@@Hayden-bs3oz it feels like fake confidence to me. sometimes i end up leveling up to their fake confidence and mirror it...and then im like, wtf is happening why am i being so douch-y
@@katrin6388 There are stupid guys out their with fake confidence.....other guys notice this in just guy talk (in sales). Its like they bought their confidence online and injected it, cause its sure not them. Its funny as hell.
@@katrin6388 Many people who were "made for each other" were just being themselves, minimal effort but just natural flow. What about the hot girl who answers every question with a few simple words and adds nothing to the conversation even though she was previously staring at me? It goes both ways ladies.
@@kekupchurch6236 I've seen ugly guys with beautiful women. I think the psychology and presentation is probably far more valuable than looks or money. Only time your looks will kill you is if you are a disgusting slob who doesn't have good hygiene or doesn't take care of himself.
@@kekupchurch6236 Not true! An attractive/rich/smart guy that gets with 1 in 3 women he says hi to, has less women than an average/poor/simple guy that only gets 1 in 30 women. The secret? It's not the "game", everyone who had extensive experience with women already has "game". The secret lies in the fact that the attractive guy has meaningful connections with women that love him and is thus less desperate and always sexually satisfied. Being in such a state (knowing you already have women who would do almost everything for you, knowing that sex from 3-4 women is a phone call away) is making you less eager to go and talk to a new woman. And even when you go, she can see you don't really want her or need her. Many men are "confident" with women, but for most of average dudes, "confidence" is really a sort of desperation. And even if people say women smell desperation a mile away... believe me: they can't smell all the kinds there are. And some kinds of desperation, get you laid big time, if you try enough.
The whole bit about not ruining the perception others have of you. I been needing to hear that for a long time. I'm a 34 year old virgin who's never even been kissed, yet you'd never assume that if you saw me. I'm deathly afraid to make mistakes because I want to keep that cool perception yet here I am 34 and have never known love.
@@vatroslavmorbidovic4105 Okay. In 188cm but I wouldn't consider 180cm tall. Probably 186cm is a bit tall. And 190cm is tall. And 196cm is big, and 200cm+ is huge
It’’s true that attractive dudes tend to rely too much on looks with women instead of learning game. Looks can be the key into the door but that shit gets locked up quick if you don’t know how to make them feel.
That's because their moms & grandma's & all the girls around them talk about looks mainly. So the majority of the guys feedback is about . . . looks. He has to figure out game & other stuff to make things happen. If he fails to do that then he's also criticized & ridiculed for not knowing. Instead of informing him or giving constructive criticism, he's berated. But thank God for channels like this & ppl like him that can help a fella out!
Sometimes attractive guys with personality actually still struggle for example I'm attractive with personality but still struggle lol I think I'm intimidating some of these women
Story of my life. I tend to act aloof and demand that girls prefer me without me doing anything. Usually they think I don't like them and choose an easier guy...
@@samuelanderson9416 I think it's a little narcissistic trait. I am trying to correct it. Pick up literature, in a certain sense, encourages this trait, but I have found that people who are more generous and kind do very well, if they are attractive too...
Yeah..me too.she showing all positive signs..even asking my number from her cousin..i really like her,but i play it cool..about 2 weeks later..she go for another man.. Whatever.learn from mistakes
4:41 Oof this is so true.. I thought my looks would carry me to success back in school until I got into the "adult" world and realized how wrong I was. I was very insecure but good looking growing up and I used my looks as sort of a security blanket to hide my lack of confidence and fear of socializing.
I am actually a relatively good looking guy. Last week I talked to one girl friend and said that there are a lot of women who reject me. She looked amazed and told me that she can't imagine that any girl would reject me because I look like the ideal guy for a woman. I think one thing that is really frustrating for us is that our family, friends expect us to be good with women by default because of good looks. And by not meeting their expectations they are disappointed and confused about you and it also puts extra pressure on you. My family constantly asks me why I don't have a girlfriend and it's frustrating because they wouldn't understand even if I started to explain. So we just need to forget about the idea that it is a great advantage, shed our ego and start to get better at communication and gaming.
@Aadem Rose I have a similar situation. My parents were shocked that I approach girls outside, who I haven't seen before. In my parents eyes I should have met my "wife" years ago when I still went with them, when they visited their friends. Maybe these friends of my parents have a daughter I find attractive (conversly the same) and the "neverending love story" starts... What has this to do with reality? Absolutely nothing... :D
@Aadem Rose Austria - the little country in the alps. ;) No, my parents just don't want to put up with the fact that I do it that way. I can remember that my grandma said at least 15 years ago that the girls will start stalking me soon (because of my look). But I can tell you why I had appropriate troubles in school. Because I was shy. Today I say "no wonder that you got teased by the cool classmates" when I look back. :D
@Aadem Rose Your airport story is funny. Do you remember how you felt right before this happened? Have you been nervous or were you feeling good and strong? I guess it was the last one because the girl has realized that as she saw you and wanted to sit next to you. Oh my god the typical situation that she doesn't want to stand in a "bad light" in front of her parents because she is flirting with men on the airport (although you didn't have any conversation)... I would say it is important that you give a woman the feeling that she is NOT a b**** when she goes to bed with you quickly. In my eyes women in Austria are fighting with this cliche more than in other countries. There are only a few confident women who are independent from this dogma. Yeah that's true and of course these girls new that they actually could have every man here in the airplane. :D
"If a girl is pursuing you, a lot of times she's below your mate value" - hey, that explains why no girl ever pursues me or comes up to me! My mate value is 0, can't go negative here! But yes, since the internet confirmed that I'm good looking, I'm the living example that looks are completely useless.
@@TheSingleGuy I go out every weekend, and have social hobbies. Can't put myself out there much more than I already do. The last months, I had usually two free evenings in the entire week where I was at home.
As a really good looking guy, this actually hits home. I realise how entitled I’ve been when it comes to women, I’ve always expected them to approach me and I often get disappointed when they don’t. I don’t ever attempt to approach or even flirt, seems I’ve got a lot to learn.
Dude i have the exact same problem. After high school i started using the approach of let them come to you, i had so many girls stare at me excitedly but nothing happener because despite their looks... they didnt approach me. So i stayed single... because i just lookee back at them with a casual smile... and did nothing. Never saw them again either cuz these are short moments that u either capitalize on or unfortunately dont.
