1. Less is more 2. Don't be so intimidating or bragging 3. Don't show too much interest (especially with insecure/young girls) 4. Don't show too little interest 5. Be on your purpose and have an exciting life
Well, I try to do all of this. I am working 60h a week, putting something together to be remembered for. Still, after 2 or 3 messages every girl stops chatting. I tried so much and changed my mindset into the good, the bad, the random, the interested and the hard to get guy. I can do whatever I want, I don't find the one girl that likes me :D
One thing I forgot to mention is that sometimes you can show too much interest and the girl will RECIPROCATE IT. Meaning you guys both moved too fast and she got cold feet and backed out. Even if she is into it the whole time, move slower. Be the smarter one.
TheSingleGuy man this happened to me. I’m a decent looking swagged out 42 year old man and I’m a PT at a gym. One of the gym bunnies, a hot 25 year old blond big titties beautiful face like ice cubes coco wife, ass like a kardashian... she went to reception and told them to give me her number. Long story short, we talked for about 2 weeks and we were sexting the whole time... pretty dirty stuff, her soapy naked in the shower, me with 8 inch dick pic etc. and... she friend zoned me (without saying let’s just be friends, but it’s obvious I’m friendzoned even if she won’t admit it). I fully know what mistakes I made and have vowed not to make them again... but I was wondering how I got snookered in and it was what you said here. She asked for the escalation the entire time. Now, though I’m banging a different broad and with her I didn’t do any of that. Kept it cool and flirty and just made sure that the interaction progressed. Didn’t try to “game” her over text. Just get to her place and make it happen.
TheSingleGuy man Im watching all your videos and I’m trying to understand them but I’m so new to dating , I’m 21 years old I never dated or had a fling I’m super new and I would love to ask you some questions about all this man , like I just either get that I’m taking to someone else card or I get the ignore card and I keep trying but I’m just lost I mean I hope we can exchange some good conversations if you ever have the time because I admit I’m not scared to talk to a girl but to keep the interest I’m bad super bad
@@hs0008 lmao...Ive banged so many broads since then. Ye your right... no one cares about the ol ostrich neck so i stopped sending those pics. Still tho... banged about 40 or so chicks since i made that comment. Tinder is easy ;)
There’s truth here, but at the same time, it’s not that you have to have money and be fit to get girls. It’s far from a necessity. What happens when you start focusing on yourself more than girls is a few things: 1) you inherently start to become more confident in what you can bring to the table - your sense of self-worth becomes increasingly untethered from some random girl’s approval, 2) if you’re building wealth, then there’s a good chance that you’re doing so by taking pride in your work, which can carry over into everything you do...and the more you have going on in your life, the more interesting you are, 3) increased fitness is naturally going to grant a boost to your overall mood, and 4) the more money you have, the more flexibility you’ll have to do various things with her; more specifically, you knowing you have the “power” to fulfill just about an adventure she wants if you want to is going to put you at ease far more than if you were broke. That confidence, that meaningful work, that welcoming mood, and that variety of life are all things that come about by your mere ambition to focus on your wealth and your body more than chasing, especially as you start to reap the self-benefits of these endeavors and focus on yourself even more. Girls can sense that more than you realize, even if she doesn’t yet know how much money you have in your bank account.
Let me tell you one tip. Life is like a constant, never ending game of poker. You never reveal your hand too quickly and sometimes it's okay to bluff (not lie).
I feel that, I'm losing a girl right now. Did so many dumb things just cos I felt happy talking with her. Can't let your emotions get involved when dealing with women
Guys, allow a dating rookie in training to share an eye-opener experience: I've just got back into the dating game again, and yes - women can be jamokes too. For example, I never imagined needy, unconfident girls that complain about their insecurities and say they feel nervous all the time would bother me the slightest, but lo and behold - when I actually got to experience it first hand, I came to the conclusion that I'm 1. Shooting below my league 2. I felt like I have to take care of her like a little child/be her therapist 3. It didn't feel exciting anymore. It felt... cringey. This experience really taught me a lot about times I've been a jamoke to girls, allowed me to see into their perspective and it made me grow due to the new-found understanding, and what monumental importance confidence has on your attractiveness, for ALL social aspects. At first I was baffled by this experience, but now I even feel more confident too now that I actually value confidence in a woman.
Keeping things going without showing too much interest can be difficult. Some chicks are really slow to respond or randomly disappear and that causes you to hit them up more which then makes you look too interested :-(
Hey man, if a chick replies to you with no interest and is slow to respond it means she doesn't like you. Move on and find another one. Have an abundance mindset. Who cares if she is not interested, there are billions of girls all around the planet
Ej C bro it’s hard to do that when the girl is really good looking and literally perfect in your eyes. My girl is everything I could’ve asked for but ig I have to move like she showed interest at the start now I think I’ve showed too much interest in her and now she doesn’t care anymore. Imma stop taking initiative and just give her space do things I enjoy and hope she comes back to me
Staying mysterious and showing too much interest go hand-to-hand. I have absolutely no problem getting attractive girls but keeping them around is the hard part. Definitely agree that the "less is more" approach is the way to go
it's all so complicated. i think the best approach is try and remember they need to also need to offer you something other than looks and that you should try and stay in a state of "neutral"
@LEO2001 that is right mate i know these techniques but i have one problem because i dont meet any girls it is just because i'm a little shy to go and aproach girls but of course girls need to have a good pair of ballocks to get them my character is ok i have a personality and i know how to look cool the only thing i need is just to meet new girls and i need tips on how to go and aproach girls and not to make it akward for me or the girl
Dude not everyone can have their perfect job, the world needs cleaners, rubbish removalists, truck drivers etc, life isn't a freakin movie, sometimes you have to do the best with the cards your dealt. And if the world didn't have people that did these jobs the world would be a disgusting place to live....
If you’re saying this in reference to him talking about having a lot going on in your life, there are guys that have mundane jobs like that but still get girls. You can still be a socialite and/or physically active with fun activities and/or working hard on some hobby that you hope to turn into money some day. Just don’t be a constant couch potato with no personality is the bottom line...if you want to increase your chances with girls, that is.
MASTUR BIKER it doesn’t have to be you thou . And if it is you take pride in what you do and understand it doesn’t have to be you forever . You can do different things change career paths and etc
@@timothyrudd5284 Ive seen women talk down to plumbers and manual labor......but those are the first they call when shit hits the fan. And a lot of those guys earn much more than them too.
Reason #3 was my main problem I never realized. I don’t get numbers often, but whenever I do I always got excited and spent every minute texting and showing too much interest. I was always so confused and disappointed when it didn’t work out. As painful as it was, watching this is an eye opener for me. All this information is great to take in and I’ll make sure to use it. Though im not so sure about #5 😅 I get girls don’t want anyone who just sits at home and doesn’t do anything, but it’s not bad to just chill at home and still go out. I’m a homebody sorta, but I still go to places like the pool, beach, walks outside, etc. Anyways great video!
Women are not rational. We would love an attractive female showing us alot of attention. They want an attractive stranger who occassionaly sends mixed messages and sometimes too busy to see her.
Good video, I have been having a lot of problems with this one as of late. One thing that I notice especially with E-girl dates is that if you just meet up at a bar and stay there the whole time then you don't get a second date. It happens rarely but you have to move her to other places, do games etc, change the environment. Just sitting talking for an hour doesn't seem to give her that "chemistry" feeling. Just my thoughts.
