I Lost All My Hair to Chemotherapy

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  • @garrickclau
    @garrickclau 2 роки тому +5474

    Can we all just appreciate how amazing of a partner that Eamon is? And of course Bec incredibly strong for sharing all of the raw emotions so publicly. Much Love and Aloha to the both of you.

    • @ff2154
      @ff2154 2 роки тому +52

      Yes! Agree 👍🏽 there are so many who face these battles without any family support either.

    • @yimjustbeachy
      @yimjustbeachy 2 роки тому +104

      Eamon demonstrates what love and support should look like

    • @janicechambers9586
      @janicechambers9586 2 роки тому +41

      Truly what love 💕 looks like. Inspirational to say the very least. @EamonandBec The strength you are showing by sharing this extremely personal experience brings me to tears. Breast cancer has affected both sides of my family. I lost two Aunts one on my Mother and my Father’s side as well. I myself had a lump removed by needle biopsy at age eleven.Bec you are one fierce warrior!! You’re hair doesn’t define who you are as a person. You are such an amazing, beautiful woman. And you will always be. You’re not that way because you have long dark hair. A unwavering strength and zest for life has gotten you through (with a amazing partner!) You got this one!! You will conquer, this to shall pass. Praying for you both 😇

    • @marilynmeador5280
      @marilynmeador5280 2 роки тому +19

      Hang in there you two, we are with you and god bless.

    • @dianalinscome5830
      @dianalinscome5830 2 роки тому +17

      For all you've been through with saving your eggs to one day have your precious children to now going through chemo therapy, getting so so sick and now cutting your gorgeous hair to now losing it. Wow so...much you're having to go through and now shaving your head, you are a real champion my dear girl. And Eamon, come on now...what a champ he is as well. He always knows exactly what to say to you at your worst moments and he knows exactly when you need him. I just want to send God's strength, comfort and His never ending love to you both. I know God's the one who got me through the worst hours, days, months and years after losing my 17yr old son Anthony in 1997 and then losing my other son Marcus in 2019. You are one in a million my dear having to go through all this physical, emotional and mental agony. I just really thank God Eamon is there with you and "for" you. You look absolutely fantastic with hair and no hair but what really matters is how you feel. So may God just send many blessings your way throughout your journey. Love you both, from Washington state ❤🌻🌺🌼🌸💐⚘

  • @lizziebennet2700
    @lizziebennet2700 2 роки тому +350

    Stunning with long hair. Stunning with a fringe. Stunning with a bob. Stunning with a shaved head. You're beautiful inside and outside all the time. Hoping for a speedy recovery.

    • @chrissyb5226
      @chrissyb5226 2 роки тому +5

      You look AMAZING!!!!💪❤💕

    • @kathygarza3288
      @kathygarza3288 2 роки тому +1

      You are awesome. My mom had breast 🎀 cancer. You are beautiful and Eamon is a powerful supporter. Love you two.

  • @brieu4522
    @brieu4522 2 роки тому +869

    my mom doesn’t even know who you guys are and saw me watching and said “that woman looks amazing with shaved hair” ❤️❤️ you’re so beautiful bec

  • @hibah19
    @hibah19 2 роки тому +279

    Eamon is the partner everyone needs in their life. The way he showed so much love to Bec through her journey is so heart touching. What an awesome guy

  • @jodischmidt4301
    @jodischmidt4301 2 роки тому +378

    I was an oncology nurse for 30+ years. This is the most honest and on the spot representation of what happens with hair loss. You emotions are so normal. Our hair is such a part of our identity, and losing that is so painful. You are gorgeous with and without hair. I always told women that most women are more beautiful bald because then the focus is on your eyes, not your hair. I wish I was still working, I would refer women to your episode.

  • @15prettymee
    @15prettymee 2 роки тому +251

    “You don’t need hair for love” 😭so sweet to have someone supportive and loving along your side on this journey! Such a blessing! Your a women of strength Bec! Much love!

  • @dennyj9759
    @dennyj9759 2 роки тому +115

    “She stood in the storm and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails.” You are in our prays, Bec. Numbers 6:24-26

    • @nancyjones6428
      @nancyjones6428 2 роки тому +2

      How beautiful and appropriate.

    • @sharonj7274
      @sharonj7274 2 роки тому +2

      I have never heard that before,but I did write it down and I will have a plaque made with that saying. Thank You for sharing.

  • @TheBandNerd129
    @TheBandNerd129 2 роки тому +143

    Eamon said “even though you won’t have hair it’ll always grow back” with the little head planter, that’s the sweetest thing ever 😭😭 you guys are so strong and incredible

  • @tereasia
    @tereasia 2 роки тому +400

    When my son was little he had cancer, and we had fun finding crazy hats. His fave had a propeller in top. Reasons to laugh and cry and just feel made life worth holding on to. He's 36 now 😊

  • @marysmith3887
    @marysmith3887 2 роки тому +199

    The first time I heard Eamon say, “it’s only hair”, I thought he just didn’t get what it means to Bec. But, then I realized he was saying “it’s only hair” because Bec’s hair isn’t Bec. He truly and passionately loves Bec, mind, body and soul. Hair is only the icing on top.

