender roles is a natural thing since the dawn of man. Things aren't going on as well as the society is trying to fight with that nature.
At the end of the day nature always since.
and you learn *nothing* about 'bigoted' men? just about women? and who's actually keeping men 'in check' back then i wonder?
lol
@@chrise-ih4ix Yes, If you read the Old Testament you will understand the philosophy of gender roles. Numbers, Esther, Ruth & Proverbs 31 highlights this.
Currently the society is fighting this nature thus we have all sort of problems. At the end of the day nature always wins.
God was very wise & intentional in the way He designed everything.
If she can't be corrected, she can't be directed.
If she can't be directed, she can't be protected.
If she can't be protected, she can't be respected.
If she can't be respected, she can't be selected.
That… is… awesome!😂
That is right.
You forgot one bro: if she can't be selected she shall be neglected lol
@@RSD22.that’s covered in the last line, but you were just harsher about it.
Make this a sing. Profit 🤑🤑🤑
You don't understand, they don't give up their steady relationships - they hope their boyfriends never find out how they cheated.
They cheat because they feel comfortable enough to and because they can get rewarded by the state through divorce.
Finally, someone who gets it. These women are not necessarily “cheating” in their minds. Nor are they being irrational or illogical. They are DELIBERATELY selecting beta males that they can keep at home while they get their carnal needs met by men who satisfy whatever kink they have.
The main thing that boggles my mind is. How the F do you not feel any guilt what so ever.
@@DodPaDinSkulder What guilt is there to be felt if she got into that relationship alreaky knowing and fully accepting that she is there only to exploit the man and does not actualy love him?
@@DodPaDinSkulder they think short-term.
They eventually do feel gulit but not at the moment because most woman on't think long term in which is why there is such a high rise in divorce rates are high or high body count.
the first clip made my skin crawl.
I used to blame social media and dating apps for destroying relationships but in reality all it did was allow women to express their true selves. I feel nothing but disgust.
Social Media is a Godsend. It didn't transform vvomen at all : it allowed everyone to see their true nature.
people are just animas, remove culture and we are again in the wild not using brains
Social media is just a tool to them.
Social media is .
blame
Its given women the illusion of too many options
@@SeanSoraghan plenty of women prior to social media were promiscuous
If another man can get to your woman, he is not the problem, SHE IS!
Let the trash end up with trash 🤡🌎
True. She has to refuse.
But also he is a fool if he wants more than a hookup because if she did it once, she will do it again.
They're both the problem
@@arminxvs3372he usually won't want it lol also who thinks is higher thinks it won't happen to him
@@dereks6276women have all the power when it comes to choosing to have sex. Saying they're both the problem is like saying both Stalin and Ukranians were to blame for the Holodomor famine.
Men sacrifice their happiness for their family. Women sacrifice their family for their happiness.
Yes....that is so true!
True
So dark, so true
Momentary happiness
And they complain you're nto doing enough. That''s they're doing all the work, taking care of "everything"
I love the line where people say Lizzo is a 10 but if you dare to say that someone looks like Lizzo they get pissed off.
Double standards
Lizzy is certainly a 10! A negative one though - she is a minus 10 😂
Actually she's a +10 hahaha.@@alexandermikhailov2481
bro im 25 seconds in and I already feel such a weight that I dont want to continue... we're all doomed.
puts ice on my vein.
Bruh.... Feeling this too.😂.
Pray to Jesus Christ, get saved. You will find solace in God, let him bring you peace and hope, this world brings only darkness and despair.
Yeah, we probably are. But just lower your expectations of women and you can make peace with their nature.
When you value women more than yourself you'll never be happy.
These women will jeopardise their stable relationship for another man because they know the government has their back to allow it
Get married they said…
Honestly Government shouldn't be interferring with marriage. Marriage is a religous topic and should be managed by the religion.
The fact we have marriage without the religion defeats the purpose the marriage.
@@sonicthehedge its deliberate dest the famlee bring in ur replacements
They want to experience a stable though lol.
It's crazy that they say we live in a patriarchy yet we have alimony and family court.
It's already crazy enough to do this but with a camera in your face recording the whole thing???? Seriously no shame anymore
They're actually ashamed to show integrity and fidelity on camera. One reason they betray their BFs isn't _even though_ they're on camera. It's *because* they're on camera.
Make shame important again
It’s fake bro. Staged and scripted.
@@SUPREMELEGENDeven if it's scripted, it means these women are okay with having this kind of reputation, so it does not change the fact that they have no shame.
@@raytracer5726 Makes one wonder what is going on in real life. No cameras there to document bad behaviour. So it leaves a guy with no choice to but to inherently to mistrust a female.
The women want both: a stable relationship and the Chad on the side.
Not so different from what men want, yeah?
I'm stable but not valued
@@graymatters7584
No? Men typically want a loving wife, singular.
This is what Feminism preached. You can have it all, you can do it all. It's no surprise women believe it.
@@graymatters7584Men want to get laid and wives often stop putting out.
Women want it all.
Guys - women are self-aware, stop treating them like idiots. they know damn well what they are doing. the plan is "to have fun" with the dudes out of her league and hopefully marry someone in her league when she feels the time is right (i.e. getting older + socio-economic pressure). They all do it, they all know it. And some I have dated have even admitted it.
