Today's video is all about that final stretch before moving. Decluttering once again to really get my stuff to a minimum so that I don't have to ship anything abroad to move! I want to be honest with myself what I will and won't use and hopefully at the end of this series I'll only have a couple of suitcases of stuff! Immy xx
A little tip: take a photo of whatever you wish to get rid of; you will free up some space but you'll keep the sentimental value of the thing through the photo everytime you look at it
I do this…I did it recently with my beauty pageant trophies 🏆 they were old & falling apart from all the moving I’ve done through the years so I took pics & threw them out
I've moved internationally a couple of times. I was pretty cut throat and STILL ended up keeping things I didn't use in the end and eventually decluttered in the new place. Honestly, keep things like the bike that are both genuinely useful and sentimental. Don't get caught up on things you can replace like cameras and clothes. I totally get you wanting to be sustainable, but remember... Moving it costs fuel too and keeping it without using it doesn't do the environment any better than getting rid of it. Good luck!!
I started this journey in 2018 when I married my wonderful husband. He's a US citizen and I'm Mexican. The VISA process is dehumanizing and plain exhausting when you don't look white. I lost too much to be here, now... Breathe, Immy. Stuff is just stuff. Be grateful and know how lucky you are. I know you both will be just fine 💜 Sending you tons of love and resilience 🙏
It's okay to be sentimental about some objects and want to keep them! I think your bike is a great example of a sentimental item to keep: you genuinely use it, and you have multiple emotional ties to it, including a historical tie that it was your Dad's bike! That's so cool. I have a sewing thimble that I use every time I hand sew something (I've been doing a bunch of hand-mending recently) that was my mom's. Several years ago I mentioned that I wanted to buy myself a thimble, and my mom said to just pick one out from her small collection of (mostly ornamental) thimbles. The one I picked is obviously for actual sewing, and I believe it is an antique, because it is much higher quality than any thimbles I could buy in a box craft store today. I really like having a small connection to my mother and to other people who used this thimble in the past.
So sorry for your loss, and I really relate to what you said about giving away the dress that reminds you of your friend. I'm having a similar experience cleaning out my dad's house. He passed in February and it's a bittersweet feeling to go through and decide what can be let go of.
i’m moving to australia from the u.s. in 2 months and i’ve started to do this exact same process. it sucks for me because i love to sew and alter things i’ve bought secondhand and so i have this big stack of clothes sorted out that i’ve never worn because they’re the wrong size or i don’t like them as is and by brain tells me to just donate them but a small(and slightly delusional) part of me wants to keep them forever until i can alter them because they might hypothetically end up being some of my favorite clothes lol.
Congratulations on your move. I have always thought Australia would be a great place to live. Limit yourself to one box of those clothes that you might love in the future. I feel for you because I'm a hoarder like that as well 🙃. But it's a new start and a new life so for me I think I would start that new life with a clean slate. Good luck!
When I moved from Canada to Egypt, and then back again, I found it really helpful to roll my clothing then put it in those packing bags, especially when ut came to customs and having them go through bags. For the plane trip I brought my favorite lap quilt, travel mug, tea bags, snacks and food (you can bring sliced fruit if it's in containers) on the plane and they were comforting on long flight, and when I missed home. Plus at the airport you can get free hot water which is budget friendly.
I did this at age forty when I moved from Canada to France. My husband took an extra suitcase with him and I moved over with 2 suitcases and 5 boxes that I sent by freight. The boxes were surprisingly not that expensive to send (about $100 CAD each, if I remember correctly). I'm so excited for you! ✨
I moved to Nashville 24 years ago from Balham! I totally get how you feel - especially about the bike. I brought my bike over - I was also VERY attached to it, but I ended up giving it away as my lifestyle here is very different to what it was in London. I have a different bike now and I still live to cycle when I can. Good luck! It is hard in the midst of all the decisions, but once you get to where you are going you will be fine - you're living the adventure!
I'm in the midst of decluttering too, moving from the U.S. to Switzerland for grad school! This is super inspirational since I do have my fair share of sentimental items. Best of luck with your move :)
it is weird as i can feel what you express about the bike..i move many times and weirdly i was taking my old bike with me.. i even let all furnitures and all apart my bike once.. and few clothes books and few personal items and work stuff (compu camera..) . by getting used to move. i got used to let go i thought. but then I settled 6 years and now i feel to move for a new chapter of life.. and weirdly now.. i feel harder to detach of stuff now.. even i kept minimal sincerely (depending on what i feel my needs of course, each one we are different :) and so discovering back your channel today helps me to let go, detach and focus on the beauty of the new step more than what we let..focusing on the new and helping to let go.. as a lot of sad and difficult has been too.. so i even feel liberating to let go the things...not easy but to start new too.. for the lovely new season coming up :) thank you :) have a lovely new step too :)
I'm sorry for your loss. Loosing a friend is so hard... I hope you are doing all right or as much as that's possible. One thing I noticed in the last years (I moved to a different country years ago but I also work seasonally and sometimes travel in the winter): I never really miss any of my stuff. I put things in storage when travelling for couple of months (it's cheaper than keeping an apartment) and the only things that I ever wish I had with me are certain books (that I can always borrow) or comfort things that make me feel like home, such as my sourdough starter and herbal oils and vinegars, etc. So don't worry about getting rid of too much stuff. Objects are replaceable. There is a good chance that you can find something similar in a second hand store if you really need it.
