But if the angel is not putting efforts as well in a relationship then he’ll simply walk away with his heaven.Men also hopes for gifts,flowers,compliments from his girl.
toxic men have dream girls but they do not have the character to keep their dream girl. dont take it personal. you could be his dream girl but he is not worthy of you.
You should ask God for everything. EVERYTHING. No matter how you feel about it, if you feel ashamed or think He won't intervene. You give Him first dibs to change the situation. don’t think He can, know He can. “I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?” _ Jeremiah 32:27 “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” _ Matthew 17:20-21. “And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” _ John 14:13-17 “‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.” _ Mark 9:23
Once I felt in love with a man, but when I discovered that he met with another girl, I blocked him. The whole situation hurt me really long time, but Alessia made me realize it was correct behavior. After that he wanted to get me back, but there is no more possibility for this man. Ladies, know your worth
Same thing happened, I was starting to get deeper feelings for a guy, then I found out he had emotionally abused some girls in the past for YEARS, he resulted to be a covert narcissist. As soon as I found out I dumped him and ofc it hurt me but I will always put myself first
Same happened to me, he told me in the beginning he has dated girls who were crazy, one wanted to study medicine just because of him, he had women standing in front of his house, he talked to his ex on the phone while I was in the same room claiming it was work related. I should have walked out right there but I gave him a chance. I regret it so much. NEVER AGAIN. @@user-th3ez5sj9y
Important Notes: +Neediness is unattractive and pushes people away from you. +When someone doesn't want you, it makes you want them more. +A man will do anything for his dream girl. +Masculine energy: wanting to provide with what he has, willing to care for you and do everything to make you happy.
#2 is a very stupid and very easy way to get blown off and ignored by a guy who has a crush on you. This is literally one of the biggest, easiest fuckups a woman can do with us. This is 10x more true in the post metoo bullshit. Any woman acts like she doesn't want a man in this day and age, she WILL lose him. This is the same kind of stupid game playing shit that, like making a guy chase you, playing hot and cold, trying to flirt with all the guys but him, is going to be taken for being a dishonest and manipulative woman that is a complete turn off and he's going to blow you off and ignore you. I bet you guys tried this already, didn't you? And he stopped chasing you and started ignoring you too, didn't he? When you pretend to not want someone you better be ready for them ignoring you, because men don't work like women. We don't do this stupid shit with reverse psychology. We want women that want us. "I would never want a man this easy to get" you, yeah that's YOU. Don't be hard to get. Not putting out isn't the same as being hard to get. All of these stupid games are the kind of shit you can probably pull with some inexperienced fuckboys but you just try and watch what happens when you pull this on any kind of a man who's older, who's more experienced, or has any kind of integrity or standards just watch how fast he blows you off entirely. 3:57 this is stupid and terrible advice. Watch however many women here tried this. And watch how he pulls back. Watch how he ignores you. And if you try and act like you don't like him, and do this being hard to get shit, he's eventually going to pull back so far now YOU are stuck chasing HIM. I've seen women do this shit so many times, and each time some dumb young woman does this she looks like a total ass in front of all the other women, because maybe a lot of the men don't, but the women definitely know what just happened and why. He won't pull back because you gave too much, he's going to pull back when you pull back. My God this is stupid.
You should ask God for everything. EVERYTHING. No matter how you feel about it, if you feel ashamed or think He won't intervene. You give Him first dibs to change the situation. don’t think He can, know He can. “I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?” _ Jeremiah 32:27 “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” _ Matthew 17:20-21. “And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” _ John 14:13-17 “‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.” _ Mark 9:23
finally someone stated that feminine energy doesn’t work for everyone , especially for those who went through much and who are willing to take responsibility and challenges.
As a man I want to advise women - never get intimate with a man until your wedding night. This may not be the "traditional" thing to do nowadays, however it is one of the reasons why there are so many people getting used abd discarded. If they try it with you then tell them that if they are actually serious then they will wait until the wedding night. That way you will get rid of those with the wrong intentions. Many men will tell you anything just for you to fall for them so that thry can get intimate with you. Once you give them what they want then they will very quickly lose interest and respect for you. If he really wants you then he will marry you. Even if your engaged then do not do it under the assumption that your going to get married anyway, as I've seen many engagements crumble for various reasons. Also when you get intimate with a relationship partner then when things go wrong then you wont be as hurt as you would be if you gave yourself fully to them. So wait until your wedding night. That way you will filter out the wrong types of men. Intimacy is sacred and not to be dished out to a person that you may or may not end up with in the long run. In constantly doing so, then you'll end up having a body count of double figures by the time you actually end up with the right person for the long term. You owe yourself much more respect and self love than that. Only one person should ever be entitled to intimacy with you and that is your marriage partner.