  • @davideagles1924
    @davideagles1924 2 роки тому +13

    I’m terminally ill from cancer on my lungs and adrenal gland. Having had a cancerous kidney removed last year they’ve given me 12 months to live. I’m now on a trial drug which is applied like chemo but without the side effects. My specialist rang me up yesterday and told me on my last scan that the tumours on my lungs have reduced significantly which I’m pleased about. It’s not a cure so when it stops working it will take over or then again it could be a miraculous cure. I don’t know. The hardest thing will be leaving my wife of 37 years and my six children. My point being is that day to day is an emotional journey. One day positive the next pretty negative. I was so shocked to hear of your condition and wish you so much love and healing. Take care Becks your videos have brought me so much joy and given me traveling abilities even though I couldn’t go you and Eamon went and took me places I can’t visit due to my health. Lots of love and healing, keep positive as this will bring healing. Peace and love ❤️

    • @Iamllumash
      @Iamllumash 2 роки тому

      David Eagles I've have health issues.. when I start feeling I'm getting stronger the problems reoccur but I never give up.. Its weird to except death though, as a possibility.. Anyways take care...

    • @davideagles1924
      @davideagles1924 2 роки тому

      @@Iamllumash as much as some don’t want to face it, sometimes death is part of life. Everyone will have to face it at some point.

    • @heyyou3609
      @heyyou3609 7 місяців тому

      I hope you’re feeling well and better now ❤

  • @YouWillDoGreatThings
    @YouWillDoGreatThings 2 роки тому +175

    I was watching holding back tears until “I wore it because it’s Lee’s sweater and I wanted to feel strong” I totally broke down. What a beautiful moment. You are so strong pretty girl! Love you❤️

  • @jessicajames2414
    @jessicajames2414 2 роки тому +311

    Having an Eamon is the secret ingredient to life. He never lied and everything he says is so genuine. Bec you look awesome and as always an absolute warrior ♥️

  • @catthebeautyhunter
    @catthebeautyhunter 2 роки тому +347

    I can't imagine having someone like Eamon during "regular" life, let alone during the hard times. A partner we should all aspire to find and also to be like ❤️

  • @laurac86
    @laurac86 2 роки тому +36

    I didn’t have cancer but I lost a ton of hair after traumatic life event and seeing the clumps of hair coming out in the shower was just hard for me so I feel for you Bec!! You’re beautiful inside and out with hair or without! 🥰

  • @RetroGeekCollective
    @RetroGeekCollective 2 роки тому +102

    When my grandmother went through chemo she of course lost all her hair. As she recovered, for some strange reason as her hair grew back her leg hair never returned. I wish that same gift for you as a trophy for making it through this difficult journey.

    • @nuthouse2385
      @nuthouse2385 8 місяців тому +1

      Leg hair, pubic hair and armpits.. Have to wish for all the annoying parts 😉😁🤞

  • @janna8437
    @janna8437 2 роки тому +436

    Oh Bec, in the words of my 7 year old. “You are stunning inside and out” thank you for sharing your life with us. Your strength and Eamon’s love shine through every episode.

  • @hopscotchtheglobe
    @hopscotchtheglobe 2 роки тому +345

    I know you might think people are just saying "you look so good" to make you feel better...but honestly, you fucking rock this so well!!! You look absolutely stunning. Powerful and badass! You are beautiful inside and out and I just love u guys. - Kristen

  • @reb819
    @reb819 2 роки тому +12

    My fiancé is about to start chemo. I’m very scared. I will be as supporting her through this. The emotional toll has been tremendous. Thank you for the videos.

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  2 роки тому +5

      Sending you both lots of positive thoughts for healing as you journey through chemo! Your strength and support will be so important! You got this! 🤗🤗🤗

  • @phillipgage7356
    @phillipgage7356 2 роки тому +71

    Eamon, you set a good example for the loving and supportive men who are out here going through the cancer battle with the love of their life. Thanks for what you do, buddy. Keep on rocking.

  • @rafaela8161
    @rafaela8161 2 роки тому +93

    Honestly, the moment I saw Bec with a shaved head I thought "Oh my gosh she looks like a model". Keep being strong! You inspire us all. Sending lots of love ❤️

    • @valeriellauke2179
      @valeriellauke2179 2 роки тому +2

      me too !!! ..... and what an awakening.. I used to feel the same about my hair .. then I got old. you're beautiful bec!!

  • @feliciabartenetti1309
    @feliciabartenetti1309 2 роки тому +235

    Breaking down when you wore Lee’s sweater. Can’t think of a stronger person right now then Bec and I can’t think of a more loving and helpful and goofy partner then Eamon. Love you keeping going!

  • @Elvesandragons
    @Elvesandragons 2 роки тому +53

    Out of all the journey videos so far, I held back tears with her. Bravery isn't fearlessness, it's going through the fear because you have to, and doing it anyway. I'm not going through anything physically, but I've been through mental illnesses. Illness is hard to handle. It's great you're doing this. Your husband is great, reminds me of mine. He genuinely sees you're beautiful, physical and spiritually, I can see it. You are beautiful. Thank you.

