DO NOT get involved with a young Latina woman who already has kids. There are plenty of single women without kids you can find. As Ronin says, work on yourself, get your bread up and become who you are meant to be. There will be plenty, plenty and plenty of girls down the road. Chase the money. Don't get locked in so young right now. Your tastes will change as you get older so I promise you, she is NOT the one for you. Don't be raising some other dudes kids. Don't simp.
I agree with Ronin, youngblood. You're 23 and free (or free enough and getting free-er). Now ain't the time to be making those kinds of commitments. Work towards figuring out/deciding who you are and what you want. And enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Young man.. Don't do it!! She's gonna be nice and do and say all the right things because being that young with 2 kids decreases her value. I have been to Colombia over 10 times there are so many women there with no kids.You are a young man Im in my early 40's with a 22 year old son I highly advise him to have fun because these modern relationships do not last so live your life freely.
As an older gentlemen, I recommend dealing with wm in your same level and same pool. If you are unmarried and no children, you should STICK to women similar to yourself. It’s not your responsibility to take on that role.
Philly in the building!! At 23, go live your life!! Build wealth, travel and do you without being tied down! 52 now and didn’t have my first child until I was 31
Simply put…NO! Listen to your 44 yr old Unc. I’ve been there and done that. Don’t do it. If you want to slide through and hit, do you. BUT DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT.
Great advice, Ronin! The young brother definitely needed to hear this. He has too much life ahead of him to tie himself down with a woman in this position. He need to go spread his wings and enjoy life without that commitment! ✈✈✈🌎
Jeremy, I’m from NYC & I’ve been where you were in my 20s. My advice to you is listen to the comments and listen to some Kevin Samuels videos. Also, listen to Ronin!
One Last Cry My shattered dreams and broken heart Are mending on the shelf I saw you holding hands standing close to someone else Now I sit all alone, wishing all my feeling was gone I'd give my best to you Nothing for me to do But have one last cry One last cry Before I leave it all behind I've gotta put you out of my mind, this time Stop living a lie I guess I'm down to one last cry Cry I was here, you were there Guess we never could agree While the sun shines on you, I need some love to rain on me Still, I sit all alone, Wishing all my feeling was gone Gotta get over you Nothing for me to do But have one last cry One last cry Before I leave it all behind I've gotta put you out of my mind, this time Stop living a lie I know I gotta be strong, 'Cause 'round me life goes on and on and on And on I'm gonna dry my eyes Right after I have my one last cry One last cry Before I leave it all behind I'm gonna put you out of my mind, for the very last time Been living a lie I guess I'm down I guess I'm down I guess I'm down to one last cry
Ronin, you brought back memories when you made that right turn on Avenida Pasteur by Crown Plaza. That lil tiny street used to be legendary back in the day! So many crazy memories. 🔥🔥🔥 😅
I'm 42 with no kids never been Married. Don't do it, peace of mind is the most important, freedom, so keep stacking some paper for the one with less baggage. Give yourself a chance to build yourself up.
She might not say it up front Bro. But soon as your become serious with her she is now looking at you as a source of income down the line. So your going to kick down some paper. Ask yourself at 20 years old do, I want to share my youth and time and resources with a Woman that has kids?
Aye Jeremy, if you are reading the comments, don’t do it!! It’s not worth the headaches, just think about it what makes you think that lady won’t make you do something she wouldn’t do? Remember something too that the kid won’t look at you like a dad. That lady already has a plan because you are helping her if you keep going she going to run game on you trust me, I did it before. Don’t fall for those excuses, every week will be headache, trust that. Especially she’s talking about money and not being able to be happy. Don’t do it!
Mane, That's Good words.(keeping it 💯👍).. Great advice ...(I'm older than U Brother- Ronin ... Shiz-Nik, I wish I had U as a Father back in the day😊...Great advice for the young dude
Young brother if you're listening you are way too young 22 years old you don't need to be dealing with no woman with nobody kids enjoy your life and enjoy your financial freedom
PLEASE!! PLEASE!! PLEASE Jeremy….DO NOT DO IT!! Bruh all you gone do find another girl who’s even finer, no kids, better body and with the BEST 😻😻😻 And the thing about it young cat is they’re all over the world. Bruh I wish I was 22 again and in your shoes I’d be traveling and dating around the globe! Recommendation: Become friends with benefits. Nothing more! DO NOT COMMIT!! When you’re done; when she’s done and the situationship has run it’s course….MOVE ON!!