@falakchanga8435 my bf and I are still young. We didn't have s£x but...we did get intimate....we saw each others' bodies, despite I told him that I wanna wait till marriage....but I ended up giving in...he doesn't love me just for physical relationship..I hope ...but does it mean that he disrespected me? But the fact that I was not okay with being intimate at such an early stage before even dating, I ended up being OK with going to his house to have "fun"
this was so inspirational I usually don't watch videos like these all the way through, but I respect you so much for giving us confidence and reminding females that we are powerful as we are.
I'm literally watching videos like these so I can redflag women more easily. I want to be able to disqualify gold diggers and entitled, narcissistic, shallow, high maintenance women without needing to waste more than one dinner on any of them.
Nice video!." My five year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him,"
It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him.
Alessia, I adore listening to your 'No!' right after you described a bad behaviour. It's iconic at this point and so spot on! I learn a lot from you, greetings from The Netherlands, neighbour 😊
i started my healing journey 9 months ago and ive noticed ive been more comfortable recieving and being in my feminine energy. even if you have had to be in your masculine energy because of trauma, with time, you can heal yourself. remember to be patient loves, i can assure you it gets better
thank u sm for all u do for us, u heal part of us u didn’t break and u taught me to see things for what they really are and not what I created in my head, thank u sm Ilysm 💜
[my notes] HOW TO MAKE HIM CHASE YOU 0:18 1. Look how you react to certain things 1:42 if that's the case, heal baby heal !! 🤍🤍 Because you can't attract a masculine man at that stage... So, heal 🦦 2. Never lay yourself out in a silver platter 3:24 😮 3. 4:01 if you're too easy, he'll leave 😢 4. 4:30 don't act as if you're hard to get, be hard to get. ❤ 5. 4:46 he should prove himself🎉 6. 5:51 anything else but a big yes is a no🎉 7. 6:11 when someone shows u their real face, don't overpaint it😮 8. 6:47 take them as who they're and act accordingly!!! 😮 9. 7:25 be aware of Ur own ego. Learn how to take rejection 😢 10. 13:35 if a man wants an angel, he should create heaven for her. An angel won't live in hell 😊 11. 14:26 everything that triggers shows places u need healing 😊 13. 14:38 no one is Ur other half. Have Ur routines, have Ur life together. A man is an addition!!🎉🎉🎉 14. 15:08 be secure in yourself🎉 15. 15:42 NO MAN IS THE SOLUTION TO EVERYTHING!!!! 🎉🎉 16. 16:02 SHOW APPRECIATION if they do smth right 😊 17. 16:41 let them take control bbg ❤ 18. 16:58 feed their ego lol😅 19. 17:11 never fight with another woman about a man 🤍🤍🤍 please don't!! 20. 17:36 don't make him the price bruh ewwww 😂😂 21. 17:49 you want a selective man 22. 18:01 never reward bad behaviour 😅 23. 18:13 match his energy 🎉🎉 24. 18:39 it's a game for him ✍️ Ily girls!
I clicked eventhough I am not interested "to make" anyone chase me. I am here , trusting someday when it's the right person , he will do that without me having to do anything for me. If I really liked someone the biggest thing I can do is smile ❤ wishing you fulfilling love people
I got so excited to see the title of the video. But when i saw i felt so ashamed and i cried whole heartedly because it triggered the part where she told us not to do certain things to man and i did that exactly and for the good four years , i have tried to mold him, i have waited for him but he never did anything for me. Though its been two days and i have left him. I hope i will heal myself soon. And I truly love your videos. Thank you so much.
My goodness, this has helped me a lot. And i confess i was guilty of falling for my own illusions. I wanted him to do this and that, always asking for attention and always explaining. But thank God i woke up from that, i am building myself up now. And i will never settle for less than i want. Love you ❤
Important life lesson, just be nice, kind and understanding these alone shall get you far in life, never expect things from people in return always just do good and good comes back in some way shape or form. I also think that good personality is the most atractive thing on this planet looks are just a bonus and everyone needs someone who cares and looks after them wether you are male or female at the end of the day we are all human beings and we have feelings/emotions.