They collect "potential" mates precisely for that. Attention leads to Control. And what they truly what is control... over you
Alpha fxxx, beta bux. A tale as old as time…
you'll need a lot of hoping if you think you can "have fun" with other dudes and then marry someone decent. no decent man will ever want a woman whos been ran through. the more dudes you screw, the less valuable you become and your chances of marrying a good guy become lower over time. its the inability to have the foresight to make the right decision NOW for a better future, sacrificing your impulses to preserve your value, that men find idiotic. there are plenty of older women who are facing that pressure to find a man, and struggle to find somebody who will actually want them. you can have as much fun as you want but women should know that by doing so, they are sacrificing their future happiness. that is what they don't realise or don't want to realise. sounds pretty stupid to me.
Yep, they know exactly what they are doing. They are just trying to avoid accountability by pretending to be a victim, as per usual.
People in general are just stupid and have terrible interpersonal skills. The highest "value" men in the world are still getting divorced, getting cheated on etc and so are the best women. For every girl sleeping around there's a man sleeping around, there's a guy throwing his marriage away to rail some hog for no reason except he could.
I think they are delusional and think they can make alpha commit
I can’t bring myself to hit on single mothers or women that already have a boyfriend or husband. Have standards men.
Right there with you, bro. Don't let the degeneracy of modern society corrupt you.
It's super disrespectful.
@@gunblazingmutant It ain’t just disrespectful, it’s pathetic.
You don’t want that type of dude in your team, ever.
Bros who dont respect bro code ain’t bros, they are enemies
There was a single mother at work. She was kinda cute and spoke with a sweet voice. But that's basically as far as any green flags went, and without knowing her much there were already red flags which, you know, are usually worse than face value.
with you.
it's nice when a single mom speaks with the sweetest voice looks decently in a way you couldn't tell she also brings along live luggage, its a red flag for me personally.
its cute, but that's where it ends.
when your girl goes on vacation without you then she is not with you
The fact this comment has 266 likes and no comments, I take it the community agrees
@@thepeoplesupdates676 it's just perfectly said, there's nothing to add.
exactly, if your "other half" doesn't wanna take you on a vacation trip is it really your other half?
I had plans to go travel alone (again) after my first great voyage solo, which I absolutely adored.
Then I made a girlfriend, and I was adamant that I wanted to go alone STILL, even though we had started a relationship.
She refused, saying she'd either come or it would be over, as she sensed I wanted to go alone (partly, but not even close to entirely) because I wanted to smash different women.
She was correct.
I valued her, so I agreed she'd come too, and the 3 month trip sucked. I should've recognized my own desires, break up with her and go alone again, the way I like.
@@jonathanallard2128you made a girlfriend knowing you were about to leave her for 3 months, bad timing. And you probably still broke up any ways?
Complete absence of loyalty . Why would any man make a commitment of marriage .
good women still exist
@@CrucialFlowResearch a good woman will know what shes worth
Yes, of course good women still exist. Many more than social media and big media stories would indicate; that's my guess.
😂 right@@leetster6303
@@leetster6303And in a world where parachutes had over 50% chance of not deploying, I would advise people not to jump out of planes. Just because some do and you land safely doesn't mean it's worth the risk.
Women's logic is exactly why we're in this mess in society.
blame izum..which has been created for the reasons u see today
No your logic is exactly why woman behaves how they do
@@Porkypies6m ?
Giving women rights while not updating the laws is what ruining society.
Marriage solely exists to benefit and insure women because they had no rights.
Giving the women the right to vote but not the obligation to be drafted to war.
We are giving women a society where they can do whatever they want without consequences when back then, those same actions would of left them without a husband, family, and most likely homeless
If u wanna even call it logic
She's not yours, it's just your turn.
Met my bird at 28 she was 18 I'm turning 41 in July she had been with nobody else when I met her we now have 2 children and are still together.. 🤷🏻♂️
@thatcarguy6190 you hit gold it's happens not to often and still she could change she is 31 ur 41 divorce happens alot at that age mid life crisis and stuff
@@HonderdtachtigCC She is very judging of others especially other men so I doubt that lol but yes this has been my longest relationship so if you do get lucky with a nice girl it can last the distance pal. Good luck to you 👍🏻
@@ThatCarGuy1983not to sound like a cynic but I have to tell you if she's overtly critical of men like you mentioned and you've been with her since 18, she probably cheated on you.
lol what logic is that@@jurassicthunder
what's the actual point in relationships when 80 % of women don't commit and are un-loyal?
there's a reason dogs are called man's best friend!
Dogs are great
Cats as well.
Disloyal. The word, in your language, is disloyal.
It's more than 80%
As an economist I learned about operating costs and fixed costs. The operating costs to men for a relationship is putting up with her ways, her sense of entitlement, her past trauma, her debt etc. But the fixed costs are also sky high now. Like the enormous risk of our high divorce rates and the way men are treated in family court, and the super high expectations of modern women. So even if an individual woman thinks she is not being too picky, she does not realize that the fixed costs of a relationship have gone up so much that men are more cautious than ever.
Perhaps it's time to bring class action suits against the courts for being discriminated against in a two tier justice system.
the conditions have been created to tear apart society,,same with massimm
good analysis
I think women are still too emotional to understand this, they still believe love conquers all. They ignore the fact that men are very logical creatures.
