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  • Опубліковано 7 вер 2018
  • **NEW UPDATE - Great news guys, the hotel where this happened is being SHUT DOWN. Other women have come forward and said that this happened to them there too!! Now something is being done. If I have helped even ONE WOMAN be spared this same experience, this is all worth it. Thank you for your support.
    Guys my heart is pounding right now to actually press publish on this video.
    It has cost me a lot to share this. I still don't know exactly why, but I knew that it was very important for me to speak out about what happened. Thank you for listening.
    Edited to add hotel names:
    The hotel where I was trapped in the room was OYO Hotel on Main Bazaar Road, Delhi (now shut down! action taken!)
    The hotel where they gave out my room number was the Lalit New Delhi in Connaught Place (action also taken! yes!)
    There is an ongoing police investigation on both these matters. Both hotels have been contacted and upper management has been supportive. The employees are or have been removed.
    Questions you guys have been asking a lot:
    Why didn't I call the police? As I said, I had no usable phone or wifi to do so.
    Why didn't the employees unlock the door with a master key? Thankfully the door locked from the inside, and there was also a big padlock outside the door that only I had the key to.
    Why didn't I call the front desk? The hotel employees were the ones waiting for me outside my door. How was I to know who at the hotel to trust or not?
    Thank you for all of your support!
    This is a video that is so difficult to release.
    If something like this has happened to you, you are not alone.
    Thank you so much for listening.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 57 тис.

  • @Travellight21
    @Travellight21  4 роки тому +2723

    I wrote this about a yr ago but never posted, thought I would now:
    Some FAQ:
    Why not call police? Because I could not do so. My phone had broken a few days before. It would not accept SIM cards anymore or even open the dial pad. So, it could only make calls using wifi. I had told the hotel employees this days before they started acting inappropriate. The wifi in the room was weak, so I asked them to use their hotel phone. They told me go buy a SIM card, so I explained the issue. Because of this, they knew that if they turned off wifi, I would be without any way to call for help.
    The phone inside the room was a hotel intercom only. The only people I could call on that would be the hotel employees trying to get in.
    Why stay in such a cheap hotel? This is the type of hotel we were staying in all over India (I had been there about 1 month already). Never any problems. $12 was pretty typical. We were recommended the area by both travelers and local friends. We stayed at a 5 star hotel ($100/night) when we first got to India and did not like it. We tried again to stay at a 5 star hotel (over $150/night, very famous in Connaught Place) and that was where I had my 1st bad experience. As I say in the video, that’s where the hotel gave my room number and information to a stalker trying to gain access to my room. I felt extremely unsafe at the 5 star hotel because of this, so we went to the $12 hotel (we’d actually stayed there before, about 1 month earlier, back then the employees were nice and it was fine).
    Do you dislike India? No, of course not. I am only against the few bad men that did this. See the first few seconds of the video for my thoughts on this.
    Why not call front desk? The hotel employees were the ones doing this. It was a small hotel. The same people working at the front desk were the ones trying to get into the room.
    Why didn’t employees use mastercard to get in the room? There was no such thing at this hotel. Also thankfully all hotels in India have locks inside. There were 2 deadbolts. They did try to unlock and come in but the door was locked from inside.
    Are you making money off this video? No. I never monetized it and I also turned down all of the many paid offers I got for interviews. I never wanted to make any money off of this, only to share the experience.
    If they didn’t get in the room, how is it assault? The assault happened in a separate incident while I was walking on the street (with my boyfriend at the time), as I mentioned briefly. It was enough to leave me with bruises that lasted for about 2 weeks.
    Why not yell out window for help? There was no window in this room.
    Why not open door and attack / beat them up / punch them? I’m a petite woman weighing about 100 lbs (45 kilos). There were around 3-6 men outside the door at different times of the day. That just wouldn’t be smart.
    How did you pay the final bill if you had to escape? My ex and I paid in advance for the entire week upfront, sometimes hotels would ask for that if they were giving you a discounted rate, which they were. 

    I don't check comments on this video anymore. Thank you so much for the support!

    • @Hanluuuuu
      @Hanluuuuu 4 роки тому +159

      I am sorry that you had to experience this . i hope you are okay now and if you ever come back, i hope you don't experience this again! ♥

    • @23sprasad
      @23sprasad 4 роки тому +98

      You are right few bad people won't destroy Indians image, if your mobile was working then there will be a different story but unfortunately you had bad experience.

    • @salehamustafa1965
      @salehamustafa1965 4 роки тому +58

      This is so creepy experience may Almighty God protect us all..
      U may also watch the difference from Canadian solo biker Rosie Gabrielle her experience in countries n how her life changed.. Rosie Gabrielle is my best utuber

    • @aliahmed860
      @aliahmed860 4 роки тому +185

      India = Rapistan

    • @shindenbrothers7437
      @shindenbrothers7437 4 роки тому +157

      I am an Indian and I would like to apologize you and every other woman who has gone through this phase @Travellight. I am sorry for your experience.

  • @mjkhan03
    @mjkhan03 5 років тому +6639

    Dayum even Indians are saying India isn't a safe place to travel alone.

    • @ibanpynshailyngdohsangrian147
      @ibanpynshailyngdohsangrian147 5 років тому +556

      Yes i'm Not Proud of my country because this always happened

    • @AJ_.._
      @AJ_.._ 5 років тому +216

      Bcuz many ppl here are not brought up properly, without values !

    • @ShruteshKumar
      @ShruteshKumar 5 років тому +424

      Yeah, Indians will be the first ones to tell you this, even male Indians like me can tell you horrifying stories about stuff that has happened to my girlfriend and sisters. While there are many good, law-abiding, and helpful Indians, there are a significantly large number of no good, practically illiterate and sexually deprived Indians with a medieval mindset, enough that you cannot avoid them no matter how hard you try.

    • @mr.coconut2310
      @mr.coconut2310 5 років тому +269

      If a woman gets raped, the families will not find the rapist, but go on a witchhunt to kill the victim because she's now "unpure". Fortunately nowadays this is slowly changing

    • @ExtremeZZZLifeOnTheEdge
      @ExtremeZZZLifeOnTheEdge 5 років тому +65

      I think Delhi is a part were you will have bad experience like this.

  • @ZodinpuiaChawngthu
    @ZodinpuiaChawngthu 5 років тому +18016

    Welcome to the country where cows are safer than women 🙏 Namaste

    • @maryamnubat6253
      @maryamnubat6253 5 років тому +1038

      Lol that's funny and right at the same time

    • @ROHITKumar-yd5vo
      @ROHITKumar-yd5vo 5 років тому +323

      Hahaha... Bitter but true..hotel ka naam v bta dena ta, pr madam ni boli

    • @madsamirtiwari
      @madsamirtiwari 5 років тому +320

      Cows r killed on daily basis, in Kerala congressmen killed cow in broad daylight. How can u equate two different instances? Those who respect cow, respect women also since our culture teaches us to respect not only animals but trees, rivers, nature etc. Our culture teaches vasudhev kutumbakam ( whole earth is my home and all humans r my brothers and sisters).
      The one who molest girls don't believe in this ideology and these type of ppl can be found all over the world. It's quite funny logic of urs where u held whole nation guilty because of bad behaviour of few.
      And ppl like u can only make fun, we hindus respect cow to show our gratitude towards them since we get so much from them.

    • @Drikaaa88
      @Drikaaa88 5 років тому +186

      No they aren't. Actually, the cows are just for show. They let them it dirt water, plastic etc.

    • @nikki1646
      @nikki1646 5 років тому +163

      Uncle Sam what the fuck is wrong with you

  • @S0912S
    @S0912S 10 місяців тому +518

    As an Indian women who has been groped, teased, stalked, I never felt safe in India. And neither did any of my female friends, sisters, cousin. It's UNSAFE FOR WOMEN, which is a sad reality.

    • @Rajusharmal
      @Rajusharmal 9 місяців тому +25

      india govt should allowed woman carry firearms if they feel threatened

    • @AbduIIl
      @AbduIIl 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@RajusharmalLike US permit everyone.

    • @Rinee_96
      @Rinee_96 3 місяці тому +5

      @@forgaming5640 do u need a doctor?

    • @danyo6317
      @danyo6317 3 місяці тому

      @@forgaming5640lowest IQ comment

    • @kimtoannhan7275
      @kimtoannhan7275 3 місяці тому +13

      ​@@forgaming5640yes we are blaming you. In India cows are treated with more respect than women.

  • @heroedeleyenda05
    @heroedeleyenda05 2 місяці тому +114

    I don't understand why people are afraid of telling their horror storires from india in fear of offending indians.
    Like, SAFETY is more important than hurting the feelings of indians.
    WOMAN ARENT SAFE IN INDIA! The word needs to get out
    DONT TRAVEL TO INDIA!!!
    People need to know that they are in danger while ANYWHERE inside india.
    People are afraid that saying things like this will hurt tourism.
    BUT THEIR TOURISM NEEDS TO BE HURT
    They need to feel the financial blow of losing most of their tourim.
    That is the only way that things will change
    When their politicians feel money fading away, they will INMEDIATELY TAKE ACTION
    and hard change will occur, then once they implement huge changes tourism will come back in droves because india has a lot to offer for tourist but not as it is today

    • @gul8446
      @gul8446 Місяць тому

      Indians are huge in numbers and are so insecure thts why

    • @darthvadeth6290
      @darthvadeth6290 Місяць тому +1

      Facts 👌

    • @siddhanttiwari6644
      @siddhanttiwari6644 Місяць тому +1

      Atleast when this type of news come whole India unite to give justice to victim but when Indian get in trouble in America or any western country they don't even care about it and even in some cases officer mock Indian with racist comments instead of serve justice to them , in 2024 within 4 month more then 12 Indian students has been killed in America,50% of Indian face racism in western world, even if we see recent event in usa when Baltimore bridge collapse all Americans criticizing Indian , but Indians are who saved many lives of Americans by giving sos 🆘 alarm, and Americans captain are who crash the ship , so first make sure is your country safe for tourists or immigration you racist person

    • @Md.IrfanulIslam
      @Md.IrfanulIslam Місяць тому +2

      ​@@siddhanttiwari6644Don't go to USA then. I myself won't go any of western country also.

    • @naveenmaurya8802
      @naveenmaurya8802 Місяць тому

      @@Md.IrfanulIslam though denial there, mate. USA and other progressive countries are considerably much safer for women.

