Take care bro, stuff will definitely get better. Life's got its ups and downs, you know that better than anyone. Your next relationship might make you feel dumb for keeping the last one for as long as you did, you know? Some great people out there, just gotta find 'em. I know your channel cause you're subbed to a real estate channel that I was paid to edit videos for, and I just liked you and your content, so I stayed. Stay strong bro~
Man, I want to thank you for this amazing conversation I really don't have any words to give you as far as what's going on with your relationship with boo but I wanted to thank you for sharing your experience it really made good for something to listen to as I sat down doing some work and I just wanted to remind you how good you are at bringing so many people Joy, although it feels like you need some encouragement so here it is my friend. Life is like a game of poker where some people bust and some bump, depending on how you choose to play your card determines the outcome. Win or lose it is a game you must play, With that being said leave nothing on the table and go all in.
Hey Jermaine, see your time with Lori for what it is -growth! Like training wheels removed, it's time for you to further advance towards the entire person you are capable of being.
One of the main ways you know someone is NOT meant for you is when you are on and off several times. This is like the third time you’ve told us she dumped you. It will be painful but try hard to move forward with your life without your ex
Sorry to hear about your breakup. If I was still living and working in the bay I'd offer to hang a little with you. Chatting with you here and there between trips was the highlight of my day sometimes since delivering for the apps can suck so much when it's slow. Keep strong and hang in there bro!
It’s very hard to go from a couple to being single. Sometimes people lose track of their community of friends when they’re in a relationship and when it’s over you are an island.
Yo, Jermaine. First, I'm sorry to hear that your relationship ended. Second, I know that you're processing many thoughts and emotions that I certainly felt when I was bullied out of City College twice. Yeah, I had to bring that up again. I could go on, but this ain't about me. What I can tell you is that you'll have to keep fighting bad emotions caused by that breakup even when people endlessly tell you that life will get better. You won't fight them alone, though, despite how life will make you feel that way. Speaking of which, Jermaine, if you got other homies here in the Bay Area, keep in touch with them for a while. Here's to the better half of 2023. Before I forget, you look good in sweatpants anyway.
Amazingly, it takes time to get through some rough feelings. Time is a great healer. No need to get crazy and run off to (?). Be good to yourself and stay active. You'll always (eventually) meet people you like when you are doing things you like to do. Gym, classes, camping, art, etc, etc. If it's time to move on, then...move on! Thanks for having this talk!
I appreciate your UA-cam videos. I lived there from 1980 - 1985. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to see my old working neighborhood in the financial district.
I lived in the Bay Area (Oakland) from 1987-1991 when I was in the Army stationed at the now closed Oakland Army Base. Used to go to the Presidio sometimes for medical appts and would go to the Burger King with the big windows and wonderful views of the Golden Gate Bridge. I guess you missed the infamous October 17th, 1989 Loma Prieta earthquake. I was at the Hayward BART station when it hit. Last time I visited the Bay Area was in 2003. Things sure have changed since then.
Jerm, I feel you and just want to let you know that you will be okay. We ALL have gone thru this. what you said, is exactly how you suppose to feel afterwards. Everything is good. Take time for yourself and really take care of you man. Time heals everything. You will be back to normal one day you wake up.
Hey Jermaine hope you and Lori can work things out. But if not, take some time for yourself. Change is good sometimes. Maybe you both need some time apart to reflect 😃👍🏽✌️❤️
San Francisco was also a lot different when it's primary resident was middle class. That's when the sutro's baths opened and gave a good experience, for a decent price
The City will come back to life this fall. Today is Labor Day so most people are having a 3-day weekend…empty SF downtown streets. Hope you can travel in the near future in order to clear your head. There are so many cool & different dance classes, communities and social events in the SF Bay Area. Take care.
