I don't mean to disqualify her feelings but she's not in much better shape than him! It doesn't take a psychologist to see that she's taking her self hatred out on him. She likely gets physically sick watching him eat because it's a mirror reflected back on her.
She must be close to 400 pounds I reckon. At least in the 300 pound range. I desperately WANT to have some kind of empathy for her but just can't. She's waddling around that grocery store & both are practically orgasmic at this treat for them. Teachers don't make that much money. Eating take out food is EXPENSIVE now not to mention the cost of groceries. They are both enabling each other. MAYBE they should BOTH have the surgery but in this show they never are NOT required to get the professional counseling BEFORE to gain insight into WHY they got so fat and their coping mechanisms. :(
@@theewildrose she literally is the only difference is she doesn’t have lymphadima growing between her legs like him. If she did she would be immobile too.
This is why you should surround yourself with people who are better than you in the areas you're trying to improve in. She's so hung up on his deteriorating health and addiction that she doesn't realize shes only a few steps behind him. Being better by comparison doesn't mean you're doing well.
Lol most people are skinny, healthy and pretty don’t want to hang out with fat unhealthy people. Kinda makes it difficult to surround yourself with those kinds of people.
You're 100% someone with an eating disorder will have a very hard time changing their lifestyle for one healthier if they are not surrounded by supportive people, you don't need enablers, or naggers, neither of those work.
@@PrettyandHandsome Her saying that she will be there in 4-5 years just shows how much denial she is in. When I say a few steps, I mean she is literally right behind him. She could not gain a single pound for the rest of her life and she will still almost certainly die from obesity or a related symptom.
As a person who had really bad heartburn and took Omeprazole when it was a prescription med, I can attest to this. Besides, I actually thought that quote was pretty funny. 😭🤣
I laughed so hard it sounded like he was going to cry when he said the acid reflux part. Lol if it wasn’t 3am I probably wouldn’t of laughed as hard as I did.. I gotta go to bed.
She's angry at herself for over eating and being obese, but instead of admitting it, she's projecting her anger on him. She's in denial that she's actually worse than him.
@@MayMarmaid I bet everyone in that town WISHES she wouldn't leave the house that way they would not have to LOOK at her! Can you say MOOOOO?? I know she can because she's a cow!
How is telling your husband he's an embarrassment helping him to get better? I had and still struggle with emotional eating. And being put down and degraded verbally just makes the situation worse
@@dootdoot94xo44 oh please. There are dogs in this world that are abused daily, beaten, locked in cages. There are dogs that are killed by shelters daily. Having a fat owner isn’t the worst thing in the world. It sucks, but it’s far from the worst situation a dog can have.
@@MJ4lifecalifornia Nobody said its the worse situation but i cannot and will not eat anything with my German shepherd looking at me, I enjoy spoiling him. The most wonderful dog in this world, 11 years old now.
@@marilynwillett804 I agree completely, I have two dogs and two rats, and they eat everything that I eat. I just feel bad when people accuse the big people of being bad pet owners. They might not be perfect but at least the dogs are always inside with them and not outside in elements
It’s pretty cruel to say he’s an embarrassment and she’s disgusted with him. How’s that gonna help? And maybe she should look in a mirror cuz she’s not much better.
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@@tikifreaky5204shame never left and there’s a wealth of psych studies supporting the notion that shame does not lead to long-term, sustainable positive changes
It’s disturbing to me that she stated “not even a wife should have to do”. No matter what illness my husband had, I would clean him anywhere to prevent an infection and more importantly, for his dignity. Also, if he was obese, I would be supportive of him by NOT bringing food into the home that is unhealthy. I understand they both have a serious mental and health issue, however, as a wife, there is no excuse for shaming your spouse for caring for his dignity and care. You care enough to love him and help with some type of intervention for the both of you! I know it’s more complicated then this, yet the insight of his wife is disturbing.
This is an excellent response. If you chose him, he's yours. There's NOTHING I wouldn't do for my husband. Especially when it comes to being my turn to protect him.
Not sure there's anything a wife shouldn't do... A spouse should pretty much be able to do anything for their partner. I mean if it was a parent or a child... I'd agree like your kids shouldn't be cleaning your privates, the only amendment I'd make to that is that if my mother were elderly and unable to do it and I couldn't afford like a home health aid, I'd totally do it.
i don’t understand how she could be so belittling and demeaning to her husband when she’s no better than him! she looks almost, if not the same size as him! as someone who would love and do absolutely anything for their partner no matter what, i find her comments completely alarming and hurtful. he deserves actual support.
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She's reflecting her own self insecurities/hatred onto him. Dr. Now tells her later on in the episode she needs to lose weight and go on a diet also and she wasn't happy about the truth lol
It's called projection. All the angry, disgust and disappointment she feels about herself she puts on to him because it makes her feel better that she isn't as big as him. It's toxic AF
These people think that surgery is the answer to all of their problems and they can eat the same way! If they would exercise and eat a proper amount of food they wouldn’t need surgery!