Yeah man I didn't talk about that in this particular video but I have stated in dozens of my other ones that moving girls around is the way to go. It's a good test to see if she's into you and a good way to lead. I move almost every girl
Thanks for the upload brother. Just had a second date with this girl, think I’m gonna slow it down a bit don’t want her to get cold feet like you said.
If you don't tell enough, then compromise/trust is harder. So, I don't see this as a good idea. If knowing something personal was bad, then it was bad from the start.
Assuming you don’t already do these things try em out. Watch less porn or stop all together. It’s not the same as the real thing if you watch it regularly and it’ll change your appetite negatively for the most part. To become a catch, work on your appearance,Dress with modern style, exercise to look slim and lean, become decisive and engage with others more on the social level, practice good hygiene and find an attractive fragrance to wear, Get and maintain a sharp hairstyle, approach more women, don’t convey neediness, work on striking a good 1st impression, display leadership, stop asking for permission, get your text game in order, become more interesting and have a life outside of just trying to draw women. These things will mold you into a man like Lloyd up here. Guarantee that.
Yes, guys reach their peak sexual at around 30-35. Women reach their sexual peak at around 20-25. This is because women are desired for youth and beauty. Men are desired for status, security, knowledge (knowing how to deal with women, how to deal with problems, how to deal with emotion and life) and wealth. Work on yourself these years, you will get very desirable with some quality skills and ambition behind you
Literally all of my friends have a gf, go to work at every day of the week and come home and relax and either watch TV play games or go out and do something with their gfs. None of them love their jobs either. So how is it that their ladies stick around if they dont really have that exciting of a life?
because having an "exciting life" is mostly viewed as this unrealistic American dream that is so much promoted and it's fucking cancerous. The goal is to have a small life that you can actually enjoy by yourself and hobbies that you like doing that you can share with friends and a girl that mostly shares the same interests. Nobody has that exciting life 24/7, that's a stupid idea that social media is promoting, sometimes to sell you something. It's not impossible, just unrealistic. You could very well have a good overall life and still, be bored to death after some time. Humans are unstable creatures and are always suspect to change regardless. Having that "exciting over the top life" can also be synonym that you're too busy for someone, which isn't any better.
Expand your circle....what's good for the goose isn't a one size fits all find new passion visit places you don't usually go to dress different and change your lifestyle if that works you'd be surprised to know that your finds are now looking at you free and hapot and resenting the gf and routine they live daily....
So we have to have an exciting life with good stories to tell her, while also not talking to her about myself and talking up the experiences that I have to keep her interested? How does one even?
If she asks about something then you tell a good story(guys are generally good at this and concise) but don’t offer up your whole life story on a silver platter. Make her hungry to learn more but only tell a story or two every date,
The single best thing you can do to improve your dating life, without question, is to get fit. Period. Not even money is as important as getting fit and looking good. People always go on about how looks aren’t everything, but they ARE the key to getting a girl hooked, I don’t care what anybody says. If a girl looks at you and starts to get wet, you pretty much have to not be braindead and you’re guaranteed her ass the first chance she gets. All this other stuff is great for once you’ve gotten a girl’s interest, but if getting the interest is the problem, get fit and that problem will disappear.
This will only work if you want only a lustful connection. Yes physical gets you attracted initially. it’s what you first see. But a good looking man with a nice body, but no drive, no ambition, no goals no a career. Your look is only going to get you so far. Women will leave you to get with an average guy that does. Women are not as shallow as men. So you can’t work just on your physical and think it’s going to keep a good woman. Notice I said good woman. You have to be a well rounded man across the board.
Honestly, videos like this just feed overthinking. Be yourself and don't change how you acted to get her interested. Don't be clingy and don't be too distant and play games. If she isn't interested move on kings, you'll find someone else.
There's obviously little things you can do to improve a girl's interest in you but overall a girl is going to be interested in you or she's not. You have to be yourself and if she doesn't like you for who you are she's not going to be interested and why would you want to be with someone who doesn't like you for who you are in the first place? Just be yourself and if she likes you she'll be interested and if she's not she'll go away.
Great video, love hearing the more down to earth, usable tips. I was already applying most of it subconsciously but it's good to be reminded that this is probably the reason the girl I'm dating appears to like me so much
lets keep it 100 you need money and you need to look good to get and keep a woman. everything else is learned. she will learn to see your humor, she will learn to like your minor quirks and even ignore some major faults. like time will grow her confidence in you naturally but money and fitness is what starts all that. no woman ever wants to date a slightly obese guy that lives with his mom. you gotta have your own shit going on with you and she'll hop on board. if your having money/career problems then your gonna have trouble finding women especially if your looking for anything serious.
Yep I experienced this recently I really liked her but I work as a caddie and have no career and have a beer belly and bald spot . She banged me twice but didn’t stick around. It’s like I’m cute enough to get layed but not get a girl I like to stay
TOTAL BULL. I have been 6'2" since I was a teenager, good looks, and have a DISGUSTING amount of money. I was in a 2 new car dealerships today and could have bought 2 NEW SUVs and STILL had cash left. Women not interested. In fact any mention of money and they're say you sound like a smart arse or big ego. Never mind that they're broke and probably jealous while I'm looking at an SUV with a 2 and a half foot touchscreen from nearly the door to the passenger that controls everything in the car.
Do you guys believe at the end of the day, all dating advice comes down to being less insecure and filling gaps of loneliness with things you enjoy. Then when you do meet someone, remove all attachment to the outcome and just be yourself. Easier said then done when hormones override intellect, but dating should never be this hard. I think it comes down to timing. I’ve also been single for a decade so, perhaps all the above justifies my situation. Truth, I’d much rather be with someone I vibe with than alone. Life is meant for two people. I’d also rather be single and alone than alone in the wrong company.
