What To Do When People Hate You

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
  • Ever felt like people mock you, bash you or talk about you and you don't understand why? We've ALL been there. Remember that this fight is spiritual and not physical. Check out this video on what to do when peoples don't like you.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 301

  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee 7 років тому +105

    Heather we love you because no matter how busy you are you always find time to give us that rhema, on time word from God. it never goes unnoticed thank you for all your hard work mama xxx

  • @reesestone06
    @reesestone06 7 років тому +28

    I love this message this is exactly what I'm going through with a coworker. I also feel it's important to be assertive when I need to because some people will try to bully me because I tend to be a pushover and some people mistake my nice and kindness for weakness.

  • @nicholahylton8065
    @nicholahylton8065 7 років тому +37

    "How can God flow through a contaminated heart" ❤x

  • @Jae7rush
    @Jae7rush 7 років тому +12

    unfortunately some people in church are just like the world I agree with you God takes vengence for us🙌🏾

  • @ronaldbeyer9155
    @ronaldbeyer9155 7 років тому +3

    I FEEL TONS BUT TONS BETTER,THANK YOU HEATHER. I STRUGGLED OVER 35 YEARS WITH THIS PROBLEM,TODAY I STUDY AS A PASTOR.I THINK OUR PAST IS BOTHERING EVERYONE SOMETIME

  • @deebeautiful84
    @deebeautiful84 7 років тому +35

    Great video, it seems like everyone wants to be petty and mean!!!! Even Christians!

  • @tessalala272
    @tessalala272 7 років тому +44

    Amen!! It hurts 10 fold when your being persecuted by family. For a season it really broke me, but for the Grace of God!! Im glad he took me through it because he stripped away my wimpy personality. Hallelujah!! Nice try satan but you've already lost. Punk!
    Keep praying, keep fighting the good fight of faith sisters. Love you heather! xx

    • @platinumbranch2056
      @platinumbranch2056 7 років тому +5

      Oh my goodness! Your testimony is the same as mine! No more wimpy me. God loved me through to the other side and stronger than ever in my faith!

    • @tessalala272
      @tessalala272 7 років тому +4

      Amen! God is soooo good

    • @teresa28ist
      @teresa28ist 7 років тому

      Tessa Lala Yes it was worse with family but then I got tired and loved me

    • @pooy9308
      @pooy9308 6 років тому

      That is what is happening to me too. It is hard not to retaliate but I keep telling myself the fight is not really with them it is with myself and struggling to behave in a loving way when I am tempted to to the opposite.

  • @cherishdeb
    @cherishdeb 7 років тому +40

    I sooooo needed this. the anointing repels people and even tho I'm not hateful, ppl hate me when I don't give em a reason to! I realized it's the anointing! it's sooo hard not to react! thank you for this!

    • @danielanchrist
      @danielanchrist 7 років тому +7

      cherishdeb so true! At school (college) the other day, I grabbed so napkins from the dispenser in the cafeteria, and said "excuse me" to the guy sitting near them as he was already eating his food. He then replied sarcastically "you're messy. J***s" saying the Lords name in vain... to which I replied, "He is amazing." He literally went to another table. It worked out because there were other ladies who were joining me. To watch what God did was so cool! Because of His covering, people walk away.

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 5 років тому

      me too.

    • @anikadiamond007
      @anikadiamond007 4 роки тому

      I prayed that GOD will reveal why people are so mean, rude and hateful to me for now reason. This is so helpful! GOD is speaking.