You’re so right! I think this video was really helpful, we should have standards and respect them. It would be awesome if you could expand more into how to enter our feminine energy and also some good traits every nice woman should have. For example men are expected to be gentlemen and provide, but what about women? I would like to be my best version to attract a partner who is his best version too :) thanks!
Persephone thank you for your words,they are very comforting and you are such a Nice lady you deserve Love as you share yours with us and thats your greatest gift x
I really needed this video 3 years ago hahaha I was "in love" so badly with a guy that didn't want me, and I knew he was bad for me, so I had to fight my own feelings, it was awful omg😮💨 😂
You are my lights after my bf haven't texted me back for 32 hours and i might break up with him after watching this. I love your video. Thank you so much. I'm so grateful that i found your channel🥺 I will take my energy and power back to me.
You just saved me love like I did all the things and after listening to you my mind goes like crazy 😭 now i will make my self better I let him chase I want that men but this time I am not going to beg I will attract and this is what I learn from you you are too adorable ily💗✨
You should ask God for everything. EVERYTHING. No matter how you feel about it, if you feel ashamed or think He won't intervene. You give Him first dibs to change the situation. don’t think He can, know He can. “I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?” _ Jeremiah 32:27 “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” _ Matthew 17:20-21. “And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” _ John 14:13-17 “‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.” _ Mark 9:23
Oh my god thank you so much for the video. It’s been quite a while since we talked and i was really thinking about throwing a little hint to him but since the ball in his court he needs to apologize and approach to me. NEVER REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
thank you❤ this made me realize i can do so much better, my ex best friend set my standards because he used to take me orchestras and Musicals and id get all fancy and dressed up, but all my new bfs aren't even doing the bare minimum
Then why are they your bf's? And why do you have more than one bf? A high value male is not into girls that are around the block like that because it lowers value.
Your Majesty, Alessia, thank you for this adorable video 💕 the phrase "don't fall in love with your own illusion of someone" opened my eyes on my life...
I was in a flirting stage with a guy, then i realized he has bad intentions and removed my presence immadiately. All of sudden he started chasing me like he loved me but he did not. I was still being objectified, fetishized. I didnt look at his face. He made fun of me saying "mary, mother of jesus" I still dont look at him But this happened twice it will happen even more
Thank you. I needed to remind myself of this. I like him, but he's getting more energy than deserved from me right now vs his amount of effort. He has done nice things so far don't get me wrong. He brought me books as a gift. And I love books so I do appreciate it and let him know. But it's still not enough effort to see me around his schedule. I feel I should pull away but he constantly keeps contacting me. Any adadvice is appreciated so that he steps his dating game up. I feel intuitively it's a good connection.
Feminine Energy means receiving but Yall miss the Memo that it also means serving and nurturing your Family.. Not just looking cute and buying you stuff🤦🏻♀️
i love this video, while you are talking, I was really crying specially when you say you are already whole without man. I really need this right now. :)
Definitely great advice. I just dealt with a situation like this and I handled it just how you described it in this video. Thanks for the confirmation.
"If a man wants an angel, he will create heaven for her. Because angels don't live in hell." This hit hard
oh gohhhd
ouch and whoa
i love it, in the end it's his choice 😍
But if the angel is not putting efforts as well in a relationship then he’ll simply walk away with his heaven.Men also hopes for gifts,flowers,compliments from his girl.
'A man will do everything for his dream girl. He would never do anything that will make him lose her'
toxic men have dream girls but they do not have the character to keep their dream girl. dont take it personal. you could be his dream girl but he is not worthy of you.
yess, a lot of them actually chase toxicity and a lot of times when they find the perfect girl they self sabotage their relationships@@basicinfo2022
cap of a lifetime
@@basicinfo2022agreed
Ew. Sounds like a perverted man to me
"It hurts our ego to be rejected "
"Match his energy"
You should ask God for everything. EVERYTHING. No matter how you feel about it, if you feel ashamed or think He won't intervene. You give Him first dibs to change the situation.
don’t think He can, know He can.
“I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?”
_ Jeremiah 32:27
“Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”
_ Matthew 17:20-21.
“And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.”
_ John 14:13-17
“‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.”
_ Mark 9:23
Your channel is singlehandedly helping me get over my ex. Thank you.
