Crack Addict interview-Red

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  • @brandenwallin1463
    @brandenwallin1463 Рік тому +267

    This is my 1st time watching soft white under belly. I started the video with my mom sitting next to me in the truck. My mom noticed that she recognized red's voice And when red mentioned the NA24 in Austin she remembered that's where she met her. I own a landscape design business in Austin and would be honored to give red a job and a place to live if she would like to get away from the drugs and start a new chapter with a place to live at no cost and immediate employment. Please reply.

    • @heypaul7646
      @heypaul7646 Рік тому +3

      Lol, what are you talking about

    • @brandenwallin1463
      @brandenwallin1463 Рік тому +21

      @Really Mad Max I need to get incontact with red. I want to help her

    • @Armelleee
      @Armelleee Рік тому +34

      ​@@heypaul7646Can you not read?! They know Red.

    • @burgers6957
      @burgers6957 Рік тому +7

      @@brandenwallin1463 u be soundin like u wanna take advantage of her

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому

      I'm her Mother...you don't want anything to do with her. She abandoned her kids to get out of the state of TX coz she has 5 extradition warrants for drugs...

  • @kyrahirsch4367
    @kyrahirsch4367 Рік тому +114

    1:02:40 “there is no amount of love in the world that could ever make an addict quit until they’re ready” she’s exactly right.

  • @luciddreamwalking4203
    @luciddreamwalking4203 Рік тому +17

    A major point I picked up from her life story... Daddies... be good to your daughters. She's a beautiful lady inside and out. Her strength is admirable. Addiction is sneaky, it comes like a thief in the night. It take beautiful people and steals the best parts of them. Its one of the hardest things to overcome. Believe me, I know... She has lots of unresolved trauma she needs to work through. Praying for you Red... Find your way out honey. Fight, never give up. Never look back!

  • @scotthart7307
    @scotthart7307 Рік тому +351

    Mark, are you practicing self-care? Listening to this much pain has got to weigh you down. Love your work. Take care of yourself!

  • @wolfumz
    @wolfumz Рік тому +76

    I think Red is going to make it. She's already come a long way and made a lot of progress. She has great insight.

    • @ayejay4028
      @ayejay4028 Рік тому

      She’s actively smoking crack…

    • @wolfumz
      @wolfumz Рік тому +1

      @@azzyb7738 aren't you just charming

  • @natashavandekamp145
    @natashavandekamp145 Рік тому +89

    This woman broke my heart. I hope she knows despite everything she’s been through she still is a good human and a good soul inside she’s just hurting. ❤️

  • @hopemarie3054
    @hopemarie3054 Рік тому +51

    These are the type of interview that made me fall in love with SWU
    Raw, no questions, just story telling ❤

  • @natasha6769
    @natasha6769 Рік тому +46

    Props to Mr. Carter, for being an amazing human being to a person in need. May his soul rest in peace.

  • @JohnnaJoy62
    @JohnnaJoy62 Рік тому +11

    The pain in this woman is heartbreaking. Prayers for you sweetie.

  • @shandracrews8238
    @shandracrews8238 Рік тому +54

    I AM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR JUST TELLING THE TRUTH. I LOVE THE WAY YOU DIDN'T HOLD BACK. IM SO SORRY THAT YOUR PARENTS DIDN'T TAKE CARE OF YOU BY WATCHING OUT FOR YOU AS THEIR CHILD YOU DESERVED SO MUCH BETTER.

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому +2

      I am her parent and everything she said about us is not true. She is a narcissist and it's always everyone else's fault. I was always there for her she just wanted to do what she wanted and to hell with her family and her children.

    • @lesliewhite7329
      @lesliewhite7329 Рік тому

      Except she didn’t tell the truth! She’s a liar and manipulator always has been! Only thinks about herself and to hell with anyone!

    • @bulldogmom16
      @bulldogmom16 Рік тому +1

      Take everything kristi says with a grain of salt..I have known her and her mother, and her mothers family my whole life and they are good people..

  • @heatherhollis5048
    @heatherhollis5048 Рік тому +45

    No human should have to go through this much suffering. I’m sorry, Red. I understand addiction. You are still here for a reason. Maybe it’s those 22 people you saved. And all of the rest of the people you could help through your healing. Your heart is good and I can clearly see that. Keep going, sister.

  • @UrbanCraftTv
    @UrbanCraftTv Рік тому +15

    My heart melts since I discovered this channel. As an African, I thought poverty was the worst.

  • @debbieschultz8582
    @debbieschultz8582 Рік тому +63

    When she says she had looks of a model… She still does. She is absolutely beautiful. That hair is to die for.

    • @poeticallysavage1649
      @poeticallysavage1649 Рік тому +7

      She really is ! Love her hair !

    • @cynnx7500
      @cynnx7500 Рік тому +1

      Definitely not anymore.

    • @thereallisa1
      @thereallisa1 6 місяців тому

      I don't see anything modelesque lol

    • @thereallisa1
      @thereallisa1 6 місяців тому

      ​@poeticallysavage1649 her hair looks like a dried up over processed hot mess. What are you talking about?

    • @debbieschultz8582
      @debbieschultz8582 6 місяців тому +2

      As a hairdresser for 35 years, her hair is gorgeous. No hair extensions. Her hair is not fried dyed or laid to the side. If you checked, I had 54 likes on that comment. For you to say there’s nothing modelesque about her, you’re a hater! I saw your picture i& your hair doesn’t even come close to how beautiful her hair is!

