When You Pull Back, She Comes Back | Let Women Chase You

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  • Опубліковано 15 лис 2024

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  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw 3 місяці тому +90

    Proverbs 31:3 walk away if you don't have the power

  • @GibranEscobell
    @GibranEscobell 3 місяці тому +26

    You win by actually not caring if they come back.

  • @i_am_thebatman
    @i_am_thebatman 3 місяці тому +50

    Day 119 of no contact.
    I’ve just accepted that she’s gone . But at least I never lost my dignity or self respect.
    I never begged , chased , or pleaded , I simply said ok. And I walked away. Will she come back? At this point it doesn’t matter anymore

    • @robocop5543
      @robocop5543 3 місяці тому +24

      It does matter my friend...that is why you are counting the days...

    • @bnlyt5260
      @bnlyt5260 3 місяці тому +3

      Day 65 of no contact
      I don't care about her I know she surely come back I'm damm sure about this

    • @jacobmendos6310
      @jacobmendos6310 3 місяці тому +7

      Stop counting

    • @inker1972
      @inker1972 3 місяці тому +2

      White chick?

    • @kszwomcszkaszky3291
      @kszwomcszkaszky3291 3 місяці тому

      "Day 119 of no contact." "At this point it doesn’t matter anymore"
      Then stop crying like a woman, batman.
      And did you know that men who use alter egos of superheroes are really weak and only try to portray the image that they aspire to become?

  • @Dru2maBoii
    @Dru2maBoii 3 місяці тому +24

    No contact is a hard reset, but you have to maintain control and boundaries.

  • @cewemahbebaschannelindones1624
    @cewemahbebaschannelindones1624 3 місяці тому +23

    Never ever say u will change for her if u make mistake or get her mad... Because they are not see ur words but by ur behavior... She will do test u more n more by look at ur behavior..

  • @pete6498
    @pete6498 3 місяці тому +19

    Women are like the weather, you never know what you’re gonna get, you have to be the mountain and unshakable to anything she throws at you

  • @ronaldnkausu4506
    @ronaldnkausu4506 3 місяці тому +12

    Don’t blame yourself
    You are not in control of someone actions but you are in control of your own actions

    • @inker1972
      @inker1972 3 місяці тому

      And she might have mental issues..

  • @samuelwebster2769
    @samuelwebster2769 3 місяці тому +18

    Best advice on youtube and not to long winded were you feel lost.. Thanks Chris 🙏

  • @mouhebbouameur4863
    @mouhebbouameur4863 3 місяці тому +52

    It's about to do no contact forever

    • @AwaisKhan-ls1eg
      @AwaisKhan-ls1eg 27 днів тому

      No, going "no contact forever" is not sign of strength.
      It simply means you failed to tame your favorite person emotionally therefore you're letting her go ..
      Get her back and be the boss..

  • @JohnSmith-rz6bh
    @JohnSmith-rz6bh 3 місяці тому +31

    She's texted me 4 times now and she's still on delivered 😎

    • @mystykalmn4434
      @mystykalmn4434 3 місяці тому +14

      You're now the bosss...
      Rule your world

  • @JamesJames-k3f
    @JamesJames-k3f 3 місяці тому +25

    If you try to rationalize her pull back, you are going to believe you made a bad thing, so you are going to call her back and fail the test. When a woman pull back, I don't try to understand what's going on, I just know I have to mirror her emotion, pull back, and wait her to come back. Sometimes it take 10 days, sometimes 1, sometimes 9 months. The power of a man is to know to be alone, women have no willpower, they only have their options and majority of these guys are simps. So if you are a catch, you go to the gym, you have a skill, a good job, you read books etc, they will always come back. And when she come back, don't forget to punish her...

    • @jamesmiranda1449
      @jamesmiranda1449 3 місяці тому +3

      I don't have a good job... So I'll just punish myself.

    • @JamesJames-k3f
      @JamesJames-k3f 3 місяці тому

      @@jamesmiranda1449 So you have to work on it. Try to learn a skill, find some training, for example if you are a plumber you can make a good money. When I speak about a good job, I speak about people who have skill, because when you haven't any skill to offer, you can't find a stable job, a stable and good income etc.

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 3 місяці тому

      How do you punish her?

    • @JamesJames-k3f
      @JamesJames-k3f 3 місяці тому

      So toi have to work on it, learn a good skill, go to evening school etc.

    • @JamesJames-k3f
      @JamesJames-k3f 3 місяці тому +1

      It depends, I choose a meal and a dessert and I tell her to cook it for me and bring it to me at Home, to go to the laudry to wash my clothes, to wash my feet etc., She has to know she Make a mistake !