NO ITS LITERALLY THE POINT DONT
whattt!@@ablahere2090
@@ablahere2090…huh? read their comment again lmfao
Once I felt in love with a man, but when I discovered that he met with another girl, I blocked him. The whole situation hurt me really long time, but Alessia made me realize it was correct behavior. After that he wanted to get me back, but there is no more possibility for this man. Ladies, know your worth
Same thing happened, I was starting to get deeper feelings for a guy, then I found out he had emotionally abused some girls in the past for YEARS, he resulted to be a covert narcissist.
As soon as I found out I dumped him and ofc it hurt me but I will always put myself first
@@user-th3ez5sj9ythat's good. I'm glad you had the courage to leave him.
queen
Same happened to me, he told me in the beginning he has dated girls who were crazy, one wanted to study medicine just because of him, he had women standing in front of his house, he talked to his ex on the phone while I was in the same room claiming it was work related. I should have walked out right there but I gave him a chance. I regret it so much. NEVER AGAIN. @@user-th3ez5sj9y
the best revenge is a self glow up
Important Notes:
+Neediness is unattractive and pushes people away from you.
+When someone doesn't want you, it makes you want them more.
+A man will do anything for his dream girl.
+Masculine energy: wanting to provide with what he has, willing to care for you and do everything to make you happy.
#2 is a very stupid and very easy way to get blown off and ignored by a guy who has a crush on you. This is literally one of the biggest, easiest fuckups a woman can do with us. This is 10x more true in the post metoo bullshit. Any woman acts like she doesn't want a man in this day and age, she WILL lose him. This is the same kind of stupid game playing shit that, like making a guy chase you, playing hot and cold, trying to flirt with all the guys but him, is going to be taken for being a dishonest and manipulative woman that is a complete turn off and he's going to blow you off and ignore you. I bet you guys tried this already, didn't you? And he stopped chasing you and started ignoring you too, didn't he?
When you pretend to not want someone you better be ready for them ignoring you, because men don't work like women. We don't do this stupid shit with reverse psychology. We want women that want us. "I would never want a man this easy to get" you, yeah that's YOU. Don't be hard to get. Not putting out isn't the same as being hard to get. All of these stupid games are the kind of shit you can probably pull with some inexperienced fuckboys but you just try and watch what happens when you pull this on any kind of a man who's older, who's more experienced, or has any kind of integrity or standards just watch how fast he blows you off entirely.
3:57 this is stupid and terrible advice. Watch however many women here tried this. And watch how he pulls back. Watch how he ignores you. And if you try and act like you don't like him, and do this being hard to get shit, he's eventually going to pull back so far now YOU are stuck chasing HIM.
I've seen women do this shit so many times, and each time some dumb young woman does this she looks like a total ass in front of all the other women, because maybe a lot of the men don't, but the women definitely know what just happened and why. He won't pull back because you gave too much, he's going to pull back when you pull back. My God this is stupid.
OML Thank you for the likes
Only an immature fool could agree with the second one.Wise person walk away when the person doesn’t like back.
You should ask God for everything. EVERYTHING. No matter how you feel about it, if you feel ashamed or think He won't intervene. You give Him first dibs to change the situation.
don’t think He can, know He can.
“I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?”
_ Jeremiah 32:27
“Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”
_ Matthew 17:20-21.
“And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.”
_ John 14:13-17
“‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.”
_ Mark 9:23
It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest
finally someone stated that feminine energy doesn’t work for everyone , especially for those who went through much and who are willing to take responsibility and challenges.
Exactly. Some people thrive being in their masculine energy and that’s totally okay.
We just need to be aware of what works best for us 🤍
@@Persephonesmind u replied ?? i feel honored
“Are you in love with him or with what you made him to be in your head “ …… wow !
As a man I want to advise women - never get intimate with a man until your wedding night. This may not be the "traditional" thing to do nowadays, however it is one of the reasons why there are so many people getting used abd discarded. If they try it with you then tell them that if they are actually serious then they will wait until the wedding night. That way you will get rid of those with the wrong intentions. Many men will tell you anything just for you to fall for them so that thry can get intimate with you. Once you give them what they want then they will very quickly lose interest and respect for you. If he really wants you then he will marry you. Even if your engaged then do not do it under the assumption that your going to get married anyway, as I've seen many engagements crumble for various reasons. Also when you get intimate with a relationship partner then when things go wrong then you wont be as hurt as you would be if you gave yourself fully to them. So wait until your wedding night. That way you will filter out the wrong types of men. Intimacy is sacred and not to be dished out to a person that you may or may not end up with in the long run. In constantly doing so, then you'll end up having a body count of double figures by the time you actually end up with the right person for the long term. You owe yourself much more respect and self love than that. Only one person should ever be entitled to intimacy with you and that is your marriage partner.
love your comment❤❤
Yess!!!!
