This Woman Decided To Try Open Marriage For 12 Months | Megyn Kelly TODAY
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- Опубліковано 28 лют 2018
- Robin Rinaldi had been married nine years when she asked her husband to consider an open marriage. Now she joins Megyn Kelly TODAY to talk about the year they both spent having sex with other people, as chronicled in Rinaldi’s book, “The Wild Oats Project.” She says she had sex with 10 men and two women over 12 months: “I had a year; I had to get my bucket list done!” she jokes.
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This Woman Decided To Try Open Marriage For 12 Months | Megyn Kelly TODAY
My second ex-wife told me she wanted an open relationship & I told her no & I also told her to hit the road & I got a divorce from her & that's best thing that I ever did.
That’s good
Good on you.
Power to you bro.
Now she is probably doing great and you not so good
Actually I'm doing great I'm driving an 18 wheeler now
I'm so confused why is everyone clapping and smiling like she's doing something great??
Cecilia Villaseñor because they are degenerates
Society is changing. People see marriage as passé.
Joan Lynch marriage will never be passé and unfortunately neither will divorce and self-is-h-ness..
We used to celebrate morels and values and now we celebrate the destruction of them. The devil is real!
Love the subtitle once they start interviewing her “tried open marriage-now divorced”
Translation: I'm not into you anymore but I don't want to loss the financial security you bring.
Bingo!
Ding!!! Ding!!! Ding!!! 🎉🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
WE'VE GOT A WINNER 🏆!!!!
TRUTH
Exactly - cake and eat it
Lol
Leave it to a woman to label insecurity and infidelity a "project"
no its here brave hashtag struggle /journey in a mans world....so fkn crazy-poor brave victim
And get away with it...
@@lander783 poor guys, so weak and blaming women for their problems 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Only a leftist could make deconstruct something like love into such a sanitized, soulless, clinical term
I would never in a million years want to share someone I truly love with others like that.
It's super hot
@@kazeabby2400 so sorry you're sick
@@kbanghart hot until your not the one ever satisfying her other people are …
@@coreywilliam8474 yum
EXACTLY
Gotta love a woman who rationalizes her poor decisions
Curious to know how the audience would react if that was a man on stage telling the story. I have a feeling the claps would turn to boos!
Michael Cira that’s the truth.
Yep.
Michael Cira .........Michael, I believe you are correct
Good point
They save man shaming for Dr. Phil.
When a wife asks for an open marriage, it's over.
Yea. Just be like a man and cheat
Facts 😂
LMAO
@@jasjuaquin140😂😂😂😂😂 good one
I do not regret the 13 years of being married to, living in the same house with, and being faithful to the same woman. #awesomelife
Dr. Brian Hooten good for you. Do you judge this woman?
Check back with us 20 years from now and let us know your thoughts. I can assure you, things change.
Dr. Brian Hooten good for you, for now... !
Good for you, but completely irrelevant.
Dr. Brian Hooten do you have any single friends with the same mentality?
Yeah, my previous wife did that, it's called cheating. Ended in divorce.
I love my marriage, and I love my wife and I exploring the possibility of sleeping with other people.
@@kbanghart You sure your wife doesn't just find you inadequate? No offense but that's how it looks peering in
@@well_as_an_expert_id_say no problem, I respect your opinion. Although what evidence do you have to say that? Just curious, as I didn't even say anything about our relationship yet
@@kbanghart buddy there is no point of a marriage if other people get into it. Theres no love or anything. Srs people like you are just weirdos barely anyone uses that term anymore.
@@accurategamer7085 ok, you are entitled to that opinion
No way ! I married my wife because I chose to be faithful and protect her for the rest of my life. Not a chance would I allow something like this.
I wouldnt let my marriage degrade to an open marriage..I Love my wife, I love my Marriage, The day I don't... The marriage is over.. Its as simple as that.
All the women in the audience wouldn't be laughing if it were a man who was telling this story. They would be calling him selfish, to grow up.. Total double standard.
Men who don't cheat are the exception.
They're all feminisms & liberals, its that simple
Bitter much? What a bs stereotype.
Correct
While I think more men than women cheat and there's far too many men that cheat I also don't think monogamous men are the exception
This is depressing...especially seeing the ladies smiling, laughing and applauding this.