Coming from a handsome guy: First you make the money, then when you get the Money then you get the power, when you get the power then you get the women💯💯
There was this hot girl in highschool who told me, in regards to me, "I have never dated a guy who was more good looking than me". This girl was really blunt and always said whatever came to her mind. Never dated her though, because I was dumb and waited too long to make a move even with all her extremely obvious signs
Many of us have been there my dude, in HS I was completely oblivious to 'sexual language' in regard to flirting, game. Even the most obvious sign went over my head too many times. When it came to social skills and game, I understood maybe less than 5% of what was going on.
OMG dude this video describes me perfectly , with the entitelment and not going out and improving social skills ! or think that world give you what you want on a golden plate because of the looks , thanks brother i needed this :D
Agree 💯. As a AM who is in his 40's approached by 20's + (7-10 SMV - women of all races come at me) up to this day I can say what O.P. is saying is true. However, as a chubby/fat kid who grew into looks (told by most women on average 8-10 depending on the woman) I had to develop who I was as a child and learn how to a conversationalist, which eventually helped as my looks caught up. Contrary to that my best friend who was 6'3" light skin black model since we were 7 always got the ladies and had the smooth conversation styles (he's a listener) while I am a talker. But the one thing over time I've learned is women are 'emotional' creatures and while good looks make it easier to 'get in the door' the rest is personality, people skills and emotional I.Q., the more you can make her 'feel' attracted to you the more she will be. Women quickly get over the looks (not that they don't date based on looks) but if they can't emotionally connect then even if they have sex with you it won't be more than that as they only date STR/LTR with men that make them feel certain emotions (depends on the woman). I am tired of the games so stepped out of the market to focus on self-actualization but if you want women - listen, pick up non-verbal cues as what she is reacting positively to and drive conversations that direction (they love story telling - you take them on a journey mentally/emotionally when you talk about yourself and your interests they are very visual that way). Most of the words you say are lost to them it's the emotions conveyed by what/how you say it that gets them. Just my 2 cents from a older dawg. Cheers! Great vid btw.
Awesome video. Everything is on point. I have been with a lot of women and noticed that 80% were women who made it EXTREMELY easy for me and every point you made on this video is true. I did used to feel the fear of rejection, the feeling that I should be getting the girl instead of the other weird guys. I even at some point had the stupid idea that if a girl wanted to get with me she would initiate lol) But I’ve learned I need to keep working on myself. My game with women, was practically non existent. thanks for your videos.
You should switch it up and talk about how good looking men have challenges with other men outside of just women. I noticed that the more fit and better looking I became, the more guys I knew didn’t want to go hang out and shoot some pool or even play a simple game of basketball. These have to be traits of other issues that being a over average looking man has to deal with as well
Women are attracted to three things in a man. 1. Confidence or Charisma 2. How you make her feel or emotionally compelling 3. Status or being a big fish in a little pond or contextual alpha guy.
I seem to attract with witty sarcasm not sure but when I want to be away from everyone is when people seem to like being around me. Like when I’m super honest and don’t care. And I believe I’m good looking and I carry myself with confidence. People can sense that. It’s just I’m so shy. And now I tell everyone that. So they know who I am. Because being vulnerable is sexy. It’s very sexy
Same man. The weed ESPECIALLY. I feel like when you over indulge in it, it stagnates you and forces you into a routine. For a long time I convinced myself my weed smoking wasn't a problem because I got up and went to class and work everyday
Confidence and energy are equally important to looks. Romance is social so you have to have decent to good social skills. I’ve found nofap and sobriety help my confidence quite a bit. Not wasting away my life force on weed and porn
I know I'm a handsome guy and I also use to think I was better looking when I was younger, but I definitely have trouble meeting women, I've had plenty of hook-ups in my life but it's never really with the girl I actually want, with an exception of a couple women. Also when I was younger women weren't an issue now in my mid 20's it's getting rough.
It’s not about game bro! You’re hot she thinks you’re a player..no number. They make false assumptions of you before your even open your mouth. She could been like he’s cute but no before you even speak.Be yourself, who cares stop trying to prove yourself. Let her go to the other guys. Stop making everything about her.
Yep so true. One day there all over you the next they talk to someone else. As men we have not care no not act really not care. And never text more than once. If she ain’t replied refrain please... like there is this cute girl at work who said I got so fit. I told her cause I’m nuts! And she gave me her number. I texted a few times saying it’s me. The worst thing to ever happen to you. Which she replied but after that???? No point I’ll text her again tomorrow to see if she is still down. And if not she gets zero reaction. Other than “ oh well”
This is very true. I am actually a good looking guy. Tall dark hair great fitness body. The problem was that overtime I did honestly, try to get by with my looks instead of really working on my game and getting out there more and talking to women. Being completely transperent and honest, I did have that entitlment because of my good looks, and yes I do agree with the part about how its the girls we aren't interested in that approach us more, and the ones we are attracted to we very much slack on talking to and working our game. I am working on getting out there more socially. Thanks for this insight!
Spot on lol Girls date up Guys date down and on their level A girl will almost never show big flirting signs to a guy who's not more attractive than her
Looks are subjective ,,, and because you think you're good looking ,doesn't mean that the girl thinks you're good looking ,,,, A girl has to think your good looking and be attracted to you
Yea I’ve had to deal with this my entire life. Even when I was younger and had way less game I would go out and women would come up to me a lot just to tell me how good looking I am. Still happens a lot to this day. At work, we have a new girl that’s hot asf but shes engaged and she told other coworkers that she thought I was really cute and the best out of all the guys we have. I’ve been trying to stay humble but it’s very hard when you get so much validation. I’m not even in my best shape either, still good though but damn I still can improve. I used to think ALL women are supposed to want to sleep with me. As I got older (28 now) the harsh reality of life showed me that it did not matter how handsome I am. I still get rejected and flakes on, girls not responding. Sometimes I’ll see them choose guys that are not as good looking and it confuses me. That example about the Asian guy on the bus really hit home for me. It irks me that type of shit happens a lot. Being a good looking guy with a bad to mediocre personality is like an ugly girl with great personality. Game is truly everything to sum it up.
I'm probably ugly. But I don't care how I look like. It's not important. I just want to look presentable. Means good clothes, good haircut etc... I mean if you just came inside a super model would still self doubt yourself and worry about how good or bad you are looking. You wouldn't give a shit about it. You would maybe even find it hilarious that there are "tough" men out there asking themselves this question.
Me too. Especially since becoming fit. I get called handsome all the time now it’s kinda surreal. Also it’s a bit upsetting . I don’t even have to do much now for a female to notice me. Like take off my hoody. I feel like how a woman I guess would. Getting compliments left and right by people you don’t know. It’s nice but at the same time what am I to you just some status fuck or a notch on your belt? I mean again 9 months ago no attention. And now they won’t leave me alone. And most of them are very dull
I’m in the same boat 🚣♂️... the chick was eyeing me like she wanted me for days and after i gave her my number ? She never texted me and when she sees me? She does say hello but I don’t see vibe i got at first. I won’t stress it..
lol you talking about me, i get numbers easy but i can’t keep the conversation going don’t know what to say 😏, but now i started learning from your channel !!
