Looks will get your foot in the door, so yes, women do care about looks. You won’t get a chance to show your personality if you can’t get past the threshold. I can confidently say this as a man in his late 30’s who’s been denied entrance pretty much every attempt.
Looks do get immediate attention. How do you explain ugly, fat and low middle class men get girlfriends and wives? Go to Walmart or some grocery store around 5pm or later, and you will see it. Incels havent seen it because they're too busy playing video games or on reddit spewing their toxic thoughts.
@@AZrakoon Those men get wives because they picked those men because they settled and they feel like he will be easier to control and not leave her and her kids. They will do down in looks to get a relationship rather than stay a side chick to the men she’s attracted to.
@@TheShowOff2I nah, most women who date ugly guys are because they were in a friendgroup together or got recommended by friends. So they got to see the personality and just fell in love. At least in my opinion
Women care about looks, men care about looks, basically every gender in between cares about looks, because all of us humans care about looks, we would be lying to ourselves and each other if we said we didn't care about looks. We want a partner who looks good, that is basic common sense. You need to take good care of yourself and present yourself in a presentable manner, show that you want to be worth your partner's time.
We’re all superficial to varying degrees. Humans are human. We’re all pretty much full of you know what. We’re actors, performers; we wear so many faces in order to impress people and to gain or maintain social status. But it’s comical, because underneath our acts we’re all just a bunch of confused apes trying to appear more together and certain than we really are. Human society is a comedy show.
A few points based on my observations over the years: a) many women without makeup look virtually unrecognizable; b) dating today is a psychological chess match, turning off *both* men and women in large volumes who either had bad experiences or do not want to partake altogether; c) value of dating has diminished as compared to previous generations due to technology, high divorce rate and acceptance in society of being a single (and childless) adult.
If a man is good looking but is a jerk, that is a huge turn off for a lot of women. I was with two extremely attractive men for a while. Yes I was smitten but then their personalities turned out to be not so great and I was the one who ultimately broke it off. But yeah, it helps to be attractive to get things started, but doesn't mean it will last. I've been attracted to men who are not conventionally attractive, also, because they were really smart or had nice personalities. So I guess I'd say that yes women care about looks but there is more to it.
Also, not all women find all the same men physically attractive. Many men think women care about looks as much as them, that's why you see some men have good looking girlfriends that treat them horribly. Some guys have no self respect
I semi-agree with you, my friend. Only thing I would add is that in individualistic selfish Western cultures, looks are WAY more important than in more traditional cultures. Otherwise yes, it's generally more complicated w/ women. Example, I got a beautiful American girl in my mid 20s when I was very much better looking, but it was an overall terrible relationship based in lust and I discarded all red flags, and we broke up 1.5 yrs ago. Now at 32, I went to Paraguay, got an even PRETTIER girl (luckily) but I'm less attractive kuz I've gained weight, etc. BUT I am much more mature, economically stable, emotionally stable, and don't ONLY care about if the woman is beautiful. So anyways, overall I think I agree w/ your analysis, but I'd just make the distinctions with cultures. Love the description in your channel by the way, about not being a cry-baby like everyone else... LOL
i disagree. looks aren't all women care about. some women fall for men who are not conventionally attractive. I'm attracted to very intelligent men, regardless of looks. Over the years I've become wary of really good looking men because they tend to be jerks. I guess it depends on the woman. I am repulsed by bad boys. been there, done that. not good.
@@AaronWhite-o5f I mean I can’t speak for every woman on earth but Ik there’s a lot out there that do care about personality. I do agree that a lot of women care about looks tho. Idk why our society makes it seem like women don’t care about looks.
I have found that having a great sense of humor really appeals to women, obviously looks make a difference but being a considerate person is more valuable in the end.
Right on💪also all women are different, some think you are ugly, some other can help it and cant stop staring at you, because she finds you attractive. Forget the women that dont like you.
Well, yes. Women do care about looks. Men also cares about looks. Beauty is what attracts us, its been like this for centuries. We aren't the first and we will not be the last. But what I found what matters more is their personality. As cringe and as old that advice is. Its true. I rather be with a woman that makes me feel good, then a woman who looks good but is terrible to me. Got only 1 life to live, don't waste it on someone who makes you miserable. But yes, looks matter for both genders. Not just women.
Problem with that is some women think their personality can win you over while they are killing themselves with their obesity. Some balance needs to be achieved.
All humans are attracted to beauty, there is some research are done on babies and also babies are attracted to it. It's something definitely natural. Weight is your main problem, you have the face and the personality, you just need the last key. Go carnivore if you can't do something else and Goodluck. I'm just an opinion.
It does, but for men its non negotiable. Women seem to place higher emphasis on feelings more than looks. A guy can be good looking to a woman, but if hes narcissist it's a deal breaker. A dumb man, will choose an evil beautiful woman.
In my experience yes, but it's not necessary to be in a relationship with them. It's more about how you present yourself. How's your style? Are you wearing a nice cologne? How's your breath? Does your hair/beard fit your face shape? Abs are really not essential. It's more face, smell, and clothing. The rest are just personality, self esteem, and your overall ability to believe in yourself. For example, AZrakoon has a wonderful smile, shiny eyes, and simple but nice clothes. He has a solid mindset, and an honest personality. But because you have struggled in the past, you might have some self esteem issues and probably have more work to do on yourself. Now I'm not a professional, so don't take this as gospel because I barely know you, but I would say if you just work on yourself and integrate healthy masculinity, and carry yourself with some more pride, it might take a year or 2 of self improvement, but eventually you will attract a good woman. The key word is attract. You literally reap what you sell. So keep working on being a good man because you clearly have a good heart, and soon enough, the right girl will show up at the right time. I think your on the right path, but do some more work on yourself and learn to talk to women. Just talk to them, nothing romantic. Start by just asking girls what the time is in the supermarket, or make a brief comment about the sunny weather. That's simple enough, then when your ready try make some female friends, and slowly just expose yourself to women a little more (baby steps) everyday while you keep working on yourself. Then, after a year or two, your life will be so much better than it is now. Then, after another year, you will meet the right girl, and so on so forth. Just avoid all the alt right false notions of masculinity and your good. As long as it's authentic, it's good. And to be honest bro, I think your better than you give yourself credit. Please just think on my advice and start with very brief interactions. It may not seem like much but you'll get there. Proud of you bro, keep it up.
