Bride's Shocking Accident Leaves Her Struggling To Feel Beautiful | Say Yes To The Dress: Lancashire
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- Опубліковано 20 сер 2024
- Bride Emily has courageously pulled through a shocking accident years ago. The outcome of which has left her unable to fit into her first wedding dress. Emily struggles with feeling beautiful after her recovery, but Gok Wan tries his best to help that.
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This is the best version of this show: no big family fights, no mean mothers or sisters, no fat shaming... it's just the brides and her stories and personalities and it is amazing
I like the Irish one best. They have really nice dresses and you usually see more of them because they have less back story stuff. I mean it's OK once in a while but sometimes it feels like they'r'e using her story as an exhibit, rather than selling a dress.
Big family fights, mean mothers and sisters, fat shaming are all signature of the American versions of the show.
I don't see too much toxic drama in Gok's episodes
Exactly. There is enough toxicity going around. We need the positive sunbeam of aunty Gok!
@@arunima29 absolutely.
I'm finishing my counseling degree right now and Gok is part wedding dress consultant part counselor. He actually uses CBT theories, especially reframing automatic negative thoughts. very effectively.
I noticed this too. Unfortunately I didn't get to finish my degree as I was in my early 20s when I went to college and my financial aid fell through because of my age... you have to have a parent signature if you're under 25, as you're considered a dependent student even though my mom, my only parent died when I was 18. So they pulled my grant. Then I got pregnant with my oldest daughter at 23 and my life became a huge rollercoaster. I'm now 33 and finally at a good place in life after a lot of tragedy. When my little ones start school, I thinknI want to go back. My passion for psychology and helping others help themselves, while always working on myself, has never faded. My life just took a different path for a while. And I know I'd be better at helping others with how much I've grown and learned. Congrats on being close to completion and I wish you all the best! 💜🌙
Good for you !
I was totally just thinking the same thing. I'm a psych nurse and in my head I'm saying "Gok, come work with me!"
@@danabelles9272 Gok is going to put us out of jobs!
Chevron Gladden...May I ask, what does CBT stand for?
Gok is such a wonderful person, he is not there to sell just a dress, he is there to make every bride feel good about herself.
He is not a salesman, he is a therapist with a bridal shop, bless him.
Gok is by far my favorite of all the Say yes to the Dress consultants.
@@gp5675 for me too
I agree. I could watch him work his magic on souls all day long.
Absolutely true
He always picks the perfect dress for all the different body types!
When Gok asked, "Are you confident enough now to get married with this brand new, beautiful, courageous, brave body?" He amazes me with his life-affirming counsel. . Gok is so positive in reframing her negative thoughts into powerful affirmations.
Gok doesn't just help brides pick dresses but the whole experience with him seems so therapeutic and just so beautiful.
I so adore Auntie Gok. This and the version that takes place in Essex for curvy girls are the two best versions of this kinda show
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Curvy Brides? Amazing show
Spoke the truth 👏
YES YES YES. Al, Jo and Auntie Gok are the ultimate bridal squad!!
I agree
I was so touched to see the mother concentrating on how her daughter appeared to feel about the dresses, rather than just critiquing the dress-bravo! Also, as an ophthalmic RN, I'm concerned that the mother might be showing signs of Grave's disease-very notable lid retraction.
Yes, mom’s eyes popping was very apparent to me as well. Hope she gets it checked out.
YES SAME!!! I thought the exact same thing . Hope she sees these comments and gets checked x
I noticed her eyes as well Graves was my first thought
Same
Same thoughts exactly 💯
Just another thing I love about the Lancashire version: brides who aren't a size 2 never seem to be short on options!!! There's always many, many beautiful dresses for plus size brides
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I’m so surprised they even have plus sized sample sizes! It’s so refreshing. Personally I’m quite small as I deal with anorexia, so I don’t quite know how it feels to shop as someone plus size with limited options. But I do know how it feels to walk into a clothing store and not even have a size 00 fit me. This was at my worst. And it was mortifying. I felt so ashamed. And of course it’s different because they shouldnt make clothing for emaciated people as it just glorifying it in a way. but these women certainly deserve to feel beautiful as any other woman would, and I know how shitty it can feel for nothing to fit you. This is my first time watch GOK, I usually only watch the American version. Im so impressed with the inclusiveness, I’ve never seen plus sized sample sizes. As well as a therapy session and whimsical dresses? A++++!
Yeah it seems in the other version there is only one sample size? When they said that I was shocked I thought that was a little toxic if you think about it.
Gok is simply amazing. That dress looked stunning on her. Here’s to many years of love and life to her!
