Greetings Mr Bobby, I've this girl that l like a lot and it's been 3 weeks ain't talking to her .She was the last to send the text on our conversation and my question is what should I do now
1.Believe you are the prize 2.Stop chasing validation 3. Be decisive and lead 4.Ask for a favour 5.Set boundaries and have standards with women.Always speak your mind even if it doesn’t match their belief . 6.Don’t accept women flaking . Love your videos🤍
woman don't want men to worship them ; it why women ❤️ woman :: gorgeous looking woman treat other gorgeous looking woman like their nothing special or another human
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
My advice to every guy who is trying to get a woman love you back or chase you, please don’t. If the girl plays mind games, all you have to do is block her completely. If someone plays hard to get from the beginning of the relationship, then they show who they are. They will play with you. Someone who is interested in you will always be interested in you as long as you put the same effort.
I had to learn this the hard way. Years ago [pre smartphone] had a woman sext me, describe giving oral and even go on two dates with me. Then she blew me off. After that, I cut her off. She then bad mouthed me about being 'sensitive'. She basically wasted my time and blueballed me. Fellas, don't fall for that. If a woman chases me and I am not feeling her, I am not taking her on dates and teasing her either. That shit is pointless
My advice is, focus on creating your own journey. Enjoy every minute and second of it. A woman will be very clear when she wants to join you on your journey. If she doesn’t, it’s important to respect her decision and just focus on moving on with your journey. A man should never deviate from his journey to please a woman.
One time my female roommate while at the gym introduced me to a girl on the exercise bike. Prettiest woman I ever saw. I had ZERO chance with her but rode the bike next to her and we talked. Did not try AT ALL to impress her because I had ZERO Point ZERO chance. True story, my roommate two days later got a call from the girl who was asking about me and here is the KILLER....... she told my roommate she was soooo impressed by the fact that I did NOT try AT ALL to impress her like the countless other guys did. I was in shock.
Yea it attracts woman I don't want that's the point Einstein. We don't want average o w who simps.hitting . We want 10s and they don't come when u ignore.
Asking someone to do you a favour helps people to like you because you trusted them to do something that is important to you and that shows that you trust them.
There’s tons of silly comments on these kinds of videos, but this guy really isn’t just talking about dating advice this info is how to be a more confident man and person in general. Great points he’s making
This is exactly happening with me when I treated a girl like a queen in Varadero Cuba 🇨🇺, she lost interest. I will follow up this techniques .love from Oshawa 🇨🇦
I would like to say, To any nay-sayers out there, or anyone who thinks it makes most sense for both parties to be the prize. Essentially yes, but essentially - No. In my experience; here’s why- I was with my wife for 10 years. As of last month - she stepped out on the relationship. Now, I have to honestly say I was devastated and so confused because I NEVER saw that coming. Of course- nobody sees it coming necessarily. Specifically I say this in a different way, because, she was so infatuated, and madly in love with me, unconditionally- for 9years and 11 months. Yes- she cheated on me a little under 1 month before the 10 year anniversary. She had said she wanted to be in love and felt that she wasn’t anymore. Half of it was her, half of it was me. I asked myself so many times, and I ask friends, and family who know us, and know our relationship, why would she do this? I never treated her poorly, I did everything for her. Everyone said she’s being ungrateful for what she had bc correct, amazing guy, sweetest guy, you’re such a good guy - but here’s what I’ve learned now having been separated by my choice going on 2 months later. I was too nice. I’ve always been an extremely confident guy. And that has never changed. But I started to lose myself in her. I began putting her on a pedestal. I did begin treating her like she was the ONLY prize in the relationship. I started putting myself below her. I most definitely fully deviated from my path to satisfy hers. And I can see how that can be- by nature- very unattractive to a female. They don’t want a simp. It’s the most unattractive way a man can be. I confidently put myself below her. I put my wants and needs in the GRAVE. Now listen, when we first began dating and most of our relationship, She found me as a chase. Because in the relationship I was much more self centered. I was mostly presumptuous. And often. And I knew that was something she was attar yes to about me, but because I was arrogant I didn’t think anything of it. But it’s something that made her feel that attraction. Something I’m sure we’ve all learned is that it’s good and OK to say “No” when we mean no. The more I fell for her the less I said No. when we were younger in our relationship, I often told her No. and I stood my ground. I explained why and stood by that. In time, I stopped doing that. In the early years of our relationship I was adamant about myself and my ways. And they were good I was on a wonderful self development journey. I was entrepreneurial. Slowly that faded off when I put her desires and goals before mine and became her crutch. She was appreciative at first, til I assume - she got bored or unamused with that. I can understand that. Now regardless of how much I understand all that - she shouldn’t ever ever betrayed the trust and abused the relationship in such a way- bc she not only did me wrong, but she now has to live with that. Regardless of boredom it is never okay to cheat. Anywho, I was a prize in the beginning- as time passed I traded the trophy in along with my masculinity and leadership. And somehow I believed I was doing the right thing, the best thing, by her. And essentially yes. But I wasn’t doing best for myself- not even a little. And as embarrassing as it sounds, and I hate to even admit all of this, but it’s true. Sexy me- somehow became unsexy. WHAT. Yes. It’s truth. Now, I’ve honestly had a glow up. Back into myself and I’m doing amazing and loving being single. Frankly I’m back in that same space I was 10 years ago when we met - the guy who was chill with her- but she can come or go it doesn’t matter to me. I just have a lot less interest in her now bc the history- and I’m not as willing to be even friends bc I know what she’s capable of- which of course is leading her to feeling “suddenly attracted to me again” Funny how that worked, right? I’ve also got myself a much higher paying job, and it’s showing. A job that doesn’t mesh well with her schedule, routine, or lifestyle- which is great for me. Suddenly- she’s interested in making things work out- and admits she made a huge mistake. I’m sure at this point you’re all zealously nodding, bc right- that makes perfect sense! My value and worth which did not waver except by illusion- has now ‘suddenly’ become advantageous for her, and likewise very attractive. When I became less available; stopped falling at her feet; became more independent and focused on myself is when she believed my value to her increased. Though my value never changed, and was always profitable for her- the challenge wasn’t there. Thus she believed My worth was less. Now that my actualities worth to her is less - bc of my lack of interest- she believes I could be more of value to her. The idea of women deluding themselves instead of appreciating reality as such- is a topic for another day; BUT all-in-all. He is correct in stating that the man must believe himself to be the prize. And anyone with some degree of self development will know this is not EGO related. But even in the sense of EGO-related. There’s the good ol’ stereotype that a good girl likes a bad boy. Remember all those movies and shows growing up with the geeky guy in love with a girl watching his crush walk hand-in-hand with the rude boy? The bad news boy? The bad influence? But she can’t seem to shake him? I certainly do. Another thing this attests to- “Nice guys finish last.” As I’ve gotten older I have harshly learned this lesson in a multitude of avenues in my life. Why I didn’t think it applied everywhere? Well clearly there was an incognizant factor involved. No longer do I believe that nice guys finish last can be compartmentalized. If it a truth. Then surely it shall prove itself throughout all life’s journeys. In conclusion, I have learned a few valuable lessons from my experience. One of them is it can happen to anybody. Even if you’re doing all the right things. Or so you think. Though this lesson specifically I already knew, when I faced homelessness due to my landlord robbing us blind then evicting us- paying court fees for the eviction with the rent money I paid him. Valuable lesson- another I should have been aware that it can apply to any aspect of life. Another lesson, do NOT lose yourself in your relationship - no matter how directly in love you are. Your partner needs to still have someone to love which they cannot do if you give all of yourself up- for them. Another tried and true lesson that I take away- men must always remain the leader. That’s what we were destined for because truly looking at the man holding the flowers in the beginning of this video- even I didn’t see much of a man I. His eyes. I saw a simp. And I wasn’t drawn to give him a bro dap. Rather a pat on the back and a smh greeting. Sad but true. We have to remember human nature, and the design of men and women and the role each side plays. I rest my case 😂Thanks for reading.
