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@Terry 20 they won't know that you want them to start it unless you start talking first (saying hi and looking friendly and approachable helps). But you don't always have to take the lead just sometimes (it's like give and take)
I hurt myself but was going to go to a class at church. when I got there, I was told it was cancelled. Inwardly I said Yes! I got in my car and drove home. Other people were saying hey let's go OUT. lol
My school put up posters saying things like "don't be shy, make new friends!" And I just think every time I see them 'I'm not shy, I just don't like people'
@@MT-bw3mb i used to think something was wrong with me and even my parents noticed i seemed a bit off. i found these videos and i finally understood. Sadly, due to the schools usual attitude of ignoring bullying and to stop my grandmother from trying to figure out why i was put in the hallway so much i was misdiagnosed with high-funtioning autism. My poor grandmother still feels guilty about not getting me out sooner. I grew up having, uh ok here come the tears, my self confidence crushed because all i ever really heard from them was that i was fat, i can't trust my own judgement, i wasn't as beautiful as the girls on playboy magazines due to acne scars, *wipes eyes and sniffs* that my successes/skills wasn't because of all the work put in and that it was my Autism. They made me feel like i should have just offed myself instead of getting up when i was beat down. i've tried telling them about this but every time i do i get told to just get over it like it was a cold. Well, my dear grandmother fought her best for me when i was a kid and now it's my turn to fight.
I understand. But sometime we really need to talk. Especially about something important. So those words didn’t only mean questions or force. But sometimes it’s mean blame too.
i'm so tired of people telling me "you're so quiet/shy" and "you need to speak up more" my entire life. the worst thing is i find it hard to explain myself so i end up just awkwardly smiling at them.
As an introvert who stutters, talking to anyone, hell even my closest friends is a nightmare. Everything is always unbearably akward and nobody understands. I plan out exactly what I want to say, repeat them over and over in my head, but when the time comes for me to say something, the words simply arn't there.
I'm sure many of us could relate to this judging by the likes your comment got. We can do a video on that if you like and as @Vlad mentioned, this could also be a form of social anxiety.
Lori Tato omg yesssss exactly hahahaha most of my friends are extrovert and it kinda pins me how they judged so much on how I don't join in their fun while I don't judge how annoying they can be . Can't we just accept each other and be happy ever after ? If I can accept your loudness ,why can't you accept my dead mouth lmao
I'm an introvert and I can sniff out fake people from miles away. Which makes it even more difficult to socialize because I do not like people who aren't genuine.
Lily Hope You are damn right, and then if they ask you "why don't you talk to me?" it's a little bit hard not to answer with "Because you're a frigging copy of everyone else".
Indeed. I like being observant but it has the side effect that I don't try to make friends with people because I know I cant trust them. People didn't notice I was there for so often that I learned some deep secrets overthe years.
Number 3 is so annoying! I said one wrong thing that no one cares about and they don't even remember and weeks after I said it I'm still/will never stop thinking about it! And 4 just makes it worse!
@@КонстантинИванов-к7с oh boy I think I might be able to relate SOOOOOOOOOOO much to this it feels sometimes as though every single thing I do and every single I DON'T do is just wrong and I'm guessing this doesn't actually make much if ANY sense at all does it?
Lol yeah cause that would make you being a center of attention, and that's really annoying when you keep thinking about it even tho it was a small mistake
My dad has to order my food for me, because i wont. My sister can order her food and shes younger than me 😟. If i try it will be a mess and my family will just stare at me like im crazy or something
I hate #9 so much... My girlfriend told me once to just try to talk more and that I should involve myself more often in conversations. But it happens all the time that I get interrupted while speaking or just nobody listens so I don't see any reason to try again. It's so fucking annoying being told to talk more but getting interrupted at the same time. (I hope my English wasn't too bad)
it's like when my dad asks why I hate repeating myself "I DON'T KNOW, MAYBE BECAUSE I ALWAYS HAVE TO REPEAT MYSELF AT SCHOOL,DAD!" (Anyone else with a naturally quiet voice here?)
Extroverts: the world is perfectly designed to fit our needs. Coronavirus : I’m about to end everyone’s career. Government: All the stores are closed. Extraverts: Noooo!! Government: All your social gatherings are cancelled. Extraverts: Noooooooo!!! Government: We are issuing a self quarantine. Extraverts: Nooooooooooooooooo!!!!! Introverts: (This is the greatest day of my life!) Fellow introverts unite!!!! We have come to take over the world! This is the golden age for us introverts!!! No longer will we be forced to talk and socialize. No. We will have our revenge!! Hanahahahaahaha!!! (The revenge is a joke) :)
I mean I had no difference in my activity when we went in to quarantine. It's always to peopley outside, I have a hard time even talking or thinking about talking to my landlord or lawn guy. I lock the doors and lay down and pretend I'm not home.
gosh the number 9 happened so much with me the girls in my class used to always say "you don't have to be shy, talk to us" but when i tried to talk they would ignore not because they didn't listen becaus they looked at me and they got silent to hear me but just... there was no reaction, and some of them would even roll eyes it was so frustrating
that's so mean..... just make everything worse it's so horrible, and everyone were like that in this class i guess it was because i was the only different? so it was awkyward when i tried to talk about things they like or get interested? everyone in my class used to watch those netflix series and stuff, kate perry music this popular stuff and i was the only one that plays games and watch anime well, it's easy to know that i was the only one in a class with just 9 people, and all girls well, i'm just grateful that now i changed school and i have a class that i can be who i'm, i won't be ignored and have lot of people that play games and watch animes for me to talk to that's interesting that now there's only men in my class girls are so mean....
One of the worst things as an asocial introvert is when people tell me I should stop having so much alone time, and saying that you won't be successful unless you are a social person.
DRFUZY1 sucks to be a introvert Damn in this century everyone want to have real equality but nobody thinks about us introverts. We are faster sad are less social and dont really know how to react socially. I hate it
I find it difficult to explain to my parents that I don't crave social experiences and tons of friends. I like what and who I have and spending alone time working on my hobbies.
My dad always told me stories about how he would get home, toss his bag in the house and call out to his parents 'I'm going to a friends house' and then comment that I never went to friends' houses.
Person: "Stop being so stubborn! It's just party, it doesn't kill you!" Me: "Well it triggers panic attacks and anxiety so no." Person: "You just don't wanna go and hang out with you friends/family." Has this happened to anyone out there too?
"Don't tell me how to be! Don't like me? Apologising to others for me being me? Don't be controlling! Shame on you" is a great reply xx Be you. You awesome. xx
Idm other people talking, I just don’t want to answer - too much energy. I made that clear to my friends (which didn’t take much energy cause I only have a few) and thank god, they were all fine with that :)
knowing about introversion has been one of the greatest discoveries in my life!! I used to think that I'm extremely weak and that I have no self- confidence at all because of not being able to do the simple things you said in this video. ever since I knew about me being just an introvert, I accepted myself and calmed down a lot more.. got rid of anxiety and stopped with the harsh self-criticism I used to do to myself all the time.. I feel so relieved now. and this video is one of the best that I ever watched!! thank you
I evan thought that I had some kind of a mental disease 😌 now I understood that there are people like me and they are called as introverts ... I am happy now 😁😁
I do overthink my mind is controlled by my thoughts i have wasted my 2 years doing nothing just overthinking plz someone help me i am capable of doing so many things i know but i dont know when did i became an introvert i dont want to waste my time anymore plz help
just the same with me. I used to think there was something wrong with me: staying at home almost all the time, being quite, overthinking, talking to myself, looking up at the sky, watching the moon and stars and smiling at them. For so many times before, I was being confused about myself and felt like nobody ever really understand me which made me felt worst. The moment I knew I was an introvert was the moment I found my confidence.