It is very depressing. .
Nothing but manipulation
It's only bad if she and her husband did not agree to this. If he agreed, then good for her. I'm all for women exploring their sexuality as far as they're honest with their partner.
And yet the vast majority were against it when she asked directly. There seems to be a strong tendency for women to always cheer each other on.
I felt the exact same way
My husband and I just celebrated our 13 year wedding anniversary and we have been together 20.
I am honestly married to my best friend. I love him now more than ever.
I couldn't imagine wanting an open marriage even a little bit. The fact that we love each other and value our commitment is such a beautiful thing.
I'll happily stick with my husband for the rest of my life, thank you.
TV TV TV TV TV TV
Salute
That nice to hear
Good for you!
#Respect🖒🖒
This happened to me too. My wife of 18 years decided that having a good job, a 15 year old son and faithful working husband for 18 years wasn’t enough. She started to want to go out at night, started dressing better and posting pictures up on social media looking for attention. After arguing for a few months about her wanting new found freedom, she suggested us breaking up and just living as roommates. I just couldn’t do that so she left and now we just co-parent our son.
I'm sorry to hear that, man. There's a lot of that kind of thing happening these days, but there's still some decent women out there. Be strong.
Shallow woman
These comments make me happy. I'm glad people don't support this woman's stupid decision.
thank you I was just thinking the same thing .. I was worried I'd come on here and see a bunch of ppl sticking up for her and saying she did nothing wrong.. this some what restores my faith in humanity
Was not wrong what she did
@Alan Jensen Says someone that is being dishonest in a relationship.
If her husband agreed to it, I'm glad she did it.
@@kbanghart degenerate!
Her husband wanted her out of his marriage and there is a reason he didn’t want kids with her
Well in fairness they were together 2 decades so. But he did dodge a bullet.
And you're who to say that? Do you know him
He knew it and agreed to open marriage in a way to get her out of his life! Smart man
@@BBAKER22 she said it herself that her ex husband refused to have kids with her
Ladies and Gentlemen, this is what crazy look like. If you ever come face to face with it turn 180 degrees and walk in a straight line.
Haha🖒
Well said
Women have the insane ability to turn every f..ing negative flaw into a positive blessing. If that was a guy doing what she did he would have been castrated on the spot
There is a triple standard when it comes to a guy
Lol what are you talking about castrated hahaha
@Sergio Diaz What about it is dumb? Maybe you can explain it?
And the marriage fell apart. Shocking! (Sarcasm)
It was falling apart to begin with.
ofcourse.. and wtf were they were trying to prove anyways?
It's bad enough it was falling apart to begin with then we decided to make matters worse by trying Adultery whuch ultimately led to our of Divorce which God hates.
So they did not follow the rules......She was retaliating because he did not want kids.
So open marriage is a way to ease into divorce
"Open marriage" is not a marriage. If you want to sleep around, that's your business, but don't pretend like you're still 100% committed to your partner.
"Your point of view" is not an objective point of view, nor should it be considered canon.
Funny but every couple I’ve known that has practiced “open” marriage is now divorced.
Michael MacReady that’s crazy
Piotr Ptaszek marriage is between two people. At the wedding, TWO people are making a vow.
Exactly...
All that energy she put into being with others... if people would put that much energy into their marriage in the first place it wouldn't come down to wanting to stray.
And that's why we're married. I love you babe
Well said
Exactly
I think she mentally checked out when he made a unilateral decision to not have kids and got a vasectomy.
High On Life And Love maybe she thought that was the only option for her. She met the unexpected, same time didn’t want to divorced. She shouldn’t be celebrated for any reason.
The moral of the story: Open marriages fail. You can't just decide to avoid having feelings when you sleep with somebody. If the chemistry is there and you make it start pouring hard, you can't push a button and shut it off. It will overwhelm you.
That is a big generalization and simply not true. Plus, lots of regular marriages fail also.
@Human Being which stats?
@@kbanghart [citation needed]
@@curious1053 indeed
@@kbanghart stop being a creap in every reply eww
I’ve been married for almost 20 years and I think I love my husband now more than ever! I don’t understand even being interested in another man! With time comes a deeper kind of love, way deeper than just physical. We have a life together....memories, family, laughs. This is so sad.