I can tell you as a Registered Nurse with 30 year's experience that the 10-year success rate for bariatric surgery patients is about 2% because they go right back to their old habits as soon as they re-grow their stomachs.
@@Beth1300Nope, the bit that is left can stretch again. And that is dangerous! As you can think yourself the bit that is left gets way too thin being stretched out.
The funny thing is, her bmi turns out to be worse than his. She is so rude to him, even the therapist realised this and kinda called her out passively.
Dogs/animals are so helpful in so many ways!! For Me, mentally and emotionally. I have 2 breeds that are very energetic, so I stay active physically 😂Dogs are so childlike 😊 mine are my four legged extremely spoiled children 🐾
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Her coping mechanism is looking down on him even though she’s just as obese as him. You can tell that brings her comfort so she could ignore her own weight. Absolutely pathetic. Rooting for you bruv you can lose this weight King and when you do find someone better 🎉
I was that much at 13. I didn't have parents. Was staying with a relative out of state for awhile being abused and didn't have a social life and food started as any other addiction comforting but detrimental. I got away though at 14 and yes your environment etc plays a big roll at that age. A child is more likely to have even more issues going into adulthood as that's what they have always ran to. I was an alcoholic in early 20s and I got off that but it's a dual prognosis as you must work on healing the underlying issues and Triggers for the unhealthy behavior.
@@jessicaperry8213 cant blame the environment, some siblings might be fat some would be thin, its always our choices what to be, [unless we are really sick]. in our family we were all thin or just right, my brother played sports and i stayed active in dance,
@@marilynwillett804 did you not read a thing they said? It’s not their fault that they weighed that much, they were stressed and didn’t have the time clearly.
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She works, takes care of herself, and him. You want to give him a medal for showering? He gave up; that was his choice. It’s his choice to shove plenty of food down his throat, too. She has every right to be disgusted. She wants to have a husband, a partner, not a fat blob sitting on a chair or laying in bed all day. Yes, the wife is big herself, but at least she hasn’t given up, and brought other people down with her. The husband is doing just that. Talk about audacity right there.
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They're both gay. She doesn't want him and he definitely doesn't want her. If he was truly happy, He'd probably lose the weight really quick. He could easily lose 500lbs by just getting rid of her.
@@magicworld3242 easier said than done for some people you can't just be "happy" I myself would drown my sorrows in whiskey glad I quit but just cause I quit did not make me "happy".
Yes it sad, it a young woman who died 600 pounds eating herself to death she was abuse in childhood by her father and brother they was taking turned in sexually abusing her. Sad 😥
@@monicatomlinson4392 The sad part is when someone in the family is the cause of the issues. And sometimes they feel as though there is no one that can help them. Mental health issues some people don't understand it and not educated about mental issue. I pray for anyone that is suffering.
These videos are really helping me on my weight loss journey. I just can't fathom how someone could get or live like this. I know it's psychological but still..
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Yeah I thinking the same thing! I mean he's a lot more active than most people people his size, that's for sure. The fact that he gets up, showers, cooks his own food (all 100,000 calories of it), goes to the grocery store, etc leads me to believe he has the willpower to change his situation which is really good for his long-term prognosis, but I think these two are really bad for each other so if they don't both start taking care of themselves, supporting and encouraging each other to lose weight either they're both going to fail to lose the weight or have to divorce in order to get better. It takes two healthy people to make a healthy relationship.
I was thinking the same. He's doing more than what most of these ppl do on this show. He knows it hurts to do all this, but realizes he needs to. He is independent if he has to be without his wife
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“When Nathan decided he didn’t wanna try and lose weight anymore, I told him I was disgusted with what he was doing and he was an embarrassment” 😮 baby you’re pretty much the same size, and bc of how women carry weight, you look even WORSE. I’ve never seen a partner act like this on this show.
@@reniqharris definitely delusion! I’ve just watched it again and she offered him her leftovers and refused the cheese stick he offered her, as if she was tiny and on a diet 😭
@@karmellla girl I was crying at that part , I promise you I was , like Chile u just sat up and ate a meal fit for 3 grown men , but because you turn down a cheese stick and left a sliver of cake for your husband u better? Girl bye!...I'm so glad Dr Now gave that chick a reality check that was very much needed even though she was still too delusional to except it smh
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@@PreppyLeahsLife The sad part is that it is almost certainly EBT cards. I'm not arguing that the program should not exist, but especially if nobody in the household is working they overshoot the necessary amount. I've seen card balances of $800+ dollars of unused money. If someone decides to use the whole balance every month it enables this sort of situation.
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At least his wife gives him the opportunity to become the show’s first participant to lose 1,000 lbs if he puts in the work, gets the surgery, follows through, and cuts the bitter Mrs loose.
The fact that the wife is disgusted with him was disappointing. She’s projecting her own feelings about herself on to him and it’s not fair. They both need help.😢
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He actually has a really handsome face, and a great career that he loves. I pray he gets the help he needs and is able to get his life back. His wife is unreal. She’s got a lot of nerve.