I’ve moved between countries 4 times in the last 2 years and only experienced transporting bike once. The process was rather stressful. Despite the fact that I researched packaging restrictions in advance and had written proof both from the airport and airline company of the way my bike has to be packed, check-in clerk refused to take my bike. Luckily my partner was flying a couple of weeks later and picked the bike for me. I learned that extra luggage fees and packaging sums up quickly, so now I buy new (second-hand) bike in every new place and sell it before leaving. Obviously, I don’t hold any sentimental feelings towards those bikes, but financially it’s been a good decision for me. Stay strong, moving is a real struggle ❤️
I moved to the US from Australia 8 years ago. I took a 65L backpack, a large suitcase, a large carry-on bag, a laptop, and a textbook - basically all I could carry. Vacuum bags were a must! And I had my 3 pets flown across 3 weeks later. I kept a few things at my parents place which I have been either donating when I get back, or bringing back with me when I visit. Would your parents be ok with that? I was amazed how sparsely I could live initially, and over time I have slowly purchased things with either changing hobbies, or for comfort. Now I have about the same amount of stuff that I used to which seems to be my happy equilibrium. I don't regret anything I donated or gave away before I left.
Oh my. Am slightly dreading the purge I'll need to do when we move to NZ. We're shipping our work van but my other half seemed shocked when I said I'd want a bit of space for my stuff in it ;) good luck with the purging and process. It's all so exciting x
My husband's family is from Michigan, we go up every summer! I hope your move goes smoothly. I have been decluttering zi ce Covid. It feels good but I have 4 kiddos, pets and a husband. It is never ending
This video came at the perfect time! I have spent today decluttering my wardrobe! It’s been great to be brutal and I have listed some on eBay (and will post with saved packaging I already have) and the rest will go to the charity shop or friends. I hope your decluttering goes well as you get closer to moving!
I've moved to the US from the UK and to the UK from the US several times over the last 20 years and managed to do it by taking extra bags on flights (and getting family/friends to take extra bags) not shipping anything, so really hope that works for you too! Shipping is a nighmare and only really worth it if you have furniture or huge items you can't take on the plane. It is also so hard to know what you're going to really use and wear when you're in a different climate and cultural setting e.g. when I was in the US I wore more gym clothes out and about than I would in London and needed way more summer clothes as well as heavier winter clothes. So in the end taking less and knowing I could buy the few additional items I needed secondhand worked for me. Good luck! Love your videos xx
Omg i just finished the Body Keeps the Score! Such a good book. It really helps understand the connection between the mind and the body-the mind is just another organ of the body. It also encourages you to have compassion for others and be trauma informed when interacting with others.
I have traveled with my bike by plane and if that is something you are considering, I have gotten a bike bag or you can get a bike box from a bike store. A bike store may be able to help pack it also so that your components will be protected. It is really easy to put your bike back together even if you have minimal bike tools.
I’ve been decluttering my clothes too and this video made me feel less alone in my quest to have what I need but not enough, it really is quite a difficult process❤️
When I declutter I almost always do it in waves. I give myself space to be sentimental and then come back with a fresh mind later. But things like your bike which sounds very sensible and sentimental should be a keep. As someone who lives in the US secondhand bikes can be tricky and sometimes just as expensive as a brand new bike.
Why not do it the other way around (if you're planning to visit UK in like 6 months or so)? When I moved (Italy, UK, France, Belgium, Ireland and I'm now in France) I only brought with me what I knew I would need. While living there, I realized what I missed that I left, so I went back to move more stuff. I understand it's not always possible (we sold the house in uk, and I couldn't use it for storage for long) and the process is longer, but to me it makes me feel I am sure about what to take and what not too, without regrets or having to buy new stuff which I already owned. And anyway... Things that need to go, need to go :)
Keep the bike! I'm keeping mine as well, (although I am moving within the same country) I'm 6 minutes into the video and I already feel inspired to tackle my wardrobe! Thank you! :) Any advice for recycling clothing? I already know that I will have a few items that are good enough for donating, but there is much more that needs to be recycling, (especially old socks!)