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Annà'sway-she was run over by a truck, she almost lost her legs
@@AnnaCoutureTV she said she was run over by a lorry, when I looked it up it’s a big truck 🚛. Wow her injuries are horrific! But she is a beauty ❣️Her mom made me cry 😢
@@AnnaCoutureTV a big truck, a lorry 🚛
@@AnnaCoutureTV I’m not sure I did this right. Hope you got the message
my jaw dropped when she wore the second dress. She looks absolutely stunning 😍
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@@lilajiji3000 Why are you spamming this on just about every comment on here? Your video has NOTHING to do with this channel at all.. So reporting you for spamming people on here with that.
The dress looked amazing on her body, and she was so so happy with it.
When they added the veil and belt she brought I literally was tearing up she looked absolutely amazing 😭🙌🏾 like yeasssss, sis said what waist in this dress, yes ma’am 💙💙😍
This why I like Gok. He brings out the best out of his brides.
I’m literally tearing up too. She’s so beautiful
I cried like a baby, the 2nd dress was made for her x
This is why you should NEVER JUDGE PEOPLE for their WEIGHT. You literally have no idea what they're going through or have gone through. Besides it's nobody's business and every size is beautiful!! :-)
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Disagree that every size is beautiful BUT I do agree that nobody knows what others go through.
@@Toastymosty69 you can be beautiful at any size. I disagree with health as every size, but beauty is subjective therefore you cannot say that one is not objectively beautiful because it doesn’t appeal to you. I don’t think people mean the size itself is beautiful, they’re saying that you as a person can still be beautiful. Anyone at any size can be beautiful. I’m anorexic and underweight, and just because I’m underweight doesn’t mean that I don’t deserve to feel beautiful. And I do feel beautiful at times. I don’t think my size is beautiful, but my size isn’t everything and it shouldn’t exclude me from being considered beautiful. I think that’s more so what they meant by beauty at every size, which I fully agree with.
@@_kikizaman_ if the size isn't beautiful than how can the person still be considered beautiful? That doesn't make sense.
@@Toastymosty69 because you are not just your size. I’m underweight and I don’t consider my size beautiful. But I’m more than my size. When I get dolled up I do think I look beautiful, because I look at my face and sometimes on a good day see something I like. Sometimes you have to look past your size, and no matter what size you are doesn’t mean that shouldn’t feel beautiful. Self loathing is directly associated with anorexia. I need to love myself and realize that I am beautiful in order to recover. So while some people think that saying someone’s not beautiful because of their size may help motivate them, it’s the opposite. My ED started because of self hatred. I’m slowly starting to like myself, and to recover and become healthy I need to realize that I’m beautiful regardless of my size. Because I’m more than my size. If I don’t feel beautiful regardless of my size, the minute I start gaining weight I’ll start hating myself again. I need to look past my size and realize that I am beautiful, and on confident days sometimes I feel like I am. It all goes so much deeper than surface level; my Ed was caused my self hatred, and my recovery will begin with self love.
Strapless dress was gorgeous. She looks so confident and beautiful as she is anyway 🥰🥰👏👏
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Aunty Gok should start a wedding dress therapy session where we will wear dresses, hear him speak, feel beautiful and feel good about ourselves.
Amen. I'm with you, girl.
Yeah that would be nice 😁😁😁
I'd fly in from Canada for that
Her family is so supportive and the bride looked amazing in all the dresses!
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When I first saw her in the 2nd dress, “wow” just came out of my mouth without even realizing it. It was amazing and perfect!!
Same! Simply gorgeous!
Yes, agreed! It looks absolutely stunning on her. She picked the perfect dress.
YES!!!
I did too, even after I read yours!
everytime I get a notification that a new SYTTD Lancashire is up, it literally makes my day. Gok, as always, very compassionate and professional and the bride was stunning ♡ what Gok is doing is truly magical... I wish he had his own show!
I love Gok and David Emmanuel. These are two are my favorites.
@@TheRabidWolverine do you? I don't like that with David Emmanuel you can never rely on your budget and he often puts the brides into an over-budget dress without telling them beforehand. :(
LOVE G❤K!!!
@@SimonaDrvek I'm with you on that point. David Emanuel is my least favorite of all. If the bride says "I have a budget of £1,500.00-£2,000.00" they pull dresses for twice that or more. Bride says "I have a budget of £5,000.00", out come the dresses for way less than that.
I wish I could set specific notifications only for Lancashire!