@@MMDDYY090well… nah cuz you can when someone has nice features. This persons saying that if he loses the weight he would be attractive, you aren’t very good at this are ya??
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She's a sniff away from his size so how can she hold him to a standard she doesn't hold herself to? She's having trouble doing for herself because she's doing the same as he is. She seems as if she feels superior, she is not.
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Someone already said it but, she's only so disgusted because she sees herself in him. She knows she's close behind and it scares and disgusts her because IT IS HER!!!
Wow I can't believe she is going to call him embarrassing she has no room to talk about him like that she is right there with him she shouldn't bully him like that knowing he dealt with that when he was in school
I can sympathize with the way he feels about food. I ballooned to over 305lbs in 2015 and even though you feel disgusting, your only happiness strangely comes from the very same thing that is slowly killing you. My Mother would cry that she though i was going to die, as her brother had just passed 2 years prior being over 600lbs. I felt that everyone was attacking me and the only thing that didn't scream, cry or judge, was junk food. I finally decided to make that change in my life, which was slow and painful, but I am now 220lbs and have stayed pretty much around that weight since 2018. It was not easy, but I knew my kids were worth it, my wife was worth it, I was worth it, but it took a change in my heart, and in my mind to see that. My story could have easily went the other way if I hadn't made that decision.
Good for you! I got to my highest weight of 245 after Covid and all that happened, finally said enough was enough and hopefully will be under 200 in a bit :)
@@impulsefade3041 That is awesome. I think the mindset that you can do it is harder than actually doing it. Just takes time and effort, something that everyone is capable of. Great work brother, and I appreciate the kind words, means a lot.
Wow we're twins. I weighed around 305 at my highest, currently sitting in the 220s. How did you do it? I lost mine by eating only one meal per day. That's really the only thing I changed.
damn it touched me so bad when he said that the only one thing that they do together (i mean with his wife) is just going to the store for food. i realized that they actually waste their time in such a young age when they could do so many fun things together
this is honestly really sad. I feel really bad for him. It’s more than just food, he’s depressed and has always had low self esteem. Eating food is a coping mechanism.
Did everyone just MISS that his wife said that their relationship has NEVER been sexual?? She wants intimacy but not sex. That's exactly what she said. This relationship needs to end in divorce.
Right?? I literally had an "oh that explains it" moment when she said they never had a sexual relationship. I understand when you're in a longterm relationship there are periods where the romance is MIA but to never ever have sex with your husband is .... odd
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This is really sad. The wife is projecting because she feels bad that she isn’t much better. And it’s so sad the man is always craving something. He didn’t get like this because he is happy. He is really struggling and hope he gets well.
If this isn't the perfect example of projection I don't know what is. She exercises no self restraint but thinks she has the right to judge him to deflect the fact that she may not be in the exact same place, but she damn sure ain't far.....
I don't mean to disqualify her feelings but she's not in much better shape than him! It doesn't take a psychologist to see that she's taking her self hatred out on him. She likely gets physically sick watching him eat because it's a mirror reflected back on her.
shes in denial about herself
She said his eating habits is part of what attracted her to him so that they could essentially enable one another.
Talk about the pot calling the kettle black…. The hypocrisy in this video is insane
She must be close to 400 pounds I reckon. At least in the 300 pound range. I desperately WANT to have some kind of empathy for her but just can't. She's waddling around that grocery store & both are practically orgasmic at this treat for them. Teachers don't make that much money. Eating take out food is EXPENSIVE now not to mention the cost of groceries. They are both enabling each other. MAYBE they should BOTH have the surgery but in this show they never are NOT required to get the professional counseling BEFORE to gain insight into WHY they got so fat and their coping mechanisms. :(
@@kelleyboy3 couldn't agree more! People's capacity to delude themselves never fails to amaze me!
The wife is bigger than him and She's looking down on him in disgust... That's complete Insanity...
Are you blind. She’s not bigger lol
@@DarthKater311 the bottom half of her is
@@DarthKater311 It’s a pretty moot point since despite feeling “physically ill” by his habits she still manages to eat enough to weigh so much herself
@@ironrevenger9386 i understand she’s huge. But she’s not bigger. Lol
@@johnwilliams7931 those are jumbo curves lol
Why is she acting like a skinny legend?
Skinny legend 😅
“Legend” 😭
She is....a skinny legend!!!
Projection
Oh I can just hear her scream at him for every little thing he does wrong....
"He would eat my leftovers." GIRL, we can tell there ain't no freaking leftovers on your plate.
Lol
😤u 🤬 wrong 4 dat 😠
you just made me holler!!! lol
😂😂😂😂 stuff😂
🤔🤭😂😂🤣🤣🤣🥇
Wait, she says he is an embarrassment for her? She looks bigger than he is!!! She's huge!! Hypocrite!!
She's not
@@theewildrose do you know her? You seem pretty busy defending her in these comments 😂
@@theewildrose she literally is the only difference is she doesn’t have lymphadima growing between her legs like him. If she did she would be immobile too.
Ikr 😝😝😝
I noticed she’s bigger than him when they were in the grocery store. I was like “whoa, how is she disgusted by him when she’s bigger than he is??”
