The problem in the phillipines often it is not only the woman you need to take care of. The issue is in many cases her family will see you as ATM machine and they will constantly nag her to ask you for money to give to them. Instead of working for themselves it is much easier to ask the foreigner for money. I still think it is cheaper to keep a woman in Phillipines vs a woman in the west. My problem is I worked very hard for my money to be able to retire and finally rest. When I see grown people begging for money when they are able bodied sure pisses me off. Taking care of a woman is one thing. Taking care of her entire family of 20 is something entirely different. If you going take care of her entire family it will become a money pit. There is not enough money to give them everything they want.
@@eduardomaldonado1647 Feedingg her family is cumbersome, it cost allot of money, if the foreigner refuses then her parents will tell her to leave the foreigner, many foriegners have gone broke because of this scam, I have Interest in a relationship with a Filipina lady, her main goal is to find a foreigner to take her out of poverty, money is the main issue.
2 loaves and 5 fishes will not feed the 5,000 in the Philippines. I gave a girl's brother a fishing rod & reel plus accessories and showed him how to fish. 2 weeks later he sold the fishing rod to get money for gambling on the cockerel fighting
@Bawang-k5z yes, I got out of there with my finances intact thanks to the common sense kicking in. There are still another 193 countries I can visit Visa Free. But I already have my favourites so will probably choose to visit and spend on vacations in those locations that are not full of scammers and vultures
Oh sure: give a man a fish and you've fed him for a day- teach him to fish so he can always feed himself always.. but if you teach a man how to grow corn; he steals all your land lol
Thats easy and simple. Filipinas want both, love disappear if no food on the table. And if the food source is highly dependent on money then sayonara. Province life is different where food is always available but you have stretch your muscles to gather and have them. But if Filipina is looking for modern life then prepared to shell out your finances. That's actually a trade off anywhere you go. But where can you find a person that stays even on empty? That's right only in the Philippines but it is getting scarce now adays. Normally it has to be both ways, love and money. Even among locals separation is common when there is no food on the table apart from other factors aside from food which is also true.
I think you make a great point about the fact that a Filipina doesn’t want to settle for a broke man. Especially since they most likely grew up in a poor family. I like the fact that you speak the truth. This is also why many young Filipinas settle down for old retired expats. Stability till that old man dies.
There is no reason why you can't have both but the issue is so few guys going to Asia have NO MONEY...let me give you a example..Im 50 years old..I own 3 houses in Florida Mexico and California..I have a Monthly income of $8000 and I have a car Collection worth $850,000 and im not Rich...Im well off to support a woman for the rest of my life...but getting married is my way to leave all i worked for to someone else. I see too many guys online who are over 60 years old and they don't have a pot to piss in...I know 4 guy's who have died in the Philippines and left their wives with NOTHING...they had no savings account and no income...no house..no insurance...what is the point of dating a Filipina and you can't support her even after you are gone...the worst thing a pilipina could say is " I don't need your money" .....a man who has planned ahead to make sure he can support a pilipina before they are even married is a man who truly knows what the meaning of LOVE really is....LOVE AND MONEY are two best friends that work together...
Both. If he has no money to sustain life then it will be hard. If there is no love it’s even harder. Filipinas love security and love and respect. Without being treated like or seen as a maid ❤ 😊 watching from Tamworth Australia. I’m a Filipina.
If u can spend 2000 to 3000 a month, 98% of Filipinas will be happy if you are kind and loving. In LA or Miami or NYC, 10K wont satisfy 1000s of women.
