My First Week of Chemotherapy (breast cancer)

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  • @eamonandbec
    @eamonandbec  2 роки тому +4942

    Please know that we feel and appreciate your love, heart felt messages and prayers. We can feel this community rallying behind us and it is so unbelievably special ✨

    • @annadickens9245
      @annadickens9245 2 роки тому +4

    • @LorraineG123
      @LorraineG123 2 роки тому +17

      Lots of prayers ,hugs, strength and loves from Ireland, candle lit for you both.

    • @KelsAndJay
      @KelsAndJay 2 роки тому +23

      We all love you guys so much! The entire community is praying for you, we know you'll get through this ❤️

    • @yamiinnn
      @yamiinnn 2 роки тому +8

      Hope she beat it and start a new chapter in her life!

    • @marzialestrang7786
      @marzialestrang7786 2 роки тому +10

      Hope you are doing well. Idk if that helps, but every second woman develops cancer during their lifetime and every 3rd man. So it's not about eating plant based or being mindful or doing exercise that causes it or that you could have helped not to get it. it is sadly a sickness that a lot of people get. I hope you will feel better soon and belong to the many people living cancer free after treatment ;).

  • @SailingLaVagabonde
    @SailingLaVagabonde 2 роки тому +3328

    We haven’t stopped thinking about you guys.. not for a single day. Like an annoying mother who wants to check in with their kids 24/7 but resists the urge haha. Love you both ❤️🌻 so proud of you guys.

    • @johninYVR
      @johninYVR 2 роки тому +92

      Well said. I can almost hear an Australian accent.

    • @sandrajackson9978
      @sandrajackson9978 2 роки тому +41

      Bec you know so many of us are out here supporting you. I am glad you feel our love. There is so much negativity in the world and much is blamed on social media...but really this is the up side. I feel like my world is expanded when you (and others like slv) share your lives with us....expanding our community and allowing us to care for others. It is healing for us all. Love from Toronto

    • @SailingLaVagabonde
      @SailingLaVagabonde 2 роки тому +210

      Ps did anyone else get a giggle out of Becs ‘Oso talking’ ending??? 😂 you’re the greatest Bec xx

    • @that_girl_there5809
      @that_girl_there5809 2 роки тому +6

      Well said! I agree w you 100%

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  2 роки тому +275

      Every thought and every message is received with wide open arms. We appreciate all of you and love you so much 💛🌞.

  • @e.willcox5429
    @e.willcox5429 2 роки тому +554

    You're both incredible. My mom had breast cancer when she was 28, had a radical mastectomy (1958!) and just celebrated her 94th birthday. You got this Bec xo

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 2 роки тому +15

      Wow! That's incredible! What a blessing ❤️ I hope bec sees this comment!

    • @e.willcox5429
      @e.willcox5429 2 роки тому +3

      @@Sssssssslf ❤

    • @cutekitty2488
      @cutekitty2488 2 роки тому +14

      My Mom is my inspiration! She survived 2 breast cancers.

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 2 роки тому +11

      @@cutekitty2488 thats awesome! your momma is a fighter and survivor! 💪

    • @Cherubx
      @Cherubx 2 роки тому +1

      💚

  • @jamiekristinrekuc
    @jamiekristinrekuc 2 роки тому +88

    I was just diagnosed today. My first biopsy was cleared but something in my gut told me something wasn’t right so I pushed to get the mass out. The pathology confirmed it was cancer & like you now I start my healing journey. I feel like you saved my life. Thank you for sharing your journey.

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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    • @cathyalt6729
      @cathyalt6729 2 роки тому

      Ivermectin cures cancer.

    • @julesoxana
      @julesoxana 10 місяців тому +1

      You are a warrior. Praying for a smooth and quick recovery, that you are healthy, safe, well, cancer free and that it never comes back❤. Go be with you and all your families, friends and loved ones✝️❤️

  • @TimeBucks
    @TimeBucks 2 роки тому +124

    I love the rawness of these videos

  • @thenameisdottie
    @thenameisdottie 2 роки тому +263

    My last chemo is tomorrow and what a wonderful feeling it is to make it through something like this. You will get there

  • @KatesKrystals
    @KatesKrystals 2 роки тому +264

    I was diagnosed with cancer age 22 and I’m now 13 years all clear. I see the strength and determination in you Bec. You’ve got this 💪🏻

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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    • @julesoxana
      @julesoxana 10 місяців тому +1

      You are amazing❤ a warrior and a fightter❤ Praying that you are healthy safe, well and that it never comes back, God bless you✝️🙏❤️

    • @KatesKrystals
      @KatesKrystals 10 місяців тому

      @@julesoxana thank you that means so much ✨💜

  • @cynjim88
    @cynjim88 2 роки тому +12

    I’m a stage three colon cancer survivor and I think you need to hear all the inspirational stories that are out there. I am eight years cancer free… you got this fight like a girl kick ass. I really think this dog was sent to you to get you through the hard time he’s such a sweet boy.

  • @generaljane7643
    @generaljane7643 2 роки тому +126

    When my hair started to come out, it upset me. Then I remembered that this meant the chemo was working and that helped a lot. So, remember when yours falls out, the chemo is working. It also helped me to go ahead and shave my head because I didn’t have to keep dealing with slow hair loss. Stay as positive as you are.

    • @1927su
      @1927su 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for sharing that 😊

    • @ciadaclark9110
      @ciadaclark9110 2 роки тому +2

      I shaved mine too during my chemo I couldnt watch it fall out

    • @seanrobbins7125
      @seanrobbins7125 2 роки тому

      I think that's the part of chemo that would get me the most.

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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  • @lo8337
    @lo8337 2 роки тому +157

    Hang in there, I was diagnosed at 38 and did the chemo followed by radiation treatments. I stayed positive and continued to ride my bike and work. Now 24 years later it came back, but I am once again well. Hang in there as you know life is a journey and for some of us it includes cancer. Always stay positive even after the tears :)

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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    • @cathyalt6729
      @cathyalt6729 2 роки тому

      Ivermectin cures cancer I know people with stage 4 that was cured. They do not want you to know about this because they cannot make money if you cannot find it in pill form because doctors are not allowed to prescribe it you can go to tractor supply and get Ivermectin horse paste.