He needs to lose the 400 lbs of meanness he is married to. She treats him terribly when she has the exact same addiction.
She rules the roost and thinks her sh*t don't stink....
i grew up in palestine. he was my teacher,one of THE sweetest guys i’ve ever met. her on the other hand though…
She's 502 lbs, but because of her heìght, her bmi is way higher than his.
The funniest part of this episode is Dr. Now roasting her for having a higher BMI than Nathan 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
It's not that funny but ok
@@ky9933 It was pretty funny. She was so critical of her husband and was completely delusional about her own weight.
@@ky9933 Maybe funny's not the right word...ironic, maybe? 🤷♀️
@@shoshannasays6188 hilarious?
This is why you should surround yourself with people who are better than you in the areas you're trying to improve in. She's so hung up on his deteriorating health and addiction that she doesn't realize shes only a few steps behind him. Being better by comparison doesn't mean you're doing well.
Lol most people are skinny, healthy and pretty don’t want to hang out with fat unhealthy people. Kinda makes it difficult to surround yourself with those kinds of people.
You're 100% someone with an eating disorder will have a very hard time changing their lifestyle for one healthier if they are not surrounded by supportive people, you don't need enablers, or naggers, neither of those work.
She realizes it. In the end she says it.
Well she did say she would be there in about 4 years or so.
@@PrettyandHandsome Her saying that she will be there in 4-5 years just shows how much denial she is in. When I say a few steps, I mean she is literally right behind him. She could not gain a single pound for the rest of her life and she will still almost certainly die from obesity or a related symptom.
Nathan needs to DIVORCE his wife. She's cruel and abusive to him mentally and emotionally. She really needs to look in the mirror at herself 😞
i grew up in palestine. he was my teacher,one of THE sweetest guys i’ve ever met. her on the other hand though…
Anyone who hasn't seen this full episode, Dr Now let's the wife know what's up and tells her to go on a diet too, she's not happy about it tho 😂
Good! She needs to be told!
does he end up losing enough weight to get surgery? and do they get a divorce because she's so toxic fr
I'm going to go look for the episode, I have to see that lol
@@melissalynn4366 if u find it lmk :"
@@remasalhawari8077 season 10 episode 1
3:14 “food is the only thing in the world that doesn’t talk back unless it gives you acid reflux” I DIED 💀
Me too, lmao
It's true...and it talks loudly😂 I keep meds on hand and don't eat certain foods on work nights.
Bro wasn't wrong 😭
As a person who had really bad heartburn and took Omeprazole when it was a prescription med, I can attest to this. Besides, I actually thought that quote was pretty funny. 😭🤣
I laughed so hard it sounded like he was going to cry when he said the acid reflux part. Lol if it wasn’t 3am I probably wouldn’t of laughed as hard as I did.. I gotta go to bed.
“Food doesn’t talk back unless it give you acid reflex “ 💀 that killed me 😂😂😂
😂
Or diarrhea hahaha
How the hell can she call him an embarrassment? She is not that far behind him.
Exactly!!!
She's really trying to cope with her own issues the way she acts all high and mighty
At least she can still hold down a job... but that's about it.
She's angry at herself for over eating and being obese, but instead of admitting it, she's projecting her anger on him. She's in denial that she's actually worse than him.
Talking about some, "He'll eat my leftovers". PSSHHH Guurl Pleasee!
She is projecting, but he is worse. She can at least still work and contribute to society. He can’t even leave his home…
@@MayMarmaid I bet everyone in that town WISHES she wouldn't leave the house that way they would not have to LOOK at her! Can you say MOOOOO?? I know she can because she's a cow!
How is telling your husband he's an embarrassment helping him to get better?
I had and still struggle with emotional eating. And being put down and degraded verbally just makes the situation worse
Okay, but the little dog standing pretty for a possible bite of this guy's food was insanely adorable
@@dootdoot94xo44 oh please. There are dogs in this world that are abused daily, beaten, locked in cages. There are dogs that are killed by shelters daily. Having a fat owner isn’t the worst thing in the world. It sucks, but it’s far from the worst situation a dog can have.
@@dootdoot94xo44 the dogs look pretty healthy and their tails are wagging. If it was tucked then you’ll know something
@@dootdoot94xo44
Those dogs are LOVED.
@@MJ4lifecalifornia Nobody said its the worse situation but i cannot and will not eat anything with my German shepherd looking at me, I enjoy spoiling him. The most wonderful dog in this world, 11 years old now.
@@marilynwillett804 I agree completely, I have two dogs and two rats, and they eat everything that I eat. I just feel bad when people accuse the big people of being bad pet owners. They might not be perfect but at least the dogs are always inside with them and not outside in elements
It’s pretty cruel to say he’s an embarrassment and she’s disgusted with him. How’s that gonna help? And maybe she should look in a mirror cuz she’s not much better.