'utang na loob' is always a difficult subject. If a foreigner meets a Filipina and she doesn't currently work (or isn't already a breadwinner), then there 'should'' be no expectation for that foreigner to be made the breadwinner by proxy. A foreigner will almost always elevate her lifestyle, even if he is older and on a pension, but that isn't an obligation for him to support everyone else too. We also have our own culture and that should be respected too. I would think a little financial assistance to her parents would be OK, but it should never be taken for granted or expected. In my time in the Philippines, I have never seen a Filipino being expected to 'help out" his asawas family. He has his own responsibilities and mostly that's respected, so why should a foreigner not also expect to be shown the same respect. A lot foreigners either need or want to be financially stable and that only comes from being careful with money and planning ahead. I've found a lot of Filipinos don't build savings for emergencies, but if they get money, they spend it as quickly as they can. They're not thinking of a potential hospital bill, a roof being damaged in a storm etc.. You can still be kind, but it's important not to be taken advantage of.
In that aspect fIlipina's are not different from any other women: Some are golddiggers and some are simply good women. I fully understand that women-especially in Philippines- want some financial security. The plus side with filipinas is that most are perfectly willing to do their part in a relationship by making you a good home, unlike many western women who just want to be kept like princesses. (yeah, I am generalizing). I myself am very happy living in the Philippines with my wife. Are there mooching in laws? Yeah, but all very manageable
You---->"In that aspect, Filipinos are not different from any other women." I respectfully disagree. The Philippines has no divorce because that is the culture of the women and the men. She is making a different choice than the High school cheerleader who says she loved you in Detroit.
Yes, it is nice to say "you should have asked before you signed on" but situations change and you will only get the answer that applies as of the day you asked the question. For sure Filipinos feel that the family is a unit, that demands and expects help from everybody towards everybody, small children help with chores, and parents raise modestly useful children. This culture is not interrupted by marriage. The same values are less obvious in most Western countries; I, for example, would never turn my back on my brother or parents in need either. Lots of politics in Filipino families, without a foreigner in the mix, nobody tosses their cash into the mix without debate. Filipinos seem to have a monetary cure for most of life's problems ignoring that the best and most needed things are free. It is these free things that you need as a foreigner in spades that they can't even think you need at all. When asked for money, I am more responsive to family who made my life better by protecting my dreams, unpaid. When I am treated as an ATM, the bank is rarely responsive.
try giving just "love" to a filipina and not monetary advantage and see how that goes. I just went out with a filipina the other day and she told me that all she wants is respect and appreciation. We get ready to go out to eat and then invites 3 of her friends and asks if I will pay for everyone. I say no, just her and I. She stopped talking to me.. I guess the respect and appreciation only goes one way if you're not picking up the tab lol.
Parents who demand money from their children and children's husband, really toxic. If I were a filipina who had parents like that I would be so ashamed of them, absolute disgrace they are
All woman want your money. The real question is why? Do they want you to provide? Or do they want to take it from you? One reason is just and righteous. The other, not so much.
OK, this is the first time I’ve ever run across your channel. I don’t know if you’re new or not but doing UA-cam take some thick skin people are going to twist your words or misinterpret what you say you just need to accept that now the topic of Filipinos want money or love why can’t it be both? Is it any different than anywhere else in the world? You have to have money to survive the way, the world is basis level, every relationship is transactional. I don’t care if it’s your best friend from school even your parents you give them something they want in return you get something you want. The problem becomes when like here in the west women don’t have realistic expectations over here. every woman seems to think that guys make 100 grand a year when in reality less than one percent make that kind of money, they all want somebody that’s over 6 foot tall in reality that’s one percent of the male population in the United States. They all want a guy with six pack abs again reality that’s about one to 2% of the guys in the United States. They all want a guy that isn’t married between the ages of 30 and 35 again when the women do not have realistic, expectations that’s when the problems begin, and then on the flipside of that is there not even real with themselves not all women are 10s just as not all guys are 10s reality is most most people are four fives and sixes and then there’s a whole aspect of grading people on the way they look. Do you really want to be with a greedy narcissistic, self-centered self-serving person who is fantastic to look at or would you rather be with the average person, who cares about people and his genuine has a personality and I’m not saying that everybody that is super beautiful is a narcissist or whatever come on be realistic in your expectations
I'll keep saying this until it registers: The answer is NO! Hell NO! F word NO! Absolutely NOT! if a Filipina girl and her family can't sustain themselves financially on their own without your money DO NOT GET INVOLVED!!! STOP IT NOW!!! I FORBID YOU!!!
