Stop Letting People Drain Your Energy: Introverts, Social Anxiety, Empaths, HSP

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  • How to Stop Letting People Drain Your Energy: Especially for Introverts, Empaths, Those with Social Anxiety, Shy People, Highly Sensitive People (HSP) and People Pleasers
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 48

  • @khadijahwestmoreland5010
    @khadijahwestmoreland5010 7 років тому +10

    "We are the weirdos" that's why I love you! Salute! 💜

  • @sheilawroten4559
    @sheilawroten4559 6 років тому +7

    ..I just found you & not a moment to soon. I just blocked a relative who drains me. He is ultra negative about almost everything that inspires & revives me. I just "can't anymore, at least not in the near future. I love him & I want the best for him but I just cannot anymore. (He's my 57 yr old brother)

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  6 років тому

      Protect your heart and soul. xoxoxo

  • @agreatday9566
    @agreatday9566 3 роки тому +1

    Look cuz, don’t feel bad! I see you and I feel you! I am dealing with this right now and my sis moved back to other side of the country last week! I know you’re saying I hope I don’t get in trouble for this about extended family, but I bet you didn’t know 3 years later a cousin would be watching this who needed to hear that at this moment!!! Thanks for speaking the truth!! ❤️ It makes me feel less alone. And I’m really trying to just be me and not be dragged into those zillion of minutes. Thank you and I love you 🙏🏽💗 so many blessings

  • @lwarfield52
    @lwarfield52 7 років тому +9

    Stop Letting People Drain Your Energy... is just what I needed to hear, excellent video. Amazing uplift. Thank you.

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  7 років тому +1

      Thank you -- awesome! So glad that we are connected. And definitely stop letting them drain your energy. xoxo

  • @noneng7199
    @noneng7199 3 роки тому

    Daddy god brought me here, so grateful. May you be bless in jesus name today. Thank you for blessing my heart today🥰🌈

  • @Kalik8000
    @Kalik8000 4 роки тому +3

    The lighting is wonderful.... I thought you had employed a filter..... You look straight out of a vintage Ebony or Jet magazine cover 💖📸🎬💵🔮

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  4 роки тому +1

      YAY -- that makes so happy!! Thank you. :-)

    • @Kalik8000
      @Kalik8000 4 роки тому

      @@AbiolaAbrams You are absolutely welcomed 😍

  • @makeyourselfproudpod
    @makeyourselfproudpod 6 років тому +3

    The setting you are in is so beautiful! Makes me feel like I am in Bali! Such a wonderful video to share and makes so much sense that being yourself would not drain you as opposed to trying to be someone else who is trying to please everyone. I’m a person who loves my own time and has always tried to fit in. Over the last 6 months I have been working on myself and have noticed how less draining being in a social setting is because I feel more free to be authentic. Thanks for sharing!! 🙏💕

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  6 років тому

      You are welcome, goddess! Yes, sis, my Bali retreat was pretty magical. It was called Abundance Pray Love -- and my current feminine power retreat is called Goddess Pray Love. We are going to Belize. If you're ready for a life-changing adventure, check out: GoddessPrayLove.com

  • @queenofscrolls7585
    @queenofscrolls7585 5 років тому +1

    Such a beautiful setting. I feel like I got a good message from you AND a relaxing natural vibe

  • @maroonrebel
    @maroonrebel 7 років тому +2

    Jahnes love Goddess Abiola. You look GREAT in this video. It was a GREAT spot for you with the green leaves and natural light. And I can totally relate to this message. I have noticed that there are some folks who drain me and there are others who replenish or nurture me. Thanks for the insights. Blessed love.

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  7 років тому

      You're welcome, goddess! Sending you love. xoxo

  • @jaclynh9343
    @jaclynh9343 5 років тому

    Just fell upon your video and truly appreciate your energy, and everything about you.

    • @keithjobs9129
      @keithjobs9129 4 роки тому

      Non-sensitive people treat me this way as well. They are draining our energy and we have to put ourselves first. It will be hard at first but sometimes you can't be available to people who don't care about ur well-being. A conversation goes two-ways and you are not their therapist, listener, pillow cushion to throw all their emotions on. Get up and leave or ask them to leave . Own ur power to feel and be heard. Walk away and don't feel like you owe someone an excuse. Just excuse urself . They need to know that ignoring your needs will not be tolerated. Start hitting or kicking a pillow to get out unrepressed emotion. You are worthy to start speaking up for yourself whether people want to hear it or not!