  • @danielacosta2155
    @danielacosta2155 3 роки тому +1

    Praise Almighty God🙏💎👑🐻🌞 "i Am His And He Is mine"

  • @srichey444
    @srichey444 7 років тому +15

    Praise God that Haters are Elevators! We were warned in The Bible that in the last days hearts would harden and love would run cold....so stay on guard! Recognize the devil when you see it, knowing that God is your vindicator. Let them haters hate! 💜💙💛

  • @yasminbagley8826
    @yasminbagley8826 7 років тому +97

    I get so happy when you post a video 😊💜

  • @joyceogunlade7571
    @joyceogunlade7571 5 років тому +1

    Definitely needed this word today! Praise God for Godly counsel

  • @mocabbymodel
    @mocabbymodel 7 років тому +5

    Thank you rather for this it was much needed! Honestly I don't care who hates me anymore every since I got saved I been focusing on God,loving him and living for him .....I just pray for people and still love them

  • @TabasTV
    @TabasTV 7 років тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this, I remember years ago I was accused by a person of being at a hotel with the assistant pastor and it was one of the greatest hurt I had experienced in my life at that time but there was always something going on there always drama in that church. They knew me they knew my walk with the Lord yet they treated me horribly. I eventually left that church and I have no regrets. Thank God for his healing and I forgave them even though they continued to accuse me and never apologized.

  • @nonhlenhleko2992
    @nonhlenhleko2992 5 років тому

    I struggle a lot with people bondage and every once in a while I have to come back here to re-watch. Thank you Heather! ❤

  • @itsbiggerthanuslosangeles5058
    @itsbiggerthanuslosangeles5058 7 років тому +19

    Great video Heather! I believe this word is for the trial blazers making kingdom moves. Dont get distracted. Dont get caught up in the world. #TeamChrist

  • @debbiemills1319
    @debbiemills1319 7 років тому +1

    When I tell you Heather just helped me and she is so current. Thank you LORD for loving me enough to correct me. Heather you are a awesome and powerful vessel . I watched this on my lunch break and Wow!!! 😥😥😥

  • @SoulStyleBeauty
    @SoulStyleBeauty 7 років тому +52

    Amen, amen, amen 🙏🏾! Wonderful video Heather. We often forget what God has done on the cross. This is also the root of pride. We must remember to humble ourselves. Jesus' act on the cross was an example of humility. I pray for the people who dislike me/act weird. It helps me so much.

    • @Deanna974
      @Deanna974 7 років тому +10

      SoulStyleBeauty Yes! We need to never take our eyes off the cross, though it's easy to do, with the distractions and cares of this world.
      A coworker said (behind my back) that I don't deserve my position because I made some mistakes. My tendency is not to clap back, but to internalize and let it get me down like it's the worst thing ever. And that's foolishness because Jesus, who is GOD, endured blasphemy for my sake.

    • @heatherthames1
      @heatherthames1 7 років тому +3

      Deanna I have the same problem. I don't naturally retaliate,but internalize. I've learned to pray as well,but it is still hard.

  • @s2bmb_335
    @s2bmb_335 7 років тому +2

    I needed to hear this. I had a rough day at work and I don't have any Godly people/friends to vent to. Thank God I can get online and watch Heather who says just the right things you need to hear! Thank you, Heather!

  • @ellenhenderson6865
    @ellenhenderson6865 7 років тому +1

    This is soooo helpful. Telling people off and gloating is an "apple". It's temptation from evil. It is sooooooo hard to resist to turn away from. I so needed this! Thank You!!!!

  • @bartakin
    @bartakin 5 років тому

    SMILE AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE DEEPLY LOVED...AMEN

  • @jacquelines.347
    @jacquelines.347 7 років тому

    Thank you for sharing this message, Heather! My husband and I have been battling against negativity and rejection from his childhood friends because of our faith, so this message is perfectly on time!

  • @sheddspeaks9328
    @sheddspeaks9328 7 років тому +2

    this is so needed for me right now. I'm thankful you mentioned we don't war against flesh and blood, that totally shifted my perspective! Still hurts, but I know I'll get through it. Thanks Heather for such a timely word!

  • @ang_ro
    @ang_ro 6 років тому

    I'm not Christian, but was just looking for advice on people being hateful toward me for no reason I could surmise. And this advice was very helpful.
    "God" to me is just the universe, the mechanics of the threads of life I don't really understand but know they are in constant play for my best interest. So I need to accept that if people don't like me or don't want me around, even though I never wronged them, that it's ok and they just aren't in the plan for my life.
    Thanks so much. You're a bright light.