I'd rather be single than be with a woman that wants me to take care of her. I'm done with that mentality. I told my ex, adults need to take care of themselves otherwise you just have a child. I am a rebel🤣
Same here divorced once never marry again, i take care of myself, I'm not gonna feed an uneducated, desperate low IQ lady with kids, plus you feed her family, pay medical and school bills, go find another sucker.
Why should he pay for everything, why not each pay for your own?. Until at least you know things will last between you, and he knows your worth spending cash on and you not just after him for his cash?, he can get women like that back home, you want him for him and he should want you for you, don't you think?. His unwillingness to pay your share in the first six months, doesn't mean he's broke, he could just be making sure you want him, not his bank account, it isn't like he can buy his own land and house in your country is it.
Hi my name is Antonio Perez we Do not give money to our family at all wean you retitled from your job you get SSI and mancad as well we do not take care of family At all
I just enjoy few hours with a Filipina. Enough to get no problems.If someone want financial security is better find a good work.I'm not a saviour of filipina.Enjoy
Hi Rose my name is Antonio Perez I would love to find a woman just like you in my life but I would get married and have kids in my life but not my money love should be no 1 in marriage if you have love in your heart don't thank about money to much if you have a good.an in your lifej that's more important than money sincerely yours Truly Antonio Perez ps I joined chrstin filpina and if you want me in your lifej you should join chrstin filpina as well sincerely yours Truly Antonio Perez
To my dearest most precious young Filipina... You have said it beautifully. What girl wants a man who cannot provide for her. What girl would ever say...I want to go hungry for the rest of my life...and I want my children to go hungry too. The answer is this...not a one. And about having to take care of your parents...and expecting your husband to do it also... Thank you so much for being honest. This is a terrible terrible evil...that is so common in the Philippines. If you are obedient to god...god will always give you enough money to take care of yourself...100 percent of the time. And so...if your parents need money...they simply need to start obeying god...and then they will get everything. I love you...a tremendous amount, Stanley ❤
find a filipina with a degree who wants the opportunity to provide her family, bring her and her family out of that failed state, there are plenty of them but they don't settle for some old crinkly loser, like the ones who are only in it for the money
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Every woman wants love and security; each at different levels.
The problem in the phillipines often it is not only the woman you need to take care of. The issue is in many cases her family will see you as ATM machine and they will constantly nag her to ask you for money to give to them. Instead of working for themselves it is much easier to ask the foreigner for money. I still think it is cheaper to keep a woman in Phillipines vs a woman in the west. My problem is I worked very hard for my money to be able to retire and finally rest. When I see grown people begging for money when they are able bodied sure pisses me off. Taking care of a woman is one thing. Taking care of her entire family of 20 is something entirely different. If you going take care of her entire family it will become a money pit. There is not enough money to give them everything they want.
@@eduardomaldonado1647 I do understand. Thank you.
@@eduardomaldonado1647 Feedingg her family is cumbersome, it cost allot of money, if the foreigner refuses then her parents will tell her to leave the foreigner, many foriegners have gone broke because of this scam, I have Interest in a relationship with a Filipina lady, her main goal is to find a foreigner to take her out of poverty, money is the main issue.
Excellent advice ... better to have that conversations and understand the situation you're getting into sooner rather than later.
Very good information 👌 ❤
Perfectly said,you're right , every body need stability,and money.
2 loaves and 5 fishes will not feed the 5,000 in the Philippines.
I gave a girl's brother a fishing rod & reel plus accessories and showed him how to fish.
2 weeks later he sold the fishing rod to get money for gambling on the cockerel fighting
@Bawang-k5z yes, I got out of there with my finances intact thanks to the common sense kicking in.
