Kenny you went through what you went through for this purpose, you such a gift to humanity, my love for your work and thank Michelle for sharing your life
Thank you so much for sharing this! So…she picked someone who would help her maintain and even reinforce what she had learned to value about herself as a child - that which validated her as love-worthy. And still as an adult she sees these traits as her best virtues - responsible, stable, dependable. In his failings, he was the catalyst that helped her continue this maladaptive coping strategy while also fortifying her feelings of righteousness for herself as a stellar human being - pedestal worthy - which inadvertently renders him an unworkable, unforgivable disappointment. I think this is at least a subset of an understanding I’ve gained?? And… I 1000% see myself here. And I also see how it can be a manipulation. It’s so insidious though - so hard to recognize it while it’s happening and in martyr mode for what feels like mere survival.
Beautifully surmised it’s what we all do subconsciously it’s called the worst day cycle. I wrote about it in my book if you want to completely understand it and how every single one of us does the exact same thing and more importantly, how to heal it, here is the link kennyweiss.net/shop/
Wow, what an incredibly kind thing to say. Thank you so much. I am really happy how I coach and counsel others into finding their solution resonated with you. If that resonates with you my book definitely will. Enjoy the Journey! ;-)
@@kennyweiss Thank you so much for responding. I have watched your videos for 2 weeks and I have for 10 years read and listened to many teachers but I think your views are the most helpful, holistic and real. You really are one of the best I've heard and seen. Looking forward to your book.
@@paulagriffithpaulag2 I am really happy to hear that what I do has been a help. Thanks for watching. If you think it can help others, please share them. ;-) Also, let me know if there are certain n topics you want to hear more about that will help you?
@@fox_85 and me , esp your video about narcissists and showing that the co depandant is also a type of narcissist ...unique work 🙏🏼🌿💜🌷 much gratitude for your channel. May you go from strength to strength
Thank you so much for this...Yesterday while journaling, how I am in some ways trying to fix my father and his hurt which he experienced as a child, invariably impacting me as his kid...by trying to fix my relationships with unavailable men in my life...and even trying to get them to see me as the responsible one, the intelligent one, the caring one, the not shallow, one apart from just being the pretty desirable one...which was also something that my dad didnt and did see me as. I felt the constriction, tightness and sadness in my throat and Solar plexus. The more healed we get, I believe the more we heal others as well.
Thank you dear Kenny, I'm reading your book Your journey to being yourself and just got to the page with Qr code of this video... so true and overwhelming for me... I had to watch and pause many times ❤ and re-watching it now. Thank you !!!Roberta from Italy 😊
Wow lightbulb 💡moment for sure. To see all of these lessons as a major gift instead in victim mode. Very empowering. Big thanks and reminder that everyone is responsible for themselves. We need to know our roles and not fix others.
I think narcissist are a mix of inner animals, different roles/stages - Snakes, hide and wait the moment to bite the poison, then hide, to weak the victim (injecting venon) - Mermaid, with soft music keeps you under her control, keeping you happy while dying (sometimes playing a victim role) creates dependence, - Vampire, meanwhile sucking your blood (destroying your life) - Wolf, when you try to gain control, how you dare to be against the wolf (accusing, dominating the victim, sometimes with other wolves) If it doesn't work then it goes back to the snake stage.
I'm trying to watch the video but the decor is so beautiful, it keeps distracting me. I loved this. This was the first session that I felt it was possible to be emotionally in control and free. You have a gift.
What a tremendous work of art you've done there,so powerful and genuine and bald its just I am out of words thank you for sharing this session with us I appreciate it God bless you
@@kennyweiss I learnt alot listening to it. It's so clear you operate from the heart and your words for the EFT Tapping clearing for Michelle seem to come directly from God. Like when a hand just writes a book and the author says it wrote itself. It's been very healing for me as been through sthg similar to Michelle . Divine synchronicities . Amen ...love how you say we are all imperfectly perfect 💛🌿🌹🙏🏼 much gratitude for your time love and energy to post all your videos to help others
I said flow with you both and each time felt myself healing 💖🌷💜🙏🏼🌿 no befitting Words .. amazing .. cutting the roots of a diseased tree , hoping new branches will grow in me too , as we heal ourselves we heal the universal consciousness . We each have to focus on healing ourselves. I've always known it's not the other but me but was in denial about looking at what needed healing in me . This helped me so much ... Thank you 🙏🏼💜🌷
The first step in 12 Step programs is to admit powerlessness over your stumbling block and that you can't manage your own life. Tge reason for the second half of the 1st step is because there are a million things in life that are beyond our control. The best laid plans go awry many times through no fault of our own. We are not all powerful. 2nd Step is we came to believe in a power greater than ourselves to take care of tge things we can't.