As a man thinks , so is he ! This is so true ….. It all starts with your thinking . Not cocky , but confident Confidence in who you are reflects outwardly what other people see . This guy is spot on.
Accept and love your self 100%. This is the foundation of any relationship. Do not accept relationships advise as 100% true. People are different and act and respond differently in the same situation. Therefore Follow your nature and do not force yourself to be different person. Be your self, and you will get your soulmate
My biggest problem was always seeking validation. I’d be out on a date and I’d be telling my date stories about when I worked for Ringling Bros. My previous first date seven years ago I didn’t. She already knew I was a clown because it turned out I worked with her mother as one. Had a first date last week. I hardly said a word except to encourage my date to talk about herself. It was very refreshing and she can’t wait until our next!
Thanks for this amazing video. You reminded me of important skills. Be blessed. When you put a lady on the peddle stone she becomes your god. She becomes your Lord. So that's why you shouldn't praise and worship her. Praising and worshipping the one who gave me life and has kept me alive for all these decades is valuable and amazing. Only God is above me, only him I worship, glorify and praise.
Im glad my wife wasn’t that shallow. We were both the prize and we respected eachother and were the best team a couple could ask for. Everyone we knew were just in awe at our relationship. She was the brains and I was the muscle although we were both on the same page all the time. Sadly cancer took her life not 2 months ago and we’ve been together since we were 17 years old snd now I find myself single at 53 years old snd now Im watching videos on how to make women chase me. Oh Brother ….this is gonna be tough although Ive never had a problem with women trying to get my attention.
Just be yourself. Be a good person. Don’t try to play games. If the other person you are interested in, isn’t interested in you, move on. Simple. You should BOTH be the prize and if one doesn’t treat the other accordingly, then find someone who will be on the SAME page as you.
Neither the woman, nor the man should view themselves as "the prize". This is general life advice, not just relationship advice. Nobody is the prize. Doing so, results in a toxic relationship based either on a struggle for power or on one of the partners constantly oppressing the other. Sure, short-term speaking, in the initial courting period, it might be exciting (for boys and girls) to play these games, but long term speaking and when there are two mature people involved, there shouldn't be such a thing as "the prize". We are both working as ONE towards building a healthy relationship that contributes to a better quality of life.
Where do you meet these mythical women who want to work towards a healthy relationship? Most that I meet just want to be entertained and showered with money.
I find myself impressing women easily and then losing there interest so these points seem relevant. I know my worth but I’m also very open and confident with my emotions so perhaps I should be more aware of when it’s time to open up that much. I see myself being the one initiating a conversation, typically over text, all too often as well. Showing interest instead of garnering it. Thanks for sharing the bullet points here Bobby, I do think they are important aspects of all human interaction and am going to try to include some of your recommendations into my life.
Yeah you should slow down. You don’t need to tell her everything about you all at once. It’s nice to have one topic you find yourself talking about for a while. But you can hurt yourself in the process by giving too much when you don’t know if that person is worth it yet. A good relationship isn’t rushed.
I am the prize in everything I do! The problem is I think I’m supposed to be alone. Because I study human behavior, and I read minds and body language very well and it’s always an issue with that. I know one thing if you get a girl that likes you just be yourself don’t try to be someone else!
yes, the key is to really "be yourself". A lot of guys use "be yourself" as an excuse to do all the nice guy crap they've been conditioned to believe works from movies, tv, pop songs (basically everywhere but the real world)
This is the best way to spend 26 minutes, I've been an ultraloyal listener of Bobby since, April 19,2016 and my first comment to one of his videos, I try to lead with these women, keep the phone conversation short to set a get together, and if something goes wrong, get back to the books, in this case these materials, your mind strength is being the prize, and must be the magic that pulls them to you. I applied one of Bobby and Chris Andersons social power videos and landed a job too. Thanks Bobby.
If you apologized to any women and admitted your wrong and she never came back to you that means only one thing , that she just used that mistake you made as a reason to walk away . just say good bye to her and look for who is gonna love everything about you your bad and your good that's the true love that it will last for good not somebody blind on your good and just see your bad . if you don't like me cause of me somebody else will like me cause i am me and that's the one deserves apologies and gifts flowers Love and all my life .
This was really good info. Its hard for dudes to transition from seeking validation because traditionally we spark it when we first show interest in a woman and ask to exchange numbers.
Men, it's simple. Do not seek validation. See it as if they are going to be an addition to your life, not a distraction. As beautiful a woman might seem, women also seek the same. Better yourself and women will notice. Guys, women are difficult, and there is no changing that, and what can change is ourselves. Focus on yourself, and before you know it, women will follow. Have strength, drive, and focus, and the rest will follow.
If you think that you are completely lost. This theory of being the prize is complete bullshit. No you are not the prize because you will think and act like you are. This is called being delusional. Have you ever wondered why you listen to this guy and don’t have results? Because he is talking non sense 🤦♂️😭 Women are attracted to guy with good physical appearance and other traits not all this non sense.
@@Lo-to7zh This shows you don’t know much about women at all lol now granted looks could help get a women but that’s not enough to keep a women. And every man should know this. I’ve seen some of the most not so attractive looking guys with baddies just because of how they carry themselves and their confidence and value than a super feminine attractive man. Your thinking from your insecurities but you gotta remember women and men think totally different.
What is the prize you are seeking? Someone you always have to manipulate into thinking seek me or someone who is mature and know their self- worth and see yours. This video reminds me of the late teens and twenties when numbers and continued conquest was the objective. Love was not part of the equation. So first decide what is it you want and what is it the woman want did behave accordingly.
you have changed my life thank you so much.. i always treat people respectively and end up in disrespecting me. You are life saver..keep up this good work..love and respect from my side❤❤❤
Currently mixing it up with a girl half my age. Been out of the scene due to medical issues for the past 8 years…and she’s my first return. I’m trying to reframe my structure cuz got dayum…I have self worth issues and the bs I’ve been thru has left me kinda fragile. It’s weird, so I’m binging YT vids lately. Wish I could read a book, cuz I hate all this tuning in shit. This is how we learn.
That first one is hard - I fucked up with a similar situation. Although in my case I was married to someone else and had one foot out the door for several years but didn’t leave due to children.
Going on my first date Bobby, I got this brosef!! You gave me my self confidence back and reminded me of who I am brother. And for that. I am eternally grateful. Craig Martin, Staff Sergeant, United States Army, Combat Retired. Thanks again Bobby, you're a fucking Rockstar sir!!