Obnoxiously talkative person: "blahblahblahblah blah blah blah 'gasps for air' blah blah, and then blah blah blah blah - OMG you're so quiet! ARE YOU SHY?" Me: *-_-*
I was once with family and everyone was pretty loud so I got loud and then somebody told me to not be so loud 😑 I mean seriously? Fine, I’ll just stop talking all together 😒 it’s just never okay. When you’re quiet you need to stop “being shy” (I’m not shy, maybe around people I just met but once I’m comfortable I am definitely not shy) but when you talk you get interrupted all the time...
makeupandglory tell em "I'm not shy, you're just not giving me a chance to talk" lol I've met people like that and they're annoying af 😂 like.. SHUT UP SO YOU CAN HEAR ME! Lol
I find it difficult to work in group activities. I hate most of the people in my school (who are either cocky, self-absorbed, and/or disrespectful) and I swear, sometimes I feel my heart stops beating for a second. I work best by myself. Most teachers don't seem to understand this about me. Like in French, we had to do these activities where we speak to the person next to us. I begin blushing and stuttering and refuse to speak. My voice gets really quiet to where I'm not heard by my partners (who thankfully just go with it). I like working by myself because I'm usually the person who does everything for everyone, so it's nice to do everything for myself for once. Sounds selfish, yes, but doing other things for other people is exhausting, both physically and mentally. My teachers and parents "encourage" me to "get out more and be more social" but it just doesn't work. I stay at home most weekends just to recharge. There's even the occasions where I sleep for over twelve hours because I have no energy, both physically and mentally, to get up, all being sucked from being around other people.
My situation is worse. I have a silly group activity in which it involoves role play, and I'm the group leader of the stupid project. We have to act a story. I'm already very awkward and suck at socializing. Ugh :( hope i can get away with this or smthing!!!
I had a French teacher that gave us group projects almost every unit. I ended up having a group with: - a classmate so unmotivated and uncooperative that they needed to be bribed by a friend - a classmate that did try, to their credit, but had low grades and thus couldn't help much - a classmate whose previous school taught them nothing about French and thus didn't know anything helpful
It's difficult to balance the things I want and the things I can do. It's really hard to speak with people, hard to make friends. It's even harder to try and find a life long partner. Dying alone is in my opinion the worst possible way of going.
you can try convincing yourself that things that you happen to not be good at, such as dating, as something that is intentionally avoided or try to convince yourself that whatever it is could always go horribly wrong
Justin ™ Ah, I have the same problem! That's the reason why I hate name games in school, because everyone seems to remember people's names instantly and then there's me, who can't get any of the names. Heck, even if I'm confident that the name is right I'll still peep it out really quietly because I dread getting it wrong so much.
I don't like asking people what their name is so the only way I get their name is by hearing someone else say it and I 'listen in' for a bit. No, I don't eavesdrop on people...
I did that with my mate at uni for a while, one of the most embarrassing moments of my life is when, halfway through the term, I needed to write both our names on a piece of work and I had to admit that I had no idea what it was...
The issue is not even remembering names, I'm quite good at remembering things but I just have a polarizing fear of the slight possibility of calling someone the wrong name and being utterly embarrassed.
I remember I wanted to become friend with someone and I didn’t ask him about his name I just say let’s go play 😹😹 I thought that with time he might ask me about my name and then I ask him about his name ..but I think he get a bad idea about me 😹😹💔
I say we make our own country where mandatory schooling is replaced with mandatory library time where all you do is read. Then for any meetings we do it over informal email or text.
Taestheticc yeah it’s so annoying. I hear that everyday. Well in fact I just don’t talk to them because I don’t like them. When I’m with my friends or a nice group of people I’m really different
I always was the best at my class. Lots of A’s. When people asked me “Why are so so intelligent” or “How do you get those good marks” I answered. “Why are forests called forests, and why do they have trees?” And in my mind I was like “What the hell am I supposed to answer. What a dumb question. Now please get the Hades out of my sight.”
The email and conversation things are really true. It feels like i am invisible to them. If I talk or walk out of room, they would say "oh, so you here? why being quiet", but if I approach them, they keep making distance. That's why I always stick with only closest friend and so difficult to adapt in new place
Imelda Santosa I am invisible to everyone but my best friend. I was just telling her this last night too. Teachers forgot I existed half the time. Literally, when my government teacher passed out papers, half the time he would skip me and forget I was there. It sucks. My bogged problem with conversations though, is the fact that most people I talk to are extroverts. They wanna laugh. Whereas I want a meaningful talk, which is hard. They also talk so much that I can't get a word in. Then I become a wheel. And odd wheel. So I give up on conversations. I don't ask customers at work how they're doing because I hate small talk. So when they ask me, I fake smile. I hate that question so much.
Yup. I had a lot of trouble reaching out to my teachers about some assignments through email, and I was constantly revising because I wad worried I'd come off as too needy :(
Psych2Go OH MY GOD YOU REPLIED I just wanted to say that I love your channel and it's good to see people I can relate with. - From your friendly introvert Italy
Psych2Go I think the irony of that would be that few of us would really speak to each other. After all, we dislike small talk and we dislike talking to people that we don't really know/trust (at least I don't like those things). We would be left talking about how much we dislike extroverts and all the annoying things in life. In theory, I think it would be good, but in practice I don't think much of it. If I were to join an introvert chat site, I would probably be one of the people that says things only rarely but watches the chat all the time.
Yall moods mostly my bffs i will cuss like a sailor all i want tho but like class convos or just some closer classmates which is like one or two outside my friend grp its like my brain decides that its time to panick n think things over 20x and make sure i dont sound rude or anything before i send it n if its a teacher im not familliar with i send like one word to reply them or if im asking smth its very short lol
always struggle to talk and give respond to my friends who wants to talk to me. but I find it easy to talk to others when I feel comfortable with them.
Jade Mapp I can agree to that so much. The most quietest people are the most funniest people and/or fun people to hang out with. We quiet people have 2 sides 😂
Instead of telling them to not "be shy", people should do a better job of letting their own walls down and making it easier for introverts to talk to them :3
I find presentations or speeches very hard ,specially in English class. The teacher tries to push out of my comfort zone and be confiden 😢😢😢😢 . Or getting awarded on stage, yes I feel happy to get an award or a medal in school but the fact that's it is on stage makes me very scared to make a mistake (over thinking ). That's what makes me uncomfortable the most as an introvert
Sometimes I feel if all of introverts were to gather...we'd be such great buddies...not to mention we could relate to each other so much...and FINALLY there would be someone like me to share my anxieties and frustrations with who would understand me instead of neglecting me
Exactly if im with friends im like this rlly loud person that cusses like a sailor n does a lot of random dumb things then when im with someone else its like rlly hard to express myself
I'm an introvert. I really over think things. Even things I do on a regular basis. I HATE busy places and cancel social events where possible, which in turn can kind of isolate me a bit. I stutter Wen I speak and it doesn't just happen with new ppl, I stutter Wen talking to friends and family and even Wen I talk to my dogs(weird I no.lol) but again some of the "traits of an introvert" are also signs of autism. That's a large factor in why I am the personality I am. Partly Due to my autism. I always hate it Wen ppl say that I should "act more like a normal person would in the situation" cos I'm NOT "normal" and I NEVER want to be "normal" but then if you go by the Oxford English dictionary definition of normal no one is. Cos it's impossible. the definition of normal is: what society persevere to be right and correct. And no to ppl will always agree on the exact same thing. Ergo there's no such thing as normal. Stay strong guys. X
Sometimes being different is good too, and plus you're not the only one who are feeling that way even me feels like that somtimes, just be urself so that mor people can understand u, rather than doing things that u r not (because some people thinks thats waht makes u normal)
I'll have a conversation with someone, or even if I just say hi to someone in in passing, I can overthink it. To the point where I would overthink if I should have said bye to this person that I passed or not. It's annoying cause I know they don't care, but I still think about it. For days if not weeks.