When she loses interest in you, the simple thing you can do is to forget her and move on. Do not simp over her. Do not even try to stay friends atleast till that you dont find another girl. You can't have the feelings of friends with her beacuse you had romantic feelings for her back and you will obsess over her and make your life miserable. The reasons she loses interest in you are 1. You are not the type of guy which she originally thought you were while pursuing or chasing her. 2. You are not in your prime condition. It means currently you are not the way you used to be when you were chasing her or pursuing her in your physical looks or the way you use to treat her. 3. She was never into you. You were just a place holder as she was not getting the right person at that moment. The moment she find the type of guy she's is interested in, she'll dump you. Accept that, forget her and move on. And if her relationship fails or did not work out she will come back to you again for your services. Discard her. Do not accept her even if she give any arguments. Remember she's is not a loyal person. 4. Another reason is you have revealed everything about you in early phases of conversation and chasing her beacuse you had thought that it will build up the intimacy and emotional bond between two of you. No. Now you do not have anything mysterious or hidden about you. So you are not in mysterious person anymore and she is not intrigued enough. Remember women are drawn to men because of their mystery. Therefore do not reveal all your information to her especially in the earlier phases of conversation. Don't tell about anything which she has not asked. And tell only what she's asked. Don't give additional or sideby information. As long as man stay mysterious womeb think man of as a puzzle to be solved but if you tell all about yourself, they think they have solved you. So they are not more interested in you. 5. You are overly emotional. Never reveal your emotions to her or show or tell her that you are emotional person. Never. Being emotional is a feminine thing and being not emotional is a masculine thing. Therefore being feminine she is drawn to masculine thing which isn't emotional. Don't act or speak that way which appears like you're emotional. Do not express emotional feelings to her. Or say her that you like her or love her in the initial phases of conversation because when you do it too early, she thinks you're needy and even later, unconsciously she thinks that she has bagged you and she do not have to prove herself to get you or to chase you or even get your attention. You've completely thrown yourself to her and ready to give her anything without thinking why you should like her or approve her? And don't prompt her to put any effort to attract you or gain your attention. Even if she's good looking and it is just for sex. Then don't confuse lust for love. 6. You and your time is not important. You are always present around her in her vicinity or stay connected with her through social media. And she thinks why he's always available or have your all attention. What is his life without me? We don't value a thing which is easily available and we don't have to put any effort to get that thing. Do not give your all the attention to her freely. Let her put some effort to get your attention and to keep you interested. Do not give your attention freely like water but keep it scarce like gold. Only then it will be valued. If you give it freely and easily then you are attention will be worthless. And why you are giving her so much time and attention because you have nothing going on in your life. You have no hobbies, aims and goals in your life. You have no life outside her and you are a yes man. You do everything she asked you to do and you act like that you are lucky to have her because you have got her by chance and you are not good enough for her. Remember women do not want a man who thinks that he is not good enough for her or she thinks that she has to put no efforts to get his attention and validation. Therfore if you want to keep her interested don't do above mistakes.
The single guy: be mysterious Also the single guy:tell her what you like then ask her what she likes Also the single guy: don't show too much interest Me: "I like something. How about you. I don't really care tho" *Task failed successfully*
It’s hard to have an exciting life when you’re 15 and you don’t have any plans. Maybe when I start driving but right now it’s hard to get out of the house especially with Covid
Women can get guy’s attention Easily, so they don’t even need to try... Men we need to Shift the Dynamic, don’t care too much, compliment then move away and let her chase you, stay cool, be funny and have confidence within and know your life’s passions
Being on my purpose? yes. But, why I would try to make my life interesting for her? I'll live my life the way I want. If she really interested and loves me, she'll find my life interesting no matter how boring it is.
I'm having trouble understanding how one keeps that mystery and balance. How does one not show too much interest and yet keep the conversation going? Doesn't women want men asking them how they feel/felt during their particular experience (don't they love talking about themselves)? If I don't show any interest by saying "yeah ok" and move on to the next topic, couldn't that be disappointing for them? --- Sometimes it feels like I'm playing that Conversation mini game from Oblivion.
Bahaha dude I used to play oblivion back in the day. So this is where practice is super important. It takes time to figure it out. But a good rule of thumb is when you are talking to her be present to the moment and focused on her and understanding her. When you are doing something else don't drop everything to come meet up with her immediately. This is for talking in real life. Texting is a little different
He looks like he lives in LA or Miami too u gota be some douche like him to get women in those cities. A normal city u can just be youreself and not lie and get a girl to stay. I mean I guess he’s right in a way. You gota play the game to win
I met a girl in my college that like anime like I do. We exchange numbers with each other. I kinda overstepped by double texting. I first said "You having fun tn? I'm having fun. I was on the dance floor." and then "I'm a dancer self taught." So that was fairly a mess up for me. I would do it the old school way instead doing it in social media wise cause everyone hide on their phones.
I had this issue where I hit it off on a first date with a girl, we hit it off, had a second date and got a hotel room, had blast. She seemed hella interested in me so I started to show a good amount of interest and then bam, she seemingly backed off, stopped texting me, etc. Told me she still liked me but did not treat me like she did. How do you even read a girl like this? Lol.
hung out two times and she was showing so much interest and shit testing me, I showed her interest back and gave her so much attention and let her stop chasing... then she dipped immediately. Once you lose your masculine frame and start giving a fuck, they will leave.
I kid you not I posted anyone want some? (A pic of snacks) this girl I liked said sure with 🤣🤣🤣 and I said whatcha want and she left me on seen. I just don’t get it 🤷🏽♂️
Hey Loyd, can you do a video on what age group of women should a man in his 60’s go for in order to increase his chances of success. I have been watching your videos practically every night and I have learnt a lot. One of the most important things I have learned is to improve myself in other areas of my life. Thanks so much
I seem to be able to get that initial attraction, but I find that after a few days they lose interest. I try to get them off a dating site and get their number which works, but from that I find it difficult to actually get them on a date
Dude!! Mate you’re a fucking legend for this one. Had a couple of things I wanted to address and this nailed it and then some. First thing I’ve seen of yours. Subscribed. All the best
How?!? My crushes ex all he does is play video games, doesn’t have a job, dropped out of high school early and doesn’t workout! And she liked him!!!!!! WTF! I just have a curse with female 🤦♂️.
Being intimidated by you is good advice. When I first became a lawyer after school I thought women would be super attracted to me because I was smart and with a good job, etc.. BUT instead I would see women losing interest and I couldnt get it. That is why I worked so hard when in school and poor. But the truth I learned to my surprise was a lot of the waitresses, students and more girls with average to below average jobs and lives were intimidated. They thought I was too smart for them, they felt dumb or would not fit in to my life or me theirs and then assumed I would only be interested in them for sex. (that is a turn off). I really did have to compensate by asking them about their lives and showing interest and showing I was "fun" and normal once I learned that. Asking questions about their lives and showing that you did not think they were less than me. The ironic thing was many of the women were good looking so I assumed wrongly that would even things out, but it doesn't. Lots of times that is why you see these kind of girls marry cooks or some restaurant guy like them. They feel more comfortable with those guys.
6:03 This rings true. I was talking to this girl, flirting at first, then we both opened up and developed an amazing connection. We were talking every day for a week almost any time we could get and on one day when I was hungover and she was feeling down, we talked all day. At the end of that day, I was talking about what we could do when we met up with each other which we'd fantasised about before, and she said that really freaked her out. Ever since then it wasn't the same, she put little to no effort in, just one response to something I said and no actual conversations anymore. What can I do to get her interest back? I just assumed she wasn't ready for a relationship and backed off. Didn't realise it was a thing that planning our time together could freak a girl out. Thought she'd be into that.
Women lose interest when a guy is not consistent,and also when he is unable to put his words into action,guys love to impress women with high lyrics such as;i own this,i own that,u will get this,u will get that,and their one famous line....ill take care of u,smh yhis is a turn off,qomen hate men who brag,in my opinion,if u cant do shit stfu,who cares what u got...
Hey man I just discovered your channel and it fucking changed my life. I was the most depressed fucking guy stuck in my daily loop with no hope left. You completely changed my perspective on life and made me actually want to improve myself. I could relate to your story so much (i even also study physics) and i think thats also why you inspired me sooo much. I'll start going out as much as possible now. Could i just get your opinion on wether its easier to pick up girls in a really loud club or like a quiet chill vibe bar? Girls seem to want to dance with me but im kind of a potato on the dance floor. Anyways sorry for the long comment I just really had to say thank you and keep up the good work!