  • @suzipoop
    @suzipoop Рік тому +18

    She is a STRONG woman. If she gets her mind set, she can do whatever she needs to do. I feel so compelled by her stories and her resilience. Amazing woman.

  • @WendyP1965
    @WendyP1965 Рік тому +10

    This poor tormented soul has been so harmed by lowlifes!
    I wish her all the best and I hope she begins to heal.

  • @prayerwarrior1278
    @prayerwarrior1278 Рік тому +84

    Praying she overcomes her addiction and get the peace she needs. Love and light. 🙏❤️

    • @canadianbuttpunchgoddess3058
      @canadianbuttpunchgoddess3058 Рік тому +2

      Prayer does nothing.

    • @luzaguirre2830
      @luzaguirre2830 Рік тому

      God keeps reaching out to her, on a personal level & through people she just needs to respond & stay with it once & for all, we only get so many chances

  • @lisakuntzman7017
    @lisakuntzman7017 Рік тому +26

    we HAVE to believe our children. Protect your babies. This world is getting to be scarier and scarier.

  • @opalivy739
    @opalivy739 Рік тому +165

    Red has been through the ringer in life at such a an early age. There is hope for Red. She is a beautiful woman and has survived so much tragedy and sufferings. Her drug addiction is part of her coping mechanism from the years of trauma and sexual assaults. If you don't understand why people are drug addicts and alcoholics. Let them talk and share their horrific stories of what happened to them in life. For Red to be composed enough to do this interview with Mark. Shows that she is meant to be here to tell her story. God please save and help rescue Red from herself. Help her put her life back together so she can live a normal and peaceful life. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @lesliecinmongrl2001
      @lesliecinmongrl2001 Рік тому +3

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @urbankidtv1747
      @urbankidtv1747 Рік тому +2

      Peace. Ik we don’t know each other but will you pray this prayer for someone I knew as well? she not a addict but the circumstances/environment aren’t pleasant. Mentally more so.

    • @urbankidtv1747
      @urbankidtv1747 Рік тому +1

      It’s someone I love dearly dow. only reason I’m askin. it’s day I ain’t strong enough to do it

    • @urbankidtv1747
      @urbankidtv1747 Рік тому +1

      She’s been through hella physical things as well.

    • @shandracrews8238
      @shandracrews8238 Рік тому +1

      YOU SAID THAT SO BEAUTIFULLY. SHE DESERVES SO MUCH BETTER, SHE'S A BEAUTIFUL SMART PERSON, I HOPE AND PRAY SHE GETS TO HAVE THE LIFE SHE SO DESERVES. 💕💕

  • @carlyrobertson4755
    @carlyrobertson4755 Рік тому +8

    I get so wrapped up in some of these interviews where I don’t want the interview to end. They just speech so well and you just truly feel their emotions through their words and it’s so, just so I don’t even have the right words, just wow. She, her storye, is one of those interviews man. I want good for her so bad and I don’t even know her but I want to cheer her on and see her get better. I think it’s her time, she deserves to get better and just have better. Some don’t agree with NA but I do believe she could and her story could help so many lost souls in the NA rooms. Young lives she could save just by her story. Maybe be that “mom” or just older guidance to these kids nowadays that she unfortunately didn’t have herself cause maybe if she had someone like herself in her younger years, it could have truly saved her. I believe she has so much potential. She could do such amazing things and I full heartedly believe that with my soul and that’s only listening to her speak for an hour. I know I’m a nobody, words on a UA-cam video can only go so far ya know but even still. I hope she reads these comments and I am not a praying type like at all but on special occasions I make exceptions. And she is one I’m truly praying for and I know I’m sorry does nothing to someone’s severe trauma but I am so sorry you were failed as a child. Many people failed you and I’m so freakin sorry for that so much so that I wish it could help in some way. I want good for her like no other. Would love an update on her.
    💙

    • @carlyrobertson4755
      @carlyrobertson4755 Рік тому

      The pain in her eyes, especially at the end. That blank stare of all that pin and hurt in her eyes, ugh man I felt her pain even tho I’ve never experienced it. I could just see it in her eyes.

    • @scottrawlins8165
      @scottrawlins8165 Рік тому

      And then it sticks there..lodged in your soul..and it hurts the next day first thing in the morniing

  • @laurakelly2918
    @laurakelly2918 Рік тому +42

    She is so real and raw with her emotions…God bless this soul! One of the best interviews I’ve seen!

    • @marielleo4715
      @marielleo4715 Рік тому +2

      I disagree I think she was liening a lot!

    • @fadedrose9
      @fadedrose9 Рік тому +1

      ​​@@marielleo4715 WTF does "liening" mean???

    • @marielleo4715
      @marielleo4715 Рік тому

      @@fadedrose9 sorry I mean... lies

    • @marielleo4715
      @marielleo4715 Рік тому +1

      I don't think so!

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому +2

      She is lying about it all. I am her Mother.

  • @lonispacer1338
    @lonispacer1338 Рік тому +48

    i always feel impressed that some people are able to keep a good posture after these kinds of events...

  • @fourfurrypotatoes
    @fourfurrypotatoes Рік тому +17

    Oh my God this poor woman. I really hope her life gets better because she deserves better.