I ain’t even been to Cartagena yet, and I been with this Colombian Singer. Mannnn… baddie… only she was in her head and once i started smashing her. She got a big head like these modern women. She ended up like my EX fiancé who was Puerto Rican. THE Colombian was 10x baddder than my EX fiancé. Colombian still text me too. Signing to me in text audio messages and everything. Colombians got it on lock.
The truth in this video is unmatched. Single mothers know how to draw a man, especially a single man with no kids. It’s best to seek a single woman , no children, with morals who knows how to keep her legs closed. I’m guessing that east Africa was suggested because the women there are looking for husbands and not only a beta male provider. At 22 you should be approaching women in your area, getting rejected and working on you. Expect rejection from the pretty girls and learn from them. Once you get used to talking to pretty women your mindset will change which will give you the abundance mindset that if she goes you can get another. I strongly suggest though NO SEX. Reason why is that you can think clearly and not allow your emotions to get the best of you. Don’t be influenced by the wrong counsel. Seek help from men that love you and will not lead you down the wrong path. Take one day at a time and don’t rush into anything. Stay blessed and be encouraged 🙏🏾📖☝🏾🇧🇲
You have been told correctly don’t do it!!! one of your first interview questions needs to be. Do you have children? at your age when she says yes run.Period. Never send money. Remember money does not buy you love.
My brother you are too young to be tied down with a young woman and two kids. Enjoy your life and have fun now. Get it out your system so you can settle down later on. Now is not the time, spread your wings and fly. Explore the frontier!!!
No brother go and have fun first. And then when you are ready get a beautiful single childless woman. Travel more first before you get into a relationship!
Bruh (to the young man)..don't do it. It's not your responsibility to be daddy to kids that are not yours and take on that multi-faceted burden. Go explore the world and all it has to offer. I have no children but have gone out with chicks in the U.S. and overseas with them. You will have this assumed and implied responsibility of providing things. The kicker, is that the woman will ALWAYS be attached emotionally and sexually to the father, no matter what you do or bring to the table. You aren't there, guess what? You will always be second. Plus, there could be territorial issues with the father, so you definitely don't need that. During my experiences the first father was in prison and the other one deceased. However, it was still challenging at times absent the mentioned factors. Truthfully in many cases in Latin America and the Caribbean in general, it's going to be hard finding women without kids, but not impossible. The crazy thing is one of the ones i dated with kids was a damn good woman, I mean a sweet girl, you know Ronin one of those Louisiana country girls that are non-existent today and this was way over 30 years ago when i was much younger. I was visiting a friend and that's how we met. She never asked me for a dime. My mother found out and we fell out about it and I ended up leaving the girl and it was tough, I admit. To this day I regret it, but mom probably saw things I didn't as i'm sure most mothers do. Fast forward I have learned and wouldn't do it now but won't lie, I still think about her 35 years later. The one overseas, totally opposite situation and I ran like hell away from that lol..there was always some issue coming up with one of the children needing this or that, but I learned and moved on. I have also seen up close and personal with people I know the drama involved, here in my own family and a couple of traveling companions. I heard a live stream a few years ago where a cat here in the states married a woman with kids and he legally adopted them. Plus, he had considerable assets, including a house and a decent job. A few years later, they were divorced and she got child support for kids HE adopted, the house and alimony. So ask yourself if it's worth it? Charles Tyler RIP to the man who re-ignited my passion for travel. I wouldn't have taken these trips without stumbling upon his videos and his game. I was actually supposed to go to Brazil the year he died, but ended up going to the DR. Great info as always brother.
Hopefully guys have the mental patience to read your wise advice. It’s almost seems like a right of passage to have kids when they are teenagers and almost always the father is gone. The fact that they have kids early also means they miss out on going to varsity so tend to be shallow in how they perceive life and think beauty is all that matters. They will choose to have hair done, nails done rather than taking the time to learn English and have a better relation with a foreign boyfriend or spouse. You certainly cannot discount all single women but I think in that region you just have to cross your tees and dot your I,s.
If he did decide to fall into that trap and take on responsibilities to her and the kids there will be one day one or both of the kids will tell you that you are not their father !!!