There are still another 193 countries I can visit Visa Free.
But I already have my favourites so will probably choose to visit and spend on vacations in those locations that are not full of scammers and vultures
Ask my wife . It money her answer
Oh sure: give a man a fish and you've fed him for a day- teach him to fish so he can always feed himself always.. but if you teach a man how to grow corn; he steals all your land lol
Thats easy and simple. Filipinas want both, love disappear if no food on the table. And if the food source is highly dependent on money then sayonara. Province life is different where food is always available but you have stretch your muscles to gather and have them. But if Filipina is looking for modern life then prepared to shell out your finances. That's actually a trade off anywhere you go. But where can you find a person that stays even on empty? That's right only in the Philippines but it is getting scarce now adays. Normally it has to be both ways, love and money. Even among locals separation is common when there is no food on the table apart from other factors aside from food which is also true.
Money first, she's hungry, uneducated, desperate for any foreigner, old, fat, sick, no requirements only money.
I think you make a great point about the fact that a Filipina doesn’t want to settle for a broke man. Especially since they most likely grew up in a poor family. I like the fact that you speak the truth. This is also why many young Filipinas settle down for old retired expats. Stability till that old man dies.
@@hardmtnbiker 😂
@@hardmtnbiker 😂
Let’s be honest, most women worldwide would like to have both. This is normal.
Simple and absolutely correct.
Very informative video. Helpful words for those who do not already know about the magic of Making magic together.
"No Honey - No Money" is the usual saying
But "No Honey, Many Money" is the better option
I clicked on this video because is the #1 issue I've been having while trying to to find a Girlfriend.
Very good video👍🇵🇭🇺🇸
There is no reason why you can't have both but the issue is so few guys going to Asia have NO MONEY...let me give you a example..Im 50 years old..I own 3 houses in Florida Mexico and California..I have a Monthly income of $8000 and I have a car Collection worth $850,000 and im not Rich...Im well off to support a woman for the rest of my life...but getting married is my way to leave all i worked for to someone else. I see too many guys online who are over 60 years old and they don't have a pot to piss in...I know 4 guy's who have died in the Philippines and left their wives with NOTHING...they had no savings account and no income...no house..no insurance...what is the point of dating a Filipina and you can't support her even after you are gone...the worst thing a pilipina could say is " I don't need your money" .....a man who has planned ahead to make sure he can support a pilipina before they are even married is a man who truly knows what the meaning of LOVE really is....LOVE AND MONEY are two best friends that work together...
Filipinas are ghosting good men right and left.
I’m in Cebu and it ain’t worth it fellas
You over 55? Those and older guys always get this treatment
Try the men
Keep trying. I'm in Cebu and it's working out for me.
Good video!
Show me one woman that dont want financial security. They all do. Nothing wrong with that as long as they truly love you first. No complicated.
Both. If he has no money to sustain life then it will be hard. If there is no love it’s even harder. Filipinas love security and love and respect. Without being treated like or seen as a maid ❤ 😊 watching from Tamworth Australia. I’m a Filipina.
If u can spend 2000 to 3000 a month, 98% of Filipinas will be happy if you are kind and loving. In LA or Miami or NYC, 10K wont satisfy 1000s of women.
'utang na loob' is always a difficult subject. If a foreigner meets a Filipina and she doesn't currently work (or isn't already a breadwinner), then there 'should'' be no expectation for that foreigner to be made the breadwinner by proxy. A foreigner will almost always elevate her lifestyle, even if he is older and on a pension, but that isn't an obligation for him to support everyone else too. We also have our own culture and that should be respected too. I would think a little financial assistance to her parents would be OK, but it should never be taken for granted or expected.