  • @grimberlynies
    @grimberlynies Рік тому +50

    Shes a survivor she'll be okay.. Look what she went through shes a strong individual .. peace love and blessings for this womans future

    • @a_grayce
      @a_grayce Рік тому

      She literally admitted to robbing and choking an elderly man to feed her crack addition while her abusive mother cares for her children...

  • @jordanhuskins8299
    @jordanhuskins8299 Рік тому +8

    Part of recovery is acceptance of ur own choices. U can always tell when u hear these stories who is still an addict and who’s still blaming others for where their at until u accept u chose to be where u are and ur ready to change and accept you’ve accept responsibility and choose to make a change you’ll stay using and blaming everyone around u for where u atr

  • @NoemiWilliams27
    @NoemiWilliams27 Рік тому +11

    Mark, thank you for bringing such difficult topics to the light. What has happened to Red has happened to many. I have always believed that drug addiction, alcoholism and even homelessness are brought by traumatic events such as this. My heart breaks for Red, but God is good, and there is hope.

  • @juliemackenzie1978
    @juliemackenzie1978 Рік тому +43

    Sounds like her Mom was never a stable person. Being married 5 times...those poor kids. She raised her siblings. Molested by her grandfather...my goodness..people are just evil. It's no wonder why their adult lives are so messed up. 😳💔😕 They don't even have a fair start. Always tragic & sad. So much childhood trauma. The common thread with all these people.

    • @kathykolcun6791
      @kathykolcun6791 Рік тому +1

      Lol idk about people being "just evil"
      The molester/rapist yes but everyone else (including this woman who blames everyone but herself) are just selfish, miserable and make horrible decisions.
      Doesn't make a person evil or good....just human

    • @juliemackenzie1978
      @juliemackenzie1978 Рік тому +4

      @@kathykolcun6791 You are entitled to your opinion...as I am entitled to mine. No arguments here.

    • @kathykolcun6791
      @kathykolcun6791 Рік тому +3

      @@juliemackenzie1978 lol You're a class act🙏.
      I do agree that children are very sensitive and the trauma is real but u gotta man/woman up and take care of your children (this chicks kids are going to grow up and talk about how terrible she was)
      2) Notice how the only constant in this womans story is being surrounded by people (she claims) mistreated her? She's always victim of circumstance 🤦

    • @_RobBanks
      @_RobBanks Рік тому +2

      and he was a sheriff of the town.

    • @rlord7053
      @rlord7053 Рік тому +4

      @Kathy Kolcun sometimes that's the way it goes though, right? I have witnessed people get screwed over and used, and only to be pulled back down when they try to get out of a horrible situation. You could always take someone's side at face value and just listen, no judgment - just kindness. It costs you nothing.

  • @sharonvega8623
    @sharonvega8623 Рік тому +10

    The only way I’ve ever been able to find love, was through loving myself first. You have to love yourself enough to go through whatever it is you need to go through, to get away from everything hurting you.

  • @deebknyc0985
    @deebknyc0985 Рік тому +10

    A parent should always protect their child no matter what. Parents need to take full responsibility for their kids.

  • @neva3504
    @neva3504 Рік тому +8

    Red, it sounds like your ready for the next chapter in your life. I'm thinking you will get clean and you will help thousands more. Thinking you will become a writer, speaker and more. Good Luck! We're all looking forward to seeing you again on SWU.

  • @zj2850
    @zj2850 Рік тому +13

    I loved your life story, and I am praying that the second half of that story will better suit you ❤️ much love

  • @CasaDeJoker
    @CasaDeJoker Рік тому +29

    Ibtruly feel for her but she cared more about her relationships with men instead of her children. Thats horrible and selfish and self destructive and she was seemingly stuck in a loop of horrific behavior. I hope she gets better because I know too many people like this.

  • @karinaramirez-rattan4140
    @karinaramirez-rattan4140 Рік тому +33

    Mark, she's very photogenic!!! Gorgeous!! I pray her healing starts today!!! You have people who are praying for you right now!!! ❤❤❤

    • @spyder_33
      @spyder_33 Рік тому +5

      Cringe

    • @karinaramirez-rattan4140
      @karinaramirez-rattan4140 Рік тому +1

      @@mihe6212 I don't understand why you think I'm a needy Person?

    • @karinaramirez-rattan4140
      @karinaramirez-rattan4140 Рік тому +3

      @@spyder_33 How is what I said "Cringe"?

    • @wesleyAlan9179
      @wesleyAlan9179 Рік тому +5

      @@mihe6212 Henning!
      You come here and project yourself every. Single. Day, Hennnn!

    • @spyder_33
      @spyder_33 Рік тому +2

      @Karina Ramirez-Rattan I just feel like your comments on her looks are a bit of a stretch, I mean she looks like she could beautiful but as of now the drugs have her looking extremely strung out

  • @lisavelasquez1476
    @lisavelasquez1476 Рік тому +14

    Riveting interview. I love her honesty. She owns her shit. Such a beautiful soul. She deserves so much more 🫶🏽💜

    • @marsd6139
      @marsd6139 Рік тому

      Yeah I felt the same way, about owning her own stuff

  • @crystalserrano3785
    @crystalserrano3785 Рік тому +15

    Bless her lil heart. I feel her pain.She still God's child. I just want to give her a big hug.

    • @wesleyAlan9179
      @wesleyAlan9179 Рік тому +5

      @@mihe6212
      ..the only one here that needs a friend is you, Hennnnn!🥴🙄

    • @ddz1375
      @ddz1375 Рік тому

      @@mihe6212 hey there chicken little. Thank you very much for the Hannah Montana song.