I always say this, and I'll never get tired of saying that Gok is the best bridal consultant..❤️❤️❤️
The first dress swallowed her up and didn't flatter her at all. But the second dress looked beautiful on her. I choked up before she even opened her eyes. So stunning 😍 auntie Gok did well yet again 👏
I think that was deliberate.
Her arms didn’t look good in it.
Gok is seriously the best and he helped her pick out a gorgeous dress that she truly does look so beyond amazing in 🥰💕
Her eyes were glowing in happiness 😍
I am so happy I started watching this series and have such respect for the bridal consultants. Gok especially because he is such an incredible mirror for people to find their individual beauty. SUCH A GIFT.
It is "never" only a dress .... it is the symbol of a wonderful future. So beautiful!
....It is really just a dress, that you wear for a few hours, and then pack away never to be seen again... but I like your sentiment.
Omg, second dress is stunning on her, even though the third one was so beautiful but the second feels like its made for her
I wish there were more Lancaster episodes with Aunty Gok instead of the US version we're constantly bombarded with
Does he want to be called "auntie"?
@@carole.4628 he's called himself Auntie
i like the ones with randy, but yes, gok is best
@@melrobertson2743 because he’s like an agony aunt and gives advice ❤️
I love Gok, he really deserves his own show and we need to see him more often!🤩
He had his own show for years! How To Look Good Naked
If I ever get married (I’m 43), I would totally fly to the UK to have Gok help me! ❤️
I’ve had body distortion issues since 17, so the way he works with brides is amazing.
Just be brave and keep your spirit, love will find its way... Take it from someone who found true love at 50+ 😊... Good luck dear
Out of concern for Emily's mom, as an RN I am noticing her eyes and wonder if she has thyroid problems. She is a lovely woman and perhaps has put herself on the back burner to care for her daughter? Please ask her to check this out maybe?
My thoughts too. Hope she’s ok.
You mean exophtalmia?
@@somebody7070 yes.
@@drivewayturtle65 oh you think about Grave' s disease I guess
I see what you mean but as a specs wearer myself I think it’s possible her lens prescription is magnifying her eyes. Pretty lady!
Gok is my favorite. He brings out the inner beauty and confidence of every bride.
I really wish to meet someone this warm and comforting like Gok here in India while picking my own wedding lehenga. 😖 He just makes every bride fall in love with herself again! He's succha precious soul ❤️
You’ll find the most perfect lehenga and look stunning for your big day! ❤️ Sending love from Canada
Same here its hard to find that perfect lehenga 🥺
Best of luck finding Indian Gok- May your wedding be joyous and your marriage fulfilling!
It is so common to gain weight after an injury like that and to me it shows how strong she’s been. She looks absolutely stunning.
This is a tragic but inspiring story. Thank goodness she's with Gok because he is so empathetic and wonderful with his brides.
Emily looks beautiful, relaxed and confident in the dress she's chosen. With the addition of her original veil and belt she's tying her past and her future together. ❤
im unable to understand what happened to her, can anyone plz tell me?
Regardless of her size her man loves her just as she is, she is blessed with love and survived death.
Gok has such a way about him, that makes everyone feel so comfortable and confident, from 'how to look good naked' to this! Such a wonderful man so likeable 🤗
Gosh, I hope that Auntie Gok has someone who loves him who brings as much to Gok that he gifts to other’s lives.
I love how the staff always wears black. It adds a nice contrast when they stand beside the dresses.
Her story made me burst into tears...I fractured my left femur in 2019. I thought I would never walk again.
After I stopped using Crutches, I had to deal with the immense weight gain, it's been hard but each day I find new reason to accept and love myself and not dwell on what happened to me. Please be kind to overweight ppl. you don't know what some of them have passed through and had to overcome.
I love how Gok talks about strokes of fate more objectively. He isn't cold or anything, but with this technique he takes away the drama and gives brides the opportunity to view it from another perspective. It kind of makes them stop dwelling on something that can't be changed. He's indeed a therapist.
LOVE Gok he’s just such a beautiful pure respectful soul...& bride’s not only get the perfect dress within budget with him but also a free therapy session...!!!😭😭😭
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She looks stunning. I needed to watch this episode. I had two surgeries in the past year on my leg, and I gained almost 30 pounds. I have hated my body ever since, and to know that weight is just a number and life is beautiful, and it goes on. I cried so much. She is a true warrior ❤️
Medication has made me put on a lot of weight. It's difficult when you almost don't recognize yourself. But I have had wonderful support from my doctors. And sometimes to be healthy we can't be a healthy weight. I also recently discovered snag tights. I know it sounds stupid to say a clothes product gave me my confidence back. But it truly did, especially the facebook groups of people who wear snags.