That they do. But hey, after a lifetime of being with them, I've gotten used to it, kind of. I still way overthink the tiny details of conversation was to much, and probably always will :(
Introverts often have some bit of disappointment when plans are cancelled. Like in spring of 2020 me and my family were gonna go to Disney for spring break. I was exited and all but personally didn't because of all the packing and the drama of getting there and getting back. So when the plans were cancelled because of the covid I was excited because I like spending holidays at the house. That means more time for me to write my books and draw. But I did have some disappointment because it could've been fun and I could've rode the Barn stormer, Mine train, Slinky dog, People mover, Monorail, and Sorin. Not to mention I could've eaten at the restaurants like Be our guest, my personal favorite. I am an introvert btw.
@@theintrovertedaspie9095 yup I could relate to it, because you somehow had mentally prepared for the trip, so it would be a little disappointment when it was canceled. But if it were a meeting with friends or a party, it would be a blast :v
It literally KILLS ME when people say to stop being shy or saying to put myself out there. It’s harder said then done. As an introvert, listening and comprehending what was said during the video was pretty much 100% relatable. Thank you for making such a great video (even thought it’s an older video). I loved it ❤️
1.) random classmate: “Why are you sitting alone? Are you okay?” me: yes now go away me in reality: “mhm” :) random classmate: “HUNNNYYYY let me teach you how to speak” me: I can speak but this is why I don’t speak to people who want to change my personality. 2.) Girl in my class: “Always be yourself!” Also her: “You should talk more” me: someone kill me NOW
Going to parties, because you fear of being talked about on how shy and asocial you are when you're not there. You really only have *two* options: 1- Drink way too much alcohol so you finally won't be awkward anymore. 2 - Feel terrible for being way too awkward all the time.
People can't seem to understand that I don't mind being by myself. I don't mind having a few friends. I hate people always thinking I am "Lonely" despite anything I say, or I'm "Not Social Enough". During school, I use to sit alone at lunch and this guy would constantly come up and try to force me into social interaction with people, thinking he was doing me a favor. I would tell him over and over that I don't mind sitting alone and I do so because I want to. He didn't care. Eventually I just started sitting at a lunch table with other people even though we didn't interact just to get him off my back.
"Be more ougoing, social and active" "Make more friends." "Why are you so shy?" "You're so quiet, passive and reserved." These are all the things we hear from extroverts.😪
Well then, let’s ask them those things 😈👇 “Why are you so social?” “Why do you talk so much?” “Why do you make so much noise when you’re active?” *”Have you ever heard of Introverts?”* Etc.
You know what introvert means: You can't start speaking with someone that you're not close to.. You can't stop talking with someone that you are close with.. Am I right ?
My Parents at parties to relatives :- Hey! How are you?... blah blah Relatives :- Oh she is your child, how grown up, are you OK, do you talk? My mind :- say something, say something Me:- ( RUNS) Seriously I hate parties and even talking to someone I don't know for years or I met just now.
When people in the same room gathers everyone up just to attack you for "isolating" yourself. Ironically doesn't help but increases the trauma of trusting those people who never understood or once talked to you, but dependent on the bad rumors about you.
I DONT KNOW MY BROTHER but they never motherfuckin shup up their hole of speak BUT WHEN I FUCKING LET THE MIRACLES GET OUT OF MY MOUTH THEM NEVER LIKE AND START JUDGING
I’m 55 and it took me all these years to realize that it’s ok just to be myself and not care what others think about me. Everyone has their own issues, we all fail at times, we all need love and acceptance, it’s okay to be different, and just be proud of who you are and how far you’ve made it! We all have different strengths and talents , and you have the power to love people and make a difference!
Being an introvert my problem is that when someone talks shit about me infront of me and everyone I'm unable to say anything. I'm almost crying at that time but to act normal I don't cry. I want to be normal and stop being nice and introvert because it costs me my self respect
Honestly, I don't know where to start... I am introvert; I always was. But my whole life I've been told by friends, family and acquaitances that I had to be more social, more opened, to change, and this and that and that... In the end I always felt like it was my fault; "I am the one who's not trying hard enough". Even if I stayed true to myself, so many, so many times I couldn't trust myself or develop any self confidence, keeping all the frustration to myself. Today I see this video and you can't know how much it makes me happy. I never felt so understood and accepted in my whole life. And I'm sure that I'm not the only one. There must be so many people whom must feel the same... Thanks :)
Best thing being intro is -"We already know what the other person is trying to do and the reason behind his every action"" its just like mind reading😍😍
I can easly relate to all the situations here presented. Though I found my very personal ways to get rid of anxiety in some of these circumstances. Though, on a bad day, I still need to be alone and feel like I don't want to talk to anyone, as it deeply bothers me. Since I was young, they made me believe there was something wrong with me and they called me shy. Just now, thanks to you, I understand my issues are perfectly normal for an introvert and I just needd to accept them and respect the way that I am, also leading people around me to do so. Thanks for sharing this video, it's been a great discovery for me.
I hate the fuckin' *phone* D: Sometimes, I even pretend I don't hear it and rush to the bathroom so I have an excuse for not picking up. There's something about a phone that's truly terrifying to me. I *much* prefer writing an E-mail so I can re-write and edit it a thousand times, just to have worded the things I needed to say in the *most perfect* way.
Once my teacher told me to “Act Normal” and I’ve had my emotions bottled up for about 2 months and being told to “act normal” pisses me off so goddamn much......let’s just say that teacher had a BAAAAD day
I had no idea I am not the only one to go over and over a conversation only to whip myself metaphorically for something I said and labelling myself as an idiot. The outcome is to withdraw more so that I avoid being an idiot again! Sometimes I pick up on a gut feeling, then months down the track, due to other events, the reason for the gut feeling will be clear. It can be an article I read, a program I watch or even someone else’s comment that will verbally explain it in my head. It can be very confusing because my gut reaction is negative but visually all appears fine. It’s a relief when time exposes the truth and confirms my instinct. It’s taken a lifetime but I’m starting to trust myself.
After discovering I was an introvert it clarified so many things for me. When people say their lives passed before their eyes it’s usually during a near death experience. It happened to me when I found out how seriously introverted I was. What I also discovered was how ignorant I was about this personality and how ignorant the general public was. But regardless, it was a relief. One thing I struggled with upon signing up for a YT account. I enjoyed writing comments but I found it exhausting to respond when people returned comments so I turned it off. Every now and then I agonize over the possibility that somehow that little notification button got turned back on and there will ne a long list of people who responded to my comments. It hasn’t happened but it’s very scary! And I couldn’t understand why people were so anxious about quarantine that they were going out and adopting pets. Someone missed a great business op. Should have started Rent a Pet. That way people wouldn’t have adopted and then returned the animals like they were shoes that didn’t fit. Anyway I was in heaven during the big Q. I wanted to cry when they dropped it. Hey Brandon, can we do that again? Huh? Huh?
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Psych2Go I related to EVERYTHING in this video....ugh...I need to be brave!!!
Good luck!!! We're all supporting you!
Also, bonus article: How to find love as an introvert: psych2go.net/5-ways-find-true-love-youre-introvert-hate-dating/
Psych2Go could you guys please increase the volume of your audio? I've keep my phone's volume on full, yet I can't hear it properly....lol
I relate to some of them probably most I think...yeah
How to make friends
Starting the conversation❌
Let them start the conversation ✔️
My life
*insert Drake meme here*
nope, they want you to be the one to start the conversation
@Terry 20 they won't know that you want them to start it unless you start talking first (saying hi and looking friendly and approachable helps). But you don't always have to take the lead just sometimes (it's like give and take)
Big brain
I laughed my ass off when I saw the introvert crying of joy because something was cancelled, I relate so much to this. xD
same
Ikr
I hurt myself but was going to go to a class at church. when I got there, I was told it was cancelled. Inwardly I said Yes! I got in my car and drove home. Other people were saying hey let's go OUT. lol
Sammme
Ikr
My school put up posters saying things like "don't be shy, make new friends!" And I just think every time I see them 'I'm not shy, I just don't like people'
Danny 6798 I would write it on those posters
Omg I would be so annoyed if my school did that
same here 👍🏻🙂
Yes. Fcuk Them all! XD
Max Hetfield my school had it, and i did with markers, got detention but t’was worth it
Any introverts just scrolling through the comment section and nodding their heads cuz they relate so much?