Im studying accounting and that is a great analogy. 👍🏼
My father always told me “Every woman is a wh**e except your mother, and you have to watch her if she’s been drinking.”
yikes
Lol😂
My grandfather used to say "they are all sisters" never understood what he meant until my early 20's.
my dad always told me to have self respect and decent standards, that way i shouldn't end up with wh**es but instead find my future wife, just like my dad did with mom.
2nd date my dad already asked my mom to move in. been together ever since.
Most women are not really loyal to their man, they are more likely loyal to their emotions.
Look at the data. Married men cheat more than married women- and hade throughout history. Stop being a victim- it’s weak
If a woman is going for girls night out with her single & /or married friend, outliers apart most of the times she's cheating while her man is at home.
I enjoy watching how much information about female nature has been spread the past year.
As rude as it can be, going out with single friends is a red flag to both genders.
You shown the example of women
But also men, a single friend. Trust him too much and he might take your woman when you aren't looking.
Preach
If she's cute I hope so. 😛
Fake news. There is no way to prove this.
They are single by choice. It is just that they don't realise the choice isn't theirs. Just like the last clip says, there are a lot of good men, they just don't want your ass.
Imagine advertising yourself all over social media since middle school with their high body counts and all and at 30+ spewing out: Im SiNgLe By ChOiCeEe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 sureeee lol
All women that are single is by choice.
It's extremely easy for women to get a boyfriend, getting married however
...
Just as men flex about getting a girl.
Women's flex is getting married.
Femenism has tried to convince that women's flex is the same as a man
A blue pilled friend of mine’s wife was on a ladies weekend. I asked him if it was with decent married women or are there any trashy single gals in their group? He said he doesn’t know and doesn’t care because his wife would never cheat. I wondered if it is happier to be in total ignorance or to be angry with the truth. Once you have seen the truth, you can’t go back.
This is sooo true
These lame mfs literally don't understand the difference between trust n blind trust
He gonna live in the same LaLa land 🤔
i'm afraid you're right.
Ignorance really is bliss. Atleast until knowledge b***slaps you.
I’ve dated strippers a few times. One was a 3 yr relationship, if you can call it that. We lived together and her work really was separated from our life. It was actually a good relationship but of course I already knew what was going on.
Point is there are benefits and sacrifices. You have to choose what suits you for that moment in your life. I also said to myself, well, if it was another girl she’s going to cheat on me any way so what’s the difference?!
Wait till she brings home "The Herp"
Women confuse attention with intention
And high value with high maintenance😂
Well said 👌🏽
There's nothing easier then a girl on holiday with her female friends.
For real. They even lower their standards tenfold, especially if in a strnager country. They're out there searching for it.
@@olisk-jy9rz That's why I go to places like Jamaica!
@@olisk-jy9rzbc they know they don't have to get commitment from thise guys since she already has a beta at home.
girl on holiday? ditch her.
Im starting the think cheating is a popular fetish now for women. Their emotionally screwed that they get turned on by cheating and even seek out boyfriends to do it.
Not your girl, just your turn.
Get on, get off. Next in line 🎠🎠🎠
dude she's no ones turn she just for the streets and she belongs to the wall no cap
Guys, never let your girlfriend/wife go away without you, even if it's with her girlfriends. This should be a deal breaker. A good woman will never ask/suggest this as she will not jeopardize a relationship with a man she loves and respects. Last year I hooked up with this cute girl while she was on a weeks vacation. We f'd like rabbits the entire week, doing all sorts of nasty things you only see in spicy vids. She even told me her friends were egging her on to hook up with me. Several weeks later I found out she had a long-term boyfriend back home who she lives with. I was devastated. It took a while, but I eventually tracked the guy down, told him, and apologized. I assume he dumped her ass.
Completely normal behavior from all women with a pulse!
Dude. You did the classy thing in letting that guy know. Good on you.
Good man.
Was her name Maison, by chance? Lol
whats her name or it probably didnt happen ?
Woman understand everything they do, they pretend they don’t to avoid accountability. Always hold them accountable. Don’t let the tears fool you, they can turn them on and off as well.
What shocked me about the 1st woman was her honesty & her willingness to put it out there. Most women will never admit this. Even to themselves.
Most will never admit it because they refuse to egage in any sort itrospection as a problem solving mecanism.....It's just so much easier to blame every one else!
If your wife or girlfriend goes on vacation or girls nights, use that time away from her to pack up her stuff and leave it outside the door. Be sure you also get the locks changed.
and hide your car
And have cams and mics already set up in the house so you don't get destroyed even more by her, if you were dumb enough in the first place to let a women live with you@@leetster6303
Unfortunately all that advice will do is get you in legal hot water.
@@aramisperez9923 total bs
Her cheating on you is her at her best. This is the reality. That is why you should go your own way.
Not all women are trashy, just as not all men are trashy.
@@dancole2994 Yeah right
@@dancole2994yes but women face way less consequences for their bad actions
Worst
@@dancole2994 Culture and race have a lot to do with it. Certain cultures are objectively better than others. Just like certain races are preferred objectively over others. I am far more weary of white women than most. On the flip side, I don't relax around a certain group of men.