Honestly it’s not to much about about looks. I get complimented on looks but it really means nothing. You gotta have personality, sense of humours,work ethic, something in common with the girl, etc.
I don't care how good your game is, if you're trying to get a highly attractive women to stay with you, it's almost impossible. Maybe in our great grandparents generation, but now with social media there are too many options out there and as soon as she gets bored or there is a little problem in the relationship, she is gone on to the next dude. Most relationships with highly attractive women are temporary.
Dude that is a weak mentality, if you look outside towards other women and never make your woman feel like she won you over. You can keep her interested only in you but that may require you not telling a woman you love that you love her.
Weak mentality bruh If she looks up to you. Or you've built an attachment and you're still improving yourself without getting fat She'll stay with you Just check Ariana Grande's husband bro And she's just the high profile one So many girls wholeheartedly love their husbands who are 5s and 6s and the girls are 9s and 10s That emotional attachment is King
Wow this related to me so much and explains everything what I'm doing wrong, n I'm a good looking guy n have slept with quite a few women but really have trouble in dating , and it makes it alot harder when ur a recovering addict.
The guys who are 5's-7's are actually who are the most successful with women. Being too goodlooking can be detrimental because chicks want a guy who makes them feel desirable and comfortable which is why many handsome men struggle to get sex and dates. Generally speaking most women don't want a guy who looks better than them and it usually unattractive homely women and older females that have the courage to hook up and deal with you. Being handsome gets you a lot of stares and compliments but it rarely leads to dates and sex. Even if they make it easier for you to talk to them, chicks love to play a lot of games and hold you to higher expectations than average and ugly guys. Good looks only gets you attention and compliments, but game, sex appeal, and having a good body are the main ingredients that lead to sex and dates.
holy fucks shit pancake this video resonates with me so much. it feels like it just gave me the key to being a normal human beings. blessings on you and your bloodline brother
Actually, being handsome is really a benefit brothers! You’re instinct separates the weak from the chaff! Thats a GOOD thing brothers!! If you know your above average you will have options with women who are on the same level as you! Doesn’t mean its going to be easier, nope it actually even more difficult at a certain level! What i found out is that if you deal with woman that are good looking but very insecure you beter raise your damn standards and look for someone who gives you the respect you deserve! Don’t wast your time askin questions to girls who don’t show any interest in you... there has to be a balance in attraction! If she plays hard to get thats fine for a wile but there is a point you should move on!
Hey buddy! It's incredible how your channel took off. I remember watching some of your videos when you were starting and you had like 1000 views or less on each one. I guess they took off after the whole pandemic thing. Guys were desperate in seeking dating advice while they were being confined and that's how many other dating advice channels took off as well I guess. It's like, before, I didnt even know who Stephiscold was until this guy Raymond from the Living Abundance channel started taking clips from him and promoting the dude! But it is interesting to see that normal, natural guys have had more success on youtube than Pickup artists that had been in the game for longer and supposedly knew all the tricks. Now regular guys like you who were never part of the community have hundnreds of thousands of subscribers, even more than recognized PU coaches like Arash Dibazar. It's incredible! Anyway, cheers buddy
Sometimes women get intimidated by goodlooking guys and give them auto rejections lol. Its happened to me a few times but its cool. I have a decent level of game too. I can sense a female's level of insecurity just from talking to her. An insecure women is a major turn off for me.
Try being white in a Vietnamese casino. Asians really do like white boys. I’ve never been called handsome so many times in a 3 month span. But it’s up to me to remain chill calm. And still I must be. Just be me.
You are FUCKING GENIOUS BRO!!! You have solved my doubts because everyone tells me I am good looking but I can't get the girl I want. Now I understand why!!
A friend of mine linked me this vid. Personally I’ve always thought they i had everything a girl should want (sports, decent looks etc) and i would get frustrated when a girl would deny me. Obv i would find out why and it never had to do with looks. After watching this i realized i am legit the dude u describe in ur video. the person who seems to have it all. I haven’t gone for too many girls but it’s in part the fact that i can’t find someone i like. Ur vid is helpful and i was wondering if u could talk abt ur dating experiences in highschool vs college and what u wish u could’ve done differently. Thanks!
@@waytides yeah, 100% percent, which do you think gets more of an emotional response from women, a guy they didn’t find aesthetically pleasing at first glance being an asshole after hooking up or the dude they were thinking about messing around with off looks alone being an asshole. It almost like women react to things people do that they think they have no right doing more.
I'll tell you some secrets that no man knows First of all sorry for my bad English. What happened in the bus between you and the girl and the asian boy is because the girl feels attracted to you And when the girls see attractive man they act like they don't attracted because they hate when man knows that he is attractive, Girls love the good looking man who doesn't know that he is a good looking. The point is when girls be around a good looking man they act and they try to make him feel like he is not good looking
you just described my life. Also, it is very important to remember that each girl has her own taste. i mean, a guy can think he is good looking, and other man can tell him that, but girls can think he looks too feminine or what ever. i know many girls that prefer guys that look like some caveman, they think they are muhc hotter than the typical hot guy stereotype from the movies. girls have their fetishes. one good looking girl told me she likes guys with a big nose and it just makes her hot, like, when it comes to looks you never know whats up.
I’m a pretty good looking dude and get hardly any matches on Tinder. Maybe 4-6 a week. Been in three weeks and haven’t landed one meet up. Demoralizing. Fuck it I’m going out on Friday night.. alone cuz I have no friends because I’ve been in a translation phase in life and all my old friends are gone. Lol challenging times ahead
The hardest thing for me is how people use me like bait and I really just want to be alone, but get dumped on by EVERYONE for not chasing women. I'm not gay. I am picky, but just want to be single and not sleep around. I use to be a model and get called a 10 very often by men and women I've also noticed women get fussy and even disrespectful if you stair too much and don't make a move.