Taking the offer off the table is very powerful. I own a business and I had a woman contact me today asking about the services.. I offered her 3 appointment slots this week. She was wishy washy and started talking about discussing with her husband etc. I told her a message just came through that one of those slots was just booked by another client. She instantly wanted the next available slot. You raise value and there's also a perception of pre-selection there when she knows you have other options
Man, you are killing it and making me squirm! Certainly lost touch with dating game! Got rejected but I think I did everything you mentioned NOT to do, done them all!
Dude. U r just spot on man! We want what we can’t have! Woman so want to win the guy over but if it’s too easy..... SHE GONE! Just playing the game man! Hate to say this but: You better always be able to WALK and mean it. Never let your guard down or you’re screwed!
One thing I definitely do (mentioned in #3) is next level curiosity. I do this with anyone I find interesting (not just girls I like) -- as long as the person shows some depth that interests me. Beyond that, your content was really useful and eye-opening on a couple of points. Thanks
i had misunderstanding issues.i confess my self that really i am the one who makes problem here without understanding her situations. i dont know how i found you but couple of weeks i am following your tips and advice.its working for me.Thank you for saving my relationship.
You are a really good dude! I bought your Laser Focused Course. At my old age (60+) I am not too proud to learn. And I learned a lot from you, thank you!
I'm really fascinated with the neediness of the idea of being in a relationship. He asks what's the prize. I ask the same question, what's the prize in a relationship? He really comes off as a salesman selling a course.
A little tip for when y’all go out shopping with a girl. Make her your shopping cart. Ask her to hold things while you looking and that gives you an easy pass to touch her and hold her shoulders and push her around like a shopping cart, which that touch barrier is easily broken and allows her to be more open. It’s also a fun playful way to shop
@@cocodeville72 the fact that you got triggered by my comment shows how entitled you are. I’m glad that men are willing to treat you like the “queen” you are
Bobby good job, keep up the good work You analyse the situation with a girl in deep and in a psychological way, that’s impressive ( not like other coaches who are doing surface analysis.. ) You deserve credit!
thanks, glad you found it helpful. And when you understand the psychology of why something works, the easier it is to make it work for you, because you actualy understand what makes it work.
Thanks a bunch! You know, listening to this made me realize that a lot of dating advice I was given is just cultural and " conventional wisdom" that is usually wrong.
Your videos has a lot of lessons that are very helpful. Watching your videos helps me a lot. A huge thank you for you Bobby Rio. Your efforts on making this kind of videos really helps a lot of men.
Let me tell you, your advice is about SELF ESTEEM. I love that. As a habitual self hater, I need this. I’m not trying to love myself but as a nice guy, everyone sees the hood in me BUT me. Well, it’s right there! And friends and fam may see reality, but women see HOW I SEE MYSELF. If I don’t accept my OWN low view of myself, I won’t accept anyone else’s low view of me. Heck. They won’t have a low view of me! I don’t want to become proud or a jerk but I don’t see you promoting those things anyway. The guys that see a trick here just want the attention you’re getting. Ain’t no trick. Guys, love yourselves. Not to the detriment of others, but STOP THINKING YOU SUCK as a person. Your plans, time, money, attention, all of that is important. A woman wants a strong man, not a wishy washy one. One night, I missed church for a date. It was a soul losing sin. It was also unattractive. Lose your soul and stop not getting the girl, what the heck! I have to do what’s right for me because God commands it, and if a woman doesn’t like that why should I like her? And she won’t like a weak man anyway.
A girl i dated for a couple months recently broke up with me. I wish I’d have seen this sooner. It all makes sense now. Never seek validation. Quickest turn off possible.
yea, we all learn these lessons the hard way. The important thing is to recognize any mistakes you might have made and be conscious to avoid them in the future.
As a woman, your points on number three are perfect. Both should utilize these points to understand each other. I don't compete with my date, but I will judge on interactions.
The basic trick to attract anyone is to avoid them and not interacting much,rather being spacious or living in distance.Then only,others will start discussing or gossiping about you.
Gents, for months now I've seen plenty of your videos being advertised on Facebook, and even read reviews on 'The Scrambler'. I was like "These guys are chauvinist chumps with cheap pick up lines..F these guys". But, recently I started listening to more of the videos on UA-cam and then...something moved me to actually buy the course a couple of day ago. I'm prepared to admit my judgement if you was wrong, based on ignorance. The audio/videos are really insightful, focus on psychology and, I think every man and woman knows ultimately the chemistry / attraction is not actually intuitive, it's often counter intuitive. Fingers crossed you get the email from me with the subject line "it worked"
@@BobbyRio mate, i’ve been through 50% of all the video already. I’m a good looking guy, but in my early 40s, no kids, no g/f and thanks to my time in the military and PTSD in the past 10 years i’ve flipped from a very confident extroverted guy who could F chicks easy in his 20s to now being quite introverted. I’m rebuilding myself and relationships is a big part of it. Fingers crossed this helps me get my ‘game’ back. Wish I had discovered this 10 years ago
I agree with the points because woman want someone that is confident and happy with themselves but it is much deeper than the assumption that women don't want to be treated like the prize. A high value woman will completely appreciate being treated like a prize by someone that embodies a humbleness and values themselves. The phenomenon that is focused in the intro, is playing on woman that are already struggling with who they are and don't believe they deserve to be a prize. A high value woman will expect to be treated like the prize and will do the same in return. Make yourself high value? Yes absolutely. That's attractive. Don't seek validation, but instead be genuinely caring and let your actions show it!
Thanks for video In m experience the more you prize a women and keep giving her mor attention ad interest and expressing it the more she relaxe and sometime disrespect you canceling plans not responding to your message quickly And texting her make you wait sometimes quit conversation et and let wait reply without making excuse she has to go .....etc
Tell your girlfriends not to worry. There is a sea of thirsty simps out there that will do anything for the tiniest crumb of poon. When the ladies finally get too old and used up, there is always the fallback position of cats and boxed wine.
You need to clarify iniative vs. chasing. A person can justify any inaction with a woman based on the oversimplifying belief of "don't chase." To do so is to serve the imitation of belief as opposed to tapping into ones divine value as the conviction to engage. A full cup overflows naturally. A person "chases" not based on what they do or say but in their motivations. Chasing denies one's deeper identity in abandoning their inner integrity. Validation is indeed the motivation for chasing. People can have inner noise in regards to their nature and seek to rely on another to clarify their ego image from the outside as opposed to living in inward resonance of who they really are.A person finds confidence in knowing the depths of themselves and what they really have to offer others in the overflow of their life. You cease chasing not by paralyzing yourself in fear of losing a power game but by genuinely finding a joy worth sharing that TRULY makes YOU the prize.
When I was 19 in college I was the most popular guy with all the girls, they would approach me and ask me out, guys noticed this. But a college friend got me into his religion and told me not to talk to girls, even as friends, even tho he himself tried to get girls but failed. I avoided girls and parties. Now looking back, I missed on golden opportunities as the popular good-looking college guy because of my friends who didn't practice what he preached me. Age 31 I am almost invisible, the redpill narrative about age isn't the case for me.
never be the one to suggest that you become exclusive. a girl that you're sleeping with will always start dropping hints and usually initiate the conversation once she really wants to go to the next level. make sure she drops several hints before you agree. never be cheap and never initiate the conversation about being exclusive without her already having hinted or suggested it several times. if you just suggest it out of the blue, it will feel like pressure and most women will run or give you the slow fade. make sure you've fully qualified her before getting into a relationship--not just because it will make her value you more, but because you need to be 100% certain you are getting into a relationship with a woman who is truly what you want.