Young brother 🙏 please listen to the advice RUN 🏃♂️... Live your life before settling down with a woman with kids... When dealing with a Latin woman you will be the primary bread winner... not just for her and her two kids but for her mother, father and whoever else in the family... You will never know her living here in the states.. Trust me. Don't allow yourself to get emotionally attached to her.. throw her a few bones when your there visiting her and keep it simple... She's only looking for someone to take care of her...
Bro you going to another country to be a step daddy? No sir! She 23 with kids….The most important thing a man can have is a good woman… chose wisely bro
Don’t do it my brother fell for it and his life is a living nightmare she had two kids and trapped him with one he went from zero to three instantly she won’t work and scares him with child support don’t do it
Who else looks at the background while the music playing i seen so many spots 🙌🏾
DO NOT get involved with a young Latina woman who already has kids. There are plenty of single women without kids you can find. As Ronin says, work on yourself, get your bread up and become who you are meant to be. There will be plenty, plenty and plenty of girls down the road. Chase the money. Don't get locked in so young right now. Your tastes will change as you get older so I promise you, she is NOT the one for you. Don't be raising some other dudes kids. Don't simp.
I agree with Ronin, youngblood. You're 23 and free (or free enough and getting free-er).
Now ain't the time to be making those kinds of commitments. Work towards figuring out/deciding who you are and what you want. And enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Young man.. Don't do it!! She's gonna be nice and do and say all the right things because being that young with 2 kids decreases her value. I have been to Colombia over 10 times there are so many women there with no kids.You are a young man Im in my early 40's with a 22 year old son I highly advise him to have fun because these modern relationships do not last so live your life freely.
As an older gentlemen, I recommend dealing with wm in your same level and same pool. If you are unmarried and no children, you should STICK to women similar to yourself. It’s not your responsibility to take on that role.
Philly in the building!! At 23, go live your life!! Build wealth, travel and do you without being tied down! 52 now and didn’t have my first child until I was 31
PREACHIN, TEACHIN' and CARIN'! Thanks Ronin! AMEN-RA!
Simply put…NO! Listen to your 44 yr old Unc. I’ve been there and done that. Don’t do it. If you want to slide through and hit, do you. BUT DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT.
Facts!
This part
You gave the young Brother some really good advice! Like Mama used to say take your time young Man! Live your life
Great advice, Ronin! The young brother definitely needed to hear this. He has too much life ahead of him to tie himself down with a woman in this position. He need to go spread his wings and enjoy life without that commitment! ✈✈✈🌎
Well said!
Jeremy, I’m from NYC & I’ve been where you were in my 20s. My advice to you is listen to the comments and listen to some Kevin Samuels videos. Also, listen to Ronin!
Anything more than 1 kid is too much when you don’t have any
Facts
anything more than 0 is enough stop saving this single women they can go back to the father of they kid.
Appreciate you Brother Ronin....Keep doing ya thing!!!
Run!
One Last Cry
My shattered dreams and broken heart
Are mending on the shelf
I saw you holding hands standing close to someone else
Now I sit all alone, wishing all my feeling was gone
I'd give my best to you
Nothing for me to do
But have one last cry
One last cry
Before I leave it all behind
I've gotta put you out of my mind, this time
Stop living a lie
I guess I'm down to one last cry
Cry
I was here, you were there
Guess we never could agree
While the sun shines on you,
I need some love to rain on me
Still, I sit all alone,
Wishing all my feeling was gone
Gotta get over you
Nothing for me to do
But have one last cry
One last cry
Before I leave it all behind
I've gotta put you out of my mind, this time
Stop living a lie
I know I gotta be strong,
'Cause 'round me life goes on and on and on
And on
I'm gonna dry my eyes
Right after I have my one last cry
One last cry
Before I leave it all behind
I'm gonna put you out of my mind, for the very last time
Been living a lie
I guess I'm down
I guess I'm down
I guess I'm down to one last cry
Ronin, you brought back memories when you made that right turn on Avenida Pasteur by Crown Plaza. That lil tiny street used to be legendary back in the day! So many crazy memories. 🔥🔥🔥 😅
Run mi young broda. She is 23 wit 2 pickney. She lookin fi options.Do not give her #3 and be trapped. Give her di vitamin d then be free. Respect
Bro you just hit that brotha with the 10 commandments I hope he don't break um
😂😂😂 real talk!