Awesome man. Stoked that I put you on the right path. Now its time for the real work get out there and start taking action. If you need extra help shoot me a message To answer your question that depends on the vibe you like. I personally like chill bars because I can talk and women can hear me.
Hey bro what’s the best way to contact you so I have the best chance of getting a response? I have unique situation I’m in & your advice would mean a lot
The reason why I have a diffcult time with being more ambitious is the fact that I almost always have had a diffcult time with being with people in general and with the general public both men and women. Maybe it's because of my disability which makes it diffcult to read social cues. This after I have tried dating sites recently. Any ideas?
I don't care about finding anyone, to be honest. I have more fun hanging out with friends in general, and I don't care. Being in a relationship sounds stressful, anyway.
All these male dating coaches LOVE giving women excuses, like "she'll never tell you anything important because it would hurt your feels and shes just so caring!". Complete BS. Shes a coward, not a caring person.
After I scared her on the first date, I did a 73-day no-contact technique. Now, while she openly stood me up on my graduation party, she at least indirectly apologized a day after the party. Now, we’re starting to get things moving again slowly. I even wrote her a card. I’m still trying to attract her, but I’m also trying to attract all her single friends, so that I can decide later on in my life who I’m really interested in.
What to do, if the girl was VERY interested in the beginning, but doesn't take the initiative that often anymore? I've been dating this girl for 2 months and we have had a great time, but she has become lazy contacting me. Should I just stop contacting her and see if she comes back?
I always hang out and do stuff but I don't understand the part of exciting life, I mean ,i don't spend all of my time to video games anymore but i just can't think any other think 🤔🤔
BS on the yacht thing! You tell a girl you were partying on a yacht and your not lying, you got her! Shes either gonna want to party on the yacht too or shes saying he parties on a yacht, im good I can use this guy in my life. Money is the most attractive thing fellas, jus dont simp and spend it on them spoiling them feeding their ego and entitlement.
Hi Lloyd, in another video you said that you should talk with less filtering, and say more of the things that come to mind. However, for me this would probably mean revealing more about myself and losing the mystery. How can you do both these things right at the same time?
Emil Van Der Velden Don’t Talk to The Girl Directly (As Most Guys Do) Talk to Her In-Directly Which is (How females talk To other Females) key Word: INDIRECT
orange is the new black 🤣🤣🤣, u made laugh, and i agree about this point bragging comes from insecurities and people in general hate people who brags alot not only girls..
Wow, i think i did almost everything wrong recently with this young girl. Initially there were a lot of sparks between us and she was very keen to go on a date with me. After the second date i blew it up. I think i showed too much interest, lost the mystery and didn't qualify her enough. I took her hand while we were going for a walk to the next location. How stupid of me. She even told me afterwards that this is going to fast for her. I think the attraction diminished a lot. Now she doesn't initiate texting but is still answering. I asked her out again after some bantering but she prefered to go out with her friends that night. Do you think i should just move on or is there a chance i can salvage this? What is the best approach? I hate texting but i won't be seeing her anytime soon. Should i wait a couple of weeks no contact and than just ask her out again out of the blue or keep in touch? It really is a thin line to show someone you genuinely pursue the person without being too pushy. For context she is in her early twenties, i am close to thirty. She probably thinks i have no other options because i did not keep cool, which is far of the truth, but how should she know? TL;DR: Showed too much interest in a girl, didn't challenge her enough and she lost attraction. What to do? I would really appreciate your advice. Thank you for your videos. Keep it up. Kind regards.
@@abghani8998 Thank you for your response and advice. I think in my mind i will move on, cruise with intermediate contact and see other girls in the meantime. I will keep conversations lightly and ask her out another time. Why would this be considered needy? Full no contact seems a little bit strange and unnatural to me. Llyod even has a video about no contact and when to apply it. I'm curious what he would recommend in this case. Any other opinions? Thanks for your help guys.
Holding a girls hand is not too fast I feel like you aren't telling us the whole story. if she went out with her friends instead of you. She has lost interest. The most you can do is hangout with her and her friends and reignite interest through her circle or other females around her.
1. Less is more
2. Don't be so intimidating or bragging
3. Don't show too much interest (especially with insecure/young girls)
4. Don't show too little interest
5. Be on your purpose and have an exciting life
Thats what kind of lifestyle I m excictly I m building
Thank you
Thanks!!
fully agree
Well, I try to do all of this. I am working 60h a week, putting something together to be remembered for. Still, after 2 or 3 messages every girl stops chatting. I tried so much and changed my mindset into the good, the bad, the random, the interested and the hard to get guy. I can do whatever I want, I don't find the one girl that likes me :D
Most men are so focused on what they have to offer, that they forget to ask what she has to offer...
It's a partnership 50/50
It's a partnership 50/50
@@kgotsomashigo4043 For many, it is one sided because most men have been raised to be simps.
Her vagina
Wats that ?
One thing I forgot to mention is that sometimes you can show too much interest and the girl will RECIPROCATE IT. Meaning you guys both moved too fast and she got cold feet and backed out. Even if she is into it the whole time, move slower. Be the smarter one.
TheSingleGuy man this happened to me. I’m a decent looking swagged out 42 year old man and I’m a PT at a gym. One of the gym bunnies, a hot 25 year old blond big titties beautiful face like ice cubes coco wife, ass like a kardashian... she went to reception and told them to give me her number. Long story short, we talked for about 2 weeks and we were sexting the whole time... pretty dirty stuff, her soapy naked in the shower, me with 8 inch dick pic etc. and... she friend zoned me (without saying let’s just be friends, but it’s obvious I’m friendzoned even if she won’t admit it). I fully know what mistakes I made and have vowed not to make them again... but I was wondering how I got snookered in and it was what you said here. She asked for the escalation the entire time. Now, though I’m banging a different broad and with her I didn’t do any of that. Kept it cool and flirty and just made sure that the interaction progressed. Didn’t try to “game” her over text. Just get to her place and make it happen.
TheSingleGuy man Im watching all your videos and I’m trying to understand them but I’m so new to dating , I’m 21 years old I never dated or had a fling I’m super new and I would love to ask you some questions about all this man , like I just either get that I’m taking to someone else card or I get the ignore card and I keep trying but I’m just lost I mean I hope we can exchange some good conversations if you ever have the time because I admit I’m not scared to talk to a girl but to keep the interest I’m bad super bad
22 years old and still falling for the highschool puppy love bullshit. Gotta get my head straight...
@@dimex3362 you're full of bullshit my friend please stop 😂 no one cares about your third leg
@@hs0008 lmao...Ive banged so many broads since then. Ye your right... no one cares about the ol ostrich neck so i stopped sending those pics. Still tho... banged about 40 or so chicks since i made that comment. Tinder is easy ;)
Guys focus on building wealth and getting fit. Believe me she will find you.
Herbert Walker this is so true been doing pick up for a couple years and it all boils down to these two things mainly
you guys are doing it wrong if you think that is all that matters
I think he meant to become a leader at something! Then girls will be the one chasing you. Ya it's true
Ej C having that income and resources is fucking key . What are you gonna do bring her to your moms house lmao no
There’s truth here, but at the same time, it’s not that you have to have money and be fit to get girls. It’s far from a necessity.