RUTHLESS… that’s the mindset one needs for extreme decluttering! BUT WAIT… can I suggest that you hold onto your geometric diamond pattern sweater, Scotland toque, hiking fleece, and your Granny’s cardigan? Was it hard to say goodbye to your ‘first farmer’s market sweater’? I’m just know fully realizing why wild swimming is such a great hobby/activity… minimal gear required. Apologies for being late to your video today Immy, we’re just recovering from a 24-hour internet crash… it’s been a long 24 hours 🤣. Love this video today… this is such a journey and I’m uber-excited for you two. 🌎💦Ⓜ️ary💕🧳
i might do a declutter too... im in uni and moving back home for the summer but dont need to move out of here, so im now inspired to get rid of all the "oh but one day" things and clothes that i just dont use. then i can go thrifting w clear conscience to get a wardrobe im actually happy with and use all the things^^
You can bring your bike on the airplane. I’ve seen people with bicycles and surfboards. I think it just has to be wrapped up to keep it protected as it goes in the cargo of the plane.
I just moved to Belgium a little less than a week ago. I was able to (because of my company) ship some things here but I did the exact same process and decluttered many things. My friends got some great kitchen appliances that I truly loved but are not useable as they are not plugged for the EU. I know now that everything I brought with me are things I truly use and love and now I'm hoping with a fresh start to be more mindful in what I bring into my new home, I'm so excited for you on your new chapter - congratulations to you both!
Hello Immy, just wanted to say thank you for being such a constant and soothing presence ♡ I don't always feel like I'm surrounded by people who are an example of how I hope to live my life (though I know this community is big and beautiful) and having been housebound with lyme disease this last year ( alongside having to pause my ecology degree), you have always been a source of peaceful inspiration. Thank you for all that you share and do 🌱
I'd have loved to hear a bit more about the thought process behind the things that got decluttered and see some specific examples of the things you let go as well as things you kept. I can imagine that being a very long video though - highlights?
I can imagine that moving abroad with your partner is an exciting and at the same time a bit scary transition for you. It's normal that you have been emotional and stressed, also because of your friend. Moving is always called a crisis in someone's life (together with becoming a parent, death of a loved one, a new job etc). All the best to you and good to hear that you feel more relaxed and in control!
I would (if possible) keep the bike but not move it. Then every time you're back visiting your family, you have a bike to get around and it makes you happy to see it again. I loved having some of my old stuff when I came home to visit. I also kept a few clothes so I don't have to pack pj's etc every time I came to visit. Frees up space in your suitcase to bring gifts, food and so on 😀
feeling a bit terrified in fact too by the move... but then it is coming real.. i am in a transition for a huge life change too.. terrifying but exciting too, let's focus on the lovely new coming up :)
Hey video suggestion: can you create a video about the audiobook (the body keeps the score) you are listening to. I really liked your tiny habits videos and would love a book series.
Best of luck with your decluttering and your move! As stressful as it is, there is so much beauty and excitement coming your way. :) Also, once you get to the states, make your way down south for some amazing vegan-friendly Mexican food!
I always want to start minimalism and decluttering i have 200+ shorts i haven't count my tops, pants, dress etc. In my country we take a bath twice a day i think i needed all my clothes. 🤦♀️😭
I thought I would mention… now that we have internet again up here in the stix of northern 🇨🇦… isn’t it fun how the internet has allowed us to know Idgy and your clothing so well? At the risk of sounding corny… it feels like those uni days when one is packing up dorm life and heading off to a new adventure. Lastly… I’m so thrilled that Immy’s Book Club is back. I’m always uber-stoked to hear what you are RLLW. Fun video today Immy!! Thanks for sharing your new adventures with us. 🌎💦Ⓜ️ary🌸 PS - I’m also a member of team ‘one ☕️ per day’… in the morning only… but we won’t discuss the size of that one coffee!! ☕️🤣
Hi again Immy. :) I recon you should keep your bike if its that sentimental & you can't let go of it yet, but it is a large item so you need to work out if it is worth that much or not. :) good luck with the big move to USA You will be able to buy more pre loved items when you are there and make new memories with 😁😛 your mate, Shelby will be able to give you some suggestions for place to go. Are you going to be fairly close in proximity to her, out of curiosity. ?? :)
I found I couldn't really declutter like this- I did a little but in the end I just set myself a volume limit and got ruthless while I was packing (I took about 2 weeks to pack, including 3 days of intense packing)- I did end up giving myself permission to take another suitcase (literally within 24 hrs of my flight haha and it filled up so quick!) but tbh, I still regret things I didn't take and some things I did. I wish I'd shipped an extra box. I really, really miss my bike- I've got a new bike but it's not the same as my baby. Yes, financially it makes sense to just get rid of it and buy a new bike (well, second hand but new to me) but not everything is a logical decision. Definitely take your bike ❤
I will add another option- you could leave your bike with family and then have it whenever you visit, that wasn't an option for me but your parents seem pretty settled and might not mind an extra bike. I agree shipping is a nuisance. I get free shipping with my new job but I still want to declutter as much as possible.