Ill be honest... Ive been told im pretty attractive....amd im not really happy with the girls ive been dating... So this definitely gave me some good info
*ugly and poor= nothing.* *good looks and poor = one night stand* *ugly and rich= multiple one night stands and sugar daddies* *good looking and rich = the ocean is yours.*
Dude, I needed this video, thanks. I feel like you described my situation here pretty well, I feel like I'm pretty good looking (hard to say if I really am but I do easily get Tinder matches, sometimes compliments irl and stuff like that so I don't think it's just my perception), however I have no game, I feel like I'm generally pretty boring and have no self confidence in my personality. I have this thought in my head that my looks should be able to carry me better but obviously they don't just as you say in the video. Maybe I'm not even as good looking as I perceive myself but it doesn't really matter. I've just started watching some of your videos and they do really seem pretty good and helpful. Your advice generally seems some of the best I've come across in this area. I've read some blogs and watched some videos from other "pick up artists" and some of the shit they say just makes me absolutely roll my eyes, which is not a feeling I've come across from watching about 10 of your videos so far. Not sure how much your advice is really going to end up changing my life, obviously going out and actually doing something is the important part but it's always also the hardest part making a change in your life. Thanks for the videos either way.
No problem man, yeah my goal for this channel was always to be someone who helped guys out but not make them weirder and more antisocial which I feel a lot of pick up guys do. With consistent action, my and a lot of other guys' advice will surely change your life. Having a mentor/coach also helps
Hey thanks for the video. Hard relate. I get sick and tired of guys claiming that good looking guys have it easy, that chicks dont reject them. Hell, they even say that when attractive guys approach women, its never considered creepy. I hate that stupid meme too. Pure goddamn hogwash. I was very good looking at 21. Ppl assumed I had a woman. In reality I was lonely, depressed, socially awkward, unable to detect signs of interest and shy. There were women who I creeped out by accident. Id gotten rejected on approach.
Personally i consider just to focus in your own development, make something that you are passionate about, in my personal experience i dont have game with girls and i consider myself a really attractive guy, but i found a lot of frustration and sadness, trying to be the alpha guy that flirts and seduces women, now im just working in improving my looks but most important, improving my skills yo have a better job and in a future, having my own business, also im working on my passion just to be a DJ, if a girl likes that Will be cool but if not fuck It, maybe in a future i Will start flirting and improving that part, but know It Will bring me frustration
So basically, a handsome guy is like a video game with great graphics but uninspiring gameplay
Perfect description
Lol, you got it buddy.
Hey that me
Depending on the guy yeah
Nah it’s like great graphic but u need the DLC expansion pack = $$
1.-Feel Entitled because you are hot
2.-Dont having game
3.-Caring too much what others think about you
4.-Dont take any risks
the first one is the worst. its like the guy who thinks he doesnt neet to put any effort into it, girls will do all the work.
Bingo. Shit personality and over or under inflated confidence too.
@@Hayden-bs3oz it feels like fake confidence to me. sometimes i end up leveling up to their fake confidence and mirror it...and then im like, wtf is happening why am i being so douch-y
@@katrin6388 There are stupid guys out their with fake confidence.....other guys notice this in just guy talk (in sales). Its like they bought their confidence online and injected it, cause its sure not them. Its funny as hell.
@@katrin6388 Many people who were "made for each other" were just being themselves, minimal effort but just natural flow. What about the hot girl who answers every question with a few simple words and adds nothing to the conversation even though she was previously staring at me? It goes both ways ladies.
I was one of the best looking guys in high school but the average looking guys got more action than me!!!
Fr same!! 😂😂😂
I've hooked up a ton in my life, but ive been rejected a lot more. Its all a numbers game.
Yessir it is
It's a numbers game for above average looking men. For average looking men, the game is rigged.
@@kekupchurch6236 average men get more women I've seen it
@@kekupchurch6236 I've seen ugly guys with beautiful women. I think the psychology and presentation is probably far more valuable than looks or money. Only time your looks will kill you is if you are a disgusting slob who doesn't have good hygiene or doesn't take care of himself.
@@kekupchurch6236 Not true! An attractive/rich/smart guy that gets with 1 in 3 women he says hi to, has less women than an average/poor/simple guy that only gets 1 in 30 women. The secret? It's not the "game", everyone who had extensive experience with women already has "game". The secret lies in the fact that the attractive guy has meaningful connections with women that love him and is thus less desperate and always sexually satisfied. Being in such a state (knowing you already have women who would do almost everything for you, knowing that sex from 3-4 women is a phone call away) is making you less eager to go and talk to a new woman. And even when you go, she can see you don't really want her or need her. Many men are "confident" with women, but for most of average dudes, "confidence" is really a sort of desperation. And even if people say women smell desperation a mile away... believe me: they can't smell all the kinds there are. And some kinds of desperation, get you laid big time, if you try enough.
You're totally right man.. I've tried so many times to have a "mysterious" aura and it never works cuz I'm really just scared af to talk to people
Being better looking + putting yourself out there = attraction
The whole bit about not ruining the perception others have of you. I been needing to hear that for a long time. I'm a 34 year old virgin who's never even been kissed, yet you'd never assume that if you saw me. I'm deathly afraid to make mistakes because I want to keep that cool perception yet here I am 34 and have never known love.
I feel you brother. I feel you.
How’s it going now?
Yeaa, this kinda my situation. I am a decent looking guy, tall , try to stay in shape and women who aproach me are not my type. It is frustrating...
What is tall?
@@yunobog2554 1.8m or more.
@@vatroslavmorbidovic4105 Okay. In 188cm but I wouldn't consider 180cm tall. Probably 186cm is a bit tall. And 190cm is tall. And 196cm is big, and 200cm+ is huge
@@yunobog2554 the general rule is 183cm is considered tall or above average. I'm 190 cm so im pretty tall for example.
even of you re good looking you need to build your confidence through experience, if you knw what i mean
Yup. Entitlement is repulsive to women. Confident indifference is the key
That's why they are the most entitled ones..
This applies to us men as well. Where majority of us men are repulsed by entitled women.
They just want to see ugly chicks pair off no matter what.
It’’s true that attractive dudes tend to rely too much on looks with women instead of learning game. Looks can be the key into the door but that shit gets locked up quick if you don’t know how to make them feel.
That's because their moms & grandma's & all the girls around them talk about looks mainly. So the majority of the guys feedback is about . . . looks. He has to figure out game & other stuff to make things happen. If he fails to do that then he's also criticized & ridiculed for not knowing. Instead of informing him or giving constructive criticism, he's berated. But thank God for channels like this & ppl like him that can help a fella out!
Damn this was so simple but so true
@@YellowPaint100 this is true
Speaking of "game" we've all know an average looking guy with no game, yet has a hot girl. Howd that happen?
Sometimes attractive guys with personality actually still struggle for example I'm attractive with personality but still struggle lol I think I'm intimidating some of these women
Story of my life. I tend to act aloof and demand that girls prefer me without me doing anything. Usually they think I don't like them and choose an easier guy...