What happens when you start focusing on yourself more than girls is a few things: 1) you inherently start to become more confident in what you can bring to the table - your sense of self-worth becomes increasingly untethered from some random girl’s approval, 2) if you’re building wealth, then there’s a good chance that you’re doing so by taking pride in your work, which can carry over into everything you do...and the more you have going on in your life, the more interesting you are, 3) increased fitness is naturally going to grant a boost to your overall mood, and 4) the more money you have, the more flexibility you’ll have to do various things with her; more specifically, you knowing you have the “power” to fulfill just about an adventure she wants if you want to is going to put you at ease far more than if you were broke.
That confidence, that meaningful work, that welcoming mood, and that variety of life are all things that come about by your mere ambition to focus on your wealth and your body more than chasing, especially as you start to reap the self-benefits of these endeavors and focus on yourself even more. Girls can sense that more than you realize, even if she doesn’t yet know how much money you have in your bank account.
The mystery effect is one of the best things, girls really dig it when they can’t read your mind and can’t predict what you’re going to do.
L3GENDBAAP exactly!
Let me tell you one tip. Life is like a constant, never ending game of poker. You never reveal your hand too quickly and sometimes it's okay to bluff (not lie).
So it’s a game then I should be myself
Unfortunatly i Lost the girl 10 minutes before watching this. I did everything i should not jaja
Me gusta la cocaina
On to the next bro
Canned Dinners me 2 bro me too
I feel that, I'm losing a girl right now. Did so many dumb things just cos I felt happy talking with her. Can't let your emotions get involved when dealing with women
Unfortunately*
Guys, allow a dating rookie in training to share an eye-opener experience:
I've just got back into the dating game again, and yes - women can be jamokes too.
For example, I never imagined needy, unconfident girls that complain about their insecurities and say they feel nervous all the time would bother me the slightest, but lo and behold - when I actually got to experience it first hand, I came to the conclusion that I'm
1. Shooting below my league
2. I felt like I have to take care of her like a little child/be her therapist
3. It didn't feel exciting anymore. It felt... cringey.
This experience really taught me a lot about times I've been a jamoke to girls, allowed me to see into their perspective and it made me grow due to the new-found understanding, and what monumental importance confidence has on your attractiveness, for ALL social aspects.
At first I was baffled by this experience, but now I even feel more confident too now that I actually value confidence in a woman.
Keeping things going without showing too much interest can be difficult. Some chicks are really slow to respond or randomly disappear and that causes you to hit them up more which then makes you look too interested :-(
I think you are not having a strong enough initial interaction. Focus on improving that and you should get less of these issues
Hey man, if a chick replies to you with no interest and is slow to respond it means she doesn't like you. Move on and find another one. Have an abundance mindset. Who cares if she is not interested, there are billions of girls all around the planet
Ej C bro it’s hard to do that when the girl is really good looking and literally perfect in your eyes. My girl is everything I could’ve asked for but ig I have to move like she showed interest at the start now I think I’ve showed too much interest in her and now she doesn’t care anymore. Imma stop taking initiative and just give her space do things I enjoy and hope she comes back to me
Staying mysterious and showing too much interest go hand-to-hand.
I have absolutely no problem getting attractive girls but keeping them around is the hard part. Definitely agree that the "less is more" approach is the way to go
it's all so complicated. i think the best approach is try and remember they need to also need to offer you something other than looks and that you should try and stay in a state of "neutral"
bro i was texting a girl and we were getting along and i was not responding to her so fast and for a reason she kinda got turned of by that
Im currently using that method on a girl now and she sweating me with so many texts
@LEO2001 because she ghosted on me
@LEO2001 that's right mate
@LEO2001 that is right mate i know these techniques but i have one problem because i dont meet any girls it is just because i'm a little shy to go and aproach girls but of course girls need to have a good pair of ballocks to get them my character is ok i have a personality and i know how to look cool the only thing i need is just to meet new girls and i need tips on how to go and aproach girls and not to make it akward for me or the girl
@LEO2001 maybe i'm gonna try it an another time ok cool mate
Dude not everyone can have their perfect job, the world needs cleaners, rubbish removalists, truck drivers etc, life isn't a freakin movie, sometimes you have to do the best with the cards your dealt. And if the world didn't have people that did these jobs the world would be a disgusting place to live....
If you’re saying this in reference to him talking about having a lot going on in your life, there are guys that have mundane jobs like that but still get girls. You can still be a socialite and/or physically active with fun activities and/or working hard on some hobby that you hope to turn into money some day. Just don’t be a constant couch potato with no personality is the bottom line...if you want to increase your chances with girls, that is.
its not what you do that matters.. its how you feel about it..
MASTUR BIKER that is a loser mentality. You can still be successful it just matters how smart and how hard you work for it.
MASTUR BIKER it doesn’t have to be you thou . And if it is you take pride in what you do and understand it doesn’t have to be you forever . You can do different things change career paths and etc
@@timothyrudd5284 Ive seen women talk down to plumbers and manual labor......but those are the first they call when shit hits the fan. And a lot of those guys earn much more than them too.
you stop caring she starts chasing..you start chasing she starts running.
Reason #3 was my main problem I never realized. I don’t get numbers often, but whenever I do I always got excited and spent every minute texting and showing too much interest. I was always so confused and disappointed when it didn’t work out. As painful as it was, watching this is an eye opener for me. All this information is great to take in and I’ll make sure to use it. Though im not so sure about #5 😅 I get girls don’t want anyone who just sits at home and doesn’t do anything, but it’s not bad to just chill at home and still go out. I’m a homebody sorta, but I still go to places like the pool, beach, walks outside, etc. Anyways great video!
Women are not rational. We would love an attractive female showing us alot of attention. They want an attractive stranger who occassionaly sends mixed messages and sometimes too busy to see her.
Thank you for boiling this down, girls are so complicated
Good video, I have been having a lot of problems with this one as of late. One thing that I notice especially with E-girl dates is that if you just meet up at a bar and stay there the whole time then you don't get a second date. It happens rarely but you have to move her to other places, do games etc, change the environment. Just sitting talking for an hour doesn't seem to give her that "chemistry" feeling. Just my thoughts.
Yeah man I didn't talk about that in this particular video but I have stated in dozens of my other ones that moving girls around is the way to go. It's a good test to see if she's into you and a good way to lead. I move almost every girl
Thanks for the upload brother. Just had a second date with this girl, think I’m gonna slow it down a bit don’t want her to get cold feet like you said.
Yeah feel it out and don't be too hard on yourself if you fuck up
perfect timing thanks
If you don't tell enough, then compromise/trust is harder. So, I don't see this as a good idea. If knowing something personal was bad, then it was bad from the start.
Being 23 and being insecure about my sexual experience , is there hope for a guy like myself to become a solid catch for women ?
sure, just keep practicing and you'll get better and better
Assuming you don’t already do these things try em out. Watch less porn or stop all together. It’s not the same as the real thing if you watch it regularly and it’ll change your appetite negatively for the most part.
To become a catch, work on your appearance,Dress with modern style, exercise to look slim and lean, become decisive and engage with others more on the social level, practice good hygiene and find an attractive fragrance to wear, Get and maintain a sharp hairstyle, approach more women, don’t convey neediness, work on striking a good 1st impression, display leadership, stop asking for permission, get your text game in order, become more interesting and have a life outside of just trying to draw women.
These things will mold you into a man like Lloyd up here. Guarantee that.