Brother please don't became a young stepfather! You're too young to tie your life down at age 23! AMEN-RA!
Run for your life!!!
I'm 42 with no kids never been Married. Don't do it, peace of mind is the most important, freedom, so keep stacking some paper for the one with less baggage. Give yourself a chance to build yourself up.
She might not say it up front Bro. But soon as your become serious with her she is now looking at you as a source of income down the line. So your going to kick down some paper. Ask yourself at 20 years old do, I want to share my youth and time and resources with a Woman that has kids?
No dis I went to Colombia last year. I went to Costa Rica this year. I’ll never set foot in Colombia again. Hands down Costa Rica is much better! 🙌🏽
Where in CR? I'm debating between Cartagena and CR...
Listen closely young man! 90 percent or more of us went through all ten talking points presented here in this video.
i don’t let pork chops go to waste 😂😂😂😂 OG you spitting real
Aye Jeremy, if you are reading the comments, don’t do it!! It’s not worth the headaches, just think about it what makes you think that lady won’t make you do something she wouldn’t do? Remember something too that the kid won’t look at you like a dad. That lady already has a plan because you are helping her if you keep going she going to run game on you trust me, I did it before. Don’t fall for those excuses, every week will be headache, trust that. Especially she’s talking about money and not being able to be happy. Don’t do it!
Mane, That's Good words.(keeping it 💯👍).. Great advice ...(I'm older than U Brother- Ronin ... Shiz-Nik, I wish I had U as a Father back in the day😊...Great advice for the young dude
I appreciate that
But what if you're 43, no kids and your 30 year old chica works a professional career and has a babygirl?
@passport life---- Go for it bro it's just one child not a basketball team. and the mom's professional so less stress on your pocket.
Young brother if you're listening you are way too young 22 years old you don't need to be dealing with no woman with nobody kids enjoy your life and enjoy your financial freedom
Where can I watch the documentary Frustrated???
Its online at legendsdigitaltv.com/frustrated/frustrated-documentary
@@roninthewanderingtravelerTV Appreciate it brother✈️ ✈️✈️
PLEASE!! PLEASE!! PLEASE Jeremy….DO NOT DO IT!! Bruh all you gone do find another girl who’s even finer, no kids, better body and with the BEST 😻😻😻 And the thing about it young cat is they’re all over the world. Bruh I wish I was 22 again and in your shoes I’d be traveling and dating around the globe!
Recommendation: Become friends with benefits. Nothing more! DO NOT COMMIT!! When you’re done; when she’s done and the situationship has run it’s course….MOVE ON!!
This is not a travel channel! This is a channel that tries to tell you get a black women who speak Spanish
Im 44 had a Dominican 26 normal girl with 1 child and everything was perfect but the child f.cked up everything
Go talk to Usain Bolt and see if you can borrow his shoes and run 🏃🏿♂️ the hell away from her!
😂😂😂
The east coast has the most Dominicans lol
Lawd have mercy! Them Colombians gotta be the finest women I've seen in my life! Just got back from Cartagena. 😳😬
I ain’t even been to Cartagena yet, and I been with this Colombian Singer. Mannnn… baddie… only she was in her head and once i started smashing her. She got a big head like these modern women. She ended up like my EX fiancé who was Puerto Rican. THE Colombian was 10x baddder than my EX fiancé. Colombian still text me too. Signing to me in text audio messages and everything. Colombians got it on lock.
The truth in this video is unmatched. Single mothers know how to draw a man, especially a single man with no kids. It’s best to seek a single woman , no children, with morals who knows how to keep her legs closed. I’m guessing that east Africa was suggested because the women there are looking for husbands and not only a beta male provider. At 22 you should be approaching women in your area, getting rejected and working on you. Expect rejection from the pretty girls and learn from them. Once you get used to talking to pretty women your mindset will change which will give you the abundance mindset that if she goes you can get another. I strongly suggest though NO SEX. Reason why is that you can think clearly and not allow your emotions to get the best of you. Don’t be influenced by the wrong counsel. Seek help from men that love you and will not lead you down the wrong path. Take one day at a time and don’t rush into anything. Stay blessed and be encouraged 🙏🏾📖☝🏾🇧🇲
You have been told correctly don’t do it!!! one of your first interview questions needs to be. Do you have children? at your age when she says yes run.Period. Never send money. Remember money does not buy you love.