  • @melissamacleod2616
    @melissamacleod2616 2 роки тому +127

    We need a love button on this channel! The like button isn’t strong enough to show how much you guys are loved.

  • @Stephdeew
    @Stephdeew 2 роки тому +214

    I didn’t think it was possible to feel so proud of someone I’ve never met. You are so strong - even if/when you don’t feel like it. Sharing your story, being so vulnerable, is SO strong.

    • @Lulustella23
      @Lulustella23 2 роки тому

      Wishing you healing and love ♥️♥️ I found your videos by chance on Facebook a few weeks ago and had been enjoying your adventures and how amazing you two humans are as a couple and as individuals… last night while catching up on your adventures I saw what you have been going through… and just wanted to send you both love and healing xoxo take care ♥️

  • @TimeBucks
    @TimeBucks 2 роки тому +141

    Take care and keep going

  • @seekingsurrender1679
    @seekingsurrender1679 2 роки тому +16

    More than ten years ago I was told to go home and get my affairs in order. While at some level that was good advice (I still don't have my things in order) I decided what I really needed was a doctor who had a better plan. Believe in yourself guys, this part will suck at times and there can be great joy on the other side. Sending love 💕

  • @fashionface409
    @fashionface409 2 роки тому +87

    Bec is an absolute stunner with everything she does. Long hair, bangs, Bob cut, shaved head, wigs, head scarfs. Everytime a new look comes up I'm like that woman can pull off anything!!

  • @tegabaahmedia
    @tegabaahmedia 2 роки тому +82

    Let’s take a min to appreciate Eamon! He is really amazing! Still praying for you Bec

  • @doreenduncan3411
    @doreenduncan3411 2 роки тому +103

    Unfortunately society has made having long hair such a definition of beauty that it becomes a crippling thing when something like this happens. You look beautiful like we knew you would.

  • @Lulu-oj3uz
    @Lulu-oj3uz 2 роки тому +27

    Let’s just take a moment and look at Bec, she’s so beautiful and brave! And Eamon he’s an amazing partner, Bec is so lucky to have a kind and caring partner! We wish you all the love!🫶🏻

  • @sandrasam8981
    @sandrasam8981 2 роки тому +135

    Im so sorry you're going through this Bec. Just know all of us never came here for your hair...it's always been about your personalities, your light, your energy, just the amazing people you guys are. Hair or no hair, both of you are beautiful.

  • @highlander723
    @highlander723 2 роки тому +30

    Eamon.... You are what we as men aspire to be in regards to being there for our women.

  • @margaretwerner6690
    @margaretwerner6690 2 роки тому +165

    If anyone can rock a bald head......it's you! And a shout out to Eamon, Bec is so lucky to have you by her side while she navigates this. Top marks for best support person ever!💞

  • @jsyoung4112
    @jsyoung4112 Рік тому +15

    Eamon you are incredible human being. You are the best partner she could have asked for. And Bec.. you DO look so so pretty!!! As women in society we put waaay to much of our worth in looks into our hair as every woman I’ve ever seen shave their head looks just as good, if not better, without hair. It’s a pretty cool thing to realize.

  • @Simbecile
    @Simbecile 2 роки тому +101

    You know someone is physically beautiful when they look stunning bald. Your inner beauty is your real super power Bec, but never worry about how you look without hair because you're smashing it. ❤

  • @erinmc
    @erinmc 2 роки тому +36

    I immediately started bawling when Eamon explained that he picked out that pot to represent that your hair would always grow back. If I don’t have love like that down the road, I don’t want it. 💖 All the best to you both.

  • @purplepuddlenut
    @purplepuddlenut 2 роки тому +11

    Beck is so strong and Eamon is so supportive. It's so nice to see them tag team this and accept that it's okay to greave

  • @mikaelamarie1846
    @mikaelamarie1846 2 роки тому +247

    I've been following you both for.. my gosh.. YEARS.. years. When Bec announced her diagnosis I felt like I was hearing it from a family member. I truly care about you both so deeply and am sure the rest of your community feels the same. Am looking forward to continuing to support you both on this journey. You guys rock

  • @elementsofjaime
    @elementsofjaime 2 роки тому +155

    When you asked if Eamon was ok after he shaved your head was so precious to me. The fact you're going through the hardest battle someone can go through and it's still second nature to nurture those around... You're a beautiful soul. 💓
    PS: You look SO good bald. To me, you don't look sick. You look fierce and strong and beautiful! But as a hairstylist, I know how much our hair can impact our confidence and your sadness over losing your hair is so valid. I think your wig is absolutely beautiful as well and looks so natural and so you. You are an inspiration!

    • @lilybekionzeroad838
      @lilybekionzeroad838 2 роки тому +4

      I completely agree with you Jaime.
      Beck, you have always been... and even more then ever ARE awesomely inspiring AND beautiful in every ways.
      Respect.