+Mee-chan !InDiAn! yes
@@MT-bw3mb i used to think something was wrong with me and even my parents noticed i seemed a bit off. i found these videos and i finally understood. Sadly, due to the schools usual attitude of ignoring bullying and to stop my grandmother from trying to figure out why i was put in the hallway so much i was misdiagnosed with high-funtioning autism. My poor grandmother still feels guilty about not getting me out sooner.
I grew up having, uh ok here come the tears, my self confidence crushed because all i ever really heard from them was that i was fat, i can't trust my own judgement, i wasn't as beautiful as the girls on playboy magazines due to acne scars, *wipes eyes and sniffs* that my successes/skills wasn't because of all the work put in and that it was my Autism. They made me feel like i should have just offed myself instead of getting up when i was beat down.
i've tried telling them about this but every time i do i get told to just get over it like it was a cold. Well, my dear grandmother fought her best for me when i was a kid and now it's my turn to fight.
Me!
Yup 😔
This is so me
Inteovert problems T~T
"Can you atleast talk?"
"Why are you so quiet?"
"Sociallize with people!"
""Are you even normal?"
"Do you even talk?"
I understand. But sometime we really need to talk. Especially about something important. So those words didn’t only mean questions or force. But sometimes it’s mean blame too.
Just say that it's something important, well it works for me.
wendy's swag can beat you
I’m sorry, I wouldn’t want to plan murder out loud
My brain : i take num. 1, 2, 3, and 5 to go!
Oh god, my parents always say those 5 phrases to me every time I’m not talking or I’m around people
i'm so tired of people telling me "you're so quiet/shy" and "you need to speak up more" my entire life. the worst thing is i find it hard to explain myself so i end up just awkwardly smiling at them.
ying xi ..do you have social anxiety?..if you don't .then move to other school and change your personalities ..
My self: I wanna die °~°
ying xi FUCKING YES MY TEACHERS ALWAYS SAID THAT
yeah me too! that sucks man!
Ugggh yes! I hate that! And I hate that it’s being done to my brother BY MY MOM too! Graaaaaaaaah
I CAN RELATEE
As an introvert who stutters, talking to anyone, hell even my closest friends is a nightmare. Everything is always unbearably akward and nobody understands. I plan out exactly what I want to say, repeat them over and over in my head, but when the time comes for me to say something, the words simply arn't there.
Idem... We need to learn to control us...
I'm sure many of us could relate to this judging by the likes your comment got. We can do a video on that if you like and as @Vlad mentioned, this could also be a form of social anxiety.
That is so true. I would mentally prepare for a conversation for days then just to have it go nothing as planned.
Hunter Culver and don't get me started on ordering food! 😥
Wtf youtube this says that you commented this a month ago? 😂 And there are also few other comments that "are sent 1 month ago", is youtube drunk?
Person: stop being shy
Me, internally: WELL, STOP BEING OUTGOING
LOL! BOOM!
Wow, that's awesome!!!!..... I'll have to remember to respond that way sometime (yeah, I'm kind of an introvert). Thanks!!!
Lori Tato you mean literally
Ugh ikr
Lori Tato omg yesssss exactly hahahaha most of my friends are extrovert and it kinda pins me how they judged so much on how I don't join in their fun while I don't judge how annoying they can be . Can't we just accept each other and be happy ever after ? If I can accept your loudness ,why can't you accept my dead mouth lmao
*EVERYONE ELSE TRYING TO IMPROVE THEIR GRADES*
Meanwhile
*ME TRYING TO IMPROVE ON TALKING TO PEOPLE*
Ink Tim
Extroverts are trying to improve their grades, while introverts have good grades and are trying to improve talking skills
Me wants to go home and do whatever I want to 😉👍
Me:I have to do both of those because I’m failing three out of the four classes and the other two are electives
Same
I feel like I think about improving my talking skills all the time
Some stranger: Hello!
My brain: *shutting down..*
100% XD
Cicak Kobeng ha so me!!!
Me: **smiles and nods awkwardly while hoping they leave asap**
Rachel Her bro this happens so many times to me
I just heard windows xp shutdown sound in my head for some reason.
"oh my God you're sooo quiet"
This comment deserves more likes cause I know we're not all alone on this.
and my collegue would say "oh, so you there for along day? thought nobody around since so quite"
"Say something"
-Let's make a pinboard with all stupid quotes.-
"Why don't you talk?"
"Oh my God you're really quiet, aren't you" as if expecting you to suddenly break out into a song and dance routine and become the life of the party
I'm an introvert and I can sniff out fake people from miles away. Which makes it even more difficult to socialize because I do not like people who aren't genuine.
Lily Hope You are damn right, and then if they ask you "why don't you talk to me?" it's a little bit hard not to answer with "Because you're a frigging copy of everyone else".
Indeed. I like being observant but it has the side effect that I don't try to make friends with people because I know I cant trust them. People didn't notice I was there for so often that I learned some deep secrets overthe years.
Regulus Black same
Saaaaame
Lily Hope that's so relatable and incredibly frustrating! And it's also difficult to give your reasoning and not sound like a jerk
Number 3 is so annoying! I said one wrong thing that no one cares about and they don't even remember and weeks after I said it I'm still/will never stop thinking about it! And 4 just makes it worse!
OMG meee2
Same... So happy the person I have a crush on is a extrovert they won't remember what I said the day before summer (rip high school)
Yes!
"Your child it's so quiet!!!"
"Yeah, she's like that when we go out"
Always the same conversation.
Fuck....
Ikr
Ikr
This is other people talking to my mom and me in a nutshell.
Oh my moms friends tell my mom I’m very loud
People: Act normal.
Me: This is my normal. If you don't like it, there's the door.
Soooo same for me in my thoughts im like: if u dont like how i act u can go somewhere else
@@КонстантинИванов-к7с oh boy I think I might be able to relate SOOOOOOOOOOO much to this it feels sometimes as though every single thing I do and every single I DON'T do is just wrong and I'm guessing this doesn't actually make much if ANY sense at all does it?
@@monabohamad2242 ook im glad tht someone understands my situations thx dude 🙂👍
Agree with @holycabbage. Anyone who would tell you to act "normal" is an a**hole and not worth neither your precious time or energy.
oh yeah samee
I hate messing up, I'm always worried that I'll do something wrong!!!
Relatable
That's me right there.
Haha me too. I always be ready 1 hour before departing. Whenever i tidy up my stuff, i hate it when i forgot something
Lol yeah cause that would make you being a center of attention, and that's really annoying when you keep thinking about it even tho it was a small mistake
Me too! When I mess it up then I feel so bad like it's the end of the world
Freaking out when a waiter ask you what you want before you rehearsed it.
My dad has to order my food for me, because i wont. My sister can order her food and shes younger than me 😟. If i try it will be a mess and my family will just stare at me like im crazy or something
Every time I do that I somehow mess up.
I tell my parents and my parents tell the waiter
Y e s
Winnie Ye and in class when they take attendence I rehears in my mind lol
I hate #9 so much... My girlfriend told me once to just try to talk more and that I should involve myself more often in conversations. But it happens all the time that I get interrupted while speaking or just nobody listens so I don't see any reason to try again. It's so fucking annoying being told to talk more but getting interrupted at the same time.