Bike is pretty easy to break down and travel with, and you can get a bike case to move it with you - I have a soft sided bike case and I've never had any problems with it on planes :)
There is nothing wrong with keeping a few sentimental things like your bike. Don't ever feel like you have to apologize for kepping something that makes you happy.
Keep in mind the weight restrictions on your luggage- sometimes you can fit tons with vacuum bags but then the bags are overweight and would incur extra fees. Good luck!
You won't be sorry about getting rid of all those clothing items! You won't even remember them in a few months. But please take your bike! It means a great deal to you. You mention it so often!
That pair of Air Max 90s you hold up saying how you hope someone will wear them…. I literally live in 90s 😂😂😂 one person’s trash is another’s treasure as they say!! What size?? I’ll have em 😬😬😬
How long were you two dating before applying? I was reading about the US marriage visa application process and it seems really hard and stressful. Also if they reject you you can't appeal it. Any tips?
My clothes are 85% of my clutter 😭 im only moving 30 mins away! I get so attached to things too, especially my clothes. Any tips on your discard pile? I know donations/charity shops in the UK get so overwhelmed a lot of it goes to landfill anyway! Xxxxx (Ps my live comments arent working lol)
you could try giving the clothes away for free on facebook marketplace or your local buy nothing facebook group. that way you know people are actually choosing to take those things
Please may you advise what is the SPF that doesn't make your face shiny? I have the same problem and I'm trying to find one that doesn't make me so shiny!
I have this kind of decluttering fase of my life as well. Not moving as far of a distance and only when October rolls around. I have ended a long relationship but we still do our music together. It is going to change, everything is changing. Letting go. Letting it go and saying hello to the new. Come what may
I really hope you take your bike with you. It's something you cherish a lot and something you'd use as well. I don't see the point of leaving it behind.
To your bike, you can ship almost everything by freight, you don’t have to get everything on the plane with you. You just have to be willing to pay for it.
I would never move half around the world without my fam. No way. But this video makes me think about if I wouldn't pay to ship it or move it then I 100% don't need it.
If you find yourself struggling with a few things leave them in box with your mom. Give yourself a timeline once you move that if you find yourself needing an item in the box have your mom send it to you. At the end of the time line she can donate anything left in the box. I moved cross country 8 years ago and really wish I'd left more behind. Best of luck on your next chapter. Oh and if you're coming thru Florida I have a bike you are welcome to.
I had a friend ship a bike and she went through USPS just because it was the cheapest way!! I too hold a lot of sentimental value in my bike as it has been passed down in the family so I understand the want to bring it with you! Also if you plan on staying here in the States long term I would say it is worth it!
Dear Immy, would there be a chance for you to produce a video on the link between Putin's war in Ukraine and the West's chance to move away from fossil fuels. Thank you for all!
It's so weird to me that you don't want to leave things at your parents house. Is this a British thing? In my family it's common to store at least childhood things at your parents and they actually encourage it. My grandparents for (an extreme) example left their kid's rooms intact until they died 60 years after the kids left home.
Today's video is all about that final stretch before moving. Decluttering once again to really get my stuff to a minimum so that I don't have to ship anything abroad to move! I want to be honest with myself what I will and won't use and hopefully at the end of this series I'll only have a couple of suitcases of stuff! Immy xx
Hey Immy! Let us know about that camera if you’re still interested in sharing info to put it for sale :) I’m in the market for an upgrade myself.
A little tip: take a photo of whatever you wish to get rid of; you will free up some space but you'll keep the sentimental value of the thing through the photo everytime you look at it
I do this…I did it recently with my beauty pageant trophies 🏆 they were old & falling apart from all the moving I’ve done through the years so I took pics & threw them out
I've moved internationally a couple of times. I was pretty cut throat and STILL ended up keeping things I didn't use in the end and eventually decluttered in the new place. Honestly, keep things like the bike that are both genuinely useful and sentimental. Don't get caught up on things you can replace like cameras and clothes. I totally get you wanting to be sustainable, but remember... Moving it costs fuel too and keeping it without using it doesn't do the environment any better than getting rid of it. Good luck!!
Any other international move advice? Regrets?