Aww, Jermaine, break-ups are hard. But you'll recover and be stronger and happier soon. My theory (also confirmed by experience and observation) is that break-ups happen because both parties are ready for it to end. It may look like one was ready and the other was not, but in reality it was best for both. So that means this was good for you in the ultimate sense. Not having the relationship, not drinking and clubbing anymore... you've cleared the decks for new activities and new people to enter your life. And now you can travel again! Think of the freedom! Once you've passed through the emotional part of this, you'll start living a full life again. It's guaranteed! 😃
Wow, this is too close to home. Just broke up with my guy here in the Philippines yesterday too, we've been fighting/breaking up for weeks now. Can't believe this popped up HERE since I am subscribed on another channel. I was thinking I need to do a video too explaining my absence from my channels. Yeah, bruh I think you DO need to take off. Im going to another part of the Philippines in a week or back to Thailand. It's rough, tho. I hear the sadness. I was telling a friend, I just feel Sad about it. For me throwing myself into work and 6 months goals. I wish you well, J. I do. Go within find your peace.
You were never meant to be in a box. You're well traveled and cultured. I agree with you the next person should be a reflection of who you are and your standards of what a relationship should look like. Take your time and enjoy your freedom. I'm wishing you the best on your next move. I'm also in SF and I've been thinking about moving, this town is getting a little sleepy.
I used to sit at that same bar all evening after work. I got tired of it too. Now it’s work gym and adventuring around Sf like you. I don’t miss it much at all.
Sorry to hear about your break up. Give yourself some time to realign with your spirit. Don't try to fit in where you don't. Fitness and Wellness is a good place to focus while you are in a realignment chapter of your life. New people will come as you start your walk. Who knows, there may be a new city or career in your future. Change can be good as you see your new reality.
Keep being yourself, J. In these videos and in real life. As an OG subscriber, it is this reality check that keeps me coming back. Your sincerity is very much appreciated. 🙏❤
Thanks for the video walk and talk, Jermaine. Yeah, breakups are hard. It feels like an arm is missing, and like that person is having a better life than us, but in reality, they are hurting too.
It is a very sad thing to hear what you said about being followed through the store. I watched my girlfriend at the time get followed around in a wine shop in the Castro. It’s f ing not right. Sometimes I think that humanity is devolving 😢
God Bless you Sir Jermaine ! It is time for you to be in LOVE with yourself and NOT depend on someone else to make you WHOLE ! take gentle care and have fun getting to be CONTENT with you , whether or not you are in a relationship with someone.
Don’t let your pass relationship run you away… deal with it and move on. Everything happens for a reason for the better!!! & to have bigger & better things in life!! ❤
A good tour of the business part of SF. Not drinking at bars, how many can say that? I was working out at a gym noted for competition bodybuilders place to be. They would put a shit load of plates on the bars and walk away when they were done, and poor little me had to take them off so I could lift a small amount of weight. Many were stuck on themselves, and it was beneath them to help the little people. (ignoring the signs) Most of the times I just started using all the machines....Anyway, I'd go to a bar and drink a diet coke while everyone around be was getting crazy drunk. Crazy world out there and sometimes you do want to just hug a tree.
Looks tough right now but everything is gonna work out bro, I’m currently in Buenos Aires and still miss San Francisco 2 years after leaving. Stay, keep riding round and new will flourish
I am sorry that you and Boo are no longer an item. Hurting is part of our journey. This is a time to stay social and also to look inwardly. Stay prayerful.
Jermaine, get a second job that is social in nature maybe selling cars, teaching video editing, do one on one tours! Remember, love finds you when you not looking it!😊
youre a savage, i had to go through the same thing 10 years ago when i was your age. When i divorced my wife in 2005 It was bad in the beginning but I bounced back and found out exactly who i am.