  • @delphinelache2459
    @delphinelache2459 6 років тому +3

    Wow. I love the "my soldiers don't get entangled in the affairs of the world". That just hit me like "bang!"

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 3 роки тому +1

    I've been treated worse by people at church than elsewhere. It's like they form cliques there, and never wanted me in any of them. I mean, they form cliques elsewhere too, but it was no better at church. 🙄

  • @Destiny_detroitdoc
    @Destiny_detroitdoc 7 років тому

    I had to come back to this message and relisten! I am going through something very similar! There is someone in my life who I feel has a problem with me in particular. That's the energy that I get. I absolutely think that it's spiritual beacuse I don't recall doing anything to him that would warrant how he treats me differently from everyone else. To be honest, I could very well give him a piece of my mind, but I think that it's soo high school to do that and I'm 26. Behind re-watching this, I'm going to chose to not let me become angry or bitter because that means that he would have power in my life and I can't have that! Thank you Heather for a great message!!! I'm all the more motivated to continue showing the love of Christ, because he is my exceeding reward. Promotion and Victory comes from him and I dare not forfeit blessings in my life because my heart is full of unforgiveness. I believe this is a test. When persecution come against you, will you wholeheartedly follow Jesus? YES SIR I WILL! :) :) :)

  • @godfirst3595
    @godfirst3595 7 років тому +6

    as busy as you are you still have time to know just what we need to hear! thank you

  • @lovemanier.6172
    @lovemanier.6172 7 років тому +1

    Thank you for this, I always feel like people don't like me. I really think about it and try to figure why, or if I'm doing something wrong, but I just don't know what I'm doing wrong.

  • @StoicHermitMonk
    @StoicHermitMonk 7 років тому +1

    In my environment if people hate you you're doing something right.

  • @RepentAndBelieve1437
    @RepentAndBelieve1437 7 років тому

    This is so GOD I SO NEEDED THIS. I REPENT I NEED TO GUARD MY HEART MY GOSH. IT MAKES ME BECOME LIKE THE ONE THAT GOT ME MAD IN THE FIRST PLACE... this is truly where you die to self and carry our cross..

  • @jacleineely2127
    @jacleineely2127 7 років тому

    SUCH A GREAT MESSAGE AND REMINDER DURING THIS SEASON. Just came out of a season regarding this topic and everything you said about not bringing it up to others even when people asked about the situation was exactly what God told me to do. You are speaking the truth of how much it can plague your heart and make you feel toxic if you don't just stop and pursue God with all our heart and ask God how to move forward in love as GOD says so to do not as I felt. Thank you for this message!.

  • @AnnBaileyLLC
    @AnnBaileyLLC 7 років тому +4

    I so did this today! and I need to do better and pray that god delivers me to do better and be better. your right and this is something I know because I have been growing in God. people I love will hate me not because of something I did but just because they see the calling. its okay your right respond in love and trust I'm trying. god is amazing! I know every problem that repeats itself just gives me a better way to find a solution. peace, love, grace, forgiveness is what god tells me. he is my vindicator.

  • @iiixlovexyuhh
    @iiixlovexyuhh 7 років тому

    this is such a great message, as Christians most of us know this already, but it is so important to be reminded of it, it helped me self-reflect

  • @Dont_look_back_711
    @Dont_look_back_711 7 років тому +2

    That is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you SO MUCH Heather!! I'm in a relationship and my partner's son's mother makes every moment a living hell for us because she doesn't like me due to jealousy or fear of being replaced but thats not my intention. It's rough, so thank you for the encouraging words and being light in my path.

  • @lillaszasz
    @lillaszasz 7 років тому +4

    Wow - amazing. One of the BEST UA-cam videos I've ever seen, honestly. I'm in awe. Praise God! THANK YOU so much!

  • @pauloporfirio5938
    @pauloporfirio5938 7 років тому

    Hi Heather! You are such a blessing! It's as if you know what's happening in my life and know the exact Word that I need. I am blessed by your ministry!