    • @martinmummert5614
      @martinmummert5614 Рік тому

      Actually, she's only God's child if she has humbled herself, and called on Jesus Christ for the free gift of eternal salvation. If she hasn't been adopted into God's family through the process of genuine spiritual rebirth, then she, like all lost folks, is a child of the Devil. This is pure, King James Bible truth, and a hard pill to swallow for most people.

  • @frenchtoast7742
    @frenchtoast7742 Рік тому +10

    God Bless her . I hope she reaches a level of clarity, peace and happiness in her life ❤
    Always praying for these beautiful souls on this channel.
    Everyone is beautiful on here in their own special way . I wish someone told them that earlier in life so they wouldn’t get to this place 🙏❤️

  • @WE-ci8cq
    @WE-ci8cq Рік тому +7

    I really like her. She doesn’t talk about any real steps, Or real work on herself to change her life. It’s always her will. I think Community service, or reaching out and trying to help others, anything out reaching, would really help her. She’s smart enough to help others, and that would help her heal.

  • @Evolved332
    @Evolved332 Рік тому +11

    EVERYTHING that happens to children , in the beginning of our lives, makes us who we are. As mothers and fathers now when you stare at your phone when your kids are looking for guidance, love , acceptance, it’s so sad. I just can’t imagine what world we are creating. Kids are straight potential! They have the ability to be the greatest or the worst and something that seems so easy IS SO HARD why?? Look what we are creating???

    • @edie4321
      @edie4321 Рік тому +2

      Which is why you'd think she'd be hypervigilant about her own children. I'd like to now hear their story. We need to be there for the children of these addicts.

    • @sherryd.3425
      @sherryd.3425 Рік тому +2

      We are always tasked to make and create love out of nothing at all. And we can and do...again and again...and that is why I believe in humanity, and Mark, and God. Love to all who try!

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому +2

      I'm her Mother...everything she has said is a lie...she came from a very loving family. She pushed us all away...no matter how hard we tried to help her

  • @1notstressed
    @1notstressed Рік тому +7

    Wow, Christy. Did you hear what she said, y’all? She slapped her hands and responded to Mark “ITS NOT LA, ITS ME.” It doesn’t matter your exterior locality, it’s clearly about your internal locality. Sobriety is something you choose from your heart.

  • @AM-sk1tv
    @AM-sk1tv Рік тому +20

    She said her addiction was hers and separate from her children.. and that she has an amazing relationship with her kids... but none of that is true. The children suffered just the same as her.

    • @Deelifull
      @Deelifull Рік тому +6

      I peeped that too. Her mother raised her boys, while an aunt or sister raised her daughter off an on. I just can't. Accountability is needed desperately.

    • @lesliewhite7329
      @lesliewhite7329 Рік тому +4

      Most of what she said is bullshit! My mom and myself raised her kids!!! Thanks to me they no longer had to see the parade of men in and out of her (paid for house by our father). She chose this life and continues to choose it! she had everything handed to her and she pissed it away because she would do drugs then take care of her kids!

    • @galaxy6484
      @galaxy6484 5 місяців тому

      @@lesliewhite7329I see that I'm surprised not many people are.

  • @heatherh.197
    @heatherh.197 Рік тому +9

    Anywhere you go,there you are. God bless everyone here

  • @josephhopeless829
    @josephhopeless829 Рік тому +5

    Love you mark u shed light on ppl who wanna just be heard mostly by SOMEONE. Ur really doing gods work mark I’d love to meet u some day ur a definite hero.

  • @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior
    @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior Рік тому +16

    She looks Native A. / part native.- very beautiful woman.. I feel so bad for her.. How can anyone treat a girl like that.. Soccergame where the whole family cover ups a rape.. INSANE!! I hope she get's where she needs to be to find peace ..

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому +1

      I'm her Mother...she was never abused when she was young. She a very good liar. She made you believe it.

    • @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior
      @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior Рік тому

      @@susanwalton7168 Really ? If that is the case it is just awful ..

  • @jennyloohoo
    @jennyloohoo Рік тому +4

    God Bless you, Kristy. I pray healing on you and your family.

  • @atolliver91
    @atolliver91 Рік тому +18

    The answer is not in men or drugs….

  • @ladyv890
    @ladyv890 Рік тому +4

    This is incredibly sad but at the same time I feel like her story could be a movie. I could hear the "El Paso" in her voice as I lived here for years. I am so sorry this happened to you. Sometimes I wish I could just take all the children who are currently experiencing abuse right now and give him a better life but that is impossible please take care of your children and don't have them if you cannot provide a better life for them they're fragile and absorb their surroundings.

  • @tammymccord629
    @tammymccord629 Рік тому +5

    Wow , wow and wow. I think I’m lost for words…. I do hope that she finds the peace and the will to drop all drugs and alcohol and moves onto the second part of her life living healthy. She deserves that and so does her children

  • @originalpolo
    @originalpolo Рік тому +22

    I love the people who come to these comments to shit on these people. You are exactly the people I make it a point to avoid at gatherings/events. I'm left to wonder if these same people only come here because their own privileged lives are pure crap and hearing these stories give them something to feel good about 🤔

    • @edie4321
      @edie4321 Рік тому +5

      Those type of comments must have been censored, as all I see are kind, neutral, or blowing smoke.