Hey there bro. Your friend was just jealous of you and your popularity with the girls. Which laws says that you must stop talking to girls.....none!!! Get back in the game, as a strong believer in the Lord and find your queen. Every king needs to have his queen!! Be Blessed!!!💯☝️🙏🤙🏁
Take it as a lesson; pretty sure you still attract some women. If you never party and miss out, that's on you. Don't blame those who influence you for not taking initiative.
May work great on girls with low self-esteem or who are depressed. Might work on girls who have personality disorders; you know the types, the ones that always show white above their iris when they talk to you.
@@nia6849 True. Now women get to much attention so you treat them like garbage I guess. Makes no sense. Isn't suppose to be this f*cked up but society is screwed now.
So may I ask you a question? Should you ever confess your feelings to a girl even if things are going good? Because every time I've done this I've lost the girls interest. Is it better to just go with the flow and let her decide when the relationship starts? Because how do you go from a date to a girlfriend?
Guy be straight forward to women, because most of us ladies are now watching videos, like this, how men make us chase them, if you follow this course, you are likely to loose a great woman! Because most women are smart enough not fall from this trap!
@@alhassanfirrdous7292 women are wired this way, regardless of whether or not they know this info, it's simple psychology, most people just need a reminder.
A man doesn’t initiate asking a woman to be his GF. She will initiate the talk with you when she is ready. She will ask something along the lines of “what are we” or “what do you think of us”. You need to respond with “what do you mean?” And she will state how she truly feels about you if she is ready to be exclusive.
This is the perspective of the toxic new age relationship. Where everyone is someone to “conquer” and every interaction is a power struggle. That is not love and that is not living but misery. Every now and then if you are lucky, you will meet a women who has an inner beauty, is not into playing games, and loves from the heart not the bank balance, car or image. Marry her straight away.
I can describe what Bobby @bobby highlighted as a practical way to "add virtue to one's Faith" as the Bible teaches. Thank you Bobby. This is life's hack 😅😅. I've subscribed to your channel 😮😅 The Preacher, king Solomon also said, the labor of fools wearies everyone of them because they DON'T KNOW HOW to get to the City.
Meetup downgrades to me are huge. At first i allowed it, but i came to realize i was just screwing myself. Your time is critical, so make the best of it.
Your insights are refreshingly natural! These easy ways to make a girl chase you feel like common sense with a twist of brilliance. 🌟 While I'm not currently in the dating scene, I've always appreciated genuine connections. Speaking of which, have you ever tried fostering intimacy with natural aphrodisiacs like Spanish Fly Pro? They can add a delightful spark to your romantic journey! 😉 If you're looking to have her chase you with even more enthusiasm, this could be the delightful secret ingredient you've been missing out on
Good video buddy. Dudes never put a woman above you. Men Lead, Women follow. That's how life works. Take charge. Note Queens are not Kings. 👍👌💯✔️✔️. Im 61. Retired Military.veteran very experienced. Learned my lessons with Women thru the years. They are never satisfied, Don't try to figure them out. Quit it 😊😊
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Greetings Mr Bobby, I've this girl that l like a lot and it's been 3 weeks ain't talking to her .She was the last to send the text on our conversation and my question is what should I do now
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When someone treats you like an Option.
Help them narrow down their choices by removing yourself from the equation.
It's that simple.
I did this just recently, and the result was unprecedented.. You correct on this
I love it!
So, do you have an example of what to literally say to her when you "remove yourself from the equation?"
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Never speak or message a word to her. Ever !
Block her number on your mobile and delete her from your social sites.
@@tobechukwuonah2956 what was the result bro, I'm day 1 in that process
1.Believe you are the prize
2.Stop chasing validation
3. Be decisive and lead
4.Ask for a favour
5.Set boundaries and have standards with women.Always speak your mind even if it doesn’t match their belief .
6.Don’t accept women flaking .
Love your videos🤍
Thanks for saving my time 💕
woman don't want men to worship them ; it why women ❤️ woman :: gorgeous looking woman treat other gorgeous looking woman like their nothing special or another human
Thank You
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1.Believe you are the prize.
2.Stop chasing validation.
3.Ask for a favour.
4.Set boundaries and have standard
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
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This has turned into a copypasta lmao
My advice to every guy who is trying to get a woman love you back or chase you, please don’t. If the girl plays mind games, all you have to do is block her completely. If someone plays hard to get from the beginning of the relationship, then they show who they are. They will play with you. Someone who is interested in you will always be interested in you as long as you put the same effort.
I had to learn this the hard way. Years ago [pre smartphone] had a woman sext me, describe giving oral and even go on two dates with me. Then she blew me off. After that, I cut her off. She then bad mouthed me about being 'sensitive'. She basically wasted my time and blueballed me. Fellas, don't fall for that. If a woman chases me and I am not feeling her, I am not taking her on dates and teasing her either. That shit is pointless
Ignoring her or not confessing my feelings towards her would help make her chase me?
@@dafr1993 nah bro you gotta be tall or someone who she sees status. but if you aint tall you are fuuuucked
Yes @da fr
@@dafr1993 yes bro
My advice is, focus on creating your own journey. Enjoy every minute and second of it. A woman will be very clear when she wants to join you on your journey. If she doesn’t, it’s important to respect her decision and just focus on moving on with your journey. A man should never deviate from his journey to please a woman.
That's it. Never deviate from your joinery to please anyone. You are absolutely correct
I agree 👍🏾 💯
Your right thank you .
well said. much respect
Bro, we are just tryna hit.
One time my female roommate while at the gym introduced me to a girl on the exercise bike. Prettiest woman I ever saw. I had ZERO chance with her but rode the bike next to her and we talked. Did not try AT ALL to impress her because I had ZERO Point ZERO chance. True story, my roommate two days later got a call from the girl who was asking about me and here is the KILLER....... she told my roommate she was soooo impressed by the fact that I did NOT try AT ALL to impress her like the countless other guys did. I was in shock.
its funny how it works right!
Should then have asked for a date. You blew it.
So did you get a date. Even better you hooking up because from there you gotta do something
I didn't read where you smashed. FAIL
Yea it attracts woman I don't want that's the point Einstein.
We don't want average o w who simps.hitting . We want 10s and they don't come when u ignore.
Asking someone to do you a favour helps people to like you because you trusted them to do something that is important to you and that shows that you trust them.
There’s tons of silly comments on these kinds of videos, but this guy really isn’t just talking about dating advice this info is how to be a more confident man and person in general. Great points he’s making
yes these points can be applied to all areas of life (especially business)
This is exactly happening with me when I treated a girl like a queen in Varadero Cuba 🇨🇺, she lost interest. I will follow up this techniques .love from Oshawa 🇨🇦
I fumbled the bag and was so close to ever having a girlfriend and now i feel like shit what do i do now?