Dating is definitely hard. All you can do is be the best version of you. As dorky as it sounds, your mom or sister will keep it real with you when giving you advice.
This is true but incorrect you I’ve been around woman maybe more than men through out my life and woman care more about your status and masculinity more than looks and money are nothing but a tug of war and if you are attractive and have no money she may even sleep with you but but she won’t keep sleeping with you and she will go as far to date a guy maybe a little less attractive if he’s more masculine and has more money she will leave for that less attractive guy I have seen this happen on multiple occasions in my personal life woman will cheat on their attractive boyfriend on a old man who has money I don’t know what kind of small where you guys live in it seem your intentionally searching up these videos to throw a pitty party
Depends what attractiveness we're talking about, I am not fit have a belly just not fat in clothes. But girls including my gf told me I have a good looking face. So even if you're not a 8 or 9 you have chance being above average in some way however if you dont you wont really have a chance. If you do have a girlfriend being ugly I would think twice if there isnt a reason for why someone would be with you especially financially reasons.
Good point! My friend's now wife, back then they weren't married. He proposed to her, she told him I can't marry you, working at Arby's. He was able to find a job that pays the bills, after that conversation. It's been close to 15 years that they have been married.
Ive been told in my younger years i was very good looking and have always had girlfriend.My wife of ten years recently left me .The common denominator of how all my relationships ended has always been my negative account balance. Now im 50, old,wrinkly,grey,bald fat and ugly .Ive been alone for a whole year and know it will be permanent.
She did block me on snap after I said hey what’s up to start a conversation but while she was pretty and it hurts I just gotta move on and except she ain’t for me even if she did unblock me it’s not the same she had the chance already but yeah I’m just gonna improve on myself
@@AZrakoon hmmmm i would have to guess,that he means women are the major consumers of fashion industry, therefore they constantly see genetically good looking people that are models in fashion magazines, t.v.celebrities movies world, we are somewhat program to compare what is deem attractive person base on hollywood/fashion . so women want the best looking man they can get, looks very important to women. men care too but just not as much picky women are.
Yeah looks matter but men make it seem like conifence and money matter most, as that's within our control putting everyone equal. But your looks is your genetics, It is very real and authentic. It isnt fake.
The answer is "some do, some don't", me I don't care about looks since everybody looks different (however, most guys don't want to date a 5-foot-1 hobbit who looks like she's 12 years old, though, despite the fact she's an adult who was born in 2001). All I ask is that someone have a connection with me, enjoy talking with me (I love to talk, most guys find that annoying), practice basic hygiene (as in try to shower at least once a week), doesn't order me around, doesn't break my things, doesn't physically attack me during an argument. I also like getting complimented, I don't require it but I'm a human being with feelings and I like to feel desirable. I especially like when my neck is complimented. Seriously, compliment my neck and you instantly become like a celebrity crush to me. Also, I suck at flirting, my "flirting" pretty much consists of smiling nervously, forgetting to swallow my spit, and saying "yeah" constantly.
At the end all that will matter is how you treat others. You can date someone that looks good, but if they are terrible person, you will not see them physically attractive after a while.
are you sure you don't care about looks girls usually say they to virtue signal. Also is your pfp what you look like if so you're pretty cute anyways I feel like most guys would love to talk to you so I find that hard to believe I'd prob date u if I could but eh you probably wouldn't notice me anyway, it's very lonely being a young man (I'm almost a year older than you) barely anyone wants to talk to you. I just want someone I could talk to and listen to oldies with, cuddle and dance together and maybe even do picnics or just spend the day out together. I'm about 6'3 and I've gotten rejected by girls that are less attractive than you one was pretty short with a pizza face and kinda overweight, I don't really have high standards when it comes to the looks of women lol I'm mainly invisible or get ignored and rejected or ghosted just because they just didn't find me good looking especially at the time when I was 18 I got the usual "I don't want a relationship right now" or "I have a boyfriend" which usually just means the girl just thinks you're unattractive my confidence tanked thanks to that I wish I looked like a male model so girls would actually wanna talk to me.
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@AZrakoon its not about thinking all woman are like this its about knowing all woman are like this because its true and moving forward in life will be alot easier
@@AaronWhite-o5f you can control weight, clothing and hygiene. Now, if no woman finds you attractive after working on those things, its your personality.
I disagree with your conclusion. Looks matter in the short and long term. Women value looks a lot more than you think. I am 5'8 and have a small d***. But I do what I can. I try to wear good clothes. I am really good at cooking. Skincare. I agree that being kind helps. Planning to take Manicure, Pedicure and massage classes to please my partner more.
@@AZrakoon They have but I'm older now and people my age don't say that directly to each other anymore (maybe behind my back they call still call me that).
As you get older, i cant say that women care less because all Women have different mindsets and views on ''does looks matter''. In a relationship rn, 19 years old guy and your best bet is for real your personality and your ability to hold responsibility, your skills etc. Charisma and your capabilities. It adds up. Dont overthink it, just do your best and what you can do. Charisma holds close ties with joint efforts from both looks and the way you conduct yourself which Women and not teenage girls are after. At least thats my view you know. Ill be for real with you like 70% of the people in these comments are saying looks matter, its best not to go off a yt comments section and actualy experiment with it, go over your past situations with the women you've met before and think through why t might not have worked out or what you could have done to make it work etc.