  • @breanngieski4440
    @breanngieski4440 2 роки тому +96

    Sending prayers…you got this girl…keep your head up…my grandma had breast cancer at a young age. She lost both of her breast. She is now 87 years old and she is living her best life. I’m so proud of you. ❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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  • @debbiebrunhoff6926
    @debbiebrunhoff6926 2 роки тому +143

    Bec, I'm 67 and I had breast cancer in 2018. Double mastectomy, chemo, reconstruction, radiation, asked for a hysterectomy. It's all good sweetie. I wore scarves that coordinated with my outfits and got compliments from total strangers. I had a very positive additude through the whole thing. But I'll admit, losing my eyelashes and eyebrows was the hardest. (Btw, this picture is old. I now have salt and pepper color and a pixie cut which I love). Hang in there, life is wonderful. I had a huge support system and so do you.

    • @agoodjuan
      @agoodjuan 2 роки тому +2

      Debbie, what was your prognosis? My sister was just diagnosed with stage four metastatic breast cancer. :(

    • @BabyMango
      @BabyMango Рік тому

      So glad you are still here Debbie 🖤

    • @lianakosma9411
      @lianakosma9411 Рік тому

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @julesoxana
      @julesoxana 10 місяців тому

      You are a warrior. Praying for a smooth and quick recovery, that you are healthy, safe, well, cancer free and that it never comes back❤. Go be with you and all your families, friends and loved ones✝️❤️

    • @julesoxana
      @julesoxana 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@agoodjuanSending all the Prayers and positive energy❤ Praying for a smooth and quick recovery, that she is healthy, safe, well, cancer free and that it never comes back❤. God be with you and all your families, friends and loved ones, Praying yall are also healthy, safe and well✝️❤️

  • @alyssalaird6320
    @alyssalaird6320 2 роки тому +408

    Literally have not stopped thinking about you two this past month. I am constantly checking in on your Instagram to see if there are any updates. You both are rock stars - especially you Bec. There are so many people rooting for you ❤️

    • @jeryhamna2687
      @jeryhamna2687 2 роки тому

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      He's the person I love, he's my light
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    • @susanolsen9352
      @susanolsen9352 2 роки тому +6

      So true! EVERY DAY thoughts of Bec & Eamon, and prayers. Every day.

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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  • @andreaherschberger8723
    @andreaherschberger8723 2 роки тому +118

    7 years ago, my 7.5 year old son was diagnosed with cancer. It was such a hard time in our lives, but he was amazingly strong and courageous and inspiring. Now he's 6.5 years cancer free!! I know this is so hard for you both, but I know you'll get through this. Praying for you!!

    • @vaultlife7110
      @vaultlife7110 2 роки тому +5

      Andrea that's amazing. I'm so glad he's healthy! That must have been so hard.

    • @thitran6105
      @thitran6105 2 роки тому

      ok

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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  • @JitsIntoTheSunset
    @JitsIntoTheSunset 2 роки тому +214

    We’ve been thinking about you lots Bec. I’ve never been more glad for Sunday to roll around and our E&B notifications ping 💛 Sending you a big virtual squeeze. xx Tania

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  • @Angela-zp2gy
    @Angela-zp2gy 7 місяців тому +6

    Dont ever think there was something you could have done to avoid this. You are healthy and that will get you through this. You will heal because you took care of your body. Sending positive thoughts to you both

  • @MarieJohnson
    @MarieJohnson 2 роки тому +268

    Less than one minute in and I'm already crying. You are so special, Bec.

  • @binta3760
    @binta3760 2 роки тому +168

    I’m mostly happy that you guys have a warm, comfortable, beautiful home of your own as a place for Bec to relax and heal. You unknowingly established a cocoon at the perfect time. Sending you both love and healing vibes. ❤️

    • @japo5760
      @japo5760 2 роки тому

      With you guys 100% ! You are both incredible xxx

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      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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  • @jellybean7253
    @jellybean7253 2 роки тому +120

    Eamon, I can't imagine the helplessness you are feeling. I know Bec will have a ton of support and I, of course, send a ton of love and caring. I was happy to see that Bec's oncologist knows how hard this is on the partner. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Be strong. It is ONLY 4 more months. 3, 2, 1...

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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    • @jvm1059
      @jvm1059 2 роки тому

      @Jelly bean very well said..... Eamon and bec you are in my thoughts and prayers all the way from the other side of the world....sending hugs 🤗🙏❤

  • @lg1799
    @lg1799 2 роки тому +20

    I know what you've been going through. I've been battling cancer for over 13 years now. I've had 'hard' chemo for many many months over this time. I chose to control my life instead of the cancer controlling it. I always kept on going to work during my treatments . I was doing chemo once a week for 4 weeks- a 2 week break and start again over a period of 6 months. I had this regimen 4 times so far. And in between this regimen, I take chemo pills. It's taxing my body but I'm glad to still be here. I know I'll fight it till I die but in the meantime, I'm happy with the life I have. Keep on smiling, and when you have bad days, take in an hour at a time, the next day will be better. And enjoy the moment !! 😊😊🤗🤗

  • @mistyouthere6055
    @mistyouthere6055 2 роки тому +86

    I feel like everything fell into place for you two to be home and safe in your renovated cabin right in time for Becks diagnosis. Such a healing and gorgeous place to be to go through this journey.

    • @JS-es5ep
      @JS-es5ep 2 роки тому +6

      I thought exactly the same thing. The cabin home will be a welcoming safe space for healing. Beautiful views, fresh air. All the good stuff.

  • @khadijajaoui2605
    @khadijajaoui2605 2 роки тому +84

    You know I always used to say that you guys were “relationship goals” but it’s so much more than that. The way that Bec is able to totally lean on Eamon during these hard times while simultaneously attempting at protecting his energy and being aware of the struggle that he is going through is absolutely divine. Your love and your respect towards one another throughout the years is one of the most beautiful things and I am so grateful that I get to witness it. Sending you so much love and positive healing energy. 💕💕

  • @LillieElizabeth
    @LillieElizabeth 2 роки тому +105

    Bec,
    I am a liquid sunshine BC warrior myself, and I’ve taken the same medicines you are currently taking. The first is the worst but you will find a new rhythm. I promise! You will absolutely find your joy while doing hard things. Big hugs!

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  • @garybrunet6346
    @garybrunet6346 2 роки тому +116

    Hang in there, my wife is going through chemotherapy and radiation for a very aggressive uterine cancer. It’s a difficult journey but not everyday sucks. You’re so right to let people know that even with all the positivity, there are emotions that are overwhelming and physical stuff going on! Love your attitude!😊🇨🇦❤️

    • @kirstenarendes9618
      @kirstenarendes9618 2 роки тому +7

      I went through treatment for uterine cancer in fall 2020, finished treatment 1/21. I have remained cancer free. I know what your wife is going through is hard. I’ll be thinking good thoughts for her successful treatment.