Nuance is important in this day and age.
He picked her up in
dumb cows
Issa fake man, video made for clout, need to stop living online bud. They are a couple IRL
@@dobridjordje That maybe is the case, but trust me, I've seen such things with my own eyes. Had a new girlfriend, was mogged by another dude by him JUST SHOWING UP ON THE STREETS and it was OVER for me. She only had eyes for him. She first hit me with the "you're delusional" etc, 2 weeks later they were together. 6 months later they again were sperated. Why all that? Because she wanted to "make new experiences" (trade the Beta for a better option).
That was 15 years ago. She's now fat as a rhino. I'm at my peak, fit & musclular, very good looking for my age and even have my financials in check. Women do this on purpose. They will go with a better option asap, IF she can afford from her own looks and "value".
@@milan51259 I am starting to think that female narcissists are the biggest problem nowadays. Consider if she constantly started fights when there was nothing wrong, switched her mood on a whim, if she listened when you spoke, or if she ever even considered your pleas. If not, she may have been a covert female narcissist. She projected all of her problems onto you because she could not handle reality herself, hence why she called you delusional.
A sane woman with functioning empathy and pair bonding would not be able to destroy a relationship like that.
Guys, the cheapest one tends to be the one you paid for
You mean paid for overtly and for a very specific short time. All women must be paid for, unless you're a Chad just "living life"..
I’ll take the fat one. You take the really really fat one. 😅
🤮🤮🤮Imagine paying for something someone else got for free
@@zaq1337Marrying is doing that in most cases!
@@carlost5263 yeah a lot of settling lol. You do you 🤮🤮🤮
This is true there’s been women who approached me at the gym and tell me “I love my boyfriend but I’m not physically attracted to him” compared to women approaching me, stare, initiate conversations, touch me. And I’ve use to be a fat kid growing up and been ignored, losing weight and working out taught me looks matter. it’s better for women to love you more than you love her. You can’t negotiate lustful attraction
Yep. If she's not totally infatuated with you, she's going to find someone she does feel that way about.
@@LazyboyRecliner The harsh truth is even if she feels totally infatuated about you at any moment someone can cross her way she feels even more infatuated about in that moment
she just told you that she wants you to bench press her.
@@MrIkOgNiTo That's the name of the game, dude, constant self improvement. If you can't keep yourself in top form she's going to find someone else. If you're in top form and she leaves anyway, at least you're in a better position to attract someone new.
@@LazyboyRecliner Well, best of luck staying on the accelerating treadmill.
What was she feeling in that moment? The tingles. And the tingles rule.
Funny how the ones that say “all men this or that, all men bad” are the ones who act in the same way as “all these men” lol
@@zaq1337 It's even deeper than that. All stems from the definition of "men".
The reason why they can state "all men bad" is because they only consider as "men" the one they are attracted to. The cashier who doa 9-5 job : at best, he's a "little brother" wich she will be genuinrly shocked if she were to learn he can even feel any sayxual drive at all, or at worst, litteraly non-existent.
i was always told as a Man u should not take another man’s women & because i know how it feels be cheated on i wouldn’t do that to another human being 🙏🏼
Everyone has been told to be an immoral hedonist, and since the collective societal shame is gone we are bearing its fruits. All you can do is be very selective, and if possible look in places where that culture isn't promoted.
Spot on in identifying the underlying basis and proposing a suitable and sensible cause of action in response to it.
we killed own culture partially by killing religion, Nietzsche himself best example
No true solution is separate countries for men and women.
They can be hedonistic if they pay for it themselves.
Hedonism is dependant on hardworking men labour
Eve has always taken the serpents fruit. Society just likes to pretend this never happened.
thats what happen in a Godless society
Absolutely nailed it. This is the biggest problem with dating right now. They chase the top 10% who have no interest in having a relationship with them. So, they get run through by Chads and Tyrones throughout their 20s until they hit the wall and then wonder why they are still 'single', having turned away 1000s of good men. Very hard to feel any sympathy. They are reaping what they sowed.
Stfu with those cringe ass expressions, you sound like an angry kid.
Best comment ever.
Why would a girl in a relationship go to a exotic vacation without her man?
If she wants to cheat, she will find a way.
Because during the exotic vacation she's in a different mood and emotional state and she can do whatever she wants without the fear of getting judged/exposed by people whose opinion she values and relies on.
So she can try a bunch of new things without meeting anyone she knows but it got nerfed with social media and video
In the past heading to another town was common for women
@@fnonpm difference is now they get caught :)
They will make all kinds of crazy reasons.
@@MrIkOgNiToBULLSHIT. If you’re fleeing away from those who can keep you accountable for YOUR actions, you will stay single. Just like the video was about.
Men have to control and ignore their emotions all the time if we didn't we could do huge damage physically.
It's called stoicism. A highly desirable trait in men.
But but they want emotional boyz, and when you listen to them to be emotional they start calling boyz zesty 🤣🤣🤣 which one is it girlz??
Nope we have to create our own separate countries.
Our labour is the greatest gift.
No male workers = end of fun times for women
@@pakenhaminf that s
being invisible to THESE women is the blessing within the curse
I often think about the idea of increasing my market value, but then I see who I'd end up attracting and then I lose all desire to do so.