People are so wrong when they say something like "Looks will get your foot in the door" It doesn't lol. When it comes to building healthy relationships, there must be a genuine attraction which is based on looks solely. Genuine attraction causes sexual desire. Sexual desire is a foundation for a healthy relationship with a straight man and woman. See now where it is getting? Looks are pretty much the only thing you should have here. All these talks about personality, etc are BS as it is not relevant. If a woman likes a man, he wants him, he starts to be with him, if either one of the couple desires a relationship then figures out that they are not compatible in everyday life matters, they separate and everything starts from the beginning with different actors. One misconception that some people may have is that there are "good" or "bad" personalities but often confuse this with moral or legal concepts which are irrelevant in the context of building interpersonal relationships between males and females. That's the reason why all of a sudden some people got themselves confused on "what did she find in him"(him being a drug addict, convicted felon, etc). So what else matters except looks for women - money, or in general any materialistic benefits that she could get out of the connection with a man especially if she finds him unattractive? It may be his high status in society, so a woman could expand her social circle, date up, etc. Or blatantly when a woman desires just to live a better life she would connect with someone she deems unworthy, but who can provide for her from the bottom of her heart, normally it can be seen in the wild when divorce proceedings where women would manage to have her revenge on the despicable man she had to sleep with till this point, you can see it clearly if you pay close attention to who women behave. Be aware when someone tells you that "oh, you should work on yourself"(in any direction ostensibly to compensate the look effectively) - wrong as long as it is not about the looks only. **Confidence** In the dating context, this is such a buzzword that people keep throwing ait round without too much thinking about it especially to rebuke some low-quality, physically deficient and unattractive men as this is their fault and they should "work on it". If you break this real quick, you can see that this statement is not entirely untrue as confidence is indeed a part of the personality which a person develops and it can go in different ways, unlike genetics like your final height, the colour of your eyes or a skull shape. The thing is that the resulting "value" of confidence is effectively built on the experience that the person has had. So, we all start at square 1, right, but see, a person with good genes will start exhibiting them early on and early on he will gradually become more accepted in his actions, and his deeds will be evaluated likely in a more positive manner, but the guy who will end up being 5"9 in his adulthood and balding at 19, from the beginning will receive more negative treatment doing them. That's why no sh*t short guy with a weak chin who hasn't had a lot of success in his low life will end up having "the lack of confidence". **Cheating** All women cheat. Period. It doesn't matter if she f*cked with her Char 10/10 BF an hour ago or she was gifted with a brand new Bugatti La Voiture Noire in bright pink color, she'll be on high alert seeking a new one to have a short affair, ONS, hangover with, if for some reason women in relationships with a provider she'll have to do this more vigorously that's all the difference. This is not because women are bad or any misogyny that you may think may be behind this post - NO. This is a law of nature that was established even before Homo sapiens came into the picture, can't do anything about it. **Drama** Also, worth mentioning, especially for guys who haven't had relationships with a girl at theirs 18-21 and all costs desire to jump into relationships. There is one common trait that modern women share - it is that women can't stand being bored(this was indirectly mentioned in my 2nd statement above). There is something that should be there like fast-changing scenery, change in partners, new acquaintances, events, just any adventures to keep a woman's adrenaline high and to make her excited and interested. For a guy who hasn't had a woman in his life this behaviour may cause a lot of burden and unnecessary drama that may come as a result of any adventures that didn't go well.
Well looks aren’t everything. It’s all about attraction. I want a man to love me for who I am. He doesn’t have to be the finest thing, but it has to be something about him that attracts me to him. Whether it be your smile, laugh, or just your sweet kindness. If he treats me with kindness, and respects me then that’s all that matters. 💜
@@AZrakoon Looks are not the most important thing. It’s Love that is the most important thing to me. I can’t speak for every other woman. I want a man to Love me and allow me to Love him and treat him like a King. Also I think you’re very sweet. You’ll find the perfect woman for you one day. Be yourself and never change, but if you decide to change do it for yourself. Eat healthy, work out and become a beast in the gym, and stack your money up. You’re already handsome, and working out will enhance your greatness. I Promise the right woman that God has for you will come to you. Have a Good Day. 😊
Everyone cares about looks! My ex traded me in for a younger woman… I just want someone who loves and obeys the lord and is good to me… the rest I can work with…
@@betallyoungattractive644 not for me I love with my heart.. I know I’m not an insta model I’m not perfect… I had an attractive man all he did was cheat and abuse me… I care more that a man is strong in his faith and kind… but I’m old and old fashioned
@@betallyoungattractive644 I don’t know if my reply posted so I’ll post again… no… I know I’m not perfect so why expect it of a man… he just needs to be strong in his faith and be kind!
@@betallyoungattractive644 who has those things ?I literally have no social media? Why don’t you go be disrespectful on your own platform? You know nothing about me..
@@betallyoungattractive644 and like I said and my comment got deleted I don’t need a man to be anything or anyone but himself, I know that I am not perfect why would I expect a man to be. I’ve been reading your comments and it would appear you are a bit of a troll just trying to cause problems and this gentleman tends to spread positivity and good vibes so you are in the wrong place. I hope you can find some peace and happiness to help you will whatever is making you feel like you need to try to cause problems with strangers, GOD bless you
Yes they do but to a lesser extent then men do. Men see while women feel. Looking good will certainly increase your chances from 1% to like 10%. Honestly mate you got a good lucking face underneath the fat. I know it's hard losing it, I'm on the journey myself. I recommend you invest your time in learning about "Volume Eating".
Yes. Its definitely about the personality for those who actually care about the heart and not the looks. Although being attractive isnt wrong lol. But i agree. Find your best friend. Im waiting for mine. Also God bless. And Jesus loves you alot my guy. 😌🙌💖
Ultimately woman care about how a man makes them feel. You can look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame and still be able to have woman find you attractive. its about your energy, your essence. insecurity is the ultimate downfall of men when it comes to women. All these online gurus kinda play up the fact that its about looks, money and materials. At the end of the day woman love a man that makes them feel good. It is subjective as to what a woman wants yes. But at the end of the day a woman just wants a man that makes them feel good. Men need to just look at traditional values when it comes to relationships and see that there is so much more than just sex and body counts. There are plenty of good traditional woman out there. Social media just kinda highlights all the nonsense more then the truth. My darling girl is truly what made me see the light at the end of the day. I was in a bad place, but when I met her everything started becoming so much more clear to me that there is to much misinformation floating around these days about many things. Men need to look within in order to see the world in front of them. The real truth is right in front of you and not in some online echo chamber full of insecurity and and lies. Thank you AZrakoon for spreading much needed optimism to the world !