  • @Travellight21
    @Travellight21  5 років тому +16334

    **NEW UPDATE - Great news guys, the hotel where this happened is being SHUT DOWN. Other women have come forward and said that this happened to them there too!! Now something is being done. If I have helped even ONE WOMAN be spared this same experience, this is all worth it. Thank you for your support.
    Also UA-cam is filtering out a lot of your comments because they contain words like "rape" and such. They aren't gone, they just need to be approved. I am mass-approving them whenever I can but with hundreds of comments coming in, your comments might take a few hours to show up. I'm sorry about that. Thank you for all of the support.
    Guys my heart is pounding right now to actually press publish on this video.
    It has cost me a lot to share this. I still don't know exactly why, but I knew that it was very important for me to speak out about what happened. Thank you for listening.
    Edited to add hotel names:
    The hotel where I was trapped in the room was OYO Hotel on Main Bazaar Road, Delhi (now shut down! action taken!)
    The hotel where they gave out my room number was the Lalit New Delhi in Connaught Place (action also taken! yes!)
    There is an ongoing police investigation on both these matters. Both hotels have been contacted and upper management has been supportive. The employees are or have been removed.
    Questions you guys have been asking a lot:
    Why didn't I call the police? As I said, I had no usable phone or wifi to do so.
    Why didn't the employees unlock the door with a master key? Thankfully the door locked from the inside, and there was also a big padlock outside the door that only I had the key to.
    Why didn't I call the front desk? The hotel employees were the ones waiting for me outside my door. How was I to know who at the hotel to trust or not?
    Thank you for all of your support!

    • @user-fo9fx5ni7y
      @user-fo9fx5ni7y 5 років тому +88

      Learn about demographics and crime please. AmRen.

    • @dineshpatro
      @dineshpatro 5 років тому +121

      Did you make a formal complain with the police or not?

    • @tongzhang8204
      @tongzhang8204 5 років тому +488

      Travellight As a Chinese fan, feel really proud of you to be brave enough to reveal the dark side! Keep moving Jorden! Will always be back of you!

    • @700mph
      @700mph 5 років тому +165

      I'm glad you are SAFE!!!!!!!!!!
      next time DONT do that..
      If they are disrespecting with luvio then its dangerous for you alone. I'm glad you made the video. You educated me and everyone else. Just learn from this, make adjustments. I'm glad you are safe.

    • @joseph817_chou2
      @joseph817_chou2 5 років тому +110

      Always Welcome you back to Taiwan!

  • @MyNameIsSteveYesitis
    @MyNameIsSteveYesitis 5 років тому +11064

    So guys in india are exactly the same in real life as they are on facebook lol

    • @EricHrahsel
      @EricHrahsel 5 років тому +1396

      Yea. Even tourists women aren't safe here apparently.. no respect.

    • @richardw1212
      @richardw1212 5 років тому +376

      exactly

    • @Rascal696
      @Rascal696 5 років тому +644

      Oh trust me they fucking are lol

    • @commanderofkesariyaknights
      @commanderofkesariyaknights 5 років тому +373

      There r 1320 million ppl in india. U perhaps only saw not more than 30 memes abt Indian guys.
      So what shud I say abt ur reality?

    • @simranmann7605
      @simranmann7605 5 років тому +271

      Exactly! Even worse. Sad but true.

  • @errorx2316
    @errorx2316 Рік тому +487

    She visited india to see their culture and they actually showed them 😢

  • @VivekJ96
    @VivekJ96 Рік тому +281

    Nothing has changed. Still India is not safe for women, be it Indian girls or girls from other countries. Either don't travel to India or if you have to, then don't travel alone. I feel ashamed as an Indian and i feel sorry for what you faced here.

    • @memeniamemes8191
      @memeniamemes8191 Рік тому +18

      thanks for being rational and open minded if ppl like you are everywhere india will get better soon

    • @inxan_ed1ts
      @inxan_ed1ts Рік тому +5

      I think next generation will be better, cuz there are more people like us

    • @Skewel
      @Skewel 8 місяців тому

      North* India is not safe for women

    • @sasmalprasanjit2764
      @sasmalprasanjit2764 3 місяці тому +5

      Ya..after this video she went for ONLY FANS!

    • @Ray3d.
      @Ray3d. 3 місяці тому

      @@sasmalprasanjit2764is onlyfans your only comeback to any foreigner

  • @irvwn
    @irvwn 5 років тому +6754

    by making this video you are helping women travelers.

  • @danishrashid3866
    @danishrashid3866 3 роки тому +259

    I went to Delhi and stayed there for 3 helly days. I hated everything. I remember being robbed in the metro by a girl while I was pasting my photographs on a form. I was taking out my photographs from the wallet and while doing so I put it just besides my lap. The metro was really much empty that's y I felt easy and put my wallet besides me while pasting my photos. This girl quiet craftily tool the whole wallet and left at a station just before I was about to wrap up and pick up my belongings.
    My ID, my only debit card, 4600 indian currency were robbed by that girl. Thank God I had the passport with my friend who was travelling besides me. The only thing that I wanted to do that day was to see the footage of how she did it. I asked the police and the response was like they could do nothing even when they could have done.
    I hated Delhi from that day on...

    • @purvaramteke5436
      @purvaramteke5436 3 роки тому +8

      Sorry to hear that happened. :(

    • @lk.o.t328
      @lk.o.t328 3 роки тому +4

      You can be a nice story teller for babies

    • @lk.o.t328
      @lk.o.t328 3 роки тому +5

      @@purvaramteke5436 Usne bol diya aur tune mann liya

    • @purvaramteke5436
      @purvaramteke5436 3 роки тому +3

      @@lk.o.t328 you never know

    • @lk.o.t328
      @lk.o.t328 3 роки тому +1

      @@purvaramteke5436 kya tumhe malum hai kya Sach kya hai jo tum muje bol rahi ho (never know) ye foreigners bahut bias hai ye sirf india ko bura dikha ne ki koshis karte hai har bar
      Aur sabse dukh ki bat hai ki kuch youngsters india ke inki baton me a jate hai

  • @fadryfachry8370
    @fadryfachry8370 2 місяці тому +67

    Cows are safe than women 😂

  • @Saleem__786
    @Saleem__786 2 місяці тому +17

    I'm glad social media exposing how filthy that country is

  • @cloover-jg5zd
    @cloover-jg5zd 3 роки тому +2475

    The biggest problem is that even the movies here kinda normalize stalking a girl
    Blegh

    • @diallo9668
      @diallo9668 3 роки тому +123

      @@sorry7359 ?

    • @chandrashekariyer9329
      @chandrashekariyer9329 3 роки тому +253

      @@sorry7359 what the hell. No one deserves it. Because of guys like you India is being defamed

    • @pepethefrog2489
      @pepethefrog2489 3 роки тому +132

      @@sorry7359 I bet you are the kinda guy who beat his wife on small things and judge other girls character on their cloths.
      Change dude it 2021 not 1950's lol.
      And about her appearance she live in a country where people like you don't exist and dont judge girls by there cloths.

    • @justsomeguywithasmolmustac9476
      @justsomeguywithasmolmustac9476 3 роки тому +106

      @@sorry7359 WTF?!

    • @yuvrajsinghshekhawat6989
      @yuvrajsinghshekhawat6989 3 роки тому +124

      @@sorry7359 wtf man
      Because of people like you, India is unsafe for women.

  • @righteousbrother1829
    @righteousbrother1829 3 роки тому +411

    They stole my food in my hotel room. The manager don’t care even I reported it. The taxi guy took my money and said he has no change and take off. Even for guys, be careful going alone.

    • @roundtriangle7259
      @roundtriangle7259 3 роки тому +65

      @Raju Sharma shut the fck up IT cell

    • @ddyte9714
      @ddyte9714 3 роки тому +33

      @Raju Sharma shut up boy

    • @pretty948
      @pretty948 3 роки тому +22

      Raju Sharma dude really?

    • @andreedjuarsa4372
      @andreedjuarsa4372 3 роки тому +28

      @Raju Sharma because u're indian lol....you hate about china because your country is very weak hahaha

    • @ddyte9714
      @ddyte9714 3 роки тому +36

      @Raju Sharma go learn your spelling kid

  • @edmund5352
    @edmund5352 2 місяці тому +18

    You did the right thing in making this video. It is a clear warning for other travellers to take precautions and to be mindful of these potentially traumatising situations when travelling alone or to be left by yourslf in any hotel in India.

  • @simmysampat9590
    @simmysampat9590 10 місяців тому +114

    Gosh I am so sorry this happened to you. As a young Indian woman myself, I am ashamed of some of the men in India and the way they treat women and I am sorry that you were a victim of assault during your visit. Thank you for not being angry towards the country because it really is wonderful and has so much to offer. I am just so mad the uneducated and disgusting MEN in it have to unfortunately create uncomfortable and disturbing situations. This is a real issue in India and thank you for speaking out about your incident. I am happy you still enjoyed some part of the trip and I hope you will still return one day and give India a second chance. Again, I am deeply sorry that this happened to you and I hope you were able to recover from the trauma of it and got the support you needed.

    • @RAPINCITE
      @RAPINCITE 4 місяці тому

      You must be ashamed to have perverted countrymen like this going around your country. Terrorising women. if they did these acts in Australia they would get lynched mobbed. By the goverment and the citizens.

    • @amitbajaj7236
      @amitbajaj7236 2 місяці тому

      So you mean to say educated men do not commit crime.

    • @Aria2990
      @Aria2990 2 місяці тому

      what are you doing in India to prevent this from happening? and why is this actually happening? because it looks like you have a serious problem with people. Also, Indians are multiplying extremely fast. What's going on with you?

  • @vishalmahore
    @vishalmahore 4 роки тому +3969

    Being an indian i just want to say never travel alone in India!

    • @NoName-iq5dx
      @NoName-iq5dx 4 роки тому +297

      But she travelled alone in Pakistan and she is happy from Pakistan
      But
      I know that bad people are everywhere.

    • @vishalmahore
      @vishalmahore 4 роки тому +94

      @@NoName-iq5dx agree with you brother in india & in Pakistan as well it just depend on the area where she is traveling :)

    • @yogeshgoel6031
      @yogeshgoel6031 4 роки тому +48

      Please don’t book cheap hotels in cheap areas. Mostly they provide cheap accommodation for prostitution purposes. Many times girls from other countries are also involved in prostitution. I think you became victim. Please when you visit India research on the accommodations and the area.
      Use websites like MakeMyTrip and book a good rating hotel.

    • @zihaowang238
      @zihaowang238 4 роки тому +56

      So unreasonable she feels safe in Pakistan.It’s should be same thing in India.

    • @renatacuriosa
      @renatacuriosa 4 роки тому +15

      Vishal Mahore not just India, but any foreign country.

  • @saik6788
    @saik6788 5 років тому +875

    As an Indian who was born in the states and brought up here, I don't like visiting India. The last time I visited I got strange looks from men when I was wearing jeans that fully covered me, not even shorts? Wtf. Also, a guy at a shopping center followed me around for twenty minutes when I was with my mother. I wanted to cry. Luckily, my father came and told him off. All of this happened when I was just 14. I'm now 18 and I never plan to visit that place again. Sorry, it's just a scary place for me.

    • @nacyr8686
      @nacyr8686 5 років тому +81

      Sai K I’m Mexican also born and raised in the u.s. and I visited Mexico and got the same disgusting stares everywhere I went and I also don’t ever want to go back

    • @saik6788
      @saik6788 5 років тому +58

      I know! It's so sad, our home countries are so beautiful.

    • @saik6788
      @saik6788 5 років тому +134

      Let me guess, you're a victim-blamer? It's so ironic that the uneducated moron wants to bash me for speaking about my experience, haha. Also, using my appearance to invalidate my experience? So close-minded.