@@StarsDie88the fact that people have sporadically adopted the term “market” to refer to people courting one another and seeking marriage is truly a sign of the age which has rendered a once noble and special arrangement into a seemingly monetary and soulless transaction with the end goal of attaining sex and nothing else.
Never envy
@@TheBanjoShowOfficial it's not that deep bro.. not that you're wrong about things having changed, but just... It has nothing to do with calling it a market 😂
@@danielsterling4918 it is that deep, bro
Stay classy, ladies
Stay?
Classy? Not my definition of slutville!
@@peripheralparadox4218its sarcasm
8:11
Women: Men will lay anything that moves.
Chad: So, are you moving?
1 Corinthians 6:9-20
9Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders 10nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
Skanx everywhere
Skank city.
Skanks everywhere.*
Ive given my life to my wife. And shes destroyed the person i was. Nv appreciative nv listens or thinks shes wrong. Constantky belittling the list gos on. And no amount of talking gets her to take accountability. She obfuscates blame shifts and changes the convo become a victim. Then when she realizes shes run out of roads to turn she threatens divorce and to kick me out. While at the same time literally saying im worthless leach. But thinking theres nothing wrong w saying things like that to me. Ive become a hopeless individual because the more i learn about women the more i realize atleast in the west. Its literally an exercise in futility.
Jeff, i feel you. I am in the same situation. Except my ex left me because i kept waving her lack of accountability for EVERYTHING in her face and she had the audacity to take our kid with her, lying to him and me. Hope you find a way out of this mess. It hurts to cut loose the person that you love, but if you don't, you will even lose your love for yourself.
the hole will only get deeper bud. its time to move on.
Once a woman no longer looks up to you or respects you - the relationship is over. Your wife is giving you the ammunition needed to leave her. Your marriage is over.
I agree with @jacksquat4140 , Once a woman no longer looks up to you or respects you - the relationship is over.
I want to add to it in this time of difficulty that do everything to maintain your sanity. If you dont understand her games (i.e bluepilled), then you will come under so much emotional pressure that you would want to jump from your apartment. Distance yourself from what is rotting. Its not your fault beyond a point.
shesa narcissist..get out while u can
So glad that I opted out of the dating world. This is disgusting.
Western world is disgusting
Bro the goal is to have kids doesn't matter if it's with a sloot or not. If she wants to take $500 month and get another guy to raise them who cares it's a win.
@@JasonDeville-fi4dh having kids from someone who is sloot is worst decision
Your kid will have at least few percentage of other mens DNA who were previously inside her🤢
It's not a win if your kid is raised by a single mom and turns out useless
@@jacobmansfield-go9fz only 1 percent are top 1 percent anyways dude the odds aren't good even if you raise then with two parents. Just spread your seed and pray for the best
The thing about the analogy is that they won't even get the 3K, they only get the promise of it.
I don't get where the conundrum is? Take a weeks vacation from work, make $3k for the week plus your $2k vac pay, and go back to your job after vacation with an extra $3k instead of an extra $1k!!!
@@davidjones8942 Do you watch videos or just reply to comments?
Yeah... it's too late for women. I'm off the market. Not interested. They'll have to be satisfied riding the carousel until they get off at boxed wine and cat land. Meanwhile, I'll be doing my own thing and being entertained watching the whole thing fall apart.
Most men don’t know what kind of life they can live if they skip the marriage and kids thing. Your wealth compounds so quickly. You have time to do all the things you want. Get a private pilots license. Learn to play a musical instrument. Get bikes. Scuba dive. Paraglide. Hike. Mountain bike. Then just don’t talk about any of it. It’s funny how once you have zero interest in them, then they get interested in you. When you turn them down they will call you gay. I’m not gay, I’m just not stupid. Telling them you have had a vasectomy is not recommended as it drastically changes your sex life. Once you understand them, you no longer interested.
And snap up those stocks my brother!
My ex-wife tried to level up and failed spectacularly. Meanwhile I’ve just had a son with my gf who’s 15 years younger 😂
Big W bro
Me too my new gf is 10 yrs younger and no kids and my ex is 35 yr old single mom cus she thought she was hot cus she got some online attention lol
BRAVO! When I was 40 , I was hittin' a 20 year old college coed. FUN!!
My wife is 18 years younger than I. We just clicked and became best friends. Women my own age are toxic with high expectations and worn out and often there is a reason why they are available. No thanks.
Like a rusted out Impala with a "Rod knock"
I quit 8 years ago. Best decision I have ever made.
I walked away from women and sex over 25 years ago and never looked back. My how time flies when you're having fun.
Yeah me too now I got me a good man. I recommends it.
And then she hits the wall and the tables turn 😂
I'm almost 40 bro, it's still pretty competitive to date good looking older women. If you're talking about 6's or below then you're right about the wall. If you want a 7 or higher you still need to work on yourself.
@@LazyboyReclinerwhy would any man date older women if he has a choice?
@@LazyboyRecliner I guess if you're just in it for the sex, sure. Personally, the juice isn't worth the squeeze, but more power to you.
@@LazyboyRecliner If a woman is 40+, she's not a 7 or higher in my book. (unless she's adult-minded and has proven her loyalty to me over years)
@@mikey92362 Because the majority of men don't have a choice and can't get a date with anyone at all. And from my perspective, a 40 year old 7 is better than the overweight 40 year old 3's and 4's a lot of men are stuck picking from.