Quasimodo, is a good example. People only focus on one aspect, they dont lie, but give the impression that it's all bad or all good. There's pros and cons to everything. Sadly the internet has people highlighting extremes. Thanks for the kind words!
@@AZrakoon Hunchback of Notre Dame was a very black pilled book. It has a big comparison with an incel (Quasimodo) and Chad (Phoebus) and how they're treated by Esmeralda. HoND was way ahead of it's time dispelling the myth of Disney before Disney even existed.
@@DodoJacket Quasimodo is not an incel. He doesn't have bitterness towards Esmerelda for not picking him romantically. She was still the only person to ever show him kindness and that is why he fell in love with her too, not because of her looks. Frollo was the incel, because he condemned Esmerelda for her beauty while at the same time wanting to control her and own her. His inability to have her manifested as spite towards her, like a typical incel. I suggest rewatching the movie if you didn't get it. Yes, at the end of the day, all humans care about looks. But most women also are looking for life partners, and knowing that looks fade, would rather have someone that treats them with respect and brings joy to their lives, unless they have low self esteem. Low self esteem is the root of many toxic behaviors and poor choices.
@@ololusername I'm talking about the book. The movie is not accurate it was twisted to fit what Disney was about. Frollo was kind of a gray character in the book, he raised Quasimodo because nobody would take care of him after his mother abandoned him for being hideous because Frollo was an orphan before he joined the convert. Also in the book Esmeralda was so disgusted looking at Quasimodo she would not even look at him even after he saved her. Also Phoebus betrays her when Frollo orders him to capture her even though she shown affection towards him. Phoebus role ends there he was not some Disney prince. The Disney really twisted many boy's minds thinking they can just be friends with women and being friendzoned was not the end but it actually is.
It's long story, man. I had good women come by, and I was stupid enough to reject them. There was a lot happening in my life, and I was not thinking right.
When women do care about looks, it's more along the lines of a status symbol. For example, there some dudes who look like a k-pop star, and women will want others to perceive she has some top tier dude, who is fashionable and looks like he might make money. Pretty dumb, if you ask me.
Looks will get your foot in the door, so yes, women do care about looks. You won’t get a chance to show your personality if you can’t get past the threshold. I can confidently say this as a man in his late 30’s who’s been denied entrance pretty much every attempt.
Looks do get immediate attention. How do you explain ugly, fat and low middle class men get girlfriends and wives? Go to Walmart or some grocery store around 5pm or later, and you will see it. Incels havent seen it because they're too busy playing video games or on reddit spewing their toxic thoughts.
@@AZrakoon
Those men get wives because they picked those men because they settled and they feel like he will be easier to control and not leave her and her kids.
They will do down in looks to get a relationship rather than stay a side chick to the men she’s attracted to.
@@TheShowOff2I nah, most women who date ugly guys are because they were in a friendgroup together or got recommended by friends. So they got to see the personality and just fell in love. At least in my opinion
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If she has options she will friend zone him.
If she realizes that she doesn’t she will get into a relationship with him.
Simple.
@@krulak292 yes, that's what happens most of the time. When you're their friend's, friend. Women will find it easier to trust you.
Looks do matter more, looks drive you in and personality keeps you in
Looks do get you in the door, but if you cant retain a woman, it's like not being able to attract them. Being nice will sale, many times.
Women care about looks, men care about looks, basically every gender in between cares about looks, because all of us humans care about looks, we would be lying to ourselves and each other if we said we didn't care about looks. We want a partner who looks good, that is basic common sense. You need to take good care of yourself and present yourself in a presentable manner, show that you want to be worth your partner's time.
Thanks for your thoughts
Females are into fashion. That means they're into physical looks more than guys.
We’re all superficial to varying degrees. Humans are human. We’re all pretty much full of you know what. We’re actors, performers; we wear so many faces in order to impress people and to gain or maintain social status. But it’s comical, because underneath our acts we’re all just a bunch of confused apes trying to appear more together and certain than we really are.
Human society is a comedy show.
A few points based on my observations over the years:
a) many women without makeup look virtually unrecognizable;
b) dating today is a psychological chess match, turning off *both* men and women in large volumes who either had bad experiences or do not want to partake altogether;
c) value of dating has diminished as compared to previous generations due to technology, high divorce rate and acceptance in society of being a single (and childless) adult.
Agreed
Its become so hard, most just say: forget it.
Short answer yes
For some dudes.
If a man is good looking but is a jerk, that is a huge turn off for a lot of women. I was with two extremely attractive men for a while. Yes I was smitten but then their personalities turned out to be not so great and I was the one who ultimately broke it off. But yeah, it helps to be attractive to get things started, but doesn't mean it will last. I've been attracted to men who are not conventionally attractive, also, because they were really smart or had nice personalities. So I guess I'd say that yes women care about looks but there is more to it.
Also, not all women find all the same men physically attractive. Many men think women care about looks as much as them, that's why you see some men have good looking girlfriends that treat them horribly. Some guys have no self respect
Obviously they do..
Thanks for your thoughts
Forget about them work on improving your life accomplish that first
Well said!
yup exactly. you can't live your life to please other people. that never works.
agree..short term yes. long term No
I semi-agree with you, my friend. Only thing I would add is that in individualistic selfish Western cultures, looks are WAY more important than in more traditional cultures. Otherwise yes, it's generally more complicated w/ women. Example, I got a beautiful American girl in my mid 20s when I was very much better looking, but it was an overall terrible relationship based in lust and I discarded all red flags, and we broke up 1.5 yrs ago. Now at 32, I went to Paraguay, got an even PRETTIER girl (luckily) but I'm less attractive kuz I've gained weight, etc. BUT I am much more mature, economically stable, emotionally stable, and don't ONLY care about if the woman is beautiful. So anyways, overall I think I agree w/ your analysis, but I'd just make the distinctions with cultures. Love the description in your channel by the way, about not being a cry-baby like everyone else... LOL
Thanks! Sadly the world has changed for the worst. The best thing to do is move forward, and encourage others as well:)
Yes and often that's all they care about. Add the bad boy factor as well.