Probably the most depressing video Jermaine has ever put out. At one point in time, Jermaine used to be my favorite You tuber. It's sad to see how far he has fallen. People say you shouldn't judge but when you openly share your life with the world, you are at risk of being judged. In my opinion, Jermaine got too caught up in the SF scenes and lost touch with himself. The Tech scenes, The Bar scenes, The Hipster scenes, The LGBTQ+ Scenes... it looks like he lost pieces of himself navigating all of them. I haven"t watched any of his videos in a long time, after watching them all religiously pre / during pandemic because honestly I don't connect with the content anymore. The low effort walking tours, the awkward video moments between him and Boo, the inconsistent content, and the overall negative takes and rants are mainly the reason why his channel has never really grown. A long time ago he was humble, personable, had a clear direction and a story to tell. Now it's like watching a schizo person with 30 personalities... he doesn't know who he is one minute from the next, he's gotten self centered and his personality has grown vapid. Why make the comment about not wanting to date a straight chick because you assume it would be Boring? How arrogant do you have to be to make a statement like that. Someone is boring just because they're straight? To be totally honest it feels like Jermaine has tried to be so many different things to so many different people in the name of seeking validation, that most of the things he does now seem forced and incongruent with who he is by nature. The weird outfits, the alcohol and drug abuse... The crowds he hangs out with. Jermaine seems to be easily influenced by others and cares too much about trying to be cool. He doesn't travel anymore or put effort into creating any content that engages his subscribers anymore. It's like "hey I don't care if this is cool content". Maybe it is because of the toxic relationship, or the constant bar hopping or attention seeking. Or maybe he doesn't care really. San Francisco changed for the worst the minute the pandemic hit and is never coming back. It will never be the way it was. Sadly the same might be said for Jermaine.
Jermaine I’m so sorry about your breakup. I think you should go back and do live streams with us again. It will help calm you down and have conversation to vent on how you feel. You also have the option now to pickup and GO wherever you want. Also f the pain away. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
Hi. Jermaine. I know what it feels like to be out of a relationship that had big and small issues that got kicked down the road until that moment. That. You’re not in a relationship anymore. It’s very lonely and can be depressing. Freedom or being single is the invoice for choosing to give up on each other. Now is the time for self love. I believe that the more that You put into Yourself. Your “ Love Light “ Will Shine and gravitate to the Next Universal Love Mate in the future.
Germaine. Bro I'm so sorry. No matter what, love yourself. There are no perfect relationships. Everyone argues. I think your boo is a keeper. In the average long term relationship there might be 5or more breakups. Keep the channels of communications open. Give yourselves time to calm down. Consider hanging with her and not in bars. Don't put your private business on the streets. Get personal and couple counseling. Peace youngling.
I'm single. I live in North Beach. I never go to bars. Nothing good happens there. I don't waste time there, or money! I'll go to a coffee house periodically. I call and talk with friends who live outside of the City. I read, stream. you're a creative guy and there are art classes in the City. Try new stuff. I love that you take dance classes. learning to enjoy your own company for extended time is a helpful skill. Otherwise, you spend a lot of time processing what others are saying.... get to know yourself even better!
sounds like the relationship gave you alot of confidence in the fashion direction ..... but ,remember you had a great amount of social openness before you met Boo from all your International travels ..just touch base with the wandering nature you have always had ..... you might just be alot more mello than most of the people you run across in the city........ life rolls in and out like waves .......you'll catch your next wave that you can devote time to .....as far as filming ,you could film in the bay area for a decade and never show it all ,so stay here until you are pulled somewhere else by some bigger energy .....................I hardly ever tell anybody to do this kind of shit ,but maybe its a good time to construct some kind of "dream board" of what you want life to be like in 5 years ,and put it out into the universe {I know ,maybe lame haha but why not } we got to get your channel to 100K dude, cuz you are cool
Sorry to hear about your relationship. Maybe you may need to get a change of scenery out of the Bay Area for a little while like a few days to explore another city. Maybe go back to NYC or somewhere else in Northeast, or Chicago, Up ( Upper Peninsula ) in Michigan, go to Dallas, or Houston and explore them. Maybe go and visit your family in Memphis. Just a few suggestions. 😊
I would make plans to move just to get away from the places and people that keep you thinking of and remembering her and the breakup. The best cure to a relationship that ended is starting a new one in the same boat.
Hope I bump into you one day! I live in the city but out in east bay all the time. U seem cool asf and I appreciate ur city tours dude, have a good one ✌🏽 Aye man u should hit up dolo or lake Merritt in the day, I meet ppl at the parks an just kick it there! Night life’s kinda dead anyway since crime is outta hand an shit, clubs closin early an being over priced. But I’m a stoner so ig I got diff style of socializing 😅
developing a muscle to be cool with being by yourself is a good and healthy thing. You have a lot of energy. Bar energy sucks. Just seems like you're not all that good with being by yourself...finding an enjoyable way to do that. it is a great thing to not be reliant on the energy of others to have an enjoyable time : )
Well bro. It's still fresh so if the relationship between your ex-girl still have potential for you guys getting back together. For now I don't suggest looking for someone new. The break-up to fresh that's why.