  • @officialJasmineG
    @officialJasmineG 7 років тому +3

    Guarding my Heart from pollution! Amen

  • @ArtfromWonderland
    @ArtfromWonderland 7 років тому

    Wonderful wonderful wonderful message! Walking through this challenging season, your video brings hope, guidance and re-routing for my heart. Bless you abundantly, Heather 💖🙏🏼💖

  • @vc7710
    @vc7710 6 років тому +2

    You really heal my pain by your advicses.

  • @darkfolkblues
    @darkfolkblues 7 років тому

    Another on time message. Thank you for your obedience and teaching us Sister. Much love❤🔥

  • @miriamsworld127
    @miriamsworld127 7 років тому

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS! this has really been on my spirit lately as ive dealt with bullies and just feeling unloved, and its been haunting me ever since. I really needed this thank you so much for listening to God and posting this video! appreciate you heather

  • @ladyphenom84
    @ladyphenom84 7 років тому +1

    This video was right on time! I sometimes struggle with this and have been praying that God helps me in this area. God bless you Heather!

  • @Aliciam139
    @Aliciam139 7 років тому +1

    Timely message from God! God bless you woman of God and thank you for driving out darkness! Praise God!

  • @JustcallmeRuvi
    @JustcallmeRuvi 7 років тому +2

    I love you Ms. Heather Lindsey! I love that line: I'm working on something !

  • @eabutterfly
    @eabutterfly 7 років тому +6

    thanks for sharing this, Heather!! I feel this way a lot, even wrote a blog post about it last night with how Christians are coming against the president in volume and hatred. No matter what anyone does or how mad we are, we have to respond in love!

  • @josiebanks7086
    @josiebanks7086 6 років тому

    Iam a new subscriber here, i thank God that i found your channel because i was going through so much hate at my workplace but You have uplifted me. thank you so much. So much love from Uganda, Africa

  • @Totally_Toyia
    @Totally_Toyia 7 років тому +1

    I love your ministry! This video is so on time after the day I had today I almost allowed my flesh to win and try to retaliate but thanks for giving this word it helped me make the decision not to be spiteful even though I'm being attacked for no reason. I prayed and asked God to give me a clean heart and then all of a sudden this video came up as a suggestion thanks for being obedient to God and sharing this word today! Truly blessed me. God bless you and please keep sharing your heart.

  • @EC-sp3sv
    @EC-sp3sv 6 років тому +3

    Always an on time message!! Your spirit and your passion is needed in a season as this in my life. I thank God I found your page while scrolling through Instagram 💞💞💞

  • @sophie4101
    @sophie4101 5 років тому +1

    I'm not religious but this video really helped me. Thank you.

  • @leonacarterd
    @leonacarterd 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much Heather! This was well needed.
    I face with so much slander on the day to day basis and I was unsure on how to handle it. But you provided a mature response to how to severe a situation that tried to distract you. I will use this strategy.
    God bless you ♥️

  • @jesuslovesyouokay4800
    @jesuslovesyouokay4800 7 років тому +1

    I Thank God for using you to share this message 🙌🏿🙏🏿

  • @thedioxxalela
    @thedioxxalela 7 років тому +14

    Yasss to this jacket Mrs. Heather 💖

    • @cherishdeb
      @cherishdeb 7 років тому

      OnceUponACake loool right!!!!

  • @Afrinaturality
    @Afrinaturality 7 років тому +1

    This message is so applicable to me. So timely and so relevant. Thank you.

  • @VeganTri
    @VeganTri 7 років тому +1

    Thank GOD for you, your family and you all's ministry!

  • @theviviers2756
    @theviviers2756 7 років тому +4

    Praise God!! This is so timely for me. God bless your heart and hands Heather!! 😍💜💜💜✝✝✝

  • @abibola1234
    @abibola1234 7 років тому +3

    This is SUCH a great message.

  • @hollid175
    @hollid175 7 років тому +2

    God bless you Heather. You are helping so many people.