    • @sherryd.3425
      @sherryd.3425 Рік тому +1

      I believe they just come to feel...something meaningful.

    • @SammysMysASMR
      @SammysMysASMR Рік тому

      @@sherryd.3425well said

  • @jammy999
    @jammy999 Рік тому +3

    she's so beautiful and you can tell she has a pure soul 🖤 it's so sad how some parents refuse to protect and believe their children, hoping she gets all the healing and love that she deserves, nobody deserves to go through such trauma

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому +1

      And it's all lies too....We were always there for her. She left us, we didn't leave her. And she's always been a liar.

    • @jammy999
      @jammy999 Рік тому +1

      @@susanwalton7168 maybe so, but to love someone is to be there despite what they may be going through or if they push you away, yes it's difficult but who knows why she did whatever she did, maybe in her mind she felt like nobody was there for her, hopefully you all can make amends at some point because healing is a hard thing to go through due to it looking different for everyone

  • @valleychick2509
    @valleychick2509 Рік тому +3

    When she said it’s not LA it’s me 😢 I just wanted to give her the biggest hug 🥺❤️

  • @DorothyBarbour
    @DorothyBarbour Рік тому +3

    This broke my heart love. I was also molested by my grandparents n when I told my parents they didn’t believe me and so I ran away from home and endured being gang raped and raped 5 times in a year. Just like you I got pregnant by the grace of god i had a miscarriage at 7mo. So turned to drugs and got high just to run from the pain and I’m still running went from Xanax to crack and now fentanyl. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to be sober the trauma is just intolerable. I just wish someone loved me enough to show me the right way to heal and maybe I could’ve had a chance at a good life 💔💯

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the interview Red & SWU 🙏

  • @cz3468
    @cz3468 Рік тому +2

    Prayers to you Red, your last statement is so true, that others are second in the lives of addicts, you been though a lot, hope nothing but the best for you.

  • @milanlucas28
    @milanlucas28 Рік тому +7

    I knew she had to be a Sagittarius, she’s so strong and still has her spirit. I’m rooting for her and hopeful. Sending love

  • @rochelle_johnston2703
    @rochelle_johnston2703 Рік тому +5

    Hiya Red,
    I too had to lie about when I lost my virginity due to being raped!!! I was 15 and 10 days old.
    It must have been bitter/sweet having the miscarriage under the circumstances, sorry you had to go through that because you would have to grieve that loss while barely hanging in there!?
    Thank you for having the courage of vulnerability with awesomeness sharing such dark painful events that you suffered in your life with us via 'Soft White Underbelly'. I've stopped at 16:16 as my "Shae" my beautiful Kelpie needs to go outside, (Can't wait to hear the rest).
    Warmest hugs with love,
    Rochelle.

  • @mishkipie
    @mishkipie Рік тому +3

    Wishing you peace, recovery and healing ❤️‍🩹

  • @mariekauhi9034
    @mariekauhi9034 Рік тому +7

    Red has such an eloquent, poetic way of telling her story. She is enlightened and very intelligent. Beautiful, sweet, and sad at the same time. What a tragic childhood, and how horrible to have all those things happening to her and no one will believe or hear you. You are a strong survivor Red, hang in there beautiful.

  • @conniewheat924
    @conniewheat924 Рік тому +3

    Red is intelligent, wise, and beautiful. She has what it takes to succeed in life. She was born into a family that didn’t protect and nurture her. That is oftentimes the only difference between people like Red, and people who seem to be successful. I hope she knows her value. She is a good person born into harsh circumstances.

    • @wildflower7321
      @wildflower7321 Рік тому

      💯

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому +3

      I'm her Mother....I protected her... She didn't want us. None of this happened to her ...Mark needs to come interview her family that she walked out on...including her 3 children

  • @yootoob1001001
    @yootoob1001001 Рік тому +5

    Red, I know what it's like for your family to disregard your feelings, what you tell them, and do nothing to protect you even when they know or suspect something is wrong. I see you and send you love.

    • @elizabethlenker-tw3xb
      @elizabethlenker-tw3xb Рік тому +3

      Don't believe that her family doesn't care. We all care. We always have. She cares more about drugs than us. This life is of her own making.

  • @alicassidy8913
    @alicassidy8913 Рік тому +2

    Being a teenaged girl is extremely difficult, especially if you don't have a family to help you. What's absent parents must not understand is you've ruined her for life, or a good part of her life. Bad choices, drugs, the wrong men all seem to find their way in and they're older and still in trouble.
    80% of women will be molested in their lives, usually by a family member. These are true statics. If they didn't finish school, they're not equipped to take care of themselves and definitely have self esteem issues.
    Don't have children if you don't want to raise them. You're influence and the time you spend with them molds them for life.
    Much love Red ❣️

  • @Scarlet666Woman
    @Scarlet666Woman Рік тому +4

    If for any of them their kids would mean so much like the drugs and their transitional drug partners their lives would be different. She still doesn't realize that someone who loves you won't pimp or just leave you alone anywhere, especially in Mexico. I wish her all the best, but I don't have much hope that she'll ever get away from that lifestyle. She has been doing it for too long and didn't even stop bc of her kids.

