She made me SO insecure. | Story Time
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- Опубліковано 29 лип 2022
- Oh how I missed ya'll! Welcome back to Story Time with Nikki Bestie!! Happy to have your fine self here. Now take a seat and let's have some real talk about insecurity. You know that terrible feeling of feeling inadequate IMMEDIATELY. Here's what you gotta know. Grab your wine and snacks Bestie!! Xoxo Nikki
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“Another womans beauty is not the absence of your own”
This really helped me as a young woman. It's so many beautiful women in this world.. and I'm one of them! That's all we, as woman, should focus on, being the best most beautiful version of yourself
@@akeiladavis3948 yess we should focus on uplifting ourselves and each other because we contribute to the beauty in the world
Love this!
At 31 I had to recently learn this lesson
@@TheKrista5 🥹I’m happy you know now !💕
I think one thing we have realize as women is that just because she’s pretty, doesn’t mean we are not.
I’m not a woman of course lol but another way to look at it is just because they’re beautiful on the outside don’t mean they’re beautiful on the inside too
Like you could look really great but have a terrible personality ya know what I mean?
@@jamesatkins5692 very true, but sometimes they’re beautiful on the inside and outside. So it’s best to just not compare yourself and recognize that someone else’s abundance of beauty doesn’t mean you lack beauty
@@rockinonthemove yeah I know people who are Beautiful on the outside and inside i completely agree with everything you said
Admire someone else’s beauty without questioning your own
@@nunniebunnie841bunny4 Great advice
The fact that no one is telling Nikki how similar she looks to the picture she described 💀
RIGHT
i thought he the same!!!
I hate the feeling of insecurity. A lot of times, I feel like I’m not smart enough or I’m behind. I thought that so much in high school
yesss feeling insecure is one of the worst feelings ever :/
I felt this so so much during high school! It made me not want to even bother in school because I believed I’d never catch up. Such a horrible feeling .
Omg, im feeling that literally right now!! Now im literally so scared to take test and go to college.
me too then i finished with great grades and realized the schooling system is pointless so that was a great plot twist for me lol
@@yasminsara That is exactly how I felt too! I constantly felt like I was behind the rest of my high school class, especially in math :( When I got to college, I think I just stopped feeling that way and focused on myself. I mean, even in college (and today), I do sometimes have that feeling of being behind.
When Nicki describes girls as "gorgeous and beautiful" (which she does alot) I always find it funny because that's what I think of her she's is so pretty!
she sure is
Good for Robert’s brother for putting robert on the spot lol😂😂😂
Straight up lol he would stick up for me all the time like that
@@NikkiGlamourHonestly yes I love Robert’s little brother and I really don’t understand why Robert wouldn’t feel bad until he’s put on blast like really dude? you only feel bad when you get caught?
@@PrincessPeyten It's cause he was trash, and trash people don't feel bad
@@binkmukThat’s so weird it’s like remember when Nikki saw the emails from Tyler’s little sister Jocelyn and when he was confronted he was like I wanna be honest and Nikki was like no it’s because you got caught
Robert is the worst It’s just unfathomable why he would ever think the way he was acting around you is acceptable. You honestly handled him more than most woman could.
Ana K OMG yes especially when he didn’t pay for Nikki’s food that made me mad
To be honest I don’t think it was you feeling insecure… yes you thought she was pretty but it was the way he reacted… if he would have made you feel like you were loved in that moment I don’t think you would have thought too too much into it… it was his reaction to her that made you feel as if something was wrong with you… idk just my thoughts
UR SOOO RITE.. ITS NOT US FEELIN LIKE THAT, ITS THA GUY WE'RE WITH THAT MAKES US FEEL INSECURE N NOT WANTED OR LOVED.. I AGREE COMPLETELY WITH U
facts
i think his reaction magnified her insecurity but she felt dusty crusty and insecure when she saw her at the store, before the girl even approached robert. but yea, it surely made a deeper impact on her and scarred her, the way robert's FUNKY ASS reacted. that dickhead lol
Idk girl…I think his reaction made it WORSE but because she was what I identified as beautiful and I felt like I was lacking..she was def someone I would’ve felt insecure around regardless cause I didn’t love myself yet.
This made me feel at peace with my younger self! So many times we down ourselves over someone who doesn’t even truly love us .