    • @SuperErmacX
      @SuperErmacX 5 років тому +77

      Xyz Sing - Go fuck yourself, troll-man.

    • @itzme7837
      @itzme7837 5 років тому +37

      You crossed the line, people sometimes people bully bc they are going through a hard time but you don't have to put that on someone else. This girl is so beautiful and strong and the bravest person she will succeed and grow from this horrible moment. I hate men like you that don't listen to women, they don't listen to their experiences they are very defensive and just rude. Like who told you to speak no one said your name so bye.. 🤷🏾‍♀️👋🏾🙄

  • @vanityshop5155
    @vanityshop5155 2 місяці тому +24

    This is terrifying. I am so glad you decided to share this. This is a good warning for anyone, especially women, thinking about traveling to India.
    It doesn't matter if the "men" at the hotel didn't actually end up doing anything to you. Just the fact that they lingered around your door for so long, harassed you, deprived you of access to calling and AC, is violation enough, and (I hate even having to type this) it's clear what their intentions were.
    THANK YOU for sharing this.

    • @boiscooka232
      @boiscooka232 2 місяці тому

      Cow worshiper keep doing it 😂 Spanish Influencer women got Gank by 7 man

  • @nettikettrup9713
    @nettikettrup9713 Рік тому +36

    I am so thankful to you for this video. Maybe you saved my life with that. I plan to travel to Delhi alone and even wanted to look for a very cheap hotel so that I could stay longer. I've experienced so many similar things. But I always try to stay positive, open and nonjudgmental. In this case it would have been rather naïve. I'll figure out how to make it work more securely. Thank you for your strength, this video made me cry

    • @Apoorva31
      @Apoorva31 Рік тому +5

      See you can travel to India. She opted for area called pahadganj " red light area" . There are hotels like taj , Hilton opt for these . Even Indians don't stay at place she stayed .

    • @Sakshivjain20
      @Sakshivjain20 2 місяці тому

      Forget whoever encouraging you to visit India tbh there is no safety for a single woman. You are not a tourist for them but the opportunity 😊 especially if you are white cz they are gonna stare at you by rubbing their D in public.

    • @koushikdas1992
      @koushikdas1992 4 дні тому

      ​@@Apoorva31 Taj, Hilton is expensive as hell. Not everyone gonna afford it.

  • @mogalat
    @mogalat 5 років тому +159

    seriously, if you're planing on traveling to India, don't. it's not the first time that I hear about this.

    • @hexartz378
      @hexartz378 5 років тому +5

      Instead travel to Pakistan where you will remain safest as they are interested in their own mum and sisters

    • @darcow3098
      @darcow3098 5 років тому

      as an indian am sad to hear this.. cant blame you tho

    • @hobi_water_cant_help1472
      @hobi_water_cant_help1472 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@hexartz378Why are you bringing Pakistan into this?

  • @jkartik1771
    @jkartik1771 5 років тому +9634

    foreigners Never travel alone in india plz ,even if you are male nd ladies be extra careful if you are traveling alone

    • @Q_QQ_Q
      @Q_QQ_Q 5 років тому +189

      RSS hate women , dalits , minorities etc . This is RSS govt . Deal with it till 2019 .

    • @rohanmalhotra3534
      @rohanmalhotra3534 5 років тому +232

      No its not that India is very safe....sexual assault happened anywhere on this world.

    • @logingoogly
      @logingoogly 5 років тому +8

    • @moneymayhem2000
      @moneymayhem2000 5 років тому +74

      Even if you're male? What do you mean? Men alone will be sexually assaulted? Robbed? Attacked?

    • @january9506
      @january9506 5 років тому +722

      Rohan Malhotra dont make excuse we all know sexual abuse happened all over around the world but india is one of the most...im also an indian...instead of defending blindly to our nation we should accept the criticism and correct our self....we need to understand...its not about insulting or humiliating our nation....

  • @starsign0805
    @starsign0805 Рік тому +59

    As an Indian women, my recommendation to female travellers would be to avoid coming to India on your own and be extra cautious when travelling in female pairs. To be honest, I want to recommend you don't come here in pairs either because you should be able to have a comfortable trip without having to take constant precautions, but that would be unfair because India is full of good, caring, and helpful people, far more than the awful ones. India is NOT more dangerous for women than most other countries in the world. That's not true at all, I can confirm that as a woman who lives here. Every country is a nightmare when it comes to women's safety, it's just that we have such a large population that it's very hard to predict the variables here and I don't want any woman to experience horrors like these, especially in a country which I know is capable of so much more good than bad.
    If you are here, follow these principles as a rule of thumb:
    1. Always try to travel in well lit and well populated areas.
    2. I'd recommend spending a little extra money when it comes to the hotel or the area you live in. Trust me, it makes a huge difference.
    3. It's a 100% safe to travel on your own in the daytime when it comes to towns and cities, but be in the company of someone if you step out at night.
    4. Avoid people who are being suspiciously friendly. It's okay to be a little rude, keep yourself safe.
    5. If someone asks you to pay a certain amount in a local market or elsewhere, always tell them you'll pay only half the price they've quoted because they will try to fleece foreigners.
    6. Ask autorickshaw drivers to turn on the meter, so you end paying the correct amount of money. Better yet, download apps like Ola, Uber or Rapido to get cabs, autos, etc.
    7. Keep a shawl with you. In case you do feel uncomfortable with the stares on the road, which you will experience as a non-Indian ( mostly out of curiousity btw), wrap it around you and people will stare less.
    8. When in local markets or crowded areas, keep a hand on your purse or bag.
    9. You're going to find a lot of scammers at super touristy places like the Taj Mahal or India Gate etc. Keep an eye out for that. If you buy something packaged, open it up to check it. My aunt once bought a box of bangles at Indian Gate, when she opened it up later, it had a bunch of rocks inside it.
    10. Don't trust all the food on the streets, you can visit hygienic eateries like Haldiram's which sell all popular street dishes instead.
    11. You have to be a little more vigilant in the North, as compared to the South and North-east which are safer in general.
    12. If you're feeling suspicious of an auto or cab driver while travelling on your own, call somebody up and start talking to them, preferably an Indian.
    13. If you feel someone is following, catcalling or harrassing you on the streets, immediately walk over to the area that seems most crowded and don't hesitate to approach a group of people standing there and tell them about it. They will definitely help you out and ask the people to back off or take action.
    Stay safe and enjoy your travel! 💜

    • @dafarzaza
      @dafarzaza 8 місяців тому

      You are wrong, India is worst than any other country in regards of stalking and sexual harrasment

    • @mukherjee9262
      @mukherjee9262 6 місяців тому +2

      Probably the best comment on the entire comment section❤

    • @ghostsamongus3370
      @ghostsamongus3370 4 місяці тому +3

      How about just don't go at all. That's what i took away from what you said.

    • @cal9112
      @cal9112 2 місяці тому

      You state that every country is a nightmare for women safety, you have to be kidding, l live in Spain and feel very safe and comfortable here, so, dont say things that are simply not true, India is a nightmare and a hell for women and men alike

  • @drd6893
    @drd6893 Рік тому +9

    Horrific I’m so sorry this happened to you. As a woman, we always need to be careful and still get harassed. We should never be put through this, why is it okay and so overlooked!?!?
    I’m just so relieved that u were not physically hurt.
    But the mental emotional pain is just as bad.
    I’m so very sorry that making this video was reliving a very scary experience. Thank you for being so courageous to share this important information to us.

    • @barrierodliffe3452
      @barrierodliffe3452 Рік тому

      So you've no problem with her claiming sexault assault when there was no sexual assault in the hotel?

  • @aleekamui
    @aleekamui 3 роки тому +873

    To all the Indian people attacking OP - this is why most sexual assault goes unreported in India, bc people attack the victims

    • @aleekamui
      @aleekamui 3 роки тому +12

      ​@TREVOR WILSON In a red light area sexual relations are consensual unlike many places in India

    • @aleekamui
      @aleekamui 3 роки тому +30

      @@madhuk3083 We need to institute sexual education early on in Indian schools and teach about consent

    • @knowpie708
      @knowpie708 3 роки тому

      you're right

    • @thegajuar4459
      @thegajuar4459 3 роки тому +5

      @krishna op original poster. so the creator of the video in this context.

    • @thegajuar4459
      @thegajuar4459 3 роки тому +4

      @krishna op not in this context but sure

  • @2kiah431
    @2kiah431 5 років тому +739

    That must have been so scary, I'm from India and I admit it's extremely difficult to deal with gross men staring and passing sexual comments, I have experienced it and let me tell you something I'm only 14...

    • @jojo-ir9rj
      @jojo-ir9rj 5 років тому +55

      ew i'm fourteen too and this happens a lot

    • @thisnamesucks
      @thisnamesucks 5 років тому +82

      Wtf I have a sister who's about your age and I want to send her to space after reading this comment.

    • @FeralWench
      @FeralWench 5 років тому +14

      Oh God... that's horrible. 🙁

    • @sykoxz98
      @sykoxz98 5 років тому +22

      @@paulrajkhowa3061 idiot

    • @2kiah431
      @2kiah431 5 років тому +45

      @@paulrajkhowa3061 oof, judging by your comment I bet you're a jerk

  • @SatnamSingh-xh1jv
    @SatnamSingh-xh1jv 2 місяці тому +39

    Being an Indian, I’m feeling very sorry for you. This is very horrifying for any girl.
    Yes, India is not safe for girls anywhere. It’s good to see your bravery and how strong you are.
    Never travel alone in India.
    Take care.

    • @Redmoon-uo2th
      @Redmoon-uo2th Місяць тому

      uhm nowhere it's safe for girls to travel alone I feel like it's wrong to only call out india's problems we should call out each country's problems.

    • @khangaroo8166
      @khangaroo8166 Місяць тому

      @@Redmoon-uo2th okay but would this occur nearly as often as in any other country? even in other developing countries this issue being so prevalent is unheard of. and this video and comment was talking about india's issues, stop trying to deflect

    • @shelbypippin1028
      @shelbypippin1028 Місяць тому

      @@Redmoon-uo2thyou’re wrong. it’s only India that has this problem on this scale. I’ve been all around USA alone for 20+ years and never once had an issue. INDIA is the place full of creeps and nasty men!

    • @Shubham-kj5zd
      @Shubham-kj5zd Місяць тому

      ​@@shelbypippin1028 indian men fetishize white women.
      So better not to come here.

  • @ash169
    @ash169 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for making this video. Years later it's helping at least one more woman

  • @user-hj3sj2bc1r
    @user-hj3sj2bc1r 5 років тому +411

    My good friend is indian and female, she lives there alone with her mother and tells me constantly how afraid she is for her safety if anyone ever found out that there wasn’t a man of the house.

    • @leyetelleblue6696
      @leyetelleblue6696 5 років тому +75

      @kb Some of y'all really being butt hurt about this. Like people are getting raped and you guys are only caring about your pride.