Dunno. Most girls have been with about 200 men by the age of 18.
Go find a hooker, and practice :)
Raise experience and confidence, lowers anxiety and shyness.
Yes, guys reach their peak sexual at around 30-35. Women reach their sexual peak at around 20-25. This is because women are desired for youth and beauty. Men are desired for status, security, knowledge (knowing how to deal with women, how to deal with problems, how to deal with emotion and life) and wealth. Work on yourself these years, you will get very desirable with some quality skills and ambition behind you
Literally all of my friends have a gf, go to work at every day of the week and come home and relax and either watch TV play games or go out and do something with their gfs. None of them love their jobs either. So how is it that their ladies stick around if they dont really have that exciting of a life?
And also 3 of them are married with children as well..been doing the same things for years
because having an "exciting life" is mostly viewed as this unrealistic American dream that is so much promoted and it's fucking cancerous. The goal is to have a small life that you can actually enjoy by yourself and hobbies that you like doing that you can share with friends and a girl that mostly shares the same interests. Nobody has that exciting life 24/7, that's a stupid idea that social media is promoting, sometimes to sell you something. It's not impossible, just unrealistic. You could very well have a good overall life and still, be bored to death after some time. Humans are unstable creatures and are always suspect to change regardless. Having that "exciting over the top life" can also be synonym that you're too busy for someone, which isn't any better.
Expand your circle....what's good for the goose isn't a one size fits all find new passion visit places you don't usually go to dress different and change your lifestyle if that works you'd be surprised to know that your finds are now looking at you free and hapot and resenting the gf and routine they live daily....
So we have to have an exciting life with good stories to tell her, while also not talking to her about myself and talking up the experiences that I have to keep her interested? How does one even?
If she asks about something then you tell a good story(guys are generally good at this and concise) but don’t offer up your whole life story on a silver platter. Make her hungry to learn more but only tell a story or two every date,
The single best thing you can do to improve your dating life, without question, is to get fit. Period. Not even money is as important as getting fit and looking good. People always go on about how looks aren’t everything, but they ARE the key to getting a girl hooked, I don’t care what anybody says. If a girl looks at you and starts to get wet, you pretty much have to not be braindead and you’re guaranteed her ass the first chance she gets. All this other stuff is great for once you’ve gotten a girl’s interest, but if getting the interest is the problem, get fit and that problem will disappear.
But I m wondering why so Eastern Euro girls go out with short ugly unfit dudes .... and lots of fit handsome bros with ugly ones
Cuz these Eastern Euro girls insecurity
youre not far off.
This will only work if you want only a lustful connection. Yes physical gets you attracted initially. it’s what you first see. But a good looking man with a nice body, but no drive, no ambition, no goals no a career. Your look is only going to get you so far. Women will leave you to get with an average guy that does. Women are not as shallow as men. So you can’t work just on your physical and think it’s going to keep a good woman. Notice I said good woman. You have to be a well rounded man across the board.
Honestly, videos like this just feed overthinking. Be yourself and don't change how you acted to get her interested. Don't be clingy and don't be too distant and play games. If she isn't interested move on kings, you'll find someone else.
Is this kinda what he said?
There's obviously little things you can do to improve a girl's interest in you but overall a girl is going to be interested in you or she's not. You have to be yourself and if she doesn't like you for who you are she's not going to be interested and why would you want to be with someone who doesn't like you for who you are in the first place? Just be yourself and if she likes you she'll be interested and if she's not she'll go away.
Pretty much.
Great video, love hearing the more down to earth, usable tips. I was already applying most of it subconsciously but it's good to be reminded that this is probably the reason the girl I'm dating appears to like me so much
Exciting life huh?
Time to start a fight with a big dude.
Did I ever tell you the story of why I'm in a wheelchair and use a computer to talk to you?
you fought a big dude and got rekt? :(
No you haven't told us yet..
perfect timing as always, thanks for sharing
Thank you . Love from Australia
Not everyone has an exciting life, and exciting is subjective... shouldn’t be an important criteria
lets keep it 100 you need money and you need to look good to get and keep a woman. everything else is learned. she will learn to see your humor, she will learn to like your minor quirks and even ignore some major faults. like time will grow her confidence in you naturally but money and fitness is what starts all that. no woman ever wants to date a slightly obese guy that lives with his mom. you gotta have your own shit going on with you and she'll hop on board. if your having money/career problems then your gonna have trouble finding women especially if your looking for anything serious.
True but money doesnt start anything unless she's a gold digger.
I have to find girls who can understand my humor then
Yep I experienced this recently I really liked her but I work as a caddie and have no career and have a beer belly and bald spot . She banged me twice but didn’t stick around. It’s like I’m cute enough to get layed but not get a girl I like to stay
TOTAL BULL. I have been 6'2" since I was a teenager, good looks, and have a DISGUSTING amount of money. I was in a 2 new car dealerships today and could have bought 2 NEW SUVs and STILL had cash left. Women not interested. In fact any mention of money and they're say you sound like a smart arse or big ego. Never mind that they're broke and probably jealous while I'm looking at an SUV with a 2 and a half foot touchscreen from nearly the door to the passenger that controls everything in the car.
Sadly the truth you do gotta keep in balance with money and your physical health or else she’ll leave you damn it kinda hurts but it is what it is
Do you guys believe at the end of the day, all dating advice comes down to being less insecure and filling gaps of loneliness with things you enjoy. Then when you do meet someone, remove all attachment to the outcome and just be yourself. Easier said then done when hormones override intellect, but dating should never be this hard. I think it comes down to timing. I’ve also been single for a decade so, perhaps all the above justifies my situation. Truth, I’d much rather be with someone I vibe with than alone. Life is meant for two people. I’d also rather be single and alone than alone in the wrong company.
Bro this video explains a lot. You got yourself a new subscriber
When she loses interest in you, the simple thing you can do is to forget her and move on. Do not simp over her. Do not even try to stay friends atleast till that you dont find another girl. You can't have the feelings of friends with her beacuse you had romantic feelings for her back and you will obsess over her and make your life miserable.
The reasons she loses interest in you are
1. You are not the type of guy which she originally thought you were while pursuing or chasing her.
2. You are not in your prime condition. It means currently you are not the way you used to be when you were chasing her or pursuing her in your physical looks or the way you use to treat her.
3. She was never into you. You were just a place holder as she was not getting the right person at that moment. The moment she find the type of guy she's is interested in, she'll dump you. Accept that, forget her and move on. And if her relationship fails or did not work out she will come back to you again for your services. Discard her. Do not accept her even if she give any arguments. Remember she's is not a loyal person.
4. Another reason is you have revealed everything about you in early phases of conversation and chasing her beacuse you had thought that it will build up the intimacy and emotional bond between two of you. No. Now you do not have anything mysterious or hidden about you. So you are not in mysterious person anymore and she is not intrigued enough. Remember women are drawn to men because of their mystery. Therefore do not reveal all your information to her especially in the earlier phases of conversation. Don't tell about anything which she has not asked. And tell only what she's asked. Don't give additional or sideby information. As long as man stay mysterious womeb think man of as a puzzle to be solved but if you tell all about yourself, they think they have solved you. So they are not more interested in you.