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    • @franny2trappy
      @franny2trappy 2 роки тому +1

      hope she is ok

    • @Aliyahmariamusic
      @Aliyahmariamusic 2 роки тому +1

      Hi I would like to know if anyone who’s been through ovarian cancer is here and could talk to me

  • @gemcat24
    @gemcat24 2 роки тому +140

    Round 3 of chemo for triple positive BC for me this week. Working on that patience and acceptance (it's TOUGH!). You will get through this Bec, and you are making such a huge difference in sharing your story to educate (and save!) other women. Wishing you comfort and strength for the rest of your treatment

    • @acandy7
      @acandy7 2 роки тому +3

      Sending you prayers and healing! 🙏🏻❤️

    • @p.kem4018
      @p.kem4018 2 роки тому +1

      🙏🏽

    • @taratucker6217
      @taratucker6217 2 роки тому +3

      Wishing you good luck as you go through chemo. I had BC in 2020, and went through a year of treatment. The philosophy “one foot in front of the other” helped me get through it.

    • @birdlover955
      @birdlover955 2 роки тому +1

      I also wish you healing in this difficult time.

    • @claudettep212
      @claudettep212 2 роки тому

      Sending positive healing vibes to you! 🤗

  • @enoellei
    @enoellei 2 роки тому +90

    The view from the drone of you, Eamon, and Bear, walking across the lake was breathtaking, and when he started to run it was just like a beautiful scene out of a movie. Thanks for posting, I appreciate being part of your journey. Much love ❤️

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  • @laurapothier4250
    @laurapothier4250 2 роки тому +60

    I hope you’re in the comments today Bec. We love you, you got this! You and Eamon are in our prayers. We hope Oso is snuggling you and keeping his mama comfy.

  • @loublou5886
    @loublou5886 2 роки тому +30

    I'm about to go into week 2 of treatment (radio and chemo) and I totally felt when Bec said it's hard knowing you have to make yourself sick when you had no symptoms of being sick. That's been the one thing I've struggled most with so far. Keep on healing everyone 🙏💞

    • @mythaichannel9082
      @mythaichannel9082 Рік тому +6

      You are so not alone. I’m following you soon. Just diagnosed with breast cancer last week. Best of luck to you and everyone who has to go through this

    • @loublou5886
      @loublou5886 Рік тому +1

      @@mythaichannel9082 oh no I'm so sorry to hear this, especially on Xmas day 😪 I've now finished my treatment but found a breast lump during the last week. Luckily I was given the all clear for that on Wednesday. If it gives you any hope I was so scared but I sailed through both chemo and radiotherapy and had no major problems apart from tiredness until the last week. That was then the burns from radio which have now healed almost completely after 4 weeks. Also, looking on the positive side which I have tried to do all the way through this I made some wonderful new friends that were all undergoing treatment at the same time. I won't know for another couple of months if I'm in remission but if not then I know I have the strength in me, as well as the support I need to go smash it all over again. My top tips would be listen to your body and trust your gut, lean on your support people and learn to not only accept but ask for the help you need and keep as positive a mindset as possible. I found an amazing meditation on UA-cam that I got them to play every day during radiotherapy and it totally got me through that part.
      I will keep you in my thoughts and send you positive, healing vibes. Please pop by from time to time and let me know how you're doing 🙏
      I hope you manage to enjoy the holiday as much as you can then gather your strength and go smash it 💪 you've totally got this xxx

    • @julesoxana
      @julesoxana 10 місяців тому

      You are a warrior. Praying for a smooth and quick recovery, that you are healthy, safe, well, cancer free and that it never comes back❤. Go be with you and all your families, friends and loved ones✝️❤️

  • @ashleyraulerson5004
    @ashleyraulerson5004 2 роки тому +66

    Found you guys years ago when I had a sudden fascination with van life. Stayed for the genuine human beings that you guys are. Praying for you, Bec. You are so strong and I know you will win this.

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  2 роки тому +2

      💛💛💛🤗

    • @greentree211
      @greentree211 2 роки тому

      its crazy how just looking up an interest a few years ago can really change how you look at things. (for me it was watching van lifers try to get home in 2020) and Eamon and Bec were the only ones I stayed up to date with. and now I am so invested in their journey and watching them thrive!

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  • @kaleeglenn5712
    @kaleeglenn5712 2 роки тому +66

    A few months ago, I never imagined i would see titles like this on E&B vlogs. My heart is so heavy, but i could not be more grateful for your ability to share this experience. Thank you for being so open and honest. From self checks, to IVF, and now chemo - you are helping so many people. As much as we feel like we are in the living room with you, we want you to feel US there too. You are supported and so loved. ❤️💕

    • @jeryhamna2687
      @jeryhamna2687 2 роки тому

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      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @The_Joy_Finder
    @The_Joy_Finder 2 роки тому +36

    We found it extremely helpful to note down the symptoms during the cycle. It helped during the bad and nauseous days knowing how long it would last. Also the red devil. Full recovery after. You can do this hard thing. There is an after where it doesn't rule your life anymore.

    • @jeryhamna2687
      @jeryhamna2687 2 роки тому

      𝐒͠𝐩͠𝐞͠𝐜͠𝐢͠𝐚͠𝐥͠ 𝐝͠𝐚͠𝐭͠𝐢͠𝐧͠𝐠͠ 𝐟͠𝐨͠𝐫͠ 𝐲͠𝐨͠𝐮͠➺ sexy-nudegirls.host
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @mspriscilla2741
    @mspriscilla2741 2 роки тому +63

    Eamon: Thank you for letting us watch all the caring you are providing Bec. I was in Bec’s place 4.5 years ago, and although I thanked my husband all the time, your videos give me another perspective of the stress this causes you too. I didn’t
    perceive the toll on my husband, probably because I was feeling so sick.
    Bec: You are strong, you have awesome support from family and friends. It is a long road, but you will get through this. Thank you for sharing your struggles. My advice is, figure out when chemo is over. You will have 2-4 weeks before surgery. Take a week vacation to a place where you are not doing all the work, stay in a hotel, if your want. This will be the time when you will be feeling well, with no pain, no sickness and traveling will be so awesome. Make some memories. I was able to vacation with my husband and 9 year old because it ended up working out (chemo was delayed a week due to illness) that chemo ended before my son’s spring break, and surgery did not happen until after his spring break. We went to Utah in April and visited many of the national parks, and hiked in them. I never would have thought of this except I had already started planning the trip before I was diagnosed. I asked the oncology nurse if I should cancel our plans. She said don’t cancel yet, things may work out. And only because the extension of my chemo by a week, we were able to keep our plans for this vacation. Thinking about you, and sending e-strength.