Alessandro Miletti that playing it too cool thing fucks me over too
@@samuelanderson9416 I think it's a little narcissistic trait. I am trying to correct it. Pick up literature, in a certain sense, encourages this trait, but I have found that people who are more generous and kind do very well, if they are attractive too...
DUDE THATS MY STORY OF 23 YEARS I ALWAYS PLAY IT COOL AND REGRET WHEN THEY STOP SHOWING ATTENTION
Yeah..me too.she showing all positive signs..even asking my number from her cousin..i really like her,but i play it cool..about 2 weeks later..she go for another man..
Whatever.learn from mistakes
I’m too intimidating apparently
4:41 Oof this is so true.. I thought my looks would carry me to success back in school until I got into the "adult" world and realized how wrong I was. I was very insecure but good looking growing up and I used my looks as sort of a security blanket to hide my lack of confidence and fear of socializing.
6:21 That's the actual matter with me...I don't wanna lose mu standards.
I feel attacked but thank you
I protecc
I attacc
but most of all
I got yo bacc
@@TheSingleGuy you sexy beast
I am actually a relatively good looking guy. Last week I talked to one girl friend and said that there are a lot of women who reject me. She looked amazed and told me that she can't imagine that any girl would reject me because I look like the ideal guy for a woman.
I think one thing that is really frustrating for us is that our family, friends expect us to be good with women by default because of good looks. And by not meeting their expectations they are disappointed and confused about you and it also puts extra pressure on you. My family constantly asks me why I don't have a girlfriend and it's frustrating because they wouldn't understand even if I started to explain.
So we just need to forget about the idea that it is a great advantage, shed our ego and start to get better at communication and gaming.
@Aadem Rose I have a similar situation. My parents were shocked that I approach girls outside, who I haven't seen before. In my parents eyes I should have met my "wife" years ago when I still went with them, when they visited their friends. Maybe these friends of my parents have a daughter I find attractive (conversly the same) and the "neverending love story" starts... What has this to do with reality? Absolutely nothing... :D
@Aadem Rose Austria - the little country in the alps. ;) No, my parents just don't want to put up with the fact that I do it that way. I can remember that my grandma said at least 15 years ago that the girls will start stalking me soon (because of my look). But I can tell you why I had appropriate troubles in school. Because I was shy. Today I say "no wonder that you got teased by the cool classmates" when I look back. :D
@Aadem Rose Your airport story is funny. Do you remember how you felt right before this happened? Have you been nervous or were you feeling good and strong? I guess it was the last one because the girl has realized that as she saw you and wanted to sit next to you. Oh my god the typical situation that she doesn't want to stand in a "bad light" in front of her parents because she is flirting with men on the airport (although you didn't have any conversation)... I would say it is important that you give a woman the feeling that she is NOT a b**** when she goes to bed with you quickly. In my eyes women in Austria are fighting with this cliche more than in other countries. There are only a few confident women who are independent from this dogma. Yeah that's true and of course these girls new that they actually could have every man here in the airplane. :D
every chick says that lol, they are about comfort, not solutions
Hard relate
"If a girl is pursuing you, a lot of times she's below your mate value" - hey, that explains why no girl ever pursues me or comes up to me! My mate value is 0, can't go negative here!
But yes, since the internet confirmed that I'm good looking, I'm the living example that looks are completely useless.
Don't be too hard on yourself man, I'm sure if you got out there more you would find women are pursuing you
@@TheSingleGuy I go out every weekend, and have social hobbies. Can't put myself out there much more than I already do. The last months, I had usually two free evenings in the entire week where I was at home.
Increase your mate value.
Wow, this guy is so spot on. I’ve had this same feeling and it really learns to humble you once you learn to suppress it.
As a really good looking guy, this actually hits home. I realise how entitled I’ve been when it comes to women, I’ve always expected them to approach me and I often get disappointed when they don’t. I don’t ever attempt to approach or even flirt, seems I’ve got a lot to learn.
Dude i have the exact same problem. After high school i started using the approach of let them come to you, i had so many girls stare at me excitedly but nothing happener because despite their looks... they didnt approach me. So i stayed single... because i just lookee back at them with a casual smile... and did nothing. Never saw them again either cuz these are short moments that u either capitalize on or unfortunately dont.
Coming from a handsome guy: First you make the money, then when you get the Money then you get the power, when you get the power then you get the women💯💯
Money over girls 💵💵 any day they will always be a lot of women
Scarface lol
Hey Tony give me back the yeyo 😛
That’s how it’s supposed to be but there’s guys who don’t have shit and still get easily
@@TherealSIRenityyea, they can get it for a short period of time! But then when she realize you have nothing you're getting thrown to the 🗑️.
There was this hot girl in highschool who told me, in regards to me, "I have never dated a guy who was more good looking than me". This girl was really blunt and always said whatever came to her mind. Never dated her though, because I was dumb and waited too long to make a move even with all her extremely obvious signs
Many of us have been there my dude, in HS I was completely oblivious to 'sexual language' in regard to flirting, game. Even the most obvious sign went over my head too many times. When it came to social skills and game, I understood maybe less than 5% of what was going on.
This video is pure facts!
OMG dude this video describes me perfectly , with the entitelment and not going out and improving social skills ! or think that world give you what you want on a golden plate because of the looks , thanks brother i needed this :D
I was swiping right on tinder while listening to this. I got a bbw date tonight lol
Bahaha. hey man pussy is pussy lol
She's not a bbw she's fat.
All pussies aren’t created equal 😂
That's mean
@@mersaphireful mean he said it nice. So she's fat and she's brain washed that sucks
Agree 💯. As a AM who is in his 40's approached by 20's + (7-10 SMV - women of all races come at me) up to this day I can say what O.P. is saying is true.
However, as a chubby/fat kid who grew into looks (told by most women on average 8-10 depending on the woman) I had to develop who I was as a child and learn how to a conversationalist, which eventually helped as my looks caught up.
Contrary to that my best friend who was 6'3" light skin black model since we were 7 always got the ladies and had the smooth conversation styles (he's a listener) while I am a talker.
But the one thing over time I've learned is women are 'emotional' creatures and while good looks make it easier to 'get in the door' the rest is personality, people skills and emotional I.Q., the more you can make her 'feel' attracted to you the more she will be. Women quickly get over the looks (not that they don't date based on looks) but if they can't emotionally connect then even if they have sex with you it won't be more than that as they only date STR/LTR with men that make them feel certain emotions (depends on the woman).