Thanks for your comment
i disagree. looks aren't all women care about. some women fall for men who are not conventionally attractive. I'm attracted to very intelligent men, regardless of looks. Over the years I've become wary of really good looking men because they tend to be jerks. I guess it depends on the woman. I am repulsed by bad boys. been there, done that. not good.
looks matter but to some its not everything. Theres some women out there who really do care about your personality.
Also, not all women think the same guys are attractive. Not all women are a monolith. The person in the inside, is going to matter the most.
"Some" women care about personality... as in hardly any... all they care about is looks and money
@@AaronWhite-o5f I mean I can’t speak for every woman on earth but Ik there’s a lot out there that do care about personality. I do agree that a lot of women care about looks tho. Idk why our society makes it seem like women don’t care about looks.
they certainly do care man...
Then you put down the phone and go in public, and you see the black pilled youtubers lied.
I have found that having a great sense of humor really appeals to women, obviously looks make a difference but being a considerate person is more valuable in the end.
Right on💪also all women are different, some think you are ugly, some other can help it and cant stop staring at you, because she finds you attractive. Forget the women that dont like you.
Well, yes. Women do care about looks. Men also cares about looks. Beauty is what attracts us, its been like this for centuries. We aren't the first and we will not be the last.
But what I found what matters more is their personality. As cringe and as old that advice is. Its true. I rather be with a woman that makes me feel good, then a woman who looks good but is terrible to me.
Got only 1 life to live, don't waste it on someone who makes you miserable.
But yes, looks matter for both genders. Not just women.
Thanks for elaborating, well said!
Yes! I'd much rather have a kind and loving guy then a "pretty" one 😂❤
Problem with that is some women think their personality can win you over while they are killing themselves with their obesity. Some balance needs to be achieved.
I love the wind noise.
Listen look after yourself PLEASE.
Eat your greens
Not too much screen time
Do you paint/ draw?
It's funny you like it, so many people complain in other youtube channels about the wind noise. Thanks for the love!
Do men care about looks?
What do you think?
yes
You are so ok. Thanks 🤗
Thank you too!
All humans are attracted to beauty, there is some research are done on babies and also babies are attracted to it.
It's something definitely natural.
Weight is your main problem, you have the face and the personality, you just need the last key.
Go carnivore if you can't do something else and Goodluck.
I'm just an opinion.
I've heard of that, small children will keep looking at beautiful people.
Looks always were important. Many studies and experiments prove this.
Thanks for your thoughts
No, it's actually not that complicated ...... Women are attracted to the physical just as much as men are.
It does, but for men its non negotiable. Women seem to place higher emphasis on feelings more than looks. A guy can be good looking to a woman, but if hes narcissist it's a deal breaker. A dumb man, will choose an evil beautiful woman.
In my experience yes, but it's not necessary to be in a relationship with them. It's more about how you present yourself. How's your style? Are you wearing a nice cologne? How's your breath? Does your hair/beard fit your face shape? Abs are really not essential. It's more face, smell, and clothing. The rest are just personality, self esteem, and your overall ability to believe in yourself. For example, AZrakoon has a wonderful smile, shiny eyes, and simple but nice clothes. He has a solid mindset, and an honest personality. But because you have struggled in the past, you might have some self esteem issues and probably have more work to do on yourself. Now I'm not a professional, so don't take this as gospel because I barely know you, but I would say if you just work on yourself and integrate healthy masculinity, and carry yourself with some more pride, it might take a year or 2 of self improvement, but eventually you will attract a good woman. The key word is attract. You literally reap what you sell. So keep working on being a good man because you clearly have a good heart, and soon enough, the right girl will show up at the right time. I think your on the right path, but do some more work on yourself and learn to talk to women. Just talk to them, nothing romantic. Start by just asking girls what the time is in the supermarket, or make a brief comment about the sunny weather. That's simple enough, then when your ready try make some female friends, and slowly just expose yourself to women a little more (baby steps) everyday while you keep working on yourself. Then, after a year or two, your life will be so much better than it is now. Then, after another year, you will meet the right girl, and so on so forth. Just avoid all the alt right false notions of masculinity and your good. As long as it's authentic, it's good. And to be honest bro, I think your better than you give yourself credit. Please just think on my advice and start with very brief interactions. It may not seem like much but you'll get there. Proud of you bro, keep it up.
Dating is definitely hard. All you can do is be the best version of you. As dorky as it sounds, your mom or sister will keep it real with you when giving you advice.
Bro can you make a vid about how to find direction when you don't know which job or career you wanna do
Good topic, I will.
Women care about more than looks the care about money.
Start talking to women, I know it's scary, but I have faith you will do just fine.
If you have no looks and not a great smooth personality you probably won't do well. Best to just forget relationships and dating.
This is true but incorrect you I’ve been around woman maybe more than men through out my life and woman care more about your status and masculinity more than looks and money are nothing but a tug of war and if you are attractive and have no money she may even sleep with you but but she won’t keep sleeping with you and she will go as far to date a guy maybe a little less attractive if he’s more masculine and has more money she will leave for that less attractive guy I have seen this happen on multiple occasions in my personal life woman will cheat on their attractive boyfriend on a old man who has money I don’t know what kind of small where you guys live in it seem your intentionally searching up these videos to throw a pitty party
Depends what attractiveness we're talking about, I am not fit have a belly just not fat in clothes. But girls including my gf told me I have a good looking face. So even if you're not a 8 or 9 you have chance being above average in some way however if you dont you wont really have a chance. If you do have a girlfriend being ugly I would think twice if there isnt a reason for why someone would be with you especially financially reasons.
Good point! My friend's now wife, back then they weren't married. He proposed to her, she told him I can't marry you, working at Arby's. He was able to find a job that pays the bills, after that conversation. It's been close to 15 years that they have been married.