My brother you are too young to be tied down with a young woman and two kids. Enjoy your life and have fun now. Get it out your system so you can settle down later on. Now is not the time, spread your wings and fly. Explore the frontier!!!
No brother go and have fun first. And then when you are ready get a beautiful single childless woman. Travel more first before you get into a relationship!
I hope he run away from that situation.
Bruv 23, 2 kids…….simple. Walk away, do not pass go, do not collect 200$, she ain’t the only woman under the sun.
I made sure the women I am going to be with did not have kids since I don’t have any. Don’t want to inherit issues especially baby daddy issues 😂
Bruh (to the young man)..don't do it. It's not your responsibility to be daddy to kids that are not yours and take on that multi-faceted burden. Go explore the world and all it has to offer. I have no children but have gone out with chicks in the U.S. and overseas with them. You will have this assumed and implied responsibility of providing things. The kicker, is that the woman will ALWAYS be attached emotionally and sexually to the father, no matter what you do or bring to the table. You aren't there, guess what? You will always be second. Plus, there could be territorial issues with the father, so you definitely don't need that. During my experiences the first father was in prison and the other one deceased. However, it was still challenging at times absent the mentioned factors. Truthfully in many cases in Latin America and the Caribbean in general, it's going to be hard finding women without kids, but not impossible.
The crazy thing is one of the ones i dated with kids was a damn good woman, I mean a sweet girl, you know Ronin one of those Louisiana country girls that are non-existent today and this was way over 30 years ago when i was much younger. I was visiting a friend and that's how we met. She never asked me for a dime. My mother found out and we fell out about it and I ended up leaving the girl and it was tough, I admit. To this day I regret it, but mom probably saw things I didn't as i'm sure most mothers do. Fast forward I have learned and wouldn't do it now but won't lie, I still think about her 35 years later. The one overseas, totally opposite situation and I ran like hell away from that lol..there was always some issue coming up with one of the children needing this or that, but I learned and moved on. I have also seen up close and personal with people I know the drama involved, here in my own family and a couple of traveling companions.
I heard a live stream a few years ago where a cat here in the states married a woman with kids and he legally adopted them. Plus, he had considerable assets, including a house and a decent job. A few years later, they were divorced and she got child support for kids HE adopted, the house and alimony. So ask yourself if it's worth it? Charles Tyler RIP to the man who re-ignited my passion for travel. I wouldn't have taken these trips without stumbling upon his videos and his game. I was actually supposed to go to Brazil the year he died, but ended up going to the DR. Great info as always brother.
Hopefully guys have the mental patience to read your wise advice. It’s almost seems like a right of passage to have kids when they are teenagers and almost always the father is gone.
The fact that they have kids early also means they miss out on going to varsity so tend to be shallow in how they perceive life and think beauty is all that matters. They will choose to have hair done, nails done rather than taking the time to learn English and have a better relation with a foreign boyfriend or spouse. You certainly cannot discount all single women but I think in that region you just have to cross your tees and dot your I,s.
If he did decide to fall into that trap and take on responsibilities to her and the kids there will be one day one or both of the kids will tell you that you are not their father !!!
Leave it alone bru, you will start off in a hole and I can go on and on but just find someone single like you...
Young brother 🙏 please listen to the advice RUN 🏃♂️...
Live your life before settling down with a woman with kids...
When dealing with a Latin woman you will be the primary bread winner... not just for her and her two kids but for her mother, father and whoever else in the family...
You will never know her living here in the states.. Trust me.
Don't allow yourself to get emotionally attached to her.. throw her a few bones when your there visiting her and keep it simple...
She's only looking for someone to take care of her...
Not worth the Mental struggle
BETAAAAAS date baby mamas
He is too young for all that at 22 I was all over getting in have fun young man.
Bro you going to another country to be a step daddy? No sir! She 23 with kids….The most important thing a man can have is a good woman… chose wisely bro
Man we all did that! She made that mistake not you! Pull a Rick James. Love her and leave her 😂😂😂 if you stay too long you might get stuck.
😂
I’m absolutely not brah don’t do it .
Don’t do it my brother fell for it and his life is a living nightmare she had two kids and trapped him with one he went from zero to three instantly she won’t work and scares him with child support don’t do it
Don’t do it my boy!
Nooooooooo
Don't do it bro.