  • @charlottesometimes4820
    @charlottesometimes4820 Рік тому +14

    Nice deflection when asked if she raised her kids.
    Nothing will change until we can except the truth.
    Sending you love and strength. 💙

  • @ItsFreshItsAnne
    @ItsFreshItsAnne Рік тому +2

    I've seen so much of this..This is one truth I know....Many addicts you see are carrying enormous trauma and you have no idea how much that literally prunes a child's mind that ends up requiring big help and if its not addressed, it becomes painful to live without a buffer. It takes a strong mothereffer to pick up a big time substance, lose everything...I promise you that..The strength gets robbed and used on the wrong way out..Show love any chance you get, because hate is like drinking poison and hoping it kills someone else. ♥️

  • @jcast8756
    @jcast8756 Рік тому +1

    Your mother is not strong, YOU are Red. You deserve a life better than what you think you deserve. You can overcome this pain. I hope you find the peace you so long for.

  • @reneegiordano3937
    @reneegiordano3937 7 місяців тому

    Very profound interview! This woman has been through so much hurt yet there is such strength in her eyes. I hope she’s doing well. Take a break from men and relationships for a while.

  • @bulldogmom16
    @bulldogmom16 Рік тому +9

    I have known this girl since she was a baby..the cousin she mentions that she worked with selling roses is my little sister..kristi comes from a good and loving family that would give anything to have her back happy and healthy..if you listen to her carefully you will be able to pickup on all the inconsistencies of her stories…dont judge her family for her mistakes

  • @lisakuntzman7017
    @lisakuntzman7017 Рік тому +4

    Red,please don't let these horrible things bring you down I pray that you find yourself Angel. I am sending good vibes to you ✨. Things DO get better if you let them. I wouldn't lie to anyone about that. At least you won't have to worry about kicking off the crap too bad. You are so pretty. There is a solution

  • @anastasiamarch6197
    @anastasiamarch6197 Рік тому +2

    I was captivated by her ability to keep it 💯 she knows what she needs to do to get it together and live right .. but I wish she would not be so dependent on a man .. I wish she would of gave her children that energy. Praying for ya Red 🙏🏾

  • @kat8436
    @kat8436 Рік тому +3

    Most adults are traumatized from childhood in one way or another. Most children are in the care of an adult who is traumatizing them, or not protecting them from it…
    I respect the people who acknowledge that they would be a bad parent ( or just don’t want the job) and proactively do not procreate. The job is not taken seriously enough bc most don’t deal with their own baggage…Therapy for the win!It’s such a sad reality and every parent who breaks the cycle is doing the world a solid ✊

  • @kateellis9325
    @kateellis9325 Рік тому +13

    So well spoken. Good luck!

  • @Masela_Medias
    @Masela_Medias Рік тому +13

    Watching from South Africa. S/O to you Mark.

  • @loracorkhill2824
    @loracorkhill2824 Рік тому +8

    I feel she could tell her story and be truthful about it and that would be enough. She doesn’t need to make it like she was doing nothing wrong in any situation, that it was everyone else all the time. Girl it’s enough to say “I 🤬 up!! That would be enough!!

    • @Vistacraft82
      @Vistacraft82 Рік тому +1

      Its always convenient to blame someone else, some people have traumatized childhoods and still turn out "society worthy". I respect such, they bluntly refuse their past to define their future.

    • @rolfen
      @rolfen Рік тому +2

      She is whimpering or crying for a whole hour, it gets annoying.

    • @fadedrose9
      @fadedrose9 Рік тому +1

      ​@@rolfen Apparently you don't know what this show is about, and what she's getting paid for: TO TELL HER STORY!!! Go somewhere where nobody cares about others.

    • @fadedrose9
      @fadedrose9 Рік тому

      @@azzyb7738 If that's "how you think," there's your first mistake, because it's not about YOU!

  • @chaelynn6209
    @chaelynn6209 Рік тому +2

    its gotta take a lot to get up here and speak truthfully. i commend her on her ablility to hold herself accountable. god bless u Red. your strength is inspiring

  • @Jen-mn3fe
    @Jen-mn3fe Рік тому +4

    42:45 she stopped right before saying ‘kids’ 😢

  • @9roselove9
    @9roselove9 Рік тому +7

    It always gets me when addicts truly think that their addiction hasn’t harmed their kids just bc they never smiled crack in front of them…ma’am. They saw you coming home wrecked they hear you cry at night they see your mental state is fucked up and they notice when you were gone…come on now. It’s hard admitting you were a bad mom but you were a bad mom sis. Do better and apologize and move on. Pretending won’t get you anywhere

    • @livesofluxuries
      @livesofluxuries Рік тому

      Did you even watch the entire thing. Her kids were taken care of by her sister when she goes back into active addition. They checked on her daily. And sure she wasn’t present during those times. But this woman has owned up to every single fault in this video. Who the hell are you to judge. Her addiction is her own. And it is for her kids to decide if it has harmed them or not. Not by some keyboard warrior on UA-cam. Grab a chair sit the f*** down

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому +1

      Her children have been affected. I'm her Mother. Her sister and I have taken care of those children. They are all over 18 now and if she thinks her actions haven't affected them then she's living in a fantasy world. I love her, she is my 1st born but after trying for years to help her and getting blamed for everything that has happened to her you have to realize you can't help her, she has to help herself. All of what she said in the beginning of this video is a lie.

    • @heidimichellemoenkhaus3569
      @heidimichellemoenkhaus3569 9 місяців тому

      So you don't believe she was molested? ​@@susanwalton7168

  • @dymesgalore
    @dymesgalore Рік тому +2

    With all of the darkness that she has been submerged in... there is still a light in her that is so pure and sweet, that it can only be something Divinely given. Hope she finds a way to forgive herself.