  • @athenaalexis21
    @athenaalexis21 7 років тому

    Hello Heather, I so needed to hear this. Thank you for the spiritual food.

  • @jordanalmond3458
    @jordanalmond3458 7 років тому +1

    You are so awesome! Thank you for living so boldly and sharing your wisdom!

  • @YouReallyMadHuh
    @YouReallyMadHuh 7 років тому

    I simply believe in higher power, but I stopped being a Christian and believing in blessings and praying and you shall receive, and if you do this and that then everything will go well for you. None of that happened to me or my family and it hurt me so much to the point I just came to terms with it's best to stick to just believing in a higher power, which I do from personal experience. I do love your videos though as I just found your channel and I need help with this since I am dealing with this personally with my brother. For the last few days I just had so much hate, hurt, bitterness and just disbelief on how he could just hate me and treat me like nothing and I tried to fix it but I realize I can't force someone to change. I am only hurting myself the more I chase after someone who holds no interest in a relationship with me, so I walked away and told myself if its meant to be that we will come together

  • @Itstmera
    @Itstmera 7 років тому

    Omg definitely sharing this, this is a word we alllllll need to hear! It's so easy to get caught up in bad mouthing people and gossiping, especially when you're the one that's been wronged; but what would Jesus do? Pray for them and forgive them. ❤ Thank God for the work he's doing in you!

  • @kirktrades1254
    @kirktrades1254 7 років тому

    Thats good. "Love is Patient Love is Kind". Thank You, I needed some food for the soul.

  • @v4nessa169
    @v4nessa169 7 років тому +1

    people made me feel bad

  • @portias6691
    @portias6691 5 років тому

    Gurl where have you been all my life? Love you Heather I'm so glad God led me to you... Keep doing the good work you do... Stay blessed

  • @shanalee8469
    @shanalee8469 7 років тому +1

    God bless your ministry Heather. A very timely message

  • @YaAllahswt
    @YaAllahswt 7 років тому +4

    This old lady hates me cause of the way I fix my hair and the clothes I wear and I'm 16 and I should be doing better lmfao. She always talks about me to my mom and her husband and probably other people and they don't know what's her problem because they say I'm a nice kid that barely speaks and she hates me. So yeah. It effects me a little bit because I never had someone talk about me the way she does but then again I remember she's on the verge of death and I'm young with a whole lot ahead of me. Just needed to vent that :) thanks for this vid.

  • @komiwepf586
    @komiwepf586 7 років тому +1

    this message is just what I needed. I feel so blessed and enriched.❤

  • @honeytemptations
    @honeytemptations 7 років тому +1

    Man this message was right on time. I'm dealing with this right now

  • @MarcusandCarolButler
    @MarcusandCarolButler 7 років тому +1

    Thank you for posting this, awesome word and reminder!

  • @LS-tg3vw
    @LS-tg3vw 7 років тому +1

    Amen Praise God I am so excited for this new season!!

  • @az0935004
    @az0935004 5 років тому

    Well said! This really touched me God bless you Heather Lindsey 💗👏🏾

  • @kristinaclio
    @kristinaclio 7 років тому

    Thank you Heather so much!!!!!! This is the word I've been waiting to hear for so long. Thank you God!

  • @FaithInCurls
    @FaithInCurls 7 років тому +8

    thank you for this, it was right on time.

  • @rinam857
    @rinam857 7 років тому +2

    Hi Heather :) just wanted to say thank you, Your videos have helped me so much..! You are a blessing to so many, God is so good!
    Have a wonderful day ❤

  • @typhanieNco
    @typhanieNco 7 років тому +2

    Thank you Heather for being obedient to the Holy Spirit! This message was right on time!!! Literally

  • @traumamom4338
    @traumamom4338 7 років тому

    Love my sissy heather! She's such a blessing to the kingdom.

  • @frontcentertheatreacademy4477
    @frontcentertheatreacademy4477 6 років тому

    Just what I needed today! Thank you!

  • @angellesmith7585
    @angellesmith7585 5 років тому

    Amazing message!!!! Thanks for sharing!!!! Blessings!!!