I would like to say, To any nay-sayers out there, or anyone who thinks it makes most sense for both parties to be the prize. Essentially yes, but essentially - No. In my experience; here’s why- I was with my wife for 10 years. As of last month - she stepped out on the relationship.
Now, I have to honestly say I was devastated and so confused because I NEVER saw that coming. Of course- nobody sees it coming necessarily. Specifically I say this in a different way, because, she was so infatuated, and madly in love with me, unconditionally- for 9years and 11 months. Yes- she cheated on me a little under 1 month before the 10 year anniversary.
She had said she wanted to be in love and felt that she wasn’t anymore. Half of it was her, half of it was me.
I asked myself so many times, and I ask friends, and family who know us, and know our relationship, why would she do this? I never treated her poorly, I did everything for her. Everyone said she’s being ungrateful for what she had bc correct, amazing guy, sweetest guy, you’re such a good guy - but here’s what I’ve learned now having been separated by my choice going on 2 months later.
I was too nice. I’ve always been an extremely confident guy. And that has never changed. But I started to lose myself in her. I began putting her on a pedestal. I did begin treating her like she was the ONLY prize in the relationship. I started putting myself below her. I most definitely fully deviated from my path to satisfy hers.
And I can see how that can be- by nature- very unattractive to a female. They don’t want a simp. It’s the most unattractive way a man can be. I confidently put myself below her. I put my wants and needs in the GRAVE. Now listen, when we first began dating and most of our relationship, She found me as a chase. Because in the relationship I was much more self centered. I was mostly presumptuous. And often. And I knew that was something she was attar yes to about me, but because I was arrogant I didn’t think anything of it. But it’s something that made her feel that attraction. Something I’m sure we’ve all learned is that it’s good and OK to say “No” when we mean no. The more I fell for her the less I said No.
when we were younger in our relationship, I often told her No. and I stood my ground. I explained why and stood by that. In time, I stopped doing that. In the early years of our relationship I was adamant about myself and my ways. And they were good I was on a wonderful self development journey. I was entrepreneurial. Slowly that faded off when I put her desires and goals before mine and became her crutch. She was appreciative at first, til I assume - she got bored or unamused with that.
I can understand that. Now regardless of how much I understand all that - she shouldn’t ever ever betrayed the trust and abused the relationship in such a way- bc she not only did me wrong, but she now has to live with that. Regardless of boredom it is never okay to cheat.
Anywho, I was a prize in the beginning- as time passed I traded the trophy in along with my masculinity and leadership.
And somehow I believed I was doing the right thing, the best thing, by her. And essentially yes. But I wasn’t doing best for myself- not even a little.
And as embarrassing as it sounds, and I hate to even admit all of this, but it’s true.
Sexy me- somehow became unsexy. WHAT. Yes. It’s truth.
Now, I’ve honestly had a glow up. Back into myself and I’m doing amazing and loving being single.
Frankly I’m back in that same space I was 10 years ago when we met - the guy who was chill with her- but she can come or go it doesn’t matter to me. I just have a lot less interest in her now bc the history- and I’m not as willing to be even friends bc I know what she’s capable of- which of course is leading her to feeling “suddenly attracted to me again” Funny how that worked, right? I’ve also got myself a much higher paying job, and it’s showing. A job that doesn’t mesh well with her schedule, routine, or lifestyle- which is great for me. Suddenly- she’s interested in making things work out- and admits she made a huge mistake. I’m sure at this point you’re all zealously nodding, bc right- that makes perfect sense! My value and worth which did not waver except by illusion- has now ‘suddenly’ become advantageous for her, and likewise very attractive. When I became less available; stopped falling at her feet; became more independent and focused on myself is when she believed my value to her increased. Though my value never changed, and was always profitable for her- the challenge wasn’t there. Thus she believed My worth was less. Now that my actualities worth to her is less - bc of my lack of interest- she believes I could be more of value to her. The idea of women deluding themselves instead of appreciating reality as such- is a topic for another day; BUT all-in-all. He is correct in stating that the man must believe himself to be the prize. And anyone with some degree of self development will know this is not EGO related. But even in the sense of EGO-related. There’s the good ol’ stereotype that a good girl likes a bad boy. Remember all those movies and shows growing up with the geeky guy in love with a girl watching his crush walk hand-in-hand with the rude boy? The bad news boy? The bad influence? But she can’t seem to shake him? I certainly do. Another thing this attests to- “Nice guys finish last.” As I’ve gotten older I have harshly learned this lesson in a multitude of avenues in my life. Why I didn’t think it applied everywhere? Well clearly there was an incognizant factor involved. No longer do I believe that nice guys finish last can be compartmentalized. If it a truth. Then surely it shall prove itself throughout all life’s journeys.
In conclusion, I have learned a few valuable lessons from my experience. One of them is it can happen to anybody. Even if you’re doing all the right things. Or so you think. Though this lesson specifically I already knew, when I faced homelessness due to my landlord robbing us blind then evicting us- paying court fees for the eviction with the rent money I paid him. Valuable lesson- another I should have been aware that it can apply to any aspect of life. Another lesson, do NOT lose yourself in your relationship - no matter how directly in love you are. Your partner needs to still have someone to love which they cannot do if you give all of yourself up- for them. Another tried and true lesson that I take away- men must always remain the leader. That’s what we were destined for because truly looking at the man holding the flowers in the beginning of this video- even I didn’t see much of a man I. His eyes. I saw a simp. And I wasn’t drawn to give him a bro dap. Rather a pat on the back and a smh greeting. Sad but true. We have to remember human nature, and the design of men and women and the role each side plays. I rest my case 😂Thanks for reading.
You know it !
As a man thinks , so is he !
This is so true …..
It all starts with your thinking .
Not cocky , but confident
Confidence in who you are
reflects outwardly what other people see .
This guy is spot on.
True.. because you are what you Think in your heart..
Accept and love your self 100%. This is the foundation of any relationship. Do not accept relationships advise as 100% true. People are different and act and respond differently in the same situation. Therefore Follow your nature and do not force yourself to be different person. Be your self, and you will get your soulmate
Is this true or force to avoid continue suffering emotionally???wher to go help please
There’s a fine line between being the ‘prize’ and being true to yourself.
@Micheal rakute E ET k8
My biggest problem was always seeking validation. I’d be out on a date and I’d be telling my date stories about when I worked for Ringling Bros. My previous first date seven years ago I didn’t. She already knew I was a clown because it turned out I worked with her mother as one. Had a first date last week. I hardly said a word except to encourage my date to talk about herself. It was very refreshing and she can’t wait until our next!
Nice!
@@JoelEMaher it didn’t work out. Though there was nothing wrong with her, there just was no spark.
Best
Best thing I’ve learned here: “Go next level DEEP”. This is a game changer right here.
That's deep 😊
Thanks for this amazing video. You reminded me of important skills. Be blessed.
When you put a lady on the peddle stone she becomes your god.
She becomes your Lord.
So that's why you shouldn't praise and worship her.
Praising and worshipping the one who gave me life and has kept me alive for all these decades is valuable and amazing. Only God is above me, only him I worship, glorify and praise.
Im glad my wife wasn’t that shallow.
We were both the prize and we respected eachother and were the best team a couple could ask for.