    • @ceeceemarie7256
      @ceeceemarie7256 2 роки тому +2

      💖💖💖

    • @gaylealexander-avani3179
      @gaylealexander-avani3179 2 роки тому +2

      So so so true!

  • @janwilson1497
    @janwilson1497 2 роки тому +32

    Big thanks to Eamon for the genuine empathy and care.

  • @lesiak9038
    @lesiak9038 2 роки тому +20

    I Love Eamon he is such a good Partner. Just Amazing how supportive and there he is for her. Bec is mad Strong. Love you guys!

  • @GreenShortzDIY
    @GreenShortzDIY 2 роки тому +952

    Stopping at 22:00 to comment… Bec, your strength lies, in part, in your willingness to share your most vulnerable moments in this journey. Tears don’t represent weakness. They are a valid component in the grieving process, as we come to terms with a struggle, release the stress, reset and soldier onward. Keep up the fight! Praying for your treatment and recovery.

    • @SarahGraymatter
      @SarahGraymatter 2 роки тому +5

      You both are in my thoughts throughout the days. Keep the faith, keep the love💕

    • @lynmaxwell1256
      @lynmaxwell1256 2 роки тому

      Such beautiful words from your soul❤️

  • @JRspeaking
    @JRspeaking 2 роки тому +53

    Man, I wish everyone going through illness could have a supportive partner like you, Eamon.

  • @poppyseed389
    @poppyseed389 2 роки тому +110

    The cute little plant holder representing hair growing back is possibly the most thoughtful sweetest present I've ever seen 😭❤️ you all are adorable. Cannot wait to see all this behind you and brighter sunny days ahead. After difficulty comes ease ❤️ you are so strong sharing such vulnerable moments and helping so many by doing so

  • @clare.farnsworth
    @clare.farnsworth Рік тому +15

    Bec, I think you are so strong and amazing, one of my best friends mom just died of stage four breast cancer and it’s been really hard for me and my family and her family. I remember when she cut her mom’s hair it was very emotional, but a great experience, I love you guys so much! Keep staying strong!❤

  • @shinypearl7745
    @shinypearl7745 2 роки тому +87

    As a girl who has cancer and is almost done with chemotherapy, losing my hair was the easiest part and now I like being bald because I can shower faster 🤣. Chemotherapy is hard but you can do this. You have Eamon and your family to support you. Things get worse before they get better but when your in the worst part you have Eamon and your family to support and care for you. .

    • @tinagodber
      @tinagodber 2 роки тому +12

      Uve got this too and almost there! Well done to u

  • @mayra2711
    @mayra2711 2 роки тому +345

    You're beautiful no matter what Bec. It is your amazing personality that shines. Sending so much love 💗

    • @daby8399
      @daby8399 2 роки тому +2

      Yep all about the personality

    • @wishful1thinker
      @wishful1thinker 2 роки тому +3

      SO true! She's ray of sunshine.

    • @CheleBoxy
      @CheleBoxy 2 роки тому +2

      You said it perfectly!!! Bec's aura is big and bright!!

  • @simigill5501
    @simigill5501 2 роки тому +165

    I’ve never cried or ever gotten emotional watching UA-camrs but I feel like I could feel every emotion that Bec felt and was just a ball of tears throughout this video. Hair or no hair you are so absolutely incredible Bec and I commend you for being so strong. I hope and pray that you continue to stay strong throughout this journey. Your followers and UA-cam family are all here supporting you ❤️

    • @1helluvawomen
      @1helluvawomen 2 роки тому

      Me to I still have tears rolling down my face omg!!😩😩😩 She is so strong.❤️

    • @roxie3753
      @roxie3753 2 роки тому

      they are sooo wonderful sweet two of them. Yes me too shed tears for them....

  • @kritzar3627
    @kritzar3627 2 роки тому +1

    Don’t overthink it, Eamons right, you look so cool 👌🏻

  • @mjones8887
    @mjones8887 2 роки тому +147

    “A woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life.”- CoCo Chanel
    I wholeheartedly agree with Eamon that you look so beautiful with a bald head. You literally have the perfect head shape for it and look like a model. I also loved the short bob on you as well. I am happy you are filming the ups and downs of your journey and it seems that you are embarking on a deeper self love journey through this process. You will come out on the other side better for it. I wish you & Eamon health and many blessings to come during and on the other side of this journey. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kierramiller4710
    @kierramiller4710 2 роки тому +84

    Bec’s resilience and strength through this time is incredible and beyond words💖
    But shit, the unconditional and fearless love that Eamon shows her gets me every single time 😭

  • @rodeoandrye
    @rodeoandrye 2 роки тому +34

    I’m fighting depression, not cancer. But I see you fighting Bec, and you inspire me to keep fighting too. Eamon, your love and tender caring for Bec is so beautiful to witness. So grateful to both of you for sharing your journey.

  • @markaaronmontuya1230
    @markaaronmontuya1230 Рік тому +12

    I really love how you two handled the situation. My mom was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer last November 2022. I'm literally about to cry now but I know we'll get through this. Thanks for sharing your story . Hope you inspire more women to fight cancer.