  • @chikiyabalthrop9840
    @chikiyabalthrop9840 7 років тому

    Thank you for this message came at the right time . Love you heather

  • @antraD1
    @antraD1 7 років тому

    I thank you for this message and it really hit home and you have a wonderful and blessed weekend thank you so much I have been really enjoying the messages that I've been looking at

  • @TheEducatedandproud
    @TheEducatedandproud 6 років тому +1

    Heather, I really needed to hear this video. Thank you so much for making it.

  • @MsRavie21
    @MsRavie21 7 років тому

    Lord knows I needed to see this . You are amazing Heather ! You are really helping me on my journey.

  • @gracefiso4166
    @gracefiso4166 7 років тому

    Thank you 😊 you made my day i had a feeling some people hates me but i fight for

  • @stillsingleuk
    @stillsingleuk 7 років тому

    Thanks for the video Heather! Forgiveness is so necessary

  • @LuvandGlamour
    @LuvandGlamour 7 років тому +1

    Such a helpful and encouraging message. To God be the glory.

  • @10tonnaj
    @10tonnaj 7 років тому

    Thank you so much🙏🏾🙏🏾 I needed this💜

  • @Expensive-op6pn
    @Expensive-op6pn 7 років тому

    God bless you Heather for this message

  • @fulaqueen
    @fulaqueen 7 років тому

    heather your so amazing girl love the anointing on your life , your sermons impact me so much you are spirit led girl can't wait until you preach in New York 🙌🏽🙏🏾💙

  • @leanoraplummer9987
    @leanoraplummer9987 6 років тому

    Thanks for this heather.. u hit it on the head. When u talk about conflicts with believers.. i usually pray for them sometimes i even delete their number because they are so disingenuine towards me its almost like i was forcing a relationship with them. But i pray that i dont hate them and love them still

  • @livvyl0u82
    @livvyl0u82 5 років тому

    Oh my goodness I cannot tell you how much I love this and love you… I so needed this today! Will definitely try to be in touch when I have more time to talk!! Your videos are probably all awesome. Much love 💕💗🥰

  • @tanjagibbs3361
    @tanjagibbs3361 7 років тому +2

    I really needed this ❤ the hate and rejection in my life is coming from my husband and he can't even explain why he feels the way he feels. we are in an unequally yoked marriage and at the time of getting married I knew God but I didn't KNOW him or his word. I know I'm fighting the spiritual world with this one which makes it very difficult.

  • @BUTTERFLYAMBASSADOR
    @BUTTERFLYAMBASSADOR 7 років тому

    Wow Praise God ! sis I love how excited we are about life ; Jesus is B.A.E (before anyone else) Thank you Heather♡ for being led by God in everything you do. I needed to hear this

  • @mariamodica6899
    @mariamodica6899 6 років тому +1

    god this changed me so much

  • @HeartofDon
    @HeartofDon 7 років тому

    I'm blessed by this message. Thank you for this application of His word.

  • @roselinebenjamin7598
    @roselinebenjamin7598 7 років тому

    Praise the Lord!!! Right on time!

  • @georgemonteros3690
    @georgemonteros3690 7 років тому +1

    I love the video. Unfortunately, there are times when, not because you hate them, you have to block them because of their behavior of continually accusation at you, demanding, and have entitlement issues. Sometimes you have to put boundaries on people because of the above issues. Boundaries are important. You don't allow people to bash, accuse, and say evil things. Sometimes you have to love people from afar because they justify their bad behavior. Satan was an accuser and many times Satan uses others as a medium to accuse others or say cruel things because they are angry.

  • @lissamathieu5935
    @lissamathieu5935 7 років тому

    Yeeesss! I love this!!
    I love your backdrop! it's so festive! :-)

  • @BeautyInSparkles
    @BeautyInSparkles 7 років тому

    Thanks Heather this is very encouraging.

  • @HappyNappyYaya
    @HappyNappyYaya 7 років тому

    Right on time thanks Heather!!!