That woman eventually will expose the real reason why she excepted you in her life and decided to be with you in the first place. So it would behoove you stay clear of her because this is not only very toxic but outright blasphemous (and you know what I’m talking about) Only then is when the true healing will start or begin with you… good luck and you can do it my little brother Jermaine!
God Loves you Brother. Jesus said I am the way and the truth and the Life no man comes to the Father but by me. Its not about a Religion self-seeking but a Personal relationship with God we Worship Him in spirit and truth. Online. Divine Revelation
bro, it's time to dust that passport off and start traveling again. it's crazy how you met her just before the corona and now things are kind of getting back to normal you break up. think about your favorite country and go.
Again I say don't want to be mean, talking shit but I noticed she always talked over you, would get pissed off a bit when you said something she didn't like, a grown up would listen, reflect and compromise on what is being said I mean if she did that to me Id just say bye your a capable dude and actually care I really didn't get that vibe from her. I know everyone has their views and idk if she's a UA-camr also but that gay pride parade video was just damn awkward with her saying some shit at the end like she was just ranting idk if it was the alcohol but yeah keep your head up id say out weigh the good and bad from what I see your good without her she doesn't even listen. If I was single id stay single! Keep dressing like before
You like guys and she likes girls.. she’s the guy and you’re the girl .. and she treats you like that 😅 stop simping .. and just date guys . Shits weird bruh
@@danielmyles7416 Don't pay attention to them. These liberals can't accept reality. Even if it's not a holiday, why would there be many people in that area in the first place? There aren't even sh*t to do there because many businesses are shut down due to high crimes, homelessness, drugs but if you point out the obvious, these liberals would it's a "holiday" or "online businesses are taking over" instead of addressing the real issues
Keep walking and thinking my friend. You will discover what is best for you. Sometimes our blessings come in unusual ways.💜
Take care bro, stuff will definitely get better. Life's got its ups and downs, you know that better than anyone. Your next relationship might make you feel dumb for keeping the last one for as long as you did, you know? Some great people out there, just gotta find 'em. I know your channel cause you're subbed to a real estate channel that I was paid to edit videos for, and I just liked you and your content, so I stayed. Stay strong bro~
Man, I want to thank you for this amazing conversation I really don't have any words to give you as far as what's going on with your relationship with boo but I wanted to thank you for sharing your experience it really made good for something to listen to as I sat down doing some work and I just wanted to remind you how good you are at bringing so many people Joy, although it feels like you need some encouragement so here it is my friend. Life is like a game of poker where some people bust and some bump, depending on how you choose to play your card determines the outcome. Win or lose it is a game you must play, With that being said leave nothing on the table and go all in.
Burnn..Loott..Murderr,,,
Hey Jermaine, see your time with Lori for what it is -growth! Like training wheels removed, it's time for you to further advance towards the entire person you are capable of being.
One of the main ways you know someone is NOT meant for you is when you are on and off several times. This is like the third time you’ve told us she dumped you. It will be painful but try hard to move forward with your life without your ex
Sorry to hear about your breakup. If I was still living and working in the bay I'd offer to hang a little with you. Chatting with you here and there between trips was the highlight of my day sometimes since delivering for the apps can suck so much when it's slow. Keep strong and hang in there bro!
It’s very hard to go from a couple to being single. Sometimes people lose track of their community of friends when they’re in a relationship and when it’s over you are an island.
Nice walkaround view of the streets of San Francisco !