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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  • @rea8172
    @rea8172 2 роки тому +78

    I love you, Bec. We're all rooting for you. You're a Rockstar too, Eamon. Bec is blessed to have you.

  • @kariforgie457
    @kariforgie457 2 роки тому +31

    I have Multiple Sclerosis. The best thing I hear from my husband and closest friends, "we've got this!" I'm never alone. Eamon and Bec...we've got this!

    • @donnabaardsen5372
      @donnabaardsen5372 2 роки тому +3

      I have the genetic condition EDS. Under that umbrella came systemic lupus (SLE), Scleroderma, Sjogrens, rheumatoid and osteoarthritis, and yes, MS. My first stroke was in my 20s, second in my 30s, heart attack in my 40s. With enormous effort, I look and pretend to be healthy. Not many have a clue about all of this. I am a walking miracle. As a survivor of monumental health challenges, everyone here can be too. Regardless of how long or short our lives may be, let's live fully. And understand it's our personal challenge. Sometimes life-long. Others may believe they've got my challenges under their control. But ultimately it's me who does...and must.

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  • @SoMayBe1
    @SoMayBe1 2 роки тому +102

    I love how Lee is escorting you wherever you go! :) Don't ever feel like you need to explain to us why you are happy as if "you shouldn't" that's just silly. You SHOULD stay happy. Love you lots mama! Proud of both of you!

    • @kdrguru
      @kdrguru 2 роки тому

      I still miss Le’s positive energy.

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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  • @Bebe42069
    @Bebe42069 2 роки тому +8

    Oh gosh when Eamon stood there after saying goodbye to you outside as you were going into your first chemo treatment, just brought me to tears. Often people on the outside forget about the partner going through it with you, but you BOTH are seen and I feel for both of you and sending so much love and positivity to you BOTH!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @perezfecto
    @perezfecto 2 роки тому +102

    It's always amazing to see what human spirit is. I'm watching the story of a couple I barely know, from a country I've never been to, and yet I'm joining an army of followers with hundred of messages of support and good wishes. This is literally larger than life. You guys are NOT alone in this journey, and I'm hoping the best from Chile, South America.

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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  • @thinkpink26
    @thinkpink26 2 роки тому +72

    Thank you for keeping it real, I'm caring for my daughter who's the same age as Bec and she was diagnosed with Melanoma brain cancer just before Christmas. I feel your strength and your fragility as I accompany my daughter on the same road. Love to you both and positive thoughts.

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  2 роки тому +6

      💛💛💛💛

    • @kmack7333
      @kmack7333 2 роки тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @angelahartman3272
      @angelahartman3272 2 роки тому

      Your daughter is blessed to have you as her momma! I will pay for you guys as well. 💕

    • @fairyintothewild8443
      @fairyintothewild8443 2 роки тому

      Sending lots of love and strength to you and your daughter.

    • @ChristySandhoff
      @ChristySandhoff 2 роки тому +1

      ... a Mother's love is boundless....

  • @britiabradshaw3878
    @britiabradshaw3878 2 роки тому +80

    Bec, when I was diagnosed with brest cancer last spring I came to the conclusion that I was suppose to be an example to someone else of how to walk through the fire of cancer. I currently know of 2 people who were watching. My guess is, with this channel, you and Eamon are suppose to be examples to many who will have to go on this cancer journey. Both as the one with cancer and the one who supports and care for them. And, you're doing a great job. They need to see the good and the bad, your courage, your fears and your tears. Look cancer straight in the eye, then kick it to the curb. You got this. Prayers.

    • @Amy-gq7ft
      @Amy-gq7ft 2 роки тому +13

      I don’t like your word choice “supposed”. There is no such thing as this is how you are supposed to get through cancer treatment. My Oncologist told me I was “supposed” to quit my job. I didn’t. I worked every day, including sitting in the chemo chairs. I was “supposed” to shave my head. Nope, the little bit of hair I kept brought me so much comfort. I was “supposed” to become a raw vegan. Nope, I haven’t been able to digest fruits and vegetables since I started treatment. To anyone going through a cancer journey, please allow yourself to set your own path and know that is the right choice.

    • @fionadavis23
      @fionadavis23 2 роки тому +2

      @@Amy-gq7ft yes, everyone has our own unique way of plodding through. It is enough.

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      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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  • @anthonythebiga8489
    @anthonythebiga8489 6 місяців тому +3

    Hold on tight. I was diagnosed last year. I just had my chemo treatment last week and I slept for 13 hours straight, and the following day I got so sick. I have 4 more sessions to do and my next one is at the end of this month. My thoughts and prayers are with you. You got this. Let's beat cancer.

  • @seeingitall
    @seeingitall 2 роки тому +74

    Ok I pulled over to write a little note. Your reactions were spot on to my own when I was diagnosed with leukemia. I thought I had done something wrong and that’s why I got it but as my dad says: “that’s the cards you were dealt!” And you can handle this. I also had the red devil but my pee was orange but it made me feel awful but it wasn’t the worst out of all the different chemos I had. I did treatment for 3 years and even became bedridden but I’m still going! I’ll tell you 2 things that helped me that may help you. 1. It’s ok to not eat during chemo. I found that fasting during and after was better and recovered faster. 2. Watermelon slushee. Just ice and cut up watermelon. It help sooth my stomach sooo much. Hope this encourages you some! You can do it!! ❤️

  • @rhondanewman3849
    @rhondanewman3849 2 роки тому +109

    As an 8 year stage 3 breast cancer survivor, I am so sorry that you have had to go through this but it is survivable. You can do it. I did it with a positive outlook, just like you, and I think that is the reason I have gotten me here today. Keep it up!❤️❤️

  • @muchpeacemuchlove
    @muchpeacemuchlove 2 роки тому +12

    Hang in there sweetheart - I was diagnosed with STAGE 4 COLON CANCER, LIVER AND LYMPH NODES and at the end of this month I will be 5 years in remission : ) KEEP POSITIVE AND STAY BUSY - DON'T FOCUS ON THE ILLNESS, FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WILL BE DOING WHEN YOU ARE IN REMISSION. God Bless you and I am praying for you - YOU WILL SURVIVE : )

  • @paulagrant3518
    @paulagrant3518 2 роки тому +52

    “Just take it day by day! Don’t look at the whole journey just the next step”. I was told that before I started my journey of chemotherapy by another cancer fighter and it was the best advice I received. I also felt and knew the love and support of family and friends in a way I couldn’t have imagined before. That makes me so extremely grateful and keeps me fighting! I see you have that too which is awesome! I sometimes wondered if I would ever feel energetic and good again, but I do now. Don’t worry, you will too! You can do this! Hugs and prayers to you both.