I flew with my bike recently and it was not too difficult! I am so glad to have my old bike in my new home 🏡 I was also nostalgic about my bike 🥰
I started this journey in 2018 when I married my wonderful husband. He's a US citizen and I'm Mexican. The VISA process is dehumanizing and plain exhausting when you don't look white. I lost too much to be here, now... Breathe, Immy. Stuff is just stuff. Be grateful and know how lucky you are. I know you both will be just fine 💜 Sending you tons of love and resilience 🙏
Sending you tons of love back! I can only imagine how much more exhausting it was for you. Thank you for your kind words
It's okay to be sentimental about some objects and want to keep them! I think your bike is a great example of a sentimental item to keep: you genuinely use it, and you have multiple emotional ties to it, including a historical tie that it was your Dad's bike! That's so cool. I have a sewing thimble that I use every time I hand sew something (I've been doing a bunch of hand-mending recently) that was my mom's. Several years ago I mentioned that I wanted to buy myself a thimble, and my mom said to just pick one out from her small collection of (mostly ornamental) thimbles. The one I picked is obviously for actual sewing, and I believe it is an antique, because it is much higher quality than any thimbles I could buy in a box craft store today. I really like having a small connection to my mother and to other people who used this thimble in the past.
So sorry for your loss, and I really relate to what you said about giving away the dress that reminds you of your friend. I'm having a similar experience cleaning out my dad's house. He passed in February and it's a bittersweet feeling to go through and decide what can be let go of.
i’m moving to australia from the u.s. in 2 months and i’ve started to do this exact same process. it sucks for me because i love to sew and alter things i’ve bought secondhand and so i have this big stack of clothes sorted out that i’ve never worn because they’re the wrong size or i don’t like them as is and by brain tells me to just donate them but a small(and slightly delusional) part of me wants to keep them forever until i can alter them because they might hypothetically end up being some of my favorite clothes lol.
Congratulations on your move. I have always thought Australia would be a great place to live. Limit yourself to one box of those clothes that you might love in the future. I feel for you because I'm a hoarder like that as well 🙃. But it's a new start and a new life so for me I think I would start that new life with a clean slate. Good luck!
When I moved from Canada to Egypt, and then back again, I found it really helpful to roll my clothing then put it in those packing bags, especially when ut came to customs and having them go through bags. For the plane trip I brought my favorite lap quilt, travel mug, tea bags, snacks and food (you can bring sliced fruit if it's in containers) on the plane and they were comforting on long flight, and when I missed home. Plus at the airport you can get free hot water which is budget friendly.
I did this at age forty when I moved from Canada to France. My husband took an extra suitcase with him and I moved over with 2 suitcases and 5 boxes that I sent by freight. The boxes were surprisingly not that expensive to send (about $100 CAD each, if I remember correctly). I'm so excited for you! ✨
I moved to Nashville 24 years ago from Balham! I totally get how you feel - especially about the bike. I brought my bike over - I was also VERY attached to it, but I ended up giving it away as my lifestyle here is very different to what it was in London. I have a different bike now and I still live to cycle when I can. Good luck! It is hard in the midst of all the decisions, but once you get to where you are going you will be fine - you're living the adventure!
I'm in the midst of decluttering too, moving from the U.S. to Switzerland for grad school! This is super inspirational since I do have my fair share of sentimental items. Best of luck with your move :)
it is weird as i can feel what you express about the bike..i move many times and weirdly i was taking my old bike with me.. i even let all furnitures and all apart my bike once.. and few clothes books and few personal items and work stuff (compu camera..) . by getting used to move. i got used to let go i thought. but then I settled 6 years and now i feel to move for a new chapter of life.. and weirdly now.. i feel harder to detach of stuff now.. even i kept minimal sincerely (depending on what i feel my needs of course, each one we are different :) and so discovering back your channel today helps me to let go, detach and focus on the beauty of the new step more than what we let..focusing on the new and helping to let go.. as a lot of sad and difficult has been too.. so i even feel liberating to let go the things...not easy but to start new too.. for the lovely new season coming up :) thank you :) have a lovely new step too :)
I'm sorry for your loss. Loosing a friend is so hard... I hope you are doing all right or as much as that's possible.
One thing I noticed in the last years (I moved to a different country years ago but I also work seasonally and sometimes travel in the winter): I never really miss any of my stuff. I put things in storage when travelling for couple of months (it's cheaper than keeping an apartment) and the only things that I ever wish I had with me are certain books (that I can always borrow) or comfort things that make me feel like home, such as my sourdough starter and herbal oils and vinegars, etc. So don't worry about getting rid of too much stuff. Objects are replaceable. There is a good chance that you can find something similar in a second hand store if you really need it.