    • @sl.kasuwa6870
      @sl.kasuwa6870 5 років тому +14

      Leyetelle Blue Pride Cows and Cast only what they have . These are the people who will blame the women in Rape .

    • @user-hj3sj2bc1r
      @user-hj3sj2bc1r 5 років тому

      music gives life hope it must be really scary, stay safe x

    • @bikramdeb9
      @bikramdeb9 5 років тому +7

      Ha ha, nice storyline.. Can you tell me a country where women are safe?
      And you're talking like as if your country only have women and we don't have women living in our country.
      if you visit to cheap places of Delhi or mumbai or whatever else just to explore and showcase the poorer side of india , definitely you'll come across some illiterate and uncultured people, this also happens in USA and other countries too. So if you're going to india or other places , you should always avoid those places where you can have risk of snatching, assault etc. Before going there make some researches.. Neither india is full of all gentlemen nor any other countries do.
      Evildoers can not have boundaries, no religion , no race..

    • @user-hj3sj2bc1r
      @user-hj3sj2bc1r 5 років тому +7

      Bikram Debnath I wish this was a storyline and not a reality. As was commented earlier, my comment wasn’t an attack on India but was to raise awareness of a societal issue that effects many parts of the world. I think the whole point of this video in general is to raise awareness for women travelling.

  • @truptijamunkar7459
    @truptijamunkar7459 3 роки тому +2417

    Being an Indian i would suggest all the foreigners & even Indian girls not to travel alone in India & if very necessary then pls pls take all the legal & all type of precautive measures to be safe.
    BEING AN INDIAN IT IS VERY EMBARASSING & FEEL SO SO SORRY FOR IT.

    • @shailendratomar159
      @shailendratomar159 3 роки тому +16

      well that's like going to middle ages ok. that is not an option. my grandmother was working and drove a car, my mom worked and so did my masi often late night as she was called for operations and here i am living with a bunch of goons coming into the city with their sick mentality and born to illiterate mothers and fathers , i am sorry that is not an option. the only way is if some one is stalking you confront them. they are like criminals if they sense you are mustering strength to stand up to them they will try to subdue you you best option is 100 % to call the cops. not travelling alone is not an option. i travel alone throughout my life in trains, flights , taxis , uber you gotta set them straight. even if that means calling the cops and clicking their pictures and abusing the suckers.

    • @HN-vj6jl
      @HN-vj6jl 3 роки тому +14

      @A 2k20 Shut up who is talking about India vs China are you mad

    • @iamaghost125
      @iamaghost125 3 роки тому +3

      @Hindu God Cow 100 subs before October? I cannot tell if you are being sarcastic or not 😐

    • @heythereimsuhan9459
      @heythereimsuhan9459 3 роки тому +5

      @A 2k20 yap by putting up posters of tenage girls for a night stand on electricity pillars openly for childrens to see, yap china is way ahead of india.

    • @sinhafamily
      @sinhafamily 3 роки тому +38

      @Raju Sharma Because when you feel threatened, you don't sit there and make video. And now time for you to go back to elementary school.

  • @danijellukic9290
    @danijellukic9290 Рік тому +18

    Why would you even go to India ? 😅

  • @ShivamLavti
    @ShivamLavti 5 років тому +296

    That's really terrifying! I hope you're ok!
    First rule of thumb when visiting India alone - never stay in cheap hotels or use cheap mode of transport. Always stay in mid- range or if you can afford, high-range hotels. If you're using trains to travel, always book 2nd class AC or 1st class AC seats. Never book sleeper couches.
    I'm an Indian, and when people say India is not safe for women, they're not very wrong. There're many many good people but you can't deny there're many bad too among 1.25 billions.
    I'm glad the hotel is shut down and you've continued your travel.
    If you come to India again, do visit the seven sister states in north east! You won't find fancy building or palaces there, they're all about raw natural beauty. These states are called the unexplored paradise of India and are generally less crowded and the weather is cooler then the rest of India.
    Best wishes for all your future journeys!

    • @ShivamLavti
      @ShivamLavti 5 років тому +2

      @A girl in Paradise Gaw basa nahi ki chutiye aa gaye

    • @goddave5238
      @goddave5238 5 років тому +1

      can your tell me why some terrifying thing like this is always happened in india? we need to stop having the mingset that sexual assault happened anywhere. conclusion : all of indian guys has a super dirty mind .remember, dont travel to india alone. no matter who are you, female or male.

    • @ShivamLavti
      @ShivamLavti 5 років тому +6

      @@goddave5238 you're just pathetic. and sound like a kid.

    • @goddave5238
      @goddave5238 5 років тому +1

      dont you horrified by her narration? are u a normal human being? i dont thing so. in india, when people see a white girl then only thing come their mind is porn. indian have a super dirty mind. because their skin are very black, so , they dying to fuck a white girl for compensate.

    • @SudheerKolachina
      @SudheerKolachina 5 років тому +1

      You should also tell her that girls from the North-East go through this kind of harassment on a regular basis.

  • @watashitetsujin4993
    @watashitetsujin4993 5 років тому +327

    One thing girls need to understand while traveling India is to never stay in cheap hotels, it's not the same like Europe or US, these hotels are shady at best.
    U need to make sure u stay nothing less than a 3 star hotel in upscale areas avoid shady areas not located right in the heart of the city.
    Be always safe!!!!

    • @Casssy22
      @Casssy22 5 років тому +29

      Nvd khan so what is the suggestion for the 5 star hotel that gave out her personal information, full name etc. to a stalker? That had prompted her to check out and stay in another hotel?

    • @mobind6479
      @mobind6479 5 років тому +22

      Are u seriously blaming her on this?? It's not her fault India's a fucked up country

    • @kamalpoluri1666
      @kamalpoluri1666 5 років тому +5

      Please do not blame the fault of those people on the whole country. Bad people exist everywhere. What happened with her is truly tragic and I am sure that any Indian in their right senses would be disappointed that she had to go through with this. We are not blaming her for anything but just providing precautionary information to future travelers that it is not advised to stay in cheap hotel near the outskirts of the city. Even, we would avoid staying there. I am sure there are places in every country where it is not safe to visit at a certain time.

    • @penssfdfeswf
      @penssfdfeswf 5 років тому +3

      @@mobind6479 no he's not, also, your country is ***** up as well!

    • @devdaiya4903
      @devdaiya4903 5 років тому

      These fucking westerners douchebags always have the tendency to stay at slum and some shitty place here which i haven't seen here ever.
      I don't know why??
      We have big cities every where in India
      Kolkata, Hyderabad,Mumbai(navi),New delhi , chenna,vishakapatnam, srinagar, moussouri and a loads of other metropolitan cities but these mf always go hunt some slums and shitty place.
      Before coming to India pls pls do some research work which area is safer than other and all.
      Hope you understand

  • @krishnachaitanya2977
    @krishnachaitanya2977 Рік тому +15

    Just be a Cow
    Its safer

  • @ssaini245
    @ssaini245 10 місяців тому +6

    Sorry to hear about your ordeal. I came to know about it through Karl Rock’s video. My advice to everyone is first not to reveal anyone including wherever you are staying is that that you have no access to outside help, like in your case, phone was not working, secondly you are dependent upon their mercy of getting wi fi connection and top of it, you were alone and by yourself only. It is very sad that people don’t have moral ethics and you went through mental trauma. May God bless you to come out of this soon.

  • @toma2667
    @toma2667 5 років тому +585

    instead of saying "this hotel" why don't you say its name and leave a link to it on google maps street view.

    • @allyxayn
      @allyxayn 5 років тому +21

      Then the workers who were innocent to this situation would also be harassed and targeted. That wouldn't be fair, would it?

    • @toma2667
      @toma2667 5 років тому +128

      @@allyxayn yes... I don't care about that, I care about others going there getting treated the same. Not hiding my head in the sand ....

    • @satveersingh5295
      @satveersingh5295 5 років тому +7

      @@toma2667u r right

    • @KrithikaaSureshHA
      @KrithikaaSureshHA 5 років тому +92

      @@allyxayn The same innocent people could have done something to make her feel safe right? The people who ignore what other men are doing to a woman are also guilty according to me.

    • @evangelina3202
      @evangelina3202 4 роки тому +1

      That hotel might sue her for defamation. I don't think she needs that tension now.

  • @joannafreedom7914
    @joannafreedom7914 5 років тому +405

    Bad people get away with bad things because good people stay silent. ALWAYS SPEAK THE TRUTH. Think of how many women they have done this or worse to. Thank you for speaking about this experience!

    • @tittykittycookie2382
      @tittykittycookie2382 5 років тому +19

      Lady, the whole country is like that. They value cows over women. Daughters get treated like shit, while the sons are put through expensive schooling.

    • @avikumarirm
      @avikumarirm 5 років тому +2

      @@tittykittycookie2382 she cooked up a fascinating horror story to get youtube views anf money. Why would she lock herself in the property of people who were trying to harrass her. And then leave safely when its time for her flight back home. 3 days without food and water huh far fetched story. She would have fainted. And fools like you all believe her?

    • @ap-nr3zi
      @ap-nr3zi 5 років тому +1

      @@tittykittycookie2382 lol

    • @avikumarirm
      @avikumarirm 5 років тому +2

      @@yotokhuso if you are gonna lock yourself up for 3 days in a room without food and water when you have the choice of leaving or calling police then you are nothing but either a lier or a fool

    • @IM-007
      @IM-007 5 років тому

      joanna freedom very true 👍🏻

  • @alexawilsonartvideos
    @alexawilsonartvideos 2 місяці тому +7

    It sounds like you protected yourself really well in terrifying circumstances. I'm sorry you went through this. Luckily when I was in India I was never alone, I never wanted to be alone. One time I walked through Rishikesh alone, but that's it I was with others the whole time. I have a friend who had a similar experience in a hotel, she had to barracade her door. Thanks for sharing.

  • @satyamsoni5162
    @satyamsoni5162 5 місяців тому +1

    I'm so sorry this happened to you it's absolutely shamful. Kudos to you for speaking up. I guess it is normal to associate bad experiences with certain things or countries in this regard but I hope you would be able to heal up soon from this experience. Sending love and power to you 🙏

  • @zappawench6048
    @zappawench6048 4 роки тому +377

    She's lucky they didn't have master keys. Still terrifying though!

    • @UrduPakistan
      @UrduPakistan 4 роки тому +16

      Very Well Said.... If they had Master key they will must do the vulgar activity... Because most of the hotels have Master Key to open the door.... But She is Luckey....

    • @manmeetramandeep883
      @manmeetramandeep883 4 роки тому +2

      @Neelesh Pandey its fake vedio, dont be anti national

    • @Nostalgicvibes41
      @Nostalgicvibes41 4 роки тому +8

      Manmeet Ramandeep How do you say that it’s fake?

    • @budiadjiwijaya9946
      @budiadjiwijaya9946 4 роки тому +14

      @@manmeetramandeep883 Hi Idiot, how's your day been going? I see that you're that kind of guy who sees a woman as an object. Shame of your mother.