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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    • @suecruckson5756
      @suecruckson5756 2 роки тому +2

      That is what my brother-in-law says, take it one day at a time, one moment at a time!!

    • @mythaichannel9082
      @mythaichannel9082 Рік тому +1

      Go with the flow, take it day by day. One of my client always says. And she is one of my role model.

    • @loublou5886
      @loublou5886 Рік тому +3

      My mum has said this to me daily. Just take that one tiny step. Before you know it you will look behind and there will be more steps behind you than ahead 🥰 I made a countdown chart for each day of treatment and stuck it inside my front door. I checked each day off as I got home so I could visually see those tiny steps too.
      I totally hear you about the support of friends and family. They were my army and surrounded me with a wall of love and held me up when I couldn't do it myself. So important to realise you have that 😍😍

  • @shellyb2042
    @shellyb2042 2 роки тому +183

    I love that the dr realize how important Eamon is in this and his mental health and feelings as well!! It’s very easy to only focus all the love on the cancer patients but their supporters are just as importantly to love on!! Best wishes on this hard journey you have set out on, but I know you will do amazing!! Take this time to learn so many new things about yourself and be so kind to yourself! It’s easy to say well I use to live like this and try to push yourself to do things but don’t do them enjoy the rest and take it easy life isn’t normal right now and it’s ok to be easy on your body and soul during this time!! Lots of love and positivity to you both!! Stay strong and fight hard!! Thanks for sharing your journey I know this is a blip in your beautiful life adventures!! Also every body is different and experience things differently but a lil trick I’ve seen work with hair loss is kinda gross but in the two ppl I’ve got to try it has actually worked or their body just did well but one was 72!! Don’t wash your hair at all or only once a month during chemo don’t brush it often honestly just braiding it and leaving it along is best but don’t let it get knotted(rats nest) just comb softly!! This sounds crazy but anything is worth a shot and like I said the ppl I’ve seen do this didn’t lose much of their hair at all it got very thin but no bald spots or anything! The 72 didn’t wet or wash all through chemo and saw best results she did have some scans we took care of as needed and they healed up with no hair loss!

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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  • @emmyrose9027
    @emmyrose9027 2 роки тому +26

    Watching Bear cheer you up is everything and more 🥺 What a joy to have him during this time!

  • @ltbobblue
    @ltbobblue 2 роки тому +16

    When you all started your journey with cancer I remember thinking I know what they are going through. My mother a few years back had stage 4 cancer and is now recovered and cancer free. As I watched today's video it feels to real to watch as my dad was diagnosed with cancer yesterday. So I am praying with you guys as you go through this. Remember you are not alone.

  • @elizabeth1234..
    @elizabeth1234.. 2 роки тому +6

    As someone who's parent has been doing chemo on and off for several years something he says to me is 'you are stronger than you realize'. He gets so sick but knows it's for something better on the other side. You're so strong and your light will keep shining.

  • @krystielee74
    @krystielee74 2 роки тому +328

    I’ve walked in your shoes and I’m so damn proud of you! I’m SO glad that you’re treating aggressively! I didn’t journal or anything during my treatment experience, so watching your videos is triggering and healing at the same time. There is so much that I’ve forgotten. One in 8 women will get breast cancer in their lives. Many, many of your subscribers will have your journey as a frame of reference when they go through their own treatment. You’re doing a really brave and beautiful thing by sharing honestly. Sending you so many good thoughts, I think of you daily!

  • @zebra9631
    @zebra9631 2 роки тому +73

    Bec and Eamon - Sending love and positive energy to you from Seattle. My wife Siggi was diagnosed with cancer in the fall of 2011, she visited her surgical doctor last week and was told she is officially cured of cancer (10 year checkup)! I was fortunate to be able to be with Siggi for infusions and try to help through the downs and ups of the whole process, you both are strong enough for the mountain you are about to climb!

  • @beccafrench8752
    @beccafrench8752 2 роки тому +61

    I haven’t been through what you are going through, but I have struggled with chronic illness for the past decade - two things that help me a ton is the Spoon Theory and having a “day” bed. The spoon theory is a way of understanding your emotional and physical energy with illness, and just moving to a different place for the day and keeping it separate from where I sleep at night (even if I sleep all day, it’s in the day bed) helps my sleep quality and mindset. Praying for you both!

    • @cadavher
      @cadavher 2 роки тому +8

      I've heard the spoon theory, and use something similar to deal with my chronic illness/pain, but had never heard the bed thing. I used to have a daybed in my living room instead of a couch, because that way if I needed to lay down at least I was in the living room not my bedroom. My family and friends thought it was ridiculous having a bed in the living room and always brought it up, so I ended up moving it and putting a couch instead. But the couch is so not comfortable and I find myself depressed laying in my bedroom for sometimes weeks at a time all morning and night. Now knowing this is a thing, I'm putting my daybed back!!! It's my home, I live alone, I should be able to put even a real bed there instead of a couch should I choose lol.
      Even though this comment was for Bec💛💛, I'd like to thank you for it because this just reassured me to continue with something I really appreciated.

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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  • @jennifertaylor5776
    @jennifertaylor5776 Рік тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤from an 8 yrs survivor of breast cancer and lymph node cancer much love and prayers to you and your family 😇🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕👋🇨🇦

  • @soph8149
    @soph8149 2 роки тому +40

    Have cried through every one of these videos. Your guys attitude through all of this has been so admiring. We are all rooting for you both 💛

  • @Make2
    @Make2 2 роки тому +162

    Best wishes to both of you and thank you so much for sharing this journey, including the ugly negatives as well as the beautiful positives.
    Three things you said in the video felt so relatable, as someone who recently had surgery and radiation therapy for a (thankfully benign) tumor: (1) the treatment making you feel worse than you did before diagnosis, which is such a weird thing to come to terms with, (2) pets showing us the importance of rest and doing what feels right in the moment, and (3) recognizing the emotional impact on the partner and caregiver.
    Glad you're both getting a lot of support and love. Adding mine! 💜

    • @Karl671
      @Karl671 2 роки тому

      We all thinking about y’all

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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  • @MsNikk5
    @MsNikk5 2 роки тому +52

    I’m so grateful you’re strong enough to share this with the world. Thank you for allowing us to laugh with you, cheer with you, and cry with you. You’re so strong and so brave. I am so proud of you. Sending you the most healing and positive vibes Bec and Eamon ❤️ you’re both sunshine in human form. I am filled with gratitude for you.