I’ve moved between countries 4 times in the last 2 years and only experienced transporting bike once. The process was rather stressful. Despite the fact that I researched packaging restrictions in advance and had written proof both from the airport and airline company of the way my bike has to be packed, check-in clerk refused to take my bike. Luckily my partner was flying a couple of weeks later and picked the bike for me. I learned that extra luggage fees and packaging sums up quickly, so now I buy new (second-hand) bike in every new place and sell it before leaving. Obviously, I don’t hold any sentimental feelings towards those bikes, but financially it’s been a good decision for me. Stay strong, moving is a real struggle ❤️
I moved to the US from Australia 8 years ago. I took a 65L backpack, a large suitcase, a large carry-on bag, a laptop, and a textbook - basically all I could carry. Vacuum bags were a must! And I had my 3 pets flown across 3 weeks later. I kept a few things at my parents place which I have been either donating when I get back, or bringing back with me when I visit. Would your parents be ok with that?
I was amazed how sparsely I could live initially, and over time I have slowly purchased things with either changing hobbies, or for comfort. Now I have about the same amount of stuff that I used to which seems to be my happy equilibrium.
I don't regret anything I donated or gave away before I left.
Decluttering is hard! When I started, I found The Minimal Mom on youtube was super helpful. Best of luck with your upcoming move!
Moves are stressful. Even for exciting, positive reasons like yours. Take good care of yourself and each other!
Oh my. Am slightly dreading the purge I'll need to do when we move to NZ. We're shipping our work van but my other half seemed shocked when I said I'd want a bit of space for my stuff in it ;) good luck with the purging and process. It's all so exciting x
My husband's family is from Michigan, we go up every summer! I hope your move goes smoothly. I have been decluttering zi ce Covid. It feels good but I have 4 kiddos, pets and a husband. It is never ending
This video came at the perfect time! I have spent today decluttering my wardrobe! It’s been great to be brutal and I have listed some on eBay (and will post with saved packaging I already have) and the rest will go to the charity shop or friends. I hope your decluttering goes well as you get closer to moving!
It's hard to get ride of some sentimental things, but as you said, it gives you closure and it feels good to donate. You're doing a great job!
I've moved to the US from the UK and to the UK from the US several times over the last 20 years and managed to do it by taking extra bags on flights (and getting family/friends to take extra bags) not shipping anything, so really hope that works for you too! Shipping is a nighmare and only really worth it if you have furniture or huge items you can't take on the plane. It is also so hard to know what you're going to really use and wear when you're in a different climate and cultural setting e.g. when I was in the US I wore more gym clothes out and about than I would in London and needed way more summer clothes as well as heavier winter clothes. So in the end taking less and knowing I could buy the few additional items I needed secondhand worked for me. Good luck! Love your videos xx
Omg i just finished the Body Keeps the Score! Such a good book. It really helps understand the connection between the mind and the body-the mind is just another organ of the body. It also encourages you to have compassion for others and be trauma informed when interacting with others.
I have traveled with my bike by plane and if that is something you are considering, I have gotten a bike bag or you can get a bike box from a bike store. A bike store may be able to help pack it also so that your components will be protected. It is really easy to put your bike back together even if you have minimal bike tools.
I’ve been decluttering my clothes too and this video made me feel less alone in my quest to have what I need but not enough, it really is quite a difficult process❤️
When I declutter I almost always do it in waves. I give myself space to be sentimental and then come back with a fresh mind later. But things like your bike which sounds very sensible and sentimental should be a keep.
As someone who lives in the US secondhand bikes can be tricky and sometimes just as expensive as a brand new bike.
Why not do it the other way around (if you're planning to visit UK in like 6 months or so)? When I moved (Italy, UK, France, Belgium, Ireland and I'm now in France) I only brought with me what I knew I would need. While living there, I realized what I missed that I left, so I went back to move more stuff. I understand it's not always possible (we sold the house in uk, and I couldn't use it for storage for long) and the process is longer, but to me it makes me feel I am sure about what to take and what not too, without regrets or having to buy new stuff which I already owned. And anyway... Things that need to go, need to go :)
Keep the bike! I'm keeping mine as well, (although I am moving within the same country)
I'm 6 minutes into the video and I already feel inspired to tackle my wardrobe! Thank you! :)
Any advice for recycling clothing? I already know that I will have a few items that are good enough for donating, but there is much more that needs to be recycling, (especially old socks!)
My family and I are doing the same thing right now and it feel so freeing to reduce our belongings.
I was half paying attention so not sure if you addressed this. . . are you moving with the cat?
RUTHLESS… that’s the mindset one needs for extreme decluttering! BUT WAIT… can I suggest that you hold onto your geometric diamond pattern sweater, Scotland toque, hiking fleece, and your Granny’s cardigan? Was it hard to say goodbye to your ‘first farmer’s market sweater’? I’m just know fully realizing why wild swimming is such a great hobby/activity… minimal gear required. Apologies for being late to your video today Immy, we’re just recovering from a 24-hour internet crash… it’s been a long 24 hours 🤣. Love this video today… this is such a journey and I’m uber-excited for you two. 🌎💦Ⓜ️ary💕🧳
i might do a declutter too... im in uni and moving back home for the summer but dont need to move out of here, so im now inspired to get rid of all the "oh but one day" things and clothes that i just dont use. then i can go thrifting w clear conscience to get a wardrobe im actually happy with and use all the things^^
You can bring your bike on the airplane. I’ve seen people with bicycles and surfboards. I think it just has to be wrapped up to keep it protected as it goes in the cargo of the plane.