I am tired of the games so stepped out of the market to focus on self-actualization but if you want women - listen, pick up non-verbal cues as what she is reacting positively to and drive conversations that direction (they love story telling - you take them on a journey mentally/emotionally when you talk about yourself and your interests they are very visual that way). Most of the words you say are lost to them it's the emotions conveyed by what/how you say it that gets them.
Just my 2 cents from a older dawg. Cheers! Great vid btw.
Awesome video. Everything is on point. I have been with a lot of women and noticed that 80% were women who made it EXTREMELY easy for me and every point you made on this video is true. I did used to feel the fear of rejection, the feeling that I should be getting the girl instead of the other weird guys. I even at some point had the stupid idea that if a girl wanted to get with me she would initiate lol) But I’ve learned I need to keep working on myself. My game with women, was practically non existent. thanks for your videos.
Yeah its definitely a humbling experience
You should switch it up and talk about how good looking men have challenges with other men outside of just women. I noticed that the more fit and better looking I became, the more guys I knew didn’t want to go hang out and shoot some pool or even play a simple game of basketball. These have to be traits of other issues that being a over average looking man has to deal with as well
It's because they are getting jealous
It's called jealousy and envy.
Women are attracted to three things in a man. 1. Confidence or Charisma 2. How you make her feel or emotionally compelling 3. Status or being a big fish in a little pond or contextual alpha guy.
Bro exactly, always the ones I don't want approach, but yes looks aren't everything, it's the vibe that you give off , slowly learning
Damn Lloyd. Tryin my life like that. This video describes me perfectly 😭
Haha. Hey man it resonated with me too.
The thing is, girls don’t go for looks first. They go for confidence and a sense of security with a guy. Looks are just a bonus to them
I seem to attract with witty sarcasm not sure but when I want to be away from everyone is when people seem to like being around me. Like when I’m super honest and don’t care. And I believe I’m good looking and I carry myself with confidence. People can sense that. It’s just I’m so shy. And now I tell everyone that. So they know who I am. Because being vulnerable is sexy. It’s very sexy
that really depence. Every girl is different
That's a lie though
Haha, you basically just described my situation. I gotta quit the booze/pot and get back out there :)
Awesome man glad it helped!
But you're ugly dude
Have her smoke too. Aphrodisiac. Alcohol is a downer for sex
Same man. The weed ESPECIALLY. I feel like when you over indulge in it, it stagnates you and forces you into a routine. For a long time I convinced myself my weed smoking wasn't a problem because I got up and went to class and work everyday
Tall Man where is your picture and who hurt that little boy are my questions at that point
Confidence and energy are equally important to looks. Romance is social so you have to have decent to good social skills.
I’ve found nofap and sobriety help my confidence quite a bit. Not wasting away my life force on weed and porn
Is that I feel better around women when I hold my load?
It's called social skills and it applies to women too.
I have amazing social skills but with special groups , maybe not adapt to your groups . Because all experiences with your groups were bad
@@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Stop being a victim and rise up from your circumstances.
@@damariuswingfield2144 Nope I am not , just have to be aware of my social circles
@@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Kinda of the same thing given the context lol. you'll be fine man.
I know I'm a handsome guy and I also use to think I was better looking when I was younger, but I definitely have trouble meeting women, I've had plenty of hook-ups in my life but it's never really with the girl I actually want, with an exception of a couple women. Also when I was younger women weren't an issue now in my mid 20's it's getting rough.
I can relate. People tell me I’m pretty good looking, but I’m just too insecure en afraid to improve my game.
Game don’t exist.
It’s not about game bro! You’re hot she thinks you’re a player..no number. They make false assumptions of you before your even open your mouth. She could been like he’s cute but no before you even speak.Be yourself, who cares stop trying to prove yourself. Let her go to the other guys. Stop making everything about her.
exactlyyyyyyyyy
Yep so true. One day there all over you the next they talk to someone else. As men we have not care no not act really not care. And never text more than once. If she ain’t replied refrain please... like there is this cute girl at work who said I got so fit. I told her cause I’m nuts! And she gave me her number. I texted a few times saying it’s me. The worst thing to ever happen to you. Which she replied but after that???? No point I’ll text her again tomorrow to see if she is still down. And if not she gets zero reaction. Other than “ oh well”
In my experience, I have realized that looks might help give you an edge but money is the most important factor.
Finally someone with some sense in this comment tread.
everything he's saying here is the damn truth.
Too many guys think that women think like them and it's not so.
That story about the Asian guy, is UNBELIEVABLE!!!😱
Yep. Seriously disappointing and racist.
All my friends that were players growing up all are broke paying alimony and child support...🤦
This is very true. I am actually a good looking guy. Tall dark hair great fitness body. The problem was that overtime I did honestly, try to get by with my looks instead of really working on my game and getting out there more and talking to women. Being completely transperent and honest, I did have that entitlment because of my good looks, and yes I do agree with the part about how its the girls we aren't interested in that approach us more, and the ones we are attracted to we very much slack on talking to and working our game. I am working on getting out there more socially. Thanks for this insight!
Spot on lol
Girls date up
Guys date down and on their level
A girl will almost never show big flirting signs to a guy who's not more attractive than her
They know a good looking guy will get a lot of attention from females and they’re probably scared he will leave her for a better looking girl
Bro thats facts
Which he would actually do.just like zayn dumped Perry edwards
Not all the time
Fair point
Geez this guy knows what he’s doing
Just another game worshipping grifter.
Looks are subjective ,,, and because you think you're good looking ,doesn't mean that the girl thinks you're good looking ,,,, A girl has to think your good looking and be attracted to you
Yea I’ve had to deal with this my entire life. Even when I was younger and had way less game I would go out and women would come up to me a lot just to tell me how good looking I am. Still happens a lot to this day. At work, we have a new girl that’s hot asf but shes engaged and she told other coworkers that she thought I was really cute and the best out of all the guys we have. I’ve been trying to stay humble but it’s very hard when you get so much validation. I’m not even in my best shape either, still good though but damn I still can improve. I used to think ALL women are supposed to want to sleep with me. As I got older (28 now) the harsh reality of life showed me that it did not matter how handsome I am. I still get rejected and flakes on, girls not responding. Sometimes I’ll see them choose guys that are not as good looking and it confuses me. That example about the Asian guy on the bus really hit home for me. It irks me that type of shit happens a lot. Being a good looking guy with a bad to mediocre personality is like an ugly girl with great personality. Game is truly everything to sum it up.
Exactly man. Keep at it and don't judge yourself too harshly. This stuff happens to the best of guys out there
Some good looking men bring the insecurity out good looking women keep it moving
Sure buddy. Then you woke up.