What if I find out he's impotent 😂😂😂
@falakchanga8435 my bf and I are still young. We didn't have s£x but...we did get intimate....we saw each others' bodies, despite I told him that I wanna wait till marriage....but I ended up giving in...he doesn't love me just for physical relationship..I hope ...but does it mean that he disrespected me? But the fact that I was not okay with being intimate at such an early stage before even dating, I ended up being OK with going to his house to have "fun"
Kudos for such a true and valid view! I wish more men thought like you!
THE TIMING IS SO ACCURATE, MOTHER U HEAR MY INNER VOICE 😭💕
SAME 😭😭😭
GIRL SAMEEEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZZ
HOW DOES SHE KNOW WHAT I NEED WHEN I NEED IT ILY 💗
Idk me neither 😭
Mother is mothering 🎉😭
ikr 😭😭
@@k888_ateit!
@@DNfordeadlynightshadegive him a sign show him that u want this thing indirectly if he still can’t get it for u move on to the next
this was so inspirational I usually don't watch videos like these all the way through, but I respect you so much for giving us confidence and reminding females that we are powerful as we are.
same!!!
I'm literally watching videos like these so I can redflag women more easily. I want to be able to disqualify gold diggers and entitled, narcissistic, shallow, high maintenance women without needing to waste more than one dinner on any of them.
Nice video!." My five year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him,"
It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him.
That's incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact one?
His name is Owen Abiola, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in bringing back lost loves.
Owen Abiola has incredible powers, and he can assist you.
Thank you for sharing this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and I'm impressed.
Alessia, I adore listening to your 'No!' right after you described a bad behaviour. It's iconic at this point and so spot on! I learn a lot from you, greetings from The Netherlands, neighbour 😊
A man who is not satisfied with his only one will never be satisfied with other hundreds
Why dose this have to be a gameeee I just want to be myself 😞
This actually helps a lot, my crush seems to be testing me and I was almost caught up trying to chase him. Thank you so much for the advice!
Thank you Alessia for this lesson , I felt like I was devaluing myself for so long and now I can feel my worth
When I’m light and feminine men take advantage of me. When I’m masculine I can just be left alone.
Same.
Fr like men are gonna take advantage of being "submissive"
Become the dark feminine and watch them chase you!
Having people like you on UA-cam is a blessing
i started my healing journey 9 months ago and ive noticed ive been more comfortable recieving and being in my feminine energy. even if you have had to be in your masculine energy because of trauma, with time, you can heal yourself. remember to be patient loves, i can assure you it gets better
thank u sm for all u do for us, u heal part of us u didn’t break and u taught me to see things for what they really are and not what I created in my head, thank u sm Ilysm 💜
He's not an IKEA furniture sent me😭 ily this video is truly incredible just like all of your videos, they're a true blessing just like you are🩷
[my notes]
HOW TO MAKE HIM CHASE YOU
0:18
1. Look how you react to certain things 1:42 if that's the case, heal baby heal !! 🤍🤍 Because you can't attract a masculine man at that stage... So, heal 🦦
2. Never lay yourself out in a silver platter 3:24 😮
3. 4:01 if you're too easy, he'll leave 😢
4. 4:30 don't act as if you're hard to get, be hard to get. ❤
5. 4:46 he should prove himself🎉
6. 5:51 anything else but a big yes is a no🎉
7. 6:11 when someone shows u their real face, don't overpaint it😮
8. 6:47 take them as who they're and act accordingly!!! 😮
9. 7:25 be aware of Ur own ego. Learn how to take rejection 😢
10. 13:35 if a man wants an angel, he should create heaven for her. An angel won't live in hell 😊
11. 14:26 everything that triggers shows places u need healing 😊
13. 14:38 no one is Ur other half. Have Ur routines, have Ur life together. A man is an addition!!🎉🎉🎉
14. 15:08 be secure in yourself🎉
15. 15:42 NO MAN IS THE SOLUTION TO EVERYTHING!!!! 🎉🎉
16. 16:02 SHOW APPRECIATION if they do smth right 😊
17. 16:41 let them take control bbg ❤
18. 16:58 feed their ego lol😅
19. 17:11 never fight with another woman about a man 🤍🤍🤍 please don't!!