You’re walk/talks are the best. Chin up, J. 🎙🎶🎶🎶🎶 “Keep your sunny side up, up/Keep your sunny side up…” 😊
Yo, Jermaine. First, I'm sorry to hear that your relationship ended. Second, I know that you're processing many thoughts and emotions that I certainly felt when I was bullied out of City College twice. Yeah, I had to bring that up again. I could go on, but this ain't about me. What I can tell you is that you'll have to keep fighting bad emotions caused by that breakup even when people endlessly tell you that life will get better. You won't fight them alone, though, despite how life will make you feel that way. Speaking of which, Jermaine, if you got other homies here in the Bay Area, keep in touch with them for a while. Here's to the better half of 2023.
Before I forget, you look good in sweatpants anyway.
Amazingly, it takes time to get through some rough feelings. Time is a great healer. No need to get crazy and run off to (?). Be good to yourself and stay active. You'll always (eventually) meet people you like when you are doing things you like to do. Gym, classes, camping, art, etc, etc. If it's time to move on, then...move on! Thanks for having this talk!
I appreciate your UA-cam videos. I lived there from 1980 - 1985. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to see my old working neighborhood in the financial district.
I lived in the Bay Area (Oakland) from 1987-1991 when I was in the Army stationed at the now closed Oakland Army Base. Used to go to the Presidio sometimes for medical appts and would go to the Burger King with the big windows and wonderful views of the Golden Gate Bridge. I guess you missed the infamous October 17th, 1989 Loma Prieta earthquake. I was at the Hayward BART station when it hit. Last time I visited the Bay Area was in 2003. Things sure have changed since then.
Remember J you are the master of your destiny!
Bro you in a toxic relationship n you know it..Options leave or Stay ✌
His whole lifestyle is toxic
@@homelessmillionaire1HES FROM MEMPHIS HE DOESN'T KNOW ANY BETTER LOL
Appreciate your candor and I'm sure we all sympathize with you ....
Jerm, I feel you and just want to let you know that you will be okay. We ALL have gone thru this. what you said, is exactly how you suppose to feel afterwards. Everything is good. Take time for yourself and really take care of you man. Time heals everything. You will be back to normal one day you wake up.
Hey Jermaine hope you and Lori can work things out. But if not, take some time for yourself. Change is good sometimes. Maybe you both need some time apart to reflect
😃👍🏽✌️❤️
I told you that DUDE was crazy. What are you going to do??? Keep on moving forward, don't look back and under no circumstances take him back!
Proud of you for standing up for yourself. The best is yet to come keep your chin up
Damn Jermaine... things do suck sometimes.... go Travel for a while to Clear your thoughts! "Time 4 a New Adventure!"
What’s up, Jermaine! So glad you’re back. Came wait to pick-up there one way 1 day. 😇
San Francisco was also a lot different when it's primary resident was middle class. That's when the sutro's baths opened and gave a good experience, for a decent price
Fighting is physical. Arguing is verbal misunderstandings. I hope your relationship gets better socially.
The City will come back to life this fall. Today is Labor Day so most people are having a 3-day weekend…empty SF downtown streets.
Hope you can travel in the near future in order to clear your head. There are so many cool & different dance classes, communities and social events in the SF Bay Area. Take care.
Aww, Jermaine, break-ups are hard. But you'll recover and be stronger and happier soon.
My theory (also confirmed by experience and observation) is that break-ups happen because both parties are ready for it to end. It may look like one was ready and the other was not, but in reality it was best for both. So that means this was good for you in the ultimate sense. Not having the relationship, not drinking and clubbing anymore... you've cleared the decks for new activities and new people to enter your life.
And now you can travel again! Think of the freedom! Once you've passed through the emotional part of this, you'll start living a full life again. It's guaranteed! 😃
Keep ya head up brotha
Wow, this is too close to home. Just broke up with my guy here in the Philippines yesterday too, we've been fighting/breaking up for weeks now. Can't believe this popped up HERE since I am subscribed on another channel. I was thinking I need to do a video too explaining my absence from my channels. Yeah, bruh I think you DO need to take off. Im going to another part of the Philippines in a week or back to Thailand. It's rough, tho. I hear the sadness. I was telling a friend, I just feel Sad about it. For me throwing myself into work and 6 months goals. I wish you well, J. I do. Go within find your peace.