You are also a warrior and hoping you find your way to knowing that.
It's true; you never know what other people are going through. We need to remember that.
I legit screamed "IT HAS POCKETS!" when she put her hands in them. If my wedding dress does not have pockets than I don't want it
OMG.......who’s chopping onions......😭......Gok is just the best.......that little intake of breath when she saw herself for the first time in the second dress.....that was me gone.....she looked so beautiful.....the smile said everything ❤️
Oh God- I am so sad and frustrated about how we women hate and beat ourselves. Our self worth seems to be all tied to what we SHOULD look like, in the warped eyes of society. My darlings- We are GODDESSES! I am a constant recovering anorexic, and I fight with myself, every day. You, Emily- you wonderful woman, are truly divine. I send you so much love. Also- Gok- you are a fecking saint to us all.
Boobird, what you've said is so true, thank you. Best of luck to you on your journey of recovery xx
I genuinely gasped seeing her in the second dress, oh my goodness! Gok and the ladies on Curvy Brides Boutique are the best consultants, it’s about body positivity and confidence instead of sales and I love it 💜
I want to choose a piece of clothing that makes me feel the most BEAUTIFUL girl in the world. I hope to find that someday 🦋
Also props to her. She's so amazing and GORGEOUS.
Yes me too. I feel up to already go looking for a dress ha ha
Gok is either an actor deserving of an Academy Award with every consultation he does, OR... he genuinely loves the Brides he works with, and it shows. There's so much more happening than "just a dress."
I'm weeping, this is so touching, the dress she chose makes her look phenomenal!
God bless her - she looks absolutely gorgeous in her chosen dress. Gok as usual worked his magic on her worries about her weight gain since accident but what a super human being he is. The young bride looked so pretty and confident. I hope she and her future husband enjoy a long, healthy and happy life.
OMG Gok! You’re really a fairy godmother that we all wish to have! Looks fab plus on budget!! How can you do that? 😊
I love that this is a whole vignette!
And yes, Gok IS a therapist working at a bridal shop.
I only hope he has someone that does the same for him. 😊😊
Gok is the best! He needs his own show! ♡
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He's had his own show. Check out "how to look good naked"
Gok is sooo good at analyzing a person's feelings and finding the perfect dress for that person, even if it's a dress they thought they'd never wear. That takes true skill. He is truly gifted.
The 2nd dress aka the one she chose has to be the most beautiful dress I’ve ever seen in this show. And it suites her SO well she gave the dress life.
Shout out to her Mum for wanting HER to be happy in the dress and being so supportive. She kept saying "that is a beautiful dress but I don't see her smiling" How lucky to have such a wonderful Mum and sister.
I gasped! That second dress she is stunning in it - Aunti Gok is such a doll, so loving and just that little bit of magic he brings as your fairy godmother
When Emily put on the second dress I was so close to tears. She is so stunning.
POCKETSSSSS!!!! she looked so stunning and that dress made her look even more happy. Gok is a genius
This show is just not about wedding dress it's about emotions, feeling and acceptance 😌🤗💚💚👍
I cannot put into words how much I adore Gok. He’s just the loveliest person in the world.
We all need to be kinder to ourselves. All the best for her and her familly!
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I literally said "oh wow" out loud when she put on the 2nd dress. It's amazing!
Same
Also same ^ lol
I literally said the EXACT same thing.
Watching her made me so happy but hearing Gok's words made me cry. Gok is a real GENIUS he is capable of healing anyone. He can make anyone in this world feel beautiful about themselves 😭❤️. Love you Gok
Gok is truly a beautiful soul I challenge anyone to find anything negative about him! He helps his brides so much!!
I love that she was able to have part of her original look incorporated into her new look. She looked so much more confident by the end of the appointment!
I love how the bride looks so dignified and elegant as well as beautiful! Wonderful choice in dress.
I think Gok is an angel, he just says and does everything that is thoughtful and inspiring.
Gok is such a sweet human being, he's like a therapist and genuinely kind. And the dresses in this boutique are just too gorgeous.
Say Yes To The Dress - Lancashire (and Ireland!) are my favourite. Not only they leave the drama outside, but they are full of positive reinforcements and statements. On top of that, they suggest gorgeous gowns for every body and personality! On reflection, I believe they attract a much better audience as well. Reading the comments here below, there's none pointing at physical imperfections or any other shallow feedback.
I audibly gasped with that second dress. How absolutely GORGEOUS! Such a beautiful person 💜
So glad she had Gok, he's heaven sent. You're beautiful Emily.