That’s what people need to change unfortunately , bring shame back
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@@tikifreaky5204shame never left and there’s a wealth of psych studies supporting the notion that shame does not lead to long-term, sustainable positive changes
The dog watching him eat has to be the funniest part of this video 😂😂😂”he like r u gonna gimme some”
It’s disturbing to me that she stated “not even a wife should have to do”. No matter what illness my husband had, I would clean him anywhere to prevent an infection and more importantly, for his dignity. Also, if he was obese, I would be supportive of him by NOT bringing food into the home that is unhealthy. I understand they both have a serious mental and health issue, however, as a wife, there is no excuse for shaming your spouse for caring for his dignity and care. You care enough to love him and help with some type of intervention for the both of you! I know it’s more complicated then this, yet the insight of his wife is disturbing.
This is an excellent response. If you chose him, he's yours. There's NOTHING I wouldn't do for my husband. Especially when it comes to being my turn to protect him.
@@elizlikethequeenu guys are so sweet such blessings 🧡 same goes for me 100% both ways ☺️
Not sure there's anything a wife shouldn't do... A spouse should pretty much be able to do anything for their partner. I mean if it was a parent or a child... I'd agree like your kids shouldn't be cleaning your privates, the only amendment I'd make to that is that if my mother were elderly and unable to do it and I couldn't afford like a home health aid, I'd totally do it.
@@snoopygonewilder Not me I'd hire a nurse, changing babies poop diapers was enough.
You wanna cookie? Most men wouldn’t do the same.
i don’t understand how she could be so belittling and demeaning to her husband when she’s no better than him! she looks almost, if not the same size as him! as someone who would love and do absolutely anything for their partner no matter what, i find her comments completely alarming and hurtful. he deserves actual support.
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but she can do something though
She's reflecting her own self insecurities/hatred onto him. Dr. Now tells her later on in the episode she needs to lose weight and go on a diet also and she wasn't happy about the truth lol
projecting
It's called projection. All the angry, disgust and disappointment she feels about herself she puts on to him because it makes her feel better that she isn't as big as him. It's toxic AF
The really ironic part about her dissing her husband is that she had weight loss surgery and gained all of that weight back.
Exactly, pot meet kettle. 😮
These people think that surgery is the answer to all of their problems and they can eat the same way!
If they would exercise and eat a proper amount of food they wouldn’t need surgery!
I can tell you as a Registered Nurse with 30 year's experience that the 10-year success rate for bariatric surgery patients is about 2% because they go right back to their old habits as soon as they re-grow their stomachs.
@@GenXerReactsthe stomach regrows?? I thought a bypass was permanent
@@Beth1300Nope, the bit that is left can stretch again. And that is dangerous! As you can think yourself the bit that is left gets way too thin being stretched out.
The funny thing is, her bmi turns out to be worse than his. She is so rude to him, even the therapist realised this and kinda called her out passively.
Kudos for him pushing through to wash himself and caring for the dogs.
Dogs/animals are so helpful in so many ways!! For Me, mentally and emotionally. I have 2 breeds that are very energetic, so I stay active physically 😂Dogs are so childlike 😊 mine are my four legged extremely spoiled children 🐾
I thought this was sarcasm. You can’t be serious. You celebrating that is exactly what’s wrong with this country.
@@therealsimpshady1641lol exactly my thoughts man
It's very obvious that no one is walking the dogs they're probably only let out a few times a day for a few minutes. Dogs need exercise too.
Kudos? So general responsibilities are cause for applause now? Cmon, man..
She needs to be on this show also.
How could she call him an embarrassment. She’s huge. Id say she’s bigger, honestly, she just has more mobility then him.
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Her coping mechanism is looking down on him even though she’s just as obese as him. You can tell that brings her comfort so she could ignore her own weight. Absolutely pathetic. Rooting for you bruv you can lose this weight King and when you do find someone better 🎉
She’s such a mean woman. She has NO ROOM (pun intended) to judge him.
Nathan seems like a sweet guy and deserves a better partner
I saw the full episode and during their therapy sessions she admitted she doesn’t respect him. Idk why these two are even together.
He needs to get all the weight off, get jacked, and go find a beautiful wife who will lover and cherish him!
250lbs AT 13 IS CRAZY! At that point it's the parents fault and they should've stepped in
I was that much at 13. I didn't have parents. Was staying with a relative out of state for awhile being abused and didn't have a social life and food started as any other addiction comforting but detrimental. I got away though at 14 and yes your environment etc plays a big roll at that age. A child is more likely to have even more issues going into adulthood as that's what they have always ran to. I was an alcoholic in early 20s and I got off that but it's a dual prognosis as you must work on healing the underlying issues and Triggers for the unhealthy behavior.
@@jessicaperry8213 cant blame the environment, some siblings might be fat some would be thin, its always our choices what to be, [unless we are really sick]. in our family we were all thin or just right, my brother played sports and i stayed active in dance,
@@marilynwillett804 did you not read a thing they said? It’s not their fault that they weighed that much, they were stressed and didn’t have the time clearly.
At the age of 13 I was 290 now at 14 years old I’m 211 still heavy but makeing more progress each day!