Thanks bro, that helps a lot. I was also beat by some 5’2 asian guy who isn’t even close to me. And for months I literally couldn’t figure it out.
Damn I’m at a point where I don’t know how to describe my own looks like people say I look good but I don’t feel like it.
Apocalypse Beatzz I feel u🤕
I'm probably ugly. But I don't care how I look like. It's not important. I just want to look presentable. Means good clothes, good haircut etc...
I mean if you just came inside a super model would still self doubt yourself and worry about how good or bad you are looking. You wouldn't give a shit about it. You would maybe even find it hilarious that there are "tough" men out there asking themselves this question.
Me too. Especially since becoming fit. I get called handsome all the time now it’s kinda surreal. Also it’s a bit upsetting . I don’t even have to do much now for a female to notice me. Like take off my hoody. I feel like how a woman I guess would. Getting compliments left and right by people you don’t know. It’s nice but at the same time what am I to you just some status fuck or a notch on your belt? I mean again 9 months ago no attention. And now they won’t leave me alone. And most of them are very dull
@@chris_sndw shit you have hair? Your a stud
I’m in the same boat 🚣♂️... the chick was eyeing me like she wanted me for days and after i gave her my number ? She never texted me and when she sees me? She does say hello but I don’t see vibe i got at first. I won’t stress it..
lol you talking about me, i get numbers easy but i can’t keep the conversation going don’t know what to say 😏, but now i started learning from your channel !!
Perfect! Did you take a look at my Better Conversations playlist?
TheSingleGuy not yet, i just saw it now, i’ll definitely check it out!
Honestly it’s not to much about about looks. I get complimented on looks but it really means nothing. You gotta have personality, sense of humours,work ethic, something in common with the girl, etc.
Shed my entitlement - quote of the day.
I don't care how good your game is, if you're trying to get a highly attractive women to stay with you, it's almost impossible. Maybe in our great grandparents generation, but now with social media there are too many options out there and as soon as she gets bored or there is a little problem in the relationship, she is gone on to the next dude. Most relationships with highly attractive women are temporary.
Thats true. It really doesnt matter anymore. We are living somehow in an end time
Dude that is a weak mentality, if you look outside towards other women and never make your woman feel like she won you over. You can keep her interested only in you but that may require you not telling a woman you love that you love her.
Weak mentality bruh
If she looks up to you. Or you've built an attachment and you're still improving yourself without getting fat
She'll stay with you
Just check Ariana Grande's husband bro
And she's just the high profile one
So many girls wholeheartedly love their husbands who are 5s and 6s and the girls are 9s and 10s
That emotional attachment is King
this is true and these former hot girls are screwed when they turn 30 cause the guys that have options won't have interest in them
@@william_SMMA Another game worshipping crash dummy
Wow this related to me so much and explains everything what I'm doing wrong, n I'm a good looking guy n have slept with quite a few women but really have trouble in dating , and it makes it alot harder when ur a recovering addict.
The guys who are 5's-7's are actually who are the most successful with women. Being too goodlooking can be detrimental because chicks want a guy who makes them feel desirable and comfortable which is why many handsome men struggle to get sex and dates. Generally speaking most women don't want a guy who looks better than them and it usually unattractive homely women and older females that have the courage to hook up and deal with you. Being handsome gets you a lot of stares and compliments but it rarely leads to dates and sex. Even if they make it easier for you to talk to them, chicks love to play a lot of games and hold you to higher expectations than average and ugly guys. Good looks only gets you attention and compliments, but game, sex appeal, and having a good body are the main ingredients that lead to sex and dates.
That is a fact but i don't agree with the ugly ones. You have very beautiful women who will flirt with you too but it's rare.
Most women you come across are mediocre to decent and deep down they know it.
Good shit. I see you rock climb and are around a lot of women.
I try to be lol
holy fucks shit pancake this video resonates with me so much. it feels like it just gave me the key to being a normal human beings. blessings on you and your bloodline brother
Because looks ain’t everything it’s only a free ice breaker. An initiation. A temptation..... but if your a boring stone no one will stuck around
Actually, being handsome is really a benefit brothers! You’re instinct separates the weak from the chaff! Thats a GOOD thing brothers!! If you know your above average you will have options with women who are on the same level as you! Doesn’t mean its going to be easier, nope it actually even more difficult at a certain level! What i found out is that if you deal with woman that are good looking but very insecure you beter raise your damn standards and look for someone who gives you the respect you deserve! Don’t wast your time askin questions to girls who don’t show any interest in you... there has to be a balance in attraction! If she plays hard to get thats fine for a wile but there is a point you should move on!
Honestly this could be true, because it’s all about a good character. Like it’s really true, confidence.
I need this mans confidence for real
It can be developed with practice
This guy is a genius!!! It sucks being good looking.
yeah because they know they have so much potential but everything goes to waste due to lack of action
Hey buddy! It's incredible how your channel took off. I remember watching some of your videos when you were starting and you had like 1000 views or less on each one. I guess they took off after the whole pandemic thing. Guys were desperate in seeking dating advice while they were being confined and that's how many other dating advice channels took off as well I guess.
It's like, before, I didnt even know who Stephiscold was until this guy Raymond from the Living Abundance channel started taking clips from him and promoting the dude! But it is interesting to see that normal, natural guys have had more success on youtube than Pickup artists that had been in the game for longer and supposedly knew all the tricks.
Now regular guys like you who were never part of the community have hundnreds of thousands of subscribers, even more than recognized PU coaches like Arash Dibazar. It's incredible! Anyway, cheers buddy
Story of my life....but the girls i am not interested in go crazy after me. Because i naturally dont care about them and thats why they want me
Same here i just sent them dick pics so they back off
If I don’t want the bitch….don’t care how over the moon she is for me.
You changed my mind with this video
Nofap and stoicism helped me with my personal development i don't care what others think
Because handsome boy are too choosy🥳
and some are also huge pussies lol
Bro you read me like a book. Where was UA-cam 20 yrs ago.
Sometimes women get intimidated by goodlooking guys and give them auto rejections lol. Its happened to me a few times but its cool. I have a decent level of game too. I can sense a female's level of insecurity just from talking to her. An insecure women is a major turn off for me.
when you’re good looking girls don’t really wanna be with you ... sometimes they just wanna fw u and leave:/
Just fuck and pluck . Plain and simple lifestyle it’s the norm handsome men are meant to treat woman that way and they are ok with it
Try being white in a Vietnamese casino. Asians really do like white boys. I’ve never been called handsome so many times in a 3 month span. But it’s up to me to remain chill calm. And still I must be. Just be me.