(I hope my English wasn't too bad)
Husl Wusl I believe a good chunk of native English speakers know less about English grammar than you do, so no worries there :)
FREEscanRIP Wow thanks :D
But that's kinda sad to hear tbh ^^`
I can relate so damn much!....
it's like when my dad asks why I hate repeating myself "I DON'T KNOW, MAYBE BECAUSE I ALWAYS HAVE TO REPEAT MYSELF AT SCHOOL,DAD!" (Anyone else with a naturally quiet voice here?)
It's okay, your English was very good ^^
It’s hard when we actually _try_ to talk to people but we get talked over, interrupted, or straight up just ignored
Fax the times we actually want to talk to them they brush us off like fuck out of here with that
Ikr
ikr that's why I don't wanna start a conversation xD
ye, it honestly hurts
exactly - the arrogance
Extroverts: the world is perfectly designed to fit our needs.
Coronavirus : I’m about to end everyone’s career.
Government: All the stores are closed.
Extraverts: Noooo!!
Government: All your social gatherings are cancelled.
Extraverts: Noooooooo!!!
Government: We are issuing a self quarantine.
Extraverts: Nooooooooooooooooo!!!!!
Introverts: (This is the greatest day of my life!)
Fellow introverts unite!!!! We have come to take over the world! This is the golden age for us introverts!!! No longer will we be forced to talk and socialize. No.
We will have our revenge!! Hanahahahaahaha!!! (The revenge is a joke) :)
Ambiverts: **Confused screaming**
Ain't gotta worry about the constant feeling of should I go to college? For now
I mean I had no difference in my activity when we went in to quarantine. It's always to peopley outside, I have a hard time even talking or thinking about talking to my landlord or lawn guy. I lock the doors and lay down and pretend I'm not home.
@Aditi It's not wrong. It's just an older spelling :)
OMG LOL thanks for posting this this made me laugh so hard
gosh the number 9 happened so much with me
the girls in my class used to always say "you don't have to be shy, talk to us"
but when i tried to talk they would ignore
not because they didn't listen becaus they looked at me and they got silent to hear me
but just... there was no reaction, and some of them would even roll eyes
it was so frustrating
Weird people, want you to talk. Don't listen when you talk.
yes that happened to me too :(. it's sad when i try to talk nobody care
yeah, that was the most frustating part
and i tried to talk about things they like
but even it didn't work
thank god i'm in another class now
and those girls would even say that i could talk with them, and this shit happens asdfasfddddddf
that's so mean..... just make everything worse
it's so horrible, and everyone were like that in this class
i guess it was because i was the only different? so it was awkyward when i tried to talk about things they like or get interested?
everyone in my class used to watch those netflix series and stuff, kate perry music this popular stuff
and i was the only one that plays games and watch anime
well, it's easy to know that i was the only one in a class with just 9 people, and all girls
well, i'm just grateful that now i changed school and i have a class that i can be who i'm, i won't be ignored and have lot of people that play games and watch animes for me to talk to
that's interesting that now there's only men in my class
girls are so mean....
One of the worst things as an asocial introvert is when people tell me I should stop having so much alone time, and saying that you won't be successful unless you are a social person.
My parents philosophy:(
DRFUZY1 sucks to be a introvert
Damn in this century everyone want to have real equality but nobody thinks about us introverts.
We are faster sad are less social and dont really know how to react socially.
I hate it
DRFUZY1 Sadly enough I think that extroverts get more benefits in this society (it could just be me tho)
I feel you..
No, that is definitely a fact.
I find it difficult to explain to my parents that I don't crave social experiences and tons of friends. I like what and who I have and spending alone time working on my hobbies.
i relate
Next time you should repply, mom I am not alone! There millions of people on the internet!
(Just kidding)
Me too.. my mom always told me to go out more, mix with people more. But that's just not my thing. what else can I do..
My dad always told me stories about how he would get home, toss his bag in the house and call out to his parents 'I'm going to a friends house' and then comment that I never went to friends' houses.
Yup. Reading a book can be much more statisfying then trying to make friends..
We introvert are all unique in our way, who is agree with me? 🙋🙋😊😊
Yeah...
Yp in my case im introvert trying to be extrovert in any social situations
👏
Nobody really like me.Unless they need my help
Phoebelyn Gonzales not me :)
"What are some things that you find difficult as an introvert?"
Me: Existing
Jimin's Pinky Finger
Being around a crowd of more than 3 people
*being the center of attention
*Existing*
being misunderstood like being arrogant ..
True!!😁😁
The only time I don't stumble on words is when I talk to myself. In my head that is 😂 sometimes I can't even articulate words to reply back to me.
Same
Joel Lloyd big mood
sammmeee
Joel Lloyd
No matter how many times I say it over and over into my head, it never come out right...
Joel Lloyd story of my life
Person: "Stop being so stubborn! It's just party, it doesn't kill you!"
Me: "Well it triggers panic attacks and anxiety so no."
Person: "You just don't wanna go and hang out with you friends/family."
Has this happened to anyone out there too?
I overthink because I'm a Gemini and I'm an introvert, so this is not help
Kristen Ross
I'm scorpion, but I'm sorry for hearing that.
Kristen Ross I'm a Taurus and introvert.
Jen me
Jen (Italian mode activated) 👌👌👌👌👌
"Don't be shy" "Don't be nervous"
"Don't be hungry"
"Jeremy, stop being dead, you're leaving a bad impression."
😹😹 wow that’s the reason why I don’t like eating too much
Kenny 😂😂😂😂
"Don't tell me how to be! Don't like me? Apologising to others for me being me? Don't be controlling! Shame on you" is a great reply xx Be you. You awesome. xx
*Don't have alone time*
Extroverted people: Omg, you're so quiet! You should talk more!
Me: Well, I think you're too noisy. You should, y'know, talk less.
Talk less.
Smile more!
Don't let them know what you're against or what you're for.
-Aaron Burr
Idm other people talking, I just don’t want to answer - too much energy. I made that clear to my friends (which didn’t take much energy cause I only have a few) and thank god, they were all fine with that :)
Zelda Fan AAAAAAAAAAAA HAMILTON
@Max Tucker 💯
knowing about introversion has been one of the greatest discoveries in my life!! I used to think that I'm extremely weak and that I have no self- confidence at all because of not being able to do the simple things you said in this video. ever since I knew about me being just an introvert, I accepted myself and calmed down a lot more.. got rid of anxiety and stopped with the harsh self-criticism I used to do to myself all the time.. I feel so relieved now.
and this video is one of the best that I ever watched!! thank you
wow I'm so glad you accepted yourself. yay!
I evan thought that I had some kind of a mental disease 😌 now I understood that there are people like me and they are called as introverts ... I am happy now 😁😁
I do overthink my mind is controlled by my thoughts i have wasted my 2 years doing nothing just overthinking plz someone help me i am capable of doing so many things i know but i dont know when did i became an introvert i dont want to waste my time anymore plz help
just the same with me. I used to think there was something wrong with me: staying at home almost all the time, being quite, overthinking, talking to myself, looking up at the sky, watching the moon and stars and smiling at them. For so many times before, I was being confused about myself and felt like nobody ever really understand me which made me felt worst. The moment I knew I was an introvert was the moment I found my confidence.
Obnoxiously talkative person: "blahblahblahblah blah blah blah 'gasps for air' blah blah, and then blah blah blah blah - OMG you're so quiet! ARE YOU SHY?"