Nightling. Drinker. Tattoos. Feminist. Social media. Red Flags.
In this video, all the girls were nightlings and drunks.
Last relationship was enough for me to realise what my true potential was. Ex went to uni and on the first night moving in she was bodied by two guys at the same time and had her mum tell me. It gets easier through the pain, let it mould you into something more defining. Be the man you want to be, not what society expects
Holy hell man thats absolutely brutal, praying for your mental health
And when she said hangout she probably meant “smashed in the backyard for 3hrs”
They have no fear of consequences.... That's the problem happening nowadays.
Western women have been playing with a +4 buff to Societal Support for about 50 years.
+5 for the last 10-15 years.
20 years ago, i was In a 5 year relationship with a girl. She goes out with some friends from out friends group for a big celebration. Limo and VIP booth etc. I couldn't go as i had to work, but the next morning pictures start appearing on FB. In several shots theres a guy with her, and he's either got his arm around her or his hand is on her thigh. She swears she never cheated, but i never believed her.
She absolutely cheated, the only question is to what degree, which ultimately doesn't matter. Hope you moved on quickly, and are now in a much better position.
@@OuijaSTi No, I was a naive fool back then. Took another 2 years till I broke it off.
@@smast16 We all are when we're young, unfortunately. The important part is that you learned and moved on and, hopefully, found happiness elsewhere.
The pool of good men is much larger than the pool of men women share.
Exactly
If they were good men they wouldn't be sharing us.
@@kenofken9458 Top 10 stupid comebacks of 2024
Yeah and this leads to another thing: when men say they’re single it means they’re also sexless. When women say they’re single it means they still get a lot of bedroom action, just not from a bf.
@@kenofken9458 Good man = a tall man with status & resources she can brag about and who will dominate her in bed, so she feels "small" and "protected".
What you mean by a good man => an average man who nobody cares about and a sheep who usually will agree to everything.
The one thing I find common among these women who get interviewed and invited to leave their boyfriends by some Chad is that they are out on the club scene. Chances are they buzzed from drinking so their inhibitions are low.
So the question I have is not why they are flirting with these Chads who just want to smash. It's why are they out on the town in the first place?
Their relationships were already compromised when they decided to go out with their friends or by themselves.
Men understand positioning. Women tend to think naively that it's about trust. Women think theur men need to trust them more, as they put themselves in positions that make it easier for men to approach them. Real trust comes when partners don't go out of their way to test their partner's trust.
when you cut off your options as a man to be exclusive with one girl, her attraction tends to go down over time. because there is no uncertainty anymore. she views that as you having fear of losing her which equates to neediness , which repulses her. this is why pre selection and having side girls is so powerful. in a relationship women will throw tests and compliance tests, neediness tests, interest tests, etc. in order to gauge your level of attachment to her. if you fail , then you become weaker in her eyes. when you dont comply with her demands attraction goes up even if shes angry on the surface. the reverse is true. and women will always stay more sexually loyal to the guy that isn't committing to solely her, versus a guy that is. now obviously there are women who dont play like that. tends to happen in their 30's when antislut defense rises with age and she doesnt get with as many guys as easily. women are very present in the moment and go off feelings. so they tend to not think about repercussions of their actions. in my opinion the best relationship to have is a one sided open on the mans side. dont ever sacrifice other options for one womans ultimatums . if you do , you're automatically weaker. women want guys who genuinely feel they are entitled to do what they want with her and have her in any way they please, like a king taking what he wants. no matter what they say on the surface they will act a certain way to a guy thats entitled like that. selfishness wins with women. and if she leaves you to get with a guy who commits to her, chances are she'll come back to bang you again when she gets bored of that guy
Fascinating thesis Don Juan.
excellent explanation
3:56 even just giving her number out like that, i'd break up with her. Am I crazy?
No
No
No
1 Corinthians 6:9-20
9Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders
Alexander, outstanding presentatioon! You are spot on. I have raised five daughters and I raised them to be wives, not 304s. I hope your channel helps a lot of men AND women. Keep up the great work.
Bring shame back. Turns out a social equalizer was necessary.
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I hope Andrew T@te would openly say that promiscuous women are trash and unworthy of respect or something similar. Hearing young men being influenced by him online gives me hope.
I’m afraid we look back at this video in 5 years and the situation didn’t improve but got worst
We all know that's what's by far most likely to happen, right? I'd hope so, or you're fooling yourselves
1:10 I respect the girl talking there because at least she's really honest with everyone and herself.
Women seldom act rationally because it involves thinking and considering things. Most of the time they rely on their feelings, emotions and tingles to live life.
I watch all the ads in your videos Alexander because of your valuable content and you deserve a lot more success.
There are mature and immature men an women. Men and women need to identify immature men and women. As well identify immaturity in themselves. People don't learn this until they're in the thick of it.
Nah unfortunately men don't 9/10 have the option to not be mature or you wouldn't be able to survive women can because they always have a backup aka the government and simps
Most of these women are not immature they are calculative with this.
Its why all these women in relationships just happen to go on vacation by themselves on a "girls trip" and if they happen to meet somebody, hey who will know.