Everyone we knew were just in awe at our relationship.
She was the brains and I was the muscle although we were both on the same page all the time.
Sadly cancer took her life not 2 months ago and we’ve been together since we were 17 years old snd now I find myself single at 53 years old snd now Im watching videos on how to make women chase me.
Oh Brother ….this is gonna be tough although Ive never had a problem with women trying to get my attention.
You had 36 great years together. You are luckier than most
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I know.
Just be yourself. Be a good person. Don’t try to play games. If the other person you are interested in, isn’t interested in you, move on. Simple. You should BOTH be the prize and if one doesn’t treat the other accordingly, then find someone who will be on the SAME page as you.
Being myself doesn't work. All I get is low value women whom I have no interest in. The attractive ones like bad boys or are taken.
Neither the woman, nor the man should view themselves as "the prize". This is general life advice, not just relationship advice. Nobody is the prize. Doing so, results in a toxic relationship based either on a struggle for power or on one of the partners constantly oppressing the other. Sure, short-term speaking, in the initial courting period, it might be exciting (for boys and girls) to play these games, but long term speaking and when there are two mature people involved, there shouldn't be such a thing as "the prize". We are both working as ONE towards building a healthy relationship that contributes to a better quality of life.
Well said, listening to the video the whole thing feels like both sides are playing childish games...
I'm really lost with this stuff... 😕
When a man acts like he is the prize, he comes out as arrogant every single time.
Arrogance is a huge turn off!!!
@@Blossomdentalcare. it doesn't matter what we do ... it's always an turnoff anyway ... to sweet to needy to arrogant ... fxxk this shxt haha
Where do you meet these mythical women who want to work towards a healthy relationship? Most that I meet just want to be entertained and showered with money.
I find myself impressing women easily and then losing there interest so these points seem relevant. I know my worth but I’m also very open and confident with my emotions so perhaps I should be more aware of when it’s time to open up that much. I see myself being the one initiating a conversation, typically over text, all too often as well. Showing interest instead of garnering it. Thanks for sharing the bullet points here Bobby, I do think they are important aspects of all human interaction and am going to try to include some of your recommendations into my life.
Yeah you should slow down. You don’t need to tell her everything about you all at once. It’s nice to have one topic you find yourself talking about for a while. But you can hurt yourself in the process by giving too much when you don’t know if that person is worth it yet. A good relationship isn’t rushed.
I am the prize in everything I do! The problem is I think I’m supposed to be alone. Because I study human behavior, and I read minds and body language very well and it’s always an issue with that. I know one thing if you get a girl that likes you just be yourself don’t try to be someone else!
yes, the key is to really "be yourself". A lot of guys use "be yourself" as an excuse to do all the nice guy crap they've been conditioned to believe works from movies, tv, pop songs (basically everywhere but the real world)
Yes. Everyone else is already taken.
So what am i thinking...?
Tip: Be “Your better self” 😉
This is the best way to spend 26 minutes, I've been an ultraloyal listener of Bobby since, April 19,2016 and my first comment to one of his videos, I try to lead with these women, keep the phone conversation short to set a get together, and if something goes wrong, get back to the books, in this case these materials, your mind strength is being the prize, and must be the magic that pulls them to you. I applied one of Bobby and Chris Andersons social power videos and landed a job too. Thanks Bobby.
Why are you still here if you started watching in 2016 ? It’s because this shit dating coach advice does not really work. It’s quackery
The only youtuber who's really giving you the right knowledge. Accept this man everyone is just making fool. Hats off👍
Except not accept
@@veehartoonian7061 except, not accept .
Just be healthy and chase nobody while being fun. You will be the prize.
I think being real as yourself with your value in place. It will extend to who your with and you will have honor and respect
If you apologized to any women and admitted your wrong and she never came back to you that means only one thing , that she just used that mistake you made as a reason to walk away . just say good bye to her and look for who is gonna love everything about you your bad and your good that's the true love that it will last for good not somebody blind on your good and just see your bad . if you don't like me cause of me somebody else will like me cause i am me and that's the one deserves apologies and gifts flowers Love and all my life .
This was really good info. Its hard for dudes to transition from seeking validation because traditionally we spark it when we first show interest in a woman and ask to exchange numbers.
Men, it's simple.
Do not seek validation.
See it as if they are going to be an addition to your life, not a distraction. As beautiful a woman might seem, women also seek the same. Better yourself and women will notice. Guys, women are difficult, and there is no changing that, and what can change is ourselves. Focus on yourself, and before you know it, women will follow. Have strength, drive, and focus, and the rest will follow.
This may be the most important video for single dudes out there !
Not only 4 single dudes but for will Smith will help
If you think that you are completely lost.
This theory of being the prize is complete bullshit. No you are not the prize because you will think and act like you are. This is called being delusional. Have you ever wondered why you listen to this guy and don’t have results? Because he is talking non sense 🤦♂️😭 Women are attracted to guy with good physical appearance and other traits not all this non sense.
@@Lo-to7zh This shows you don’t know much about women at all lol now granted looks could help get a women but that’s not enough to keep a women. And every man should know this. I’ve seen some of the most not so attractive looking guys with baddies just because of how they carry themselves and their confidence and value than a super feminine attractive man. Your thinking from your insecurities but you gotta remember women and men think totally different.
What is the prize you are seeking? Someone you always have to manipulate into thinking seek me or someone who is mature and know their self- worth and see yours.
This video reminds me of the late teens and twenties when numbers and continued conquest was the objective. Love was not part of the equation.
So first decide what is it you want and what is it the woman want did behave accordingly.
you have changed my life thank you so much.. i always treat people respectively and end up in disrespecting me. You are life saver..keep up this good work..love and respect from my side❤❤❤
Currently mixing it up with a girl half my age. Been out of the scene due to medical issues for the past 8 years…and she’s my first return. I’m trying to reframe my structure cuz got dayum…I have self worth issues and the bs I’ve been thru has left me kinda fragile. It’s weird, so I’m binging YT vids lately. Wish I could read a book, cuz I hate all this tuning in shit.
This is how we learn.
That first one is hard - I fucked up with a similar situation. Although in my case I was married to someone else and had one foot out the door for several years but didn’t leave due to children.
Bobby you are making a difference in the Male society...Much Love🧡
Going on my first date Bobby, I got this brosef!! You gave me my self confidence back and reminded me of who I am brother. And for that. I am eternally grateful. Craig Martin, Staff Sergeant, United States Army, Combat Retired. Thanks again Bobby, you're a fucking Rockstar sir!!
Taking the offer off the table is very powerful. I own a business and I had a woman contact me today asking about the services.. I offered her 3 appointment slots this week. She was wishy washy and started talking about discussing with her husband etc. I told her a message just came through that one of those slots was just booked by another client. She instantly wanted the next available slot. You raise value and there's also a perception of pre-selection there when she knows you have other options
yes, demonstrating a willingness to walk away is key.
Man, you are killing it and making me squirm! Certainly lost touch with dating game! Got rejected but I think I did everything you mentioned NOT to do, done them all!
learn from the mistakes, and get back in the game :)
Dude. U r just spot on man! We want what we can’t have!
Woman so want to win the guy over but if it’s too easy..... SHE GONE!