Me: *-_-*
makeupandglory Me: ( Hmmm where do I start...) Well Hel- *interrupted*
Martin Baez ikr! And then they call you quiet after and you're like, "really?😑"
Basically my whole family.. Everybody is loud and are over the top, and they wonder why I'm always in my room lol 😥
I was once with family and everyone was pretty loud so I got loud and then somebody told me to not be so loud 😑 I mean seriously? Fine, I’ll just stop talking all together 😒 it’s just never okay. When you’re quiet you need to stop “being shy” (I’m not shy, maybe around people I just met but once I’m comfortable I am definitely not shy) but when you talk you get interrupted all the time...
makeupandglory tell em "I'm not shy, you're just not giving me a chance to talk" lol I've met people like that and they're annoying af 😂 like.. SHUT UP SO YOU CAN HEAR ME! Lol
I find it difficult to work in group activities. I hate most of the people in my school (who are either cocky, self-absorbed, and/or disrespectful) and I swear, sometimes I feel my heart stops beating for a second. I work best by myself. Most teachers don't seem to understand this about me. Like in French, we had to do these activities where we speak to the person next to us. I begin blushing and stuttering and refuse to speak. My voice gets really quiet to where I'm not heard by my partners (who thankfully just go with it). I like working by myself because I'm usually the person who does everything for everyone, so it's nice to do everything for myself for once. Sounds selfish, yes, but doing other things for other people is exhausting, both physically and mentally. My teachers and parents "encourage" me to "get out more and be more social" but it just doesn't work. I stay at home most weekends just to recharge. There's even the occasions where I sleep for over twelve hours because I have no energy, both physically and mentally, to get up, all being sucked from being around other people.
Yeah.I hate group works or creating false stories on English lessons.
Not because of people,but i just finds it dumb and unimportant.
UnlimitedCrazy I hear yea you are not along
Relatable
I have 0 friends in some clases
And I hate when teachers force you to be in a group
My situation is worse. I have a silly group activity in which it involoves role play, and I'm the group leader of the stupid project. We have to act a story. I'm already very awkward and suck at socializing. Ugh :( hope i can get away with this or smthing!!!
I had a French teacher that gave us group projects almost every unit. I ended up having a group with:
- a classmate so unmotivated and uncooperative that they needed to be bribed by a friend
- a classmate that did try, to their credit, but had low grades and thus couldn't help much
- a classmate whose previous school taught them nothing about French and thus didn't know anything helpful
It's difficult to balance the things I want and the things I can do. It's really hard to speak with people, hard to make friends. It's even harder to try and find a life long partner. Dying alone is in my opinion the worst possible way of going.
But do you decide to be alone or you don't ? Because if you don't, you should be someone shy... What do you thing about it ?
you can try convincing yourself that things that you happen to not be good at, such as dating, as something that is intentionally avoided
or try to convince yourself that whatever it is could always go horribly wrong
Would you like a video on how to find someone?
Psych2Go DO IT
Ichigoeki single from the womb single to the tomb is my motto
"why are u looking at the floor?"
Mind: I'm nervous to look up
Imma Good Boi
My mind: I’m scared people will socialize with me if I look up
"Act normal" is just.. a literal insult to all introverts.
To literal any human person really
😐
Hey i have a parrot the same on your profile picture!
Me: I don’t fit into this shitty society sorry.
Mhm. Very accurate.
@@Nikodem2008 wait are you saying that to introverts?
I over think people's names a lot and have a constant worry that I'm getting people's names wrong so I often avoid calling people by name altogether
Justin ™ Ah, I have the same problem! That's the reason why I hate name games in school, because everyone seems to remember people's names instantly and then there's me, who can't get any of the names. Heck, even if I'm confident that the name is right I'll still peep it out really quietly because I dread getting it wrong so much.
I don't like asking people what their name is so the only way I get their name is by hearing someone else say it and I 'listen in' for a bit. No, I don't eavesdrop on people...
I did that with my mate at uni for a while, one of the most embarrassing moments of my life is when, halfway through the term, I needed to write both our names on a piece of work and I had to admit that I had no idea what it was...
The issue is not even remembering names, I'm quite good at remembering things but I just have a polarizing fear of the slight possibility of calling someone the wrong name and being utterly embarrassed.
I remember I wanted to become friend with someone and I didn’t ask him about his name I just say let’s go play 😹😹 I thought that with time he might ask me about my name and then I ask him about his name ..but I think he get a bad idea about me 😹😹💔
introverts should unite and take over the world >:))
Or if we did show up, nobody would talk. We would all just observe each other...
Hahaha or we live in another planet 😂
Anarchy would happen because we'd all be terrified to politely ask them to stop killing someone else
I say we make our own country where mandatory schooling is replaced with mandatory library time where all you do is read. Then for any meetings we do it over informal email or text.
Coco Kaka it would have to be a very big planet so that we all have enough personal space
Classmate: "why are you so quiet?"
Me: "why are YOU so loud?"
Im so tired of people asking me this, this makes me really annoyed
Taestheticc yeah it’s so annoying. I hear that everyday. Well in fact I just don’t talk to them because I don’t like them. When I’m with my friends or a nice group of people I’m really different
If my class mate were like that I'd show my mad face and punch my desk with a huff and a groan then avoid my classmate 😼
Same here.
If someone says that to me one more time fr I will start world war III
This is Me everytime in school
Person: Why are you shy?
Me: Why do you breathe? *Walks away*
Lol i hate it when people say that. And when people call me an introvert. It's like a thing I'm labeled too. Not cool....
I always was the best at my class. Lots of A’s. When people asked me
“Why are so so intelligent” or “How do you get those good marks”
I answered.
“Why are forests called forests, and why do they have trees?”
And in my mind I was like
“What the hell am I supposed to answer. What a dumb question. Now please get the Hades out of my sight.”
Destruction 100
@@klum8872 why not.. be proud.. we introverts are awesome too
👏👏👏
"She's so quiet" My friends who have seen how I act in private: yup lmao
leakatumed
Same. Like around people, I’m shy, but when it’s just my friends, I’m tipsy
I have some memories I’d rather get rid of from when I went crazy with my friends. I won’t go into details, but it’s bad. Really, really bad.
Me at the Public: being quiet
Me at home: Very talkative
Me with my friends: talkative
Me with Stranger: Socially Awkward
With my friends im the guy thats NEVER gonna shut up, and probably gonna tell some of the worst and lamest """jokes""" you ever gonna hear.
The email and conversation things are really true. It feels like i am invisible to them. If I talk or walk out of room, they would say "oh, so you here? why being quiet", but if I approach them, they keep making distance. That's why I always stick with only closest friend and so difficult to adapt in new place
Imelda Santosa I am invisible to everyone but my best friend. I was just telling her this last night too. Teachers forgot I existed half the time. Literally, when my government teacher passed out papers, half the time he would skip me and forget I was there. It sucks. My bogged problem with conversations though, is the fact that most people I talk to are extroverts. They wanna laugh. Whereas I want a meaningful talk, which is hard. They also talk so much that I can't get a word in. Then I become a wheel. And odd wheel. So I give up on conversations. I don't ask customers at work how they're doing because I hate small talk. So when they ask me, I fake smile. I hate that question so much.
@Monica Shantel
At least you have a best friend
I’m invisible in school and teachers force me to talk to others
Your not alone
Yup. I had a lot of trouble reaching out to my teachers about some assignments through email, and I was constantly revising because I wad worried I'd come off as too needy :(
*I relate 13/12*
more like 100000000000000000000/12
Same
**Ahem** thAT is not corrECT
...
...
*"Overthinking Little Things"*
That explains me in 3 words congratulations
teacher: *go find a partner to work with!*
me: *oh, no, oh crap* *panic*
relatable
_panik_
My only friends are in a different set TwT
that happened to me today but the teacher paired me with my friend-
I always will ask to work by myself
I always overthink how I'm going to say goodbye to someone because I don't know what to say but I dont want it to be akward
Same haha.
Psych2Go OH MY GOD YOU REPLIED
I just wanted to say that I love your channel and it's good to see people I can relate with.