  • @enazshahid
    @enazshahid 3 місяці тому +8

    Chris from 2017 i am following you.. Ur are genius..

  • @eppsislike
    @eppsislike 3 місяці тому +14

    The AI pictures are on point

  • @TheodorusRex
    @TheodorusRex 3 місяці тому +11

    Very true. This happened to me - dating a super hot gf - I pulled back and after a small bit of time she came back like a rocket.

  • @marcuscoffee6730
    @marcuscoffee6730 3 місяці тому +20

    Counterintuitive trust the process

    • @Tow131
      @Tow131 3 місяці тому +1

      What if she doesn’t

    • @zabit1004
      @zabit1004 3 місяці тому

      Then she doesnt and you get a new girl​@@Tow131

    • @MM-oh3uq
      @MM-oh3uq 3 місяці тому +10

      @@Tow131then she never cared about you and you dodged a bullet

    • @IntelligentEating
      @IntelligentEating 3 місяці тому +8

      @@Tow131then find another. They’re not exactly scarce lol

  • @ryespaul2173
    @ryespaul2173 3 місяці тому +3

    Not necessarily Only if she wanted you to begin with

  • @MoloSaidu
    @MoloSaidu 3 місяці тому

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

    • @ThanhLe-rf4bp
      @ThanhLe-rf4bp 3 місяці тому

      Why is this so common? I have probably read something similar many times now.

  • @EireFirst2024
    @EireFirst2024 3 місяці тому +1

    You saved me TODAY.
    Thanks Chris 💚

  • @tk1324
    @tk1324 3 місяці тому +10

    If you pass her test and stay with her - she will undoubtedly continue to test you whenever she feels like it. Run away from those who engage in this behavior.

    • @wulfclaw4921
      @wulfclaw4921 3 місяці тому

      No....walk away...not cocky....just confident.
      You are the " place to be".
      Laugh a lot.

  • @larrydale7412
    @larrydale7412 3 місяці тому

    i lashed out via txt after 5 days of NC...10 days now and im fine not sure if i caved with text but we had talked a day before that one fu text took MY anxiety away ...skating thru life now

  • @justaname935
    @justaname935 3 місяці тому

    Nice i like this better than the animations
    You also seem more reasonable in person

  • @AndreLeitedaSilvaGaldino
    @AndreLeitedaSilvaGaldino 2 місяці тому +1

    A man who takes back a woman who has made it clear that she doesn't want you or that she can do better than you is a man who doesn't deserve respect, since a man who respects himself, his time and emotions, will never accept or ratinalize disrespect.
    You can't force a woman to stay with you or respect you. However, you can force yourself to NEVER take back a woman who has dumped you or walked away from you!
    A man who accepts and tolerates disrespect from women will receive more disrespect from women.!

  • @julienchannel
    @julienchannel 3 місяці тому +13

    Interesting story: I dated a seriously crazy girl. Totally insane, was awesome in the beginning, with her it was different from other women.
    But then she started acting very crazy and emotional. From crying for my attention to blocking for no reason etc, and then for an example sending a nude pic the next day. Insanely emotional, not normal.
    I decided to ignore her totally from then on, and after that she has been stalking me for years. Read : fake accounts, texting over and over with it, etc. Chris is legit. Gr Juliën

    • @djRichyRichh
      @djRichyRichh 3 місяці тому +4

      Omg you saved your live to get rid of her

    • @godsbruh
      @godsbruh 3 місяці тому +3

      bpd girl

    • @lathonjonesdowning2844
      @lathonjonesdowning2844 3 місяці тому +3

      Absolutely a BPD girl. I dated one it sure is a freaking mess. Haha.

    • @lathonjonesdowning2844
      @lathonjonesdowning2844 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@godsbruhnailed ittttt 😅😂🎉

    • @GibranEscobell
      @GibranEscobell 3 місяці тому +3

      I had a similar one. Best sex and passionate love of my life accompanied by dozens of sleepless nights due to stress.

  • @midcitygym
    @midcitygym 3 місяці тому

    More gold from Chris.

  • @nicholashousmans97
    @nicholashousmans97 2 місяці тому

    I pulled back from my girlfriend, ignored her text, but took her call. She didn’t want to come to my apartment the night she called me from the bar, but she’s planning to come to my apartment in 2 days from now. What does this mean?