    • @missaimee8514
      @missaimee8514 Рік тому +1

      Im on the same boat! My mom was diagnosed last month with stage 2 and just had her first chemo today. Im around if you want to chat. Prayers and healing to your mom!!

    • @markaaronmontuya1230
      @markaaronmontuya1230 Рік тому

      @@missaimee8514 Thanks! Any way how to message you?

    • @indimist390
      @indimist390 Рік тому

      ​@@missaimee8514 im in the same boat

  • @barbaradunn5915
    @barbaradunn5915 2 роки тому +91

    Not me balling my eyes out when she said “okay stop” the way her voice broke. Bec you are beyond beautiful inside and out. Thank you for letting us watch your journey in your vulnerable heart breaking moments. Thanks for allowing us to see your strength and beauty shine threw. Eamon you are a real rock being there for Bec and helping to remind her how beautiful and loved she is.

  • @Mookbot
    @Mookbot 2 роки тому +59

    I don’t know what made me cry more, the struggle that poor Bec has with coming to terms with the hair loss or the amazing bond and love her and Eamon have. I am so insanely proud of both of them for being so strong and wonderful to each other during this process. You are still so insanely gorgeous, Bec!!

    • @hollyshaw-elliemae
      @hollyshaw-elliemae 2 роки тому +3

      when Bec asked if Eamon was ok while hes shaving her hair off, made me bawl. even in times of such fear and anxiety, shes checking on him. it screams how much they mean to one another.

  • @JB-wp2gn
    @JB-wp2gn 2 роки тому +35

    Eamon is such a perfect partner. So caring and supportive. We should all be so lucky

  • @sallybush6454
    @sallybush6454 Рік тому +3

    This should be a documentary...I've followed both of ur journey...thank u for ur raw and true journey...ur are such a powerful force of nature both of u x

  • @WhataWorld
    @WhataWorld 2 роки тому +160

    He is so loving and is taking care of his girl like he should. Specially during this time. Is so hard the process you are going thru but you are a warrior and you will overcome this. 🙏

    • @robinhoward4204
      @robinhoward4204 2 роки тому +5

      As my mum would say "he is a good man", in every way. To have a beloved partner going through this must be the hardest thing - he's obviously being stronger than ever for Bec!

  • @DudefromDaMidwest
    @DudefromDaMidwest 2 роки тому +22

    Bec, All 1,060,000 think you’re gorgeous with or without hair. Trust me it looks amazing ❤️

  • @acandy7
    @acandy7 2 роки тому +111

    “Okay stop” broke me. We are all crying with you, Bec. You are absolutely stunning! Inside and out. With or without hair. Please feel these big (hugs)) I am sending! ❤️

  • @SamanthaSeltzer
    @SamanthaSeltzer 2 роки тому +12

    “That looks just like me!” I love that you still feel like yourself, and I hope that on this journey you come to realize you look like you and ARE still you regardless of the amount of hair on your head ❤️

  • @smileydragon99
    @smileydragon99 2 роки тому +107

    I don’t really get emotional with people I watch on UA-cam, but bec, I was crying right alongside you this whole time. You are so loved and have so many positive vibes coming your way-and you truly look BADASSS and BEAUTIFUL bald! Also, don’t feel like you have to share everything, this seemed really really hard for you and if you need to do things in private and process please do so

  • @salenakeyes300
    @salenakeyes300 2 роки тому +26

    "you don't need hair for love"
    And my tears just let loose.
    Thank you, for those simple but most beautiful words.

    • @Flaviaamoli
      @Flaviaamoli 2 роки тому

      This moment was incredible!

  • @gemmashade1872
    @gemmashade1872 2 роки тому +75

    Yes a bald head is a sign of a cancer patient, but it's also a sign of a warrior! ❤️‍🔥 So much love all the way from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 xx

  • @madisonwhitney7170
    @madisonwhitney7170 2 роки тому +8

    Having gone through the same process myself, I am so impressed with how you are carrying yourself and letting yourself feel every emotion! I know it's traumatizing and a big change, but you're on the road to getting better and you're just as beautiful as ever! -Fellow cancer survivor

  • @mckennativy9813
    @mckennativy9813 2 роки тому +84

    I found myself continuously whispering “you’re okay” as I watched Bec struggle throughout this video. You are so so beautiful. I know they say it’s just hair, and as much as I want to say that as well- I know that I would also lose my mind because my hair is my world. But knowing that I feel that way, you are now my hero. Because you did it! You are so so strong. 💙

  • @Stoney1217
    @Stoney1217 2 роки тому +60

    I love how you stopped to ask Eamon if he was okay. Such a beautiful partnership and Bec seriously you look freaking gorg. You have a face to pull off any look! Wishing you all the best. Keep fighting strong

  • @ju2training
    @ju2training 2 роки тому +65

    I realize that the validation from a stranger probably has little to no effect on your self love, but I just wanted to say thank you for being so strong and sharing this really tough journey with all of us. Thousands and thousands of people a year go through this alone and are completely terrified but tell nobody that they are struggling and your bravery and vulnerability are the most beautiful things about you! Also doesn't hurt that you're physically beautiful but that isn't what defines you as a person the same way your character does, and you my beautiful stranger are quite possibly the most gorgeous human being on the internet!