I disagree with the idea"he's not the problem", I subscribe more to the thought, he had his own issues and along with my unavailability, it was inevitable that we were both challenged in making the relationship work.
I thought all the men I dated were fairly different. I didn't see the similarity in what I was seeking til watching this. So much hitting home here...dang...
I'd like to thank both Michelle and Kenny for this video. I have a question though- What if where she feels better during the tapping for someone else they burst into tears. What does this mean and can they eventually be able to be more like Michelle here and feel it get better rather than more intense.???
Actually that’s very common. People watching someone else go through tapping can release their own trauma. And that’s the answer to your question. The solution is to heal the pain from our past and that type of work can’t be done alone we need a professionals help to accomplish it
THIS IS MIND-BLOWING. I am literally just astonished at how much revelation this counselor has. Thank GOD for you Kenny.
Kenny you went through what you went through for this purpose, you such a gift to humanity, my love for your work and thank Michelle for sharing your life
This was sooo amazing to watch and self reflect on for my own anger and resentment right now.
That’s wonderful Christina. I’m really happy to hear that it helped you😁🎉
Thank you so much for sharing this! So…she picked someone who would help her maintain and even reinforce what she had learned to value about herself as a child - that which validated her as love-worthy. And still as an adult she sees these traits as her best virtues - responsible, stable, dependable. In his failings, he was the catalyst that helped her continue this maladaptive coping strategy while also fortifying her feelings of righteousness for herself as a stellar human being - pedestal worthy - which inadvertently renders him an unworkable, unforgivable disappointment. I think this is at least a subset of an understanding I’ve gained?? And… I 1000% see myself here. And I also see how it can be a manipulation. It’s so insidious though - so hard to recognize it while it’s happening and in martyr mode for what feels like mere survival.
Beautifully surmised it’s what we all do subconsciously it’s called the worst day cycle. I wrote about it in my book if you want to completely understand it and how every single one of us does the exact same thing and more importantly, how to heal it, here is the link
kennyweiss.net/shop/
This is deep and real raw. Thank you! For teaching, coaching, wisdom and deep knowledge, you are a blessing.
Amazing Kenny. I have never seen anyone unwrap everything so quickly and with such compassion. You are a master. Getting your book today!
Wow, what an incredibly kind thing to say. Thank you so much. I am really happy how I coach and counsel others into finding their solution resonated with you. If that resonates with you my book definitely will. Enjoy the Journey! ;-)
@@kennyweiss Thank you so much for responding. I have watched your videos for 2 weeks and I have for 10 years read and listened to many teachers but I think your views are the most helpful, holistic and real. You really are one of the best I've heard and seen. Looking forward to your book.
@@paulagriffithpaulag2 I am really happy to hear that what I do has been a help. Thanks for watching. If you think it can help others, please share them. ;-) Also, let me know if there are certain n topics you want to hear more about that will help you?
I agree, same for me
@@fox_85 and me , esp your video about narcissists and showing that the co depandant is also a type of narcissist ...unique work 🙏🏼🌿💜🌷 much gratitude for your channel. May you go from strength to strength
Thank you so much for this...Yesterday while journaling, how I am in some ways trying to fix my father and his hurt which he experienced as a child, invariably impacting me as his kid...by trying to fix my relationships with unavailable men in my life...and even trying to get them to see me as the responsible one, the intelligent one, the caring one, the not shallow, one apart from just being the pretty desirable one...which was also something that my dad didnt and did see me as.
I felt the constriction, tightness and sadness in my throat and Solar plexus.