@@AZrakoon less attractive guys may have girls but those guys always compensate by working really really hard
Ive been told in my younger years i was very good looking and have always had girlfriend.My wife of ten years recently left me .The common denominator of how all my relationships ended has always been my negative account balance. Now im 50, old,wrinkly,grey,bald fat and ugly .Ive been alone for a whole year and know it will be permanent.
If you have been alone for a year, surely you must know a special gal might come along. You got this!
stay up dude! Semper Fi
Thanks man! 🌎⚓🦅
Yes they do-as long as you look like money. Or look like a fashion model.
Those men who think they are fashion models, get women who aren't very feminine most of the time.
@@AZrakoon perhaps. But they also don’t have to masturbate either. In life there are trade offs 🤣
@@AZrakoon lmao delusional
@@squarecracker one track mind
She did block me on snap after I said hey what’s up to start a conversation but while she was pretty and it hurts I just gotta move on and except she ain’t for me even if she did unblock me it’s not the same she had the chance already but yeah I’m just gonna improve on myself
Her loss. Forget about it and move on. Good things are coming.
@@AZrakoon Thanks man sure hope so
I’m 6’4 muscles and some money, I attract a lot of women but I have no experience due to puberty and early childhood and I’m 27 now
Just for clarity. Do you mean you have no experience dating women? Also, I'm not sure why puberty and early childhood was an issue for you.
@@AZrakoon terrible acne and no confidence, had porn addiction. Outgrowing both those now
The fashion industry is your answer sir.
I'm having a hard time understanding your comment. Could you elaborate?
@@AZrakoon hmmmm i would have to guess,that he means women are the major consumers of fashion industry, therefore they constantly see genetically good looking people that are models in fashion magazines, t.v.celebrities movies world, we are somewhat program to compare what is deem attractive person base on hollywood/fashion . so women want the best looking man they can get, looks very important to women. men care too but just not as much picky women are.
Yeah looks matter but men make it seem like conifence and money matter most, as that's within our control putting everyone equal. But your looks is your genetics, It is very real and authentic. It isnt fake.
Thanks for your thoughts
It hurts that I'm not able to attract anyone despite having decent enough looks because of my severe autism freeze up issues
In time, you will be successful, just keep trying💪
Beauty is Transitory, Friend! Except in rare individuals!
Its definitely a token
@AZrakoon
Agreed, but in today's societies, it's everything and the only thing!
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The answer is "some do, some don't", me I don't care about looks since everybody looks different (however, most guys don't want to date a 5-foot-1 hobbit who looks like she's 12 years old, though, despite the fact she's an adult who was born in 2001). All I ask is that someone have a connection with me, enjoy talking with me (I love to talk, most guys find that annoying), practice basic hygiene (as in try to shower at least once a week), doesn't order me around, doesn't break my things, doesn't physically attack me during an argument. I also like getting complimented, I don't require it but I'm a human being with feelings and I like to feel desirable. I especially like when my neck is complimented. Seriously, compliment my neck and you instantly become like a celebrity crush to me. Also, I suck at flirting, my "flirting" pretty much consists of smiling nervously, forgetting to swallow my spit, and saying "yeah" constantly.
At the end all that will matter is how you treat others. You can date someone that looks good, but if they are terrible person, you will not see them physically attractive after a while.
are you sure you don't care about looks girls usually say they to virtue signal. Also is your pfp what you look like if so you're pretty cute anyways I feel like most guys would love to talk to you so I find that hard to believe I'd prob date u if I could but eh you probably wouldn't notice me anyway, it's very lonely being a young man (I'm almost a year older than you) barely anyone wants to talk to you. I just want someone I could talk to and listen to oldies with, cuddle and dance together and maybe even do picnics or just spend the day out together.
I'm about 6'3 and I've gotten rejected by girls that are less attractive than you one was pretty short with a pizza face and kinda overweight, I don't really have high standards when it comes to the looks of women lol I'm mainly invisible or get ignored and rejected or ghosted just because they just didn't find me good looking especially at the time when I was 18 I got the usual "I don't want a relationship right now" or "I have a boyfriend" which usually just means the girl just thinks you're unattractive my confidence tanked thanks to that I wish I looked like a male model so girls would actually wanna talk to me.
More like many do or all do.
Whole lotta yapping
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Looks and social status matter to women. The more you have of one, the less you need of the other.
Thanks for your thoughts
Yes woman are very conceded and obsesed with even there own looks... so like yea all they care about is looks this is commen sence
Do you think all women are like that? Half the population?
@AZrakoon its not about thinking all woman are like this its about knowing all woman are like this because its true and moving forward in life will be alot easier
@@AaronWhite-o5f you can control weight, clothing and hygiene. Now, if no woman finds you attractive after working on those things, its your personality.
How much do you weigh??
I dont know
@@AZrakoon start here
Thank you for sharing your wisdom
You are so welcome! I'm flattered:)
I disagree with your conclusion. Looks matter in the short and long term. Women value looks a lot more than you think.
I am 5'8 and have a small d***. But I do what I can. I try to wear good clothes. I am really good at cooking. Skincare. I agree that being kind helps.
Planning to take Manicure, Pedicure and massage classes to please my partner more.
A small D isn't a problem. If you don't do enough foreplay and finish in 30 seconds, your going to let her down. Can't be selfish.
*Answer* : Yes
*Source* : Me getting rejected for years for not being good looking...LOL
Do women tell you, you're ugly?
@@AZrakoon They have but I'm older now and people my age don't say that directly to each other anymore (maybe behind my back they call still call me that).
As you get older, i cant say that women care less because all Women have different mindsets and views on ''does looks matter''. In a relationship rn, 19 years old guy and your best bet is for real your personality and your ability to hold responsibility, your skills etc.
Charisma and your capabilities. It adds up. Dont overthink it, just do your best and what you can do.
Charisma holds close ties with joint efforts from both looks and the way you conduct yourself which Women and not teenage girls are after. At least thats my view you know.