I just moved to Belgium a little less than a week ago. I was able to (because of my company) ship some things here but I did the exact same process and decluttered many things. My friends got some great kitchen appliances that I truly loved but are not useable as they are not plugged for the EU. I know now that everything I brought with me are things I truly use and love and now I'm hoping with a fresh start to be more mindful in what I bring into my new home, I'm so excited for you on your new chapter - congratulations to you both!
Hello Immy, just wanted to say thank you for being such a constant and soothing presence ♡
I don't always feel like I'm surrounded by people who are an example of how I hope to live my life (though I know this community is big and beautiful) and having been housebound with lyme disease this last year ( alongside having to pause my ecology degree), you have always been a source of peaceful inspiration. Thank you for all that you share and do 🌱
Hi Immy it looks like you did get rid of a lot of stuff and we're sorry to hear about your friend passing away❤
I'd have loved to hear a bit more about the thought process behind the things that got decluttered and see some specific examples of the things you let go as well as things you kept. I can imagine that being a very long video though - highlights?
I can imagine that moving abroad with your partner is an exciting and at the same time a bit scary transition for you. It's normal that you have been emotional and stressed, also because of your friend. Moving is always called a crisis in someone's life (together with becoming a parent, death of a loved one, a new job etc). All the best to you and good to hear that you feel more relaxed and in control!
I would (if possible) keep the bike but not move it. Then every time you're back visiting your family, you have a bike to get around and it makes you happy to see it again. I loved having some of my old stuff when I came home to visit. I also kept a few clothes so I don't have to pack pj's etc every time I came to visit. Frees up space in your suitcase to bring gifts, food and so on 😀
Will you take the kitty with you?
feeling a bit terrified in fact too by the move... but then it is coming real.. i am in a transition for a huge life change too.. terrifying but exciting too, let's focus on the lovely new coming up :)
Decluttering takes a few rounds... I'm about to start round 3. Looking forward to your DC content. I live there!
Keep your bike and take it with you. Many have done it🖤
Hey video suggestion: can you create a video about the audiobook (the body keeps the score) you are listening to. I really liked your tiny habits videos and would love a book series.
The body keeps the score is so good
you look incredible😊 that spf is amazing
Best of luck with your decluttering and your move! As stressful as it is, there is so much beauty and excitement coming your way. :)
Also, once you get to the states, make your way down south for some amazing vegan-friendly Mexican food!
you have such an impressively small amount of things!! working toward that level of detachment from items.
sorry for the loss of your friend
I always want to start minimalism and decluttering i have 200+ shorts i haven't count my tops, pants, dress etc. In my country we take a bath twice a day i think i needed all my clothes. 🤦♀️😭
Have you tried Paula's Choice sunscreens?
I thought I would mention… now that we have internet again up here in the stix of northern 🇨🇦… isn’t it fun how the internet has allowed us to know Idgy and your clothing so well? At the risk of sounding corny… it feels like those uni days when one is packing up dorm life and heading off to a new adventure. Lastly… I’m so thrilled that Immy’s Book Club is back. I’m always uber-stoked to hear what you are RLLW. Fun video today Immy!! Thanks for sharing your new adventures with us. 🌎💦Ⓜ️ary🌸 PS - I’m also a member of team ‘one ☕️ per day’… in the morning only… but we won’t discuss the size of that one coffee!! ☕️🤣
Hi again Immy. :) I recon you should keep your bike if its that sentimental & you can't let go of it yet, but it is a large item so you need to work out if it is worth that much or not. :) good luck with the big move to USA You will be able to buy more pre loved items when you are there and make new memories with 😁😛 your mate, Shelby will be able to give you some suggestions for place to go. Are you going to be fairly close in proximity to her, out of curiosity. ?? :)
I found I couldn't really declutter like this- I did a little but in the end I just set myself a volume limit and got ruthless while I was packing (I took about 2 weeks to pack, including 3 days of intense packing)- I did end up giving myself permission to take another suitcase (literally within 24 hrs of my flight haha and it filled up so quick!) but tbh, I still regret things I didn't take and some things I did. I wish I'd shipped an extra box. I really, really miss my bike- I've got a new bike but it's not the same as my baby. Yes, financially it makes sense to just get rid of it and buy a new bike (well, second hand but new to me) but not everything is a logical decision. Definitely take your bike ❤
I will add another option- you could leave your bike with family and then have it whenever you visit, that wasn't an option for me but your parents seem pretty settled and might not mind an extra bike. I agree shipping is a nuisance. I get free shipping with my new job but I still want to declutter as much as possible.