John Doe The divorce rate for 1st marriage is 34% in “devoted” marriages. That’s not sad? Life is not what we perceive.
I'm happy for you
I think she picked the wrong guy. They were together for 18 years but only married for 9? Sounds like he didn't want to marry her in the first place, but she eventually wore him down. Then he didn't want children, which I'm sure she knew when they got together, yet made him feel bad for not wanting kids... Women think they can change men into what they want rather than finding a man with everything they want.
CJ P how does that automatically make women at fault for marriages not working out?? You're logic us flawed and makes you sound like you don't like women.
John Doe you’re not that couple-so you don’t know.
so... moral of the story is, you completely ruined your marriage. Good job. Great expert on the subject to have on.
* * it’s her choice. not yours
Wow; that was insightful, Miss Chlamydia.
lol
Seems like it was already ruined
People ruin their marriages all the time, they tried to fix it in a different way that’s all, get over it
Everyone I know who has had an open relationship has split up. It's definitely a gamble. Why not just stay single if you want to continually experiment?
dont want an std an i was ok with the same girl.
I'm so old fashioned...this makes me feel a little ill.
Old-fashioned, meaning, eyes closed?
this is called i am not happy with you but i dont know if i can do better. so i want to date people but have a safety net in case i dont find anyone i can run back to you. oops, i did find someone better and i guess i just wasnt happy with you, see ya! wow, now im back to being with one man again! shocker, selfish
And men do this all the time and nobody cares!
mysticpizza02 putting men in one category? There are “some” women that do the same all the time.
poppy89 wow you nailed it on the head!!
You read my mind. Both women and men do this. It’s not gender specific.
poppy89 Well said!
Once you let go of the morals and values of decent living you open your society up to economic ruin and destruction...
My ex bought me an engagement ring, we planned a luxury vacation to get engaged, and then 2 weeks before he told me he seriously wanted to be swingers. I gave the ring right back to him and broke up with him then and there.
Good for you! Never get into these weird unfulfilling relationships they always end bad
They are clapping for this?!!!!
Kevin Jackson feminist Gloria Steinem style.. anything a man can do , I can do better.. lol (stupid thinking)
@@winniejohnson5559 actually it's true in a lot of cases
Btw...you can't have an open relationship and place a rule like, "no feelings". 🙄 That's ridiculous.
I mean it is quite ridiculous sp to put a rule against no feelings, but if some people cpuld make it work. good for them. I definitely would catch feelings
first last
MN
his number and email me the link and follow it pi or PT and ot and pt you can't post a link that you are interested and I have therefore the same thing
But, but, that is what she feels.
first last - exactly - how can you set rules for something you have no control over?
totally agreed, cause then it’s not that “OPEN”
He did not have a choice, if she was asking...she was already doing it or was going to anyway.
He probably was secretly doing it and when his wife asked that was his way out without feeling guilty. Just my take…
@@ashleycbla very interesting take considering you are a lady
Megan Kelly going straight to the bottom of the barrel.
Doubtful
She lost her husband the moment she suggested an open marriage.
Congratulations! You played yourself!
just sarah lol
you can't outrun your shadow.
Hello? She got what she wanted.
Lol
Why on earth are you praising a woman like this????
because she herself has a rotten soul
Because she is a sparkling queen of long white coats who lets my fears of fate nap while the blue canals tingle.
Because Megyn Kelly has no moral values herself so neither does her own show she produces and their you have it..
Emily Gabrielse, thank you very much for saying that Emily!!!!
@Kartik Venugopal Are you in an unhappy marriage or what makes you suggest this, just curious.
Dude we don’t think your wife was EVER faithful to you
Clapping & laughing with her about sleeping with 10 men & 2 women!
Shame on you Megyn Kelly
Beth Hansen-Rice talk to me, is that really it?
@@sundayesisio6280 Absolutely!
@@sundayesisio6280 I think that people who make choices like that are obviously godless. God commands us NOT to commit adultry. Marriage is a covenant, so even if 2 people agree, they are still breaking Gods law.
Beth Hansen-Rice wet
@@sundayesisio6280 that's was exactly my point!