The more healed we get, I believe the more we heal others as well.
Beautifully said, and you are so welcome😁
Thank you dear Kenny, I'm reading your book Your journey to being yourself and just got to the page with Qr code of this video... so true and overwhelming for me... I had to watch and pause many times ❤ and re-watching it now. Thank you !!!Roberta from Italy 😊
Wow lightbulb 💡moment for sure. To see all of these lessons as a major gift instead in victim mode. Very empowering. Big thanks and reminder that everyone is responsible for themselves. We need to know our roles and not fix others.
Very nice! Thank you Kenny Weiss and thank you Michelle!
My god this lady is ME
I think narcissist are a mix of inner animals, different roles/stages
- Snakes, hide and wait the moment to bite the poison, then hide, to weak the victim (injecting venon)
- Mermaid, with soft music keeps you under her control, keeping you happy while dying (sometimes playing a victim role) creates dependence,
- Vampire, meanwhile sucking your blood (destroying your life)
- Wolf, when you try to gain control, how you dare to be against the wolf (accusing, dominating the victim, sometimes with other wolves)
If it doesn't work then it goes back to the snake stage.
I'm trying to watch the video but the decor is so beautiful, it keeps distracting me. I loved this. This was the first session that I felt it was possible to be emotionally in control and free. You have a gift.
Kind of reminds me of Purple Rain lol
This has been so enlightening to watch, thank you for sharing this video, it moved me to tears , it revealed so much to me about myself 🙏
What a tremendous work of art you've done there,so powerful and genuine and bald its just I am out of words thank you for sharing this session with us I appreciate it God bless you
Wow this is so phenomenal. What a beautiful gift from Kenny and Michelle. Thank you both. Truly beautiful 🌹🌿💛🙏🏼
Glad you enjoyed it
@@kennyweiss I learnt alot listening to it. It's so clear you operate from the heart and your words for the EFT Tapping clearing for Michelle seem to come directly from God. Like when a hand just writes a book and the author says it wrote itself. It's been very healing for me as been through sthg similar to Michelle . Divine synchronicities . Amen ...love how you say we are all imperfectly perfect 💛🌿🌹🙏🏼 much gratitude for your time love and energy to post all your videos to help others
I said flow with you both and each time felt myself healing 💖🌷💜🙏🏼🌿 no befitting Words .. amazing .. cutting the roots of a diseased tree , hoping new branches will grow in me too , as we heal ourselves we heal the universal consciousness . We each have to focus on healing ourselves. I've always known it's not the other but me but was in denial about looking at what needed healing in me . This helped me so much ... Thank you 🙏🏼💜🌷
The first step in 12 Step programs is to admit powerlessness over your stumbling block and that you can't manage your own life. Tge reason for the second half of the 1st step is because there are a million things in life that are beyond our control. The best laid plans go awry many times through no fault of our own. We are not all powerful. 2nd Step is we came to believe in a power greater than ourselves to take care of tge things we can't.
Aww! Thank you. too very much! 🙏💚🕯✨✨✨
You are so welcome
thank you Kenny, VERY enlightening
I disagree with the idea"he's not the problem", I subscribe more to the thought, he had his own issues and along with my unavailability, it was inevitable that we were both challenged in making the relationship work.
Thank you, so helpful.
You're welcome!
So good, Kenny.
Thanks Tyler
God bless you kenny
I thought all the men I dated were fairly different. I didn't see the similarity in what I was seeking til watching this. So much hitting home here...dang...
SUPER!
Many thanks!
Very helpful for me!!
I'm so glad!
I'd like to thank both Michelle and Kenny for this video. I have a question though- What if where she feels better during the tapping for someone else they burst into tears. What does this mean and can they eventually be able to be more like Michelle here and feel it get better rather than more intense.???
Actually that’s very common. People watching someone else go through tapping can release their own trauma. And that’s the answer to your question. The solution is to heal the pain from our past and that type of work can’t be done alone we need a professionals help to accomplish it
If a dating partner mirrors you to please and win you, how does the sub-conscious works on that piece?
💝💯
Is this real or is she doing a role play
Its real