This is was way too good, cuz I struggle a lot with insecurity and I envy beautiful people. But this help me to see that looks is not everything and you never know what people go through!! That’s why you always have to be grateful for who you are and what you have!!
Yup! Yeeessss this! 👏🏽
Lovveee this!! Yes!
This just goes to show no matter how gorgeous you are men ain't shit😭😭
LMFAO RIGHTTTT
Girl that’s the main reason why I don’t like going places not just with my man but by myself also, because everywhere I go I feel so insecure and all I want to do is go home and cry. I’ve never told this to my man or anyone else because I feel like they won’t understand me.
The way my jaw dropped when you said he dropped your hand. I’m so glad you sent his funky ass those pictures. Did he respond?!
RIGHT?! Girl I felt all kinds of heartbroken!! nope never got a response lmao I just laugh thinking about what his reaction must have been 🤣
@@NikkiGlamour don’t worry, what goes around comes around. I’m sure that he will date a girl that will make him feel like shit.
Girl I don’t know how anyone who looks like you could feel insecure in the first place. 🥰❤️ you’re gorgeous and I hope to be anything like you boo
Girl STOP! Trust me…everyone feels it. Thanks my love!! 🥰🥰🥰
fr. i just automatically imagined the “prettier” girl looking like NIKKI but with curls and a cute outfit LMAO
I love when your storytimes melt into one another! I remember you mentioning this in your prom storytime!
It’s my whole life story I’m telling you! I love it too cause in the moment I always felt alone and now I look back at the memories feeling like all of you were right there with me! It’s the craziest shit ever. I don’t have lonely feelings about my past anymore so thank you so much for that 💕💕💕
WAIT WAIT WAIT NIKKI! What if Robert’s funky ass was planning on taking HER to the prom?! Then found out that you were allowed to go to prom last minute and had to cancel on her and that’s why all y’all were wearing RED THAT NIGHT??? 😭😭😭
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Omggg 🧐🫣
i was thinking that same thing!!!
I thought the SAME thing!!!!
I was thinking the EXACT same thing
When your too early to watch 😭😭😭😭
Felt this!!! 😭🥹
that's so crazy because when I first started watching you up until literally right now in the present day, you've been that Charming Charlie's girl for me. I got scared to even show my boyfriend your videos even though he's never made me feel insecure, because *i* feel insecure. You're so beautiful, I've always wished I looked like you!! You're perfect!! But it's also through you that I'm slowly learning to love myself as I am. Adore you Nikki!! you're gorgeous on your own!
Oh my God 🥹🥹 girllll what?! I’m literally shocked cause I never view myself that way and I didn’t even think about how other people perceive me. Listen your man’s ain’t dumb. He knows he’s got a dime even if you don’t see it cause TRUST David saw me wayyy different than I saw myself and I never understood why. You’re fucking gorgeous btw 😍
So Nikki, when you wrapped up this video with "never envy" I literally started crying.. because that feeling of being small is terrible. My entire high school career was shitty because of this. We only see physical. We never know what's going on internally. Love you!💗
i remember being at the fair with an ex, and we were waiting in line for a ride , i was facing him and he was facing the rest of the fair. i went in for a kiss and he pulls away and goes "omg , hey!" and says hi to a girl behind me 🙂🙂🙂 their body language gives them away everytime. of course i turn around to see who was so special for him to pull away from a kiss frm me mid way, and of course she is gorgeous with boddyyy . we left immediately lmfaoo
Of fucking course!!! Aghhh I hate that feeling! Omg and then you just have to stand there all 🧍🏽♀️until they finish like…nooooo
That’s kinda disrespectful. I think it’s a blessing to recognize that someone is like that. A person can be attractive without you doing the most. He was rude asf and had the shoe been on the other foot; he would have gotten mad.
You are drop dead gorgeous!!.. definitely goes to show you we’re all human no matter what pedestal we place them on
You better stop it right now Beautiful!! Definitely was a HUGE life lesson for me.
Girl I 100 percent understand this. I was dating a guy and him, me and my mom went to a store once and there was a very beautiful girl there in the store and my man at the time just had his eyes glued to her. We would lose her for a bit but then when she was in our view the same exact response each time, his eyes were glued. My mom even noticed it and pulled me aside and talked to me about it and I was just so embarrassed I made an excuse for him and just said I think he knew her but I knew exactly what he was doing :/
Oh no! Not the floating store girl! I’ve had that exact same scenario happen and I was literally looking down aisles before walking just to avoid her! All cause my little shitty boyfriend had no sense. Like I said, we all know an attractive person when we see them but damn! Take a peek when I’m not looking, shit! How embarrassing that your mom noticed girl I’m so sorry! 😩😩😩
Giiiirl call Hollywood & make this one of those "coming of age accepting yourself" HS chick flick movies!! Lol i pictured it all & loved the dramatics of her coming out the limo lmao
I hope no one thinks roberts behavior is okay or normal.