You were never meant to be in a box. You're well traveled and cultured. I agree with you the next person should be a reflection of who you are and your standards of what a relationship should look like. Take your time and enjoy your freedom. I'm wishing you the best on your next move. I'm also in SF and I've been thinking about moving, this town is getting a little sleepy.
I used to sit at that same bar all evening after work. I got tired of it too. Now it’s work gym and adventuring around Sf like you. I don’t miss it much at all.
Job is number one. Quiting alcohol is a huge plus. I did the same thing. Takes strength.
It is like everybody got beamed by a spaceship. Where did all the people go on the largest tourism day of the year?
Sorry to hear about your break up. Give yourself some time to realign with your spirit. Don't try to fit in where you don't. Fitness and Wellness is a good place to focus while you are in a realignment chapter of your life. New people will come as you start your walk. Who knows, there may be a new city or career in your future. Change can be good as you see your new reality.
Keep being yourself, J. In these videos and in real life. As an OG subscriber, it is this reality check that keeps me coming back. Your sincerity is very much appreciated. 🙏❤
Thanks for the video walk and talk, Jermaine. Yeah, breakups are hard. It feels like an arm is missing, and like that person is having a better life than us, but in reality, they are hurting too.
I think you should travel my dude
You look great! Just take the time to create other new paths ….you will find your way again!
It is a very sad thing to hear what you said about being followed through the store. I watched my girlfriend at the time get followed around in a wine shop in the Castro. It’s f ing not right. Sometimes I think that humanity is devolving 😢
God Bless you Sir Jermaine ! It is time for you to be in LOVE with yourself and NOT depend on someone else to make you WHOLE ! take gentle care and have fun getting to be CONTENT with you , whether or not you are in a relationship with someone.
Don’t let your pass relationship run you away… deal with it and move on. Everything happens for a reason for the better!!! & to have bigger & better things in life!! ❤
A good tour of the business part of SF. Not drinking at bars, how many can say that? I was working out at a gym noted for competition bodybuilders place to be. They would put a shit load of plates on the bars and walk away when they were done, and poor little me had to take them off so I could lift a small amount of weight. Many were stuck on themselves, and it was beneath them to help the little people. (ignoring the signs) Most of the times I just started using all the machines....Anyway, I'd go to a bar and drink a diet coke while everyone around be was getting crazy drunk. Crazy world out there and sometimes you do want to just hug a tree.
Stay encouraged Jermaine!❤
Looks tough right now but everything is gonna work out bro, I’m currently in Buenos Aires and still miss San Francisco 2 years after leaving. Stay, keep riding round and new will flourish
You got to meet someone in a real environment not a bar. Good Luck Bro.
I am sorry that you and Boo are no longer an item. Hurting is part of our journey. This is a time to stay social and also to look inwardly. Stay prayerful.
Bro I was just in that area working out . Crazy 😂lol
SF needs you
I love that plaza you were in at the start of the video. That’s where Punchline Comedy Club is at. Lots of good memories
Self care is the Best health Care!
Jermaine, get a second job that is social in nature maybe selling cars, teaching video editing, do one on one tours! Remember, love finds you when you not looking it!😊
Take care.
@Jermaine.......did you say....."I was dancing on this dude.".........?
youre a savage, i had to go through the same thing 10 years ago when i was your age. When i divorced my wife in 2005 It was bad in the beginning but I bounced back and found out exactly who i am.
You could travel and see if any place you visit would be a good place to live.