Just playing the game man!
Hate to say this but: You better always be able to WALK and mean it. Never let your guard down or you’re screwed!
Its high time.. all man we take our GOD GIVEN POSITIONS..AS LEADERS..
One thing I definitely do (mentioned in #3) is next level curiosity. I do this with anyone I find interesting (not just girls I like) -- as long as the person shows some depth that interests me. Beyond that, your content was really useful and eye-opening on a couple of points. Thanks
Both CAN be the prize. Ive experienced this and its a beautiful thing.
Guys listen to this man, he's so right on the money its insane.❤
i had misunderstanding issues.i confess my self that really i am the one who makes problem here without understanding her situations. i dont know how i found you but couple of weeks i am following your tips and advice.its working for me.Thank you for saving my relationship.
You are a really good dude! I bought your Laser Focused Course. At my old age (60+) I am not too proud to learn. And I learned a lot from you, thank you!
I'm really fascinated with the neediness of the idea of being in a relationship. He asks what's the prize. I ask the same question, what's the prize in a relationship?
He really comes off as a salesman selling a course.
A little tip for when y’all go out shopping with a girl. Make her your shopping cart. Ask her to hold things while you looking and that gives you an easy pass to touch her and hold her shoulders and push her around like a shopping cart, which that touch barrier is easily broken and allows her to be more open. It’s also a fun playful way to shop
I like that bro
Gotta try this.im much older than you but what the hell
@@scottstone1475 😅
It always works and when they go home and think about it, they almost get pissed
Absolutely fcking NOT. Theres men who carry MY things for me
@@cocodeville72 the fact that you got triggered by my comment shows how entitled you are. I’m glad that men are willing to treat you like the “queen” you are
Honestly you're giving the best advice that I ever heard. All your words is right. I had all this experiences before
Don’t give all the money don’t give all the love …. Love yourself if you don’t love yourself you can’t love somebody else
Bobby good job, keep up the good work
You analyse the situation with a girl in deep and in a psychological way, that’s impressive ( not like other coaches who are doing surface analysis.. )
You deserve credit!
thanks, glad you found it helpful. And when you understand the psychology of why something works, the easier it is to make it work for you, because you actualy understand what makes it work.
Thanks a bunch! You know, listening to this made me realize that a lot of dating advice I was given is just cultural and " conventional wisdom" that is usually wrong.
Your videos has a lot of lessons that are very helpful. Watching your videos helps me a lot. A huge thank you for you Bobby Rio. Your efforts on making this kind of videos really helps a lot of men.
Glad to hear that!
Let me tell you, your advice is about SELF ESTEEM. I love that. As a habitual self hater, I need this. I’m not trying to love myself but as a nice guy, everyone sees the hood in me BUT me. Well, it’s right there! And friends and fam may see reality, but women see HOW I SEE MYSELF. If I don’t accept my OWN low view of myself, I won’t accept anyone else’s low view of me. Heck. They won’t have a low view of me!
I don’t want to become proud or a jerk but I don’t see you promoting those things anyway. The guys that see a trick here just want the attention you’re getting. Ain’t no trick. Guys, love yourselves. Not to the detriment of others, but STOP THINKING YOU SUCK as a person. Your plans, time, money, attention, all of that is important. A woman wants a strong man, not a wishy washy one. One night, I missed church for a date. It was a soul losing sin. It was also unattractive. Lose your soul and stop not getting the girl, what the heck! I have to do what’s right for me because God commands it, and if a woman doesn’t like that why should I like her? And she won’t like a weak man anyway.
A girl i dated for a couple months recently broke up with me. I wish I’d have seen this sooner. It all makes sense now. Never seek validation. Quickest turn off possible.
yea, we all learn these lessons the hard way. The important thing is to recognize any mistakes you might have made and be conscious to avoid them in the future.
Building a life beening single and doing your own thing is a game changer. The power to walk away and self worth.
Awesome video. This is very true. #facts. I met someone recently and I can say the video you have made I have applied and it’s 100% on point 🤞🏾👌🏽
I swear you are 100% right, you will be the entertainer when she sits back relaxing like an audience.
As a woman, your points on number three are perfect. Both should utilize these points to understand each other. I don't compete with my date, but I will judge on interactions.
I was about to give up on her but i’ll try 3rd and 4th step, wish me luck!
This is my new favorite channel!! Great video!!
It’s been a week….and this actually works like magic👍
Thank Bob. You are the best.
Love this video lots of great content on the pschology of attraction between men and women
thanks glad you found helpful.
The basic trick to attract anyone is to avoid them and not interacting much,rather being spacious or living in distance.Then only,others will start discussing or gossiping about you.
Become real as real is rare and is very powerful.
Every single point worked for me!!! thanks a lot. But I am looking for someone else. I don't want her anymore
Always QUALITY Bobby. Thanks brother.
Fantastic advice!
But to keep it short. Be yourself and prented being single.
Gents, for months now I've seen plenty of your videos being advertised on Facebook, and even read reviews on 'The Scrambler'. I was like "These guys are chauvinist chumps with cheap pick up lines..F these guys". But, recently I started listening to more of the videos on UA-cam and then...something moved me to actually buy the course a couple of day ago. I'm prepared to admit my judgement if you was wrong, based on ignorance. The audio/videos are really insightful, focus on psychology and, I think every man and woman knows ultimately the chemistry / attraction is not actually intuitive, it's often counter intuitive. Fingers crossed you get the email from me with the subject line "it worked"
Glad you gave it a chance and happy to hear you're enjoying it. I look forward to your "it worked" email!
@@BobbyRio mate, i’ve been through 50% of all the video already. I’m a good looking guy, but in my early 40s, no kids, no g/f and thanks to my time in the military and PTSD in the past 10 years i’ve flipped from a very confident extroverted guy who could F chicks easy in his 20s to now being quite introverted. I’m rebuilding myself and relationships is a big part of it. Fingers crossed this helps me get my ‘game’ back. Wish I had discovered this 10 years ago
My guy and I hold each other in high regard. He puts me on a pedestal and does lots for me and I show him a lot of loving and appreciation.
I agree with the points because woman want someone that is confident and happy with themselves but it is much deeper than the assumption that women don't want to be treated like the prize. A high value woman will completely appreciate being treated like a prize by someone that embodies a humbleness and values themselves. The phenomenon that is focused in the intro, is playing on woman that are already struggling with who they are and don't believe they deserve to be a prize. A high value woman will expect to be treated like the prize and will do the same in return. Make yourself high value? Yes absolutely. That's attractive. Don't seek validation, but instead be genuinely caring and let your actions show it!
Thanks for video
In m experience the more you prize a women and keep giving her mor attention ad interest and expressing it the more she relaxe and sometime disrespect you canceling plans not responding to your message quickly
And texting her make you wait sometimes quit conversation et and let wait reply without making excuse she has to go .....etc
Sharing this video with the rest of my girlfriends. Great learning what a man is being thought . Good luck guys with what you are learning here.
I see you play the guitar! But not really though. How come you never got into learning how to actually play?
Hey you! Only penis in this room! No vaginas!! Go away! Top secret information for only the humans that have a penis!
Women feed off of emotions
@Black Boy King TV because they want the guy to figure that out on his own which will make him more alpha in her eyes.