@@wizebairon1078 nice! I’m glad you’re making progress :)
If she thinks she'll be Nathan's size in 5 years then she's delusional and about 3 years off.
You're being generous. She doesn't look much smaller than him, she's about a year off.
I say 6 months…..
I think she looks bigger now
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Year and a half*
Does she not realize she’s not too far off from ending up like him.
She might be bigger bruh!
Does his wife have no awareness of her own size?
She’s still working and holding it over his head, but that will not last long. She’s one cupcake away from disability as well.
Right like wtf
Who is she to fucking judge
She is acting like she is skinny
I think it's pure deflection, she also thinks by eating slightly less than him it makes her issues not as bad
She’s really acting like she doesn’t eat the same way
Or look the same way
😂😂😂😂
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What’s your point?
She works, takes care of herself, and him.
He is a fat blob who gave up and brings her down with him.
I would be frustrated, too.
Tell me about it. They have as much chemistry as a brother and sister.
3:49 The dog standing lmao adorable.
The audacity to complain about her husband gets me-
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She sounds narcissistic
She works, takes care of herself, and him.
You want to give him a medal for showering?
He gave up; that was his choice.
It’s his choice to shove plenty of food down his throat, too.
She has every right to be disgusted.
She wants to have a husband, a partner, not a fat blob sitting on a chair or laying in bed all day.
Yes, the wife is big herself, but at least she hasn’t given up, and brought other people down with her.
The husband is doing just that.
Talk about audacity right there.
She's resentful about being a caregiver and simultaneously projecting her own self hate onto him.
@@dinimakhmudov1674🤓👆
They’ve never had a sexual relationship and she doesn’t see how that’s a problem or in any way her fault? This lady is delusional.
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They're both gay. She doesn't want him and he definitely doesn't want her. If he was truly happy, He'd probably lose the weight really quick. He could easily lose 500lbs by just getting rid of her.
@@magicworld3242 easier said than done for some people you can't just be "happy" I myself would drown my sorrows in whiskey glad I quit but just cause I quit did not make me "happy".
Scrolling through the comments hoping that I wasn’t the only one who heard that..
Omg WoW 😮 8:48
@@magicworld3242 he might not be gay. He's just got so much fat that his sex drive is non existent
"Food is the only thing that doesn't talk back, unless it's acid reflux." I cackled 🤣🤣
I feel so sorry for anyone who eats themselves to this state. They must be so unhappy mentally. Its really sad!
Yes it sad, it a young woman who died 600 pounds eating herself to death she was abuse in childhood by her father and brother they was taking turned in sexually abusing her. Sad 😥
He's unhappy cuz he eats
And eats cuz he's unhappy
@@annacarter8703 exactly. There is always a deeper issue!
some vegetables, exercise and good sleep can change a lot. Its just whether the person wants to do it or not
@@monicatomlinson4392 The sad part is when someone in the family is the cause of the issues. And sometimes they feel as though there is no one that can help them. Mental health issues some people don't understand it and not educated about mental issue. I pray for anyone that is suffering.
It’s the little dog standing on his back legs waiting for him to throw him something 😂😂 standing straight up!!
I saw that to,I bet he didn't give that dog shit either lol..His ass ate all that food..That's a dam shame 😂🤣😆
T-rexing! Lol!😂 I LOVE IT!
My German shepherd doesnt beg its beneath his dignity, AND I always share.
🥺💔💋
That dog didn’t get nothing
These videos are really helping me on my weight loss journey. I just can't fathom how someone could get or live like this. I know it's psychological but still..
It must be so hard for her thinking about him while she's having a salad after going to the gym 4 times a week.
😂😂😂👏
Lol funny!!!
😂😂😂 💀
😅
I’m speechless at everything the wife is saying. When was the last time she looked in the mirror?! She’s literally the same size as her husband???!
She super dilusional she looks bigger in my opinion
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Denial
Or bigger the lady is crazy
Delusional, for sure 😢
The dogs begging took me out 😆😆 they like cmon man we know you have enough to share lol
Its incredible this man can still walk.
Yeah I thinking the same thing! I mean he's a lot more active than most people people his size, that's for sure. The fact that he gets up, showers, cooks his own food (all 100,000 calories of it), goes to the grocery store, etc leads me to believe he has the willpower to change his situation which is really good for his long-term prognosis, but I think these two are really bad for each other so if they don't both start taking care of themselves, supporting and encouraging each other to lose weight either they're both going to fail to lose the weight or have to divorce in order to get better. It takes two healthy people to make a healthy relationship.
I can give respect honestly for still getting the important stuff done ,even struggling 🥺
@@birdflipper exactly.
I was thinking the same. He's doing more than what most of these ppl do on this show. He knows it hurts to do all this, but realizes he needs to. He is independent if he has to be without his wife
His wife truly doesn't have any room to talk about his size , because she's just as big , only he's not disgusted but her .
Right right
Sorry who is she to judge
You guys are being pricks. She's not as big first of all. Secondly She's being candid about something tough.