Saying that you are willing to try an open relationship with your spouse is saying that youre no longer satisfied in your relationship, and that you no longer care about his or her feelings. This is a terrible concept and the fact that she and him arw now with different people proves that this does not work... i feel bad for her previous husband.
People have gotten so selfish ! It's all me, me, me
Rimzi Looks Monogamy is more selfish than nonmonogamy. It's common sense
Rimzi Looks Thats it. Good point. All the best to you
Rimzi Looks very true unfortunately.
Snake Bitten oh wow. Good. Point. I hate that for her. That’d sad. The way she talked it sounded like he had a vasectomy without asking her. I wish she could adopt
Rimzi Looks it’s not your problem thoughh
I'm a man but I'm way to soft hearted to endure an emotional nightmare like this. And ultimately she left him!!!! That would have killed me.
He found someone too tho but she suffering from it more
He won in the end. No man is going to take her seriously. You can see the tears in her eyes at the end.
@@KNByam the truth is if he was doing bad, she will feel so empowered that she won! But now that that's not going according to plan. She is upset and shocked that he got the happy ending instead of her! But it would be better for him to cut her off as a friend because if you don't have kids with that person you can't really be friends with your ex.
He left her actually 😂 her ex husband is a smart man he also refused to have kids with her
The good news for a man you can always date younger women
Vows don't mean anything anymore. "I promise to love you, cherish you, through sickness and health till death do us part or something better comes along"
So Megyn Kelly is guest-hosting the Jerry Springer Show?
She seems likable in the process lol
That's exactly what I said before I clicked. Hmm ,let's see what this wench is doing for ratings now. Omg and it's Mark dice I'm dying ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣💓😂😂😂😂
Dr. Phil, The Doctors are now just liked that!
You sir are a legend!! big fan
tin tin same here lol
I swear God needs to clean this planet.
mega0876, He will...
mega0876 He is!
It’s funny how she’s regretting now when she left her ex husband because she seen him happy in relationship and wish she was the one who makes him happy
Bingo. Trust me when I say that man don't even think about her but she thinks about him. Just look at her eyes and you can see she wants to cry. She will never have what she had. That new guy won't be there long and no man is gonna take her seriously once they find out all this nonsense.
@@KNByam exactly
This is awful to see a segment like this on the TODAY show
I think the correct term is “Adultery”. Ridiculous!!!!
Sounds great to me!
Bill Carson, because God defines such as adultery...it’s two people committing it. We don’t have the prerogative of redefining what honors and what dishonors God.
This is so idiotic. Of course breaking your vows is going to ultimately wreck things.
I'm not sure what you mean by that. Whether or not marriage works has nothing to do with the notion of it but whether or not the people in it uphold it. If marriage in and of itself were the problem there would be no successful marriages.
Base line - if you are smart enough, no type of relationship can harm you. If you're not, on the other hand...
SwingSiren wet
This world needs something stronger than the Corona virus for a reset.
It's called a great tribulation in the Bible and is coming soon
@@debelix that's what they all claim but no one knows
I personally dated a man who was married but getting a divorce. I even had a conversation with his wife to confirm they were broken up. His wife met someone and actually ended up having a baby around the same time I did. It was a mutually positive experience. With no drama involved. Between her and I.
That’s because that marriage was truly over for both of them. I would still question his character to step out before being officially divorced but to each it’s own.
If a husband did this he’s an unfaithful pig...
That’s Exactly what women think
Mike Burns yes he’s an unfaithful pig despite it being HER idea and she’s a saint
They're both unfaithful in my eyes whether they're male or female.
Exactly
“ We tried to bend and not to break, to avoid going directly to divorce or cheating” ...
I’m not judging them but i despise the message this video protrays ...
It’s sad how much confusion there is in this world
Gioia Well It is sad. That's America and the world for ya. People create the confusion and have it spread around. To me it's also an evil, not just confusion.
Whats wrong with what this woman and her husband did? Keeping your moral issues out of it..
I normally don't feel the need to comment, but i see the pain.. and it's sad to think that this message might desensitize people to what loyalty and cheating means. I'm not talking about morals or their choices because as i said i'm not judging. What i was focusing on is the fact that today the meaning of cheating is getting blurried and blurried whereas i think it should be more important to raise awareness as to be mindful of other people feelings and trust towards us.