  • @paulamurphy7652
    @paulamurphy7652 7 місяців тому +1

    I love it when you say “I’m just going to find something small to be grateful for today”. You are so positive 😊💕💐

  • @rixanneh18
    @rixanneh18 2 роки тому +39

    I really think that Eamon's arms-out hugs could fix anything in the world. His grin and "I'm-here-for-it!" attitude shot straight to my heart and sent me into tears. I was grateful that he unselfishly gifts himself and anything he can do to Bec, her comfort, protection, health, and happiness. It was a beautiful thing to watch. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You inspire in more ways than you know. xoxox

  • @Sasyemy.
    @Sasyemy. 2 роки тому +78

    I really appreciate how honest you've been throughout this whole journey. Even showing the red pee was very informative! We love you xx

  • @joanbridges4838
    @joanbridges4838 2 роки тому +22

    I’m a 6 year breast cancer survivor and my heart goes out to you. Keeping you and Eamon in my thoughts and sending good vibes your way for healing! Love you guys!

  • @evangeline1307
    @evangeline1307 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you thank you! for sharing this video. I will start my first cycle of chemo four days from now. It definitely decreases my anxiety. We are lucky to have our love ones around during these tough times. Praise GOD the greatest physician and healer.❤

  • @susangriffin6305
    @susangriffin6305 2 роки тому +8

    I cried when I watched this. I took treatment for hepatitis c a few years ago before all the new drugs. I was in treatment for 7 long months. I was a single mom, but my daughter had gone off to college, so I started treatment. It’s was hard. The drugs are hard. The loneliness was hard. I didn’t want to burden anyone so I powered thru. I’m so proud of how you are approaching your treatment. Being kind to yourself, listening to your body, allowing your support group to be there for you. You have all of us. My husband lost his first wife to cancer. He and I both battled it at the same time in 2019. We have watched you and Eamon from the beginning. We have adopted you in our hearts. I guess I just wanted to send you love and support. Love, hugs and prayers from a southern gentleman and his sassy yankee wife!

    • @kerahendrie5797
      @kerahendrie5797 2 роки тому

      You sound like an absolute doll, Susan 🖤🌻

  • @nancyfava1050
    @nancyfava1050 2 роки тому +36

    So happy that the universe brought you a big, beautiful dog to live with you two through this. The joy and positivity he brings to you shines in your faces. His size allows so much healing touch. You are both so brave to be sharing all that you are going through. I’m here sending support and love always. ❤️

  • @lynnloehr1566
    @lynnloehr1566 2 роки тому +33

    So glad to see this!! Some observations: I love that instead of sitting helplessly just waiting for the chemo, that you are actively doing things to give yourself more control over the situation. Don't know if you are just fostering that guy, but he NEEDS to stay, he loves you so much already. Dogs are great mood lifters! Love that you are reframing the hair loss by doing proactive stuff. A wig made from your hair, what a great idea! They fact that you've got long enough hair is a bonus, although I am pretty sure you would be stunning bald. Lastly, I love that you and Emon are taking care of each other and leaning into each other. This is so hard and you need each other. Thank you for taking us along on this journey. Seeing you with your head over a bowl was important, because later, you are surviving, taking a walk, and thriving again. That is important to know for everyone facing this journey. Praying for you and cheering you on!!

  • @lovekatz3979
    @lovekatz3979 Рік тому +3

    I was diagnosed with grade 2 breast cancer 7 weeks after my husband died. I have to go through surgery and treatment alone, as my family are too far away to help. I'm sure I'm not the only person to face this nightmare alone. God bless you for sharing your journey ❤

  • @TheHiveDrive
    @TheHiveDrive 2 роки тому +47

    A puddle over here 🥺💛 liquid sunshine for a ray of sunshine! You both are incredible and we are championing you all through this with so much love and prayers!! Big hugs 💛

    • @jeryhamna2687
      @jeryhamna2687 2 роки тому

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  • @Ellam1111
    @Ellam1111 2 роки тому +29

    All love eamon and bec! My mom has adrenal cancer stage 3, very aggressive. I support you guys, makes me feel good to feel somewhat understood by your doctor who said: it is hard on the ones around you as well because we feel helpless. Wish you healing xx

  • @VigilantGrey
    @VigilantGrey 2 роки тому +33

    You can do this. I've been living productively with active cancer for five years and still going strong. Reach out if you need any ideas. Prayers to you guys!

  • @xoxomegglesxoxo
    @xoxomegglesxoxo 2 роки тому +16

    Hey Bec,
    Watching you go through this reminds me of my mom when she had cancer. She was also very healthy just like y’all. It was hard to watch someone so healthy deteriorate over time. When they found it she was already stage 4. Unfortunately because of that we lost her a few years later. However, she still had such a full life and never treated it as a death sentence. I love your similar positive attitude about it. I know that this is not a death sentence for you and you will get through this!

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      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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  • @BubblyViolin11
    @BubblyViolin11 2 роки тому +38

    Eamon, I was a caregiver for my mom and it was TOUGH. The stress takes a toll on your mental health and on your physical health so please make sure you’re taking care of you too. Therapy/emotional support, a healthy diet, exercise, and rest are also important for you too. You’re doing an amazing job supporting Bec and embarking on this journey together. Hugs to you both! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @KristinaKk_xx120
    @KristinaKk_xx120 2 роки тому +35

    Thinking of you, Bec ☀️ You are an absolute warrior and an inspiration to so, so many! ❤️

  • @BeastCheapz
    @BeastCheapz 2 роки тому +52

    Bec,
    I am a liquid sunshine BC warrior myself, and Ive taken the same medicines you are currently taking. The first is the worst but you will find a new rhythm. I promise! You will absolutely find your joy while doing hard things. Big hugs!

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      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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    • @JeanGenie92
      @JeanGenie92 2 роки тому

      "Find your joy while doing hard things" I love that!

    • @sanskari9391
      @sanskari9391 2 роки тому

      Have some shame, stop copy-pasting other people's comments. Atleast not in this videos

  • @debk8775
    @debk8775 2 роки тому +8

    You’ve got this Bec. Take care & rest when you need it. Love that you are sharing your journey. Sending healing light to you.

  • @gabygonzalez2473
    @gabygonzalez2473 2 роки тому +77

    I love how you reframe things, like “liquid sunshine.” It definitely helps with keeping positive vibes and staying strong 🤟 All the best for you guys 💕

    • @jeryhamna2687
      @jeryhamna2687 2 роки тому

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      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
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      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

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      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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    • @EricaGamet
      @EricaGamet 2 роки тому

      @Jesus Gonzalez Wow... what the actual fuck, man? Yeah, what HAS the world turned into? Where you can sit behind your keyboard and write awful things about someone going through what is probably the toughest thing in their life. You're un-be-fucking-lievable, pal.