Probably the most depressing video Jermaine has ever put out. At one point in time, Jermaine used to be my favorite You tuber. It's sad to see how far he has fallen. People say you shouldn't judge but when you openly share your life with the world, you are at risk of being judged. In my opinion, Jermaine got too caught up in the SF scenes and lost touch with himself. The Tech scenes, The Bar scenes, The Hipster scenes, The LGBTQ+ Scenes... it looks like he lost pieces of himself navigating all of them. I haven"t watched any of his videos in a long time, after watching them all religiously pre / during pandemic because honestly I don't connect with the content anymore. The low effort walking tours, the awkward video moments between him and Boo, the inconsistent content, and the overall negative takes and rants are mainly the reason why his channel has never really grown. A long time ago he was humble, personable, had a clear direction and a story to tell. Now it's like watching a schizo person with 30 personalities... he doesn't know who he is one minute from the next, he's gotten self centered and his personality has grown vapid. Why make the comment about not wanting to date a straight chick because you assume it would be Boring? How arrogant do you have to be to make a statement like that. Someone is boring just because they're straight? To be totally honest it feels like Jermaine has tried to be so many different things to so many different people in the name of seeking validation, that most of the things he does now seem forced and incongruent with who he is by nature. The weird outfits, the alcohol and drug abuse... The crowds he hangs out with. Jermaine seems to be easily influenced by others and cares too much about trying to be cool. He doesn't travel anymore or put effort into creating any content that engages his subscribers anymore. It's like "hey I don't care if this is cool content". Maybe it is because of the toxic relationship, or the constant bar hopping or attention seeking. Or maybe he doesn't care really. San Francisco changed for the worst the minute the pandemic hit and is never coming back. It will never be the way it was. Sadly the same might be said for Jermaine.
Jermaine I’m so sorry about your breakup. I think you should go back and do live streams with us again. It will help calm you down and have conversation to vent on how you feel. You also have the option now to pickup and GO wherever you want. Also f the pain away. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
Hi. Jermaine. I know what it feels like to be out of a relationship that had big and small issues that got kicked down the road until that moment. That. You’re not in a relationship anymore. It’s very lonely and can be depressing. Freedom or being single is the invoice for choosing to give up on each other. Now is the time for self love. I believe that the more that You put into Yourself. Your “ Love Light “ Will Shine and gravitate to the Next Universal Love Mate in the future.
The City is great when its empty. Great walk
Germaine. Bro I'm so sorry. No matter what, love yourself. There are no perfect relationships. Everyone argues. I think your boo is a keeper. In the average long term relationship there might be 5or more breakups. Keep the channels of communications open. Give yourselves time to calm down. Consider hanging with her and not in bars. Don't put your private business on the streets. Get personal and couple counseling. Peace youngling.
I'm single. I live in North Beach. I never go to bars. Nothing good happens there. I don't waste time there, or money! I'll go to a coffee house periodically. I call and talk with friends who live outside of the City. I read, stream. you're a creative guy and there are art classes in the City. Try new stuff. I love that you take dance classes. learning to enjoy your own company for extended time is a helpful skill. Otherwise, you spend a lot of time processing what others are saying.... get to know yourself even better!
sounds like the relationship gave you alot of confidence in the fashion direction ..... but ,remember you had a great amount of social openness before you met Boo from all your International travels ..just touch base with the wandering nature you have always had ..... you might just be alot more mello than most of the people you run across in the city........ life rolls in and out like waves .......you'll catch your next wave that you can devote time to .....as far as filming ,you could film in the bay area for a decade and never show it all ,so stay here until you are pulled somewhere else by some bigger energy .....................I hardly ever tell anybody to do this kind of shit ,but maybe its a good time to construct some kind of "dream board" of what you want life to be like in 5 years ,and put it out into the universe {I know ,maybe lame haha but why not } we got to get your channel to 100K dude, cuz you are cool
Agree with the dream board! It's fun to do and you never know, something might come from it.
Sorry to hear about your relationship. Maybe you may need to get a change of scenery out of the Bay Area for a little while like a few days to explore another city. Maybe go back to NYC or somewhere else in Northeast, or Chicago, Up ( Upper Peninsula ) in Michigan, go to Dallas, or Houston and explore them. Maybe go and visit your family in Memphis. Just a few suggestions. 😊
I would make plans to move just to get away from the places and people that keep you thinking of and remembering her and the breakup. The best cure to a relationship that ended is starting a new one in the same boat.
i feel you too Bro 😎 • I don’t blame you toxic relationship I agree •••
id can go ill book places out state or usa . bro this city reason why people leave ___ 😅
Oh my word. Let me just said this, YOU are the best out THERE. You are. I’m sorry about Boo, but just move among. You’ll find bender after it do?😇
Hope I bump into you one day! I live in the city but out in east bay all the time. U seem cool asf and I appreciate ur city tours dude, have a good one ✌🏽
Aye man u should hit up dolo or lake Merritt in the day, I meet ppl at the parks an just kick it there! Night life’s kinda dead anyway since crime is outta hand an shit, clubs closin early an being over priced.