Ill be for real with you like 70% of the people in these comments are saying looks matter, its best not to go off a yt comments section and actualy experiment with it, go over your past situations with the women you've met before and think through why t might not have worked out or what you could have done to make it work etc.
Exactly! We tend to over the k as humans. All you can do is your best. In time the results will come.
Words of wisdom. Confidence is everything. But as you say, there are many different things to consider. Confidence is certainly foundational though.
You are the best on the planet ❤
Thanks
If my wife married me, it means that my personality is pretty decent, considering what I look like 🤣
Yeah...lol
People are so wrong when they say something like "Looks will get your foot in the door" It doesn't lol. When it comes to building healthy relationships, there must be a genuine attraction which is based on looks solely. Genuine attraction causes sexual desire. Sexual desire is a foundation for a healthy relationship with a straight man and woman. See now where it is getting? Looks are pretty much the only thing you should have here.
All these talks about personality, etc are BS as it is not relevant. If a woman likes a man, he wants him, he starts to be with him, if either one of the couple desires a relationship then figures out that they are not compatible in everyday life matters, they separate and everything starts from the beginning with different actors. One misconception that some people may have is that there are "good" or "bad" personalities but often confuse this with moral or legal concepts which are irrelevant in the context of building interpersonal relationships between males and females. That's the reason why all of a sudden some people got themselves confused on "what did she find in him"(him being a drug addict, convicted felon, etc).
So what else matters except looks for women - money, or in general any materialistic benefits that she could get out of the connection with a man especially if she finds him unattractive? It may be his high status in society, so a woman could expand her social circle, date up, etc. Or blatantly when a woman desires just to live a better life she would connect with someone she deems unworthy, but who can provide for her from the bottom of her heart, normally it can be seen in the wild when divorce proceedings where women would manage to have her revenge on the despicable man she had to sleep with till this point, you can see it clearly if you pay close attention to who women behave.
Be aware when someone tells you that "oh, you should work on yourself"(in any direction ostensibly to compensate the look effectively) - wrong as long as it is not about the looks only.
**Confidence**
In the dating context, this is such a buzzword that people keep throwing ait round without too much thinking about it especially to rebuke some low-quality, physically deficient and unattractive men as this is their fault and they should "work on it". If you break this real quick, you can see that this statement is not entirely untrue as confidence is indeed a part of the personality which a person develops and it can go in different ways, unlike genetics like your final height, the colour of your eyes or a skull shape. The thing is that the resulting "value" of confidence is effectively built on the experience that the person has had. So, we all start at square 1, right, but see, a person with good genes will start exhibiting them early on and early on he will gradually become more accepted in his actions, and his deeds will be evaluated likely in a more positive manner, but the guy who will end up being 5"9 in his adulthood and balding at 19, from the beginning will receive more negative treatment doing them. That's why no sh*t short guy with a weak chin who hasn't had a lot of success in his low life will end up having "the lack of confidence".
**Cheating**
All women cheat. Period. It doesn't matter if she f*cked with her Char 10/10 BF an hour ago or she was gifted with a brand new Bugatti La Voiture Noire in bright pink color, she'll be on high alert seeking a new one to have a short affair, ONS, hangover with, if for some reason women in relationships with a provider she'll have to do this more vigorously that's all the difference. This is not because women are bad or any misogyny that you may think may be behind this post - NO. This is a law of nature that was established even before Homo sapiens came into the picture, can't do anything about it.
**Drama**
Also, worth mentioning, especially for guys who haven't had relationships with a girl at theirs 18-21 and all costs desire to jump into relationships. There is one common trait that modern women share - it is that women can't stand being bored(this was indirectly mentioned in my 2nd statement above). There is something that should be there like fast-changing scenery, change in partners, new acquaintances, events, just any adventures to keep a woman's adrenaline high and to make her excited and interested. For a guy who hasn't had a woman in his life this behaviour may cause a lot of burden and unnecessary drama that may come as a result of any adventures that didn't go well.
Thanks for your thoughts
All my love to you 💗
Love you too
Well looks aren’t everything. It’s all about attraction. I want a man to love me for who I am. He doesn’t have to be the finest thing, but it has to be something about him that attracts me to him. Whether it be your smile, laugh, or just your sweet kindness. If he treats me with kindness, and respects me then that’s all that matters. 💜
Thanks, I love that woman comment on these videos. Incels need to start seeing looks are not the most important thing.
@@AZrakoon Looks are not the most important thing. It’s Love that is the most important thing to me. I can’t speak for every other woman. I want a man to Love me and allow me to Love him and treat him like a King. Also I think you’re very sweet. You’ll find the perfect woman for you one day. Be yourself and never change, but if you decide to change do it for yourself. Eat healthy, work out and become a beast in the gym, and stack your money up. You’re already handsome, and working out will enhance your greatness. I Promise the right woman that God has for you will come to you. Have a Good Day. 😊
@@Jay-ef2ii define both terms
I never listen to what a woman says, I watch what they do.
All my love to you 💗❤
Everyone cares about looks! My ex traded me in for a younger woman… I just want someone who loves and obeys the lord and is good to me… the rest I can work with…
@@betallyoungattractive644 not for me I love with my heart.. I know I’m not an insta model I’m not perfect… I had an attractive man all he did was cheat and abuse me… I care more that a man is strong in his faith and kind… but I’m old and old fashioned
@@betallyoungattractive644 I don’t know if my reply posted so I’ll post again… no… I know I’m not perfect so why expect it of a man… he just needs to be strong in his faith and be kind!
I'm so sorry to hear that, I can imagine it feels terrible. Some human beings are very ungrateful and nothing is ever good enough for them.
@@betallyoungattractive644 who has those things ?I literally have no social media? Why don’t you go be disrespectful on your own platform? You know nothing about me..