  • @judirobbins6767
    @judirobbins6767 2 місяці тому

    I am watching you and it takes me back to my battle with breast cancer! Losing the hair is the most traumatic part of chemo and radiation!! You rock Bec! Seriously, what a brave thing you did documenting this process! I’m sure others will find strength through your story.

  • @tinadawson238
    @tinadawson238 2 роки тому +150

    I’m am appreciative of your brutal honesty throughout this journey. Having not been close to anyone who has had cancer, you are raising such an awareness of the things you have to go through. I imagine you would be such a support for other experiencing similar journeys. Bec, your beauty shines from within therefore you will always be stunning. Stay strong and thank you for sharing this time in your lives with us.

  • @jordandixon3264
    @jordandixon3264 2 роки тому +43

    To me seeing a girl who is bald, my first thought isn't that oh she's sick. It's fuck she is strong! I watched my mom go through this same hair loss journey & to see all the shit she went through & what that bald head signifies it definitely goes well beyond just being sick! You're killing it Bec!!

  • @bayleeniehaus7554
    @bayleeniehaus7554 2 роки тому +21

    When Eamon said “you don’t need hair for love” i started crying 😭 ❤️
    Sending so much love to you both.

  • @meghanmoss8227
    @meghanmoss8227 2 роки тому +15

    I have been scouring the internet trying to find an update. Even a small one. I think about you guys often & hope you guys are ok!!

    • @masonmagruder1228
      @masonmagruder1228 2 роки тому +2

      I have been too.

    • @colliesworld6380
      @colliesworld6380 2 роки тому +2

      Ya I can’t find anything either I’m worried

    • @27ajfarrow
      @27ajfarrow 2 роки тому +3

      Me too! She has been on my mind for several days, and I finally came here to see if anyone knew anything. I’m praying 🙏🏼

  • @BeardedPicker
    @BeardedPicker 2 роки тому +46

    One of the hardest parts in my wife's early fight against breast cancer was shaving her head. It was very emotional for both of us. I have great news for you. It grows back when you beat cancer, and I know you will. It comes back just as beautiful as before.

  • @beccajanestclair
    @beccajanestclair 2 роки тому +231

    Hey Bec, I've noticed you and Eamon haven't posted an update recently, so I wanted to send some love your way and hope that you're as well as you can be xx

    • @adriannakordek6997
      @adriannakordek6997 2 роки тому +32

      Yeah I’m pretty worried there hasn’t been a video today yet… ☹️

    • @aliyaaliah2499
      @aliyaaliah2499 2 роки тому +15

      @@adriannakordek6997 I was wondering what happened to their video today....not even an update to check in. Hoping all is well too

    • @lifestuffvideos
      @lifestuffvideos 2 роки тому +18

      Sameeee... been 2 weeks... I'm worried...

    • @lililinda6947
      @lililinda6947 2 роки тому +39

      I believe it was Eamon who said at this beginning of this that they won’t be sticking to any schedule whether post in a week or month, considering the situation and the already enough pressure and challenge of dealing with it. Similar to anyone else taking time off work. it was either in a video or on Instagram if you want to check back.

    • @ColorMyWorld
      @ColorMyWorld 2 роки тому +12

      @@adriannakordek6997 Me too. It's over 2 weeks. I hope they do a short update for us even if it's just Eamon for 5 minutes.

  • @alannahhawks1621
    @alannahhawks1621 2 роки тому +212

    Eamon’s reaction to “I kinda look cute bald.” is all of us! This has been a really difficult series to watch as someone who has been through cancer at a very young age myself. But I think it is so empowering and beautiful that you are sharing your story. The visual statement of loosing your hair is so hard, but just know that your beauty is not your hair and the journey that you are taking now is so much more beautiful to so many people who need it. ❤️

  • @francetrudelle
    @francetrudelle Рік тому +4

    You poor sweetheart. Going through all of this so soon after Lee's departure. Watching this all I could think of was that it's ok to cry !!! But you DO look amazing ! Kudos to you and Eamon... you guys have all you need to shine through this. Ps. This happened a year ago. I see that you now have the cutest pixie... ❤

  • @lisajones3512
    @lisajones3512 2 роки тому +17

    I went through treatment for breast cancer 11 years ago. My baldness became my badge of courage. Cancer didn’t take away my hair. My willingness to fight did. My hair would come back, but cancer would not. Being bald was my temporary art project. I actually miss it in some ways. Showers and getting ready were so much easier and faster. No shaving for months on end. No time wasted on hair styling. I could be edgy and free by going bald or quickly choose a wig, scarf, hat, bandana, … I hope you have a chance to swim while bald. It feels so silky and magical. I have my hair back, but find that I actually miss the ease and freedom of being bald sometimes. This is a season of incredibly hard things for both of you sprinkled with bits of goodness. Hunker down for the hard and feel the sadness, fear, and anger. Be on the lookout for the bits of goodness, beauty, and humorous strangeness during this time. They have the ability to ease the road you’re on when it gets tough. I wish you both all the best.