  • @mamarobyn
    @mamarobyn Рік тому +2

    Shout out to all my sagittarius sisters!! We really do have a free spirit.. I never thought that I did and then looking back at my life I realized I pretty much done everything that I wanted to do never got married had children...Did things my way.. not always the "right way" very hard to hold me down...

  • @mskinetik
    @mskinetik Рік тому +18

    She's mad at her parents for raising her wrong, and she didn't even raise her own kids. 🙄 She was out hooking and doing drugs instead of being a Mom. When Mark asked if she raised her kids, she was like "uhhh, uhh, yeah". A few years doesn't count. It's a good thing her kids were mostly raised by other people though because that is no life for kids to be around. That being said, I hope she CHOOSES to get clean, sober, get counseling and try to stabilize. Bad choices have led her down these bad bad paths. She needs to take RESPONSIBILITY for herself and her choice to do drugs in the present, regardless of painful events. I'm sorry she has been assaulted repeatedly. No one deserves that. However, she needs to get therapy instead of running from things. As long as she continues to play the victim she will always be one. Get clean, get, help, reinvent your life and be accountable for your choices. Truly wishing her the best💖 Mark please give an update on her in one year.

    • @lesliewhite7329
      @lesliewhite7329 Рік тому

      THANK YOU!!!! I AM HER SISTER I RASIED HER KIDS!!!!!!! THIS IS A COMPLETE SHIT SHOW!!! IN HER OWN WORDS IT'S ALL BEEN THE KRISTI SHOW!!!

    • @luciddreamwalking4203
      @luciddreamwalking4203 Рік тому +1

      She absolutely needs therapy. I couldn't agree more. Sobriety is almost always a failure without it. Especially with the trauma that she is carrying. I hope too that she seems that out for herself.

    • @crystalnam-rangel
      @crystalnam-rangel Рік тому +1

      Exactly

  • @notforeverhere
    @notforeverhere Рік тому +2

    Red, regresa a tu Padre Celestial... El te ama y nunca te ha dejado, no dejes que el enemigo te arrebate la vida de esta manera tan triste... Elige la vida y no la muerte, yo se que puedes.
    Animo voy a estar orando por ti🙏 you can do it, cry out to God while there is time He will show you his goodness in the land of the living, bless you dear thank you for telling your story

  • @happytrails699
    @happytrails699 Рік тому +7

    I never, and I mean never judge anyone that uses drugs. Some use them for physical pain and others for emotional pain. Just a few twists of fate and I could be exposed to things others have. Unless someone is harming someone else, I don't begrudge them using drugs. I really don't. Unless I have walked in their shoes, I don't know if I would not be in the same situation. It's not my right to tell them to be sober. It is only their decision. Their right.

    • @KINGMARC0
      @KINGMARC0 Рік тому +2

      You are naive and will be a perpetual victim.

    • @sherryd.3425
      @sherryd.3425 Рік тому

      Love to you for your compassion. I, too, believe we can never experience the depths of another's pain. I've seen glimpses and I don't want to live there. I just hope that in another time or another place, we will all find peace.

    • @PurpleKayz83
      @PurpleKayz83 Рік тому

      They typically have to steal at some point and usually alway ls have kids that they hurt so it's not judgment to say that they are harmful.

  • @marcymorales8214
    @marcymorales8214 Рік тому +11

    It’s so very sad to hear all of the unfortunate stories and the horrible lives they’ve had to endure. But, I feel like alot of people although they’ve been dealt a bad hand have learned how to blame they’re situation and that “bad hand” dealt. At some point people have to understand that their choices is all the difference between a good and bad life. But it’s been a while that I’ve heard someone actually take accountability. Her life wasn’t great and she continues to struggle but, she also knows that it’s up to her and only her to get her life back on track. To all the people that struggle with addiction, I know first hand how hard it is and how people don’t understand it. It is only up to “us” to reclaim our lives. I wish every one of these people the best ❤

  • @livesofluxuries
    @livesofluxuries Рік тому +1

    Possibly the only person that’s telling 💯 truth on this Chanel

    • @heidimichellemoenkhaus3569
      @heidimichellemoenkhaus3569 9 місяців тому

      Her mom is commenting saying everything she said at the beginning of the interview is a lie. Not sure who is lying.

  • @Thebiggest1isme
    @Thebiggest1isme Рік тому +1

    This was hard to even listen too, I pray she gets help and give the support needed to overcome her addiction ❤

  • @definingdebra7933
    @definingdebra7933 Рік тому +1

    Red I apologize for the lack of parental care that you received and all the pain and heartache that came from that. I am not sure you even realize this but you are a striking beautiful woman even with everything that has happened to you. I truly believe even now if you are in the right environment with love and care you would be able to see the beauty within and outside of yourself. Good luck

  • @maricalane2242
    @maricalane2242 Рік тому +2

    “ It’s not LA, it’s me “
    Statement of the century 😢

  • @fadedrose9
    @fadedrose9 Рік тому

    I'm looking forward to a possible future interview & like some of the others, I'm praying that she will be recovered.