Gok sees people as they are and helps them to both value themselves and imagine their potential. His own experiences have taught him so much wisdom and kindness.
She looks stunning in all of them! Even though I think the last one is the prettiest but the second dress really suits her the most. ✨
Gok is more than a bridal consultant. He rebuilds how brides see themselves.
I love watching Gok. He truly cares about every woman that comes through his door!!!!!! Great guy!!!!!
Big brother Gok, helps turn another tragedy into a healing moment.
Omg the emotions this brought up in. Crying like a baby. I felt this in so many ways. Thank you Gok. You help women everyday over come their fears,anxiety and disappointment they feel in them selves
I knew I would love this episode without even watching it, GOK was amazing as always. Her journey was really emotional, happy to see that towards the end her mindset towards herself had changed so much
He was just amazing and i dont think i could ever got married or thought about it until after i did this. it was the best decision i could have done
@@emilypeet2023 awww that’s really amazing, so glad that he had such a positive impact on your journey, you looked incredible in the dresses and I loved the one you picked -stunning!
An Auntie Gok episode makes even the worst day much better, and a good day fantastic. Love how positive and supportive Gok is of all his brides.
I love him. He brings out the best in every bride. He is so encouraging with him it's not a job it's a life calling
I like how Gok speaks to you. Wish more people were like that
The way Gok does not only dress you but heals one's mind. So beautiful.. ❤❤
I didnt even realize I was smiling the whole time she wore the 2nd dress.
Boy, do I need Gok in my life everyday..
She looks absolutely beautiful and getting back to living her best life with a little help from Auntie Gok! Love this!!!💜
“So go out and live real good and I promise you'll get beat up real bad. It's not gonna matter if you have a few scars. It will matter if you didn't live.” - Rich Mullins
I've watched quite a few of these SYTTD vids recently, but this is the first one that made my jaw drop. The first dress did nothing for her, but the second dress ... Wow! I literally gasped. She looks gorgeous in that one; just the boost her confidence needed!
Gok man... so many times this man brings me to tears and I'm not emotional. Does he have a degree in psychology because he is absolutely amazing in ppl, self confidence, giving new outlooks and perspective. His partner and parents must be so proud.
Gok is what everyone needs. Love that he can make all the brides to be feel so special
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Just wanted to point out how stunning niamh is. Such a natural beauty.
this was a great episode. listening to how this bride was feeling about her body was so relatable. very happy for her, she looked lovely in that dress. and that man of hers, wow. stuck right by her side, he surely proved his love for her.
I have had tears during this entire episode! The bride and her family are so kind, supportive and loving. Gok knew exactly what style would compliment the bride's figure and she looks like a million bucks! Gok and his staff are just amazing.
It’s a shame what happened to her ); all the pain and recovery. She’s so beautifulll and deserves to feel beautiful!!!
This was so beautiful to watch. The happiness it brought back to her about her new body was really special! ❤
It give myself confidence back because I was also a size 6 and now put on alot of weight after an accident. Although mine was no where near as traumatising! So happy for her!
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Gok is a therapist first and bridal consultant later. He's just so so special. And he should be preserved. This version in itself is so wholesome without the unnecessary drama. ❤️❤️ Gok. & The bride is beautiful. She's a battle queen. I hope & pray that she never has to go through anything bad in her life.
Gok is so empathetic, I'm not even the bride and he has me feeling good. He's somehow both a councilor and stylist. Bless him
Gok is such a beautiful soul! Seriously what a sweet heart for a girl in a really big time
gok gives me butterflies !!!
Gok is a healer. He has helped millions of women (and maybe some people that are not women) see the unique beauty in themselves. He is a very loving soul.
Out of all The bridal shops in say Yes to the dress this one is the absolute best, The people working there actually listen to the bride and are So incredibly good at their job. Truly amazing
I didn't like the first dress at all and thought that was the one she was going to pick, but wow the second dress really does give her shape and makes her look incredible!!!!
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❤ Gok. He always lifts the bride's confidence.
I absolutely love Gok so much. He is so in tune to the women who aren't sure of their self or what they want or need. Yr one of the best!♥️
I cried when she saw herself in the second dress wow omg she looked stunning
2nd dress looks lovely on this lovely bride
I love watching these shows, I’m just disappointed that they’re not captioned. I’m just not trained to understand their beautiful accents.
You're not alone.
I've never cried watching these shows before but as soon as she put that dress on I started crying. She looks so stunning and I'm so proud of her and how far she's come.
Imagine having a boss who introduces you to clients that nicely. ‘ she knows everything!’ The boost that will give to your confidence. Gok is a gem. ♥️