    • @paige6028
      @paige6028 2 роки тому +1

      "My baldness became my badge of courage. Cancer didn't take away my hair. My willingness to fight did. My hair would come back, but cancer would not." WHAT A POWERFUL & HEARTFELT STATEMENT! LOVE THIS! ❤ SO glad you're cancer FREE!

    • @petat13
      @petat13 2 роки тому

      Such kind and thoughtful words xx

  • @saulsjourney
    @saulsjourney 2 роки тому +121

    Two years ago, you guys visited a stranger in the welsh mountains, and showed him that he could achieve his dreams. You brought light to a place of darkness and and showed it’s possible.
    And for the 2 more years I’ve followed you both, you’ve continued to do that. You’ve brought so much light in dark times guys. I needed to double comment just to hit you guys harder with a reminder of the work you both do - even without trying. Your ripple effect of positivity and honesty about how to live this life spreads all of the world. ❤️🌞

  • @briandgarside
    @briandgarside 2 роки тому +95

    You guys are so awesome together, you really embody the term “partners”. Stay strong, and eff cancer. You got this Bec!

  • @13taraliane
    @13taraliane 2 роки тому +4

    I just found your channel and I just had my first treatment of chemo for breast cancer. It’s a really big relief to see someone go along on a daily basis for me. Thank you x

  • @amymargison1570
    @amymargison1570 2 роки тому +76

    I was holding it together watching this until “I am wearing Lee’s sweater…”. That was it for me the tear started flowing and they haven’t stopped. The beauty and strength you both exude is so genuine and soul touching💜. Fuck you cancer

  • @josarge4691
    @josarge4691 2 роки тому +124

    Bec, you're not only beautiful, but your courage in sharing this journey is astounding. You have no idea how much you're helping others in a similar situation. Sending love from the UK xxx

  • @BrieElizabeth
    @BrieElizabeth 2 роки тому +92

    I’m crying. I just appreciate how authentic you are and can you imagine the compassion and empathy this video can provide for women going through the same?! I absolutely love that you guys call each other buddy and your relationship seems so kind and honest. Thank you for being so vulnerable. Your strength and your honest emotions are incredible!! You look absolutely beautiful and I’m so happy you have the support and love around you that you need ♥️

  • @seeyourselfsoar6729
    @seeyourselfsoar6729 2 роки тому +1

    Replaying Eamon and Bec's Europe trip. I think we can support them by watching some of our favorites from past adventures.

  • @desireeharnish2263
    @desireeharnish2263 2 роки тому +86

    Showing this hair and breast cancer journey to the world is so brave and selfless. You are going to kick cancer's butt and help so many people come to terms with similar experiences, along the way. Bec you are beautiful inside and out!

  • @sandrajewitt6050
    @sandrajewitt6050 2 роки тому +22

    I think this is the most real thing I've ever seen. I went through a time where I was losing my hair and it was so traumatic. Bec you are a WARRIOR. Thanks for sharing your journey. Eamon, you are a gem. Every woman should be lucky enough to have a partner as supportive as you.

  • @hannahb9864
    @hannahb9864 2 роки тому +36

    This is what the internet should be about. People sharing their emotional, life changing journeys. Imagine someone else going through this emotional journey watching this and feeling so much comfort. Thank you for sharing your journey bec, you're such a brave strong woman

  • @everitchie6098
    @everitchie6098 2 роки тому +2

    You guys are some of the strongest people I know!

  • @hollymitchell9714
    @hollymitchell9714 2 роки тому +50

    I also love how she is finding the positive in everything, “showering without hair is so awesome” and “atleast i’m not getting hair where i don’t want it too.” Such a good reminder to see the glass half full in everything!

  • @monicateeling8693
    @monicateeling8693 2 роки тому +40

    Here's to another million. Isn't it fabulous that you have the strength of will to share your health story. Thousands of humans will gain strength from your strength and positive vibes 💪💪💪💪💪

  • @suetaunton1240
    @suetaunton1240 2 роки тому +96

    I have never commented on anything before but I just had to let you know that watching how you guys go through the things that life throws at you is so inspiring to me. I actually live in Barrie and although I never knew Lee it somehow made it even more poignant to me. I lost my best friend to suicide 7 years ago and I can’t put into words how devastating it was and still is to me. I love how you still include her and honor her in your daily lives because I do the same. And watching you handle cancer and all it’s indignities with such grace and brutal honesty is incredible. My mother was the strongest and most amazing woman I’ve ever known. She was on and off chemo for 14 years and I remember her going through the horrible weakness and nausea, the day she shaved her head, preparing beautiful meals for everyone else that tasted like metal in her mouth. But if anyone asked her about chemo she would say it annoyed her because the appointments interfered with her weekly bridge club. And when asked about her hair loss she would rave about how great it was to never have to shave your legs. She laughed and cried her way through it which allowed us to do the same. She was an inspiration and so are you both. Bec I applaud your willingness to let us all see the realities of it all and I think you are so courageous. Eamon, I don’t want to assume how you feel but I know how I felt and I want to send you huge love and positivity as well because the determination it takes to be the support and love for someone in this battle while also facing you own fear and pain and sadness is huge and I just want you to know you are awesome. I wish you guys nothing but love and strength and peace and to know that people you don’t even know are out here rooting for you.