- From your friendly introvert
Italy
Peep and same thing when the conversation is starting off!
guacamole same I always say: Cya but that sounds too cartoony, or I will speak with you tomorrow even tho we won’t 😂😅
Story of my social life!
Fear and frustration!
If we started a membership/networking site for introverts, would you join?
i would
Psych2Go I would.
Psych2Go i would how ?
Psych2Go
I think the irony of that would be that few of us would really speak to each other. After all, we dislike small talk and we dislike talking to people that we don't really know/trust (at least I don't like those things). We would be left talking about how much we dislike extroverts and all the annoying things in life. In theory, I think it would be good, but in practice I don't think much of it. If I were to join an introvert chat site, I would probably be one of the people that says things only rarely but watches the chat all the time.
number 2 you're talking about formal email i even have a hard time writing this comment
No wonder it takes me forever to respond to emails ....
@Shahin 75PF I can relate. I have just as much trouble talking to people online as I do in real life
Yall moods mostly my bffs i will cuss like a sailor all i want tho but like class convos or just some closer classmates which is like one or two outside my friend grp its like my brain decides that its time to panick n think things over 20x and make sure i dont sound rude or anything before i send it n if its a teacher im not familliar with i send like one word to reply them or if im asking smth its very short lol
always struggle to talk and give respond to my friends who wants to talk to me. but I find it easy to talk to others when I feel comfortable with them.
Mis' Sushi same lmao
"You're so boring" heard that all my life but the ppl who really know me think i'm a fun person.
Jade Mapp I can agree to that so much. The most quietest people are the most funniest people and/or fun people to hang out with. We quiet people have 2 sides 😂
This video should be renamed 'Relate hard for 5 minutes'
Instead of telling them to not "be shy", people should do a better job of letting their own walls down and making it easier for introverts to talk to them :3
Or they should just shut up for a moment, and let others into the conversation.
I find presentations or speeches very hard ,specially in English class. The teacher tries to push out of my comfort zone and be confiden 😢😢😢😢 . Or getting awarded on stage, yes I feel happy to get an award or a medal in school but the fact that's it is on stage makes me very scared to make a mistake (over thinking ). That's what makes me uncomfortable the most as an introvert
Omg same
Same, but this also happens to me if i answer/picked to answer the question, or speak in front of the class (thats my worst nightmare)
Ofc you will find giving speeches in english class stressing because of that english in the comment
I never realized I could relate to a comment so much
Your not alone
3:13 oh my god it's butthead!!!
crimsonnin2 xD
😂 I've been spotting buttheads in 3 of their videos in a row now 😂
crimsonnin2
OML Idk why I’m laughing so hard but I’m trying to be quiet because its night time XD
crimsonnin2 XD
Eve Barajas OHHHHHHHH XD
Sometimes I feel if all of introverts were to gather...we'd be such great buddies...not to mention we could relate to each other so much...and FINALLY there would be someone like me to share my anxieties and frustrations with who would understand me instead of neglecting me
Sounds like a wonderful dream... ._.
@@CrystalLifeHD I still wish for that- Won’t happen for now.
" cmon be free act yourself"
In mind: I have to get used to you first in order to do that
Anybody relates?
i think i ate a fly
Totally. Also I like your pfp
Exactly if im with friends im like this rlly loud person that cusses like a sailor n does a lot of random dumb things then when im with someone else its like rlly hard to express myself
@@meowsterperson4483 same i sometimes just say nothing and yea the awkwardness hurts me
Relates soooo much
Yes!
Extroverted Friend: "she's so quiet. You should talk more! Be more outgoing!"
Me: * smiles * (in my head) you should shut up, be less outgoing
I guess she's just telling you to be a bit friendlier.
Instead of thinking that I would have said, " Shut up and don't interrupt "
I'm an introvert. I really over think things. Even things I do on a regular basis. I HATE busy places and cancel social events where possible, which in turn can kind of isolate me a bit. I stutter Wen I speak and it doesn't just happen with new ppl, I stutter Wen talking to friends and family and even Wen I talk to my dogs(weird I no.lol) but again some of the "traits of an introvert" are also signs of autism. That's a large factor in why I am the personality I am. Partly Due to my autism. I always hate it Wen ppl say that I should "act more like a normal person would in the situation" cos I'm NOT "normal" and I NEVER want to be "normal" but then if you go by the Oxford English dictionary definition of normal no one is. Cos it's impossible. the definition of normal is: what society persevere to be right and correct. And no to ppl will always agree on the exact same thing. Ergo there's no such thing as normal.
Stay strong guys. X
Ajay Waine I also overthink everything, if I think I did something stupid then I'll think about if for days.
Sometimes being different is good too, and plus you're not the only one who are feeling that way even me feels like that somtimes, just be urself so that mor people can understand u, rather than doing things that u r not (because some people thinks thats waht makes u normal)
I'll have a conversation with someone, or even if I just say hi to someone in in passing, I can overthink it. To the point where I would overthink if I should have said bye to this person that I passed or not. It's annoying cause I know they don't care, but I still think about it. For days if not weeks.
Craig Kogan Insecurities suck man
That they do. But hey, after a lifetime of being with them, I've gotten used to it, kind of. I still way overthink the tiny details of conversation was to much, and probably always will :(
"stop being shy"
STOP BEING CONSCIOUS
"hearing about cancelled plans is an introvert's joy" OMG I can't agree more :v
Introverts often have some bit of disappointment when plans are cancelled. Like in spring of 2020 me and my family were gonna go to Disney for spring break. I was exited and all but personally didn't because of all the packing and the drama of getting there and getting back. So when the plans were cancelled because of the covid I was excited because I like spending holidays at the house. That means more time for me to write my books and draw. But I did have some disappointment because it could've been fun and I could've rode the Barn stormer, Mine train, Slinky dog, People mover, Monorail, and Sorin. Not to mention I could've eaten at the restaurants like Be our guest, my personal favorite. I am an introvert btw.
@@theintrovertedaspie9095 yup I could relate to it, because you somehow had mentally prepared for the trip, so it would be a little disappointment when it was canceled. But if it were a meeting with friends or a party, it would be a blast :v
It literally KILLS ME when people say to stop being shy or saying to put myself out there. It’s harder said then done. As an introvert, listening and comprehending what was said during the video was pretty much 100% relatable. Thank you for making such a great video (even thought it’s an older video).
I loved it ❤️
*easier said than done
Spooky thanks
Im a introvert, I have high functioning depression, and Anxiety.
Same :')
Whenever people ask me why I'm so quiet I reply "Empty vessels make the most noise." That shuts them up real fast.
I'm so socially awkward, it makes me laugh
(Pat on the back)
Everyone is haha. Some are just better at hiding it.
😂😂😂
1.) random classmate: “Why are you sitting alone? Are you okay?”
me: yes now go away
me in reality: “mhm” :)
random classmate: “HUNNNYYYY let me teach you how to speak”
me: I can speak but this is why I don’t speak to people who want to change my personality.
2.) Girl in my class: “Always be yourself!”
Also her: “You should talk more”
me: someone kill me NOW
so relatable
3:41 this was me at highschool. Sonetimes i tried to talk at the table, i would be over talked and not heard.
Titus Prime i try to talk in a grp project or just to a classmate n i like get ignored then get embarrassed then try to hide
same
Going to parties, because you fear of being talked about on how shy and asocial you are when you're not there. You really only have *two* options: 1- Drink way too much alcohol so you finally won't be awkward anymore. 2 - Feel terrible for being way too awkward all the time.
I literally fail in conversations on daily basis
ZELINARMY me too 😂
People can't seem to understand that I don't mind being by myself. I don't mind having a few friends. I hate people always thinking I am "Lonely" despite anything I say, or I'm "Not Social Enough". During school, I use to sit alone at lunch and this guy would constantly come up and try to force me into social interaction with people, thinking he was doing me a favor. I would tell him over and over that I don't mind sitting alone and I do so because I want to. He didn't care. Eventually I just started sitting at a lunch table with other people even though we didn't interact just to get him off my back.