But I’m a stoner so ig I got diff style of socializing 😅
Thank. You. For sharing.
developing a muscle to be cool with being by yourself is a good and healthy thing. You have a lot of energy. Bar energy sucks. Just seems like you're not all that good with being by yourself...finding an enjoyable way to do that. it is a great thing to not be reliant on the energy of others to have an enjoyable time : )
Go to Tokyo asap
I still can't beleive how the city is now ... I used to work and party there
My boy, take care
Ride some bikes, ride some skate boards
Smoke some herb
You were happier single, traveling and making videos
You realized San Francisco isn't what you dreamed of. Seems like old fashion back in the day San Fran was where it was at.
She got you where she wants you
Well bro. It's still fresh so if the relationship between your ex-girl still have potential for you guys getting back together. For now I don't suggest looking for someone new. The break-up to fresh that's why.
I liveef in San Francisco from 1992 until 2013
I never saw any benefits from the bars. I felt masochistic because I would go even though I knew it.
That woman eventually will expose the real reason why she excepted you in her life and decided to be with you in the first place. So it would behoove you stay clear of her because this is not only very toxic but outright blasphemous (and you know what I’m talking about) Only then is when the true healing will start or begin with you… good luck and you can do it my little brother Jermaine!
If you not feeling the alcohol or cigarettes smoke cut it off do something more worth your time!
God Loves you Brother. Jesus said I am the way and the truth and the Life no man comes to the Father but by me. Its not about a Religion self-seeking but a Personal relationship with God we Worship Him in spirit and truth. Online. Divine Revelation
bro, it's time to dust that passport off and start traveling again. it's crazy how you met her just before the corona and now things are kind of getting back to normal you break up.
think about your favorite country and go.
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Jermaine their plenty of fish in 😁the sea maybe not in San Francisco
You need to keep it in your pants if you want a monotonous relationship.
Don't know if you were being fascetious when you wrote " monotonous" instead of " monogamous" LOL!
Again I say don't want to be mean, talking shit but I noticed she always talked over you, would get pissed off a bit when you said something she didn't like, a grown up would listen, reflect and compromise on what is being said I mean if she did that to me Id just say bye your a capable dude and actually care I really didn't get that vibe from her. I know everyone has their views and idk if she's a UA-camr also but that gay pride parade video was just damn awkward with her saying some shit at the end like she was just ranting idk if it was the alcohol but yeah keep your head up id say out weigh the good and bad from what I see your good without her she doesn't even listen. If I was single id stay single! Keep dressing like before
Jermaine go get your girl back bro. You guys been together for awhile just to walk away.
You like guys and she likes girls.. she’s the guy and you’re the girl .. and she treats you like that 😅 stop simping .. and just date guys . Shits weird bruh
She was never good for you. She was negative and gave bad energy.
Young man; Alcohol Kills.
Get back to traveling and electric bike reviews please
Jermaine, you sound BLUE...time to look in the mirror..."whats up, chief?" you can be happy, or crappy?
20:14 Maybe get your groceries delivered instead?
Did you have some kind of open relationship & You don’t want a straight chick?
He really doesn't know what he wants, can't you tell???
you haven't anything to say...it's just about yourself...see a shrink youtube doesn't care...
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That whole city looks ghost town🤔
Trump virus. Over a million deaths & economic meltdown. U.S. beat the world outdoing India & Brazil in covid deaths. MAGA
@@Bayboy408 oh ok👍
@@danielmyles7416 Don't pay attention to them. These liberals can't accept reality. Even if it's not a holiday, why would there be many people in that area in the first place? There aren't even sh*t to do there because many businesses are shut down due to high crimes, homelessness, drugs but if you point out the obvious, these liberals would it's a "holiday" or "online businesses are taking over" instead of addressing the real issues
Burnn..Loott..Murderr..
Ghost town