Gioia everyone is different.
This is just telling women to cheat and the elite away of breaking the family unit
That’s why u need to talk about having children before getting married.
Having children is still fine withn this.
I would never EVER go for an open marriage. To be honest she deserved for this result, but part of me feels for this woman. She gave 18 years of herself, including her prime years. She was clearly unhappy because he didn't want children and she did. I really feel for her in that sense. Definitely handled it the wrong way but still a sad story for her. Shouldn't have settled for someone who didn't want the same things as she did. I feel like deep down she is a good person. This is tough. Hope she finds happiness.
imagine a guy telling this story.. we wouldn't get applause..
Relationship was doomed the second they slept with someone else
No ! It was when the sorry wife asked for an OPEN MARRIAGE !
@@jerrybutler8917 yea true
True.....how many more evil thing are to come in earth?
Hey god, save this planet😭😭
The trust,love,loyalty, committment which husband-wives had once upon a time is gone, gone, gone😟😓😭
The fact that she sits there laughing about sleeping with 12 other people is.......SICK. Funny how, no one ever talks anout all the STDs being spread thruout these encounters😯😯. I was not surprised they got a divorce, becuz the dynamics of the marriage changed once they decided to sleep with other people.
What if STDs aren't spread through these encounters? Research has shown the STD rate is no higher than any other group.
Who said STDS were being spread?? Ppl need to educate themselves.
Agree!
@@judeforartssake lol, poor child.
If she slept with black men there is a 64% chance she has something
"You can't love the Yankees and the Red Sox". Brilliant.
Selfishness never pays.
I beg to differ, I know plenty selfish women who treat their husbands terribly and these men can't do enough for them!
rhomo Selfishness or a go getter attitude that says screw conventions and chooses to live their best life instead ddspite the stupidity of judgmental people
Proven: Selfish people lead the best lives. They consider their happiness before others & any psych will tell you that to be happy you should too. Listen to any motivational speaker.
Oh that is far from true.
This is the first time I haven’t been wildly annoyed by someone talking about polyamory.
This woman didn't need an open relationship.....but intense therapy. Yikes.
Once you tour outside your marriage, experience something different, more exiting than your partner, impact of this will surely change the ball game. It will never be the same.
This is sad. Sin is so sick satan makes it look good in the moment
This is an outrageously exciting woman and lifestyle. I can only feel sad for you, but I am busy with other, more meaningful prospects. 🤟🏼
That's a true statement let know man say that he was tempted by God because God never temp's us with evil. Ever man is drawn away by his own lusts.
This is just a foreshadowing of more and more immoral things to come before Christ returns to the earth again.
Hail Satan!!!
@@AaronAkron1204 he doesn't tempt us but puts a tree right in the middle of the garden of Eden and tells Adam and Eve not to eat from it. Smh 🤦♂️
Nothing but the devil
Bradley Parker Nothing but the Boogey Man.
Bradley Parker Absolutely! In the end i bet they’re both miserable and the devil runs away laughing.
Amen. No psychologist or expert can convince me otherwise
Bradley Parker, the devil had nothing to do with those people's decision. The 😈 didn't make those choices for anyone. They did it themselves. Stop blaming the devil for the decisions of others!
derrick foster the Bible says you fight against not the flesh, but against spirits and principalities, so brother, it IS the devil!!
Herpes is for life yo.
You all acting like monogamy is so perfect lol
Open marriage doesn't work. Listen to her story. The doctor deflects the answer to the question if any of these open relationships work. They don't. This is so sad.
S A this was not a open marriage. this was an experiment that started on a foundation that was faulty. people live in open marriages successfully everyday. where honesty and openness prevail. monogamy and marriage is young. look at all those who raised their hands based on fear. God is unlimited love. We are taught not to be.
S A this is one example of an open marriage. !!
Soul.Friend Agape a wedding is between TWO individuals
There's no research showing open relationships work...
Our marriage wasn't working so we both decided to make matters worse by committing adultery and then finally divorce???
Megyn: "Her numbers were so low, she wanted to live a little." This is sad and disgusting.