It relieves my stresses and worries
You are FUCKING GENIOUS BRO!!! You have solved my doubts because everyone tells me I am good looking but I can't get the girl I want. Now I understand why!!
A friend of mine linked me this vid. Personally I’ve always thought they i had everything a girl should want (sports, decent looks etc) and i would get frustrated when a girl would deny me. Obv i would find out why and it never had to do with looks. After watching this i realized i am legit the dude u describe in ur video. the person who seems to have it all. I haven’t gone for too many girls but it’s in part the fact that i can’t find someone i like. Ur vid is helpful and i was wondering if u could talk abt ur dating experiences in highschool vs college and what u wish u could’ve done differently. Thanks!
Good idea for a video I'll get on that man
Jesus! The more I watch these videos there more I realise, I aint shit! lolololol
superjay14 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good looking guys forget to be an arsehole. That’s usually the problem.
haha being an asshole can help you in some circumstances but I would recommend being nice over a dick in 90%+ of cases
No just be yourself. Don't act.
Being an asshole as a good looking guy is harder cause it can come off as arrogance or entitlement. It's a catch-22. What do you think?
@@waytides yeah, 100% percent, which do you think gets more of an emotional response from women, a guy they didn’t find aesthetically pleasing at first glance being an asshole after hooking up or the dude they were thinking about messing around with off looks alone being an asshole. It almost like women react to things people do that they think they have no right doing more.
I like your confidence bro ....Hopefully I can be like you one day 🙌😇🙌
Just came across your channel now . You're making some fantastic material by the way .
Another great video and La Coste t-shirt
I'll tell you some secrets that no man knows
First of all sorry for my bad English.
What happened in the bus between you and the girl and the asian boy is because the girl feels attracted to you
And when the girls see attractive man they act like they don't attracted because they hate when man knows that he is attractive,
Girls love the good looking man who doesn't know that he is a good looking.
The point is when girls be around a good looking man they act and they try to make him feel like he is not good looking
And why do they do that?
@@blackknight1037 Insecurity.
It’s the unnecessary attention that doesn’t allow me to be myself most of the time
you just described my life. Also, it is very important to remember that each girl has her own taste. i mean, a guy can think he is good looking, and other man can tell him that, but girls can think he looks too feminine or what ever. i know many girls that prefer guys that look like some caveman, they think they are muhc hotter than the typical hot guy stereotype from the movies. girls have their fetishes. one good looking girl told me she likes guys with a big nose and it just makes her hot, like, when it comes to looks you never know whats up.
I’m a pretty good looking dude and get hardly any matches on Tinder. Maybe 4-6 a week. Been in three weeks and haven’t landed one meet up. Demoralizing. Fuck it I’m going out on Friday night.. alone cuz I have no friends because I’ve been in a translation phase in life and all my old friends are gone. Lol challenging times ahead
bro you’re so goated
Ya Lloyd I agree you are about a 7.5 out of 100
Eric Hensdill yea if he waxed those eyebrows he’d easily be a 7.49
Shut up I'm pretty!
@@TheSingleGuy pretty ugly😂😂
The hardest thing for me is how people use me like bait and I really just want to be alone, but get dumped on by EVERYONE for not chasing women. I'm not gay. I am picky, but just want to be single and not sleep around. I use to be a model and get called a 10 very often by men and women
I've also noticed women get fussy and even disrespectful if you stair too much and don't make a move.
Love his passion and vibe
Ill be honest...
Ive been told im pretty attractive....amd im not really happy with the girls ive been dating...
So this definitely gave me some good info
*ugly and poor= nothing.*
*good looks and poor = one night stand*
*ugly and rich= multiple one night stands and sugar daddies*
*good looking and rich = the ocean is yours.*
Bro your eyebrows should have their own youtube channel
I’m an extreamly good looking girl (srs) and your face is very handsome
why thank you. Whats srs?
TheSingleGuy it means seriously 😂 idk how people called you ugly. You have coloured eyes/exotic looks what’s your ethnicity?
Honestly i stop giving fucks bout how to talk to them i just be myself and act like there are nothing. And it works
Damn everything you said really happens to me
Anyway thanks for the advise 👌
Dude, I needed this video, thanks. I feel like you described my situation here pretty well, I feel like I'm pretty good looking (hard to say if I really am but I do easily get Tinder matches, sometimes compliments irl and stuff like that so I don't think it's just my perception), however I have no game, I feel like I'm generally pretty boring and have no self confidence in my personality. I have this thought in my head that my looks should be able to carry me better but obviously they don't just as you say in the video. Maybe I'm not even as good looking as I perceive myself but it doesn't really matter.
I've just started watching some of your videos and they do really seem pretty good and helpful. Your advice generally seems some of the best I've come across in this area. I've read some blogs and watched some videos from other "pick up artists" and some of the shit they say just makes me absolutely roll my eyes, which is not a feeling I've come across from watching about 10 of your videos so far.
Not sure how much your advice is really going to end up changing my life, obviously going out and actually doing something is the important part but it's always also the hardest part making a change in your life. Thanks for the videos either way.
No problem man, yeah my goal for this channel was always to be someone who helped guys out but not make them weirder and more antisocial which I feel a lot of pick up guys do.
With consistent action, my and a lot of other guys' advice will surely change your life. Having a mentor/coach also helps
as an extremely cute guy, i totally understand what u r talking about. by the way, i am asian.
My dawg spilling the gems 💎 YESSIR‼️
Hey thanks for the video. Hard relate. I get sick and tired of guys claiming that good looking guys have it easy, that chicks dont reject them. Hell, they even say that when attractive guys approach women, its never considered creepy. I hate that stupid meme too. Pure goddamn hogwash.
I was very good looking at 21. Ppl assumed I had a woman. In reality I was lonely, depressed, socially awkward, unable to detect signs of interest and shy. There were women who I creeped out by accident. Id gotten rejected on approach.
Right on man. Right on
Right in the feels.
A Santa Barbara 8 😂
That's a hot 8
Personally i consider just to focus in your own development, make something that you are passionate about, in my personal experience i dont have game with girls and i consider myself a really attractive guy, but i found a lot of frustration and sadness, trying to be the alpha guy that flirts and seduces women, now im just working in improving my looks but most important, improving my skills yo have a better job and in a future, having my own business, also im working on my passion just to be a DJ, if a girl likes that Will be cool but if not fuck It, maybe in a future i Will start flirting and improving that part, but know It Will bring me frustration
Finally! someone with the same point of view as mine. I find girls frustrating, I ignore most of them, my goals are a priority.
Good feedback! Thank you:)
I think I love this man. Lol he’s helped me greatly!
Solid mate