5. You are overly emotional. Never reveal your emotions to her or show or tell her that you are emotional person. Never. Being emotional is a feminine thing and being not emotional is a masculine thing. Therefore being feminine she is drawn to masculine thing which isn't emotional. Don't act or speak that way which appears like you're emotional. Do not express emotional feelings to her. Or say her that you like her or love her in the initial phases of conversation because when you do it too early, she thinks you're needy and even later, unconsciously she thinks that she has bagged you and she do not have to prove herself to get you or to chase you or even get your attention. You've completely thrown yourself to her and ready to give her anything without thinking why you should like her or approve her? And don't prompt her to put any effort to attract you or gain your attention. Even if she's good looking and it is just for sex. Then don't confuse lust for love.
6. You and your time is not important. You are always present around her in her vicinity or stay connected with her through social media. And she thinks why he's always available or have your all attention. What is his life without me? We don't value a thing which is easily available and we don't have to put any effort to get that thing. Do not give your all the attention to her freely. Let her put some effort to get your attention and to keep you interested. Do not give your attention freely like water but keep it scarce like gold. Only then it will be valued. If you give it freely and easily then you are attention will be worthless. And why you are giving her so much time and attention because you have nothing going on in your life. You have no hobbies, aims and goals in your life. You have no life outside her and you are a yes man. You do everything she asked you to do and you act like that you are lucky to have her because you have got her by chance and you are not good enough for her. Remember women do not want a man who thinks that he is not good enough for her or she thinks that she has to put no efforts to get his attention and validation.
Therfore if you want to keep her interested don't do above mistakes.
The single guy: be mysterious
Also the single guy:tell her what you like then ask her what she likes
Also the single guy: don't show too much interest
Me: "I like something. How about you. I don't really care tho"
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It’s hard to have an exciting life when you’re 15 and you don’t have any plans. Maybe when I start driving but right now it’s hard to get out of the house especially with Covid
I’m in the same boat man
Felt that i need a decent car fasttt
Women can get guy’s attention Easily, so they don’t even need to try... Men we need to Shift the Dynamic, don’t care too much, compliment then move away and let her chase you, stay cool, be funny and have confidence within and know your life’s passions
i cant do it. lost too many. its me. good luck to the rest of you guys
Being on my purpose? yes. But, why I would try to make my life interesting for her? I'll live my life the way I want. If she really interested and loves me, she'll find my life interesting no matter how boring it is.
Being mysterious & having perfect 👌🏾 timing major hella gems 💎 dropped here YESSIR‼️🗣
Genuinely helped bc I’ve now had my girl for 6 months
I'm having trouble understanding how one keeps that mystery and balance.
How does one not show too much interest and yet keep the conversation going? Doesn't women want men asking them how they feel/felt during their particular experience (don't they love talking about themselves)?
If I don't show any interest by saying "yeah ok" and move on to the next topic, couldn't that be disappointing for them?
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Sometimes it feels like I'm playing that Conversation mini game from Oblivion.
Just say less and keep it at statements and only ask a question once every 15 mins but good well thought out ones
Bahaha dude I used to play oblivion back in the day.
So this is where practice is super important. It takes time to figure it out. But a good rule of thumb is when you are talking to her be present to the moment and focused on her and understanding her. When you are doing something else don't drop everything to come meet up with her immediately. This is for talking in real life. Texting is a little different
Bruh, you look like you'd be Jason Mamoa's younger brother lol
He looks like he lives in LA or Miami too u gota be some douche like him to get women in those cities. A normal city u can just be youreself and not lie and get a girl to stay. I mean I guess he’s right in a way. You gota play the game to win
"How do you lose a female?"You forget to cherish her." - Sprouse (Suite Life of Zack & Cody).
5:50 reminder to myself
Love watching your videos man
have a social life of abundance and get on your purpose
Lloyd : get her thinking of you nonstop
me : burned her house.. trusted 100% work.. she will thinking about you all day long..
I met a girl in my college that like anime like I do. We exchange numbers with each other. I kinda overstepped by double texting. I first said "You having fun tn? I'm having fun. I was on the dance floor." and then "I'm a dancer self taught." So that was fairly a mess up for me. I would do it the old school way instead doing it in social media wise cause everyone hide on their phones.
I had this issue where I hit it off on a first date with a girl, we hit it off, had a second date and got a hotel room, had blast. She seemed hella interested in me so I started to show a good amount of interest and then bam, she seemingly backed off, stopped texting me, etc. Told me she still liked me but did not treat me like she did. How do you even read a girl like this? Lol.
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Great video man! Just balance out the interest and get to know more.
The more I learn about how easy women lose interest, the more I don't feel bad for cheating on them.
hung out two times and she was showing so much interest and shit testing me, I showed her interest back and gave her so much attention and let her stop chasing... then she dipped immediately. Once you lose your masculine frame and start giving a fuck, they will leave.
Love how he gets to the point of the video 💯
nice and straight to the point! one love
I find myself getting completely turned off as soon as I get a girl’s interest, it’s happened before so I find myself understanding women a bit more
Same, why does this happen?
I kid you not I posted anyone want some? (A pic of snacks) this girl I liked said sure with 🤣🤣🤣 and I said whatcha want and she left me on seen. I just don’t get it 🤷🏽♂️
Hey Loyd, can you do a video on what age group of women should a man in his 60’s go for in order to increase his chances of success. I have been watching your videos practically every night and I have learnt a lot. One of the most important things I have learned is to improve myself in other areas of my life. Thanks so much
I seem to be able to get that initial attraction, but I find that after a few days they lose interest. I try to get them off a dating site and get their number which works, but from that I find it difficult to actually get them on a date
Legend has it his eyebrows don’t have a default mode
Dude!! Mate you’re a fucking legend for this one. Had a couple of things I wanted to address and this nailed it and then some. First thing I’ve seen of yours. Subscribed. All the best
How?!? My crushes ex all he does is play video games, doesn’t have a job, dropped out of high school early and doesn’t workout! And she liked him!!!!!! WTF! I just have a curse with female 🤦♂️.
Being intimidated by you is good advice. When I first became a lawyer after school I thought women would be super attracted to me because I was smart and with a good job, etc.. BUT instead I would see women losing interest and I couldnt get it. That is why I worked so hard when in school and poor. But the truth I learned to my surprise was a lot of the waitresses, students and more girls with average to below average jobs and lives were intimidated. They thought I was too smart for them, they felt dumb or would not fit in to my life or me theirs and then assumed I would only be interested in them for sex. (that is a turn off). I really did have to compensate by asking them about their lives and showing interest and showing I was "fun" and normal once I learned that. Asking questions about their lives and showing that you did not think they were less than me. The ironic thing was many of the women were good looking so I assumed wrongly that would even things out, but it doesn't.
Lots of times that is why you see these kind of girls marry cooks or some restaurant guy like them. They feel more comfortable with those guys.
6:03 This rings true. I was talking to this girl, flirting at first, then we both opened up and developed an amazing connection. We were talking every day for a week almost any time we could get and on one day when I was hungover and she was feeling down, we talked all day. At the end of that day, I was talking about what we could do when we met up with each other which we'd fantasised about before, and she said that really freaked her out. Ever since then it wasn't the same, she put little to no effort in, just one response to something I said and no actual conversations anymore. What can I do to get her interest back? I just assumed she wasn't ready for a relationship and backed off. Didn't realise it was a thing that planning our time together could freak a girl out. Thought she'd be into that.