@@blakan1478 what you described is immaturity. It's what children do when they see a new shiny toy. They throw aside the one they're playing with to play with the new one. Though people aren't toys and they aren't children and should know better. That's why when people find out they were cheated on the cheater reacts like a child.
@@itachi65ful Yes that is immature but that is not the right word to describe that. What your describing is an adult person seeing other people as toys that´s a sociopath.
To call it immature understates how cold hearted these type of women are.
@@blakan1478 It could be psychopathic but it could be something else. Sometimes when people are hurting they hurt others.
They're cold because they believe this is how the world works because it's what they went through so what they're doing is normal. They're basically embodying the people who hurt them.
That could be one of many reasons.
I feel so sorry for her husband
He's only a husband on a state registered paper.
He is actually a servant.
Women confuse malfeasance with positive masculine character all the time.
Yeah. I've pretty much given up on the whole family thing. Legit told my mother, "Don't expect any grandchildren from me."
Life's already stressful enough with having to pay bills, take care of my mother, and ensure we have enough food in the house. I don't need a relationship to make it more stressful. I'll just live happily as a hermit.
Whats funny, is when they get in to their mid 30s or early 40's when the hook up men are gone, & then go on the rampage that all men are horrible. Even the nice guys are no longer interested in them & the settle for some cats & box wine.
The large chick hitting a high score, just scrapes the surface how dark this world is. Picking just about any woman by default means, picking up torn open goods.
Inb4 feminists reply triggered by the word "goods"
@@danielsterling4918 doesn't get more misogynistic than that. Nobody would read that and go: "Yep. Totally acceptable nomenclature over there"
Women live life on Easy mode
Crazy how good woman can be compared to cars. Of course, everyone wants a new unused car from the factory, and if the car had 2 or 3 owners before with a bit of milage, it's also selling for a good price. But who would by a car that had 15, 50, or even 100 owners and thousands of miles but the most desperate drivers. At best ist could be used in a derby show where the car gets crashed.
A man must pay for the damage done by previous owners when dealing with used cars and women. At least you can take a car to a mechanic to get it fixed.
Derby show,,,,,,,,🤣🤣
Since 19 I have not slept with a woman I dont love. I had a one night stand when I was 19 (after I broke a good girls heart) and it felt so horrible I couldnt do it again. Period. It doesnt matter how drunk I am, I remember what love felt like once. Kept me out of a lot of trouble. It really did. I am shocked at what my friends will do.
Man, that intro is absolutely diabolical, machiavellian level succubus work. Good god.
Women like that emotional roller-coaster. In a stable relationship, you aren't going to have such a thing often or at all in some cases. What do you do about that?
Very True!
You have to kayfabe. Start an argument over something small when things have been calm for a minute then deescalate or dont, keep her on her toes. Emotional highs have been felt without having to go out and f chad. Why do you think women nag? Is she actually angry that you haven't washed the dirty dishes or is she just bored?
A lot of women have no legitimate interests or hobbies, so you become their hobby, and that's a lot of pent up nervous energy waiting to explode.
@@chugjugs6081 yeah I get it. But isn't it tiring doing that for supposedly the rest of your life? Is this type of game or dance enjoyable in the longterm?
@@silentnight3192 Every man should do what's in his best intrest but for me it's no more tiring then taking the dog out or going to the gym. It's pretty funny arguing over a shoe for 5 minutes then saying "whatever I'm over it" slap her rump and continue on with my day like nothing happened because to me nothing did. I was just having fun.
Huge props to the whatever podcast woman in pink for spelling it out, how it is. Credit where credit's due. There needs to be more voices out there saying that focusing on sexy men who don't like you (as a girl) is just a bad strategy.
women dont just get "carried away" by there emotions, the trust there emotions, they see there emotional logic as being superior to actual logic, and they often see the logic of men as a sort of cold manipulative force created by "the patriarchy" to control them, and they see there emotions like a devine force that is the universe guided by some higher magical power they posses, women actually think like this, they see logic as just a system of oppression and manipulation and ther emotions as a magical compas guiding them towards "there truth" for lack of a better term
Female intuition is such a farce, it's almost funny.
Every day is a movie and they are the main character, see women through this perspective and you start to understand them
They dont even think about consequences cus they got 50 simps on call ready to replace their current .. vessel
I remember my gf went to Spain RIGHT before Covid. I spent all my money getting her out of there before it got too bad. Little did I know she cheated on me down there and her excuse was he was built like an Adonis and how she couldn’t turn up a chance like that
Hoped you dumped your goddess.
Women see men as bullock or Ox who will plough the field and bring her the harvest. You were that Ox who was meant to provide her resources with a second thought, just like a father does.
I hope you left. How could you pass up on a chance like this to be peaceful again?
@@hyronharrison8127 I left
Tell us you threw her out, and made her pay you back for the trip
The millions of 49ers are a testament to this.
The craziest thing is- and I believe other men will agree with me- that there are women out there that will absolutely NOT respond to you if you try to chat them up. I'm sure we've all been there before where we tried to talk to a woman, and she didn't respond because she was taken. So, with that in mind, looking at women like this that just feel like they HAVE to spill the beans, allow a random man to touch them, and so on is...disappointing.