I would NEVER be with someone that even slightly did anything like that
@AnaHaze777 OMG girl Robert’s funky a$$ behavior is definitely not okay or normal😳😳😳
Nikki has looked perfect and has not aged since her first video!!! Her makeup, hair, and outfits are ALWAYS on point.🤩💖
It’s like she’s aging backwards tbh.
@@kailynfreeman3904 So true!!😍
@@kailynfreeman3904 frrrr 😭😭😭
Y’all are CRAZY!! shhh I’m a vampire lmao
@@NikkiGlamour our favourite one 😩💕
Girl! I be so into your story times like “nah ah, no he f** didn’t” I love you Nikki 😂
Lol I love you Bestie!! Wish I would have had you there in the moment cause a bitch sure was going through it! Thank you for being here now lmao 🥰💕💕💕
I remember my freshman year I met this girl and she was so pretty, the prettiest girl I’ve ever seen. Long story short, we became friends and in my mind I thought she looked perfect, but in her mind she thought so many things were wrong with her. I was shocked.
It just goes to show you that everyone has insecurities.
Just got my wisdom teeth pulled yesterday so I’m having a bit of a rough day today. This is the perfect timing for a Storytime to cheer me up. Thanks Nikki ❤️❤️
Shucks Oh no are you okay did they give you meds for it?
thats crazy, my wisdom teeths been starting to come out so ive been suffering for the past two days😭
That’ll be me in a week. ✌️not readyyyyy
Ohhhh girl! I understand your pain! My wisdom teeth removal was NO joke! Praying for a quick recovery girl! Once it’s done you never have to worry about it again 🥰
Love this story, I’m 17 and this really struck a chord with me - I always relearn this lesson because time and time again I realize the people I envy have issues themselves too. I tend to put these people on a pedestal, so I like seeing those moments where I realize they’re human as well (like the party moment). Def going through the phase Nikki was going through then atm, so this was very comforting ❤️
(also loved the extra petty moment at the end lmaoo)
Nikki, I am glad that I ended up learning something from your storytime! Turns out my insecurities were existent for literally no reason lol also I loved that ending where you texted the pictures of you and Tanya to Robert 🤣 turned into a pretty petty story reallll quick 💯
You know I always gotta leave a situation with a little pettiness. Even if you think I’m done…I’m not lmao I can’t help it!! #prettypetty
I just can't get over how LONG ang beautiful your hair is right now girl!!!!
Girl it’s been growing so fast lately!! 🤯 Thank you so much!!
Damn. You describing how inferior that girl made you feel almost made me tear up. That’s exactly how I felt all through high school
Definitely one of my favorites! I was just telling one of my friends about this same topic! Young & in high school its sooo easy to envy someone and think their life is better/perfect because “how could they have it hard” being that pretty. The focus is put so much on them and not enough on ourselves to realize we are just as worthy, pretty, and enough. 💗🥰
Yesss! Then puberty doesn’t happen for everyone at the same time and I couldn’t get my head around that when I was younger so I just thought something was wrong with me and I never want you guys to feel that way. Give it time and be gentle with yourself. The self love and appreciation will come 💕 Thank you so much for watching my love!
OMGGG NIKKI POSTED ANOTHER STORYTIME!! Thank u giiiirl, I can’t wait to hear what tea you gotta spill this time 👀
Im definitely not the most beautiful but strangely I've never felt that way , just knowing that everyone is always self conscious and worrying bow they look that made me realize everyone's too worried about themselves to be worried about me
Amazing comment!
Oh man I wish I could say the same. It’s hard to think of the back end issues when someone seems so perfect on the outside. Puberty was not nice to me so I def felt insecurity lmao
@@NikkiGlamour nikkiiiiii girl did jazmin and Robert end up together?