  • @corriealexander7264
    @corriealexander7264 2 роки тому

    thank you so much for this!

  • @Metocho
    @Metocho 5 років тому +1

    This video is so energize my day!! WHAT A RELATABLE LIFE TALK EVER!! *almostTearUp

  • @sashastarseed
    @sashastarseed 5 років тому +1

    Omg i love your energy! I needed to hear this right now...i would love to go to Bali!!! When is your next retreat??!!

  • @caitlunsford2440
    @caitlunsford2440 4 роки тому

    i found this video by searching "social anxiety hsp" but of course you mention infjs too!! :) i check like all the boxes you listed at the beginning lmao

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  4 роки тому

      Thank you so much for this comment, my INFJ sister!! I am so glad you found this video. And you reminded me that I need to make more videos on social anxiety and HSP!! xoxo

  • @PratheLa1
    @PratheLa1 6 років тому +1

    Thank you!!

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  6 років тому

      You're welcome!! Sending you love and good vibes!

  • @anthonyblanchard8849
    @anthonyblanchard8849 6 років тому +2

    You have a beautiful smile and a sweet spirit.

  • @nicolerochelle4652
    @nicolerochelle4652 11 місяців тому

    THank you

  • @phoenixbg2096
    @phoenixbg2096 4 роки тому

    I just find a virtual friend❤️

  • @swensonbl
    @swensonbl 7 років тому +1

    Thank you Abiola! How is Bali! That is one of the places I intend to go.

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  7 років тому

      Bali was absolutely AMAZING!! You will love it.

  • @epd0126
    @epd0126 7 років тому +1

    hey Goddess Fabiola..thanks for the experience. Bali was a really good time..and look at you back on the grind already. Girl i haven't left the house yet. The first thing i did when I got home was make me some ice tea with some ice in it...can u guess who this is

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  7 років тому +1

      Goddess DIANE, I love and adore you. I'm so glad that you came to Bali. We are connected for life. :-)

  • @AbiolaAbrams
    @AbiolaAbrams  7 років тому +2

    How to stop letting people drain your energy! Are you an empath, a people pleaser, shy, introverted, highly sensitive person (HSP) or dealing with social anxiety? If so, this video may be for you. Tell your story!
    You may also enjoy how to protect yourself from negative people & negativity: ua-cam.com/video/-rHWwNV08mA/v-deo.html

  • @NameLast-gp2gb
    @NameLast-gp2gb 5 років тому +1

    OMG...you resemble the GORGEOUS Kenya Moore.

  • @alex-jq4gu
    @alex-jq4gu 7 років тому +1

    👏👏👏👏👏

  • @cocochanel3812
    @cocochanel3812 7 років тому +1

    💕

  • @Raiga345
    @Raiga345 7 років тому +1

    Thanks

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  7 років тому

      You're welcome! Hopefully if you're an introvert or empath, you're not letting people drain your energy too much. Healthy boundaries and grounding yourself before and after conversations and interactions helps a lot.
      xoxo

    • @Raiga345
      @Raiga345 7 років тому +1

      ...wow. I didnt think anyone actually replied to this stuff. I'm semi-surprised you're even a real person =O
      Introvert is a very nice way of describing it...I'm more like a broken extrovert. I'm not very good at starting or maintaining face-to-face conversation at all in the first place, to be completely frank with you. I feel like the boundaries I set for myself are so excessively strong that I don't even know how to take them down at this point in my life. Any suggestions?

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  7 років тому +2

      Yes! :-) I am a real person -- and I actually totally relate to your experience. I say all the time that I'm either an extroverted introvert or an introverted extrovert! There's nothing broken about you. My boundaries were also excessive. I started going to meetups and social events with people who had my interests. That sounds silly and so simple, but just reaching beyond the peer group I was locked in so long was extremely helpful. I hope this helps!

    • @Raiga345
      @Raiga345 7 років тому +1

      Super helps Abi:) I think i'll give meetups a try today even. Much obliged.

  • @justafua
    @justafua 7 років тому +1

    • @AbiolaAbrams
      @AbiolaAbrams  7 років тому +1

      Thank you, goddess! xoxox

    • @justafua
      @justafua 7 років тому +1

      You are most welcome :)