I love reading the comments on these videos, helps me remember that I'm not the only one with these types of struggles
"Be more ougoing, social and active"
"Make more friends."
"Why are you so shy?"
"You're so quiet, passive and reserved."
These are all the things we hear from extroverts.😪
Well then, let’s ask them those things 😈👇
“Why are you so social?”
“Why do you talk so much?”
“Why do you make so much noise when you’re active?”
*”Have you ever heard of Introverts?”*
Etc.
11 is me today, so it's really nice to see this video today. Thanks Psych2Go!
Sheridan Dwyer thats me too now
12
nice to see someone making these videos for someone like me to relate to
School is over and I'm even more anxious than normal
*anxious introvert problems*
You know what introvert means:
You can't start speaking with someone that you're not close to..
You can't stop talking with someone that you are close with..
Am I right ?
Definitely!!!
My Parents at parties to relatives :- Hey! How are you?... blah blah
Relatives :- Oh she is your child, how grown up, are you OK, do you talk?
My mind :- say something, say something
Me:- ( RUNS)
Seriously I hate parties and even talking to someone I don't know for years or I met just now.
Same. It feels frustrating, and other stuff.
"Do you have a mouth"
"Why don't you use your voice"
You can just tell them “But why do you consume your beautiful voice?” Or something like that.
When people in the same room gathers everyone up just to attack you for "isolating" yourself. Ironically doesn't help but increases the trauma of trusting those people who never understood or once talked to you, but dependent on the bad rumors about you.
Mom: Zack go talk to your friends
Me: I don’t have any
Mom: make some
Me: ok
**hides in the attics**
Me: 😏
0:49 "aNd wHatS wRong wiTh tHat ?"
lodex outta space boy oh boy I love it when I fall for that "I'm weak" song lyrics
Fuck off
I DONT KNOW MY BROTHER
but they never motherfuckin shup up their hole of speak
BUT WHEN I FUCKING LET THE MIRACLES GET OUT OF MY MOUTH THEM NEVER LIKE AND START JUDGING
OOOO LAAAAA LALALALAAAA
I’m 55 and it took me all these years to realize that it’s ok just to be myself and not care what others think about me. Everyone has their own issues, we all fail at times, we all need love and acceptance, it’s okay to be different, and just be proud of who you are and how far you’ve made it! We all have different strengths and talents , and you have the power to love people and make a difference!
As an introvert, my most deficult situation is staying in large garthering
Being an introvert my problem is that when someone talks shit about me infront of me and everyone I'm unable to say anything. I'm almost crying at that time but to act normal I don't cry. I want to be normal and stop being nice and introvert because it costs me my self respect
People takes advantages from me and others think that I'm a fool and weak. Life is difficult. I have attempted 3 times for suicide.
Yeah so true, wish everyone would think about what they were saying
When I'm hanging out with the one friend I have and she starts talking to someone else... I legit just walk away like I never was there.
Hey, almost everyone watching, or who have watched this video is an introvert, right? Can we all just be friends?? 😅🙂
friends? I just met you.. I need at least 2 months of awkwardly socializing with you to be friends.
Yes yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes let's do it now😼
Yessica yesss
Yeah sure 😌 as u r an introvert 👀
Honestly, I don't know where to start... I am introvert; I always was. But my whole life I've been told by friends, family and acquaitances that I had to be more social, more opened, to change, and this and that and that... In the end I always felt like it was my fault; "I am the one who's not trying hard enough". Even if I stayed true to myself, so many, so many times I couldn't trust myself or develop any self confidence, keeping all the frustration to myself.
Today I see this video and you can't know how much it makes me happy. I never felt so understood and accepted in my whole life. And I'm sure that I'm not the only one. There must be so many people whom must feel the same...
Thanks :)
"Act normal"
What the hell does that mean??
GhosTeaPal no one is normal
In this world, nobody is normal.
-Daily dose of facts from introverts.
Best thing being intro is -"We already know what the other person is trying to do and the reason behind his every action"" its just like mind reading😍😍
I am an introvert... hehe
:)
Really? No way!
this is an introvert channel
You... hiding something?
Monamonswim ME too
Its not like I'm shy I just like my alone time ...that's why I don't sleep at night so then nobody can bother me
Me 2
Me too its 1:34 at late night and im with my phone XD 😁🤣🤣🤣
@@КонстантинИванов-к7с woah it's 1:36
I AM SO GLAD YOU EXIST. Most of the time people, even introverts, think we are all shy. Don't they know there is a thing called an assertive introvert
same, the night is the time to be alive
I can easly relate to all the situations here presented. Though I found my very personal ways to get rid of anxiety in some of these circumstances. Though, on a bad day, I still need to be alone and feel like I don't want to talk to anyone, as it deeply bothers me. Since I was young, they made me believe there was something wrong with me and they called me shy. Just now, thanks to you, I understand my issues are perfectly normal for an introvert and I just needd to accept them and respect the way that I am, also leading people around me to do so.
Thanks for sharing this video, it's been a great discovery for me.
i really need an extrovert friend who understands us introverts, you guys are the most understanding and really kind friend 💞
I hate the fuckin' *phone* D: Sometimes, I even pretend I don't hear it and rush to the bathroom so I have an excuse for not picking up. There's something about a phone that's truly terrifying to me. I *much* prefer writing an E-mail so I can re-write and edit it a thousand times, just to have worded the things I needed to say in the *most perfect* way.
Once my teacher told me to “Act Normal” and I’ve had my emotions bottled up for about 2 months and being told to “act normal” pisses me off so goddamn much......let’s just say that teacher had a BAAAAD day
The Rose Warrior
I would also bottle up my emotions so I don’t cause a scene. Whenever I’m alone, though, I would rant on and on
We Introverts became more Introverts when we came to know We are Introverts 😀 AGREE??
That's when we stop trying to fix it...
I've been diagnosed as having PTSD but the more i listen to all ur Introvert scenario's the more I think being an Introvert is the challenge. Thanks
I had no idea I am not the only one to go over and over a conversation only to whip myself metaphorically for something I said and labelling myself as an idiot. The outcome is to withdraw more so that I avoid being an idiot again! Sometimes I pick up on a gut feeling, then months down the track, due to other events, the reason for the gut feeling will be clear. It can be an article I read, a program I watch or even someone else’s comment that will verbally explain it in my head. It can be very confusing because my gut reaction is negative but visually all appears fine. It’s a relief when time exposes the truth and confirms my instinct. It’s taken a lifetime but I’m starting to trust myself.
*imagine how much our world could get done if everyone was an introvert*
I, as an introvert remember several times when I have messed up something in conversation and I get anxiety whenever I think about it.
"why are you so weird?"
"i'm so exhausted always have to strike up conversations."
After discovering I was an introvert it clarified so many things for me. When people say their lives passed before their eyes it’s usually during a near death experience. It happened to me when I found out how seriously introverted I was. What I also discovered was how ignorant I was about this personality and how ignorant the general public was. But regardless, it was a relief. One thing I struggled with upon signing up for a YT account. I enjoyed writing comments but I found it exhausting to respond when people returned comments so I turned it off. Every now and then I agonize over the possibility that somehow that little notification button got turned back on and there will ne a long list of people who responded to my comments. It hasn’t happened but it’s very scary! And I couldn’t understand why people were so anxious about quarantine that they were going out and adopting pets. Someone missed a great business op. Should have started Rent a Pet. That way people wouldn’t have adopted and then returned the animals like they were shoes that didn’t fit. Anyway I was in heaven during the big Q. I wanted to cry when they dropped it. Hey Brandon, can we do that again? Huh? Huh?
that ending showing the thought bubble and the choices in a mass effect style really is how ANY social interaction plays out for me.