I’ve been insecure w myself because I have been body shamed he literally said” I need me a THICK GIRL NOT A SKINNNY GIRL” and because I didn’t look like the others girl , it made me feel like shit , I tried so hard to not let it get to me but I realized that everybody is beautiful in their own ways , I learned so much about loving myself & my body , yes I see other girls , I start to feel insecure but then I stop myself because I don’t want to be in that situation again 🥺thank you Nikki for sharing .💓keep posting videos so much love for you.💓
It’s always when I look busted that I see the most beautiful women and my brain says “he’s gonna forget you’re pretty too”
We all get insecure. That’s normal. Nikki,you’re a beautiful person and I love your videos.
HEY GIRL HEY!!! I was just binging yesterday hoping for a story time 😂🥰🤗
HEY BESTFRIEND!!! Girl thank you so much!! You know I got you!! 💕🍿
I love how close I feel to you during your story times and videos. I’ve been watching you for years as a silent follower. Commenting randomly here and there. You’re a great story teller and I love how authentic you are.
Thank you so much Lizbeth! That seriously means so much to me. I love talking to you guys and connecting with y’all so thank you for being here. 💕 and thank you for commenting, it’s so good to see you!!!
I’ve learned that just because someone is gorgeous doesn’t mean it lowers your beauty
Love your storytimes! I can’t decide which one is my favorite honestly 😀
This is exactly what I needed! Had a bad day at work but you just made my day so much better. Thank you Nikki! ❤
I’m confident as hell but even @ 24 I can be insecure even though everyone thinks I’m beautiful 😂 but what I stopped doing was picking myself apart as I got older. Also your side commentary got me so weak 😂. Lastly, insecurity gets heavier when your partner looks at someone the way they should look at you. High school me definitely felt this story
Girl you make my shifts fly by. I love your content 🥰
Girl on the thumbnail I thought that was you but you got that girl from Google 😭😭. But no fr nikki you are beautiful !!🥰🥰 we all have them insecure stages but we have to remind ourselves that we are beautiful !
This is ONE of my favorite videos you’ve ever made. It is a beautiful lesson. Frankly, I will be coming back to this videos in moments of insecurity. THANK YOU! ✨✨✨
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you Nikki you always make me feel so much better anytime I watch you videos ❤️
For the first time ever IM EARLY girl I love all you videos sooo much, thank you for being such an amazing creator ❤️❤️
Perfect timing! going through a breakup and your videos always make me feel better 🫶🏼
I needed to hear this story in a time where I’m feeling very insecure about a personal trainer that’s works with my fiancé. Her profile is full of her showing off herself and a link to her only fans so I felt so insecure knowing she now works with my man :/ there are reasons I started to not like her before as she was a member prior to that gym . Its just a long story but it is my own issue and my fiancé has not done anything wrong but I had told him why I don’t like her. I’m learning to get over so thank you for sharing this story
Love you Nikki ! I’ve been watching you for years and your videos are like a comfort to me reminds me of when I was younger watching your story times 🥺💛
Aww this video made me think about my younger self and all the insecurities and self doubt I had wether i’m enough or worthy of love. I wish my younger self can see her now, I have a man that’s obsessed with me and accepts my flaws and would go through hell and back if it means he’d be with me forever. I love this video Nikki, the lesson behind it is so important. Thank you.
You don’t understand just how much I needed this video😭 The past few days I’ve been feeling undesirable and just felt like every guy that ever liked me ‘could do better.’ I was never the pretty one in my friend group and sometimes that hits hard.
P.s. you are absolutely gorgeous 💕 Your videos always put me in a good mood😌
I love your pettiness 😂😂 the fact that you sent him the photo !!!!!
I really needed to hear this today. Thanks Nikki for you and your stories and lessons
You know I always got you girl 💕🥹
Never clicked so fast in my life💗 LOVE WATCHING YOU NIKKI 🥰
I look up to you so much, Nikki. I love how you turn every story time into a life lesson and reminder ❤️🙌🏻
i love knowing exactly what story times you’re referring to every time 💕
Nikki yelling “you’re beautiful” at the end 🥺❤️
This was such a relatable story time!
Thank you so much Nikki ❤️
You are gorgeous ❤️
I have had this feeling a couple of times as I got older but I have realized that I am just as beautiful as they next person that I might envy or feel insecure about.