Bike is pretty easy to break down and travel with, and you can get a bike case to move it with you - I have a soft sided bike case and I've never had any problems with it on planes :)
My friend just gets a sturdy cardboard box from Halfords and puts it in the hold.
There is nothing wrong with keeping a few sentimental things like your bike. Don't ever feel like you have to apologize for kepping something that makes you happy.
Hi Immy, I was trying to find your link for your sponsor. Peila ( not sure of spilling ) Do you have a discount code at all?
Yes! If you use "IMMY" you can get 40% off! links.pela.earth/r9jo/sustainably-vegan
Have you read the little life? After I've seen people reactions I'm feeling intimidated😅
Yes! I read it a couple of years ago and it really really shook me to my core. I loved the book and was also broken by it.
Don't let anyone influence what you should take or leave, we don't know what could be sentimental or useful for someone else
Keep in mind the weight restrictions on your luggage- sometimes you can fit tons with vacuum bags but then the bags are overweight and would incur extra fees. Good luck!
You won't be sorry about getting rid of all those clothing items! You won't even remember them in a few months. But please take your bike! It means a great deal to you. You mention it so often!
I pack up and move my life every couple of years 🤦🏼♀️ I actually like the decluttering/selling process and being free to go somewhere else.
Please Immy! What is the brand of SPF that doesn’t make you shiney?? I’m so shiney haha
How are you liking "the body keeps the score"? It's been on my to-read list for ages!
That pair of Air Max 90s you hold up saying how you hope someone will wear them…. I literally live in 90s 😂😂😂 one person’s trash is another’s treasure as they say!! What size?? I’ll have em 😬😬😬
They are a UK 7... what size are you?
@@SustainablyVegan aaaaaaahhhhh me too!!!!!! Shall I message you on IG?
Haha yes
@@SustainablyVegan you have a message in your inbox ☺️☺️☺️
Surprised you're not selling the Nike's, they're almost new. And I'm pretty sure there are many who will find them cool.
How long were you two dating before applying? I was reading about the US marriage visa application process and it seems really hard and stressful.
Also if they reject you you can't appeal it. Any tips?
I have too many tshirts from events that I participated in!
My clothes are 85% of my clutter 😭 im only moving 30 mins away! I get so attached to things too, especially my clothes. Any tips on your discard pile? I know donations/charity shops in the UK get so overwhelmed a lot of it goes to landfill anyway! Xxxxx
(Ps my live comments arent working lol)
you could try giving the clothes away for free on facebook marketplace or your local buy nothing facebook group. that way you know people are actually choosing to take those things
Please may you advise what is the SPF that doesn't make your face shiny? I have the same problem and I'm trying to find one that doesn't make me so shiny!
Keep the bike.
I have this kind of decluttering fase of my life as well. Not moving as far of a distance and only when October rolls around. I have ended a long relationship but we still do our music together.
It is going to change, everything is changing.
Letting go. Letting it go and saying hello to the new. Come what may
Every time I moved there's always a bunch of stuff I regret moving with me.
I really hope you take your bike with you. It's something you cherish a lot and something you'd use as well. I don't see the point of leaving it behind.
Keep the bike ; )
Leave it. You can use it everytime you come back to visit your family
To your bike, you can ship almost everything by freight, you don’t have to get everything on the plane with you. You just have to be willing to pay for it.
I would never move half around the world without my fam. No way. But this video makes me think about if I wouldn't pay to ship it or move it then I 100% don't need it.
If you find yourself struggling with a few things leave them in box with your mom. Give yourself a timeline once you move that if you find yourself needing an item in the box have your mom send it to you. At the end of the time line she can donate anything left in the box. I moved cross country 8 years ago and really wish I'd left more behind. Best of luck on your next chapter. Oh and if you're coming thru Florida I have a bike you are welcome to.
but some of those.... eighties tracksuits are not making a come back. throw that orange and pink thin away
I had a friend ship a bike and she went through USPS just because it was the cheapest way!! I too hold a lot of sentimental value in my bike as it has been passed down in the family so I understand the want to bring it with you! Also if you plan on staying here in the States long term I would say it is worth it!
keep the bike.
Dear Immy, would there be a chance for you to produce a video on the link between Putin's war in Ukraine and the West's chance to move away from fossil fuels. Thank you for all!
you are going to visit your parents, let stuff at your parents home. 🙏😊 you can stil giveaway later. Be gentle with you.
It's so weird to me that you don't want to leave things at your parents house. Is this a British thing? In my family it's common to store at least childhood things at your parents and they actually encourage it. My grandparents for (an extreme) example left their kid's rooms intact until they died 60 years after the kids left home.