  • @Tow131
    @Tow131 2 місяці тому

    What if she called me 20 times about a phone she gave me. After 6 months of a break up. She said her phone is broken and needs it back. The phone only costs 160

  • @colintheodore8657
    @colintheodore8657 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey can someone clear my doubts regarding pull backs from women I have been following Chris videos for a long time now and do understand the whole psychology behind the pull back and keep my calm anytime a women pulls away they sure do come back and I set the date do the deed and then the cycle repeats over again it seems like the women is not being punished for this behaviour and she’s coming back on her terms so the question is how can I make a women reduce the frequency of pull backs and is there any punishment that I can implement if she pulls back and come again ?

    • @ishmaelbrown1466
      @ishmaelbrown1466 3 місяці тому

      Just let them come and go as they please. They don’t owe you anything, so there’s no need to try to punish them for pulling back. Just match and mirror.

  • @justlol7281
    @justlol7281 3 місяці тому +6

    She doesn’t ever reach out…

  • @wyswygsommer2769
    @wyswygsommer2769 3 місяці тому

    What if she asked him out, is it a sign she is a pro? She might do it often in the past and tries to take advantages from him. I considered it as a red flag.

  • @Lonewolf-mt4fw
    @Lonewolf-mt4fw 3 місяці тому +1

    How should i act when she comes back?

  • @ianarn
    @ianarn 3 місяці тому +1

    What if she doesn’t chase you?…

    • @master328m1
      @master328m1 3 місяці тому +1

      Simple. Because you're chasing her. Women crave attention from everyone and once you fully pull back she'll come begging for your connection.

  • @muhammadarif-gj4vi
    @muhammadarif-gj4vi 3 місяці тому +4

    Guys can somebody guide how to deal with the situation of having moderate erectile dysfunction at very start of marriage. How to handle disrespectful and disgusting behaviour from wife .when its not easy to break marriage here.

    • @GibranEscobell
      @GibranEscobell 3 місяці тому

      Stop touching yourself completely, stop watching porn, eat like an actual healthy person so your blood flow improves.
      You will recover sensitivity down there after some weeks if you avoid doing the above. This happened to me too and many others.

    • @Bojack593
      @Bojack593 3 місяці тому

      Find another girl or try ordering viagra online

    • @robocop5543
      @robocop5543 3 місяці тому +1

      Follow healthy diet which includes lots of protein and other vitamins with regular exercise mostly heavy lifting and legs....Do yoga for stress release...Take immediate medical help from a good doctor...This might take time to resolve hence keep her by the hook with other romantic activities...

    • @GibranEscobell
      @GibranEscobell 3 місяці тому

      @@muhammadarif-gj4vi Strange I do not see my comment, quit porn, no touching, diet and exercise. Sensitivity and bloos flow will increase over time. Touching affects it a lot.

    • @inker1972
      @inker1972 3 місяці тому

      Viagra

  • @mannusingh1115
    @mannusingh1115 3 місяці тому +2

    💯💯👍🏽👍🏽👌🏽👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽 facts

  • @HuyenMaiTran
    @HuyenMaiTran 3 місяці тому

    It's crazy how nobody is talking about the forbidden ebook Magnetic Aura from Borlest

  • @Rocky76549
    @Rocky76549 3 місяці тому +4

    What does it mean she breaks up and never comes back even after years?? 😎

    • @robocop5543
      @robocop5543 3 місяці тому +5

      No matter how much these UA-cam guys tell you that if you ignore her or go no contact she will come back...Hell no bro... She's got 1000 options...Unless she was heads over heel for you there are very less chances she will come back. Ignoring and no contact will definitely help you move on and find someone else...If you lvl up and find someone better I bet you, if she comes back later on you will reject her...

    • @puertoricanprince7690
      @puertoricanprince7690 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@robocop5543
      Sometimes they come back, sometimes they don't. And sometimes they might come back a decade plus later. I've seen it happen

    • @robocop5543
      @robocop5543 3 місяці тому +6

      @@puertoricanprince7690 That's my point...these types of videos kind off give fake hopes that she will be back...Our attitude should be like now even if she comes back no matter what point of time in future I will not take her back...I would possibly be with someone better or will wait for someone better but not her....

    • @puertoricanprince7690
      @puertoricanprince7690 3 місяці тому +5

      @robocop5543
      Me personally I never take them back. We could have handled it maturely and fixed whatever the issue was. But since they wanted to leave, they gotta stand on that decision

    • @fayselelouah6668
      @fayselelouah6668 3 місяці тому

      If she has feelings and kind of attachment she will so much come back if she hasn't then she won't ​@@robocop5543