Love you pretty girl! i love your only fans videos too btw! you’re killin it ! 💗
Perfect timing queen! I was looking for something to watch while I paint.🥰🙏🏼
Kinda sucks that he didn’t try to make her feel better about the situation :(
I’m just happy that people in the comments are sharing their stories too, this video made me feel so much better about feeling that way. It is completely normal. Thank you Nikki❤️
Literally everything I've felt these past months nikki mentioned it feels good hearing im not alone and getting pieces of advice thank you
This was such a great video. Thanks for making this Nicki, you ROCK!❤
i was just binge watching all our storytimes, perfect timing ly
I swear on everything I’ve been feeling so depressed and insecure after having my baby and being petite with no boobs or butt and not being able to gain weight and this video falls into my life 😭😭💖✨ what a blessing!!! Love you tons Nikki you’re beautiful.
My jaw droppppped that it’s the same girl from your prom video 😭😭😭😭 noooo
Baby girl you are so beautiful. Always know that and congratulations on your baby! I love you so freaking much!! 🥰🥰🥰
Bitch my sentiments exactly! It was definitely a crazy ass moment
Thank you for being sooo real with this and telling us your raw emotions, I have been there
GIRL , when I tell you that I needed to hear this story!! I’m 17 y/o just like you were when this happened and I’ve struggled numerous times with this exact same situation, and not feeling good enough for sb that I was with.. You’re like the older sister that I never had lmaooo i hope that doesn’t sound weird but I fr love you🥺💖
The one thing I hate is that you never noticed someone until you see or meet them for the first time and out of random they just start popping up out of no where
Girl I'm watching this While getting ready for a party. Yay love you're videos ❤️
Omg YESSSS NIKKI GIRL about to get a tattoo and need me a good ol storytime ! 🥰🥰🥰
i luv nikis story’s!!!! especially the high school stories
Hey girl!!!!!!!! I hope you and your family are well. Love your videos always look forward watching them. My hubby probably will tell me if I already watched your new video. I’m subscribed and so is he so I won’t miss it ❤️
Lmao the last second in the video and you put your hands next your your month and say “you’re beautiful” I love you Nikki!!!!
The way I was just searching your channel to see a video of yours. I manifested that.
I know your story times word for word I’m so glad I have a new one to learn 😂😂love you Nikki ❤️🥰
Edit: also I used to feel so insecure about myself when I was 16 because my toxic ex would always talk about other girls in front of me with his friends not even caring.
Just what I needed !!! Looking gorgeous 😍💕
Love you Nikki! Love all of your story times!♥️♥️
LOVE CHARMING CHARLIE!!!
And yes you’re definitely not alone! I get insecure for no reason at all around certain people too…absolute worst.😖
Nikki!!! I’m SO glad you posted🥰
It’s the “Thank You Very Much” for me🤣🤣
I am so excited to watch. New video!! I missed u girl
What a full circle moment. I love this one!
I have felt this way so many times throughout my life. Its really hard to not compare ourselves to other woman 😫
charming charlie’s was my favvvvv the color coded sections were everything omg
Wow.. I mean Im just chillin here in my kitchen cooking and watching this and my jaw is on the floor!! No one deserves to see their LOVE look at another girl that way!!! so disrespectful, i’m so sorry to hear that you had the feeling i know all to well mommas. much love nikki, you always look so extremely gorgeous to all of your beautiful glamazons♥️
I love love love this video it goes a long way !
NIKKI SENDING THE PICTURES AT THE END LOL petty queen!!!
I love you Nikki, I just binge watched a TON of your videos and subscribed as well. You are my morning wine friend, my afternoon wine friend and my evening wine friend boo I love youuuu ❤️ you’re gorgeous btw and I love you again lol
I was just watching ur videos and went to reload and was early❤️ love u mucho ❤️
Thank you for making this video! Definitely needed it
Love your story times Nikki I’ve been watching for 2 years now!🤍
OMG! Just started this video and you mentioned charming Charlie! Oh I miss that store! Color coded dream!!!
I was binging your old videos and was like how did I miss this one 😂
Preach to the choir Nikki! Our younger selves somehow have to go through that type of situation at one point. Man, high school was fucking toxic for me but it only made me a better human. Still working on myself 🙏
High school is the worst when it comes to learning self love cause it was sooooo unbelievably toxic for sure. Keep working on that self love girl, every single day! love youuuuu 🥰💕💕💕
I just discovered you, and omg thank you, im having a bad time in my life right now and you make it better ❤
I don’t have enough fingers to count the times I’ve felt like this 😭.. it’s the absolute worst feeling but you are right no one has it perfect