    • @manmeetramandeep883
      @manmeetramandeep883 4 роки тому +1

      @@budiadjiwijaya9946 tyupical jelous foreigner tryibg to portray india is a bad, ure jelousy just make me morr proud 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @rahilmalhotra001
    @rahilmalhotra001 5 років тому +274

    For foreigners and especially women travelling alone, it is best to either not visit this country or visit calmer and relatively peaceful places here. Places like Delhi NCR, Uttar Pradesh Bihar etc should be a strict no no. People in North and Central India are the people with this sort of backward mentality and are highly uneducated. There are much better people and beautiful places in the north east of India or South India which is far better than the densely and overpopulated streets of Delhi.

    • @SMellmYfEet1999
      @SMellmYfEet1999 5 років тому +2

      rahil malhotra wow look at this....blaming us? Why you hating on utter pradesh? Chutiya shut your mouth.

    • @khushboogulati2130
      @khushboogulati2130 5 років тому +16

      AP TV yup that's true. North India is quite unsafe. Coming from someone who lives there. I don't even step out of the house because I'm so scared that something might happen to me

    • @shaminmanoharan
      @shaminmanoharan 5 років тому +1

      Yes you are right rahil

    • @shaminmanoharan
      @shaminmanoharan 5 років тому +8

      @@khushboogulati2130 ohh..Where are u from ? Please visit Kerala

    • @shaminmanoharan
      @shaminmanoharan 5 років тому +3

      @AP TV please come to Kerala

  • @xxop__rainbowdashxx7163
    @xxop__rainbowdashxx7163 7 місяців тому +9

    I know that you are not checking comments on this video anymore. But just in case, I just want to thank you for posting this video. You are so brave and you must have helped a lot of people. I am so sorry that you have to endure this horror. Please keep travel safely!

  • @hirogochitomayto7018
    @hirogochitomayto7018 Рік тому +15

    As an indian I apologise for the behavior of my fellow pajeets. The general rule is that it is not ok to make contact with female hotel guests after 6 PM. I am sorry for your expeerience and hope you will visit India soon again and stay at a different hotel

    • @Rajusharmal
      @Rajusharmal Рік тому +3

      why u racist to ur own people by calling paajeet ?

    • @hirogochitomayto7018
      @hirogochitomayto7018 Рік тому +8

      @@Rajusharmal Friend i am not racist, pajeet is a term like yank or brit-bong

    • @desiknightsofficial
      @desiknightsofficial Рік тому +1

      i know how much bad some people are there in india. I have seen hate comments on pakistani or islamic videos of Indians.

    • @joyceamissah9014
      @joyceamissah9014 Рік тому

      Seriously visit again who would do that

    • @Fragto372
      @Fragto372 Рік тому

      @@Rajusharmal lol a dumbass subscriber of pajert rashdad

  • @maddythinks
    @maddythinks 5 років тому +602

    India is extremely unsafe for women of all ages and who wear any type of clothing - I live in an okay neighborhood here but I know gangs of men often roam about (say 4-5 km away) in bunches of 4-5 in giant SUV's looking for victims to harass. For many of them it's genuine fun. Lots of random men - so called decently dressed - often stalk or chase women for the thrill of bullying. Lots of rapes are often spur of the moment gang decisions. You just can't trust men here, unless thoroughly vetted. As a suggestion, I'd tell any woman traveler to not come here ever whether with bunch of people or alone. Oh and I am Indian myself, making it through :/

    • @isabellahu4606
      @isabellahu4606 5 років тому +3

      But do you mean as advice to not come to India at all?

    • @psycho_sky123
      @psycho_sky123 5 років тому +4

      Mention the name of the neighborhood that you're referring to🤔🤔

    • @imkarma6271
      @imkarma6271 5 років тому +1

      Akash Khashnobish weirdooooooo

    • @psycho_sky123
      @psycho_sky123 5 років тому +7

      @@imkarma6271 how is this supposed to be weird you dumbass?? I asked so that I could tell people I know to stay away from that place. The only weird thing is your stupid brain and your fucked up username😐😐

    • @dheerajsharma-vl5yh
      @dheerajsharma-vl5yh 5 років тому +1

      maddythinks there are consequences for everything!!! you can't give a blanket statement that no one should come India...come on we are not kids....n some people are bad but by reading all those comments people are concluding that India is not place to visit wow.... come on how can we do this....whatever happened to her is bad n should not happen to anyone but guys people from world is reading your comments even child can conclude now India is worst country to visit ....we have ourselves exposed our own....now will conclude that Indians are bad...aren't these comments making life of Indians outside India worst...people will avoid Indians...n here is the catch more foreigners will make vedio(even fake) like this to leverage UA-cam business...we are nuts...we are our enemy guys...take responsibility before commets

  • @jinxBlack21
    @jinxBlack21 4 роки тому +321

    Even Nepalese women don't feel safe in India.

    • @sikkimese4766
      @sikkimese4766 4 роки тому +10

      Northeast Indian women are also not safe

    • @jinxBlack21
      @jinxBlack21 4 роки тому +5

      @@sikkimese4766 true

    • @ukisbeggar8462
      @ukisbeggar8462 4 роки тому

      Come to Surat, Gujarat if u want to be safe.. You talk like whole India is dangerous

  • @TheKayleeanna
    @TheKayleeanna 9 місяців тому +2

    You did the right thing! Bravo for handling it so well and speaking out! Im so sorry you went through this! 😢

  • @fairies6577
    @fairies6577 3 місяці тому +3

    I know it must have been hard to come out and talk but Girl you are doing the right thing. I pray may you overcome this trauma 🙏😭😭😭

  • @ririsharon4652
    @ririsharon4652 5 років тому +784

    You have to be extremely careful when you travel in India. As an Indian woman I don't feel safe in this country. I avoid going out after dark. I was grabbed while on rickshaw in a crowded place. I had a car following me in a crowded national highway. I had men asking me how much would I charge for a night while waiting for my cab and it happened while a Police van was just few meters away. I was sexually harassed in a crowded public bus. There was a time when I used to walk holding a stone in my hand if by chance I could not reach my PG before sunset. I'm not even counting staring and eve teasing as harresment. It becomes a part of your daily life for many Indian women. I'm not justifying it by any means. God forbid if you're from the Northeastern part of India you'll be treated as an easy and cheap woman. I'm not saying everyone is bad though. But this is the reality of India.

    • @keepsmiling5937
      @keepsmiling5937 5 років тому +19

      @riri I feel really bad for what happened to you. wish I could punch on those inhumane morons face really hard. love and respect from the neighbor. Please don't go out alone, just have your brother or father with you or in group of girls.

    • @Imakeedits149
      @Imakeedits149 5 років тому +19

      I am from northeast. And I really feel you❣️ wish you lots of love.

    • @Dragoncam13
      @Dragoncam13 5 років тому +10

      India police is useless I've seen a video of one Indian guy slashing another Indian guy(the accused murderer of his son) with a machete and the police had to run and get batons🤦‍♂️ and also a video on UA-cam of an Indian women beating and Indian man almost to death and nothing happened to the woman🤦‍♂️

    • @ririsharon4652
      @ririsharon4652 5 років тому +15

      @@Where_Is.H I know your kind all too well. I wasn't brought up in a society like yours where you learn to deceit people from your childhood. If you're smart enough you'll understand what I'm trying to imply.
      I don't have a strong imagination to cook up stories like these. I'm not you. As for your question you guessed it right. I did approach the police but I got no help. One time they actually came to the site and all they did was repeat questions and persuaded us not to press charges against the person. Another time they said they'll send a PCR Van within 10 mins but the van never came even after repeatedly calling the police station. I did not, however, report each and every incident.
      And kindly go out of my comment thread and read the comments on this video you'll know I'm not the only one suffering.
      Out of many I listed just few of them. Some of my friends had it worse. You'll not understand the mental trauma a person goes through after having to go through incidents like this. No wonder with people like you around these horrendous incidents are ever increasing.

    • @VaviGugga
      @VaviGugga 5 років тому

      ua-cam.com/video/3dXu9AVWrSg/v-deo.html

  • @aakashjohri2621
    @aakashjohri2621 5 років тому +539

    I am an Indian and right now, I am ashamed of what you had to go through. I am embarrassed to the core.
    I recommend every Indian to watch this. If this doesn't embarrass you, I don't know what will.
    Majority of Indians do not understand the concept of personal space, especially that of a white woman. I am so sorry you had to go through this.
    Coming to how you reacted to the activities of those hooligans, I would like to say that you acted in the most mature way possible. I have lived in New Delhi for 26 years and I don't know anyone who would have reacted in such a sensible way. Every action that you took in such a situation was commendable, from not opening the door to leaving the hotel at 3 AM. Please don't blame yourself for anything. It is just the mentality of a few people that is to be blamed.
    At this point of time, it totally understandable if you dislike India a lot, maybe even hate us. But, in future, if you ever get the heart and mind to forgive us, please give us a chance to welcome you again.

    • @dasdimatichaani8309
      @dasdimatichaani8309 5 років тому +10

      i dont want to get raped simple!! I WOULD NOT GO THERE NOT A SAFE PLACE FOR GUYS AND GIRLS.

    • @bertoytv8457
      @bertoytv8457 5 років тому +7

      its in culture my friend. educate your fellow countrymen.

    • @allenedwards2595
      @allenedwards2595 5 років тому +13

      We don't hate india or it's people but will definitely not recommend anyone specially women to travel to your country. This story is so common and even on the internet there's a lot of indian creeps I'm just stating facts here no offense

    • @bertoytv8457
      @bertoytv8457 5 років тому +3

      @@allenedwards2595 yes thats correct. specially on social media, they will stalk you, download your photos, they wont stop until they get what they want. they even show their private part of the body, my ex gf experienced that thing,

    • @chicagobulls5436
      @chicagobulls5436 5 років тому +11

      Hey buddy im not indian im a filipino know how embarass this one for you coz ur a good guy i know,, here in my manila if you do something unrespectful matters to a woman you probably lands on a hospital with a broken face and some broken bones, then you go to jail after the hospital.

  • @littleantukins4415
    @littleantukins4415 Рік тому +15

    First mistake was to travel in india

  • @DivinelyProtectedBlessed888
    @DivinelyProtectedBlessed888 Рік тому +1

    God, this is so scary. Thank god you managed to be here and can talk about it and survive.

  • @shabbir55886
    @shabbir55886 3 роки тому +695

    She posted the video for proof but bloody people are still defending the hotel staff

    • @yayd3973
      @yayd3973 3 роки тому +4

      @@JustAPokemonCommentingOnVideos No.

    • @Anonymous-rp6qj
      @Anonymous-rp6qj 3 роки тому +5

      @@yayd3973 yeah

    • @me.atul10
      @me.atul10 3 роки тому +25

      Atleast she is alive here had died if she was in Pakistan

    • @me.atul10
      @me.atul10 3 роки тому +12

      @@sgt_mike9730 World knows this truth.

    • @udhavvarma7097
      @udhavvarma7097 3 роки тому +88

      @@me.atul10 why on earth do you people want to bring Pakistan out of nowhere? I don't understand what is wrong with you all.
      You are celebrating that she is alive after a traumatic event, congratulations, that's where we have reached.