    • @thebusybee7080
      @thebusybee7080 2 роки тому +8

      Sue Taunton: Your comment is one of the most beautiful and inspiring I have ever read.

  • @MustacheNinja104
    @MustacheNinja104 2 роки тому +1

    i can say with absolute certainty that you, bec, are wonderful human with a love-radiating soul. because of this fact, you will ALWAYS be beautiful

  • @mathiass2285
    @mathiass2285 2 роки тому +28

    I whish I was half as a great husband as Eamon is. The support he shows for his beautiful wife is truly one of a kind. What Eamon and Bec invites us to share here is fantastic. It will help so many of us to realize how important love is.

  • @SamSam-yb3ls
    @SamSam-yb3ls 2 роки тому +67

    I think was one of the most moving depictions of being a woman who's living with cancer I've ever seen. It's brutal, yet beautiful in it's authenticity. Thank you for fo sharing your - both your journeys with us. You're both balls of bright vibrating energy and love and gorgeous inside and out. Much love xx

  • @linds2685
    @linds2685 2 роки тому +110

    This sent me on an emotional roller coaster, I’m a breast cancer survivor and I shared my growth of three years. Bec it is hard but eventually when someone says to you “ it’s just hair” one day you truly will see that it is. I try so many styles now because I’m like well if it falls out at least i know i can rock a bald head lol. I’m praying for your strength and endurance on this journey #pinksis 💓

    • @mjones8887
      @mjones8887 2 роки тому +1

      Wow! Many blessings to you and happy to see you made it to the other side. And everyone is right “It’s just hair”. I think women need to be taught “ it’s just hair” from an early age. Too many of us are tied to our hair not realizing it’s a decoration for our crown. You can still embody your own razzle dazzle without it.

    • @linds2685
      @linds2685 2 роки тому +1

      @@mjones8887 Thank you and you are absolutely right! When i was younger it was all about having straight long hair. Well a few years before my diagnosis I started to love my natural curly hair and then chemo took it. I was devastated. Now I’ve learned it doesn’t make or break me. It’s just an accessory I’m still a full package!

  • @gaypurcell
    @gaypurcell 2 роки тому +6

    Sending you love and healing vibes from Kansas City!! My favorite thing about watching you two is that you call each other “buddy”. It such a good way to remind each other that friendship is so important in a loving relationship. Thank you for sharing all of your journeys with us - through the ups and downs. As a physician, I can tell you that breast cancer in general has a wonderful 90% survival rate at 5 years. You’ve got this!! Your light, positivity, and healthy lifestyle will carry you both through. ❤️

  • @Frmjoandcharlie
    @Frmjoandcharlie 2 роки тому +88

    I’m amazed and in awe of how vulnerable you’re allowing yourself to be, especially in front of the camera. You’re both amazing beautiful human beings. Sending all the love and positivity ❤️

  • @elainecroft1031
    @elainecroft1031 2 роки тому +72

    Everything I wanted to say has been said already, so just wanted you to know that I am in awe of you Bec, and love the support that Eamon gives. You’ve both got this! ❤️

    • @pika8744
      @pika8744 2 роки тому

      IT is so sad to see you suffer with chemo, it will kill you, stop this madness, eat an all fruit diet or better yet fast and eat no food for as long as you can. Cancer is not a disease it is acidosis taking over the body. The medical industry will only add to the problem. If you want to live Bec stop the chemo learn how to heal your body because doctors have no idea what do and will kill you faster than if you did nothing. My advice stop all the meds, all the chemo (RADIATION WILL KILL YOU IT DOESNT CURE ANYTHING IT KILLS). Eat only fruit because this will cleanse the lymph and get the acid out which is what is causing the cancer. Fast as long as you can. Only the body can cure and heal itself, you must get out of the way and stop this medical madness because it is the opposite road of health. If you want to really know how to cure cancer you must understand the cause of all disease and learn the true function of the human body. I know this might sound crazy, but if you want to live and get better pls reply back and I can show you the simple truth. Cancer could be the best thing that ever happened to you but only if you learn the truth or else it will probably end you.

    • @LifeAsItIs478752
      @LifeAsItIs478752 2 роки тому

      @@pika8744 the fact you’re writing this on someone else’s comment suggests to me you can’t even figure out the basics of leaving a comment on the internet, so I have my doubts you have even close to a better understanding of cancer and chemotherapy than a licensed professional. Glad to see UA-cam has a report button for misinformation though!