@@betallyoungattractive644 and like I said and my comment got deleted I don’t need a man to be anything or anyone but himself, I know that I am not perfect why would I expect a man to be. I’ve been reading your comments and it would appear you are a bit of a troll just trying to cause problems and this gentleman tends to spread positivity and good vibes so you are in the wrong place. I hope you can find some peace and happiness to help you will whatever is making you feel like you need to try to cause problems with strangers, GOD bless you
Yes they do but to a lesser extent then men do. Men see while women feel. Looking good will certainly increase your chances from 1% to like 10%. Honestly mate you got a good lucking face underneath the fat. I know it's hard losing it, I'm on the journey myself. I recommend you invest your time in learning about "Volume Eating".
Never heard of volume eating. Thanks for the advice.
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Thanks for your thoughts
Do you have any special health condition? If not, I suggest working out more, you seem to have a lot of potential!
Thanks
Yes. Its definitely about the personality for those who actually care about the heart and not the looks. Although being attractive isnt wrong lol. But i agree. Find your best friend. Im waiting for mine. Also God bless. And Jesus loves you alot my guy. 😌🙌💖
You wont regret it either. Never marry a guy, just because he makes good money.
@AZrakoon Amen my guy, amen! Have a nice night
All my love to you 💗❤
Ultimately woman care about how a man makes them feel. You can look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame and still be able to have woman find you attractive. its about your energy, your essence. insecurity is the ultimate downfall of men when it comes to women. All these online gurus kinda play up the fact that its about looks, money and materials. At the end of the day woman love a man that makes them feel good. It is subjective as to what a woman wants yes. But at the end of the day a woman just wants a man that makes them feel good. Men need to just look at traditional values when it comes to relationships and see that there is so much more than just sex and body counts. There are plenty of good traditional woman out there. Social media just kinda highlights all the nonsense more then the truth. My darling girl is truly what made me see the light at the end of the day. I was in a bad place, but when I met her everything started becoming so much more clear to me that there is to much misinformation floating around these days about many things. Men need to look within in order to see the world in front of them. The real truth is right in front of you and not in some online echo chamber full of insecurity and and lies. Thank you AZrakoon for spreading much needed optimism to the world !
Quasimodo, is a good example. People only focus on one aspect, they dont lie, but give the impression that it's all bad or all good. There's pros and cons to everything. Sadly the internet has people highlighting extremes. Thanks for the kind words!
@@AZrakoon Hunchback of Notre Dame was a very black pilled book. It has a big comparison with an incel (Quasimodo) and Chad (Phoebus) and how they're treated by Esmeralda. HoND was way ahead of it's time dispelling the myth of Disney before Disney even existed.
@@DodoJacket Quasimodo is not an incel. He doesn't have bitterness towards Esmerelda for not picking him romantically. She was still the only person to ever show him kindness and that is why he fell in love with her too, not because of her looks. Frollo was the incel, because he condemned Esmerelda for her beauty while at the same time wanting to control her and own her. His inability to have her manifested as spite towards her, like a typical incel. I suggest rewatching the movie if you didn't get it.
Yes, at the end of the day, all humans care about looks. But most women also are looking for life partners, and knowing that looks fade, would rather have someone that treats them with respect and brings joy to their lives, unless they have low self esteem. Low self esteem is the root of many toxic behaviors and poor choices.
@@ololusername I'm talking about the book. The movie is not accurate it was twisted to fit what Disney was about. Frollo was kind of a gray character in the book, he raised Quasimodo because nobody would take care of him after his mother abandoned him for being hideous because Frollo was an orphan before he joined the convert. Also in the book Esmeralda was so disgusted looking at Quasimodo she would not even look at him even after he saved her. Also Phoebus betrays her when Frollo orders him to capture her even though she shown affection towards him. Phoebus role ends there he was not some Disney prince. The Disney really twisted many boy's minds thinking they can just be friends with women and being friendzoned was not the end but it actually is.
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(entendí quasi tudo ;-)
Adoro que você fala Espanhol.
Muito bom.
Abraços 🤗🇵🇹
Falar = hablar.
Muchas gracias, lo agradesco!
Looks come secondary money is number1.Just go to these bars and clubs and check how many fine women are with ugly guys that have 89 k cars.
Exactly! You have to much people listening to these black pill dudes who never talked a woman irl, thinking looks are all that matter.
Nah I'm done I can't afford to lose more than I have lost.These women out here are ruthless man!
If you dont want to date them, you dont have to. You dont owe anyone anything.
ok but tell us your dating life and not what you would like to think
It's long story, man. I had good women come by, and I was stupid enough to reject them. There was a lot happening in my life, and I was not thinking right.
Well, yes they do😅!
Unless you're rich...lol
@@AZrakoon Yes. Rich an famous. Maybe you should make a video about Leo di Caprio and his success women? 😂
He is famous even here in Poland😂
Unfortunately yes.
Thanks for your thoughts
As an xx chromosome, yes we do... go look into blackpill
Women ordinarily don't suggest to watch blackpill videos. I wasn't born yesterday.
@@AZrakoon Definite trojan horse lol
Dios te bendiga grandemente en Él Bendito Nombre de Jesús. Amen, Amen y Amen.
Dios lo bending tambien. Saludos!
All my love to you 💗❤😊
Love you too
Do you have a wife or a married or have a girlfriend or what have you
I'm single. I could have been married years ago, I was just not ready.
@@AZrakoon How old are you now?
@@freshtoast3879 37
@@freshtoast3879 37
@AZrakoon cool. Can you see yourself getting married in the future? I'm 31, and it just never happened for me, so I just stopped trying..
Yes lol
When women do care about looks, it's more along the lines of a status symbol. For example, there some dudes who look like a k-pop star, and women will want others to perceive she has some top tier dude, who is fashionable and looks like he might make money. Pretty dumb, if you ask me.
@@AZrakoonstop coping please
@AZrakoon I don't think most women like girly looking men like kpop stars. Maybe only in Korea women want that.
If there narcissist women they don't care about look s
When a woman cares about looks, its more of how she is perceived by others. Men is more, of it for breeding purposes.
You look like Ron Livingston
That's the first time, I've heard that before..lol
No
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In this order
Money
Status
No prenuptial
Looks
Height
Thanks for your comment
Thanks for your thoughts
I say:
Face
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