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Talkin about "He'll eat my leftovers" Psssh Gurl, PLEASE! You didn't get to be that size by someone else eating your leftovers. LETS BE REAL!!
Theatre is such a big therapy, I really hope he continues to use it to cope and express himself through the hurt
She said she’s “going to get like Nathan in the next 4 to 5 years” !? More like 4-5 days 😢
More like 4 to 5 meals
😭😭😭
“When Nathan decided he didn’t wanna try and lose weight anymore, I told him I was disgusted with what he was doing and he was an embarrassment” 😮 baby you’re pretty much the same size, and bc of how women carry weight, you look even WORSE. I’ve never seen a partner act like this on this show.
Right...like the nerve and the delusion
@@reniqharris definitely delusion! I’ve just watched it again and she offered him her leftovers and refused the cheese stick he offered her, as if she was tiny and on a diet 😭
@@karmellla girl I was crying at that part , I promise you I was , like Chile u just sat up and ate a meal fit for 3 grown men , but because you turn down a cheese stick and left a sliver of cake for your husband u better? Girl bye!...I'm so glad Dr Now gave that chick a reality check that was very much needed even though she was still too delusional to except it smh
😂😂😂😂 exactly
😂 just ignoring the husband who said he’d be physically disgusted by his wife if she lost weight because he had a fat fetish? That was like season 2.
He looks smaller compared to his wife. The episode should be about the wife.
He was! She was bigger
It made her "ill?" how much he ate?! She's only 29 pounds away from him! The audacity! 🤣
I think the wife too, needs to check her own weight. My thought though.
Who is that heifer to judge?
That doggie sitting up and begging at 03:50 is so adorable!!! 🥰
She judging him but she herself is not even in shape and she offered him food too “ wanna bite last bite of sweets” like BFFR
Y'all are unhinged
@@theewildrose you are unhinged Rose.
Yo what’s BFFR
@@fancykarlmarx “be fkn forreal “
it's honestly satisfying he does his best to still do things instead of not putting in any effort
Right
This is being traumatized ..and form of self harm , and addiction at it finest
She’s got her nerve!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You got me rollin!!!!!!
It' very sad
Oh my gosh that little dog begging is absolutely adorable 💜💜
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Lol he like give me some lol😊
As many of these as I watch, I keep thinking how do they afford all this food?
I know right! And their usually not working so that baffles me even more.
@@PreppyLeahsLife The sad part is that it is almost certainly EBT cards. I'm not arguing that the program should not exist, but especially if nobody in the household is working they overshoot the necessary amount. I've seen card balances of $800+ dollars of unused money. If someone decides to use the whole balance every month it enables this sort of situation.
That dog begging made my day. What a doll.❤
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Poor doggos they haven't had any scraps in years
I called my girl dog a doll LOL
I like Nathan. He deserves a better life and a better wife.😥
At least his wife gives him the opportunity to become the show’s first participant to lose 1,000 lbs if he puts in the work, gets the surgery, follows through, and cuts the bitter Mrs loose.
@@jamesm3471 she is no one to give him this opportunity. This is the husband's journey, the wife is in denial of her own obese problem!
How is it she is repulsed by him ...but not herself
The fact that the wife is disgusted with him was disappointing. She’s projecting her own feelings about herself on to him and it’s not fair. They both need help.😢
Lmmfao the dog standing up begging while he eating breakfast is hilarious 😂 he just want a little bite bite 😂
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She is abusive and he is traumatized- she needs help - he needs to run!
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On a treadmill
u mean walk away 😂
Tires screeched in my head when I saw the wife
Look I know this isn't funny but those dogs sitting there begging for their cut with the dramatic music took me TF out 🤣🤣🤣
He actually has a really handsome face, and a great career that he loves. I pray he gets the help he needs and is able to get his life back. His wife is unreal. She’s got a lot of nerve.
“...really handsome face...” omg! lies and treachery
@@MMDDYY090well… nah cuz you can when someone has nice features. This persons saying that if he loses the weight he would be attractive, you aren’t very good at this are ya??
@@h-rrAnd what exactly is "this" fam?
Reading. You’re not very good at reading comprehension.
He is so nice he is my teacher he is one of the best teacher I have
She putting everything on him and his weight..but she is the same size if not bigger than him!!..🤦🤦
No she's not
@@theewildrose yeah she is
She is bigger than him
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@@dr.christopherjohnson9803 no you're not scammer
The nerve of the wife she looks like she needs to be in the program as well🤨🤨🤨
She's a sniff away from his size so how can she hold him to a standard she doesn't hold herself to? She's having trouble doing for herself because she's doing the same as he is. She seems as if she feels superior, she is not.
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The wife needs to not judge him he is bigger than her but she is still humungously huuggeee
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Naw she looks bigger to me
I love how he kept looking straight knowing the dog wanted a piece of anything off his plate😂
Me trying to avoid eye contact with the crackhead at the gas station.
Me avoiding eye contact with my responsibilities 😂😂😂
Someone already said it but, she's only so disgusted because she sees herself in him. She knows she's close behind and it scares and disgusts her because IT IS HER!!!