  • @lyricaanderson6205
    @lyricaanderson6205 Рік тому

    I don’t know if you’ll ever see this, but when I tell you, you are so beautiful I couldn’t even imagine what you would look like off of drugs. You really need to thank God because you do not look like what you’ve been through. May God continue to bless you And I’m rooting for you

  • @susanwalton7168
    @susanwalton7168 Рік тому +3

    Everything this girl has said is a lie. She is a master manipulater. We have always tried to help her. She ran backwards from us and her children. We love her but she pushes us all away. She went to LA. because she has warrants. 5 extradition warrants for selling drugs. I am her Mother. I have tried my whole life to love her. She is a drama queen. Her drugs have ALWAYS been more important to her than family.

  • @starlight2702
    @starlight2702 Рік тому +19

    The way she tells her life story keeps you so intrigued and interested. She should write a book about her life

  • @elizabethlenker-tw3xb
    @elizabethlenker-tw3xb Рік тому +6

    She is telling some truths and omitting others.
    I have known this girl since she born.
    I am her Aunt and I raised her daughter for 5 years.
    Kristi's family adored her. Mistakes were made as in all families, but her drug and alcohol use is on her. Those were the choices she made.
    She didn't raise her children. She, for lack of better terms, helped them survive until they were 8, 6 and 4.
    Her oldest came to live with just before her 8th birthday. This precious little girl couldn't read.
    Kristi "red" forgot to mention that her daughter has 2nd degree cognitive disorder due to crack exposure in the womb. She also failed to mention that her bots had the courage to ask for help and Kristi's younger sister answered the call. Both boys went on to graduate high school in spite of being abandoned, again, by their mother.
    Yes, Kristi has suffered but only at her own hands.

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому +4

      None of this is the truth. She never had cancer. She was never molested by her grandfather. And we never covered anything. She has been an addict since she was 13. We did everything we could to help her. Even into her adult life. She wanted to leave her husband and I went and got her several times just so she could go back in 2 days. We loved her...she didn't love herself.

    • @genuinedraft
      @genuinedraft Рік тому

      I saw right thru her. She’s left a trail of destruction thru other people’s lives. Kind of sick to see all these comments propping her up.

  • @jamievackicev4905
    @jamievackicev4905 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am crying. All good things ; I hope for you! You and yours! Understand wanting to be there for everyone no matter what.

  • @heypaul7646
    @heypaul7646 Рік тому +11

    Like all addicts she is a pathological liar. Addicts lie and tell stories based on what situation they are in and who they are around. They make themselves the victim no matter what. They will tell you whatever stories they think you want to hear. They always leave out the terrible things they have done, and Addicts do terrible, terrible things.

    • @Lovehim192b
      @Lovehim192b Рік тому

      Gay

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому

      You are so right. She's my daughter and a pathological liar

    • @genuinedraft
      @genuinedraft Рік тому +1

      You the only person in these comments that called it straight. Everyone here fell for her deceit. She see the people in her life for what they can provide to her whether it’s drugs, cars, homes, (one way) love or support. What did she provide for them? What did her kids get? What did her family get? Nothing. Such a selfish manipulative individual that’s been doing it her entire life.

    • @yazminalvarado3213
      @yazminalvarado3213 Рік тому

      Way to generalize an entire population of people with a fatal illness 😮‍💨

  • @rainrabbit9209
    @rainrabbit9209 Рік тому +2

    Red, the Spirit will show up and show out! Our path is our own and it is miraculous. #Compassion Much peace to you dear sister in love and light.

  • @CaliCoffeeImported
    @CaliCoffeeImported Рік тому +2

    Hearing story's like this just make me sick like how evil some people can be and I just feel so bad for this lady God bless her soul

    • @TheThelordschild
      @TheThelordschild Рік тому

      How about the victims

    • @susanwalton7168
      @susanwalton7168 Рік тому

      How about her whole family....sitting here listening to her lie about me and her father fucking hurts. I will not let her break my heart again

  • @manuelluna1500
    @manuelluna1500 5 місяців тому +1

    I did this also, l went to church but still was using. It wasn't until I completely surrendered to God, that everything changed. l was sick and tired of being sick and tired. 5 and a half years clean of crack now. It hasn't been easy and more than worth it.

  • @margriet2038
    @margriet2038 Місяць тому

    Such a beautiful woman , and how loving it is that someone in the comments offer her a job! Keep going beautiful Red , wishing you love and a better life ❤

  • @MrLenroc82
    @MrLenroc82 Рік тому +11

    Damn....if the Bhad Baby girl makes a wrong turn, this is her future self

    • @andresciahooten9598
      @andresciahooten9598 Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂 You are so wrong for this 😂😂😂

    • @RottedDollface
      @RottedDollface Рік тому +1

      I thought the same when I saw Red, Bhad Baby favors her lookwise.

    • @MrLenroc82
      @MrLenroc82 Рік тому

      ​@@RottedDollfacelike seriously lol

  • @judysteadman799
    @judysteadman799 Рік тому +1

    Very heartbreaking story. He'll is what you live on earth. Very sad. 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @jensmitty1152
    @jensmitty1152 Рік тому +3

    Love this women ❤ ❤️ I really hope she gets clean she’s been through some shit and she’s strong

  • @lucillewright5153
    @lucillewright5153 Рік тому +2

    YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL RED!! Your stronger than you know baby girl GOD BLESS 🙌 💖

  • @TheBadTam05
    @TheBadTam05 Рік тому

    She reminds me of my mom in so many ways. Mom took her life. She couldn’t handle the shame. #AllMomsMatter