  • @BL-od8fe
    @BL-od8fe 3 роки тому +2951

    Even cows safer than women in india.

    • @rashithore8579
      @rashithore8579 3 роки тому +81

      No they are not.

    • @ramansaini3898
      @ramansaini3898 3 роки тому +81

      Pigs also

    • @t.c.thompson2359
      @t.c.thompson2359 3 роки тому +83

      This is what racism actually looks like, not criticism in general. Stop calling her story racist. It isn't. You are.

    • @dmqn3135
      @dmqn3135 3 роки тому +16

      0:03

    • @dmqn3135
      @dmqn3135 3 роки тому +8

      @apoorv lawande they have a big population of cows.

  • @MrILLUMINATING
    @MrILLUMINATING 2 місяці тому

    Im so so sorry to hear this experience. You are so brave to post this. Thank you for sharing it with us . Im in Mumbai and im always concerned for my wife and friend. Ive hear Delhi is the worst for this.

  • @swapnat1952
    @swapnat1952 Рік тому +2

    So sorry that this happened. Hope you’ll be able to heal from this experience :’(

  • @subhrajyoticharkborty349
    @subhrajyoticharkborty349 3 роки тому +1697

    I feel ashamed as an Indian I really don't know what to say

    • @aaronrobertlee1161
      @aaronrobertlee1161 3 роки тому +68

      It happends everywhere not just india but i do understand

    • @ahmedhussain5515
      @ahmedhussain5515 3 роки тому +65

      Aaron Robert lee Even if it happens everywhere, lets educate people to not rape

    • @pretty948
      @pretty948 3 роки тому +105

      Aaron Robert lee it happens the most in India it's the most unsafe country for women

    • @enderzebak2863
      @enderzebak2863 3 роки тому +68

      @@pretty948 sure. You are clearly spoonfed by the media. Indian has a population on more than 1 billion and the rape cases for 2018 were around 31k. When you look at usa which has a population of 300m to 400m and reported rape cases were 100k. Let that sink in your mind

    • @MohammadSrour
      @MohammadSrour 3 роки тому +1

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  • @shubhamswaroop2204
    @shubhamswaroop2204 4 роки тому +681

    Though i am an indian but i must tell you dont come to this country again
    Here govt. dont take actions too

    • @arjitsharma5129
      @arjitsharma5129 4 роки тому +3

      Abe chutiye apna kaam kr...aur ye comment delete kr

    • @ronakmankale9599
      @ronakmankale9599 4 роки тому +75

      @@arjitsharma5129 kya re saale sach bol rha hai woh

    • @ronakmankale9599
      @ronakmankale9599 4 роки тому +3

      @@mr.mladyfedora3252 chup chaman

    • @ginjuice3792
      @ginjuice3792 4 роки тому +12

      @@arjitsharma5129 I wish I know you so that I'll challenge you to a single fight and beat the crap out of it.

    • @ginjuice3792
      @ginjuice3792 4 роки тому +14

      @@arjitsharma5129 people like you are known to create havoc in numbers but alone you r nothing just a dickhead with big mouth

  • @jessjess352
    @jessjess352 9 місяців тому +5

    I am so so sorry it’s disgusting that we as women have to deal with this I hope you are doing ok now I know first hand how traumatic this is ❤

  • @criztaliz3413
    @criztaliz3413 11 місяців тому +8

    Ive seen in my own eye indian mating with goats. Absolutely crazy what you can see in the street.

    • @shermanpeabody6102
      @shermanpeabody6102 10 місяців тому +3

      Was the goat's name, Palki Sharma ?

    • @AbduIIl
      @AbduIIl 7 місяців тому

      ​@@shermanpeabody6102Actual Goat 🐐
      And one Bajrang Dal member was masturbating over a 🐄.

  • @aarushi6006
    @aarushi6006 5 років тому +1742

    I am an Indian. I am very sorry for all the woman who go through all this during their lifetime. Most men here are sick. India is a very unsafe country! I am glad you are fine! May God bless you sister.

    • @saintsupreme33
      @saintsupreme33 4 роки тому +29

      But why is India is this fucked up??

    • @deffybulacia8786
      @deffybulacia8786 4 роки тому +4

      Deberíamos ayudarnos entre todas las mujeres del mundo, para hacer más visible este problema y atacar esa ideología y pensamiento con urgencia, fuerza hermanas de India. Estamos siendo más conscientes de lo que les está pasando. Habría que hacer un 8 de Marzo dedicado a Uds que sufren tanto por esos pocos hombres. No saber respetar y amar a sus mujeres los descienden a animales sin uso de razón. Deben hacerse cargo de sus acciones y saber autogobernarse.

    • @user-rn5dl6tf8r
      @user-rn5dl6tf8r 4 роки тому +46

      @@saintsupreme33 it is because women here wear covered dress they don't wear dress like foreigners and even if they do they don't look that attractive to them and when they see foreigner they lose their minds

    • @deffybulacia8786
      @deffybulacia8786 4 роки тому +31

      Help our sisters in India, No sexual abuse, no Sexual harassment

    • @joegoldb1erg
      @joegoldb1erg 4 роки тому

      Mariam I. Shut up anime lover

  • @emilycgordon
    @emilycgordon 5 років тому +427

    This is so horrifying, especially as a woman that typically travels alone

    • @dineshbhat7978
      @dineshbhat7978 5 років тому +1

      Emily G.........come to INDIA.

    • @hamidmhmood
      @hamidmhmood 5 років тому

      Hi there, hope ur doin good, which parts of the world have u Travelled to ?

    • @zahoork8171
      @zahoork8171 5 років тому +15

      @@dineshbhat7978 ummmmm, ladies answer to that will be NO!!!

    • @kishanp9559
      @kishanp9559 5 років тому +4

      So she stayed at a $10 hotel that is next to a brothel. It’s common sense you research before you book a hotel. This is not just India, it’s everywhere in the world. Millions come to India for tourism they at least live in a 3 star hotel. You don’t feel safe in United States too. No place is 100% safe. How can she blindly choose a cheap hotel and live alone? Ironic

    • @anoosha9768
      @anoosha9768 5 років тому +15

      @@dineshbhat7978 did you just call India a rich country? Lmfaooo

  • @azizkash286
    @azizkash286 9 місяців тому +10

    why would you even go to india as a foriegn woman?

  • @Prince-dg4nz
    @Prince-dg4nz 5 місяців тому +1

    Please accept our sincere apologies for these very shameful incidents. We have a long way to go to being a better society, but we are getting there. We hope you come again and make better memories this time.

  • @TheEdge10
    @TheEdge10 5 років тому +5138

    Mention the hotel name ! For the others safety !

    • @superjit6190
      @superjit6190 5 років тому +470

      Ha ha .... People here are obsessed with religion , politics , pride , ego , history ... But don't look forward to solve the problem of rape , class divide , poverty ... Just blaming each other ......

    • @Jungleman707
      @Jungleman707 5 років тому +352

      Ravi Sankar In June 2018, a global survey of about 550 experts on women's issues conducted by the Thomson Reuters Foundation named India as the world's most dangerous country for women. This was mainly due to the high risk of sexual violence and being forced into slave labor. Imagine its worse than Afghanistan, Syria, Somalia and Saudi Arabia.

    • @TheEdge10
      @TheEdge10 5 років тому +227

      @daniel you are 100% correct ! Any how this girl is safe from monsters and this video is message to all who travel to India !
      Months back 10 year old girl raped by several men ! I'm Indian and I want to mention that Indian government is the worst government on planet earth !

    • @shubhamtiwary4827
      @shubhamtiwary4827 5 років тому +74

      @@Jungleman707 in this list USA and PAKISTAN IS ALSO available. USA is at 10 th place

    • @ardhiutama8426
      @ardhiutama8426 5 років тому +61

      Boba Frett I'm not Indian hater, but that's true. Probably you can call it as "Pervland", too.

  • @traceymarshall5886
    @traceymarshall5886 5 років тому +81

    I was sexually assaulted at the train station while on a group tour. Our tourist bus was also hijacked and windows smashed..we thought we were going to die. Alot of men (not all) have zero respect for women!! The behaviour and treatment is disgusting

    • @katelinm1530
      @katelinm1530 5 років тому +8

      I'm so sorry to hear that honey 😢 my heart goes out to you and everyone who's been a victim

    • @crashcourse1580
      @crashcourse1580 5 років тому

      @Rayvaldo i cant say that

    • @parker6739
      @parker6739 5 років тому

      adi yaf eww

    • @rakeshb7378
      @rakeshb7378 5 років тому

      @adi yaf ya

  • @monishag4064
    @monishag4064 Рік тому +1

    Happy that you bravely opened up your story ❤

  • @ashimchakraborty2908
    @ashimchakraborty2908 6 місяців тому

    Can I use your videos for awareness content, I mean short clip(around 30 secs) that about what you have experienced in Delhi (the bad experience) in my awareness related content on my other youtube channel?
    Plz reply

  • @samirhakimi3810
    @samirhakimi3810 4 роки тому +213

    They were definitely hotel employees, I strongly suggest you name the hotel you stayed.

  • @Intro2Tech
    @Intro2Tech 5 років тому +284

    I'm so sorry this happened to you, but why are you protecting the name of this hotel. I see you say it's being shut down; however, things happen and it might not be shut down forever, if you're worried about being sued for libel or slander, the 100% defense for both is TRUTH.

    • @amyk3145
      @amyk3145 5 років тому +2

      Someone said that the hotel is oyo hotel

    • @juderod64
      @juderod64 5 років тому +1

      @@amyk3145 if its oyo its definitely not closed. They run many hotels in Mumbai and Goa as well. They even run a a very shady kind of Airbnb...

    • @kassalabannet712
      @kassalabannet712 5 років тому

      UA-cam

  • @khuzaimatabraiz2860
    @khuzaimatabraiz2860 Рік тому +8

    It's so weird to watch this video after seeing her OnlyFans 💀

  • @USA-MX
    @USA-MX 2 місяці тому +12

    I am a Mexican American married to a Tamil Christian from Bangalore, and I have suffered from so much discrimination because shes is Tamil just because other Indians feel they have the right to disrespect me and discriminate against me regardless of my being a foreigner. I was incriminated so that I wouldn't leave the country, and i was thrown in prison for an expired passport during COVID time, People slander me and create rumours, and I have beaten up on several occasions. So I think there is a reason why Indians are being attacked.

    • @respectthegoat1519
      @respectthegoat1519 2 місяці тому +4

      That was a rough life, hope you leave that place, my prayers are with you man

  • @johannajuutilainen4779
    @johannajuutilainen4779 6 місяців тому

    You made the right choice to share this, so important, people will question why you did not call the police and shift blame because their not intelligent. Travelling solo as a woman is much different than for a man. Those men acted like predators.

  • @babacheng8923
    @babacheng8923 3 роки тому +924

    8490 dislikes from potential criminals. Shame.