Thats only prove you weren't an enough catch in their eyes. Not saying all women would cheat, but your argument is not the best one
@habibicometome well, neither is yours. It's a fact of life that some people lie and will do dirty things behind the other's back because they want to have their cake and eat it too.
That's exactly what this video is talking about when the blonde girl gives the street interviewer her number early on in this video, and how the video maker says men get confused at why they'd jeopardize their relationship.
That thumbnail 😂, I thought she was rubbing him out
It's what feels nice now vs long term stability and happiness. Its hard, needs self-control. Otherwise be prepared to be single later.
Female emotions are the consequence, the effect of their selection bias, not the cause. Females have evolved to constantly seek out better quality potential mates; it is the equivalent of male evolutionary bias for feminine sexual maturity and arousal markers.
Social stigma used to keep both in check. But as typical for end-of-cycle behaviors, both stigmas have been effectively removed. This is what you get until collapse: hyperselectivity in females and hyposelectivity in males.
Resets provide scarcity and with it a reassertion of social stigmas. Another is on the way.
"Resets provide scarcity and with it a reassertion of social stigmas. Another is on the way." -Totally agree.
Based on what I've seen:
1. Statistically speaking, most people are average in attractiveness to the opposite sex. That includes most women.
2. However, tell any woman she's a 5/10, giving her objective facts and evidence, and she will lose it even if it's true.
3. By contrast, tell a man he's a 5/10 in attractiveness by giving him all the relevant facts and evidences, and most men will accept this reality, then work hard to try to improve it so they can be above average.
4. Among other things, this tells me is Western men tend to accept reality and try to better themselves, whereas Western women tend to refuse to accept reality and indeed prefer to live in their fantasy world where every woman is a 10/10 queen and every woman deserves a king. Normally this would be considered delusional thinking or behavior.
5. However this delusional thinking or behavior has somehow become the norm among Western women. Western women have made the abnormal normal and called it female empowerment, perhaps not unlike how Rome made a desert and called it peace. In other words, if women wish to destroy themselves, and live unhappy and unfulfilled lives, then by all means continue to call the abnormal normal and continue to live in fantasy land rather than reality. It doesn't hurt men as much as it hurts women in the end. 🙃
All this woman talk yet the Supreme Court of the United States cannot determine what a woman is. Some of the men on the court are married to women, but can't define what they are, while 4 of the Supreme Court Justices are women, but don't know what they are. It's a depraved and delusional world we live in.
Even if they can do better that is completely beside the point. Even though women are hypergamous in nature we are still human beings not animals, which means we have the ability to be conscious enough to put our nature aside in favor of a MORAL compass. In my opinion what these educational videos often leave out is the need for morals to be instilled in women. Being in a faithful and loyal relationship requires a moral compass to do right by that other person even if it means sacrificing the opportunity to "Do Better." You can "Do Better" into infinity, you need to have a moral compass and gratitude for what you got to have anything long lasting.
They just don't give a f..k
Bro makes such good videos
You are the chosen one ! Love the channel as you speak the truth!
Old 40’s movie, men have affairs to save the marriage, women have affairs to end the marriage
We are polygamous naturally
That's why ISLAM allows 4 wives for one high value men
Polygamy marriage is only safe way to save family and marriage
Simple: they think their old McDonald's burger is a Chad magnet.
I like looking at this from an evolutionary perspective. Our preferences make sense in terms of survival. Women want the best male genes. Men want to spread their genes. I honestly do think the prevalence of social media can be damaging to this. The best male genes to a female are what she sees. Is it any wonder that's the top one percent of all men? Males are more simple. We use far less energy to survive. We can be less picky because we can reproduce with multiple females at the same time.
Note, I'm not saying this is what it should be or giving excuses to human behavior. Just how it is. I find it interesting that our progression is working faster than evolution can keep up with. We adapt at an incredible rate. Evolution functions over generational periods. Biologically speaking, females can't give birth to modern humans effectively. The complications females face with child birth are suspect to be modern issues. In the grand scheme of things.
Personally, I think humans need to take more control over their own evolution. In fact we don't rely on it anymore. I do wonder what that does to social dynamics, however I think we are seeing this. Just in early stages where the conversations are taking place, no settlement is being made, yet.
What makes you believe that common descent darwinism is the solution to explaining things while biblical gender roles are the ones most aligning to the shared experiences of natural philosophy which are regularly discussed here?
It doesn't make sense to me.
Besides academic apologetics really got the mental stumbling blocks out of the way.
Does it give you an alleged "academic" aura trying to reference common descent darwinism at every corner you're passing?
@@chrise-ih4ix 'Biblical gender roles' Face it, these gender roles evolved before christianity was even a glimmer in anyone's mind, far more than 10,000 years ago.
@@chrise-ih4ix It's probably better than someone sharing your beliefs shouting them from a street corner as usually happens..
Except the logical conclusion is a bonobo style society, which is then replaced by a more violent dominant group inevitably. There is a reason monogamous societies invented literally everything past mud huts and farming.
A bee collects what's needed, only to make honey.
He happens to pollinate the eye catching flowers ''on his way by''.
The biggest diff between women and flowers is ,
flowers don't care about the honey stash. Diff between men and bees ? Wings.
Stoning is a thing for a reason
You are evil.
Abdul...