Cuz u were predictable. Women like excitement. She text u, then u reply. No fun in the chase
You did everything right. Timing was off, that’s it. In time the stars may realign.
Women lose interest when a guy is not consistent,and also when he is unable to put his words into action,guys love to impress women with high lyrics such as;i own this,i own that,u will get this,u will get that,and their one famous line....ill take care of u,smh yhis is a turn off,qomen hate men who brag,in my opinion,if u cant do shit stfu,who cares what u got...
Its like telling someone to get fit without giving them the actual plan
Basically long story short. Be on your purpose, have a life, don’t be too hung up one someone and show interest but not too much
Hey man I just discovered your channel and it fucking changed my life. I was the most depressed fucking guy stuck in my daily loop with no hope left. You completely changed my perspective on life and made me actually want to improve myself. I could relate to your story so much (i even also study physics) and i think thats also why you inspired me sooo much. I'll start going out as much as possible now. Could i just get your opinion on wether its easier to pick up girls in a really loud club or like a quiet chill vibe bar? Girls seem to want to dance with me but im kind of a potato on the dance floor. Anyways sorry for the long comment I just really had to say thank you and keep up the good work!
Awesome man. Stoked that I put you on the right path. Now its time for the real work get out there and start taking action. If you need extra help shoot me a message
To answer your question that depends on the vibe you like. I personally like chill bars because I can talk and women can hear me.
so.. don't text her, but do text her. but don't care, but make sure you do. but don't be interested in her, but do be interested in her. gotcha
Man this video helped me I just couldn’t stop texting her
Hey bro what’s the best way to contact you so I have the best chance of getting a response? I have unique situation I’m in & your advice would mean a lot
Haha well I doubt its a unique situation. You DM on Instagram or join the fb group. Both links are in the description
Just be yourself if she doesn’t like it then shes not for you!
juan guzman i like that
The reason why I have a diffcult time with being more ambitious is the fact that I almost always have had a diffcult time with being with people in general and with the general public both men and women. Maybe it's because of my disability which makes it diffcult to read social cues. This after I have tried dating sites recently. Any ideas?
I don't care about finding anyone, to be honest. I have more fun hanging out with friends in general, and I don't care. Being in a relationship sounds stressful, anyway.
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all great suggestions, specially the last point!
All these male dating coaches LOVE giving women excuses, like "she'll never tell you anything important because it would hurt your feels and shes just so caring!". Complete BS. Shes a coward, not a caring person.
I so needed to hear this thank you.
you are really good and down to earth guy, nice video brother thank you
thanks man!
He really is man! He’s sick a gift from God I wish I had an older brother like him like honestly!
After I scared her on the first date, I did a 73-day no-contact technique. Now, while she openly stood me up on my graduation party, she at least indirectly apologized a day after the party. Now, we’re starting to get things moving again slowly. I even wrote her a card. I’m still trying to attract her, but I’m also trying to attract all her single friends, so that I can decide later on in my life who I’m really interested in.
Ok nice advice but most of us have no time for that we have our own shit to deal with
Women change like the stock market even bad ass dudes with everything get dropped
What to do, if the girl was VERY interested in the beginning, but doesn't take the initiative that often anymore? I've been dating this girl for 2 months and we have had a great time, but she has become lazy contacting me. Should I just stop contacting her and see if she comes back?
Yes bro if she don’t got the Time to atleast text you.Move on
Amazing Thanks 🙏🏽
Wow so true ! Great content !
Having a normal job is NOT a bad thing. 95-98% of dudes on the planet have “normal” jobs. That has NOTHING to do with getting women.
Exactly. That was a trash point by him.
Oh yea I got dumped bc I’m a caddie for sure girls sometimes do go for money and for guys with better jobs.
It is fair to lose women , but never lose the person who you are.
I always hang out and do stuff but I don't understand the part of exciting life, I mean ,i don't spend all of my time to video games anymore but i just can't think any other think 🤔🤔
Nice bro...big fan🔥🔥
BS on the yacht thing! You tell a girl you were partying on a yacht and your not lying, you got her! Shes either gonna want to party on the yacht too or shes saying he parties on a yacht, im good I can use this guy in my life. Money is the most attractive thing fellas, jus dont simp and spend it on them spoiling them feeding their ego and entitlement.
Hi Lloyd, in another video you said that you should talk with less filtering, and say more of the things that come to mind. However, for me this would probably mean revealing more about myself and losing the mystery. How can you do both these things right at the same time?
Emil Van Der Velden Don’t Talk to The Girl Directly (As Most Guys Do) Talk to Her In-Directly Which is (How females talk To other Females) key Word: INDIRECT
How are they supposed to keep my interest? That's the real question.
would be cool to see a video about setting open relationships and how to setup the right frame and boundaries
Hey single guy!
Hey!
@@TheSingleGuy Perhaps you displayed too much interest here and therefore, no response.
Just tell her you don’t have a job, and you like to be abusive. Girls love that.
LOL.
why cant i just be myself :/ i hate this
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Excellent video bro
Once a woman knows she has you, it's over. And you will never have her.
orange is the new black 🤣🤣🤣, u made laugh,
and i agree about this point bragging comes from insecurities and people in general hate people who brags alot not only girls..
Wow, i think i did almost everything wrong recently with this young girl.
Initially there were a lot of sparks between us and she was very keen to go on a date with me.
After the second date i blew it up. I think i showed too much interest, lost the mystery and didn't qualify her enough.
I took her hand while we were going for a walk to the next location. How stupid of me. She even told me afterwards that this is going to fast for her. I think the attraction diminished a lot. Now she doesn't initiate texting but is still answering. I asked her out again after some bantering but she prefered to go out with her friends that night.
Do you think i should just move on or is there a chance i can salvage this? What is the best approach?
I hate texting but i won't be seeing her anytime soon.
Should i wait a couple of weeks no contact and than just ask her out again out of the blue or keep in touch?
It really is a thin line to show someone you genuinely pursue the person without being too pushy. For context she is in her early twenties, i am close to thirty.
She probably thinks i have no other options because i did not keep cool, which is far of the truth, but how should she know?
TL;DR: Showed too much interest in a girl, didn't challenge her enough and she lost attraction. What to do?
I would really appreciate your advice. Thank you for your videos.
Keep it up. Kind regards.
Bro sorry to hear this i hope it gets answered my girl lost instrest too i need to fix it.
Don't contact her and move on! You have learnt sth.
She will wonder why u stopped...be the high value guy again and play it hard
@@abghani8998 Thank you for your response and advice.
I think in my mind i will move on, cruise with intermediate contact and see other girls in the meantime.
I will keep conversations lightly and ask her out another time. Why would this be considered needy?
Full no contact seems a little bit strange and unnatural to me.
Llyod even has a video about no contact and when to apply it.
I'm curious what he would recommend in this case.
Any other opinions? Thanks for your help guys.
Ya just dissappear for a month and ask her out again, if she says no then move on! Trust me this is legit
Holding a girls hand is not too fast I feel like you aren't telling us the whole story. if she went out with her friends instead of you. She has lost interest. The most you can do is hangout with her and her friends and reignite interest through her circle or other females around her.
can you make a video on how to not be a simp?