    • @vickmalham8191
      @vickmalham8191 3 роки тому +44

      Don’t insult animals

    • @nathan8750
      @nathan8750 3 роки тому +24

      Literally no other reason to dislike the video unless they think what happened to this poor girl is ok >:(

    • @nathan8750
      @nathan8750 3 роки тому +8

      @@formidablefoe157 I’m sure she had someone stand outside her door, knock aggressively trying to get in, then get too a phone to call her to open the door for no reason right? Ya...alright then lol

    • @nathan8750
      @nathan8750 3 роки тому +18

      @@formidablefoe157 you can argue she is lying, but you can’t argue there are not TONS of people in India that do this to foreigners and locals alike, especially in the region and place she chose to stay in that is notorious for this. She also has video footage.

    • @nathan8750
      @nathan8750 3 роки тому +8

      @@formidablefoe157 bro chill I got a life outside of these comments lol. I literally said not all Indian men are like that so I’m not judging a whole nation lol. You can’t even understand where I am coming from because you don’t bother to comprehend what I am saying. It’s difficult to argue against someone intelligent, impossible to argue with a fool.

  • @rubyjacob529
    @rubyjacob529 5 років тому +239

    Hi I am an Indian. ..this is what most women go through in india on a daily basis. You are a very beautiful girl and a brave girl. Indian society is divided in extreme ways...where you have the
    Civilized ones and the uncivilised
    ones. I am so sorry it happened to you and glad that you shared it. God bless you.

    • @thomasjoseph8910
      @thomasjoseph8910 5 років тому +6

      Hi i am from kerala .. here 'most' can be reduced to some women and yup the ones who behave that way are uncivilized and sexually frustrated ..

    • @devrungta9
      @devrungta9 5 років тому +1

      @@thomasjoseph8910 Was going to say the same thing!

    • @shreyamishra6310
      @shreyamishra6310 5 років тому +1

      @@thomasjoseph8910 I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you. Not "all" women face harassment to this degree, but "most" Indian women have faced it in one form or another.

    • @tanay3733
      @tanay3733 5 років тому +1

      Yeah post anything to get attention.

    • @SshivamKhopkar
      @SshivamKhopkar 5 років тому

      @@thomasjoseph8910 ikr! Not all men are the same!!!!

  • @monisanees695
    @monisanees695 Рік тому +14

    She has an onlyfans now ??

  • @annaqueen479
    @annaqueen479 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m so sorry that you experienced this. As soon as you showed the video, I became paranoid

  • @sanjaybisht9701
    @sanjaybisht9701 5 років тому +537

    This video should be shown to Indian government so that they will take some action of these kind of things that are happening
    in our country.
    Im feeling ashamed after watching this video
    This is so sad

    • @Shubham-hk6yf
      @Shubham-hk6yf 5 років тому +5

      Where was the other people(guests) in the hotel? They didn't helped her?

    • @jilliham
      @jilliham 5 років тому +2

      @@Shubham-hk6yf How were they supposed to know something was wrong if she was trapped in a hotel room for 2 days with limited communication?

    • @Shubham-hk6yf
      @Shubham-hk6yf 5 років тому +2

      @@jillihamoh!! guys were standing outside the room for two days. Banging the door but nobody saw them. It makes sense right ? 😊😊

    • @veipuniilana1842
      @veipuniilana1842 5 років тому +12

      Bro Indian government is fuck up. They won't never take action of this kind of situation.
      Iam not saying this kind of harrassment should be ignored but Indian government can't even take the action of physically assaulted cases

    • @blossommcc7409
      @blossommcc7409 5 років тому +2

      What good would they do I saw a video were women are raped and police do nothing in India how true is this?

  • @christopherramirez5676
    @christopherramirez5676 5 років тому +616

    India is one of the countries that is not safe for women for this type of situations.

    • @arhanya8552
      @arhanya8552 5 років тому +6

      yeah. single woman staying in a shady area famous for prostitiution and illegal drugs but still coming out unhurt. can only happen in india

    • @arhanya8552
      @arhanya8552 5 років тому +2

      we don't have serial killer cops as they have in western countries.

    • @arhanya8552
      @arhanya8552 5 років тому +1

      here is the example of a US cop www.theguardian.com/us-news/2018/sep/16/serial-killer-us-border-patrol-agent-charged-murder-four-women

    • @samu1408
      @samu1408 5 років тому +1

      Dream Big Really bro there were tons of articles on internet that you were 9 times more likely to get killed by an American cop in usa than getting killed by any other human circumstance. And most of the counties and states were will know to masking complaints against their officers 97% of the your complaints going to trash you can search for number on the internet.

    • @adhokshajbaliga60
      @adhokshajbaliga60 5 років тому +2

      As an indian i do agree bcoz these type of people know that the law can't do shit abt it i feel bad saying this but what u said is actually true

  • @poonamnapit3176
    @poonamnapit3176 5 місяців тому +9

    I m very afraid to go to India

  • @BURRITO44
    @BURRITO44 Рік тому +4

    So sorry you had such an awful experience. You are very brave to make this video .

    • @mahinegi3064
      @mahinegi3064 11 місяців тому +1

      now she joined onlyfans 🤦‍♂️

  • @patricia6043
    @patricia6043 4 роки тому +468

    Even indians r saying India isn't a safe country to travel.

    • @shauryapatel1428
      @shauryapatel1428 4 роки тому +7

      Talking Gamer not all places but yes, I’m Indian and I agree with you

    • @aaryanbali4726
      @aaryanbali4726 4 роки тому +6

      It's safe if you visit in a group. If you are a solo female traveller, then probably I would not recommend. I'm an Indian

    • @K-lyricLounge
      @K-lyricLounge 4 роки тому +3

      Talking Gamer it's the same story in Pakistan I'm 13 years old and I went to visit my home country last year and they were so much men that there was no women inside . They would all wolf whistle at me eve though I'm A CHILDD

    • @lalalamooone
      @lalalamooone 4 роки тому +3

      Indian men are the problem

    • @marcus-ei3jy
      @marcus-ei3jy 4 роки тому +1

      North india isn't a safe place to travel. Search for south india and northeast india. Its like a different country

  • @lilianhernandez530
    @lilianhernandez530 3 роки тому +377

    She saying the true. She is the victim. I recommend to all the girls and lady’s never travel alone anywhere. Because is a lot of bad people around.

    • @ofcourse4105
      @ofcourse4105 3 роки тому +10

      I travel alone, I’m always safe... I chat to strangers and eat with them, then go to my hotel room, where I chat to staff in hotel as well...but I go to Hungary, Germany, Czechia, kosovo, Croatia, Slovenia, Macedonia, Switzerland...
      And most of east, south, north and west Europe... I only had incident in London.. I won’t go to 3 world countries alone

    • @GamingZone-ql4fi
      @GamingZone-ql4fi 3 роки тому

      Don't go to north india you can go to south india or mumbai if you want

    • @GamingZone-ql4fi
      @GamingZone-ql4fi 3 роки тому

      @simp hunter but that is only for women for men it is ok

    • @GamingZone-ql4fi
      @GamingZone-ql4fi 3 роки тому

      @simp hunter ok but if you see it is quite less in mumbai as compared to delhi. Delhi together is much more than many cities put together.

    • @slayermate07
      @slayermate07 3 роки тому +1

      By anywhere, he means pretty much india.

  • @siddharthkataria2276
    @siddharthkataria2276 Рік тому +5

    As being an Indian I know that India is not a safe COUNTRY! People say "proud the to be an Indian" and this what what they are proud of!!!AND I SOMETIMES I FEEL NOT TO BE PROUD TO BE INDIAN JUST FOR THESE REASONS......

  • @juliadaniels5398
    @juliadaniels5398 Рік тому +1

    I know you mentioned that you no longer read the comments on this video, so I'm not going to read them either. In case you decide to pop in after a couple of years, I felt compelled to thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your experience. I've always wanted to travel to India, and maybe still will. However, I will go with a group of people and educate myself completely first. I hope you never deal with another situation as scary as this must have been. xoxxo

    • @frostbite4019
      @frostbite4019 Рік тому

      We are sorry for what she faced and need to work a lot on making our tourists feel safe and sound.
      Do visit india with a group, and if you know anyone here it will be helpful to traverse and get the best.
      Stay happy ! Stay safe!

    • @coldplayfan7357
      @coldplayfan7357 Рік тому

      She is not on youtube anymore,only on Onlyfans selling her nude pics and videos

  • @geetathanedar2340
    @geetathanedar2340 5 років тому +304

    I'm an indian girl and believe me in next two decades indian females will fight and wipe out these kind of problems. I really feel ur pain from bottom of my heart. And u just dealt really well with the tough time. I felt proud of u as a woman.

    • @gauravgurg
      @gauravgurg 5 років тому +4

      You will end up worshipping shiva's Linga

    • @bugeye8749
      @bugeye8749 5 років тому +5

      Damn I was hoping you’d say “wipe out MEN” damn. It’s the only solution

    • @geetathanedar2340
      @geetathanedar2340 5 років тому +3

      @@bugeye8749 not every man is bad. I also know men about whom i feel respect in our society. It would be an unfair with those respectable people if i count each and every man under that dirty category.

    • @broly425
      @broly425 5 років тому

      Im afraid it's not possible

    • @suraj22ish
      @suraj22ish 5 років тому

      Yes Sister, its beyond time , we should do something so that scums like these wont get away so easily

  • @laca9440
    @laca9440 4 роки тому +949

    i'm an indian girl and i would sey never travel girls alone india please

    • @banana_nana_na
      @banana_nana_na 4 роки тому +23

      My bf told me the same .... he said he will go with me when I visit there

    • @prashanthrao8649
      @prashanthrao8649 4 роки тому +19

      or just dont go to that shithole ,that would be better

    • @prashanthrao8649
      @prashanthrao8649 4 роки тому +36

      @PAVITHRA S you are probably the only indian girl ,in this comment section who is defending india ,lol

    • @prashanthrao8649
      @prashanthrao8649 4 роки тому +27

      @PAVITHRA S i am not a traitor , i am proud of the beauty,culture and diversity but the poeple are disgusting (not all ) JAI HIND

    • @VishwasRavindran92
      @VishwasRavindran92 3 роки тому

      @1 Aatma 😂 lol

  • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
    @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 Місяць тому

    I'm sorry ❤my best wishes and i hope ypu to be alright now, you're very strong and brave for share this ❤

  • @WiseBelle
    @WiseBelle 3 місяці тому +1

    What a traumatising experience.. thanks for sharing your story. Women in India live in constant fear because of people like these 😭

  • @chakradharsharma2324
    @chakradharsharma2324 5 років тому +351

    I only want to say ",sorry " from India. ..Any law doesn't work for these goons..This is mental problem.

    • @satorizhimo5435
      @satorizhimo5435 5 років тому +4

      indeed.

    • @deeproy9263
      @deeproy9263 5 років тому +9

      Delhi is worst place.... foreigners should come to North East side or south east side

    • @theillyrian9826
      @theillyrian9826 5 років тому +3

      No. It's a genetic problem

    • @chakradharsharma2324
      @chakradharsharma2324 5 років тому +10

      @@theillyrian9826 no ,this is your problem. You don't even know about indian history and culture,..Please don't be prejudice about india ,india is more than this.