Tell your girlfriends not to worry. There is a sea of thirsty simps out there that will do anything for the tiniest crumb of poon. When the ladies finally get too old and used up, there is always the fallback position of cats and boxed wine.
You need to clarify iniative vs. chasing. A person can justify any inaction with a woman based on the oversimplifying belief of "don't chase." To do so is to serve the imitation of belief as opposed to tapping into ones divine value as the conviction to engage. A full cup overflows naturally. A person "chases" not based on what they do or say but in their motivations. Chasing denies one's deeper identity in abandoning their inner integrity. Validation is indeed the motivation for chasing. People can have inner noise in regards to their nature and seek to rely on another to clarify their ego image from the outside as opposed to living in inward resonance of who they really are.A person finds confidence in knowing the depths of themselves and what they really have to offer others in the overflow of their life. You cease chasing not by paralyzing yourself in fear of losing a power game but by genuinely finding a joy worth sharing that TRULY makes YOU the prize.
When I was 19 in college I was the most popular guy with all the girls, they would approach me and ask me out, guys noticed this. But a college friend got me into his religion and told me not to talk to girls, even as friends, even tho he himself tried to get girls but failed. I avoided girls and parties. Now looking back, I missed on golden opportunities as the popular good-looking college guy because of my friends who didn't practice what he preached me. Age 31 I am almost invisible, the redpill narrative about age isn't the case for me.
never be the one to suggest that you become exclusive. a girl that you're sleeping with will always start dropping hints and usually initiate the conversation once she really wants to go to the next level. make sure she drops several hints before you agree. never be cheap and never initiate the conversation about being exclusive without her already having hinted or suggested it several times. if you just suggest it out of the blue, it will feel like pressure and most women will run or give you the slow fade. make sure you've fully qualified her before getting into a relationship--not just because it will make her value you more, but because you need to be 100% certain you are getting into a relationship with a woman who is truly what you want.
Hey there bro. Your friend was just jealous of you and your popularity with the girls. Which laws says that you must stop talking to girls.....none!!! Get back in the game, as a strong believer in the Lord and find your queen. Every king needs to have his queen!! Be Blessed!!!💯☝️🙏🤙🏁
Take it as a lesson; pretty sure you still attract some women. If you never party and miss out, that's on you. Don't blame those who influence you for not taking initiative.
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It's okay to avoid people in your younger years to be honest they normally aren't looking for anything serious during them years.
This video is changing my life
May work great on girls with low self-esteem or who are depressed. Might work on girls who have personality disorders; you know the types, the ones that always show white above their iris when they talk to you.
Most women have low self esteem
Thank you Bobby for videos like this!!!!
Treat her like a movie star, and you become nothing more than a fan to her.
@@nia6849 True. Now women get to much attention so you treat them like garbage I guess. Makes no sense. Isn't suppose to be this f*cked up but society is screwed now.
@@nia6849 back then there was no social media to inflate women's ego
My Best Relationship Coach...you transformed me from Trash to be the Best Player...love you where ever you are!
really since when?
glad you found it helpfu, and happy to hear of your success
excellent video! just subscribed. you talked about a lot of different ideas and perspectives here I haven't heard before. thanks for the great info!
I totally agree with ALLL OF this! Spot on. I know bc of done it ALL!
Thank you so much for this video and the 5 mistake one. They helped me out so much. I’m now connecting a bit more with her
Glad it was helpful!
So may I ask you a question? Should you ever confess your feelings to a girl even if things are going good? Because every time I've done this I've lost the girls interest. Is it better to just go with the flow and let her decide when the relationship starts? Because how do you go from a date to a girlfriend?
yes, normally I recommend let her initiate the talk. No reason to bring it up if things are going well.
@@BobbyRio Thank you Booby, invested in the program ;)
Guy be straight forward to women, because most of us ladies are now watching videos, like this, how men make us chase them, if you follow this course, you are likely to loose a great woman! Because most women are smart enough not fall from this trap!
@@alhassanfirrdous7292 women are wired this way, regardless of whether or not they know this info, it's simple psychology, most people just need a reminder.
A man doesn’t initiate asking a woman to be his GF. She will initiate the talk with you when she is ready. She will ask something along the lines of “what are we” or “what do you think of us”. You need to respond with “what do you mean?” And she will state how she truly feels about you if she is ready to be exclusive.
First video of yours I’ve watched. Great video man! 👍 100% true, when I act confident and don’t chase women I find them chasing me 😁
like always. PURE GOLD. Thank you. You've changed my mindset since l subscribed.
glad to hear it!
Damn. 30 seconds in and your truth hit me like a freight train!
Men, the very moment you realize the truth, the real paradise is within you. You’ll have zero issues with any women… trust.
yes, a quote i heard years ago from a guy was "the minute you become good with women is the minute you realize you already are"
@@BobbyRio Exactly! One of the many paradox’s of the universe!
it's easy to get her but to keep her is another story
Real Talk!!!!
Agree 100%
All these games won't help because we are watching!
Absolutely ...
This is the perspective of the toxic new age relationship. Where everyone is someone to “conquer” and every interaction is a power struggle. That is not love and that is not living but misery. Every now and then if you are lucky, you will meet a women who has an inner beauty, is not into playing games, and loves from the heart not the bank balance, car or image. Marry her straight away.
You've got this figured. Great stuff!
this is the most "grown man Game " i have ever heard thanx i appreciate you Bobby
glad you liked
do what makes you happy on your own
This guy proved some real stuff 🔥
I can describe what Bobby @bobby highlighted as a practical way to "add virtue to one's Faith" as the Bible teaches.
Thank you Bobby. This is life's hack 😅😅.
I've subscribed to your channel 😮😅
The Preacher, king Solomon also said, the labor of fools wearies everyone of them because they DON'T KNOW HOW to get to the City.
Your techniques are simply genuis
You are the best i swear!!!! Love your videos
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Good
Straightforward
Shared your link with friends
what you presented makes sense
Thumbs up
Be Well
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Good content, am 22years and many of your video have really helped me to be a real man
great to hear it! You're lucky to figure this stuff in your early 20s, a lot of guys don't figure this out until much later.
Meetup downgrades to me are huge. At first i allowed it, but i came to realize i was just screwing myself. Your time is critical, so make the best of it.
Your insights are refreshingly natural! These easy ways to make a girl chase you feel like common sense with a twist of brilliance. 🌟 While I'm not currently in the dating scene, I've always appreciated genuine connections. Speaking of which, have you ever tried fostering intimacy with natural aphrodisiacs like Spanish Fly Pro? They can add a delightful spark to your romantic journey! 😉 If you're looking to have her chase you with even more enthusiasm, this could be the delightful secret ingredient you've been missing out on
I really love this video, i think I've been making a lot of mistake.
Good video buddy. Dudes never put a woman above you. Men Lead, Women follow. That's how life works. Take charge. Note Queens are not Kings. 👍👌💯✔️✔️. Im 61. Retired Military.veteran very experienced. Learned my lessons with Women thru the years. They are never satisfied, Don't try to figure them out. Quit it 😊😊
What do you do in long term relationships after the dating phase to have a healthy and good relationship
“It’s always better to show rather than tell” - Bobby you’re a genius