  • @brookeplans5317
    @brookeplans5317 2 роки тому +4

    Keeping you in my prayers!! I had to battle brain cancer at age 10 and what got me through it was having my family with me. When you feel weak or feel down grab ahold of your family and let them carry you!!

  • @laura11h
    @laura11h 2 роки тому +19

    I am in tears at how strong you are, Bec! Prayers that you will continue this process with great strength. Love you guys!

  • @Eightfathorses
    @Eightfathorses Рік тому +15

    I’m so grateful for your videos. Your honesty and bravery are inspiring and have made own imminent treatment for lymphoma far less scary. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤

  • @aloooxus
    @aloooxus 2 роки тому +34

    Completely here for your journey

  • @Nancy-gf9mv
    @Nancy-gf9mv 2 роки тому +20

    Its been 21 years and 10 months since my first chemo of A/C and I remember being so very anxious. I have helped many with information for their journey, because I believe 'Knowledge is Power.' You are sharing soooo much power with others! I offer: don't look at it as 5 months..take a week at a time. A treatment at a time. After the second treatment I used to call day 3 "The Pit" Day. I really was not sure I would get better, but, I always crawled out of that pit. You will, too! You are strong going into this so you are going to make it, but keep your energy expectations low. ALLOW yourself rest. One of my favorite song in 2000 when I went through my chemo was Barbara Streisand The Main Event/Fight. It was a weird little movie about boxing, but I would imagine little boxing gloves in my veins punching out the bad cells...fight, fight fight! And they were so busy fighting, I was pooped! Go with it! You are blessed to have a healthy body going into it. Love surrounds you. Dogs ALWAYS know and Oso sure loves you! Take his energy of love to help you through! And ZOFRAN! Best anti-nausea pill EVER and it is still out there! Allow yourself PIT DAYS. You will come out of it. You got this. One treatment at a time.

  • @caroline.dyroff
    @caroline.dyroff 2 роки тому +13

    My Mom got diagnosed with breast cancer almost one year ago. She had me when she was a teen, now I’m a teenager and she’s about your age. Y’all both have very similar body types and lifestyles. She also went through 8 rounds of chemo and did the 4 “red devil” rounds. She did genetic testing and cancer does not run in the family. It’s been tough dealing with something so unexpected and I have been so scared for her. She just recently finished all of her chemo and has started radiation. You are so strong and will handle this all so well. I know reading all of other people’s stories on social media about their journey can be motivating and can also bring anxiety. I just hope you keep seeking the sunshine! Prayers for you two🤍

  • @CITAP1
    @CITAP1 2 роки тому +1

    My best friend lived a healthy lifestyle too yet came down with a small cell sarcoma in his left hamstring. His doctors used chemo to try and kill the cancer. When it was determined to be85 to 90 percent killed, they surgically removed the rest of it. During his chemo, he was given Nulasta to restore white blood cell count. His bones always ached for a couple days but it worked well. He beat his cancer but three years later, cancer was found in his right lung, middle lobe. That was surgically removed and he just passed his 1 year scan, no new issues. He's recovered nicely. Everyone I know has beaten cancer. Doctors are able to amazing things these days. Best wishes and May God Bless...

  • @angiemiller1335
    @angiemiller1335 2 роки тому +36

    Continued love and prayers for you both. When the Dr. acknowledges Eamon's feelings I was grateful, because I can see the pain, fear and love in his eyes. Keep strong, Keep positive. You both have got this.

    • @aksez2u
      @aksez2u 2 роки тому +1

      However his saying it was "just as hard" for Eamon leads me to believe he's never experienced chemotherapy.

  • @isabellittle5899
    @isabellittle5899 2 роки тому +25

    I have a friend who is a breast cancer survivor and author. She wrote an incredible book called This is Cancer: Everything you need to know. From the waiting room to the bedroom. Although her story is very very different from Bec’s, I think it might be worth a read. But I either way, you both are so strong, and whatever happens, I know you guys will get through it. Sending love ❤️❤️

  • @TakeTimeToTravel
    @TakeTimeToTravel 2 роки тому +150

    I've been subscribed for a long time, but haven't commented before. I'm starting my radiation treatments for prostate cancer shortly and this definitely brought some tears to my eyes. I am looking forward to kicking the crap out of cancer, but really nervous at the same time. I definitely feel your emotions and I'm concentrating on the end result. Fortunately, I'm in a clinical trial with high doses of targeted radiation over a short period of time. I'm sending hugs and good thoughts your way, and I know you've got this! F#ck Cancer!!!

    • @trerc1
      @trerc1 2 роки тому +4

      🙏🙏❤

    • @deannaporter7730
      @deannaporter7730 2 роки тому +6

      Praying for you both!!! 🙏🏻💓💪💓🙏🏻

    • @Wafflesmom
      @Wafflesmom 2 роки тому +6

      @take time to travel You got this...kick the F@C% out of prostate cancer, that trial sounds awesome.

    • @smiley9246
      @smiley9246 2 роки тому +4

      Prayers live and strength to you as well!

    • @juliagibbs7270
      @juliagibbs7270 2 роки тому +4

      My mom was in a similar clinical trial with high dosage targeted radiation when she had breast cancer and it worked really well for her body. Wishing you all the best

  • @danialyiglesias
    @danialyiglesias 2 роки тому +2

    I’m a cancer survivor and know love is the best medicine. So glad to see how your hubby stands by you. You two are awesome!

  • @firefly0588
    @firefly0588 2 роки тому +29

    I have been in a similar time as you, at 23 I was told I had stage 3b Melanoma and might have had a new spot found on my liver (at 33) going through the process. You are both handling this so amazingly well. You didn't do anything wrong to cause yourself to get this, you are so strong and that will go a long way, the support you have is going to be key. I know everyone is different however if you do experience any anger don't hold it in. Rest up and when you're up for it don't stop living your life. I wanted to also thank you, as I might be going through everything again you have given me the want to fight it again. My thoughts and prayers are with you and if you do need outside support friend who has done this but don't want to go to a support group I am happy to listen.

    • @angelaturpen7964
      @angelaturpen7964 2 роки тому +1

      I lost my mom to melanoma n my prayers are with u. We just lost my father in law recently to. I know ur fear I have a spot to on my hip bone I've never done treatment as there isn't much to do for melanoma cancer. My thoughts are with u keep up the fight

  • @destinymarie7990
    @destinymarie7990 2 роки тому +12

    Bec, I’ve been watching your channel since the start, you’re so strong, I was diagnosed with lupus at 16 and didn’t have family or friends to help me through understanding and treatment, you’re blessed and you don’t know how strong that makes the rest of us feel. Don’t lose your sense of control, and don’t put blame in anything, just live life one day at a time, I’m proud of you.