20. 17:36 don't make him the price bruh ewwww 😂😂
21. 17:49 you want a selective man
22. 18:01 never reward bad behaviour 😅
23. 18:13 match his energy 🎉🎉
24. 18:39 it's a game for him ✍️
Ily girls!
Appreciated that, thank you very much!
God bless you, Alessia. This video has found me in divine timing. I needed to hear this. Thank you🌼🫶🏻
I clicked eventhough I am not interested "to make" anyone chase me. I am here , trusting someday when it's the right person , he will do that without me having to do anything for me. If I really liked someone the biggest thing I can do is smile ❤ wishing you fulfilling love people
GOD this is so good ! I’m going to watch your channel more often. My self worth just insanely increased. Thank you ❤
I got so excited to see the title of the video. But when i saw i felt so ashamed and i cried whole heartedly because it triggered the part where she told us not to do certain things to man and i did that exactly and for the good four years , i have tried to mold him, i have waited for him but he never did anything for me. Though its been two days and i have left him. I hope i will heal myself soon. And I truly love your videos. Thank you so much.
Thankyou for making time for people who are beginning their self development journey, you will always be a part of their success!
My goodness, this has helped me a lot.
And i confess i was guilty of falling for my own illusions.
I wanted him to do this and that, always asking for attention and always explaining.
But thank God i woke up from that, i am building myself up now.
And i will never settle for less than i want.
Love you ❤
This is one of the best videos I have seen on this subject; You are easy to understand and very clear, unlike other videos. Thank you so much! ❤
Match his energy, love this!
you are angelic! your beauty and intelligence is a blessing to humanity
much needed reality check
Finally someone explaining and making clear the most important part 🎉
أحب الطريقة التي تتحدثين بيها هادئة جداً ومريحة للعين ❤
"im better off alone then to be with someone who does not give me exactly what i want."
Important life lesson, just be nice, kind and understanding these alone shall get you far in life, never expect things from people in return always just do good and good comes back in some way shape or form. I also think that good personality is the most atractive thing on this planet looks are just a bonus and everyone needs someone who cares and looks after them wether you are male or female at the end of the day we are all human beings and we have feelings/emotions.
Thank you very much for subtitles and for your clear understandable pronunciation and speech!
Very well said and beautifully put
You’re so right! I think this video was really helpful, we should have standards and respect them. It would be awesome if you could expand more into how to enter our feminine energy and also some good traits every nice woman should have. For example men are expected to be gentlemen and provide, but what about women? I would like to be my best version to attract a partner who is his best version too :) thanks!
Persephone thank you for your words,they are very comforting and you are such a Nice lady you deserve Love as you share yours with us and thats your greatest gift x
I really needed this video 3 years ago hahaha I was "in love" so badly with a guy that didn't want me, and I knew he was bad for me, so I had to fight my own feelings, it was awful omg😮💨 😂
You are my lights after my bf haven't texted me back for 32 hours and i might break up with him after watching this. I love your video. Thank you so much. I'm so grateful that i found your channel🥺
I will take my energy and power back to me.
Damn💀 can you ask him why first
@@comfortopia1609 working, sleeping and playing games. I broke up with him after he answered me back like that tho.
„he‘s not an ikea furniture to build“ 😂 i can‘t hahaha
she's so pretty, i juste discovered her channel, but i already love her ❤
13:31 "Leave, run, block" 😂
Danke für dieses Video, Alessia ❤
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wow this is so similar to english
@@tutorialsforyou3981right I knew what it was before I translated what language is this?😭😊
@@whodis8044german
@@whodis8044german ahah
You just saved me love like I did all the things and after listening to you my mind goes like crazy 😭 now i will make my self better I let him chase I want that men but this time I am not going to beg I will attract and this is what I learn from you you are too adorable ily💗✨
Thank you for this ❤ helped me alot❤
You should ask God for everything. EVERYTHING. No matter how you feel about it, if you feel ashamed or think He won't intervene. You give Him first dibs to change the situation.
don’t think He can, know He can.
“I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?”
_ Jeremiah 32:27
“Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”
_ Matthew 17:20-21.
“And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.”
_ John 14:13-17
“‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.”