    • @thebutler7284
      @thebutler7284 5 років тому

      I knew you did this, I saw it in your fucked up eyes...

  • @muddassarshahzad8646
    @muddassarshahzad8646 5 років тому +577

    I am sure that the people who dislike this video are indians who cannot hear the truth because truth is bitter and its a fact. You did a good job thank God that u r safe. GOD BLESS U

    • @muddassarshahzad8646
      @muddassarshahzad8646 5 років тому +41

      @Honey Panwar actually ur way of talk is showing ur up growing and how u people live everyone know that. Cow is more safe than a female in india ur reaction shows that u felt the pain which is fact. I cannot use abusive language like u because than whats the difference between u and me. Sili people who seek health in cow mata's urine lol. Nobody knows these kind of healthy tips in the world only u found that lol. m.ua-cam.com/video/tkOsgXHUGs0/v-deo.html

    • @obaidurrehman9716
      @obaidurrehman9716 5 років тому +5

      We all are humans and when we are wrong we have to apologize no matter how strong we are in any terms.All we have to notice is that we are nothing without our identity.I am pretty sure that each and every person has his own mind.And I am sure @HoneyPanwar that you have a distinctive mind than those who did such a foolish act to a tourist.you should and hopefully you are proud to be an Indian.I just wan't to say apologizing for ur country won't cause you losing your personality but it is the only way you can console someone.Compairing any country from another is not a way to get these problems solved.I know being a civilian there is a dark end of every country.Rather than fighting here we should try to take steps against such acts.Hope you will understand my messege.#Peace ✌️

    • @muddassarshahzad8646
      @muddassarshahzad8646 5 років тому +13

      @Honey Panwar take it easy man i can feel ur pain and this video mad by foreign girl not by any pakistani. U people can spread hate for us and that we know very well. And as u mentioned terrorist so i think whole world have seen that who is terrorist lol u dont see news? This year ur country's real face came at front line that who is doing terrorism i mean look at ur PM i think no need to explain u better understand🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @muddassarshahzad8646
      @muddassarshahzad8646 5 років тому +4

      @Honey Panwar lol dont pretend ur happiness while everynody can see and feel ur pain. Dil pe mat le yar. All what u said so just see the true picture in link mentioned below
      edition-m.cnn.com/2018/06/25/health/india-dangerous-country-women-survey-intl/index.html?r=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F
      So now dont say anything more if u can understand 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @muddassarshahzad8646
      @muddassarshahzad8646 5 років тому +2

      @Honey Panwar i feel sorry for u people because what can u do now ha ? Nothing because u dont know how to heel this pain what u people are feeling right now. U r the people who knows all the truth even there are proves in term of newspaper news channles even western media news channels found u terrorists but u sili people live in ur own world. Self praise is no recommendation. So stop pretending lol
      www.tripsavvy.com/is-india-unsafe-for-foreign-women-1539143
      Lol
      www.google.com/amp/amp.abc.net.au/article/10016446
      Lol
      www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-asia-india-46643930

  • @beezysbeatz4924
    @beezysbeatz4924 Рік тому +9

    4 yrs later... "I joined Only fans". Gotta be safer than travelling light these days.

  • @marcussmyth7610
    @marcussmyth7610 2 місяці тому

    I just watched your video, very important you shared! Always trust your gut feelings and yes had you opended that door you would have been assualted. I am 6ft well built man and know how to handle myself very well however that does not mean I can handle six people at once so you did all right thing and I am very pleased you did not silence yourself other woman have to be aware and remember doors keep people out, I do not open the door to anyone and it has served me well.

  • @piyushbarnwal7753
    @piyushbarnwal7753 5 років тому +249

    I am an indian.Thumbs up that u made this video. Let everyone know what happens in india. Let everyone be ashamed of it. I am so sorry that u had to face these things, this is all i can tell right now. God bless u.

    • @anshraina9337
      @anshraina9337 5 років тому +2

      India is a population of around 1.3Billion people. And i think that we Indians who really wanna to do anything regarding this matter should do something. Like protest and please i think that every guy who is a rapist, his head should be cutted down and hanged at any corner of street. So that there will be a strictness. And many people do take advantage of our laws.
      So thats Why I want to be PM of India and if i get this chance once in my lifetime I will actually do it. Mark my words. Cmon we need to do something

    • @aimlockyt5260
      @aimlockyt5260 5 років тому +2

      @Gaurav Kumar bro it's is very serious issue.. Because of such type of idiots rape is happed. 😡😡

    • @aqsashaukat6883
      @aqsashaukat6883 5 років тому +2

      @Gaurav Kumar what good happens in india....India is the most dangerous country fir the girls and this video is a proof......In the whole world largest number of rape cases happen in india ....this is the reality of India ....

    • @boredpanda3314
      @boredpanda3314 5 років тому +3

      @Gaurav Kumar Yeah i agree, but she did great job by uploading this video, as in future if somebody else plans to come to India they should be aware of such things and be safe.

    • @Ahlong9711
      @Ahlong9711 5 років тому

      Gang Rape / Rape is good thing? ,oh god India is a Rapist country
      Just search UA-cam

  • @ayla998
    @ayla998 5 років тому +643

    I once travelled to india when I was in my teens, I was 13 I think. I remember my dad getting in a fight with some group of mid age indian men because 3 of them ganged up on me and kept touching my head, back and rear side. They don't even care if you have company with you. It happened more than once in our 3 month stay there to me and my mother. The country itself is beautiful and historic but the people there are just.... I'll never visit that place again

    • @preethamani5974
      @preethamani5974 5 років тому +47

      We're very sorry that happened to you.

    • @hectorgarza8540
      @hectorgarza8540 5 років тому +27

      Right in front of your dad?🤣

    • @deadpoolwhoslaysassholes1586
      @deadpoolwhoslaysassholes1586 5 років тому +35

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Please give us 20 years more. We have so many uneducated assholes. Pls mam we are really sorry. I am Begging please forgive us. Pls give us one more chance but after 20 years. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @a_bone_in_the_ocean2276
      @a_bone_in_the_ocean2276 5 років тому +42

      whats gonna happen in 20 years

    • @ayla998
      @ayla998 5 років тому +42

      @@hectorgarza8540 No I remember he was buying some street food just across the street for me and my mom when the men (around 5 or 7) surrounded us. Luckily my father turned around and ran to us. I kept saying no and help but the passers by didn't even help. There's a lot more but this one was the worst.

  • @marovahauhulh7054
    @marovahauhulh7054 Рік тому +9

    She now has onlyfans.... 🙂🦅

    • @hollymiss6276
      @hollymiss6276 Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @Samlolsky
      @Samlolsky Рік тому +9

      so does that mean we can do anything to her ? educate yourself first , just accept the fact 'india is not save for womens "

    • @Fragto372
      @Fragto372 Рік тому

      @@Samlolsky yes sir saying fake things about india or living in undeveloped indian areas and blaming india for it
      thats what indophobe do like you

  • @yashkhatria1718
    @yashkhatria1718 6 місяців тому +36

    We are really sorry for what happened to you in our country 🙏🏻🙏🏻🇮🇳

    • @staybased9320
      @staybased9320 3 місяці тому +5

      noooo saaaarr our 5000 year old culture got deteriorate 😭💔🙏

    • @Aria2990
      @Aria2990 2 місяці тому

      ​@@staybased9320how did that happen?

    • @THOMAS_SHELBY434
      @THOMAS_SHELBY434 2 місяці тому

      It has been ruined by Abrahamic religions, and now there will definitely be nitpicking on this issue, suggesting that it only happens in India and every other country is safe. What about colonization for about 200 years? Are we supposed to just accept that? There are many different places in India that are safer than certain states in the US and the UK, such as the North East, Himachal Pradesh, and Southern states.

  • @gawdpromaxultra703
    @gawdpromaxultra703 3 роки тому +785

    U don't need a sim to make an emergency call in India. U only need a phone. I hope this message helps people

  • @uditasharma6006
    @uditasharma6006 5 років тому +1424

    As an Indian, I want to apologise. I have severe PTSD having been born and lived here my entire life (in Delhi) of being touched, groped, commented on, stalked, etc. There are many a great things about India. Unfortunately, for women that goodness is masked by the creepy men here. So much so that even the good guys are looked at with an eye of suspicion. If you ever do decide to come back, come in a larger group and this time, try either the North-East or South India. They're much more civilised than us North Indians.
    I am sending you all the love and hugs I can muster. Stay safe and stay happy. :)

    • @chenjun9453
      @chenjun9453 5 років тому +71

      You're a good girl, a strong girl

    • @VamsiKrishnavamsshy
      @VamsiKrishnavamsshy 5 років тому +17

      after watching this video, I went through some research and here is what I found, looks like oyo rooms doing this since years, there are few cases filed against them too. please go through the links.
      www.tripadvisor.in/ShowUserReviews-g304551-d2290953-r354877037-Hotel_The_Spot-New_Delhi_National_Capital_Territory_of_Delhi.html
      www.financialexpress.com/india-news/shocking-oyo-rooms-manager-arrested-for-raping-woman-in-gurgaon-hotel/1155432/
      www.newindianexpress.com/cities/hyderabad/2017/aug/19/four-arrested-for-rape-of-delhi-woman-at-a-hotel-in-hyderabad-1645214.html

    • @aamirMudassar
      @aamirMudassar 5 років тому +25

      Udita Sharma you nailed it sis!!

    • @tstanmoysamanta
      @tstanmoysamanta 5 років тому +8

      Don't this are propaganda videos....see her previous video about India..

    • @jonathansarno6586
      @jonathansarno6586 5 років тому +23

      Jordan really was in real danger. Hotel employees not only at this particular hotel but other hotels in the chain have been doing much the same thing they did to Jordan to female guests and some have been raped in their rooms.

  • @lunasiciliani7128
    @lunasiciliani7128 3 місяці тому +1

    You are amazing, please remember~ you did all the right things, this isn't your fault,
    you are wonderful for sharing your experiences.
    Very brave, very string.
    I am so sorry you experienced this, in a way, you were very lucky.
    Your so intelligent. You didn't open the door.
    For many years, I wanted to travel to India.
    The more women I knew who had been to India warned me, severely.
    Again and again.
    You are protecting others and healing yourself by releasing this experience.
    Please take time, take care of yourself.
    Please take a few self defense classes, meditation, these sort of focused practices can support your processing this terrible experience.
    You did everything right....
    Please take care of yourself.
    This can create long term PTSD by talking, sharing, caring and showing your own experiences you make us all stronger, more prepared.
    This is an issue in India.
    It can be a common problem.
    I am so glad you narrowly escaped something much worse.
    Take time to heal, you are worth it.
    Share your process.
    People who experience these sort of assailants from strangers or friends and family are all people who need solutions, alternatives to deal with the effects of such an experience.
    I hope you share your healing and TAKE TIME FOR YOU.