    • @jeryhamna2687
      @jeryhamna2687 2 роки тому

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      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
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      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
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  • @robinhoward4204
    @robinhoward4204 2 роки тому +28

    I know that even though you are physically alone in the treatment room, everyone is there with you in spirit. I discovered you guys a year and a half ago. I was in a hospital room, sick, sore and alone after my second stomach surgery in 12 months. (I was diagnosed with stage 1 bowel cancer two years ago.) Your videos (especially Eamon's cooking ones) were such a positive distraction. I wish you all the strength and support to get through this.🙏

    • @resikchanel843
      @resikchanel843 2 роки тому

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  • @Calichick67
    @Calichick67 2 роки тому +4

    You've got this! I've been through 3 cancer journeys... it's never easy, but throughout this journey you will see how strong you are. Staying positive will help so much! I will continue to pray for you and your family ❤️🙏🏽

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/ZOX2eg1nfAs/v-deo.html

  • @devankathryn
    @devankathryn 2 роки тому +16

    Watched my mom go through cancer 3 time, chemo and radiation countless times. Bec, if I could give you the warmest hug I would. Eamon, you deserve all the good things for being an incredible support. Sending love ❤️

  • @truckingwithtobee
    @truckingwithtobee 2 роки тому +4

    My mom had stage 3 BC like you over 25 years ago. She had a full mastectomy and reconstruction.She is still with us and the only after effect of the cancer is that her lymph nodes don’t drain well under armpit on the side that had the cancer. But, she said she would take that over the alternative. Your body is hurt and you need to rest as much as you can. 💕Keep your head up because in 25 years we will still be watching you on UA-cam ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @theemptynestprojects
    @theemptynestprojects 2 роки тому +16

    I'm so glad you have so much support through this. It's also so generous for you to share your journey with anyone who may need to see it. I've been an oncology nurse for 17 years but we don't go home with patients and sit with them as they work through the day to day. The appreciation of one thing each day really stuck with me because that's something I find myself doing to get through hard things. Sending you good energy and support as you work through these months. 💕

  • @Yours_sincerely_thedreamer
    @Yours_sincerely_thedreamer Рік тому +6

    I have been following you guys for a while and when my mom told me yesterday, she was diagnosed with an aggressive breast cancer, it helped me so much to deal with it that I had seen your story and how you got through it❤ In the media we normally see only the stories with sad endings, that are luckily becoming so rare with breast cancer! So seeing the ups and downs of a more typical cancer story like Becs helps so much to have realistic expectations😊

  • @denisegreene8441
    @denisegreene8441 2 роки тому +13

    Love the hair cut, super cute. I remember when my friend was going through treatment she said she didn't want to be a cancer survivor, she wanted to be a person who had had cancer. It wasn't all she was. So I determined to do , say and act the same and if she wanted to talk about it I would follow her lead. Just like anything else she had gone through . There were so many funny moments in her journey and we still laugh at them. Find the humour in the most horrible thing and you will prevail. IE: When my friend was telling me about how it felt when her hair started growing back she mentioned she had found one tiny hair sticking out of her head. As the days passed that one hair sort of took on its own life and charger. Because she was an artist I suggested she visualize one strand hair styles. We came up with some seriously funny hairstyles. But the one she remembers with a smile on her face is when I suggested she protect it in a straw and put little bows on different straws. . Colour coorindinate the bows to her mood. She didn't actually do it but it brought such a smile to her and a giggle when she visualized it. Another funny moment was when she was going through reconstruction and mentioned all she wanted was her new nipples. As it was xmas I started singing all I want for xmas is my new nipples. We both started laughing hysterically while everyone around us thought we were crazy. We have the same sense of humour so it was funny to us. The point I guess is you will find what works for you. It doesn't have to be what everyone else does. It just has to be what makes it easier and true to who you are. Cancer will always be a part of the journey but it isn't THE journey. It isn't all you are, you are so much more. You have a great partner and there will be days where you will need to be there for him as well. Be you and be happy.

  • @veronicawright138
    @veronicawright138 2 роки тому +6

    I remember when I had my own breast cancer scare and was doing research I came across a story of a woman who survived. She said the key for her was to view the chemo as a positive thing so I am happy to see you are doing the same. She visualized little soldiers going around knocking out the cancer cells while she was getting the chemotherapy. You both are brave souls and thank you for sharing this journey with us. I am sending you lots and lots of white light

  • @seymouradventures2023
    @seymouradventures2023 2 роки тому +10

    Wrapping you in love and prayers. I am a 17 year survivor. My daughter was diagnosed a year and a half ago and is thriving too. You have this! It’s a marathon not a sprint, so just take one day at a time and know this will be behind you eventually. Having this platform is going to not only give others hope and inspiration, but will save lives. I believe that my diagnosis saved my daughter’s life. Everything happens for a reason, trust that there is a purpose for your journey and what a blessing that you can show others they can triumph over cancer! Hugs from Ohio

  • @tb8098
    @tb8098 2 роки тому +3

    I was diagnosed with two different head and neck cancers in 2021, even though I had no risk factors except being a middle-aged woman. Treatment (many surgeries and radiation) was the hardest thing I've ever done, but as I came out the other side of everything, I am so thankful that it was available to me. I certainly and purposely appreciate every single day now. You've got this!

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/haZ2Vb4yNJg/v-deo.html

  • @risenorth4263
    @risenorth4263 2 роки тому +9

    Beauty morning guys!! Hello! Sending LOVE, strength, warmth, positivity, joy, health and adventure. You can do it!!! 🤍🦅👌🏽

  • @haileymckeown3989
    @haileymckeown3989 2 роки тому +19

    In high school my friend was going through chemo at KGH, this was pre-covid so she always brought a friend with her and I went to treatment a few times with her. The KGH staff were nothing but the best, always so kind and considerate, you’re in good hands❤️

  • @katietaplin8376
    @katietaplin8376 2 роки тому +46

    Bec, even when you are at your lowest, you still have the ability to spread so much joy with your positivity and love. You are doing amazing and Eamon you are smashing it too buddy. Always hard to be the one on the side lines. Keep pushing and can’t wait to hear about everything week by week. I have watched you both for years and years and I just love watching the love you have for each other. It reminds me that all we need is love and support from people we admire and love to feel happiness and joy. Sending all my love and prayers! Xx

  • @rosestulips8440
    @rosestulips8440 2 роки тому +1

    You popped up on my recommendation...so I watched. Many many prayers for you. Hoping the absolute best, strength, faith, and complete healing for you.