In my time in the Philippines, I have never seen a Filipino being expected to 'help out" his asawas family. He has his own responsibilities and mostly that's respected, so why should a foreigner not also expect to be shown the same respect. A lot foreigners either need or want to be financially stable and that only comes from being careful with money and planning ahead. I've found a lot of Filipinos don't build savings for emergencies, but if they get money, they spend it as quickly as they can. They're not thinking of a potential hospital bill, a roof being damaged in a storm etc.. You can still be kind, but it's important not to be taken advantage of.
All women will trade love for money
Money for Poo-Tang.
and use the money to rent a gigolo.
In that aspect fIlipina's are not different from any other women: Some are golddiggers and some are simply good women.
I fully understand that women-especially in Philippines- want some financial security. The plus side with filipinas is that most are perfectly willing to do their part in a relationship by making you a good home, unlike many western women who just want to be kept like princesses. (yeah, I am generalizing).
I myself am very happy living in the Philippines with my wife. Are there mooching in laws? Yeah, but all very manageable
You---->"In that aspect, Filipinos are not different from any other women." I respectfully disagree. The Philippines has no divorce because that is the culture of the women and the men. She is making a different choice than the High school cheerleader who says she loved you in Detroit.
You are right
Yes, it is nice to say "you should have asked before you signed on" but situations change and you will only get the answer that applies as of the day you asked the question. For sure Filipinos feel that the family is a unit, that demands and expects help from everybody towards everybody, small children help with chores, and parents raise modestly useful children. This culture is not interrupted by marriage. The same values are less obvious in most Western countries; I, for example, would never turn my back on my brother or parents in need either. Lots of politics in Filipino families, without a foreigner in the mix, nobody tosses their cash into the mix without debate.
Filipinos seem to have a monetary cure for most of life's problems ignoring that the best and most needed things are free. It is these free things that you need as a foreigner in spades that they can't even think you need at all. When asked for money, I am more responsive to family who made my life better by protecting my dreams, unpaid. When I am treated as an ATM, the bank is rarely responsive.
Good clarification
Money, Money, Money is always the answer. The rest will come later.
try giving just "love" to a filipina and not monetary advantage and see how that goes. I just went out with a filipina the other day and she told me that all she wants is respect and appreciation. We get ready to go out to eat and then invites 3 of her friends and asks if I will pay for everyone. I say no, just her and I. She stopped talking to me.. I guess the respect and appreciation only goes one way if you're not picking up the tab lol.
Parents who demand money from their children and children's husband, really toxic.
If I were a filipina who had parents like that I would be so ashamed of them, absolute disgrace they are
Even I'm here in Singapore... but I can't find any filipina girl .... I'm 28 years....
All woman want your money. The real question is why? Do they want you to provide? Or do they want to take it from you? One reason is just and righteous. The other, not so much.
OK, this is the first time I’ve ever run across your channel. I don’t know if you’re new or not but doing UA-cam take some thick skin people are going to twist your words or misinterpret what you say you just need to accept that now the topic of Filipinos want money or love why can’t it be both? Is it any different than anywhere else in the world? You have to have money to survive the way, the world is basis level, every relationship is transactional. I don’t care if it’s your best friend from school even your parents you give them something they want in return you get something you want. The problem becomes when like here in the west women don’t have realistic expectations over here. every woman seems to think that guys make 100 grand a year when in reality less than one percent make that kind of money, they all want somebody that’s over 6 foot tall in reality that’s one percent of the male population in the United States. They all want a guy with six pack abs again reality that’s about one to 2% of the guys in the United States. They all want a guy that isn’t married between the ages of 30 and 35 again when the women do not have realistic, expectations that’s when the problems begin, and then on the flipside of that is there not even real with themselves not all women are 10s just as not all guys are 10s reality is most most people are four fives and sixes and then there’s a whole aspect of grading people on the way they look. Do you really want to be with a greedy narcissistic, self-centered self-serving person who is fantastic to look at or would you rather be with the average person, who cares about people and his genuine has a personality and I’m not saying that everybody that is super beautiful is a narcissist or whatever come on be realistic in your expectations
I'll keep saying this until it registers:
The answer is NO!