Sounds like you're just jealous
I can't wrap my mind around this...crazy.
It’s not that complicated lol
@@SuperSymbiote1 maybe not for you.....
Open relations would be brought up ounce. My only response would be divorce papers.
My dignity and self respect are not negotiable. My health and wellbeing are not eather.
Her box was never the same anymore...she said it herself
aidan rezvani 😂
It now has a burning sensation when she pees
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣#IMDEAD #FACTS
😂😂😂FAAAAAACTS
It now looks like a punched lasagna.
can you imagine them showing this in the 70's!! on tv
The David Susskind Show would have been the right venue.
“I fear being left…so I will do the leaving”. Women make such messes of their relationships when left to their own devices.
This was pointless. So basically, it didnt work out to be in an open relationship. so basically DONT DO IT
Kids, don't try this at home.
Kenneth Simmons only when you turn 18
Kenneth Simmons 😂
Ohh The marriage didn't work out after this? You're just kidding me!
He should of given her a baby
@@mrsdixon3524 yeah that's exactly what he should have done drag a kid into this f****** hot mess. This b**** is a kooky w****
Robert Wood PA lol!!
@@sharonenfo805 🎯
Seems like a super complicated way just to leave your husband. Problem with these situations is that nobody is honest with themselves.
This woman and her husband are in for a Rough ride.
They have closed their hearts to real pure Love!
It's a wet wrecked box with clamidia
OPEN MARRIAGE IS NOT A MARRIAGE!!!💩💩💩
Joseph yes it is.
This is literally so ridiculous...she was too scared to be single. She didnt want to leave her safety net, but I think is bitter about the kids thing.
Meg M exactly
Meg M are you single/divorced?
@@sundayesisio6280 🤣🤣
"Open marriage" is an oxymoron. This is nothing to applaud. This saddens my heart. Now there is no marriage.
This is more about insecurities rather than “sewing your oats”. You shouldn’t feel like you have to please anyone because other women / men are paying attention to your spouse. The ending just proves to be true.
Exactly. Insecure people with a lack of character and morals.
I bet she is really proud of her education and all the hard work she did in early in her career!! How far she has fallen!!
It's hard enough to spend quality time in a marriage without spending so much time devoting yourself to outside pursuits. In my mind, it's either in or out.
the husband is a smart man, he new the marriage was over ,good for him he's happily married now and she's unmarried.
Doomed to failure, jealousy, which ultimately happens, engulfs these moronic relationships.
Yea...... She had a lot of issues long before this “”Magical “” 12 months......
Her: “I want to try an open marriage”
Me: “Thank God I insisted on a prenup and you had your own lawyer advising you. See ya!”
My wife and I have talked about it
Wow Meaghan you've risen to great heights in your journalistic career. Wow! So happy for you!
It worked for me and my wife, been happily married for over 10 years ...
Waiting for the aftermath ....
I got a spine ,I advice you to get one
This is actually disgusting. Cashing in on breaking your marriage vows. And shame on Meghan Kelly for laughing it all up, together with the audience. Making a mockery of marriage. This is a sad commentary on where we are and how far we've slid as a nation. Keep celebrating your immorality.
I could NEVER do that, but I’m glad that they were honest, communicating, and not resorting to cheating!!
My Name Is Glitter
I'm a guy and I thought about it often but then I came to realize that I would lose my wife and only get visitation with my daughter. Nope not worth all that.
Why get married in the first place if you cannot commit to stuff.
I just don’t get how they both thought “I want to make this marriage work...so let’s go see other people” WHAT? That’s how you NOT make it work, which is why they’re not together. And she said “we did this to avoid cheating etc.” just don’t cheat...that simple or divorce. I don’t get these people
Mockery of marriage
Marriage means less and less all the time because of greedy people.
Sad😔
This is why keeping your masculine frame is so important. If she doesn't think other wmen want you she loses respect.
Funny how when she said she broke rules the host didn't bring it up.
Unless it's an open relationship from the start it's not going to last. If you bring up being "open" in the middle of a loyal monogamous relationship that's a massive red flag that it's over. The fact that this woman is being vilified for this is horrible.
Even relationships that are open from the beginning hardly last cuz someone always catches feelings and tries to make the relationship exclusive.