_ Mark 9:23
I just love herrrrrrrr
In this video she discussed all my insecurity
Thank you girl for making me feel like i am not useless
Oh my god thank you so much for the video. It’s been quite a while since we talked and i was really thinking about throwing a little hint to him but since the ball in his court he needs to apologize and approach to me. NEVER REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
she really know what we really need she did something really helpful!! thank you!! ❤
whenever i see you post a new video my heart sings with joy. i love you, i love you, i love you, i love you. 🤍
thank you❤ this made me realize i can do so much better, my ex best friend set my standards because he used to take me orchestras and Musicals and id get all fancy and dressed up, but all my new bfs aren't even doing the bare minimum
Then why are they your bf's? And why do you have more than one bf? A high value male is not into girls that are around the block like that because it lowers value.
@@unknownportalmusic i have 1 boyfriend at a time goofy
Thank you for those words ❤
Your Majesty, Alessia, thank you for this adorable video 💕 the phrase "don't fall in love with your own illusion of someone" opened my eyes on my life...
I was in a flirting stage with a guy, then i realized he has bad intentions and removed my presence immadiately. All of sudden he started chasing me like he loved me but he did not. I was still being objectified, fetishized. I didnt look at his face. He made fun of me saying "mary, mother of jesus"
I still dont look at him
But this happened twice
it will happen even more
Please take care my dear
Thank you. I needed to remind myself of this. I like him, but he's getting more energy than deserved from me right now vs his amount of effort. He has done nice things so far don't get me wrong. He brought me books as a gift. And I love books so I do appreciate it and let him know. But it's still not enough effort to see me around his schedule. I feel I should pull away but he constantly keeps contacting me. Any adadvice is appreciated so that he steps his dating game up. I feel intuitively it's a good connection.
needed this reminder today, thanks queen
I have never went and immediately unfollowed anyone after watching this….😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🧿
Feminine is powerful and am glad I've gown into who I really am.
Yeah the message from this video wow… I’m in love with the illusion I created in my head. Again.
We all are
Ur like Liz’s little sister! Ur so pretty and so wise. Thank u for ur wonderful video. God bless ❤
I needed it. Thank you
That kiss at the end....I wait for it❤
I love you so much. That’s what i needed❤
Feminine Energy means receiving but Yall miss the Memo that it also means serving and nurturing your Family.. Not just looking cute and buying you stuff🤦🏻♀️
"A woman is always the reflection of her man"
BRUH BEST MOMENT EVER. I WAS KIND OF SAD AND JUST SAW YOU UPLOADED. THANK YOU MOTHER YOU'RE THE BEST 💗🥺
what a high value woman! you are so intelligent. i aspire to be like you.
i love this video, while you are talking, I was really crying specially when you say you are already whole without man. I really need this right now. :)
you are literally so adorable I love your soul, mind and advices
Alessia honestly you're such an angel in my life
U highlighted a necessary thing which is healing ..
Since I’m not in a relationship I’ll use it as if it’s about a friendship
This video is a game-changer! So much helpful information packed into one clip. I personally don't like promoting anything in comments,
"Don't fall in love with your own illusion of someone"...
I saw your video randomly. I got mesmerized by your beauty. And then I opened the video just to watch you.
Your an angel thank you so much for this video the world is great duo to have you ❤
This whole video gives me real life princess vibes. So elegant. Love this channel ✨🤍
Wud luv a vid on ur make up,u r literally the definition of beauty
I also love you Persphone😘
i needed this video , subscribed, going to check this channel
everyday for a daily wake up call
Definitely great advice. I just dealt with a situation like this and I handled it just how you described it in this video. Thanks for the confirmation.
Thank you for your gold advice 😊❤
I really needed the reminder, thank you
Everything was right. Wish my family members knew this truth. I’m gone lead by example. 😊
Such a wise & high value queen you're.🥰 every woman needs to hear this❤
My goodness , you spoke so many facts in min words
U make me confident in my widows peak fr you’re gorgeous
im obsessed w her room
We need a part two pleaseee ❤❤❤
I need your makeup Tutorial girl 😩
Your words are so powerful thank you soo much for this ❤
Girl your makeup/skin is on point
you're too good for this world, Alessia
I LOVE YOU. MY DAY IS SO MUCH BETTER NOW THAT YOU'VE POSTED 🤍🤍
we twinning
The fact that nobody talks about the book Womens Magic Truths on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
shes so pretty she give me adrianna lima and lana del rey vibes