Hell NO!
F word NO!
Absolutely NOT!
if a Filipina girl and her family can't sustain themselves financially on their own without your money
DO NOT GET INVOLVED!!!
STOP IT NOW!!!
I FORBID YOU!!!
I agree a hundred percentage
I’ll make sure you and your parents are taken care of 😘😍
I'd rather be single than be with a woman that wants me to take care of her. I'm done with that mentality. I told my ex, adults need to take care of themselves otherwise you just have a child. I am a rebel🤣
Same here divorced once never marry again, i take care of myself, I'm not gonna feed an uneducated, desperate low IQ lady with kids, plus you feed her family, pay medical and school bills, go find another sucker.
Good more women for us real men.
Look at all the poor old retirees walking around with a beautiful lady. NONE!
They want love and money, more love than money.
Hi good morning nice to meet you i m abidi from Indonesia where are you from
Man or woman, a potential partner who manage money like a sieve hold water, is a huge red flag.
Seek love, but avoid the dumb ones.
They will all play you
Why should he pay for everything, why not each pay for your own?. Until at least you know things will last between you, and he knows your worth spending cash on and you not just after him for his cash?, he can get women like that back home, you want him for him and he should want you for you, don't you think?. His unwillingness to pay your share in the first six months, doesn't mean he's broke, he could just be making sure you want him, not his bank account, it isn't like he can buy his own land and house in your country is it.
Great video but it's all about money po.
They only want your love, nothing else
Money...money..
Both 😅
Women in the west many are gold diggers as you say. Women in the west have tons of videos talking about that so don’t let them put you down
Love is money
wo someone smart?? way to goo!
They Love Money. 😊
Thats universal with lots of women not just Filipinos lol
If filipino men don't pay then why should a foreigner? Are you saying that all or most filipinas want a Transactional relationship with a foreigner?
Hi my name is Antonio Perez we Do not give money to our family at all wean you retitled from your job you get SSI and mancad as well we do not take care of family At all
No money. No honey and then we will work out the rest later.
They wamt both
Love the good ones money the sus ones
Money 💰
money is not gonna buy you happiness
I have my own money. Why would I want to be married to a broke woman?
I just enjoy few hours with a Filipina. Enough to get no problems.If someone want financial security is better find a good work.I'm not a saviour of filipina.Enjoy
I found love as a broke traveller in my 20s, i dont know how dudes past 40 expect true carnal desire and love though, its time to move on grandpa 🤣
Please mention that some desperately want mestizo children.
Hi Rose my name is Antonio Perez I would love to find a woman just like you in my life but I would get married and have kids in my life but not my money love should be no 1 in marriage if you have love in your heart don't thank about money to much if you have a good.an in your lifej that's more important than money sincerely yours Truly Antonio Perez ps I joined chrstin filpina and if you want me in your lifej you should join chrstin filpina as well sincerely yours Truly Antonio Perez
Banana
To my dearest most precious young Filipina...
You have said it beautifully. What girl wants a man who cannot provide for her. What girl would ever say...I want to go hungry for the rest of my life...and I want my children to go hungry too.
The answer is this...not a one.
And about having to take care of your parents...and expecting your husband to do it also...
Thank you so much for being honest. This is a terrible terrible evil...that is so common in the Philippines.
If you are obedient to god...god will always give you enough money to take care of yourself...100 percent of the time.
And so...if your parents need money...they simply need to start obeying god...and then they will get everything.
I love you...a tremendous amount,
Stanley ❤
Money baby $$$$$$$$$
Question: Do pinay want love or money?
Answer: Yes!
MONEY MONEY!
neither sex only
You clearly want someone with money cuz aparentely you dont want work anymore lol
Peso , peso , peso , peso , peso....
find a filipina with a degree who wants the opportunity to provide her family, bring her and her family out of that failed state, there are plenty of them but they don't settle for some old crinkly loser, like the ones who are only in it for the money