That relationship is toxic 😳😳 they are feeding off each other pun intended
Wow I can't believe she is going to call him embarrassing she has no room to talk about him like that she is right there with him she shouldn't bully him like that knowing he dealt with that when he was in school
We just gonna ignore how that cute dog was t-rexing for some food 😂
I can sympathize with the way he feels about food. I ballooned to over 305lbs in 2015 and even though you feel disgusting, your only happiness strangely comes from the very same thing that is slowly killing you. My Mother would cry that she though i was going to die, as her brother had just passed 2 years prior being over 600lbs. I felt that everyone was attacking me and the only thing that didn't scream, cry or judge, was junk food. I finally decided to make that change in my life, which was slow and painful, but I am now 220lbs and have stayed pretty much around that weight since 2018. It was not easy, but I knew my kids were worth it, my wife was worth it, I was worth it, but it took a change in my heart, and in my mind to see that. My story could have easily went the other way if I hadn't made that decision.
Cgrats. 85 lbs is a lot of from 300!
Good for you! I got to my highest weight of 245 after Covid and all that happened, finally said enough was enough and hopefully will be under 200 in a bit :)
@@impulsefade3041 That is awesome. I think the mindset that you can do it is harder than actually doing it. Just takes time and effort, something that everyone is capable of. Great work brother, and I appreciate the kind words, means a lot.
Wow we're twins. I weighed around 305 at my highest, currently sitting in the 220s. How did you do it? I lost mine by eating only one meal per day. That's really the only thing I changed.
damn it touched me so bad when he said that the only one thing that they do together (i mean with his wife) is just going to the store for food. i realized that they actually waste their time in such a young age when they could do so many fun things together
this is honestly really sad. I feel really bad for him. It’s more than just food, he’s depressed and has always had low self esteem. Eating food is a coping mechanism.
I blame the wife too. She's in no place to judge.
Did everyone just MISS that his wife said that their relationship has NEVER been sexual?? She wants intimacy but not sex. That's exactly what she said. This relationship needs to end in divorce.
That is not what she said.
That’s what I heard too! That’s crazy. Yeah, I see a divorce coming.
I mean u can be intimate without sex
@@brennathecatlover4360Such as French kissing and petting.
@@WW3_Soon there’s people that are intimate without it being sex lol
“Food is the only thing that doesn’t talk back unless it gives you acid reflux”
Bruh, that has to be the fattest philosophical quote ever 😂😂😂
Sums up food addiction so perfectly haha
She is just as big. How dare she belittle him when she must be eating just as much!
Right fully agree who that fuck is she to judge him has she looked in the mirror
Not to be rude but have some repsct for your fucking partner
How dare she?! She’s not that far behind him!
“Because I do things that not even a wife should have to do” like isn’t that what unconditional love is, doing anything to be there for each other?
People taking moving for granted... YOU DID THAT TO YOURSELF BRUV!!
You guys have all this empathy for anorexic people but all of a sudden it evaporates with obese people
@@great10toes40 nah it’s the same, they did that to themselves
Bro, I fell out of my chair when he said ''Food doesn’t talk back unless it gives you acid reflex''.
His wife is a jerk, and I hope that the internet has made that perfectly clear to both of them. 👀😳😕😐🦋
She didn't do anything
@@theewildrose yes she did, she shames him and doesn’t support him like she should.
@@lena-bu1sb 🦋🦋🦋
An embarrassment,… that's a really mean word,to come from a kettle
That women could not be more delusional, wow.
Hold up, they’re a married couple and they never had a sexual relationship? Wow. That’s something I’ve never heard before.
Right?? I literally had an "oh that explains it" moment when she said they never had a sexual relationship. I understand when you're in a longterm relationship there are periods where the romance is MIA but to never ever have sex with your husband is .... odd
This is gonna trigger people but my assessment is that he's closeted.
The doggies are like.come on! Gimme a bite!
The dog begging was so cute 🥺🥺
I like how the 500 pound self unaware wife has the *guts* to sit there and throw so much judgment on him
Oh there is more than enough guts. Rolls, cankles and acres of butt
Well yeah, guts are the one thing she has in abundance
This is heartbreaking to see someone so diseased and hurt and overweight. I pray you overcome this🙏❤️
The wife is absolutely vile and acts like she's a Victoria secret model! Seriously WTF!
She has some nerve saying he is an embarrassment 😳
Have you looked in the mirror 🪞 😏.
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Lol his wife is bigger than he is and she's judging HIM!? HA!
Seems like one is accountable
And the other is blaming,
Wow, he’s an embarrassment, talk about the pot calling the kettle black. Doesn’t she look in a mirror.
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This is really sad. The wife is projecting because she feels bad that she isn’t much better. And it’s so sad the man is always craving something. He didn’t get like this because he is happy. He is really struggling and hope he gets well.
If this isn't the perfect example of projection I don't know what is. She exercises no self restraint but thinks she has the right to judge him to deflect the fact that she may not be in the exact same place, but she damn sure ain't far.....